Being Cycles of Development

Prepared By Manu Melwin JoyResearch Scholar

School of Management StudiesCUSAT, Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114

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“All things in this world come from being”Lao Tsu

Cycles of development

Stage 1• Stage : Being.• Duration : 0-6 Months.• Activity - Being involves

just experiencing the world. A baby will need to eat, drink, sleep, be comfortable and have affection at this stage.

Cycles of development

Stage 1

Cycles of development

Stage 1Compromise Recycling After six months, Stage 1 is

significant

If we don’t get enough of what we need in this first stage, we may have difficulties focused on our right to exist.

When we reenter Being, we may stop doing things, stop thinking and simply exist. We may want to eat more frequently and sleep more. We may have difficulty concentrating; we seek recognition for simply being who we are and not for what we do. We may have heightened needs for touching and being touched and for renewing or developing close relationships with others

• When we are tired, hurt, vulnerable, ill or under stress.

• During periods of rapid change or growth.

• When suffering a personal loss.

• When taking care of an infant or when pregnant and

• In the beginning of a new process

Cycles of development

Clues for returning to being• Feeling we have “run out of gas”

emotionally.• Questioning our adequacy, feeling helpless,

and questioning whether others can be trusted.

• Wanting others to know what we need without our asking; not knowing what we need; not needing anything; feeling numb.

• Believing others’ needs are more important.

• Not wanting to be touched, or compulsive touching, or joyless sexual touching.

• Unwillingness to disclose information about ourselves, especially negative information.

Summary of being stage

• Ego state : Natural Child.• Activity : Needs and feelings.• Functional Metaphor : Generator.• Psychoanalytic equivalent : Early Oral.• Needs : Feeding and stroking, immediate response to

crying signal. • Problem solving procedure : Peek –a – boo.• Games : NIGYSOB (Now I got you, you SOB), addict,

Chain smoker, Indigent. • Mechanism : Denial.• Injunctions : Don’t be, Don’t feel, Don’t have needs.

References

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http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of-developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis.

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