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    Business Communication

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    Business Etiquette

    Learning Outcomes To understand basic corporate etiquette

    To enhance comfort level in formal business

    situations

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    Business Etiquette

    Agenda

    What is Etiquette ?

    Basic Rules of Etiquette Handling Introductions

    Telephone Etiquette

    Business Dining

    Business to Business Etiquette

    Respect Hierarchies

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    What is Etiquette ?

    The word Etiquette means conventional

    rules of social or professional conduct

    Unwritten rules Help you realise your behavior is appropriate

    or inappropriate .

    Fundamental rules that get business done Ignorance will lead to being singled out as

    loners or Headstong persons

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    Basic Rules of Etiquette

    The Art of Introduction Positive FirstImpression

    Rules for making introductions correctly

    In case of prior fixed meeting ,introduceyourself first by telling your name and purpose

    Do not use honorific words ,such as

    Sri,Smt,Mrs ,Mr,Ms while referring to yourself Speak your name slowly and clearly Distinct

    articulation .

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    Meeting and Greeting

    Who introduces who?

    Traditionally, a man is always introduced to awoman. Not necessarily in business.

    Highest person of rank is mentioned first.Remember: Big, may I introduce Small.

    A younger person is always introduced to an olderperson

    It is helpful to include the persons title

    Always state your name.

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    Entering a room

    The Art of Introduction-

    Lowest-ranked person

    TO

    Highest ranked person

    JuniorTO Senior

    FamilyTO Stranger

    Female TO Male

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    How to introduce other persons-

    The Protocol

    Person of highest rank

    is introduced to others:

    ie Mr. Senior, I wouldlike you to meet VP, Mr.

    Junior. Mr. Junior, this

    is Mr. Senior, President.

    Clients are alwaysintroduced first

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    Tricks for remembering names

    Repeat the persons name a few times to

    yourself after youre introduced.

    Use the persons name immediately in the

    conversation after an introduction.

    Immediately introduce that new person to

    someone else you know.

    Jot down the persons name

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    Handshakes-Must be accompanied by

    eyecontact and a genuine smile

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    The Pull-In

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    The Two-Handed Shake

    (Politicians Handshake)

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    The Topper

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    The Finger Squeeze

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    The Bone Crusher

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    The Palm Pinch

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    The Limp Fish

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    GreetingsWhen meeting someone

    rise if you are seated. smile and extend your hand.

    repeat the other personsname in your greeting.

    A good handshake is important

    it should be firm and held forthree-four seconds.

    In the todays business world it isnot necessary to wait for a femaleto initiate the handshake. Females

    & males should both be ready toinitiate the handshake.

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    Basic Telephone Etiquette

    Handling business calls requires awareness of

    our unconscious actions which often amounts

    to bad manners or lack of appropriate skills of

    effective invisible interpersonal

    communication

    The way we receive,respond,speak, or hang

    up is as often important as what iscommunicated

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    Calling Handling

    Be brief and concise

    Prepare before calling

    How to begin or receive a call

    If the call is cut off

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    Common Telephone Courtesies

    Use polite words -Please , Thank you

    Use Interrogative form for making request

    Could I or May I instead of direct categoricalstatement like I want to talk to

    Seek permission for holding calls

    Calling at odd hours

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    Dining Etiquette

    A set of rules that govern the expectations of

    social and dining behavior in a workplace,

    group or society. Table manners are visible signs that you are a

    polished and knowledgeable professional.

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    Interviewing Meals

    Employers need to trust you can represent

    them in social settings with customers, clients,

    colleagues and competitors. They will be

    watching your dining manners.

    The focus is on the interview, not the food!

    Eat a light snack before you go, as you might

    not get to eat much.

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    The Name Tag

    Name Tag should be placed

    on the right hand side of

    your front shoulder area

    The logic:When shaking

    hands it allows for a

    natural progression for theeyes to the name tag

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    Formal Dinners

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    Table Settings

    Solids to the left Liquids to the right

    bread and drink

    Pick up silverware from the outside in toward your plate

    Put napkin on lap as soon as host does.

    Napkins remain on your lap until completion

    of meal. Never use as a bib.

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    Table Setting

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    Ordering

    Take your lead from your host when ordering.

    Do not order the most expensive item on themenu.

    Order something that will be easy to eat andnot messy no spaghetti, chicken wings, ribs,etc.

    Do not order alcohol! If the host orders abottle of wine and insists, only have ONE glass.

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    Service

    Wait for your host/hostess to pick up his/her

    fork to eat first.

    Wait until everyone at the table has been

    served before beginning to eat.

    Never reach across the table for something,

    always ask for it to be passed.

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    Service

    Salt and pepper are always passed together.

    Food is served from the left and dishes are

    cleared from the right. Everything gets passed to the right. If you are

    first to take the bread basket, offer to your left

    first, take your piece, then pass to the right.

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    Proper Starting

    Position

    Solids on

    your leftLiquids on

    your right

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    Utensils

    Do not make a fist around the handle of theutensil.

    Continental style: cut food one bite at a time,

    use the fork in left hand, tines down, to spearthe food and bring to mouth.

    American Standard style: cut food a few bites

    at a time, lay the knife across the plate (sharpedges toward you), and switch fork to righthand to eat.

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    American Style Of Eating

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    American Style

    Resting Position

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    American Style

    Finished Position

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    European Style ofDining

    Follow Step One of American Style.

    Leave your knife and fork in same position as

    StepO

    ne. Take bite with fork in left hand and place food

    in mouth with tines face down.

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    European Style ofDining

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    European Style

    Resting Position

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    European Style

    Finished Position

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    Using Napkins

    Place your napkin on

    lap after every-one has

    been seated. Fold your napkin in half

    with crease toward you.

    Use your napkin as

    necessary.

    Place your napkin on leftside of plate when

    temporarily leaving table. Leave napkin in lap until

    everyone is finished.

    Place napkin to right ofplate at end of meal.

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    Drinking Beverages

    If the glass has a stem, hold the glass by the

    stem to preserve its chill.

    Tuck empty sugar packs, plastic cup from

    creamer under the rim of your plate or under

    the edge of saucer or butter dish

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    Take small bites, keep yourmouth closed and finish

    chewing before continuing

    your conversation.

    Try not to gulp your food, itisn't very attractive.

    Do not blow on food that is

    hot.Wait until it cools or eat

    from the side of the bowl,

    when having soup.

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    Posture and Elbows

    Sit straight and try not to

    lean on the table.

    Keep your elbows off the

    table and close to the bodywhen you are eating.

    However, when you stop to

    talk, it is okay to rest your

    elbows on the table and

    lean forward.

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    Bread and rolls should be broken with your fingers, insmall pieces and buttered one piece at a time.

    Cut several pieces of meat(or main course) at a time.

    Use your knife to cut lettuce if needed.

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    Excusing Yourself and Problems

    Be discrete if you have problem with the food.

    Remove food the same way it went in-on silverware.

    Excuse yourself, if you have to leave the table.

    Turn your head from the table when you cough orsneeze.

    If someone uses your bread plate as their own do not

    inform them of their mistake, simply use your dinnerplate. Do not use the bread plate on your right as areplacement.

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    What to do when finished with

    your mealand

    Leave your plate where it is, do not push it

    away.

    Place knife & fork horizontally or diagonallyin the plate. (Indicates to server you are finished)

    Place the napkin to the left or right of your

    plate, or in the center of your plate.

    AndWhoever extended the invitation to

    dinner should pay the bill.

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    More Important Tips.

    Always be on time. If you are late, call thehost/hostess.

    If you are uncertain about how or when to use acertain utensil, watch others and do what the

    majority of them do. If a little bowl of water is on the table, or appears

    with the dessert, wash tips of your fingers in it.Dry them on your napkin.

    Meat ordered with bones, should be eaten withknife & fork (cornish hen, ribs). Never use yourfingers.

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    More Important Tips.

    Ordering spaghetti (shell pasta) easier to eat

    Eating peas from a dinner plate use knife to pushpeas onto plate. Eating out of a bowl, use spoon.

    Never discuss controversial issues (religion,politics)

    Never chew gum

    Do not talk with mouth full of food

    Do not apply make-up, lipstick at the table

    (May not be able to apply all of these rules to banquet meals)

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    10 Common Dining

    Faux Pas

    Napkin on lap before everyone is seated.

    Blowing or stirring soup.

    Eating ice cubes. Eating before everyone is served.

    Breaking dinner roll in half rather than tearing

    a bite-size piece.

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    Faux Pas (cont.)

    Talking with food in your mouth.

    Chewing with mouth open.

    Eating a larger than bite-size piece of food. Blowing your nose at table.

    Pushing your plate away.

    Stacking dishes.

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    Knowing the guidelines and executing with style and grace

    will boost your competitive edge.

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    Business to Business Etiquette

    Individuals represent companies Companys

    image builder

    Be loyal to your organization-Highlight the

    positives

    Confidential Matters-Help others to develop

    trust in you

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    Role Plays-Telephonic Conversations