AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

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AUSTRALIAN WEDDING E-MAGAZINE EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW TO PLAN A BEAUTIFUL, STYLISH WEDDING ON THE NORTH COAST ISSUE #2 APRIL 2011 AN ECHO PUBLICATION

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Everything you need to know to plan a beautiful, stylish wedding on the North Coast of NSW, Australia

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

E V E R Y T H I N G YO U N E E D TO K N O W TO P L A N A B E AU T I F U L S T Y L I S H W E D D I N G O N T H E N O R T H C O A S T

ISSUE 2APRIL 2011

A N E C H O P U B L I C AT I O N

Photo Donatella Parisini ndash wwwdonatellacomau

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Hand crafted textiles that utilise plant dyeing screenprinting hand painting or marbling create exquisite fabrics that become the heart of the

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Brides bridesmaids flowergirls mother of the bride and groom and personalised flags

For an appointment call Anne on02 6680 7088 or 0407 030 122

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AW E E D I T O R ndash E V E J E F F E R Y

copy2011 Echo Publications

Awe would not have been possible without the help of these people

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Awe is produced by Echo Publications publisher of

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THE BYRON SHIRE

THE TWEED

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

AW E C O - O R D I N AT O R ndash A M A N D A B E N N E T T

CONTRIBUTORSMandy NolanRachel JefferyVerity Johnson Victoria Cosford

PROJECT MANAGERAngela Cornell

COVER PHOTOTree Faerie

COVER MODEL Shantia Jones on location New Brighton NSW

PRODUCTION MANAGERZiggi Browning

LAYOUT DESIGNMelanie Tongmar

THE ARTISTSBref Cristina and Wendy

ADMINSimon Haslam Janice Dutton

ECHO STAFFGordon Verbivore

Eve Jeffery is a journalist and photographer in the Northern Rivers and works for a weekly newspaper The Echo

Having lived in the Byron Shire for over 15 years Eve has certainly seen her fair share of alternative weddings and once even unofficially officiated at the wedding of her best friend where she performed a traditional pagan Handfasting

Amanda Bennett has been working for The Echo for over two years and is responsible for the coordination of their quarterly feature publications

Amanda along with Echo sales manager Angela Cornell decided that Byron Bay was in need of a locally produced wedding publication and after looking at the current offerings agreed that the magazine would be better online - the result is AWE Magazine

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Welcome 7 To wed or not to wed Then pop

the question AWE editor Eve Jeffery

The Wedding Singer 12 Renowned muso Luke Vassella

shares the magic moments of a Wedding Singer

With the love of 22 three men Cover model Shantia Jones tells

AWE about the special three men at her wedding

All you need is love 28 Celebrity wedding a rainforest

wedding with Benhur Helwend from The Blackbirds

To have and to hold 36 When the love is right but the

marriage is not

Fashion Parade 44 The AWE models strut their stuff at

the Ballina Bridal Expo

A Sunset Wedding 54 Danni Carr amp Ash Grunwald

Go frock yourself 62 From zero to Bridezilla

Mandy Nolan

Creating the body 70you want Get fit to look great in your dress

Verity Johnson

Watching their diets 80 Catering for everyonersquos tastes

Rachel Jeffery

The Wedding Cake 86 Traditional and modern and yummy

Victoria Cosford

Contents

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Welcome to Awe Magazine

T here is more to marriage than answering the popped question

People get married for a multitude of reasons and people donrsquot get married for an equal multitude Many people are looking for guarantees

With marriage there are no guarantees No guarantees that you will love the person the next day week month or year No guarantees that children or the lack of children wonrsquot test your strength No guarantees that the lsquoin sicknessrsquo part of a wedding vow wonrsquot test your courage No guarantees that the unexpected traumas of life wonrsquot test every part of who you are and who you thought you were ndash or who you thought you married No guarantees that death wonrsquot part you before it is time

I have never been married That has not been my choice but the choice of the men I have loved It would be interesting if I was ever asked what my answer would be

The father of my children felt it unnecessary to get married lsquoWe already arersquo was his answer to my one daring blindly hopeful proposal (Ah rejection A stab straight to the core Nothing crushes the spirit like a response that screams lsquoIrsquom just not that into yoursquo)

I think in honesty that he just simply didnrsquot think it would work out He was right Our lsquomarriagersquo didnrsquot stand the test of sadness and children and time and I often wonder if we had tied the knot would we have he have put more effort into saving our love

People laugh at me when I call the man I love now my lsquoMan Humanrsquo We are in an odd situation where we are not married we do not live together we are not partners and after ten years he is hardly my boyfriend Something in me desires marriage I am not sure why My parents were married for 27 years then they just werenrsquot Many if not the majority of my friends come from families of divorced parents Marriages come

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To wed or not to wed Then comes the question

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With a portfolio spanning fashion intimate portraits and unbridled celebrations Donatella instils her photos with a vibrant blend of artistry charisma and charmAdoring clients have called her ldquoA ball of pure energyrdquo ldquoAn amazingly intuitive womanrdquo ldquoSublimely stylish eyerdquo ldquoProdigiously creativerdquo and have said ldquoI will never even consider using another photographer againrdquo

Donatellarsquos international perspective informs her artistic choices Drawing inspiration and love from the eclectic cultural diversity that Byron is famous for

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crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

Eve Jeffery ndash Editor

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

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32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

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Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

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All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Photo Donatella Parisini ndash wwwdonatellacomau

Anne Leon Designs creates bespoke bridal creations that cater for todayrsquos bride

Anne is a textile artist working with a variety of techniques to make each wedding unique

Hand crafted textiles that utilise plant dyeing screenprinting hand painting or marbling create exquisite fabrics that become the heart of the

bridal collection

Brides bridesmaids flowergirls mother of the bride and groom and personalised flags

For an appointment call Anne on02 6680 7088 or 0407 030 122

wwwanneleoncom

AW E E D I T O R ndash E V E J E F F E R Y

copy2011 Echo Publications

Awe would not have been possible without the help of these people

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Awe is produced by Echo Publications publisher of

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THE BYRON SHIRE

THE TWEED

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

AW E C O - O R D I N AT O R ndash A M A N D A B E N N E T T

CONTRIBUTORSMandy NolanRachel JefferyVerity Johnson Victoria Cosford

PROJECT MANAGERAngela Cornell

COVER PHOTOTree Faerie

COVER MODEL Shantia Jones on location New Brighton NSW

PRODUCTION MANAGERZiggi Browning

LAYOUT DESIGNMelanie Tongmar

THE ARTISTSBref Cristina and Wendy

ADMINSimon Haslam Janice Dutton

ECHO STAFFGordon Verbivore

Eve Jeffery is a journalist and photographer in the Northern Rivers and works for a weekly newspaper The Echo

Having lived in the Byron Shire for over 15 years Eve has certainly seen her fair share of alternative weddings and once even unofficially officiated at the wedding of her best friend where she performed a traditional pagan Handfasting

Amanda Bennett has been working for The Echo for over two years and is responsible for the coordination of their quarterly feature publications

Amanda along with Echo sales manager Angela Cornell decided that Byron Bay was in need of a locally produced wedding publication and after looking at the current offerings agreed that the magazine would be better online - the result is AWE Magazine

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Welcome 7 To wed or not to wed Then pop

the question AWE editor Eve Jeffery

The Wedding Singer 12 Renowned muso Luke Vassella

shares the magic moments of a Wedding Singer

With the love of 22 three men Cover model Shantia Jones tells

AWE about the special three men at her wedding

All you need is love 28 Celebrity wedding a rainforest

wedding with Benhur Helwend from The Blackbirds

To have and to hold 36 When the love is right but the

marriage is not

Fashion Parade 44 The AWE models strut their stuff at

the Ballina Bridal Expo

A Sunset Wedding 54 Danni Carr amp Ash Grunwald

Go frock yourself 62 From zero to Bridezilla

Mandy Nolan

Creating the body 70you want Get fit to look great in your dress

Verity Johnson

Watching their diets 80 Catering for everyonersquos tastes

Rachel Jeffery

The Wedding Cake 86 Traditional and modern and yummy

Victoria Cosford

Contents

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www j u l e shun t com

e l e g a n c e h a n d c r a f t e dh a n d m a d e i n B y r o n B a y

Unique amp symbolic of the love amp unity of your special day

j u l e s h u n t s t u d i o g a l l e r y

Br idal Registr y Gifts bull Individual Inscr iptionsDeliver y Avai lable Austral ia amp Over seas

Welcome to Awe Magazine

T here is more to marriage than answering the popped question

People get married for a multitude of reasons and people donrsquot get married for an equal multitude Many people are looking for guarantees

With marriage there are no guarantees No guarantees that you will love the person the next day week month or year No guarantees that children or the lack of children wonrsquot test your strength No guarantees that the lsquoin sicknessrsquo part of a wedding vow wonrsquot test your courage No guarantees that the unexpected traumas of life wonrsquot test every part of who you are and who you thought you were ndash or who you thought you married No guarantees that death wonrsquot part you before it is time

I have never been married That has not been my choice but the choice of the men I have loved It would be interesting if I was ever asked what my answer would be

The father of my children felt it unnecessary to get married lsquoWe already arersquo was his answer to my one daring blindly hopeful proposal (Ah rejection A stab straight to the core Nothing crushes the spirit like a response that screams lsquoIrsquom just not that into yoursquo)

I think in honesty that he just simply didnrsquot think it would work out He was right Our lsquomarriagersquo didnrsquot stand the test of sadness and children and time and I often wonder if we had tied the knot would we have he have put more effort into saving our love

People laugh at me when I call the man I love now my lsquoMan Humanrsquo We are in an odd situation where we are not married we do not live together we are not partners and after ten years he is hardly my boyfriend Something in me desires marriage I am not sure why My parents were married for 27 years then they just werenrsquot Many if not the majority of my friends come from families of divorced parents Marriages come

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www j u l e shun t com

e l e g a n c e h a n d c r a f t e dh a n d m a d e i n B y r o n B a y

Unique amp symbolic of the love amp unity of your special day

j u l e s h u n t s t u d i o g a l l e r y

Br idal Registr y Gifts bull Individual Inscr iptionsDeliver y Avai lable Austral ia amp Over seas

To wed or not to wed Then comes the question

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With a portfolio spanning fashion intimate portraits and unbridled celebrations Donatella instils her photos with a vibrant blend of artistry charisma and charmAdoring clients have called her ldquoA ball of pure energyrdquo ldquoAn amazingly intuitive womanrdquo ldquoSublimely stylish eyerdquo ldquoProdigiously creativerdquo and have said ldquoI will never even consider using another photographer againrdquo

Donatellarsquos international perspective informs her artistic choices Drawing inspiration and love from the eclectic cultural diversity that Byron is famous for

T 02 6685 3884 M 0421 648 286 E infodonatellacomau wwwdonatellacomau

crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

Eve Jeffery ndash Editor

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I PWill make all your Wedding Dreams come true

Specialising in co-ordination and

decorating of traditional and non-traditional

weddingsMaking your Special Day my

number one priority I do Perfection will create for

you the Wedding yoursquove always dreamed of as every couple

deserves their Dream Day

A Wedding just for you and your partner that refl ects your unique

personality and style

A Wedding that you and your guests will delight in

A day for all to remember

I PTweed Coast amp Surrounding AreasRebecca Vickery ndash 0434 536 149

wwwidoperfectioncom

$450 vintage photo shoot with Jaqui Judd Photography and the Boudoir amp Burlesque teamWinner Jessica Bryant

The Wedding Site of

The Merkaba Glass Creation Handcrafted by glass artist Asaf Zakay of ZAKAY GLASS CREATIONSWinner Danielle Ward

lsquoBrittrsquo handcrafted tea lantern by Jules Hunt Byron BayWinner Ali Chigwidden

Wedding website package for the bride and groom worth $450 by The Wedding Site ofWinner Megan Morrison

Gift voucher for half an hour full body scrub treatment at Paradiso Beauty Salon Byron BayWinner Stefanie Bilson

wwwawemagazinecomau

HERE ARE THE WINNERS OF THE LUCKY STAND PRIZES

One night midweek stay for two at Koonyum Range RetreatWinner Jasmine Dron

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

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WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

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AW E E D I T O R ndash E V E J E F F E R Y

copy2011 Echo Publications

Awe would not have been possible without the help of these people

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Awe is produced by Echo Publications publisher of

wwwtweedechocomau

THE BYRON SHIRE

THE TWEED

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

AW E C O - O R D I N AT O R ndash A M A N D A B E N N E T T

CONTRIBUTORSMandy NolanRachel JefferyVerity Johnson Victoria Cosford

PROJECT MANAGERAngela Cornell

COVER PHOTOTree Faerie

COVER MODEL Shantia Jones on location New Brighton NSW

PRODUCTION MANAGERZiggi Browning

LAYOUT DESIGNMelanie Tongmar

THE ARTISTSBref Cristina and Wendy

ADMINSimon Haslam Janice Dutton

ECHO STAFFGordon Verbivore

Eve Jeffery is a journalist and photographer in the Northern Rivers and works for a weekly newspaper The Echo

Having lived in the Byron Shire for over 15 years Eve has certainly seen her fair share of alternative weddings and once even unofficially officiated at the wedding of her best friend where she performed a traditional pagan Handfasting

Amanda Bennett has been working for The Echo for over two years and is responsible for the coordination of their quarterly feature publications

Amanda along with Echo sales manager Angela Cornell decided that Byron Bay was in need of a locally produced wedding publication and after looking at the current offerings agreed that the magazine would be better online - the result is AWE Magazine

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Welcome 7 To wed or not to wed Then pop

the question AWE editor Eve Jeffery

The Wedding Singer 12 Renowned muso Luke Vassella

shares the magic moments of a Wedding Singer

With the love of 22 three men Cover model Shantia Jones tells

AWE about the special three men at her wedding

All you need is love 28 Celebrity wedding a rainforest

wedding with Benhur Helwend from The Blackbirds

To have and to hold 36 When the love is right but the

marriage is not

Fashion Parade 44 The AWE models strut their stuff at

the Ballina Bridal Expo

A Sunset Wedding 54 Danni Carr amp Ash Grunwald

Go frock yourself 62 From zero to Bridezilla

Mandy Nolan

Creating the body 70you want Get fit to look great in your dress

Verity Johnson

Watching their diets 80 Catering for everyonersquos tastes

Rachel Jeffery

The Wedding Cake 86 Traditional and modern and yummy

Victoria Cosford

Contents

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Unique amp symbolic of the love amp unity of your special day

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Br idal Registr y Gifts bull Individual Inscr iptionsDeliver y Avai lable Austral ia amp Over seas

Welcome to Awe Magazine

T here is more to marriage than answering the popped question

People get married for a multitude of reasons and people donrsquot get married for an equal multitude Many people are looking for guarantees

With marriage there are no guarantees No guarantees that you will love the person the next day week month or year No guarantees that children or the lack of children wonrsquot test your strength No guarantees that the lsquoin sicknessrsquo part of a wedding vow wonrsquot test your courage No guarantees that the unexpected traumas of life wonrsquot test every part of who you are and who you thought you were ndash or who you thought you married No guarantees that death wonrsquot part you before it is time

I have never been married That has not been my choice but the choice of the men I have loved It would be interesting if I was ever asked what my answer would be

The father of my children felt it unnecessary to get married lsquoWe already arersquo was his answer to my one daring blindly hopeful proposal (Ah rejection A stab straight to the core Nothing crushes the spirit like a response that screams lsquoIrsquom just not that into yoursquo)

I think in honesty that he just simply didnrsquot think it would work out He was right Our lsquomarriagersquo didnrsquot stand the test of sadness and children and time and I often wonder if we had tied the knot would we have he have put more effort into saving our love

People laugh at me when I call the man I love now my lsquoMan Humanrsquo We are in an odd situation where we are not married we do not live together we are not partners and after ten years he is hardly my boyfriend Something in me desires marriage I am not sure why My parents were married for 27 years then they just werenrsquot Many if not the majority of my friends come from families of divorced parents Marriages come

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Unique amp symbolic of the love amp unity of your special day

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To wed or not to wed Then comes the question

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With a portfolio spanning fashion intimate portraits and unbridled celebrations Donatella instils her photos with a vibrant blend of artistry charisma and charmAdoring clients have called her ldquoA ball of pure energyrdquo ldquoAn amazingly intuitive womanrdquo ldquoSublimely stylish eyerdquo ldquoProdigiously creativerdquo and have said ldquoI will never even consider using another photographer againrdquo

Donatellarsquos international perspective informs her artistic choices Drawing inspiration and love from the eclectic cultural diversity that Byron is famous for

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crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

Eve Jeffery ndash Editor

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

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2 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Carla Dalton CelebrationsAre you looking for a young and enthusiastic fully trained and professional marriage celebrant for your dream wedding on the Gold Coast

Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

ASOHOa space of her own

wedding amp bridal venue

02 6688 4202wwwasohoatfederalcomau

Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

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32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

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A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Holders - Candles - Vases

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

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meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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for playlist examples visit

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Page 4: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Welcome 7 To wed or not to wed Then pop

the question AWE editor Eve Jeffery

The Wedding Singer 12 Renowned muso Luke Vassella

shares the magic moments of a Wedding Singer

With the love of 22 three men Cover model Shantia Jones tells

AWE about the special three men at her wedding

All you need is love 28 Celebrity wedding a rainforest

wedding with Benhur Helwend from The Blackbirds

To have and to hold 36 When the love is right but the

marriage is not

Fashion Parade 44 The AWE models strut their stuff at

the Ballina Bridal Expo

A Sunset Wedding 54 Danni Carr amp Ash Grunwald

Go frock yourself 62 From zero to Bridezilla

Mandy Nolan

Creating the body 70you want Get fit to look great in your dress

Verity Johnson

Watching their diets 80 Catering for everyonersquos tastes

Rachel Jeffery

The Wedding Cake 86 Traditional and modern and yummy

Victoria Cosford

Contents

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Unique amp symbolic of the love amp unity of your special day

j u l e s h u n t s t u d i o g a l l e r y

Br idal Registr y Gifts bull Individual Inscr iptionsDeliver y Avai lable Austral ia amp Over seas

Welcome to Awe Magazine

T here is more to marriage than answering the popped question

People get married for a multitude of reasons and people donrsquot get married for an equal multitude Many people are looking for guarantees

With marriage there are no guarantees No guarantees that you will love the person the next day week month or year No guarantees that children or the lack of children wonrsquot test your strength No guarantees that the lsquoin sicknessrsquo part of a wedding vow wonrsquot test your courage No guarantees that the unexpected traumas of life wonrsquot test every part of who you are and who you thought you were ndash or who you thought you married No guarantees that death wonrsquot part you before it is time

I have never been married That has not been my choice but the choice of the men I have loved It would be interesting if I was ever asked what my answer would be

The father of my children felt it unnecessary to get married lsquoWe already arersquo was his answer to my one daring blindly hopeful proposal (Ah rejection A stab straight to the core Nothing crushes the spirit like a response that screams lsquoIrsquom just not that into yoursquo)

I think in honesty that he just simply didnrsquot think it would work out He was right Our lsquomarriagersquo didnrsquot stand the test of sadness and children and time and I often wonder if we had tied the knot would we have he have put more effort into saving our love

People laugh at me when I call the man I love now my lsquoMan Humanrsquo We are in an odd situation where we are not married we do not live together we are not partners and after ten years he is hardly my boyfriend Something in me desires marriage I am not sure why My parents were married for 27 years then they just werenrsquot Many if not the majority of my friends come from families of divorced parents Marriages come

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crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

Eve Jeffery ndash Editor

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

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It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

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chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

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We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

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We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

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Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

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WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

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Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

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bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

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Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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Unique amp symbolic of the love amp unity of your special day

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Welcome to Awe Magazine

T here is more to marriage than answering the popped question

People get married for a multitude of reasons and people donrsquot get married for an equal multitude Many people are looking for guarantees

With marriage there are no guarantees No guarantees that you will love the person the next day week month or year No guarantees that children or the lack of children wonrsquot test your strength No guarantees that the lsquoin sicknessrsquo part of a wedding vow wonrsquot test your courage No guarantees that the unexpected traumas of life wonrsquot test every part of who you are and who you thought you were ndash or who you thought you married No guarantees that death wonrsquot part you before it is time

I have never been married That has not been my choice but the choice of the men I have loved It would be interesting if I was ever asked what my answer would be

The father of my children felt it unnecessary to get married lsquoWe already arersquo was his answer to my one daring blindly hopeful proposal (Ah rejection A stab straight to the core Nothing crushes the spirit like a response that screams lsquoIrsquom just not that into yoursquo)

I think in honesty that he just simply didnrsquot think it would work out He was right Our lsquomarriagersquo didnrsquot stand the test of sadness and children and time and I often wonder if we had tied the knot would we have he have put more effort into saving our love

People laugh at me when I call the man I love now my lsquoMan Humanrsquo We are in an odd situation where we are not married we do not live together we are not partners and after ten years he is hardly my boyfriend Something in me desires marriage I am not sure why My parents were married for 27 years then they just werenrsquot Many if not the majority of my friends come from families of divorced parents Marriages come

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To wed or not to wed Then comes the question

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With a portfolio spanning fashion intimate portraits and unbridled celebrations Donatella instils her photos with a vibrant blend of artistry charisma and charmAdoring clients have called her ldquoA ball of pure energyrdquo ldquoAn amazingly intuitive womanrdquo ldquoSublimely stylish eyerdquo ldquoProdigiously creativerdquo and have said ldquoI will never even consider using another photographer againrdquo

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crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

wwwbyronoasiscomau

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

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The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E P BFA S C I N AT O R S

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A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

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Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

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with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

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Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

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Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

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Page 6: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Welcome to Awe Magazine

T here is more to marriage than answering the popped question

People get married for a multitude of reasons and people donrsquot get married for an equal multitude Many people are looking for guarantees

With marriage there are no guarantees No guarantees that you will love the person the next day week month or year No guarantees that children or the lack of children wonrsquot test your strength No guarantees that the lsquoin sicknessrsquo part of a wedding vow wonrsquot test your courage No guarantees that the unexpected traumas of life wonrsquot test every part of who you are and who you thought you were ndash or who you thought you married No guarantees that death wonrsquot part you before it is time

I have never been married That has not been my choice but the choice of the men I have loved It would be interesting if I was ever asked what my answer would be

The father of my children felt it unnecessary to get married lsquoWe already arersquo was his answer to my one daring blindly hopeful proposal (Ah rejection A stab straight to the core Nothing crushes the spirit like a response that screams lsquoIrsquom just not that into yoursquo)

I think in honesty that he just simply didnrsquot think it would work out He was right Our lsquomarriagersquo didnrsquot stand the test of sadness and children and time and I often wonder if we had tied the knot would we have he have put more effort into saving our love

People laugh at me when I call the man I love now my lsquoMan Humanrsquo We are in an odd situation where we are not married we do not live together we are not partners and after ten years he is hardly my boyfriend Something in me desires marriage I am not sure why My parents were married for 27 years then they just werenrsquot Many if not the majority of my friends come from families of divorced parents Marriages come

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crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

Eve Jeffery ndash Editor

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Gowns ofE legance welcomes you to the ultimate bridal shopping experience Welcome to a dream come true With over 25 yearsrsquo experienced in the bridal industry Gowns of Elegance will present to you more than the fi nest fashion The team will bring you an incomparable level of service and tailoring that lasts to your wedding and beyond

Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

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Professional catering services from Byron to South East Queensland Providing classic to cutting edge tailored menus for all events and weddings

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

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Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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for playlist examples visit

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With a portfolio spanning fashion intimate portraits and unbridled celebrations Donatella instils her photos with a vibrant blend of artistry charisma and charmAdoring clients have called her ldquoA ball of pure energyrdquo ldquoAn amazingly intuitive womanrdquo ldquoSublimely stylish eyerdquo ldquoProdigiously creativerdquo and have said ldquoI will never even consider using another photographer againrdquo

Donatellarsquos international perspective informs her artistic choices Drawing inspiration and love from the eclectic cultural diversity that Byron is famous for

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crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

Eve Jeffery ndash Editor

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A Wedding just for you and your partner that refl ects your unique

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A Wedding that you and your guests will delight in

A day for all to remember

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The Wedding Site of

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Wedding website package for the bride and groom worth $450 by The Wedding Site ofWinner Megan Morrison

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

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Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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crashing down every day with the regularity of the rise and fall of the sun Marriage doesnrsquot have a good track record My man human says that the main cause of divorce is marriage Itrsquos his little joke whenever the subject arises

So why the urge Why in the 21st century when even the most fundamentally religious of us have a pretty good knowledge of basic human nature and frailties and what actually does happen behind the shelter shed do we feel impelled to hold fast to another being rsquotil death do us part

In the end it all boils down to love Do you love this person Do you truly love this person above all others Is it your intention to be with them until death do you part

No matter race creed colour status or sex you simply cannot help who or how you fall in love So forget guarantees Love lives and love dies and there just arenrsquot any guarantees but being fearful of the the possibility that it all may crumble one day at some time in the future or not isnrsquot a reason not to get married

It may only last a day week month or year Nothing expected really is ever going to happen on the path of your life so you might as well aim for the best ride you can It really truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved

So take the plunge You never know ndash it might just be AWEsome

Eve Jeffery ndash Editor

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 9

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 2 9

Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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Fashion Parade

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E amp A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

ldquoSimply beautiful makeup and hairsimply great servicerdquoAmour Photography

Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

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Spend your special day on top of the world

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Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

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Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

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bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

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Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 2 9

Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

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A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 7

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

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meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

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Page 10: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

$450 vintage photo shoot with Jaqui Judd Photography and the Boudoir amp Burlesque teamWinner Jessica Bryant

The Wedding Site of

The Merkaba Glass Creation Handcrafted by glass artist Asaf Zakay of ZAKAY GLASS CREATIONSWinner Danielle Ward

lsquoBrittrsquo handcrafted tea lantern by Jules Hunt Byron BayWinner Ali Chigwidden

Wedding website package for the bride and groom worth $450 by The Wedding Site ofWinner Megan Morrison

Gift voucher for half an hour full body scrub treatment at Paradiso Beauty Salon Byron BayWinner Stefanie Bilson

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HERE ARE THE WINNERS OF THE LUCKY STAND PRIZES

One night midweek stay for two at Koonyum Range RetreatWinner Jasmine Dron

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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Quality handmade jewellery by designer Leonie McIntosh

Timeless and elegant pieces that will standout and compliment any gown

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She shimmers

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

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Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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1 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

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Professional catering services from Byron to South East Queensland Providing classic to cutting edge tailored menus for all events and weddings

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

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Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

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Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

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Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

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wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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for playlist examples visit

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Page 12: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

The Wedding SingerL uke loves weddings In fact in

the last 13 years he has been to hundreds of them

Luke Vassella is one of the Northern Riversrsquo foremost and much sought after wedding singers ndash there is something quietly special about this man who croons a couple into their new life

Luke studied music in high school and in the HSC before completing a Bachelor of Arts in contemporary music in 1992 at Southern Cross University in Lismore but his interest in music began long before that lsquoI was probably about 10 or 11 when I really started getting into music I was a huge Dire Straits fan I loved Mark Knopfler ndash maybe itrsquos not so cool to admit that now but that

guy started me on the music road and Irsquove been on it ever sincersquo

Luke says he studied keyboards at 10 and his parents gave him a guitar for his 12th birthday ndash his education continued lsquoI wrote my first song a couple of weeks after my 12th birthday with the three chords I knew I started playing in the kitchen at home then moved up to family barbecues then school assemblies and it kept going from therersquo

Luke has been a full-time musician since 1998 and he has played weddings his entire professional career but during the past six years or so he has mainly focused on performing at weddings lsquoWeddings are about joy The event is about celebrating and affirming the love and commitment that two people share with their dearest

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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1 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

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2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Mother of the Bride or Groom

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Carla Dalton CelebrationsAre you looking for a young and enthusiastic fully trained and professional marriage celebrant for your dream wedding on the Gold Coast

Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

ASOHOa space of her own

wedding amp bridal venue

02 6688 4202wwwasohoatfederalcomau

Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

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32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

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A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

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wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

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meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

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(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

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Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

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Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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friends and family Music especially live music creates an atmosphere and a mood socially and emotionally A good wedding musician can shape that atmosphere and blend and adapt with it during the course of an evening

lsquoYou have to be sensitive to whatrsquos going on sometimes early in the evening if everyonersquos talking and paying no attention me itrsquos when Irsquom doing my best work ndash creating a space where people are relaxed and comfortable to catch up or introduce themselves Later on when the room is ready you need to fire it up a bit get people on the dance floor

lsquoI really enjoy the different dynamics of a wedding reception everything from the sweet and sentimental to the raucous craziness If I can contribute to making a wedding celebration a lifetime memory to bringing family and friends together itrsquos a great personal reward to me I genuinely enjoy serving people in that way and I do my best to get to that lsquosacredrsquo place every timersquo

When Luke is not being a wedding singer he works in his home studio where he records his albums and music for friends One of his original songs Lismore Girl recently won the lsquoAustraliarsquo category at the 2010 Australian Songwriters Association Awards

Luke says being a part of a couplersquos special day had has some wonderful

and unexpected rewards Luke says that weddings are a very private event and he is a true proponent of the belief that what-happens-at-the-wedding-stays-at-the-wedding but in saying that he does recall some very interesting timeshellip

lsquoItrsquos hard to remember specifics sometimes as therersquove been so many great moments I was playing at a ceremony on the beach once with a massive stormfront approaching The bride made a very long and elegant procession Shortly after the ceremony began they realised the mother of the bride was missing She had been stuck in traffic and was 10 minutes away We had to start the procession all over again meanwhile this storm was blowing in and Irsquom glancing at the celebrant and hersquos glancing at me and wersquore both thinking ldquowersquore not gonna make itrdquo So I start singing Shelter From the Storm ready to move into I Love a Rainy Night Somehow the rain held off until the end of the ceremony I canrsquot say if it was because of my singing or notrsquo

Luke says one time he was playing for a reception at a private residence and everyone was having such a great time that everyone forgot about the hour The police arrived somewhere around 1am lsquoIt was amusing to observe one of the guests who also happened to be policeman trying all kinds of creative angles to sweet-talk them into letting the celebrations continue Apparently there had been around 30 noise complaints I knew then that my new ultra-

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1 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

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Gowns ofE legance

Professional catering services from Byron to South East Queensland Providing classic to cutting edge tailored menus for all events and weddings

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

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Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

W wwwjordanphotographycomauE infojordanphotographycomauP 0409 710 433

to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 9

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

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FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

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The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

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All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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timeless memories

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Lighthouse Beach East Ballina (02) 6686 8888

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worth celebrating

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1 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Lighthouse Beach East Ballina (02) 6686 8888

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Gowns ofE legance welcomes you to the ultimate bridal shopping experience Welcome to a dream come true With over 25 yearsrsquo experienced in the bridal industry Gowns of Elegance will present to you more than the fi nest fashion The team will bring you an incomparable level of service and tailoring that lasts to your wedding and beyond

Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

47 Ashmore Road BundallQLD 4217

ph 07 5679 0434 wwwgownsofelegancecom

Gowns ofE legance

Professional catering services from Byron to South East Queensland Providing classic to cutting edge tailored menus for all events and weddings

0411 182 602infoeatdrinkcateringcomau

eatdrinkcateringcomaupo box 1234 byron bay NSW 2483

Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

Byron Community Centre

Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

wwwbyronbayweddingexpocomau

Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

wwwbyronoasiscomau

Tranquil Byron Bay accommodation

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Mother of the Bride or Groom

BridesmaidsWedding Guests

Party DressesShoes

Le ChelleB O U T I Q U ETHE WEDDING SPECIALIST

Open 7 daysShop 3 Ballina Street Lennox Head 02 6687 6088

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Sizes 8 - 18

Carla Dalton CelebrationsAre you looking for a young and enthusiastic fully trained and professional marriage celebrant for your dream wedding on the Gold Coast

Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 1

Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

ASOHOa space of her own

wedding amp bridal venue

02 6688 4202wwwasohoatfederalcomau

Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 7

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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compact subwoofer was working better than expectedrsquo

Luke says he has had a bridesmaid who decided to do a sort of pole dance with his microphone stand while he was singing rsquoI had to politely ask her to stop before I broke all my guitar stringsrsquo

There was one time a groom had to go to hospital for stitches after the head of a groomsman somehow clipped his chin in a bizarre dancefloor incident Luke says that as with operating heavy machinery some dance moves should not be attempted while under the influence

lsquoI remember some great moments When a bride dances with her father ndash tears of joy and sadness Playing the right song as people gather for a farewell circle is an emotional time toorsquo

Luke believes it is really the people that make the party lsquoI can put the energy out there but once I get a little bit back from the audience itrsquos like fuel for me and thatrsquos when you can really get a great atmosphere happening

lsquoI think the secret to my success as a wedding singer is not just my big sound but also my flexibility and stamina I once described it as like having to be a chameleon you have to change your shape and colour and blend into the atmosphere

lsquoYou help define a wedding by setting up a mood but yoursquove got to adapt and roll with whatrsquos happening as itrsquos happening Always

thinking about where the energy is Does it need to get intense Do I need to chill a bit turn it up turn it down

Luke says a good wedding singer needs have to have a lot of songs to draw on but there are probably 40 or 50 songs that always work lsquoWhen people are on the dancefloor I do my best to keep them there as long as possible so frequently a 45-minute set is actually over an hour long I make a very big sound thatrsquos completely acoustic and thatrsquos always been my thing Stand up play it live and keep it organic with no backing tracks or loops and no synthetic sounds I do use a stereo echo on my guitar and I have a pedal which boosts the bass notes Playing this way does require a lot of effort and it gets very hot and sweaty but itrsquos a very lsquoAustralianrsquo performance thing People know how hard yoursquore working They respect thatrsquo

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Gowns ofE legance welcomes you to the ultimate bridal shopping experience Welcome to a dream come true With over 25 yearsrsquo experienced in the bridal industry Gowns of Elegance will present to you more than the fi nest fashion The team will bring you an incomparable level of service and tailoring that lasts to your wedding and beyond

Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

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Professional catering services from Byron to South East Queensland Providing classic to cutting edge tailored menus for all events and weddings

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

Byron Community Centre

Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

wwwbyronbayweddingexpocomau

Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

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Tranquil Byron Bay accommodation

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Mother of the Bride or Groom

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Carla Dalton CelebrationsAre you looking for a young and enthusiastic fully trained and professional marriage celebrant for your dream wedding on the Gold Coast

Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

ASOHOa space of her own

wedding amp bridal venue

02 6688 4202wwwasohoatfederalcomau

Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

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32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 17: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Gowns ofE legance welcomes you to the ultimate bridal shopping experience Welcome to a dream come true With over 25 yearsrsquo experienced in the bridal industry Gowns of Elegance will present to you more than the fi nest fashion The team will bring you an incomparable level of service and tailoring that lasts to your wedding and beyond

Whether you are looking for a Simple Elegant Modern Classic or Vintage Gown our grand store has it all

47 Ashmore Road BundallQLD 4217

ph 07 5679 0434 wwwgownsofelegancecom

Gowns ofE legance

Professional catering services from Byron to South East Queensland Providing classic to cutting edge tailored menus for all events and weddings

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

Byron Community Centre

Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

wwwbyronoasiscomau

Tranquil Byron Bay accommodation

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 7

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The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Showme events

2011 Byron BayWedding Expo

Byron Community Centre

Sunday 2nd October - 930am to 3pmFashion Parades 1130 amp 2pm

wwwbyronbayweddingexpocomau

Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

wwwbyronoasiscomau

Tranquil Byron Bay accommodation

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Mother of the Bride or Groom

BridesmaidsWedding Guests

Party DressesShoes

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Open 7 daysShop 3 Ballina Street Lennox Head 02 6687 6088

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Carla Dalton CelebrationsAre you looking for a young and enthusiastic fully trained and professional marriage celebrant for your dream wedding on the Gold Coast

Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

ASOHOa space of her own

wedding amp bridal venue

02 6688 4202wwwasohoatfederalcomau

Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

W wwwjordanphotographycomauE infojordanphotographycomauP 0409 710 433

to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E P BFA S C I N AT O R S

Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

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Jewellery amp Metal Collective

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(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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Set amongst six acres of lush landscaped grounds and bordering the Arakwal National Park the Oasis Resort and Treetop Houses provide a tranquil and relaxed retreat for wedding groups The Treetop Houses offer ideal accommodation for the bride and groom with stunning views over the National Park to the ocean With glorious rainforest surrounds total seclusion private spa and complementary champagne the Treetop Houses are perfectly suited for a special occasion

Destination weddings are immensely popular and Byron Bay with its stunning natural beauty and pristine beaches is the perfect choice for a seaside wedding venue Family and friends travelling for your big day are also well catered for at the Oasis Resort As well as our stunning Treetop Houses we also offer spacious fully self contained two bedroom apartments Our apartments offer comfortable modern accommodation for your wedding guests with views to the National Park and overlooking the resort facilities which include 18m heated pool fl oodlit tennis court BBQ area spa and sauna

We would be delighted to accommodate you and your loved ones for your special day and welcome your call to discuss accommodation options and packages

24 Scott St Byron Bay NSW 2481P 02 6685 7390 F 02 6685 8290E staybyronoasiscomau

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

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wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

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Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

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Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

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with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

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Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

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The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 4 1

You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

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Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

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Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

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Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

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With the love of three men

EVERYONE HOPES TO HAVE THE MAN OF THEIR DREAMS ON THEIR ARM WHEN THEY GET MARRIED BUT OUR COVER GIRL SHANTIA JONES HAD THREE ON HER VERY SPECIAL DAY WHEN SHANTIA WED HER HUSBAND MIKAL THE COUPLErsquoS THREE-YEAR-OLD BOY SUNNI WAS THERE TO SHARE THE LOVE AND DAD JUKI WAS THERE TO SHARE HIS TRADITIONAL FOOD

Shantia has been married almost a year and in preparation for our cover shoot she got to tell us how much she loved all of the wonderful men in her life

lsquoWe got married at Cabarita Headlandrsquo says Shantia lsquoWe had a beach wedding The views were amazing and the whole day was very romantic and in natural surroundingsrsquo

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 9

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 4 1

You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

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We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

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Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

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WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

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Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

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bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

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Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

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The wedding was mainly traditional with a hint of Balinese culture thrown in for good measure and Juki walked his daughter to the place by Mikalrsquos side lsquoMy beautiful dad walked me down the aislersquo says Shantia lsquoHe was a bit nervous but he was smiling the whole time He was even smiling when when I stopped halfway to cry People threw rice over us after the ceremony bringing in my Balinese culturersquo

Shantia and Mikal hired a local hall for the reception and the Balinese feast was prepared and cooked by Shantiarsquos dad Juki lsquoWe had 150 people with wonderful food cooked by my dad and a fruit platter the size of a dinner table We had lit candles

2 4 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 7

W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 3 9

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 4 1

You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

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mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

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Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

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Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

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Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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everywhere for our first dance it was very romanticrsquo

The other special man in Shantiarsquos life is her child Sunni who was the ringbearer during the marriage ceremony lsquoHis timing was perfect When it was his turn he knew exactly what he had to dorsquo Shantia says that Sunni was really excited about the wedding and was a part of the preparations from the beginning lsquoSunni knew exactly what was going on We talked about it all the time saying how much fun it will be He got to wear a special outfit and we make sure he knew he was a very special part of our day and that he had an important job to looking after mummyrsquos and daddyrsquos wedding ringsrsquo

Shantia says that it was very important to her that Sunni be part of their wedding lsquoI want him to remember this beautiful day as much as Mikal and I will He still lights up when he talks about mummy and daddyrsquos wedding He had a lot of fun with the

preparations and I can tell you that he was a lot more patient than his mummy

lsquoIt was so wonderful to have my dad their a blessing having my two other special men at because they are both so gentle and loving towards me and having both of them by my side forever makes me feel safe They both looked at me with so much love Thatrsquos what weddings are aboutrsquo

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She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 4 1

You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

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Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

3 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 4 1

You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

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Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

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mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

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(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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Carla Dalton CelebrationsAre you looking for a young and enthusiastic fully trained and professional marriage celebrant for your dream wedding on the Gold Coast

Carla Dalton can help She has performed hundreds of ceremonies for every kind of bride and groom you could imagine in breathtaking chapels beautiful gardens stunning private homes on mountain lookouts and the many fabulous beaches the Gold Coast has to offer

She will help you to create a personal and meaningful ceremony giving you as much or as little input as you desire Your ceremony is all about you and you deserve the best

ldquoThank you so much for helping to make our celebration so beautiful With your expertise knowledge and friendly calm guidance we were able to create a personal and uniquely special ceremony that wersquoll remember happily forever We so enjoyed getting to know you and having you share our day I would highly recommend you and you are fantastic at your craftrdquo

Colin amp Annie (December 2007)

Carla Dalton 0403 800 099Authorised Marriage Celebrantwwwcarladaltoncelebrationscomau

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

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The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

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WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

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helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

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Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

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Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

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The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

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Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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BENHUR HELWEND IS A MEMBER OF THE BLACKBIRDS A BAND WHO INSPIRED LOCAL AND INTERNATIONAL FANS FOLLOWING THEIR APPEARANCE AS SEMIFINALISTS ON THE TELEVISION SHOW AUSTRALIArsquoS GOT TALENT IN 2010 BEN ALSO INSPIRED LOVE IN A VERY SPECIAL MAN AND THE TWO BECAME ONE WHEN THEY WED IN FEBRUARY

All you need is

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E P BFA S C I N AT O R S

Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 7

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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Benhur met Adam when they were introduced by mutual friend Peter on the street in Byron And so began the rest of their lives lsquoIt was exactly a week before Valentines day in 2009rsquo says Adam lsquoBenhur was performing at Fresh cafeacute and we met outside Straight away sparks were flying We know it sounds clicheacuted but it really was love at first sight Wersquove been inseparable ever sincersquo

The couple had their first lsquoproper datersquo a week later on St Valentinersquos Day and just eight months later Ben set the ball rolling for a wedding lsquoIt was October 3 at the Bellingen Global Carnivalrsquo says Ben

lsquoThe Blackbirds had just finished playing a set at the Star Bar and I proposed to Adam on stage in front of over 200 people He said yesrsquo

Marriage wasnrsquot always in the plan for the boys but Adam found love and Ben needed appliances lsquoI never ever thought Irsquod get marriedrsquo says Adam lsquoBut when I met Benhur all that changedrsquo

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

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Holders - Candles - Vases

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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lsquoWhen you meet ldquothe onerdquo you just knowrsquo Ben likes to joke lsquoWe really needed a toaster and a rice cookerrsquo he laughs lsquoBut seriously I wanted to declare my love to Adam and do it in front of all my family and friends and welcome him into my familyrsquo And welcome they did The decision to wed was warmly received by their their loved ones lsquoOur friends and family were ecstatic about it Absolute acceptance Even the Mayor of Byron Bay congratulated usrsquo

The date was set ndash an easy choice as it was the anniversary of their first date and the traditional day of love St Valentinersquos Day

The couple chose the Kohinur Hall at Upper Main Arm in Northern New South Wales as the venue for their celebration Set in the lush subtropical rainforest it was the perfect backdrop for a lush love lsquoThe wedding was unconventional of coursersquo says Ben lsquoThe theme for our wedding was ldquoThe Definition of Loverdquo Our invitations were hand screenprinted on different fabrics all handmade by Adam and myself They outlined the dictionary definitions of what love isrsquo

lsquoWe wanted our celebration to be a love party not just a weddingrsquo says Adam lsquoWe got married beside a beautiful creek in the shade of the forest We had a fantastic ceremony by Marlena Basser prepared with the help of our cupid Peter Notley We both walked down the aisle with our best Wo-

men Benhur played ukulele and sang our song Nature Boyrsquo

lsquoBenhurrsquos parents are Indonesian so the couple had Benrsquos mum dress them in some of the traditional clothing we called ldquoselimutsrdquo which are hand dyed and hand woven from the Island of Savu off the south coast of Timor

After the ceremony Adam and Ben had a cabaret-style reception with wonderful performances by their talented friends lsquoBecause we love food our menu recreated the dishes that we cooked with each other on our first proper date together on Valentines day the year beforersquo says Ben lsquoThe tables were set around the theme of paper because we were getting married for our first anniversaryrsquo

Though same-sex marriage is not recognised legally in Australia the couplersquos union is accepted in many areas of their life lsquoOur marriage is openly accepted and recognised in the same way as any other marriage by Centrelink Adamrsquos employer our health insurer our parents our friends and our communityrsquo says Ben lsquoWe donrsquot really feel the need to have our relationship ldquolegallyrdquo recognised by the Commonwealth of Australia When we got married we stood in front of our friends family and community and asked them to recognise our marriage based on pure love We have that recognition from them and that is all that really matters to us Anyone who canrsquot

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

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Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Imagine your guests driving down the quiet country lane to this beautiful country estate

There are three pavilions built with an Australian Country theme connected and surrounded by expansive covered verandahs

The interiors create a relaxing and peaceful experience with an Asian fusion of furnishings and deacutecor

The beautifully landscaped gardens that surround this stunning property will allow you to set the scene for your Byron Hinterland wedding ceremony or reception

Whether your dream wedding is intimate or large casual or formal Asoho will provide a venue that will make sure your day will be one to remember

Come and enjoy the stunning Asoho and allow this beautiful property to be transformed into your dream wedding venue for a truly unforgettable day

ASOHOa space of her own

wedding amp bridal venue

02 6688 4202wwwasohoatfederalcomau

Asoho is a private and peaceful Hinterland Retreat 20 minutes from Byron Bay 10 minutes from Bangalow and 2 minutes to the Federal Village This venue is a perfect haven for a beautiful Hinterland wedding

accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

W wwwjordanphotographycomauE infojordanphotographycomauP 0409 710 433

to have amp to hold from

this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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Experience handcrafted culinary perfectionAward winning chefs40-2000 guestsFingerfood weddings all functionsFully licensed

With 25 years of experience we can work with you to create the perfect package at the perfect price

07 5580 23920401 644 935wwwredpearcateringcomau

Red Pear Catering

together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

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for the Bride and Groom

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It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

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chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

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To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

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We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

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WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

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accept that probably doesnrsquot really know what love isrsquo

Ben and Adam would like to see the laws changed They have contacted their local federal member and told them the story of their marriage and what it meant for their family and community and directly asked them to end all unfair discrimination against them lsquoOur wedding was a bit of a protest in itself because we refused to be told we couldnrsquot get married and went ahead and did it anyway Just because we didnrsquot sign a piece of paper doesnrsquot matter to us That is just a piece of paper love is immaterialrsquo

Both men work hard in their careers and both travel extensively so children are not part of the current plan lsquoWe donrsquot plan on having children at this stagersquo says Adam lsquoDuring our single years we both had offers from female friends wanting children but there is no bun in the oven just yet anyway Benhur is far too fussy about cleanliness An overturned box of toys could bring on a nervous breakdown But we are about to buy our first homersquo

In the immediate future there is work work work and the newlyweds are spending a fair bit of time apart Even though Ben travels a lot with the Blackbirds (he is currently on an Australian tour) it is Adam who travels more lsquoIrsquom an interior designer and itrsquos actually me who travels the most Irsquove

been working on a project and I have to go to Cairns almost every fortnight We really donrsquot like being apart and when we canrsquot be together we chat a lot on the phone and via Skype so we get to see each otherrsquo Though not a performing member of the band Adam is a big part of the Blackbirds he designed the logo hoodies and t-shirts as well as doing the stage design He is tour manager travel agent roadie mediator and of course the number one fan Ben says the best way to deal with groupies is to marry one He did and it worked out fine

The plan for the more distant future Benhur wants to be world famous and Adam wants to be a kept man

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

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My name is Roz Copley I am an authorised Civil Celebrant based on the Gold Coast

It would be my privilege and honour to be chosen for your ceremony I am committed to providing you with a ceremony that refl ects your personality and portrays your love and commitment to each other

I maintain a high standard of professionalism at the same time assuring you have a fun-fi lled memorable day I welcome the opportunity to discuss your special ceremony

Whether it be hellip A Wedding for soulmates A commitment with the person who means the world to you Welcoming the newest little member by Name in a formal introduction to family and friends or maybe itrsquos time to renew your vows and begin a new chapter in your LIFE story

Whatever your special celebration large or small ~ give me a call on 0414 638 936 or visit my website at wwwdoitforlovecomau I would love to hear from you

Cheers

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this day

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this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Holders - Candles - Vases

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

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meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

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Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

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Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

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Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

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with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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to have amp to hold from

this day

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

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We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

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to have amp to hold from

this day LIKE ANY NEW BRIDE MARIELLA HAD MANY HOPES DREAMS AND PLANS FOR THE NEW LIFE SHE STARTED WITH THE LOVE OF HER LIFE BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING WENT TERRIBLE WRONG BEFORE THE INK WAS DRY ON THE CHURCH REGISTER AND IT WASNrsquoT LONG BEFORE ALL HER WISHES CAME CRASHING DOWN

It was a fairytale wedding after a storybook romance They had met when they were 17 and fell instantly in love lsquoIt was a knowing for mersquo says Mariella who after many years still doesnrsquot understand exactly what went wrong

Seven years after they met he whisked her away to one of Australiarsquos most iconic and romantic locations where he popped the question She didnrsquot hesitate for even a split second before saying Yes lsquoFrom the moment we met until our wedding day I had the love and support of a wonderful boyfriend The time before we got married were the best years of my lifersquo

Together the happy couple saved for the big day that took place a year later The $45000 bought a lavish event for almost 400 guests ndash in the early 90s that kind of money went a long way Everything was

To have and to hold from this day forward

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W E D D I N G G I F T S

perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 5

5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 5 7

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

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Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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for playlist examples visit

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perfect right down the the six bridesmaids and groomsmen and the matching set of pageboys and -girls

The pair created their union in a large church were photographed in a picturesque parkland and afterwards celebrated with friends family and loved ones on an entire floor of a luxury hotel taking up six reception rooms and cutting a $700 cake that Mariella says you could walk into

The groom managed the entire event lsquoHe was an organised personrsquo says Mariella lsquoHe basically did everything I just had to worry about the dress and turning up on time Every detail was taken care of and the flowers were unbelievable He wasnrsquot stressed Part of why he wanted to do it all was to throw a major partyrsquo

Mariella says they were very much in love lsquoHe would do anything for me We put each other on a pedestal I knew I was getting married for the right reasons and I believed we would be together forever I knew we would stand by each other ndash we were a team and I was so comfortable with himrsquo

Mariella says she felt something was wrong from the moment they signed the register lsquoI knew something was not right but no-one would have thought this was going to happen I didnrsquot even see it coming I was totally shocked On the night after the wedding I thought he was just tired from all the preparations We didnrsquot have

a honeymoon because we couldnrsquot afford it after the wedding So after the weekend we went back to our normal lives ndash the only difference was that now we lived together Things were horribly wrong within two weeks By then he was already not coming home at night He wouldnrsquot go to family things he wasnrsquot a part of our couple any more He distanced himself from me from the moment we got married I think from the moment he signed the papers in the church something changedrsquo

The new bride felt the relationship of almost nine years began to deteriorate rapidly lsquoAfter one month it was clear the marriage was over ndash we were still together but he came home just to shower and change I wasnrsquot the type of person to snoop so I had no idea what was really going on He became very agitated and very into himself I was very upset It got to the point where I stopped eating and I smoked excessively I lost 20 kilos over the next six months He would stay out all night and only come home to change his clothes I nearly lost my job because I couldnrsquot function and my boss told me to take a month off I think my husband was trying to find himself ndash he even changed his style of dressrsquo

Mariella says that he wrote her letters none of which made any sense lsquoHe was confused Nothing that happened made sense On the day we married I loved him and I do truly believe that he loved me Maybe we met too young Maybe we should have lived

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Red Pear Catering

together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

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32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

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FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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for playlist examples visit

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together first but he wouldnrsquot for cultural reasons he didnrsquot want to upset his family

Mariella says that just a short six months after the wedding a friend of hers finally rang her husband and said enough was enough Mariellarsquos health had deteriorated and the friend told him that it was time he moved out permanently if nothing else to save Mariellarsquos sanity

The split sent a wave of shock through the couplersquos network of family and friends lsquoNobody could be believe it because he didnrsquot communicate with anyone He was behaving irrationally toward everyone He lost all of his friendsrsquo

He did try a reconciliation seven months later The couple went on a holiday together lsquoIt didnrsquot work I didnrsquot trust him and he was a very possessive and jealous If two people are not on the same page then resentment is going to seep inrsquo

The couple stayed apart and eventually divorced about eight years later

Mariella says that after a long time the couple were able to speak about it to a degree lsquoHe just says that he didnrsquot want to be married ldquoThis wasnrsquot what I needed to find myselfrdquo he said ldquoI am not in itrdquo He still to this day says he never cheated on me I would much rather be on my own than with someone who isnrsquot honest and who cannot commit Today he would still do anything for me but to me we are just distant friends I felt cheated We used all

our money on the wedding and afterwards I had nothing I could have done so much with all that moneyrsquo

Mariella is a brave woman She says she would definitely marry again lsquoIt hasnrsquot put me off marriage I would live with someone first If I had the same feelings as I had back then if I knew what I wanted no matter what we went through I would make it work

lsquoBack then I went to clairvoyants healers read books learned meditation and massage ndash cleansing and being around positive people Now if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the crap that I did when I was 17

Mariella is very generous in her attitude towards her ex which shows a strength and courage and compassion not found in many lsquoI donrsquot hate him ndash the glass is half full He was guilt ridden for a long time For years after he was so distraught for what he put me through but I told him to get over it Looking back it was probably the best thing that could have happened I would not have had the wonderful life I enjoy or met some of the amazing people I have if we had stayed togetherrsquo

ldquoNow if there is anything in my path that is remotely toxic I remove it I donrsquot fall for the

crap that I did when I was 17rdquo

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

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32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

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FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

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Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

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Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E P BFA S C I N AT O R S

Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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timeless memories

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All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

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Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

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Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

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Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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You will find that Christina is relaxed and personable with a genuine passion for capturing the magical elements in any situation Her excellent communication and perceptive nature enable her to explore the intricacies of her subjects capturing the subtleties of every moment with emotion and candour Your special day is a beautiful occasion and Christina is dedicated to making photographing it as fun and meaningful as the memories themselves

Christina Calathas is the choice of couples who demand both the ultimate in image quality and a fresh charismatic approach She will work with you to ensure that your wedding is documented in a uniquely creative style with humour and warmth

02 6685 8856 0402 720 374infochristinacalathascomauwwwchristinacalathascomau

Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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Fashion Parade

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E amp A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E P BFA S C I N AT O R S

Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

Ph 07 3892 1103 bull julialewismediacomauwwwlewismediacomau

H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

ldquoThere is no confusing what we dordquo

Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

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All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Contemporary elegance discreet luxury and ultimate comfort designed to be playful

seductive and utterly spellbinding

32 Lawson Street Byron Bay 02 6685 7733

THE LINGERIE DRAWER

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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Fashion Parade

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E amp A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

Ph 07 3892 1103 bull julialewismediacomauwwwlewismediacomau

H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

ldquoThere is no confusing what we dordquo

Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

ldquoSimply beautiful makeup and hairsimply great servicerdquoAmour Photography

Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

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Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E amp A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

6 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Fashion Parade

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E amp A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

Ph 07 3892 1103 bull julialewismediacomauwwwlewismediacomau

H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

ldquoThere is no confusing what we dordquo

Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

ldquoSimply beautiful makeup and hairsimply great servicerdquoAmour Photography

Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E amp A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E P BFA S C I N AT O R S

Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E amp A N N E L E O N D E S I G N S

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

HAIR STYLISTJazmine Coello bridal amp fashion hair amp makeup wwwjazminecoellocom

FASHION LINGERIE SHOES JEWELLERY AND FLOWERSAnne LeonHand-crafted plant dyed and screen printed wedding dresses bridesmaids and mother of bride outfits by Anne Leon Designswwwanneleoncom

Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

Lois Lane Shoes Banksia Dr Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7147

She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

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G O W N S O F E L E G A N C E T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R T H E L I N G E R I E D R A W E R

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

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Gowns of EleganceGowns and Bridemaids Dresses by Gowns of Elegance Bundall QLDwwwgownsofelegancecom

The Lingerie Drawer32 Lawson Street Byron Bay NSW 248102 6685 7733

Julie Casey MillineryHats amp Fascinators by Julie Casey Millinerywwwjuliecaseymillinerycomau

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

Passionate Flowers Byron Baywwwpassionateflowerscomau

Lavish Floral Designs Lismorewwwlavishfloraldesigncom

Ballina Bridal Expo April 3 - Ballina RSL

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E P BFA S C I N AT O R S

Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

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Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

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(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

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Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

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wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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AWE MODELSAnita Johnson Bec Smith Brighid Scanlon Elsa Frazier Grace Jeffery-Kingston Natasha Gooch Ruby Jeffery Shannyn Ricketts Shantia Jones

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She Shimmers JewelleryJewellery and Barefoot Sandals handmade by Leoni of She Shimmers Jewellerywwwsheshimmerscomau

Helen LunaJewellery handmade by Helen Luna Jewellerywwwhelenlunacomau

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

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byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

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of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Your wedding video needs a womanrsquos touch

A wedding is one of the most special events in a personrsquos life You can be sure that our experienced staff will fi lm the event without interrupti ng the wedding experience for anybody Most couples we have fi lmed menti on aft erwards that they did not even noti ce we were there The Lewis Media team has over 14 years of experience and use the latest video and audio equipment

We edit your wedding in a natural and modern style and we have a range of packages to suit all budgets DVDrsquos authored with chapters personalized ti tles and packaging highlight versions to email to friends amp family and sti ll photos from your video are all available Call to discuss your wedding video requirements or see our website for more informati on

Ph 07 3892 1103 bull julialewismediacomauwwwlewismediacomau

H A I R amp M A K E - U P5 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

ldquoThere is no confusing what we dordquo

Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

ldquoSimply beautiful makeup and hairsimply great servicerdquoAmour Photography

Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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WeddingMakeup Artists amp Hair Stylists

ldquoThere is no confusing what we dordquo

Request a quote and check availabilitywwwmakeup4bridescomauwwwhair4bridescomauPhone 1300 4 BRIDES 1300 4 27433

ldquoSimply beautiful makeup and hairsimply great servicerdquoAmour Photography

Professional makeup artists specialising in AIRBRUSH MAKEUP

Qualifi ed hairstylists experienced in BRIDAL UPSTYLES AND DESIGN

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

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Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

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Envy Photography

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All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Haven Spa and Bathhouse is ideal for small and medium size groups We have a relaxing fun amp rejuvenating hensrsquo packages that can be tailored specifi cally for you Enjoy a lovely time together in the bathhouse then go upstairs for treatments

Our 6 treatment rooms all can be opened up to each other so that your group can stay in contact during the treatments if you wish

5131 Minjungbal DriveTweed Heads South07 5513 0855

wwwhavenspacomau

It will be our pleasure to help organise your special occassion here at the Lismore Turf Clubrsquos Winning Post Function Centre With onsite catering and a very helpful team of professionals to help you with your decisions from the menu options to entertainment We also have decorations for hire The Lismore Turf Club is one of Lismorersquos premier function centres and boasts enough room for 200 seated guests

Located just 2km from the CBD but set in a semi-rural atmosphere with magnifi cent grounds and natural gardens the Winning Post Function Centre has been a leading function centre in the Lismore area for more than a decade

Let us help make your wedding reception a dream come true

Ph 02 6621 3176wwwlismoreturfclubcom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

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A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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5 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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IN OUR LAST EDITION OF AWE WE SPOKE TO BLUES MUSO ASH GRUNWALD AND HIS SONGBIRD FIANCEacuteE DANNI CARR ON THE EVE OF THEIR WEDDING WE FOLLOWED THE COUPLE ON THEIR BIG DAY FROM THE PRIVATE BOAT LAUNCH ON QUEENSLANDrsquoS MAINLAND TO THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ON SECLUDED SOUTH STRADBROKE ISLAND NATIONAL PARK

Danni Carr with her father and bridesmaids began the journey to her wedding on a luxury cruiser across the divide between the mainland and An Island Hideaway on South Stradbroke Island Ash and the rest of the bridal party with friends and family took a slow boat across to the island where a beautiful ceremony in the beachside chapel was the forerunner to a wonderful nightrsquos celebrations

Were you nervous in the days and weeks leading up to the wedding

Danni Yes I was really nervous leading up to the wedding but only nervous about how I was going to look in my dress because I hadnrsquot tried it on for months and started to get worried about how it was going to look

A Sunset Wedding for Danni amp Ash

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

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Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

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wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

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With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

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for playlist examples visit

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Ash A little bit No not really It was a pretty fun time We had friends and family arriving at our house and the closer it got to the wedding the more fun we were having I was wondering when I would get nervous but it didnrsquot happen It was just one long celebration

Where you nervous on the day

Danni No I wasnrsquot nervous at all on the day Well maybe a little but the champagne soon sorted that out

Ash I got a little nervous on the morning but during the day I relaxed and once we got to the ceremony there were no nerves at all

What were the highlights of the day for you

Danni So many highlights but mostly the boat ride over with my dad and my beautiful bridesmaids We sang and drank champagne I also really loved that after the ceremony we sat on the beach at sunset with the bridal party and just chatted and drank more champagne It was just really nice I wanted our photos to be more about us all sitting on the beach and having a few drinks rather than posed shots and it was just a really great time Then of course my amazingly talented bridal party and friends getting up jamming with the band that was awesome Another highlight was when our great friend Marisa Quigley sang a very

slow version of Time After Time when we signed the register That was just beautiful

Ash I loved the ceremony and the vows We wrote our own and put a lot of effort into them so it was really good saying them The speeches by our friends and family were really good as well Then we were all playing music together and Danni and I played together and danced together It was such a great celebration

Did everything go as planned

Danni Yes I think it did The day was really great I loved everything about it

As the reception began you and Ash sang together What was the sentiment behind that

Danni We sang a song by Kieren Kane called When Wersquore Gone Long Gone We stole from Kasey Chambers and Shane Nicholson They sang it at one of their shows and it made us both well up Itrsquos such a great song

How many guests were at your wedding

Danni We had initially planned for 50 guests but it blew out to around 70 I would have loved to have had more friends and family there but we didnrsquot have the budget for that many people

Where was the honeymoon

Danni We went up to Noosa for a few days We didnrsquot really want to go too far and be away from our little girl for too long We are

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

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Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 7 1

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

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Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTS ndash infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom 0413 111683

BYRON BAY WEDDINGS amp EVENTSE infobyronbayweddingsandeventscom W wwwbyronbayweddingsandeventscom T 0413 111 683

Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

Envy Photography

Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

ph 0422 592 284

elegant bull affordable bull memorable

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Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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always travelling so the thought of getting on a plane and going away wasnrsquot very appealing So we just headed to beautiful Noosa for a short trip away

Ash The fondest memory for me was

when we got a paddleboard I love to surf

and though Danni loves the ocean she

is not really a surfer So we got on this

paddleboard together and both stood up

It was kind of significant We have been

together 10 years and havenrsquot really surfed

together

I think it was symbolic that we did on our

honeymoon It was really special

29 Fletcher St Byron BayPh 02 6685 5209 email passionpassionatefl owerscomauwebsite wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

passionfl owers ndash because wersquore passionate about what we do as well as the medium we work with ndash stunning creations by Mother Nature

passionfl owers is a gorgeous boutique fl orist in the heart of Byron Bay

Let us assure that you will be impressed by the exotic and stylish work that is created at passionfl owers We love combining colours textures and unusual materials of only the most perfect quality Creating all things fl oral be it a stunning single stem a beautiful bouquet or a gorgeous arrangement for that special dinner party

The magic of Byron Bay and all that it offers attracts couples from far and wide We cater for all weddings large or small formal or casual Wersquore able to make everything from a simple bouquet to a full decorated reception Your wedding day is to be relished and enjoyed Be assured that we will work closely with you to make your day as beautiful as you imagined With your ideas and our experience we will work together to create a unique look for your wedding

To view more of our beautiful work go to wwwpassionatefl owerscomau

wedding fl owers are our speciality

byron bayrsquos beautiful fl orist

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

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0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

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Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

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Envy Photography

Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Byron BayEvents

Weddingsamp

All weddings are very special whether it is an intimate romantic dining experienceor an ultimate weekend of festivities with family and friends

We will create a Wedding for you that will be one to remember

Our service provides professional wedding planning creative co-ordinators or simply your own personal wedding assistant for the day of your event

For further information or a free consultation contact me on the details belowJane Magnus - Creative Director amp Wedding Planner

Creating Beautiful amp Stylish Events

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Getting married and creating a beautiful wedding should a wonderful journey All weddings are styled and designed together with you to create your most pErfect wedding Wether it is a romantic dining experience with ne wine and innovative cuisine or an ultmate weekend of celebrations with family and friends all of our weddings that are created are special and uniqueOur service provides professional wedding planning e cient coordination and creative design with a modern approach to assist you in your busy life We also provide a personal wedding assistant on the day who has been along this journey with you to ensure that everything runs smoothlyOur resources includestationary assistance and quotationsbudget assistancevenues ndash private properties hotels and restaurantsassistance with your guests information for the coming eventpersonal commitment to interesting resources that will suit your needscelebrant priest rabbi or other denominationstransport for bridal parties viprsquos and guests ne dining menus and personally designed menus by our caterers with beverages to matchentertainment for ceremonies and reception oral designpersonal wedding and event stylist hire of equipment and marqueespre and post wedding celebrations and venues

beautiful creations

timeless memories

a good snapshot stops a moment from running away

0422 159 828wwwphotography2envycom

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

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Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Go Frock YourselfMANDY NOLAN

GETS TO THE HEART OF THE MATTER WHEN SHE UNVEILS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHATrsquoS UNDER THE VEIL ndash JUST ABOUT ANY WOMAN CAN GO FROM ZERO TO FROCKZILLA IN THE SPACE OF TIME IT TAKES A GOWN-STORE SALESGIRL TO SAY lsquoWOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE THE TULLE OR THE TAFFETArsquo

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

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OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

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A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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Go Frock YourselfW hen it comes to getting married

itrsquos all about the frock Itrsquos not your fianceacute or your parents or

your budget which determine the style of wedding yoursquoll end up with itrsquos the frock

Every wedding starts and ends with the dress Every bride knows this From the minute that ring goes on the finger (engagement is rather like putting something on layby until you can afford to buy it) every girl is on the hunt for the dress of her dreams If the dress isnrsquot right then the whole wedding is completely doomed

The dress you pick will reflect your own personal style and for some a hidden alter ego Irsquove seen tiny girls who barely say Boo float down the aisle dressed like an atomic mushroom cloud Somewhere under all that tulle and beading is a woman Cheryl has been transformed ndash into Cheryl Noble A big

dress like that screams lsquoformalrsquo Irsquom talking big church followed by a reception centre Chairs dressed like Ku Klux Klan members and decorated with ribbons a three-tiered wedding cake A red-faced priest sinking the piss and hitting on the ringbearer The bridesmaids having sex in the toilets

You canrsquot wear one of those giant meringue numbers on the beach Not unless you want to combine your dramatic entrance and trawling for crabs with your 20-foot train And while wersquore on the subject whatrsquos with the train Who in their right mind would want to spend eight hours or more in a frock with an uneven hem Not just uneven but a health and safety risk It shits me when someone stands on the back of my thongs and I get double plugger burn If someone stands on your train you could break your neck And how do you even

Go Frock Yourself

Mandy Nolan

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H A I R amp M A K E - U P

professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

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Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

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your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

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THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

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fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

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Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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professionallydecoratedcakesDelivery to Gold Coast and Tweed Coast and Valley

Whether your style is contemporary traditional colourful or individual together we will create with your desire and my experience a centrepiece for your special occasion With over 25 years as a professional

cake decorator and tutor your cake selection experience with Dianne will be relaxing and stress-free

wwwdiannezipfcakescomau dipatzi_cakesbigpondcom

0414 916 342 07 5535 5342

Dianne will help you to design your cake with open discussion and complete willingness to cater for your every wish In partnership you will discuss with Dianne cake styles

presentation serving options colours fl avours and budgets All cakes are made from the fi nest quality ingredients and cater for all dietary needs

Contact Dianne Zipf for an obligation free appointment

begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

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elegant bull affordable bull memorable

wwwcovermyeventvpwebcomau

Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

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Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

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meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

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caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

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Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

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begin to go to the toilet like that Itrsquos gonna wreck the big day if you end up accidentally taking a wee on your frock

I have a theory that trains on wedding dresses were invented when a very pissed bride came back from the toilet with a tail comet (a giant piece of toilet paper hanging out of onersquos undies) Her bridesmaids were awesome in protecting her integrity and created a story that it was in fact not toilet paper but a bridal train Then the trend caught on

A simple dress means a simple wedding You want to wear a silk sarong and go shoeless then wersquore talking Fijian style on the beach You want to wear a crystal-studded corset and a hoop then yoursquore going to have to upgrade that backyard bash into something more regal

I often wonder what men are thinking when they see their bride coming towards them lsquoShit donrsquot laugh Donrsquot laugh Is that a bird on her head Donrsquot laughrsquo

We girls are aware that the walk in is the marital impact statement As soon as our skirts rustle and the organ cranks up everyone is straining to get a gander at your frock The excited whispers start lsquodoesnrsquot she look beautifulrsquo lsquoIsnrsquot she a dreamrsquo Honestly Irsquove been at weddings where Irsquove wanted to lean over and whisper lsquoI think she passed out in the blushrsquo lsquoIs that a frock or am I snow blindrsquo When I got married I chose an elegant but understated 1940s-style satin sheath with a plunging neckline I wore giant earrings and too much makeup When

I walked the aisle or in fact the makeshift rose-petal path to my betrothed I thought I heard people going lsquoshersquos a starrsquo In fact after seeing the photos I now know that they were saying lsquoWow she really needs a brarsquo If you are going to do low-cut make sure yoursquore under 25 otherwise itrsquos just a sad old sag-fest And thatrsquos just frocked up

Mandy Nolan is an artist writer comedienne and journalist for the Byron Shire Echo

Model ndash Trinity Rose Ward

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Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

ph 0422 592 284

elegant bull affordable bull memorable

wwwcovermyeventvpwebcomau

Cover my EventCover my Event

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BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 7 1

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 64: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Chair Covers amp Centrepieces Sashes - Glass bowls - Tealight

Holders - Candles - Vases

Northern Riversamp Gold Coast

ph 0422 592 284

elegant bull affordable bull memorable

wwwcovermyeventvpwebcomau

Cover my EventCover my Event

6 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 1

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Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 65: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

BYRON BEACH WEDDINGS

wwwbyronbeachweddingscomaumpegumbyronbeachweddingscomau phone 0411 823 958

Bliss on the

beachIf you dream of having a Byron Bay wedding let the team

of experienced professionals at Byron Beach Weddings

work with you to make your dreams come true

Byron Beach Weddings specialises in creating elegant weddings at memorable locations from classic barefoot beach celebrations followed by sunset cocktails - maybe on the deck of the Surf Club - to a lavish feast in the lush hinterland rainforests of Byron Bay or an elegant formal wedding dinner at your home BBW recently celebrated ten years as a leading wedding co-ordinator and caterer Its wealth of catering experience local knowledge and contacts enables BBW to create a seamless picture perfect event wherever your venue whatever your budget BBWrsquos dedicated team can tailor every aspect of your event to suit your individual requirements

BBW is able to arrange your ceremony venue hire styling menu planning catering entertainment fabulous flowers and photographers BBW is able also to organise the hire of all goods that you need staffing and beverage service We make it easy for you to reserve your date and then co-ordinate services that you require in one contract to take the stress out of your wedding day and allow you to relax and enjoy the happiest day of your life

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 1

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 7 1

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 66: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

wwwlisafordcomau

beautypassion

your wedding day

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 1

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 7 1

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

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ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

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wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 67: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Lismore amp District Wedding Cars

You will be conveyed to your special ceremony photo session and reception in style and luxury with an emphasis on personal service

Our three classic long wheel-base Jaguars offer extended leg room in the rear and provide luxury and comfort whilst creating a lasting impression dressed with traditional white satin ribbon and tulle

Please contact us to discuss your wedding day transport needs as you will be pleasantly surprised as to what we can offer at a very reasonable cost

Call Lismore amp District Wedding Cars on 02 6624 8209 or email cotter_chrisyahoocom

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

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A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 7 1

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

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Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 68: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

PERSONAL TRAINER VERITY JOHNSON SPENDS MUCH OF HER TIME PREPARING WOMEN AND MEN FOR THEIR WEDDING THERE ARE FEW WOMEN WHO ANSWER A WEDDING PROPOSAL WHO DONrsquoT VERY SOON AFTER IMAGINE HOW THEY CAN DROP A DRESS SIZE BEFORE THE BIG DAY

As an Exercise Physiologist and Personal Trainer I have encountered many people who want to improve their life by losing weight increasing muscle and decreasing body fat There are many women who seek my help for their weight-loss goals and some of these women are brides to be

Brides will generally have more motivation to stick to their weight loss and nutrition goals as the end result will be photographed and kept forever

Quite often the problematic parts that most brides are trying to fix are bums and thighs tuck-shop lady arms and the

Creating the body you want

to walk down the aisle with

somebody you

7 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Verity Johnson

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 1

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 7 1

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 69: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 1

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E 7 1

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 70: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Take time to come in relax in our bridal lounge amp discuss individual options with our passionate wedding designersAt Lavish we pride ourselves on our high standards and attention to detail We seek out the highest quality products and freshest ideas From a single flower to a designer bouquet every arrangement that leaves Lavish is a work of art

131 Keen St Lismore NSW 2480ph 02 6622 6430

wwwlavishfl oraldesigncom

Lavish Floral Design creates the full Bridal experience without the stress specialising in unique wedding fl owers to suit all styles and budgets

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 71: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

F I T N E S S

back fat and tummy area Their approach to work on these areas is similar to that of the general gym goer however their motivation will normally depend on the type of dress they want to fit into or where their honeymoon will be

Most of the time clients will seek my help within a respectable timeframe which is the most important start to any weight-loss or body-changing program If brides do not give themselves enough time to reach their goal they may become depressed that they donrsquot look as they thought they would or may become disheartened about exercise and then suggest that lsquoit doesnrsquot workrsquo Believe me if you give yourself enough time (with the right intensity and a controlled diet) to change your body shape or type it will work

If a bride is getting married in a month and wants to lose 10 kilos to fit into her dress I would be telling her to get a new dress Having a realistic timeframe of about 1kgndash2kg weight loss per week for sustained weight loss is a good aim as the body is more likely to keep it off

The type of exercise initially for any bride to have all-over body weight loss body fat loss and muscular tone is cardiovascular exercise on five to six days mixed with two to three days of strength training per week

Walking on most days is great for your body initially and also including more intense

cardiovascular exercise like jogging bike riding stair climbing hiking and swimming it is necessary for the body to keep making a cardiovascular and body-weight change

The inclusion of strength training is the key for target areas of the body such as the arms and back Weight training sessions should be performed two to four times per week as this gives the muscles enough time to recover rest and repair between training sessions If you are advised the right exercises and program of exercises your body is unlikely bulk up The more muscle the body has the better fat burner the body will be

The type of dress chosen by the bride can determine the type of exercise we may target more than others If a bride is wearing a strapless dress more of the shoulders and upper back and arms are showing so more core strengthening and upper-back exercises may be included compared with a bride that may not want to show much of this area

However unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reduction If you want to lose weight from a specific area only it will not work There needs to be a whole-body approach Having a whole-body approach where you target all areas in your workouts will give you greater benefits and better results

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 3

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 72: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Classical HarpistMargaret Curtis

As the most recent addition to the classical music genre here in the Northern Rivers my objective is to make your special occasion more memorable

lsquoMusic is so important in setting the mood It represents the whole approach to the momentrsquo

p 02 6687 2845 m 0425 274 903 e mecurtisbigpondcom

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 73: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Being a recent bride myself planning the days that I would exercise meant that I booked myself in for me it was my appointment time to get ready for the wedding I would focus on strength training three to four days a week and cardiovascular exercise on six days of the week Although my work means that I need to be fit and active and healthy for my clients anyway I focused on the type of exercise that challenges me more like chinups sprints and sand running and complemented that with my diet My wedding day was about feeling the best I could possibly be

Verity Johnson ndash BApp Sci (Hm Mvt) Grad Dip (ex-rehab) AEP ESSAM

Verity is an accredited Exercise Physiologist with the Australian Association of Exercise and Sports Science She is based in Geelong Victoria

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 7 5

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 74: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Absolutely Byron Bay CelebrantIrena Kirpichnikova

Weddings renewal of vows elopements theme and extreme ceremonies

Your ceremony is the most precious part of your day having a skilled celebrant is the difference between an event being mediocre or the most inspiring experience of your lifetime

Every couple have their own ideas as to a lsquoperfect dayrsquo together we will create your most unique ceremony and I will have just as much fun and pleasure creating and performing it as you will on the day

Please go to my website to see all my services and photographs of gorgeous and interesting weddings

wwwabsolutelybyronbaycelebrantcomirenaisbigpondcom ph 0404 093 919

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 75: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

The Wedding Site Of

Planning your wedding can prove to be a daunting task and making sure your guests are wellinformed of your plans in terms of the engagement party hensrsquo bucksrsquo amp wedding day venues is a feat in itself not to mention a costly exercise when you have to send out additional invitations

This is where I can help Having your very own personally designed wedding website will allow you to stay organised You can collect RSVP have a guest book share photos offer a direct link to your wedding gift registry and much more The Wedding Site Of is not a DIY service as I will build and manage the site for you ndash and all of this is competitively priced to fit in with your wedding budget

I have a number of site templates for you to choose from depending on your personalities and you will even get your own personal wedding blog diary to keep your guests updated with how your plans are going ndash it will take the seriousness out of your wedding organising and instead create a fun (and Irsquom sure amusing) way of staying in touch

0432 479 52202 6688 4202

wwwtheweddingsiteofcom

personally customised wedding websites

for the Bride and Groom

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 76: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Still getting over the last hen rsquos party you went to

It may be worth rethinking the next hen rsquos day you rsquore planning Why not give it a

beauty theme Paradiso can offer just that we have three pamper packages to

chose from

Basic Pamper Pack (approx 30mins per person)

Mini Manicure or Mini Pedicure ndash fi le buff and polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $85 per person

Paradiso Pamper Pack (approx 45mins per person)

Mini Manicure ndash File Buff and Polish

Mini Back massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders

Mini Pedicure ndash File Buff and Polish $120 per person

Luxury Pamper Pack (approx 75mins per person)

Manicure ndash File Exfoliant Hand and Arm Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Facial ndash Double Cleanse Tone Scrub Mask and Moisturise

Pedicure ndash File Exfoliant Foot and Leg Massage Buff Moisturise and Polish

Mini Back Massage ndash A heavenly massage to relieve muscular tension in the back

shoulders $185 per person

There is an additional charge of $15 for any French Polish

All prices are based on a minimum of 6 ladies

Please note that prices may be subject to change without notice

To enquire please call Paradiso Beauty Studio today on

02 6685 8005 or beautyparadisobeautycom

7 8 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 77: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

8 0 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 78: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

THERE WAS ONCE A TIME WHEN YOU DECIDED ON EITHER CHICKEN OR FISH OR CHICKEN AND BEEF WITH MANY MODERN DINERS HAVING SPECIAL DIETARY NEEDS NUTRITIONIST RACHEL JEFFERY TALKS ABOUT THE PITFALLS OF PLEASING EVERYONErsquoS TASTE HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE CHOICES AT YOUR WEDDING FEAST

You have set the date booked the church and found the most beautiful place to have the reception So what about feeding your guests You know there will be an older aunty who has diabetes Uncle Jack has just had more heart bypass surgery and now a couple of friends tell you they have food allergies How can you possibly feed all these people safely without one of them having to call for an ambulance during the evening

The first thing is to find out what your guests can and cannot eat The next thing is to speak with the catering staff as soon as possible to get the right menu to suit all the guests Itrsquos not that hard to plan a wonderful menu and still cater to everyonersquos needs Where you can incorporate the menu alternatives for guests requiring altered

Watching their diets

Rachel Jeffery

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 1

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 79: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

meals as one of the choices on the menu Then the people needing to choose these foodsmeals do not feel singled out

DIABETESPeople with diabetes need to watch their fat intake and ensure they are eating carbohydrate-based foods through the day while avoiding too much sugar All people with diabetes can still have small amounts of sugar in their diet But you should always check with the person to see what foods they avoid

Most entreacutees and main courses are fine for people with diabetes if they are based on vegetables salads fruit and lean meatfish The desserts are the most likely aspect of the menu that you need to consult your guests and the caterers about Speak with the caterers and see what they can do around alternatives for low-sugar desserts for example artificially sweetened chocolate mousse or lemon tart fruit-based desserts or a fruit and cheese platter with wholegrain breads or crackers

You do not need to buy special foods to cater for people who have diabetes As long as there are low-fat high-fibre choices on the menu which are fruit- and veggies-based you do not need to buy lsquospecial diabeticrsquo foods to cater for these guests

HEART DISEASE AND LOW-FAT DIETSThe food you organise for those people with diabetes should be also suitable for people avoiding fat and trying to control weight If it is suitable for someone with diabetes it is most likely suitable for someone with heart disease

ALLERGIES AND INTOLERANCESMore and more people are reporting allergies and intolerances every year Some are medically diagnosed while other people avoid foods as doing so just makes them feel better Again talk to your guests about the foods they need to avoid or need removed from their diets and get the

8 2 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 80: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

D I E T

caterers on board early to create alternatives as part of the menu

Food allergies such as peanut egg wheat and milk can be quite dangerous for some people If you know that someone has a medically diagnosed allergy it is probably best that you have those foods completely removed from the menu This will avoid any cross-contamination between meals and an accidental interaction

For those people who have an intolerance to a food they normally can come into contact with the food without any real harm as long as they do not eat significant amounts These are often people with

lactose (milk sugar) intolerances Because of the varying degree of lactose intolerance some people with it can still have small amounts of milk and yoghurt and moderate cheese serves while those with gluten (found in wheat rye barley triticale and oats) intolerance may need to avoid eating those foods altogether

The main things to remember are to talk to your guests about their food requirements and consult your caterer early to include as many options as possible in the menu so everyone can enjoy the special occasion

Rachel Jeffery ndash BSc (Nut) MND Rachel is an Accredited Practicing Dietician

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 3

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 81: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

fotographyfor small occasionswwwtreefaeriefotoscom

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 82: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Wersquore different because yoursquore unique

At Savoir Fare Catering we can meet the needs of any function big or small traditional or contemporaryFrom cocktail party to buffet to spit roast to sit-down lunch or dinner Savoir Fare Catering can tailor a menu that will help you to realise your wildest dreams We have menus to suit whatever you want your function to be and say

We do not charge more for Weddings ndash why should you pay more

We pride ourselves on offering the same excellent quality and attention to detail for every function Why would we charge you more for the privilege of being part of your special day

We can cater for groups of 50 to 500 on boats islands parks gardens beaches backyards halls and under marquees

The quality of the food will be remembered by your guests long after the special day

We offer flexibility variety and exceptional quality We continually hear people say ldquothat is the best food I have eaten at a Wedding everrdquo

If you want peace of mind that the main part of your reception will be of the highest quality and standard possible then Savoir Fare Catering is your only choice of Caterer

Le Ping is an award winning fully trained Chef working out of a commercial kitchen We are passionate about providing food that is 5 star restaurant quality

You and your guests deserve the best

At Savoir Fare Catering your choice is limited only to your imagination We understand that your function and your day should be unique and encourage you to build the menus to suit your individual ideas and theme

We look forward to being part of your functionPlease call Simone on 0439 937 449 or browse our website with menus and prices

http wwwsavoirfarecomau

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 83: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

A ccording to The Larderrsquos Jeremy Docherty only a very small percentage of the

wedding cakes his Byron Bay-based catering company makes is fruit cake As for the marzipan icing he cannot even remember when someone last asked for it

Styles of wedding cakes have made a staggering evolution throughout history It all began with the ancient Greeks Romans and Egyptians who would bake a bread-like cake shaped as a bird or grain then break it over the head of the bride as a symbol of her fertility and good fortune Guests would then scramble for pieces of the cake in the hope of securing some of that good luck for themselves During Anglo-Saxon times sugar was added to the traditional loaf transforming it into more of a sweet bun

Guests would arrive at the wedding bearing these little cakes piled on on top of each other and if the bride and groom managed to kiss one another over the teetering tower without knocking it down it ensured a lifetime of prosperity

Then in the 1660s a French chef on a visit to London observed these unstable creations and set about improving on them by devising the notion of an iced multi-tiered cake by the end of the century British bakers had embraced the idea

With the Renaissance cakes became extravagant absurdities often palaces iced with white sugar to symbolise purity and complete with tiny figures of the married couple White was also used to signify wealth as only the most refined and very expensive white sugar was required

The Wedding Cake

8 6 A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1

Victoria Cosford

P B A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 84: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 7

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 85: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

ZAKAYGLASS CREATIONSgallery and studio

unique giftshandcrafted inByron Bay

Stunning sculptures by glass artist Asaf ZakayBeautiful gifts that will be cherished foreverEach design is based on sacred geometricsymbols that bring peace and harmony

Gallery open Mon to Fri 10amndash5pm 6102 Centennial Cct Byron Bay Arts and Industry Park NSWwwwzakayglasscreationscom samayazakayglasscreationscom +61 2 6685 6255 0414 596 326

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 86: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Tradition dictated that the top tier be either reserved for the first anniversary or kept for the baby as time wore on and the cakes were allowed to be composed of other flavourings and batters that top tier was still stubbornly retained as a fruit cake layer at least by the staunch traditionalists

In a sense fashion has come full circle according to Jeremy towers are back Except that now these wedding cake towers may be composed of a combination of different sweetmeats to visually stunning effect People are now requesting that the cake be composed of a giant selection of pastries and cakes mini berry tartlets mini tiramisus served in shot glasses lsquoLots of things are put on towers these daysrsquo he said However the biggest movement he has noticed is that most people want to serve the cake as a dessert ndash and forget about reserving that first tier for the baby or the first anniversary lsquoThere are now a lot more desserty-type flavours like tiramisus and moussesrsquo Jeremy said lsquoTherersquos still a strong demand for cupcakes and individual cakes miniature versions of large highly decorated cakes finished off with shards of chocolate and individually decoratedrsquo

According to Charlotte Wild of Brunswick Heads-based Let Them Eat Cake however lsquowhile cupcakes were huge for the last few years theyrsquore old-hat nowrsquo She said that people were not ordering them as much opting instead for mini chocolate towers ndash cake encased in ganache lsquoTheyrsquore very

popularrsquo she said lsquobecause theyrsquore very good to serve as dessert servingsrsquo She finds that the trend is a lot simpler these days lsquoPeople have much less money ndash theyrsquore on more of a budgetrsquo Charlotte does a lot of weddings at Byron Beach Cafe and the Italian at the Pacific at the Beach Hotel so many of her cakes are suitably beach themed

Jeremy said that chocolate remains predominant in most peoplersquos choices lsquoIf yoursquore feeding large numbersrsquo he said lsquothatrsquos how to keep people happyrsquo

Cake designers and caterers recommend at least 12ndash16 weeksrsquo notice prior to the wedding This is enough time for them to create a masterpiece frankly outrageous to deconstruct ndash but this is your day so of course you may

Victoria Cosford is an author journalist and food writer for The Byron Shire Ech0

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 8 9

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 87: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

wed d i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing sw edd i n g s f u n e r a l s n am ing s

Des Kelly is a Civil Marriage Celebrant (CMC) and Justice of the Peace (JP) located in Lismore NSW Apart from conducting marriage ceremonies he also conducts renewal of vows commitment ceremonies baby naming ceremonies and funeral services in Byron Bay Ballina Lismore and throughout the Northern Rivers and Gold Coast Australia

Desrsquo integrity honesty sincerity and compassion are the key points to his success as a Marriage Celebrant and one can be assured that his attention to detail his passion for family life and his professionalism will draw you to him and make you appreciate any service he performs for you

Thank you Des for your major role in our wedding ceremony Your experience valuable suggestions and understanding made our marriage ceremony an unforgettable occasion not only for Kristie and me but also for our family and friends We are so pleased you were available and hope you will be involved in our future special occasion ceremonies

Luke and Kristie 02 6624 4053041 007 6868

wwwmarriage-celebrant-des-kellycomau

WEDDINGS FUNERALS NAMINGS COMMITMENT CEREMONIES AND VOW RENEWALS

DES KELLYMARRIAGE CELEBRANT

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 88: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

wwwhelenlunacomauhelenhelenlunacomau

mb 0409 152 885t 02 6680 4624

meet Helen on Fridays at Hammer amp Hand

Jewellery amp Metal Collective

14 Ti Tree PlaceArts amp Industry Estate Byron Bay

(open 7 days 10am-4pm)

helen lunajewellery designer metalsmith artist

A U S T R A L I A N W E D D I N G E - M A G A Z I N E A P R I L 2 0 1 1 9 1

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 89: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Spend your special day on top of the world

Congratulations on your engagement and thank you for considering Penny Ridge as a location for your special celebration

Our stunning retreat really is a lsquoslice of heavenrsquo and we would be honoured to share with you and your guests

Penny Ridge has been designed with lifestyle and relaxation in mind Our beautiful sanctuary is set on 100 pristine acres

only 12 minutes drive to Coolangatta beaches and Gold Coast International Airport It is situated 850 feet above sea level

boasting breathtaking 360 degree views to the Pacific Ocean from the sands of Stradbroke Island to Hastings Point on the

Tweed Coast

Penny Ridge is home to an an array of native wildlife happily nestled among vineyards and olive groves Therersquos also a

tempting selection of coffee macadamia and citrus orchards throughout the resor t The unique atmosphere is topped off

with an extensive variety of facilities for your guests inclusive of

bull 100 seat restaurant with endless views across the panorama to the Pacific Ocean

bull Six luxurious bungalows secluded amongst the vineyards and orchards

bull 18 hole golf course

Penny Ridge is the perfect venue for your wedding and celebrations where privacy and enjoyment are your paramount

considerations Our staff and surroundings and will ensure your special day is one to remember

Please contact us to arrange an inspection of our stunning retreat

Kind Regards

Scott Wharton

07 5590 9033

scottpennyridgecomau

wwwpennyridgecomau

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 90: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Catering amp Event Management

Stylish bull Succulent bull Simply Good

infoopentablenetau bull wwwopentablenetau bull 02 - 66 843 013 bull 0414 878 290

OPEN TABLE Catering amp Event Management has extensive experience to orchestrate the perfect wedding for you in a sublime setting

Should you wish for an exotic unusual or elegant wedding contact us to discuss your needs

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 91: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom

Page 92: AWE - Australian Wedding E-magazine - April 2011

Creatively capturing the essence of Love and Natural Beauty

wwwjacquijuddcom | ph0438 226 881

A vinyl collector of many styles of music from jazz blues amp rock from 1950s amp 1960s

soul funk Brazilian Latin reggae disco 80s classics amp the best modern acts

DJ Assemblage can set the tone for your wedding whether itrsquos some atmospheric relaxed

music while you sip champagne amp dine or something more up beat to create a rocking dance floor

With over 10 yearsrsquo DJing experience at many venues amp events nationally I can provide the perfect mix of music for your special occasion

Jasmine - 0414622440

for playlist examples visit

wwwdjassemblageweeblycom