Attitude Quotations

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Attitude Quotations Abraham Lincoln : Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than anyother one thing.

Carl Rogers :If we value independence, if we are disturbed by the growing conformity ofknowledge, of values, of attitudes, which our present system induces, then we maywish to set up conditions of learning which make for uni ueness, for self!direction,and for self!initiated learning.

Colleen C. "arrett :#ork is either fun or drudgery. It depends on your attitude. I like fun.

Confucius :

$o put the world right in order, we must first put the nation in order% to put the nationin order, we must first put the family in order% to put the family in order, we must firstcultivate our personal life% we must first set our hearts right.

&emosthenes :'mall opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises.

&emosthenes :(othing is easier than self!deceit. )or what each man wishes, that he also believesto be true.

*cclesiastes :)or everything there is a season,

And a time for every matter under heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die% A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted% A time to kill, and a time to heal% A time to break down, and a time to build up% A time to weep, and a time to laugh% A time to mourn, and a time to dance% A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together% A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing% A time to seek, and a time to lose% A time to keep, and a time to throw away% A time to tear, and a time to sew% A time to keep silence, and a time to speak% A time to love, and a time to hate, A time for war, and a time for peace.*cclesiastes +: !-

*dwin . )riedman :$he colossal misunderstanding of our time is the assumption that insight will workwith people who are unmotivated to change. Communication does not depend onsynta/, or elo uence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional conte/t in whichthe message is being heard. 0eople can only hear you when they are moving toward
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you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them. *ven the choiceswords lose their power when they are used to overpower. Attitudes are the realfigures of speech.

*lla #illiams :

"ite off more than you can chew, then chew it.

*ric offer :$he remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbor as ourselves: we do untoothers as we do unto ourselves. #e hate others when we hate ourselves. #e aretolerant toward others when we tolerate ourselves. #e forgive others when weforgive ourselves. #e are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready to sacrificeourselves.

)rank Lloyd #right :$he thing always happens that you really believe in% and the belief in a thing makes ithappen.

elen 1eller :#hen one door of happiness closes, another opens% but often we look so long at theclosed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.

enry )ord :If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can2t, you2re right. also attributedto Mary Kay Ash

3ames A. )roude :4ou cannot dream yourself into a character% you must hammer and forge yourselfone.

5. 'cott 0eck :$he truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feelingdeeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. )or it is only in such moments,propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and startsearching for different ways or truer answers.

5arcus Aurelius :

If you are distressed by anything e/ternal, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but toyour estimate of it% and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.

5arian #right *delman :(o one, *leanor Roosevelt said, can make you feel inferior without your consent.(ever give it.

5arian #right *delman :4ou really can change the world if you care enough.

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And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission todo the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberatesothers.

5artha #ashington :

$he greatest part of our happiness depends on our dispositions, not ourcircumstances.

5aya Lin :$o fly, we have to have resistance.

5ichael 1orda :$o succeed, we must first believe that we can.

Ralph #aldo *merson :$here is no beautifier of comple/ion, or form, or behavior, like the wish to scatter 6oyand not pain around us. 2$is good to give a stranger a meal, or a night2s lodging. 2$isbetter to be hospitable to his good meaning and thought, and give courage to acompanion. #e must be as courteous to a man as we are to a picture, which we arewilling to give the advantage of a good light.

Ralph #aldo *merson :Life is a train of moods like a string of beads% and as we pass through them theyprove to be many colored lenses, which paint the world their own hue, and eachshows us only what lies in its own focus.

Ralph #aldo *merson :'o is cheerfulness, or a good temper, the more it is spent, the more remains.

Richard "ach :'ooner or later, those who win are those who think they can.

'pino7a :0eace is not the absence of war% it is a virtue% a state of mind% a disposition forbenevolence% confidence% and 6ustice.

'usan 3. "issonette :

An optimist is the human personification of spring.

$homas Alva *dison :8pportunity is missed by most because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.

$homas 3efferson :I2m a great believer in luck and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it.

9ictor )rankl :*verything can be taken from a man but ... the last of the human freedoms ! tochoose one2s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one2s own way.

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#e who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked throughthe huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. $hey may havebeen few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken froma man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms !! to choose one2s attitude inany given set of circumstances, to choose one2s own way.

#illiam 3ames :$he greatest discovery of any generation is that a human being can alter his life byaltering his attitude.

#illiam 3ames :$he greatest discovery of our generation is that human beings can alter their lives byaltering their attitudes of mind. As you think, so shall you be.

The Top 200 Secrets of Success and thePillars of Self-Mastery

By Robin S. Sharma (Author of The Mon! "ho Sold #is $errari %

Sleep less. This is one of the best in&estments you can ma!e to ma!e your life moreproducti&e and re'ardin . Most people do not need more than ) hours to maintain ane*cellent state of health. Try ettin up one hour earlier for 2+ days and it 'ill

de&elop into a po'erful habit. Remember, it is the uality not the uantity of sleepthat is important. And ust ima ine ha&in an e*tra /0 hours a month to spend on thethin s that are important to you.

Set aside one hour e&ery mornin for personal de&elopment matters. Meditate, &isuali eyour day, read inspirational te*ts to set the tone of your day, listen to moti&ationaltapes or read reat literature. Ta!e this uiet period to &itali e and ener i e yourspirit for the producti&e day ahead. "atch the sun rise once a 'ee! or be 'ith nature.Startin the day off 'ell is a po'erful strate y for self-rene'al and personaleffecti&eness.

1o not allo' those thin s that matter the most in your life be at the mercy of acti&itiesthat matter the least. &ery day, ta!e the time to as! yourself the uestion is this thebest use of my time and ener y3 Time mana ement is life mana ement so uardyour time 'ith reat care.

4se the rubber band method to condition your mind to focus solely on the most positi&eelements in your life. Place a rubber band around your 'rist. ach time a ne ati&e,ener y sappin thou ht enters your mind, snap the rubber band. Throu h the po'erof conditionin , your mind 'ill associate pain 'ith ne ati&e thin!in and you 'illsoon possess a stron ly positi&e mind set.

Al'ays ans'er the phone 'ith enthusiasm in your &oice and sho' your appreciation forthe caller. 5ood phone manners are essential. To con&ey authority on the line, standup. This 'ill instill further confidence in your &oice.

Throu hout the day 'e all et inspiration and e*cellent ideas. 6eep a set of cards (thesi e of business cards7 a&ailable at most stationary stores% in your 'allet alon 'ith apencil to ot do'n these insi hts. "hen you et home, put the ideas in a central placesuch as a coil notepad and re&ie' them from time to time. As noted by 8li&er "endell
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#olmes9 Man:s mind, once stretched by a ne' idea, ne&er re ains its ori inaldimensions.

Set aside e&ery Sunday e&enin for yourself and be stron ly disciplined 'ith this habit.4se this period to plan your 'ee!, &isuali e your encounters and 'hat you 'ant toachie&e, to read ne' materials and inspirational boo!s, to listen to soft soothin musicand to simply rela*. This habit 'ill ser&e as your anchor to !eep you focused,moti&ated and effecti&e throu hout the comin 'ee!.

Al'ays remember the !ey principle that the uality of your life is the uality of yourcommunication. This means the 'ay you communicate 'ith others and, moreimportantly, the 'ay you communicate 'ith yourself. "hat you focus on is 'hat you

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"hen you are hun ry, 'ait another hour before your meal. "hen you are labourino&er a difficult tas! and your mind is promptin you to pic! up the latest ma a inefor a brea! or to et up and o tal! to a friend, curb the impulse. Soon you 'ill beable to sit for hours in a precisely concentrated state.

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hours aside to 'rite do'n fi&e or ten principles 'hich 'ill o&ern your life and 'hich'ill !eep you focused at all times. *amples mi ht be to consistently ser&e others, tobe a considerate citi en, to become hi hly 'ealthy or to ser&e as a po'erful leader."hate&er the mission statement of your life, refine it and re&ie' it re ularly. Then'hen somethin ad&erse happens or someone tries to pull you off course, you uic!lyand precisely return to your chosen path 'ith the full !no'led e that you are mo&inin the direction that you ha&e selected.


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of erasin the 'orry habit, stayin in optimum state and de&elopin precision ofthou ht.

Stress is simply a response 'hich you create in the interpretation of an e&ent. T'opeople mi ht find that a i&en e&ent results in uite different responses. $or e*ample,an after dinner speech mi ht stri!e fear into the heart of an ine*perienced spea!er'hile a stron orator &ie's it as a 'onderful opportunity to share his thou hts.4nderstandin that the percei&ed ne ati&e effects of an e&ent or tas! may be mentallymanipulated and conditioned to'ards the positi&e, 'ill allo' you to be a pea!performer in all instances.

Read The Se&en #abits of #i hly ffecti&e People by Stephen Fo&ey. ;t contains a'ealth of 'isdom and po'erful insi hts into further de&elopin your character andenhancin your personal relationships.

Become a committed audio-tape user. Most personal-mastery pro rams and boo!s areno' offered in this format. =isten to these inspirational materials on your 'ay to'or!, 'hilst 'aitin in the line at a ban! or 'hile you 'ash dishes in the e&enin .Ma!e your car a colle e on 'heels and use the dri&e time to ma!e !no'led e yourbest friend. All do'n time can be &ery effecti&ely used in this producti&e fashion. 4se

such opportunities to learn and continually e*pand your mind and its &ast potential. Try fastin one day e&ery t'o 'ee!s. 1urin these fast days, drin! fruit uice and eat

fresh fruits only. @ou 'ill feel more ener etic, cleansed and alert. $astin also has asalutary effect on your 'ill-po'er as you are sub&ertin the other'ise pressinimpulses in your mind callin on you to eat more.

6eep a radio-cassette player at your office and listen to soft, soothin music throu houtthe day. Place pleasant scents and inspirational pictures in your 'or!place. By thema ic of association, your 'or! 'ill become somethin you en oy e&en more andarouse a &ery pleasant feelin 'ithin you. Bud et your time on trips such that you canspend half an hour in the airport boo!store. They al'ays contain the latest and bestself-mastery boo!s and tapes i&en that those 'ho tra&el by air are of a roup thatfinds &alue in these materials.

Read As a Man Thin!eth by Iames Allen. And don:t ust read this little boo! once,read it o&er and o&er a ain. ;t contains an abundance of timeless 'isdom on li&in afuller and happier life.

Remember that for i&eness is a &irtue that fe' de&elop, but one that is most importantto maintainin peace of mind. Mar! T'ain 'rote that for i&eness is the fra rance the&iolet sheds on the heel that has crushed it. Practice for i&eness especially in thosesituations 'here it is seemin ly difficult. By usin your emotional for i&eness musclesmore re ularly, petty 'ron s, remar!s and sli hts 'ill not touch you and nothin 'illpenetrate your concentrated, serene mindset.

mpty your cup. A full cup cannot accept anythin more. Similarly, a person 'hobelie&es that he cannot learn anythin else 'ill sta nate uic!ly and not mo&e to

hi her le&els. A true si n of a secure, mature indi&idual is someone 'ho sees e&eryopportunity as a chance to learn. &en the teachers ha&e teachers. The T'o Minute Mind is an e*cellent e*ercise for de&elopin concentration. Simply

stare at the second hand on your 'rist'atch for t'o minutes and thin! about nothinelse for that time. At first your mind 'ill 'ander but after 2+ days of practice, yourattention 'ill not 'a&er durin the routine. 8ne of the reatest ualities a person cande&elop to ensure his success is the ability to focus for e*tended periods of time. =earnto build up your concentration muscles and no tas! 'ill be too difficult for you.

1rin! a cup of 'arm 'ater before a speech. Ronald Rea an employed this strate y toensure that he maintained his honey-smooth &oice. Mastery of the art of publicspea!in is a noble oal. So dedicate yourself to it. @ou 'ill be ud ed by the calibreof your communication s!ills.

"hen you stand and meet someone, stand firm and steadfast. A tellin si n of anunfocused, 'ea! mind is constant fid etin , shiftin of the eyes and shallo'
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breathin . Act tou h and you 'ill be tou h. #a&e coura e and inspire others 'ithyour actions. But al'ays be considerate.

As! not 'hat this 'orld can do for you but, rather, 'hat you can do for this 'orld.Ma!e ser&ice an important oal in your life. ;t is a most fulfillin in&estment of time.

Remember, in the t'ili ht of your life, 'hen all is said and done, the uality of your life

boils do'n to the uality of your contribution to others. =ea&e a rich le acy for thosearound you to sa&our. 8nce a 'ee!, arise at da'n. ;t is a ma ical time of day. Be still, o for a 'al! or simply

listen to an old lla $it erald recordin . Ta!e a lon , hot sho'er and do +00pushups. Read one of the classics. @ou 'ill feel ali&e and in&i orated.

Remain sli htly aloof. 1o not let e&eryone !no' e&erythin about you. Fulti&ate amysti ue.

Master the art of public spea!in . There are fe' natural spea!ers. 8ne reat trialla'yer stammered dreadfully but throu h coura e and stren th of con&iction, hede&eloped into a brilliant orator. Role model anyone you thin! is a hi hly effecti&e,influential communicator. Hisuali e a picture of this person. Stand li!e him, smile li!ehim, and tal! li!e him. The results 'ill startle you.

See! out moti&ational spea!ers committed to character trainin and lifelon success.Ma!e it a point to attend inspirational lectures each month to consistently rene' theimportance of personal ro'th in your mind. ;n a t'o hour seminar, you can learnpo'erful techni ues and strate ies that others ha&e spent many years learnin andrefinin .


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#e carefully culti&ated his ima e of a fol!sy, considerate politician 'ho !ept theinterests of the 4nited States first and foremost in his mind. At atherin s of 'orldleaders, he commanded attention and respect in his dar! suits, surrounded by thetrappin s of po'er such as political aides, security officers and a con&oy oflimousines. As soon as he appeared, thou hts of authority and po'er came to ourminds. 1id you e&er see the President 'ith his shirt off s'immin at his pool3 #o'about in his dressin o'n after 'a!in up after one of his lon sleeps, hair tousledand beard ro'n3 Rea an:s handlers ne&er allo'ed such limpses because theydetract from the perception of authority. The American nation 'as not e*posed tothese si hts. ;n the Flinton ra thin s chan ed and you sa' the President eatin BiMacs and 'earin baseball caps 'ith a full business suit. "hilst these scenes may beendearin to the public, there is little doubt that President Flinton 'as more familiarto us, merely another one of us and, unli!e the stars abo&e, much closer to the round.

=earn to or ani e your time. ;t is incorrect to say that by becomin a meticulous timemana er and li&in by a carefully defined schedule you become ri id andnonspontaneous. Rather, proper or ani ation allo's one to accomplish those oals'hich are truly important as 'ell as en oy leisure time. 5ood time mana ement offers

more time for fun and rela*ation - not less. These important periods are scheduledinto the 'ee! ust li!e other commitments 'hich may appear more pressin .


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1e&elop the 'onderful habit of a daily s'im. ;t 'ill promote e*cellent health, !eep yourela*ed and concentrated, lean and trim. S'immin is not stressful on the body,pro&ides a reat 'or!out for the lun s and re uires little time to do effecti&ely.Remember that in a fit body resides a fit mind.

People 'ho are doin ood today are ensurin their happiness for tomorro'.

The !ey to successful time mana ement is doin 'hat you planned to do 'hen youplanned to do it. 6eep your mind fully on the tas! at hand. 8nly then 'ill you achie&eall your oals and ha&e time for the thin s that matter most. Althou h it is imperati&eto be fle*ible (a bo' too ti htly strun 'ill soon brea!%, follo'in your plannedschedule re uires no more than simple discipline.

An e*cellent &isuali ation techni ue9 if you are 'orryin about somethin , picture the'ords of your 'orry on a piece of paper.


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clean and 'itty o!es and et in the habit of sociali in . @ou 'ill ha&e fun and build alastin net'or! of friends and associates.

8n the sub ect of con&ersation, a Fhinese pro&erb states as follo's9 a sin lecon&ersation across the table 'ith a 'ise man is 'orth a month:s study of boo!s.See! out the 'ise and learn from them. They are ust 'aitin for that small spar! ofinterest to tell you all that you need to !no'.

=ao-T u pri ed three essential ualities for a person of reatness9 the first isentleness7 the second is fru ality7 the third is humility, 'hich !eeps me from puttin

myself before others. Be entle and you can be bold7 be fru al and you can be liberal7a&oid puttin yourself before others and you can become a leader amon men.

"hen you cannot ma!e up your mind 'hich of t'o e&enly balanced courses of actionyou should ta!e - choose the bolder, said ". I. Slim. There is no substitute forcoura e and thou h the chance of stubbin your toe increases the more you 'al!, it isal'ays better than oin no'here by standin still. Ta!e chances, ta!e smart ris!sand you 'ill meet 'ith success beyond your dreams.

Become your spouse:s number one supporter, the one 'ho is al'ays there supportinand fuelin hopes and dreams. 1e&elop to ether and march confidently throu h the

'orld as an army of t'o. Thin! of three people 'ho can pro&ide you 'ith inspiration, moti&ation and support for

your oals and aspirations. Plan to meet 'ith each one of them o&er the ne*t fe''ee!s. =isten enthusiastically to them and brainstorm 'ith them. Map out a strate yand ta!e their 'ise counsel.

Ma!e e&ery one of your days a true masterpiece. Remember the old sayin 9 it:s not'ho you thin! you are that holds you bac! but 'hat you thin! you:re not.

Iust as &aluable ener y is 'asted by spendin time on acti&ities that are of no &alue,ener y can be 'asted on loose thin!in . ;ma ine that your mind has an ener ymeasure of +000 'atts at its disposal. ach time your mind 'anders off the pro ect athand, to a na in 'orry, to all the thin s to do by the end of the day, +00 'atts islost. uite soon the entire ener y supply is one.

This is the nature of the mind. $ail to discipline it and your ener y le&els 'ill bedepleted and your accomplishments 'ill be minimal. Fontrol it and you 'ill see reatthin s happenin . @ou 'ill feel more po'erful and achie&e difficult tas!s 'ith ease.The +Kth century philosopher #enri $rederic Amiel summed it up nicely9 forpurposes of action, nothin is more useful than narro'ness of thou ht combined 'ithener y of 'ill.

;t has been ri htly said that you so' an action, you reap a habit. @ou so' a habit, youreap a character. @ou so' a character, you reap a destiny. The essence of a person ishis character - ma!e yours uni ue, unblemished and stron . 1o not say you 'ill doanythin unless you 'ill indeed do it. Spea! the truth and measure your 'ords 'isely.Be humble, strai htfor'ard and peaceful.

Remember the o&erridin la' of nature9 positi&e o&ercomes the ne ati&e. A contented mind is a continual feast. 5reed and material desires must be curbed toachie&e lastin happiness and serenity. Be happy 'ith 'hat you ha&e. 1o you reallyneed all of those material possessions3 8ne can de&elop contentment ust as onede&elops patience, coura e and concentration - 'ith daily practice and sincere desire.

Ma!e a ne' friend or ac uaintance e&ery day. 6eep an updated list of all contacts closeat hand. Rich relationships are the 1


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Extract of Mr. Narayana Murthy's Speech during Mentor Session :

I know people who work hours a day, si/ days a week, or more. 'omepeople do so because of a work emergency where the long hours are onlytemporary. 8ther people I know have put in these hours for years. I don2tknow if they are working all these hours, but I do know they are in theoffice this long. 8thers put in long office hours because they areaddicted to the workplace.

#hatever the reason for putting in overtime, working long hours over thelong term is harmful to the person and to the organi7ation. $here arethings managers can do to change this for everyone2s benefit. "eing in theoffice long hours, over long periods of time, makes way for potential

errors. 5y colleagues who are in the office long hours fre uently makemistakes caused by fatigue. Correcting these mistakes re uires their timeas well as the time and energy of others. I have seen people work $uesdaythrough )riday to correct mistakes made after ; 05 on 5onday. Another problem is that people who are in the office long hours are not pleasant ascompany. $hey often complain about other people


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was. e would fight off sleep until the visitors left. It was as if hewas afraid that he would miss something. 8nce our visitors2 left, he would go to sleep. "y this time, however, he was over tired and would scream through half the night with nightmares. e, mywife, and I, all paid the price for his fear of missing out.

0erhaps some people put in such long hours because they don2t want to missanything when they leave the office. $he trouble with this is that eventswill never stop happening. $hat is life ?? $hings happen > hours a day.

Allowing for little rest is not ultimately practical. 'o, take a nap.$hings will happen while you are asleep, but you will have the energy tocatch up when you wake. ence...

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Honest Answers to Interview Questions

1. Why did you apply for this job?

I have applied for many jobs along with this and you called me now.

2. Why do you want to wor for this company?

I have to wor for some company who ever gives me a job! I don"t have any specificcompany in mind.

3. Why should I hire you?

#ou have to hire some one! you may give me a try.

4. What would you do if this happened?

Well! it depends my mindset and mood at that situation...

5. What is your biggest strength?

$asically! daring to join any company who pays me well! without thin ing of the fate ofcompany

6. What is your biggest wea ness?

%irls

7. What was your worst mista e! and how did you learn from it?

&oining my earlier company and learnt that I need to jump to get more money! so I amhere today


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8. What accomplishments in your last position are you most proud of?

Had I accomplished any in my last position! why do I need to change my job? I coulddemand more and stay there.

9. 'escribe a challenge you faced and how you overcame it?

$iggest challenge is answering the (uestion )why are you loo ing for a change) and Istarted blabbering irrelevantly to overcome that.

10. Why did you leave* are you leaving your last job?

+or the same reason why you left your earlier job

11. What do you want from this job?

If no wor is given but eep giving good hi es

12. What are your career goals and how do you plan to achieve them?

,a e more money and for that eep jumping companies for every - yrs

13. 'id you hear of our company and what do you now of us?

#eah! I now that you will as this! I"ve gone through your website

14. What is the salary e pected and how do justify that?

Well! no one will change job for the same salary! hence! give me -/0 e tra than what Iam getting and that is unpublished industry standard

1I now you will bargain on what ever I as ! hence! I have already hi ed my currentsalary by 2/03

-anyak untung ka+au kena+ +e+aki o+eh (. /M 0 A/

Jika suami anda menyendiri dan menjauhkan diri, ketahuilah dia dalam keadaan tertekan. Bolehjadi ada tekanan di tempat kerjanya, boleh jadi oleh kereta yang dimilikinya, atau boleh jadibeberapa kerenah anda yang menjadi menyebabnya.

Apabila lelaki menyendiri, kita boleh simpulkan dia sedang tertekan, berbeza dengan anda, dalamkeadaan tertekanlah segala rahsia akan diceritakan. Anda melakukan begitu untuk meraih simpati.

Meskipun begitu, usahlah risau, ia sekejap saja. Emosi pada orang lelaki umpama getah, sekejapsaja telah kembali ke bentuk asal walaupun tadinya terhenyak pipih. Berbeza dengan anda bukan?

atkala anda tertekan, emosi anda umpama ombak. !mbak memang tidak pernah reda, kalau redapun mengambil masa yang lama.

Apabila lelaki suka menyendiri dan berdiam diri, biasanya disebabkan imejnya yang tergugat.Biarkan sahaja untuk tempoh"tempoh tertentu. #sah $gatal"gatal$ sangat memujuk. %adang"kadang


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lelaki hanya perlukan $tempoh bertenang$ sebelum mengambil langkah seterusnya. Anda kelam"kabut, maka itu anda mudah marah, cemburu dan merajuk apabila berdepan dalam situasi begini.!hhh, itu silap.

&elaki selalunya dapat menyesuaikan diri apabila menghadapi kesukaran, berbeza wanita biasanyacukup risau dalam keadaan demikian. 'an usah risau sangat kalau lelaki anda cuba berjauhan dari

anda dalam keadaan"keadaan demikian sebab semula jadinya lelaki terasa selesa berjauhan dengankeluarga. (ni tentu berbeza sekali dengan anda, yang suka dan berasa tenang bersama keluarga?

Mengapa lelaki begitu? (tulah bukti kekuasaan A&&A). '(A menjadikan perbezaan yang ketaraantara lelaki dengan wanita, agar apabila disatukan, terjalinlah satu bentuk kekuatan lantaransaling sempurna menyempurnakan " lengkap melengkapi. *emua kekurangan isteri akan dipenuhioleh suami dan semua kekurangan suami akan dipenuhi pula oleh isteri.

&ihat perbezaan sebagai sebab untuk sempurna menyempurnakan bukan jurang kedegilan untuktidak mahu memahami.

&elaki itu cara +ikirnya makro, iaitu dia melihat secara keseluruhan, sedangkan anda para wanitamempunyai penilaian bersi+at mikro iaitu melihat sesuatu secara terperinci. Maka itu, usah hairan,terkadang suami selamba dengan masalah yang anda rasakan cukup berat. Anda telah kering airmata sedangkan dia masih belum menitis walau sebutir pun air mata.

Jika berlaku pertengkaran selalunya dia akan melawan habis"habisan dan anda pula mengalah danpura"pura setuju demi perhubungan. #sah terasa teruk sangat dengan keadaan ini, lelaki memangbegitu, sentiasa mahu menang dan mahu sentiasa dilihat menang walaupun hatinya mengakuikesilapannya dan mahu berubah mengikut apa yang anda perkatakan.

alaupun anda tahu anda benar dan anda tidak pernah berbuat salah, akhirilah semuapertengkaran dan perselisihan dengan anda yang meminta maa+. Anda mahukan dia yang memintamaa+? #sah harap. &elaki memang berat untuk meminta maa+ terutama daripada pasangannya. (kutkajian, wanita lebih mudah meminta maa+ dalam keadaan apa jua dan atas hal apa jua, makagunakan kelebihan ini untuk lebih mudah meminta maa+ walaupun tidak bersalah.

*atu lagi yang anda patut tahu tentang lelaki ialah mereka memang suka memberi arahan bagaikanketua yang mempunyai kuasa. #sah dilawan, tapi layanlah hati sendiri dengan berleter hingga andasendiri berasa puas. api awas, jangan sampai berleter di hadapannya, itu boleh memburukkankeadaan.

%ata orang, wanita sinonim dengan leteran. %alau tak pandai berleter bukan wanita namanya. -a,teruskan saja berleter, hamburkan semua yang menekan kepala. uma mohon berleter di dalambilik yang tertutup, sebab kucing pun pening dengan leteran anda.

&elaki memang rimas dengan leteran dan cepat naik darah apabila asyik dileteri. &ihatlah betapaberbezanya anda dengan suami. idakkah anda setuju jika saya katakan, adalah amat beruntungjika anda tahu lebih banyak tentang lelaki?

Kecantikan Lelaki

%ecantikan seorang lelaki bukan kepada rupa +izikal tetapi pada murni rohani. &elaki yangcantik,adalah/"

01 &elaki yang mampu mengalirkan airmata untuk ingatan21 &elaki yang sedia menerima segala teguran31 &elaki yang memberi madu, setelah menerima racun41 &elaki yang tenang dan lapang dada51 &elaki yang baik sangka

61 &elaki yang tak pernah putus asa

%ecantikan lelaki berdiri di atas kemuliaan hati. *eluruh kecantikan yang ada pada 7abi Muhammad


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adalah kecantikan yang sempurna seorang lelaki.

Kegagahan Wanita

%egagahan seorang wanita bukan kepada pejal otot badan, tetapi pada %ekuatan perasaan.

8erempuan yang gagah,adalah/"

01 8erempuan yang tahan menerima sebuah kehilangan21 8erempuan yang tidak takut pada kemiskinan31 8erempuan yang tabah menanggung kerinduan setelah ditinggalkan41 8erempuan yang tidak meminta"minta agar dipenuhi segala keinginan.

%egagahan perempuan berdiri di atas teguh iman. *eluruh kegagahan yang ada pada %hadijahadalah kegagahan sempurna bagi seorang perempuan.

4/ Hadiah 5tama!yang sering dilupai ut org tersayang.....

Ini ialah senarai 4/ hadiah yang paling senang dan sesuai diberi an epadasesiapa sahaja yang ita asihi 6 ibu! bapa! suami! isteri! saudara7mara! anadan sebagainya. 8ontoh di bawah ini lebih menjurus epada hubungan lela i7wanita! sila ubahsuai ji a dituju an epada orang lain. 9ilihlah satu atau punsemua.

4. Hadiah Mendengar : $eri an hadiah ini epada yang memerlu an! dan amuhenda lah benar7benar mendengar apa yang di ata an. &angan mencelah!

jangan berangan7angan dan jangan merancang bagaimana amu hendamembalas.

-. Hadiah Tanda Kasih : &angan ede ut memberi an pelu an! ciuman dan

ramasan tangan. $iar an tanda7tanda ecil ini tunju an asih dan sayang yangada di dalam diri amu.

2. Hadiah Sehelai Nota : Ia mung in ring as seperti );ayang Awa ) atausesuatu yang reatif seperti sebuah puisi. . Hadiah !"i# !"ian : ;esuatu yang simple seperti )Warna biru memangngam dengan awa ) atau );edap masa an awa ) mempunyai nilai yang tinggi


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epada orang yang dipuji

. Hadiah $ant!an : @olong basuh pinggan mang u ! buang sampah! jagaana ! dll.

. Hadiah $ersendirian : Ada eti a ita hanya mahu bersendiri. 9e a epadasaat7saat itu dan berilah masa dan ruang untu dia bersendiri.

B. Hadiah Ke%eriaan : 8uba sedaya upaya supaya ita sentiasa ceria apabilabersama orang7orang yang di asihi.

C. Hadiah &iadah : ;ertai sesuatu su an*a tiviti yang disu ai oleh orang yangdi asihi. Dalah pun ta apa! amu masih menang.

4/. Hadiah 'oa : ;elalu berdoa untu esejahteraan orang7orang yang di asihidan beritahu mere a yang mere a setiasa berada di dalam doa ita.

Body =an ua eTips 1urin Iob ;nter&ie's

ost!res and body movements are unconscious forms of e pressions andtherefore they have a language of their own. We are unware of ourgestures and body movements most of the time! but other people cannotice our gestures and movements if they pay attention to and nowwhat they mean. An important thing to be noted here is that body language applies notonly to the interviewer but also to the interviewee. Also! note that thesegestures may happen throughout the conversation or a discussion andthey change as the conversation progresses. @he objective of paying attention to nonverbal communication is to helpyou change the direction of the conversation. If the person is showingnegative gestures! then you need to change the topic by as ing a new(uestion or tal ing about something else. In this issue of the 8areerHeadlines! we provide you a comprehensive list of probable bodygestures! which you can watch out for during a course of a job interview.

01. 8rossed arms 7 means that the person is in a defensive and reservedmood.

02. 8rossed arms and legs 7 means that the person feels very reservedand suspicious.

03. Epen arms and hands 7 means that the person is open andreceptive.

04. ;tanding before you with hands inside the poc ets 7 means he is notsure or feels suspicious.


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05. ;tanding before you with hands on hips 7 means he is receptive and ready to help you out.06. ;itting in a chair sha ing one of the legs 7 means he feels nervousand

uncomfortable.07. If the eyes are downcast and face turned away 7 means he is not

interested in what you are saying.08. With the palm of the hand holding or supporting chin 7 means he is

in an evaluating position and being critical.09.


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BOY : You love me...

GIRL : I) *& +&,o-& &n.a.&d *$ll you .$'& -& ar$n.??BOY : Sur *ha %" your /hon& nu-+&r??

GIRL : I h$n! h& /oor&" /&o/l& ar& h& ha//$&" (

BOY : Th&n -arry -& and *&%ll +& h& ha//$&",ou/l&

GIRL : Darl$n.# I *an o dan,& l$!& h$" )or&'&r(BOY : Don% you &'&r *an o $-/ro'&??

BOY : I lo'& you and I ,ould d$& )or you0GIRL : Ho* "oon??

BOY : I would go to the end of the world for you!

GIRL : Y&"# +u *ould you " ay h&r&??

SHARON : Ha'& you &'&r h ad a ho /a""$ona +urn$n. !$""??TRA1Y : I d$d on,&( H&%d )or.o &n o a!& h&,$.ar& & ou o) h$" -ou h(


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MAN : You r&-$nd -& o) h& "&a(WOMAN : B&,au"& I%- *$ld# ro-an $, and &2,$ $n.?

MAN : NO# +&,au"& you -a!& -& "$,!(

WI3E : You &ll a -an "o-& h$n.# $ .o&" $n on& &arand ,o-&" ou o) h& o h&r(HUSBAND : You &ll a *o-an "o-& h$n.: I .o&" $n

+o h &ar" and ,o-&" ou o) h& -ou h(

MARY : 4ohn "ay" I%- /r& y( Andy "ay" I%-u.ly(Wha do u h$n!#P& &r?PETER : A +$ o) +o h( I h$n! you%r& /r& y u.ly(

56 G$rl)r$&nd : 7(((And ar& you "ur& you lo'& -& and noon& &l"& ?7Boy)r$&nd : 7D&ad Sur&0 I ,h&,!&d h& *hol& l$"a.a$n y&" &rday7(

86 T&a,h&r : 7Wh$,h $" -or& $-/or an o u"# h& "unor h& -oon?7Pu/$l : 7Th& -oon7(T&a,h&r : 7Why?7Pu/$l : 7Th& -oon .$'&" u" l$.h a n$.h *h&n *& n&&d


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$ +u h& "un .$'&" u" l$.h only $n h& day $-&*h&n *& don% n&&d $ 7(

96 T&a,h&r : 7Wha do you ,all a /&r"on *ho !&&/" onal!$n. *h&n /&o/l& ar& no lon.&r $n &r&" &d?7

Pu/$l : 7A &a,h&r7(

6 Wa$ &r : 7Would you l$!& your ,o))&& +la,!?71u" o-&r : 7Wha o h&r ,olor" do you ha'&?7

;6 My )a h&r $" "o old ha *h&n h& *a" $n ",hool#h$" ory *a" ,all&d ,urr&n a))a$r"(


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/a" y&ar%" /&r)or-an,& r&/& a &d7(

6 T&a,h&r : 7No*# ,h$ldr&n# $) I "a* a -an +&a $n. adon!&y and " o//&d h$-# *ha '$r u& *ould I +&"ho*$n.?7S ud&n : 7Bro h&rly lo'&7(

@6 T&a,h&r : 7No*# Sa-# &ll -& )ran!ly do you "ay/ray&r" +&)or& &a $n.?7Sa- : 7No "$r# I don% ha'& o# -y -o- $" a .ood,oo!7(

5 6 Pa $&n : 7Wha ar& h& ,han,&" o) -y r&,o'&r$n.do, or?7Do, or : 7On& hundr&d /&r,&n ( M&d$,al r&,ord""ho* ha n$n& ou o) &n /&o/l& d$& o) h& d$"&a"&you ha'&( Your" $" h& &n h ,a"& I%'& r&a &d( Th&o h&r" all d$&d7(

556 T&a,h&r : 7 1an any+ody .$'& an &2a-/l& o)1OIN1IDEN1E?7On& S ud&n : 7S$r# -y Mo h&r and 3a h&r .o-arr$&d on h& "a-& day and a h& "a-& $-&(7


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586 T&a,h&r : 7 G&or.& Wa"h$n. on no only ,ho//&ddo*n h$" )a h&r%" 1h&rry r& +u al"o ad-$ &d

do$n. $ (No* do you !no* *hy h$" )a h&r d$dn% /un$"h h$- ?7On& S ud&n : 7 B&,au"& G&or.& " $ll had h& a2& $n $"hand(7

Tiga tanda orang berhasad dengki

LUQMAN Al-Hakim ada memberi nasihat panjang Luqman anaknya yangdiriwayatkan oleh Al-Muharbi daripada !u"yan Ats-Thaury# Antarakata-kata hikmahnya adalah $-

%Hai anakku& 'anganlah engkau letakkan kebaikanmu itu ke(uali disisi penjaganya# Hal ini seperti tidak ada persahabatan antarakambing biri-biri dan serigala# )egitu jugalah tidak adapersahabatan antara orang yang baik dan yang jahat#

%Hai anakku& 'adilah engkau hamba kepada orang yang baik danjanganlah engkau jadi sahabat kepada orang yang jahat#

%Hai anakku& 'adilah engkau orang kaya nes(aya engkau menjadiorangyang diper(ayai#

%Hai anakku& 'anganlah engkau meminta sesuatu perkara itu daribelakang dan janganlah engkau menolaknya dari depan# Hal ini keranayang demikian itu akan memperlekehkan pandangan dan men(ela akal"ikiranmu#

%Hai anakku& !ekiranya engkau beradab walaupun sedikit engkauakanperoleh "aedah yang banyak#

%Hai anakku& Lakukanlah kebaikan itu untuk ahlinya dan janganlahengkau meletakkannya pada yang bukan ahlinya nes(aya engkau akanrugi di dunia ini dan mengharamkan pahalanya di akhirat kelak#

%'adilah engkau orang yang bersederhana dan janganlah boros# 'ugajanganlah engkau memegang harta dengan kedekut dan janganlah

memberinya dengan boros#


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%Hai anakku& La*imilah dirimu dengan hikmah nes(aya engkau akanmemuliakan dengannya kerana tuan bagi akhlak hikmah adalah agamaAllah#%

Luqman berkata lagi$ %Hai anakku& Ada tiga tanda bagi orang yangberhasad dengki itu# +ia akan mengumpat sahabatnya apabila diatiada akan memujuk apabila dia melihat dan akan bergembira denganmusibah yang menimpa sahabatnya#%

)eliau juga berpesan$ %Hai anakku& )arang siapa yang memikulsesuatuyang dia tidak terdaya akan menjadi lemah dan barang siapa yangberasa kagum dengan dirinya sendiri akan binasa# +an barang siapayang bersikap takbur serta menyombong diri terhadap manusia akanmenjadi hina#%

!eterusnya katanya$ %Hai anakku& 'anganlah engkau bergaul dengan

orang yang bodoh# ,alaupun dia memiliki rupa yang indah namun diaseperti pedang baik pemandangannya tetapi amat buruk kesannya#

%Hai anakku& )erwaspadalah engkau dari sahabat yang jahat keranasesungguhnya dia umpama pedang yang dihunuskan dari sarungnya.#/emandangannya mengagumanmu sedangkan kesannya amatlah buruk#%

+alam kitab )ahjatul Majalis Luqman berkata kepada anaknya$

%Hai anakku& Merendah dirilah engkau dengan kebenaran nes(ayaengkau menjadi manusia yang paling berakal#

%Hai anakku& )arang siapa yang terlalai dalam permusuhan diaakandimusuhi dan barang siapa yang melampau dalamnya dia telah berdosa#Maka berkatalah dengan yang hak walaupun ia terkena dirimu danjanganlah engkau peduli orang yang marah#

%Hai anakku& 'anganlah engkau bertengkar dengan orang yangbijaksanaserta janganlah engkau bermujadalah dengan orang yang gagap# 'ugajanganlah engkau bergaul dengan orang yang *alim serta janganlahengkau bersahabat dengan orang yang tertuduh#

LUQMAN Al-Hakim ialah seorang 0slam yang *uhud dan warak# )eliau hidup

ketika *aman Nabi +aud#


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,asiat dan nasihatnya yang mengandungi "alsa"ah tersirat dan tersurat

banyak dijadikan pedoman dan panduan berguna kepada umat manusia#

Luqman pernah berkata kepada anaknya$ %Apabila perutmu penuh dengan

makanan akan matilah "ikiran dan hikmah kebijaksanaanmu#

%!emua anggota badan akan menjadi malas untuk beribadah dan akan hilang

kebersihan hati#%

1atanya lagi $ %0kutlah mereka yang membawa jena*ah dan kurangkan

mengikuti jamuan perkahwinan kerana jena*ah itu dapat mengingatkan kamu

akan kesudahan daripada hidupmu di dunia ini#

%Majlis perkahwinan pula akan membangkitkan na"su berahi dan menjadikan

kamu senang dengan kehidupan dunia#%

Luqman berkata $ %Aku sudah memikul batu yang besar dan aku juga sudah

mengangkat besi yang berat tetapi aku tidak pernah merasakan sesuatuyanglebih berat daripada tangan yang buruk perangainya#

%Aku sudah rasa kepahitan tetapi aku belum pernah rasa sesuatu yanglebihpahit daripada kemiskinan dan kehinaan#


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%Aku sudah pernah mengalami penderitaan dan pelbagai kesusahan dan

kepayahan tetapi aku belum pernah mengalami penderitaan yang lebihsusahdan lebih payah daripada menanggung hutang#%

Nasihat lain Luqman yang berguna untuk pedoman dan hidup kita termasuk$-

l 1amu hendaklah sentiasa berada dalam majlis ulama dan dengarlah

kata-kata hukama orang yang bijaksana.# Hal ini kerana Allah

menghidupkanjiwa yang mati dengan hikmat seperti +ia menghidupkan bumi yang mati

dengan hujan yang lebat#

l )erkawan dan hampirilah ulama serta duduk dan *iarahilah rumah mereka

agar kamu akan menjadi seumpama mereka#

!entiasalah bersama-sama mereka dan tumpanglah kebaikan mereka#

1emungkinan besar apabila Allah menurunkan kebaikan kepada mereka kamu

turut merasakan nikmat itu#

l !ekiranya engkau seorang yang soleh jauhilah dirimu daripada orangyangburuk budi pekerti dan keras kepala kerana ditakuti apabila diturunkan

bala Allah engkau turut menjadi mangsanya#

l 'anganlah engkau menjadi lemah daripada seekor ayam jantan ia telah

berkokok pada waktu pagi hari sedangkan engkau pada ketika itu masih

terbaring di atas katilmu#


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3 Memuji-muji kawannya apabila berada bersama mereka#

3 4embira jika kawannya ditimpa bala#

!ubje(t$ 5,$ !yed Mokhtar Al-)ukhary

/etikan kata-kata 6# )hg Tan !ri !yed Mokhtar Al-)ukhary

L7belakang !yed Mokhtar

8 Umur - 9: tahun

8 /endidikan - !/M

8 Mula berniaga - ;< tahun jualbeli lembudan kerbau.

8 1ekayaan -=M; >?9 juta

8 1e @ terkaya di Malaysia

8 1e :? terkaya di Asia Tenggara5orbes.

8 Antara syarikat miliknya - MM/elabuhanTg# /elepas )B=NA! 4ardenia +=)-H0 2M dan )ank Muammalat

8 1ereta - /roton /erdana

8 !umbangan sosial -6ayasan Al-)ukharyinstitusi pengajian untuk : CCC pelajar Mu*ium 1esenian 0slam1ompleksAl-)ukhary menaja kelas tuisyen untuk pelajar Melayu pengindahanMasjidNegara sumbangan =M; juta untuk Tabung Tsunami dan menaja setiaptahunpenghantaran rakyat Malaysia yang tak mampu untuk tunaikan haji#

8 )agaimana sumbangan sosialnya


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bermula -)ila mana ibunya menyuruh memberikan sebahagian elaun =M@9C#CC.pertamanyasebagai pengarah syarikat beras kepada jiran yang susah# !ebahagianlagi

=M@9C#CC. ibunya simpan# !elain itu ibunya juga menyuruh beliaumenghantar lampu kerosen ke surau-surau untuk menerangi kegiatansepanjangmalam bulan =amadhan# +ari situ bermulalah pembentukan peribadi danpemikiran !yed Mokhtar yang kita kenali hari ini#

;# Ada sebab kenapa saya bekerja seperti tiada hari esok# Agendasosial dankerja-kerja kemasyarakatan itulah antara sebabnya# !aya mahumeninggalkan

warisan untuk anak bangsa yang kekal berpanjangan

?# berkenaan know who. )angsa lain tak mengapa tapi orang Melayukenaberdamping dengan orang politik sedikit-sedikit# Tapi masalahnyakita tidakmahu melalui kesusahanD banyak yang mahu senang dengan mendampingiorangpolitik semata-mata#

:# Tiada apa-apa rahsia# !aya ini hamba Allah biasa budak dangauma(amsaudara semua juga# Tuhan jadikan manusia ini sama sahaja# /roseskematangan saya yang membe*akannya# !aya per(aya sesiapa pun bolehmenjadiapa sahaja asalkan mereka berusaha dengan tekun# Tetapi tentulah iamemakanmasa# Tiada jalan singkat#

># !aya mengenali kekuatan dan kelemahan saya# Apa yang tidak mampubuat

saya akan minta orang lain tengok-tengokkan# !aya melalui jalan yangsusahtapi itulah jalan yang kekal#

9# 1ita perlu menggunakan kepakaran mereka bangsa ina. keranamereka jauhlebih maju dan mahir daripada kita# Apa yang kita kurang "aham kitaberkongsi dengan tujuan untuk belajar dengan mereka# Apabila sudah"ahambaru kita boleh menjaga kepentingan kita#

E# !aya sedih melihat sistem sekolah pondok di 1edah# !aya ada (ita-


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(itamahu memodenkan sekolah pondok# 1ita kena maju#

@# !aya terlibat dalam perniagaan ini kerana saya tiada pilihanlain#

F# Untuk memajukan perniagaan memang kena banyak sabar dan kuatberusaha#


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;9# !aya tak kisah kalau saya tak buat semua ini# !aya boleh takbuatapa-apa dan balik ke Alor !tar# Tetapi saya rasa hidup ini sia-sia#2rang

1edah kata kalau mati nanti mata tidak tutup rapat keranatanggungjawabdepan mata kita tidak buat# 2rang lain ambil kekayaan kita ambilhak kitadan pergunakan kita kita masih tidak buat apa-apa &

;E# !aya ada emotional atta(hment kepada agama bangsa dan ummah#!ayabukan indiGidualistik# +iri saya tidak penting# /angkat dan gelaranini

kepada saya tidak mustahak#

;@# !aya sedih media tonjolkan saya begini# !aya malu kerana orangina

kaya beratus-ratus kali ganda daripada saya# Tapi saya tahu orangMelayukalau hendak berjaya kena kerja kuat tidak kira siang malam# 1itaadakekuatan yang tuhan beri melebihi daripada bangsa lain# Tetapi untukmajukita perlu berusaha#

;F# !aya asal daripada tidak ada apa-apa# Apa yang saya tidak tahusayabelajar minta tolong daripada orang# !aya tidak malu# !aya bukannyamen(uri# !aya usaha sendiri# !ikap pemalas dan pemalu ini yang orangMelayukena atasi# 1ita kena berani kerana benar# Apabila kita dapatkeuntungandan re*eki lebih bolehlah kita menolong orang#

;


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?;# !aya perlu terus men(ari peluang dan perniagaan lain supaya kitaterusdapat bantu orang lain mengembangkan diri masing-masing# !aya bukanbuatsemua ini untuk diri saya semata-mata#

??# Ada juga yang saya usaha tapi tak dapat dan orang tak tahu# Apayangsaya dapat itu yang jadi masalah kononnya !yed Mokhtar sapu semua#)angsalain memegang pelbagai kepentingan dalam ekonomi siapa pun tak kataapa#0ni masalah orang Melayu# +i kampung orang Melayu berpe(ah keranapolitikdi bandar berpe(ah kerana ini wang.#

?:# !aya per(aya kalau re*eki itu Allah beri kepada saya ia bukanuntuksaya tetapi untuk orang ramai juga# 2rang tidak tahu banyak syarikatyangsaya ada ini gagal dan tidak maju kepada saya tetapi orang tidaktahu#

?># )anyak orang per(aya bahawa dia mesti ada =M;C juta atau =M?Cjutadalam tangan baru hidup boleh selamat# 0ni yang menyebabkan merekahanyutdaripada menolong orang lain# Mereka lebih takutkan diri sendiri#Merekalupa bahawa kekayaan tidak boleh membantu selama-lamanya#

?9# 2rang kata saya takda duit tapi banyak hutang# 2rang berniagamana yangtak berhutang# Tapi mesti tahu bagaimana hendak meminjam danmembayarnyasemula# Ada (ara boleh kita buat#

Tapi sebelum berhutang =M;CC juta mesti sudah "ikir bagaimana hendakmembayarnya balik# Mesti ada tanggungjawab# )anyak orang mahu senangtapitidak ramai yang mahu bertanggungjawab#

?E# perasaan setiap kali mendapat re*eki.# !aya ini kata orang1edahlebai kodok bukan lebai pondok# Tapi saya tahu hal-hal asas# 1alaumahusaya minta terus dari tuhan# Tuhan beri manusia akal dan "ikiran#1alau


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hendak pakai baju dan seluar biarlah padan dengan badan#

?@# 1esenangan yang saya perolehi ini datang dengan tanggungjawabbila

pinjam bayar balik dan buat amal jariah.# 1alau hendak dibandingkan

denganbangsa lain perniagaan saya ini tidak ada apa# Tetapi walaupunsedikittetapi yang sedikit itu ada berkatnya#

?F# !aya suka kalau nikmat sedikit yang saya dapat itu orang lainbolehberkongsi sama#

? tahun seperti saya berilahsedikitmasa untuk "aham selok belok perniagaan 0nsya Allah boleh maju#

:># 1ita jangan (epat putus asa# /utus asa boleh tapi kena (epat-(epatkuatkan semula semangat untuk bangkit balik# 'angan jadikan agama


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hanyasatu tempat untuk kita bergantung apabila kita susah# Tanggungjawabibadahadalah tugas seharian#

:9# Li"estyle 3 !aya tidak ada li"estyle yang kena masuk kelab sanadansini# Tapi tak semestinya saya tidak boleh turun ke kelab# 2rangMelayukalau hendak ke depan mesti ada (ara hidup yang "leksibel bolehnaik danturun#

:E# Li"estyle ini sebenarnya satu penyakit# !aya biasa pakaiMer(edes tapi

sekarang saya pakai /roton /erdana untuk sokong kereta nasional#1ereta itupun (ukup untuk bawa saya ke mana-mana#

:@# Tiada sebab orang kenapa Melayu tidak boleh maju# 0ni sayaberaniperang dengan sesiapa pun# 2rang Melayu boleh maju# 1alau saudarajadiwartawan saudara kena tanam semangat suatu hari nanti mahu ambilalihakhbar ini# Tidak ada sebab kenapa ia tidak boleh berlaku#

:F# 1ejayaan dan kelemahan orang Melayu bukan disebabkan oleh bangsakitadan agama kita# 0a berkait dengan sikap dan (ara kita ber"ikir#4igihtekun dan tidak mudah putus asa merupakan kun(i kejayaan kita# Tapiperkaraini kurang wujud dalam (ara orang Melayu ber"ikir#

:C# 1ita tidak usahlah selalu mengulang-ulang perkara yang bolehmemberikankesan psikologi negati" kepada orang Melayu kereta dan rumahbesar.# 1itakena kurangkan ber(akap tentang kereta besar dan rumah besar#!esiapa punmahu pakai kereta mewah tapi bukan itu matlamatnya#


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>;# 2rang Melayu sebenarnya kena membantu diri sendiri kena bekerjakerasdan "okus#

>?# !ikap merendah diri perlu sentiasa ada dalam diri seseorangwalausetinggi mana pun kejayaan di(apai#

>:# Apa yang saya buat ini kerja-kerja sosial. semuanya bermuladaripadadidikan orang tua saya sendiri#

>># !aya sendiri berhutang sambil berniaga dan buat sumbangan amaljariah#

!aya tak mahu tunggu hutang habis baru hendak buat semua ini# !ayatakutkalau hutang habis saya pun mati dan apa pun tak sempat saya buat#

>9# !aya biasa saja# Hidup saya tidak berubah dari dulu beginilah#!ayaterima apa saja nikmat yang diberikan oleh Allah# Tidak ada segelasairada setengah gelas pun saya bersyukur#

>E# 1alau kerana sedikit bantuan itu mereka lulus peperiksaan danhidupmereka menjadi lebih baik saya sudah gembira# !aya tidak boleh buatbanyak# Alhamdulillah lebih baik buat sedikit daripada tidak buatlangsung#

>@# !aya tiada minat untuk beli kapal layar atau kapal terbang#!aya "ikir kalau saya beli sesuatu biarlah orang ramai boleh pakai#!aya suka kalau saya beli sesuatu yang mahal biarlah orang ramai boleh

pakai#

>F# !aya gembira dapat membantu# !aya mahu orang lain merasai kesenangan. apa yang saya pernah rasa# !aya tahu bagaimanaperasaanya# !aya kata kepada diri saya apa yang saya dapat saya mesti beriorang lain merasainya sama# 'angan beri kurang lebih tak mengapa# 0tuyang membuat hati saya seronok#

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kata kepada kawan-kawan ini baru warm-up sajaD kita belum berjalanlagi# !aya rasa kita terlalu banyak ketinggalan#

Nasihat Imam Syafiee dalam mencari sahabat...

PERSAHABATAN tulen memang sukar dicari. Hanya mereka yangbenar-benar bersahabat dengan hati tulus dan ikhlas da at mencari erti

ersahabatan tulen.

!alam hal ini" Imam Syafie ada memberikan nasihat dalam s#al ersahabatan.

Aku mencintai sahabatku dengan segena $i%a ragaku" seakan-akan akumencintai sanak saudaraku.

Sahabat yang baik adalah yang sering se$alan denganku dan yang men$aganama baikku ketika aku hidu atau sele as aku mati.

Aku selalu berhara menda atkan sahabat se$ati yang tidak luntur baik dalam

keadaan suka atau duka. &ika itu aku da atkan" aku ber$an$i akan selalu setiaadanya.

'uhulurkan tangan ke ada sahabatku untuk be( rkenalan kerana aku akanberasa senang. Semakin ramai aku er#leh sahabat" aku semakin ercaya diri.

)encari sahabat ada %aktu susah

Belum ernah kutemukan di dunia ini se#rang sahabat yang setia dalamduka. Pada hal hidu ku sentiasa ber utar- utar antara suka dan duka. &ikasuka melanda" aku sering bertanya* +Sia akah yang sudi men$adi sahabatku,+

Pada %aktu aku senang" sudah biasa ramai yang akan iri hati" namun bilagiliran aku susah mereka un berte uk tangan.

Pasang surut ersahabatan

Aku da at bergaul secara bebas dengan #rang lain ketika nasibku sedang baik.


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Namun" ketika musibah menim aku" kuda atkan mereka tidak ubahnya r#daaman yang tidak mahu bersahabat dengan keadaan.

&ika aku men$auhkan diri dari ada mereka" mereka mencemuh dan $ika akusakit" tidak se#rang un yang men$engukku.

&ika hidu ku berlumur kebahagiaan" banyak #rang iri hati" $ika hidu kuberselimut derita mereka bers#rak s#rai.

)engasingkan diri lebih baik dari ada bergaul dengan #rang $ahat.

A abila tidak ke temu sahabat yang tak%a" lebih baik aku hidu menyendiridari ada aku harus bergaul dengan #rang $ahat.

Sukarnya mencari sahabat se$ati

Tenanglah engkau dalam menghada i er$alanan aman ini. Bersika se ertise#rang aderi dalam menghada i manusia.

ucilah kedua-dua tanganmu dari aman itu dan dari ada manusianya.Peliharalah cintamu terhada mereka. )aka" kelak kamu akan mem er#lehkebaikannya.

Se an$ang usiaku yang semakin tua" belum ernah aku temukan di dunia inisahabat yang se$ati.

'utinggalkan #rang b#d#h kerana banyak ke$elekannya dan ku$an$i #rangmulia kerana kebaikannya sedikit.

Sahabat se$ati ada %aktu susah

'a%an yang tidak da at dimanfaatkan ketika susah lebih mendekati musuhdari ada sebagai ka%an.

Tidak ada yang abadi dan tidak ada ka%an yang se$ati kecuali yang men#l#ngketika susah.

Se an$ang hidu aku ber$uang bersungguh-sungguh mencari sahabat se$atihingga encarianku melenakanku. 'ukun$ungi seribu negara" namun tidaksatu negara un yang enduduknya berhati manusia.

R#saknya ke eribadian sese#rang


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!alam diri manusia itu ada dua macam #tensi eni uan dan rayuan.

!ua hal itu se erti duri $ika di egang dan ibarat bunga $ika di andang.A abila engkau memerlukan ert#l#ngan mereka" bersika lah bagai a i yangda at membakar duri itu.

)engh#rmati #rang lain

Barang sia a mengh#rmati #rang lain" tentulah dia akan dih#rmati. Begitu $uga barang sia a menghina #rang lain" tentulah dia akan dihinakan.

Barang sia a berbuat baik ke ada #rang lain" baginya satu ahala. Begitu

$uga barang sia a berbuat $ahat ke ada #rang lain" baginya seksa yangdahsyat.

)enghada i musuh

'etika aku men$adi emaaf dan tidak mem unyai rasa dengki" hatiku lega" $i%aku bebas dari ada bara ermusuhan.

'etika musuhku berada di hada anku" aku sentiasa mengh#rmatinya.

Semua itu kulakukan agar aku da at men$aga diriku dari ada ke$ahatan.

Aku nam akkan keramahan" kes# anan dan rasa ersahabatanku ke ada#rang yang kubenci" se erti aku nam akkan hal itu ke ada #rang yangkucintai.

Ti u daya manusia

)udah-mudahan an$ing itu da at bersahabat denganku kerana bagiku duniaini sudah ham a dari ada manusia.

Sehina-hinanya an$ing" ia masih da at menun$ukkan $alan untuk tuannya yangtersesat" tidak se erti manusia $ahat yang selamanya tidak akan memberi

etun$uk.

Selamatkanlah dirimu" $aga lidahmu baik-baik" tentu kamu akan bahagia %alau un kamu ter aksa hidu sendiri.


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a Allah sampaikanlah kami pada Ramadhan dengan

Kerinduan, !inta dan "man kepada-#u .... $assalamu'alaikum waeamatuhllahi wabarakahtuh

Kamarul

%&ila Aku atuh !inta%

a Allah, (ika aku (atuh cinta,cintakanlah aku pada sese)rang yang melabuhkan cintanya pada-#u,agar bertambah kekuatan ku untuk mencintai-#u.

a #uhaimin, (ika aku (atuh cinta, (agalah cintaku padanya agar tidak melebihi cintaku pada-#u

a Allah, (ika aku (atuh hati,

i*inkanlah aku menyentuh hati sese)rang yang hatinya tertaut pada-#u,agar tidak ter(atuh aku dalam (urang cinta dunia.

a Rabbana, (ika aku (atuh hati, (agalah hatiku padanya agar tidak berpaling pada hati-#u.

a Rabbul "**ati, (ika aku rindu,rindukanlah aku pada sese)rang yang merindui syahid di (alan-#u.

a Allah, (ika aku rindu, (agalah rinduku padanya agar tidak lalai aku merindukan syurga-#u.

a Allah, (ika aku menikmati cinta kekasih-#u, (anganlah kenikmatan itu melebihi kenikmatan indahnyabermuna(at di sepertiga malam terakhirmu.

a Allah, (ika aku (atuh hati pada kekasih-#u, (angan biarkan aku tertatih dan ter(atuh dalam per(alanan pan(ang menyeru manusia kepada-#u.

a Allah, (ika Kau halalkan aku merindui kekasih-#u, (angan biarkan aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakanaku pada cinta hakiki dan rindu abadi hanya kepada-#u.

a Allah +ngaku mengetahui bahawa hati-hati ini telahberhimpun dalam cinta pada-#u,telah ber(umpa pada taat pada-#u,telah bersatu dalam dakwah pada-# ,telah berpadu dalam membela syariat-#u.Kukuhkanlah a Allah ikatannya.Kekalkanlah cintanya.Tun(ukilah (alan-(alannya.

enuhilah hati-hati ini dengan Nur-#u yang tiada pernah pudar.

apangkanlah dada-dada kami dengan limpahan keimanan


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