Attitude: A matter of choice
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ATTITUDE : A MATTER OF CHOICE
What is attitude?It can be defined as a positive or negative evaluation of people, objects, events, activities, ideas or anything in our environment.
Attitude can be formed from a person’s past and present.
Attitude is also measurable and changeable as well as influencing the person’s emotion and behaviour.
With a BAD attitude you can never have a POSITIVE dayWith a POSITIVE attitude you can never have a BAD day
BENEFITS OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE :-It increases productivityEnhances teamworkProblem solving approachImproves productivityBuilds relationshipReduces stress and conflictsEnhances your personality and growth
Which animal you like the most ?
MOST LIKELY RESPONSES:-Around 10 % likes donkey.Rest 90 % likes cat.
How does it judge our attitude?We treat people and situations in the same manner as we do with the donkey.
We treat situations in this manner :-WHAT WE DO GENERALLY !!!
WHAT WE SHOULD DO ACTUALLY !!!
ACTION STOP THINK
and feel guilty about our behaviour…..
THINK STOP ACTION
and you as well as society will feel proud on you.
CONSEQUENCES OF OUR NEGATIVE ATTITUDE ARE :-
Experience fear, blame , complain , frustrationBitternessBroken relationshipEgo & hurtPanic & anxietyHigh level of stressNo vision, no ideas for successBoring, unproductive and miserable lifeFeel insecureNo imagination, see problems, find faultsNo meaningful goals, no plans, no clear direction
vercome your negative attitude
How to change our attitude?
STEP 1 : Make DECISION to changeDECIDE : with which person, people, situation, tasks…. You
will change your ATTITUDE.
STEP 2 : Shift your FOCUSFOCUS on what’s right or wrong.
FOCUS on what you do have v/s what you have don’t.FOCUS on solutions then on PROBLEMS.
STEP 3 : Be more CURIOUS & CONCERNInstead of blaming or complaining , be curious to ask… Why this person or
situation is like that?What can I change here with this person or situation to make it better?
and become “SHE”…
CONT….
STEP 4 : Develop an attitude of GRATITUDEFind something appreciate in tough time/person/situation.
Whenever you feel down, depressed , frustrated see what can be acknowledged.
STEP 5 : Believe in YOURSELFWhen you think and feel good about YOURSELF …then you are able
to see the same in others too.
Weakness of ATTITUDE becomes weakness of
CHARACTER.
POWER OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE :
90 % ATTITUDE
10 % KNOWLEDGE
90 % 10 %
10 %
A study by HARVARD UNIVERSITY found that when a person gets a job, 90 % of the time is because of their attitude and only 10 % because of how smart they are and how many fact and figures they know.
If YOU look at what you do NOT HAVE in your life, you don’t have ANYTHING …
if you look at what you HAVE in you life, you have EVERYTHING.
You cannot tailor-make the situations in life but you can tailor-make the attitudes to fit those situations.
Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you're going to live your life.
Character is the result of two things: mental attitude and the way we spend our time. Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.
ATTITUDE IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS
SOME LEGENDS…
TANNI GREYDISABILITY : Paralysed legs
MARLA RUNYANDISABILITY : Blind
MICHAEL BOLTONDISABILITY : Deaf
A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results.
THANK YOU