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First/ Sykur (High Class): opinion regarding marriage
He believes that the process of choosing partner has changed over time. In the past, parents were
responsible for choosing the partner for their son or daughter .Nowadays, the prevailing kind of
marriage is that one based on love rather than the parents’ arrangement.
He also explained the people, nowadays, tend to prefer love after marriage.
He personally prefers the parents –arranged marriage, reasoning that they are well aware about
their sons needs and what is the best for them. But he added that the partner must be given a
chance to meet and to show on the background of the family of his /her partner.
Regarding the characteristics of his partner, Sykur stated the following:
1. Parents’ choice “ I think parents decision is more better than you choose because
sometime parents they know about their children… how their behavior… you know how
person that he choose is better… so I think maybe… marriage… if parents choose for
their (parents) for their child I think it’s better than you choose”.
2. Religion first “I agree with you is religions and second one is education, and then I
think that third one is more to behavior, because the appearance is not a role if the
behavior is not quite good”
3. Education
4. Less important appearance “I think appearance is not important”.
5. Love can come after marriage “Sykur: sorry for interrupt but I think now… these day
people one likely love after marriage, rather than before marriage”
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Second/ Adham (High class) his opinion:
He considered it not fair for a person to get married depending on his/ her parents’
choice .reasoning that, there are so many things can not be known only by the couples .
“when married with someone I don’t know so I feel like… it’s not… it’s not fair to me”
Regarding the characteristics of his spouse , Adham put his priorities as following :
1. Love “if I want to married, love cames first”
2. Education “must be educated … so far me education came first and then the second
thing is about to can cook or not”
3. Other skills.
Third/ Angha (Girl Middle Class)
She prefers the arranged-marriage depending on her parents’ choice. She would follow the
decision of her parents ; because she believed that they know what is the best for her.
She considered the following characteristics as priorities for her spouse :
1. To be according to her parents’ choice. “for me may be the selection from parents
good”. “To me… I don’t think so…I think … just like my parents… if they said…
you’ll marry on this time with this boy… the person is ….. Just I will follow”, for me the
parent’s arrangement is good because I know that parents are already observed that guy
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will married with me, so they know that he is a good religions, good education, can…ah
guide me after married, so if what if fall in love with someone, but then this guy cannot
guide me, he just bring me into the wrong way. so
2. To be religious ; to lead her to the right way ( because she believed the duty of a
man is to lead to the family to the way of Islam). “may be the first is about religions”,
3. Has a stable job, to enable him to provide a safe shelter. “he has a fix job”, “to give
shelter and food for us”
4. Love is important, but it could come after marriage. “love, we can consider after
mirage”.
Forth /Akmal (Boy middle class):
He prefers to be in the middle of the two kinds of marriage, because he believes the
importance of giving the spouses the opportunity to choose their partner provided that
happens within the aware and approval of their parents through negotiation and
discussion; but the choice belongs to the son or the daughter of the family. “couple … they
just take the advice from the eldest only.
the most majority is the decision is made from the partner”.
He puts the following as the characteristics of his future wife:
1. In the first place, to be religious (because he believes religion can help in educating
the life partner). “for me, I would put my religion… number one”
2. Education. “and the second one I would put the education”
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3. Appearance “I think appearance is not important”, “the appearance is a bonus”
4. He believes in love after marriage. “we can change educate little by little and we can
by together to improve our behavior, and may be from there we can feel the loving
feeling the romantic , when we are together and try to strong our relationship.”
Fifth / Rizal (Low class):
He believes in love before marriage and prefer the love-marriage, and put his priorities as
following :
1. To love her “… I agree with have love before mirage”
2. To be respectful
3. To be religious ( because he believes he cannot control the women if she was not
religious) “follow the religious”, “she need to know deeply about Islam, so that’s can
control her about what she need to do or what she can’t do, because, I NO always can
control her”
4. To be educated. “must be educated”.
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