SAVING MY BROTHER

Helping to Eradicate Suicide Among African American Men (A blueprint for a future program.)By: Violette L. Meier and Tread Maines

Introduction God is forever with us

and has promised to always love and protect us if we dwell in the Almighty’s divine presence. This is very important to know especially when dealing with depression.

My program seeks to pull black men from the dark depths of depression into the blinding light of God’s love.

Purpose To eradicate suicide in

the African American male community.

During 1980-1995, the suicide rate for adolescent African-American males ages 15-19 years increased from 5.6 to 13.8 per 100,000 of the population according to the National Center for Health Statistics.

Creating a Ministry

Brotherhood support system where men can be uplifted and be helped with issues and life’s hardships.

Biblical Principals of Protection and God’s Presense

1 The LORD is my light and my salvation;   whom shall I fear?The LORD is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?  Psalm 27:1

Psalm 139Where can I go from your spirit? Or where can I flee from your presence?  If I ascend to heaven, you are there; if I make my bed in Sheol, you are there. If I take the wings of the morning and settle at the farthest limits of the sea,  even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me fast.  If I say, ‘Surely the darkness shall cover me, and the light around me become night’,  even the darkness is not dark to you;  the night is as bright as the day, for darkness is as light to you. For it was you who formed my inward parts; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.  I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; that I know very well. 

Inspirational Scriptures Two are better than one, because they have

a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up the other; but woe to one who is alone and falls and does not have another to help. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NRSV

…Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity! Psalm 133:1 ESV

Honor everyone. Love the family of believers (the brotherhood).* Fear God… 1 Peter 2.17 NRSV

Inspirational PoemInvictus

Out of the night that covers me,Black as the Pit from pole to pole,

I thank whatever gods may beFor my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstanceI have not winced nor cried aloud.Under the bludgeoning of chanceMy head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tearsLooms but the Horror of the shade,And yet the menace of the yearsFinds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,How charged with punishments the scroll.

I am the master of my fate:I am the captain of my soul. 

William Ernest Henley

Why is this happening? Adolescence is a time of change and transition,

when youth experience physical, mental and emotional changes. These changes leave adolescents particularly vulnerable to mental health problems such as depression, suicidal thoughts, and anxiety disorders, especially if the adolescent has a family history of mental illness At the same time it is essential to note that the challenges of adolescent development within the African American community are multiplied because of historical and social factors arising from institutional and societal racism.

Racism Racism can affect mental health status in at

least three ways. 1. It can lead to reduced socioeconomic

status, diminished access to desirable resources, and poor living conditions.

2. It can lead to physiological and psychological reactions which bring about adverse changes in mental health status

3. The acceptance of negative stereotypes can cause negative self-evaluations that have damaging effects on psychological well-being.

Discovering Needs

Surveys will be issued to find out what the men need most.

Forums will be conducted where needs can be discovered and discussed.

Men’s nights for brother to brother conversations so that stress can be relieved through talking and sharing. Confidentiality contracts will be issued.

Seminars for Rebuilding Life

Learn to Love Yourself (a self esteem booster event)

Your Body is Your Temple (men’s health seminar)

The Other Image of God (respecting women)

Living a Life of Purpose and Fulfillment (God’s plan for us and personal happiness)

We’re In This Together (community)

How to Make Things Better? Pass out information regarding

mental health and stress. Set up help lines, prayer groups,

psychological directory, etc. Gather suggestions. Create support systems.

Take it to the Church

Preach a sermon about suicide, hopelessness, depression, etc.

Inform families and friends about the issue.

Take it to the Streets

Create a website and/or blog. Set up an information center for

hurting men in the community. Stay empathetic and so that you can

be approachable to anyone in need.

PRINCIPALS AND BEHAVIORS OF THE COMMUNITY Dwelling in God’s presence and

under God’s protection the community shall:

Put God first in faith and practice of high morality

Love one another like we love ourselves

Respect each other

Encourage one another Work without ceasing to better the

community Support one another without judgment Resolve all conflicts peacefully and

respectfully Create a networking system that will aid

in employment, social services, food and shelter, emotional well being, and spiritual guidance.

WRITTEN COVANENT

In gratitude for God’s love and protection and the peace we gain from dwelling in God’s divine presence, we pledge to be his disciples. We recognize that our time and talents are gifts from God, and we will use to uplift each other and make our community stronger.

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