Addiction: The Bedside Dilemna for Patients, Family, …...2019/05/02 · Addiction: The History...
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Addiction: The Bedside Dilemna
for Patients, Family, and
Providers
J. Randle Adair, D.O., Ph.D.
Diplomate, American Board of Internal Medicine
Diplomate, American Board of Addiction
Medicine
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Objectives
• 1 - understand the spiritual component in the
disease model of addictions.
• 2 - distinguish between the external defenses
of the addict and the inner core of
vulnerability.
• 3 - examine the paradox of powerlessness
becoming a strength in recovery.
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Addiction: The Family
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Addiction: The History
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Addiction: The History
• Genesis 9: 20-25
– Noah, a tiller of the soil, was the first to plant the vine. He
drank some of the wine, and while he was drunk, he
uncovered himself inside his tent. Ham, Canaan’s ancestor,
saw his father’s nakedness, and told his two brothers
outside. Shem and Japheth took a cloak and they both put
it over their shoulders, and walking backward, covered
their father’s nakedness. When Noah awoke from his
stupor he learned what his youngest son had done to him,
and he said:
– “Accursed be Canaan. He shall be his brothers’
meanest slave.”
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ASAM Definition of Addiction 2011
• Addiction is a primary, chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory and related circuitry. Dysfunction in these circuits leads to characteristic biological, psychological, social and spiritual manifestations. This is reflected in an individual pathologically pursuing reward and/or relief by substance use and other behaviors.
• Addiction is characterized by inability to consistently abstain, impairment in behavioral control, craving, diminished recognition of significant problems with one's behaviors and interpersonal relationships, and a dysfunctional emotional response. Like other chronic diseases, addiction often involves cycles of relapse and remission. Without treatment or engagement in recovery activities, addiction is progressive and can result in disability or premature death.
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The Challenge
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The Challenge
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The Challenge
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Alcoholic Family Rules
• Don’t Talk
• Don’t Trust
• Don’t Feel
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Families in Stress: Their Problems
• Non-Alcoholic
Identifiable – know the
source of their distress or at
least admit it when the
source is brought to their
attention.
• Alcoholic
Denied – members show
sincere delusion. “Alcohol
has nothing to do with it.”
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Families in Stress: Their Feelings
• Non-Alcoholic
Painful, unexpressed and
may be repressed
• Alcoholic
Acutely painful and totally
out of awareness – part of a
larger pattern of denial and
delusion.
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Families in Stress: Their Defenses
• Non-Alcoholic
Highly developed to
protect individual members
from even greater pain and
low self-worth.
• Alcoholic
Rigid and compulsive,
repressed feelings locked in
as attitudes:
Anger becomes resentment
Fear becomes withdrawal
Guilt becomes avoidance
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Families in Stress: Their Self-Worth
• Non-Alcoholic
Low
• Alcoholic
Even lower, because all the
worth-destroying factors in
the family are more
intense, coupled with no
insight into those factors.
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Families in Stress: Their Behavior
• Non-Alcoholic
Fixed in predictable
patterns, assuming an array
of defensive roles in an
unconscious effort to
survive, both individually
and as a family unit
• Alcoholic
Rigidly fixed and
compulsive. Defensive
roles are the same but
members become locked
into them because of the
denial and compulsion that
has set up.
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Families in Stress: Their Communication
• Non-Alcoholic
Restricted by family rules.
• Alcoholic
Similarly restricted by
family rules, but blocked
totally in many areas by
denial and delusion.
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Families in Stress: Their Recovery
Programs
• Non-Alcoholic
Educational efforts can be
effective.
In spite of impaired
communication, pain often
motivates the family to be
open enough to accept
information from an
outside source and so move
toward change
• Alcoholic
Education alone ineffective.
More formal treatment is
required.
New information cannot
penetrate the denial &
delusion systems present.
Members deny both their
personal contribution to the
pain and that alcohol is at
the bottom of the problem.
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Alcoholic Family Roles
• Dependent
• Enabler
• Hero
• Scapegoat
• Lost Child
• Mascot
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What you
observe at
bedside vs what
is going on
inside
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Effective
strategies
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Repeat Alert!• The addicted person may not be the person
you are ultimately called upon for care…….
– The long lost family member who shows up at
bedside
– The missing child
– The ex-spouse
……..Remember, the Family Rules rule!!!
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So how do we approach and address
spirituality as a medical solution, in our
clinical practice, at bedside?
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Men in Black!
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Who has the answer?
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Who has the answer?
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Who has the answer?
Everyone knows the Devil wears Prada, right?
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Do they have the answer?
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Alcoholics Anonymous, Chapter 4,
“We agnostics”
Spirituality as power struggle
• “Lack of power, that was our dilemma.”
• “When, therefore, we speak to you of God, we
mean your own conception of God.”
• “We, who have traveled this dubious path, beg
you to lay aside prejudice, even against
organized religion.”
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Are doubt and despair permissible?
Are they contrary to spirituality?
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Whose despairing words are these?
• I am told God loves me – and yet the reality of darkness &
coldness & emptiness is so great that nothing touches my soul.
• When I try to raise my thoughts to Heaven – there is such
convicting emptiness that those very thoughts return like sharp
knives and hurt my very soul. Love – the word – it brings
nothing.
• There is so much contradiction in my soul. Such deep longing
for God – so deep that it is painful - a suffering continual –
and yet not wanted by God – repulsed – empty – no faith – no
love. Heaven means nothing – to me it looks like an empty
place.
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Whose despairing words are these?
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So how do we approach and address a
spiritual solution at bedside?
• Validate the obvious
• Acknowledge the feelings
• Be hopeful without giving false hope
• Be authentic
• Know yourself!
• Facilitate and be present – don’t rescue
• Remember the rules of the Addicted Family
• Go to Al-Anon?
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So how does this modify your
practice at bedside?