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Transcript of Adapted by Ellaine B. Miller, Ph.D. From presentation by Margaret Keiley, Ed.D, LMFT Auburn...
Mechanisms of Change: Relationships that Work for Adults and Children
Adapted by Ellaine B. Miller, Ph.D.
From presentation byMargaret Keiley, Ed.D, LMFT
Auburn University, AL
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Attachment TheoryWhat is Attachment? Why does attachment exist?
Survival mechanismTo maintain the proximity with a caregiver,
especially in a stressful situationGoal is to reduce arousal and reinstate a
sense of felt securityTo provide a “secure base” from which to
explore
What about attachment and caregivers?
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Attachment Styles•Secure Warm, available, and responsive caregiver
•Ambivalent-insecure Inconsistent caregiver
•Avoidant-insecure Emotionally unavailable or rejecting caregiver
•Disorganized Intrusive, abusive caregiver
Insecure attachment styles interfere with a person’s ability to regulate affect and to explore his/her world
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Internal Working ModelsWorking models of the world
Who attachment figures are and how one might expect them to respond
Working models of the self How acceptable or unacceptable one is in the eyes of
attachment figures
These internal working models of how attachment relationships operate predispose individuals to habitual forms of engagement with others, including the regulation of affect
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Internal Working Models (Cont.) Secure: Self is worthy and competent; world and
others seen as safe and trustworthy
Anxious: Self is unworthy; world and others seen as undependable and rejecting
Avoidant: Self is unlovable, incompetent, never good enough; the world and others are seen as untrustworthy and never satisfied
Disorganized: No organized internal working models
Last three attachment IWMs are driven by FEAR of: Rejection, Incompetence, Caregiver
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Affect TheoryWhat is affect? Information about our experience and desire
How is affect regulated?Affect regulation involves tolerance,
awareness, expression, and control of the physiological, behavioral, and experiential aspects of affect
Affect regulation is first co-constructed as part of the attachment process in infancy
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We need access to the information that is contained in affect in order to make decisions about what we want & how we want get what we want. So it must be regulated.
Link between Affect & AttachmentSecure individuals are able to flexibly manage their emotions and their distance from others in conflictual interactions
Ambivalently (Anxiously) attached individuals tend to heighten distress and anger as well as pursue in conflictural interactions
•Avoidantly attached individuals tend to restrict the communication of anger and distress and withdraw from conflictual interactions
Disorganized individuals have no organized attachment strategies or affect regulation strategies: Sometimes pursue and heighten distress, sometimes withdraw and restrict expression
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Examples of the Links between Affect & Attachment•Secure
Overtly/Hidden: express vulnerable feelings
•Ambivalent Overtly: nagging, angry criticism, and pursuit Hidden: fear of rejection or sadness about
disconnection
•Avoidant Overtly: stonewalling, withdrawing, or flat affectHidden: anger, hurt, sadness, and fear of
incompetence
•Disorganized Overtly: stonewalling, withdrawing, flat affect,
pursuit, angerHidden: terror, terror, terror
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Summary MAP: Attachment Positions and AffectsSecure: Flexibility in movement toward and
away from the other and tolerance of own and others’ affect (not afraid of feelings)
Ambivalent: Pursue, show distress, hide sadness and fear
Avoidant: Withdraw, show little distress, hide anger, fear, and sadness
Disorganized: No organized position, vulnerability always hidden, terrified
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Physiology of AffectThe regulation of emotional arousal is the key
factor in determining the nature and form of close relationships. (Porges’ Polyvagal Theory and Gray’s Motivational Theory)
Emotional arousal gets our attention. THEN
We are able to calm ourselves, attend to what is in front of us and respond appropriately. We can regulate the arousal in order to keep it in the tolerable zone (SECURE)
Or we move into a highly aroused panic mode that is not cognitively controlled. The result is we revert to a habitual mode of interaction, either fighting (rage, AMBIVALENT/ANXIOUS) or fleeing (fear, AVOIDANT)
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High Arousal (Red Zone)When you are highly aroused and in a
panic mode, you CANNOT engage your brain to make decisions
You go directly into a habitual mode of response without thinking:
Flight, Fight, or Freeze
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Central Nervous System
Autonomic Nervous System
Sympathetic Nervous System
Motivational Functioning
Parasympathetic Nervous System
Regulatory Functioning
Reward System: Behavioral Activation
System
(BAS)
(Dopamine System)
Punishment System:
Behavioral Inhibition System
(BIS)
(Serotonin System)
Vagal Complex:
Vagus Nerve, Dorsal Motor Nucleus, Nucleus Ambiguous
Vagal Tone:
Emotional Trait
Vagal Reactivity or
Vagal “Brake”:
Emotional State
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Vagal Tone (VT): Heart Rate Variability
• High VT: Heart rate variability high: Easier to regulate reactivity appropriately; emotional & communication flexibility
Associated with better child, adult outcomes
• Low VT: Heart rate variability low: Harder to regulate reactivity appropriately; emotional inflexibility and communication difficulties
Associated with both externalizing and internalizing problems
Aggression – anger, rageDepression – sadnessAnxiety – fear, panic
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Vagal Reactivity (VR): RSA Reactivity
This vagal “brake” regulates heart rate increases and decreases to deal with environmental demands
VR facilitates effective coping with challenges by allocating cognitive and motivational resources
VR reflects intra-individual shifts in levels of fear and anger
Moderate VR: Optimal engagement, prepare to respondExcessive VR: Emotional lability
Vagal tone stabilizes by age 1, but vagal reactivity is somewhat amenable to alteration and change
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Porges’ Polyvagal Theory (PNS): Regulatory Functioning
Influences on the Heart:Vegetative Vagus – Deceleration of heart rate
associated with orienting (older, reptilian brain)
Smart Vagus – After orienting Decision Point: One of two decisions (mammalian brain)1. Attend to and engage: Sustained attention and further deceleration of heart rate
2. Fight-Flight: Rage-Panic: Excessive acceleration of heart rate and enlist SNS
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Stages of ChangePrecontemplationContemplationPreparation/DeterminationAction/WillpowerMaintenanceRelapse
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Mechanism of Change• Low Arousal (First Order Change)
Cognitive change – Reframe allows for awareness of initial internal working models (Emotional and Cognitive changes)
Behavioral changes – De-escalation of cycles
• High Arousal (Second Order Change) Repeated in-session Change of CyclesConsolidation of change of relationship
cycles (out-of-session change)
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Low Arousal: 1st Order ChangeDe-Escalation of Cycles with ReframeThe trainer reframes providers’ overt
feelings and behaviors to illuminate their vulnerable feelings, attachment desires and positions, and the consequences of their behaviors
The results of reframing are:Cognitive changeInternal working models change (Emotional and Cognitive changes)Behavioral changes – De-escalation of cycles 24
High Arousal: 2nd Order Change
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Training Visit Interventions and Directives The trainer directs the provider to respond in a different way.
To express his/her vulnerable feelings to the other, that is to ask directly for what she or he wants
Or to help him/her to hear, understand, and respond to this expression of vulnerable feelings and attachment needs
This directive RAISES the AROUSAL LEVEL of the participants
Over time, the participants learn to take new positions with each other and that helps to reorganize their interactional patterns
Evoking High Arousal Only evoke the vulnerable feelings of
the providerFearSadnessIncompetence/Anger of the withdrawer
Do not evoke the overt or defensive feelingsRage, AngerShameEmbarrassment
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Q&ADo we think we know what our own
attachment style is?Do we have an idea of what our providers’
attachment styles are?Having and idea about our own and others’
styles can help us engage with others in a more positive and productive way.
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Types of ProvidersWhat are the characteristics of the providers
you are involved with?Can we create profiles?
Styles of EngagementHow do we relate to or engage in meaningful
conversation with each type?Is this a one-size fits all approach?Do we need different approaches?
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Process of Change in Training/Mentoring
1. Engagement2. Assessment3. 1st Order Change: Reframe4. 2nd Order Change: Directives5. Consolidation
Engagement Strategies
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Empathy
Validation & Normalization
Heightening Vulnerable Feelings
The Use of Metaphors & Stories
AssessmentWhat is assessed?
Attachment positionsOvert and vulnerable feelings related to
positionsInteractional cycles and consequences
We assess these things by tracking and reflecting the interactional cycles and the consequences
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1st Order Change -- REFRAMEAddress negative feelings (yours and
provider’s)Change the scriptStop the cycle
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2nd order change -- DIRECTIVES Change the cycleStopThinkRespond differentlyPractice, practice, practiceNeeds to hold up under stress
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