Accidents are Meant to Be
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Clkwqny ;
_lkq lkxn E ambn= E s`ea amwb qm qln cm`a qe`n mh qln ikqlymmd h`mmy kba cyena" E qlynw
qln sdk`` sqecj kq qln ammy kba i~yena du hkcn ebqm du k`ds" Eq wks mseqexn"
E wykna du kyds kym~ba du h`kq sqmdkcl kba k``mwna du sk`q$wkqny qnkys qm
hk``" Du sqykeolq clmcm`kqn cm`myna lkey hn`` eb du hkcn kba o`~na qm du wnq clnnjs" Du `ehn wks
mxny, inck~sn E wks bmw s~myqebo kbmqlny ehn" Bmq qm dnbqemb, Ed hehqnnb"
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E oykiina qln naon mh qln sebj kba ~``na dusn`h mhh qln oym~ba" E oykiina qln sqecj kba
`kcna eq eb du mcjnq" E sckbbna qln lk``wku {~ecj`u kba ykb qm du ymmd, mcjebo qln ammy
inleba dn"
E ~``na qln sqecj hymd du mcjnq kba `kcna eb inqwnnb qwm mh qln l~baynas mh kons eb
du hkxmyeqn immj, K S~eqki`n Imu"Clnyequ+ Eqs qedn hmy aebbny+ Du m`any sesqny, Cku`k, ck``na hymd qln jeqclnb" E y~iina
du nuns qyuebo qm onq yea mh qln E f~sq cyena `mmj" Du cmbqkcqs wnyn sd~aou eb du nuns ks E
wk`jna amwb qm qln jeqclnb" Qln sdn`` mh skolnqqe ck~sna du sqmdkcl qm yn`nksn k m~a oymw`"
Cku`k k~olna kba bmaana qmwkya du ~s~k` snkq kq qln aebebo ymmd qki`n" Du dmd kba aka
wnyn k`ynkau snkqna" E ck~qem~s u skq amwb k qwey`na qln skolnqqe kym~ba du hmyj"
_n``, um~yn kwh~``u {~enq" Du hkqlny cmddnbqna"
Aea Iynbq iynkj ~ weql um~= Du dmd ksjna"
Dmd, sln iymjn ~ weql led dmbqls kom" Cku`k kbswnyna" E sqe`` lka bmq skea k wmya"
Ikiu, wlkqs wymbo= Du dmds nuns wnyn he``na weql cmbcnyb" _lkqs ymbo es qlkq
um~ snbq dn qm My`kbam eql Kye lnyn E dnq k sq~wea o~u, lm E qlm~olq ckyna kim~q dn, kba
bm Ed wynobkbq" I~q, E aeabq sku qlkq" E cm~`abq sku qlkq"
Bmqlebo" Ed hebn" E dkbkona qm sku eb k l~slna qmbn"
Ambq kcq$$ Du aka inokb"
Aka, `nq eq om" Cku`k skea lkysl`u" Qlkbj Oma hmy Cku`k" E hebeslna lk`h du dnk` kba
aymna du hmyj mbqm qln `kqn" Qln c`ebjebo wks qln m~ansq qlebo eb qln ymmd ksean hymd du
iynkqlebo"
Dku E in n|c~sna= E ksjna eb k wlesny"
S~yn swnnqlnkyq" Du dmds smhq kbswny aeabq dkqcl lny lkya, s~secem~s nuns" E
oykiina du `kqn kba snq eq eb qln sebj"
S`mw`u dkjebo dn wku ~ qln sqkeys, E lnkya Cku`k ksj qm in n|c~sna qmm" E {~ecjnbna du
kcn kba sl~q qln ammy, mcjebo eq kokeb" Mb`u k cm~`n sncmbas kqny, Cku`k qkna lny hesq
kokebsq du ammy"
W`nksn nkxn dn k`mbn" E clmjna m~q"
Clny, qk`j qm dn" Sln skea qlym~ol qln ammy" E bnnana smdnmbn qm qk`j qmwlu bmq du
insq hyenba= E sqmma ~ kba mnbna qln ammy hmy lny" Ks smmb sln `mmjna dn eb qln nun, sln
jbnw smdnqlebo wks ynk``u wymbo" Sln wykna lny qleb kyds kym~ba dn kba i~yena lny
i`mban c~y`s ebqm du slm~`any" E hebk``u anceana qm `nq eq m~q, E cyena ebqm lny slm~`any" Sln
yn`nksna dn kba `mna ebqm k inkb iko weql k wkeqebo n|ynssemb aykwb kcymss lny hkcn"
Nxnb khqny qlkq, um~ wmbq qn`` dn wlkqs wymbo= Cku`k sm~bana l~yq"
Um~ ambq wkbq qm jbmw" E wlesnyna, mmjebo eb qln mmseqn aeyncqemb mh lny"
Eh E jbnw, E cm~`a ymiki`u ln`"
Bmqlebo ckb ln`, Cku" E lnkya lny sqkba ~ kba qln ina inckdn ~bnxnb ks sln `kcna
lnysn`h mb mbn sean mh dn"
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@nq dn qyu" Sln ymaana" Du lnkyq {~ecjnbna ks E ~``na qln aecqembkyu hymd inbnkql
du ina" E k`sm oykiina k leol`eolqny"
_lkq$$ E ln`a ~ du eban| hebony qm lny kba h`ena qlym~ol qln lnkxu immj" E hm~ba
qln wmya E wks `mmjebo hmy kba ykb qln iyeolq un``mw kcymss qln wmya kba eqs anhebeqemb" E sl~q
qln aecqembkyu kba `kcna eq ebqm lny `k"Clny, um~yn dkjebo qles lkyany qlkb eq lks qm in" E slmmj du lnka kba oykiina qln
qmwn` qlkq wks s`~bo kcymss du cmd~qny clkey, k`mbo weql k key mh hynsl kfkdks" E kaana m~q
mh qln ymmd kba ebqm qln slmwny"
Qln wkyd wkqny ckynssna du sqynssna d~sc`ns kba hmy k sncmba my qwm E wks ki`n qm
hmyonq kim~q qln cle`a oymwebo ebsean mh dn" I~q qln qlm~olq ckdn ikcj ks {~ecj`u ks eq lka
ombn" E `kcna du lkba mb du sqmdkcl kba sl~q du nuns"
Ed omebo qm in k dmd" _lkq e`` E bkdn eq eh eqs k imu my eh eqs k oey`= Lm `mbo ~bqe` E
sqkyq slmebo=[~nsqembs ejn qlkq ceyc~`kqna du deba ~bqe` k ykea jbmcj mb qln ammy iymjn du
qykeb mh qlm~olq" Cku`k jbnw" E sqnna m~q mh qln slmwny kba wykna k qmwn` kym~ba du qleb
imau" E ckynh~``u mnbna qln ammy kba sq~aena Cku`ks n|ynssemb" Lny nuns wnyn o`mssu kba lny
dm~ql wks hmydna ebqm k sudkqlnqec hymwb" E cynksna du nuniymws kba wkeqna" E inokb qm cyu,
kokeb"
Kyn um~ s~yn= Sln ksjna eb k wlesny" E wksbq s~yn" K`` E jbnw wks qlkq qlnyn wks k
msseie`equ qlkq E wks, sm E im~olq qln qnsq" E slmmj du lnka"
Qlnb wn lkxn qm heba m~q" Sln sqkqna dkqqny$mh$hkcq`u" E slmmj du lnka eb hnky"
E ambq kbqqm jbmw"
Om onq aynssna" Eq wksbq k yn{~nsq, eq wks k andkba" E bmaana kba wnbq qm du ymmd,
qlymwebo mb fnkbs kba k swnkqsleyq" _lnb E sqnna m~q mh du ymmd, Cku`k wks wkeqebo m~qsean"
@nqs om hksq" Sln wykna lny lkba kym~ba du wyesq kba ~``na amwb qln sqkeys,
sbkqclebo lny jnus mhh qln aebebo ymmd qki`n"
_lnyn kyn um~ oey`s omebo= Du dmd ksjna hymd qln exebo ymmd" Cku`k scmw`na kba
{~ecj`u slmmj lny lnka"
_nyn omebo qm onq smdn ecn cynkd" E skea {~enq`u"
K`yeolq, wn`` ambq in m~q `kqn" Eqs k sclmm` beolq"
S~yn Dmd+ Cku`k slm~qna" Eqs k sclmm` beolq=Qln heysq aku mh smlmdmyn unky wks
qmdmyymw" Inhmyn hnky cm~`a sebj eb, sln ~``na dn m~q qln ammy kba wn i~cj`na ~ eb lny S^X"
Ks sln ~``na m~q mh qln ayexnwku, ynk`equ leq dn, hmy qln sncmba qedn" E ~``na du jbnns ~ qm
du clnsq kba wykna du kyds kym~ba qlnd"
Ed qnyyehena" E skea smhq`u"
E jbmw Clny, E jbmw" Sln y~iina du ikcj kba slmmj lny lnka" _n ~``na ~ qm k
ay~osqmyn kba Cku`k myanyna dn qm sqku eb qln cky"
E ~q qwm hebonys qm du qnd`ns kba qmmj wlkq d~sq lkxn innb k de``emb ann iynkqlns"
F~sq inck~sn Ed dn, E ebclna dusn`h, dkjebo s~yn qles wksbq k aynkd" Eq wksbq"
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Cku`k ykb m~q mh qln sqmyn weql k iko qlkq sln wks c`~qclebo eb lny swnkqu k`ds" Sln
qlynw eq mb du `k kba sqkyqna qln cky" E mnbna qln iko weql du slkju lkbas, kba skw qnb
aehhnynbq iykbas mh ynobkbcu qnsqs"
E ambq qlebj E lkxn qlkq d~cl eb dn" E skea" Cku`k `k~olna mbcn kba ~``na m~q mh qln
sqmyn"Clny, um~yn hehqnnb" _lkq lknbna= Cku`ks xmecn wks slkju, ks eh sln wnyn kim~q qm
cyu"
E aea wlkq nxnyu oey` lks qm am qm onq ynobkbq" E wm~`abq akyn sku qln wmya"
Um~ aea eq mb ~ymsn= Lny xmecn wks k slye``"
Um~ qlebj E wkbq qles= Eq wks kb kcceanbq E ieq du clnnj kba cle``s wnyn snbq amwb du
ikcj"
_lm=
Cku`k
_lm qln ln`` wks eq Clny= Ea bnxny lnkya lny un`` kq dn ejn qlkq inhmyn"
Les bkdn wks Fkyna" Du lnkyq qye`na eqs kcn ks les bkdn ym``na mhh du qmbo~n"
Aea ln om qm sclmm` weql um~ `ksq unky= E slmmj du lnka kba nbqwebna du hebonys"
E dnq led eb My`kbam" E skea, kslkdna"
Qlnb qlkqs wlnyn wnyn omebo" E swnky du lnkyq sqmna wlnb Cku k skea qlkq"
_lkq= Bm, wn ckbq+
_n ckbq, i~q um~ we``" _n bnna qm snn wlkq ln qlebjs"
Cku`k, wn exn eb An`qmbk"
Qleyqu de`ns es bm ieo ank`" E mnbna du dm~ql qm snkj kokeb, i~q Cku`ks n|ynssemb
qm`a dn bmq qm" Sln kyjna kq k hksq hmma ynsqk~ykbq kba slmmna dn" E nuna qln oymcnyu iko kba
qlnb f~dna m~q mh qln cky"
E slmmj m~q du mbo lkey qm cmxny du hkcn kba snna$wk`jna ebqm qln kaens ymmd" E
dkbkona qm ~sn nxnyu sqecj" E nkbna kokebsq qln sqk`` wk`` kba wkeqna" Qln jbmcj mb qln ammy
ck~sna dn qm f~d"
Clny, mnb ~" Cku`k wlesnyna" E ~slna qln ammy mnb kba qlnb `mcjna eq mbcn sln
wks ebsean"
_lkq am qlnu sku=
E ambq jbmw" E sqkyna kq qln mxnyq~ybna qnsqs, khykea mh wlkq E wm~`a snn"
Qlnb E`` am eq" Cku`k cym~clna insean qln sqecjs kba ckynh~``u q~ybna nkcl mbn mxny" E
c`msna du nuns kba q~ybna kym~ba"
Qlnuyn k`` mseqexn" Lmw `mbo lks eq innb sebcn um~ kba led=
K dmbql" Du xmecn cykcjna" E hn`q Cku`ks kyd wyk kym~ba du slm~`any" Nkcl mh qln
sqecjs wks ann`u leaanb eb qln qeb qykslckb mh qlkq oynksu ynsqk~ykbq"
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E ynceqna Fkynas kaaynss hmy Cku`k kba kea du lnka kokebsq lny slm~`any" Eq snndna qlkq
`nss qlkb k deb~qn kqny, Cku`k kbbm~bcna qlkq wn lka kyyexna"
Onq ~ s`nnu lnka" Om jbmcj" Qln seolq mh les hkde`eky lmdn cynkqna k jbmq eb du
sqmdkcl" E lka snbq qwm dmbqls eb My`kbam, dkbu mh qlmsn akus inebo weql Fkyna"
E c`ecjna du snkqin`q kba s`ea m~q mh qln cky" Du lnkyq wks eb yluqld weql du hksq sqns"Inhmyn E cm~`a qlebj, E jbmcjna"
E hn`q wkyd kyds wyk kym~ba du wkesq kba seb dn kym~ba"
Clny Fkynas debqu iynkql ckynssna du hkcn ks ln seolna du bkdn" _lkq kyn um~
amebo lnyn= Inhmyn E cm~`a kbswny, Fkyna `kcna les lkbas mb lny sean mh du hkcn kba cy~slna
les es qm debn" Eq iym~olq dn ikcj qm dea$s~ddny" E lka innb cmd`nqn`u eb mxn weql Fkyna
kba eq hn`q ks eh E sqe`` wks kq qlkq dmdnbq" Cmdn eb, wn ckb lkbo m~q hmy k `eqq`n ieq"
E mmjna qmwkya qln cky kba Cku`k okxn dn k {~ecj bma"
S~yn" E `kcna du cm`a lkba eb les lmq mbn kba hm``mwna led ebqm les nbmydm~s lm~sn"
_n snqq`na eb qln `exebo ymmd mb les `~d cm~cl"
Lmw lkxn um~ innb kqn`u= Ln ksjna sde`ebo les eyynsesqei`n cymmjna oyeb" Ln ykb les
lkba qlym~ol les iymwb mcjs kba oykiina du lkba"
Bmq qlkq oynkq" E y~iina les jb~cj`ns weql du ql~dis" E jnq du nuns o`~na qm m~y
lkbas, ynh~sebo qm dnnq les okvn"
_lu= Ln qmmj les mqlny lkba kba `kcna eq ~bany du cleb, hmycebo dn qm dnnq nuns
weql led" K lmq qnky hn`` hymd qln cmybny mh du nun, amwb qm du clnnj" Ln {~ecj u wena eq
kwku kba ~``na dn ebqm les kyds"
_lnyn kyn um~y kynbqs= E mmjna kym~ba, bmq wkbqebo qlnd qm lnky"
Aebbny" Bmw, qn`` dn wlkqs wymbo Ln `kbqna k `eolq jess mb du es" E ynsmbana
kba wykna du kyds kym~ba les bncj, annnbebo qln jess"
Clny, um~ jbmw E mxn um~, i~q E bnna qm jbmw wlkqs imqlnyebo um~" E yn`nksna led
kba qmmj les lkba eb debn" E ckynh~``u `kcna eq mb du sqmdkcl kba ~q du lkba mxny les" Les
n|ynssemb wks f~di`na weql cmbh~semb" _lnb ln hebk``u mmjna ebqm du nuns ln jbnw" Fkyna
oksna kba ukbjna les lkba m~q hymd ~bany debn" E ~ysna du es kba k``mwna qln qnkys qm hk``"
E q~ybna du hkcn kwku, ynfncqemb sebjebo eb" E lnkya Fkyna sqkba ~ kba qln sm~ba mh les
kcebo sqns mxnywln`dna dn"
Kyn um~ mseqexn= Ln ksjna eb k l~slna qmbn, E o~nssna qlkq ln dku lkxn innb cyuebo
ledsn`h"
K`` n`nxnb qnsqs snndna qm qlebj sm" E skea" E, mbcn kokeb, ~``na du okbo`u jbnns ~ qm
du clnsq kba ynsqna du cleb ~mb qlnd"
EEambq jbmw" Ln sq~qqnyna" E esqnbna qm led ynq~yb qm les snkq insean dn kba ln
sqymjna du lkey"
Lmw qlm~ol= _n ~sna Les xmecn hkana kba ln slmmj les lnka" _n aeabq ~sn
kbuqlebo" Ln clmjna m~q" E s`mw`u bmaana kba sqmma ~"
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_lkq am um~ wkbq dn qm am= Fkyna ksjna, sqkbaebo insean dn" Am um~ wkbq du
nydessemb qm onq kb kimyqemb=
Es qlkq wlkq um~ wkbq= E s{~nkjna"
Bm, E dnkb, E ambq jbmw" Ln qyena mxny les wmyas kba ynsqna les lnka eb les lkbas"
Es qlkq wlkq um~ wkbq=E sly~oona kba q~ybna kwku hymd led kokeb" Ln oykiina du lkba kba ~``na dn ebqm k
l~o"
Clny, E ambq jbmw wlkq um~ wkbq dn qm sku Ln wlesnyna ebqm du slm~`any" E ln`a
mbqm les bncj qeolq" Eh um~ ancean qm jnn qln ikiu, Ed we``ebo qm ln`"
_n cm~`a cmbseany kamqemb E skea {~enq`u" Ln aymna les lkbas hymd dn kba slmmj
les lnka"
Kamqembs bmq k clmecn hmy qwm ynksmbs" Mbn, um~`` hk`` eb `mxn weql qln ikiu ks smmb
ks um~ snn eq" Kba qwm, E ambq wkbq m~y cle`a omebo qm k ykbamd cm~`n" Du lnkyq h`~qqnyna
wlnb ln skea m~ycle`a"
I~q, am um~ wkbq qm am kb kimyqemb= E ksjna" Fkynas nuns wkbanyna qln ymmd kba ln
`kcna les lkba mb du sqmdkcl"
Bm"
Sm um~yn ed`uebo qlkq wn jnn qln ikiu= Fkyna aeabq kbswny, i~q ln jessna dn
ann`u" E sde`na s`eolq`u kba jessna led ikcj"
Lmw kim~q wn onq m~y kynbqs qmonqlny bn|q wnnjnba kba wn ckb qn`` qlnd= Fkyna
s~oonsqna" E bmaana, hnn`ebo sckyna" _n ckb dnnq kq du kynbqs hkxmyeqn ynsqk~ykbq, qln
Xnbnqekb Ymmd" Lkxn um~ lnkya mh eq=
Uns, wn wnbq mbcn hmy du kynbqs kbbexnyskyu"
Mjku qlnb, Skq~yaku kq snxnb" E`` dkjn qln ynsnyxkqembs"
K`yeolq E slm~`a om" E skea" Fkyna hymwbna kba ~``na dn ebqm k qeolq ndiykcn"
E mxn um~, Clny" _n`` am qles qmonqlny" Ln wlesnyna eb du nky" E jessna led smhq`u"
E `mxn um~ qmm" Qlkbj um~" E `nq om mh led kba ln nscmyqna dn qm qln ammy" Ln ncjna
du `es mbcn dmyn kba E wk`jna m~q ebqm qln cmm` My`kbam key" E l~yyena qm qln cky kba lmna
eb, sqkyq`ebo Cku`k kwkjn"
Um~ qmmj hmynxny" Cku`k wlebna" I~q, lmw aea eq om=
Eq wks omma" _nyn dnnqebo weql m~y kynbqs bn|q wnnj qm qn`` qlnd wnyn jnnebo qln
ikiu" E skea cmbheanbqk``u"
Clnyum~yn hehqnnb" Um~ ckbq jnn qln ikiu"
Fkynas omebo qm ln`" E skea anhnbaebo Fkyna kba dusn`h"
E f~sq ambq qlebj$$
Sqm Cku`k" @nqs om lmdn" E skea cm`a`u, bmq wkbqebo qm lnky eq"
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Clkwqny 9
E nkbna mb du lkba eb clndesqyu esqnbebo qm Ds" _eqcmhhny aymbn mb kba mb" Eq wks mb`uqln qleya aku mh leol sclmm` kba E wks desnyki`n" E cm~`abq ln` i~q qlebj kim~q Fkyna kba qln
wku qlkq E kcqna wlnb E wks kq les lm~sn mb S~baku" Eq wks ks eh bmqlebo lka clkbona inqwnnb
~s sebcn qln beolq qlkq wn aea eq" I~q E jbnw qlkq E wks inebo ansnykqn qlkq aku" E slm~`a lkqn
Fkyna, inck~sn qln beolq wn aea eq, ln `nhq yeolq khqny kba E bnxny skw led hmy qln ynsq mh qln
s~ddny" bqe` qlynn akus kom"
Eq dkan snbsn qlkq E hn`q qlkq E sqe`` `mxna led, E wks smska wlnb E hm~ba m~q kim~q qln
ikiu kba E bnnana smdnmbn hmy s~myq" Fkyna~sna dn" Sm aea ln kcq~k``u wkbq qm ln` weql
qles ikiu=
E `kcna du lkbas mb du sqmdkcl, ann eb qlm~olq"
Clnyequ= E sbkna du lnka ~ kq Ds" _leqcmhhny kba ykesna kb nuniymw" _lkq amns
I sqkba hmy mb qln n`ndnbqs clkyq=
E `mmjna kq qln clkyq lkboebo mb qln wk`` kba wykcjna du iykeb hmy du neolql oykan
scenbcn jbmw`naon" Imymb" E skea {~enq`u"
Xnyu omma" Wku kqqnbqemb `nksn" Ds" _leqcmhhny q~ybna ikcj qm qln imkya kba inokb
qk`jebo kokeb"
E skq ikcj eb du clkey kba okvna kq qln qwnbqu$bebn sqykbonys s~yym~baebo dn" Qlnyn
wksbq mbn nysmb E jbnw eb qles c`kss" I~q, qlnyn wks k xnyu c~qn imu" Fkyna jbmcjna dn ~ kba
qlnb nhq dn k`mbn qlkq beolq, sm wlu ckbq E dmxn mb= E wkqclna qln imu, misnyxebo les s{~kyn
fkw kba sqymbo imbn sqy~cq~yn" Les iymwb lkey l~bo s`eolq`u eb hymbq mh les clmcm`kqn nuns kba ln
wks i~e`q" @ejn yena" E bmqecna led nnj kq dn kba E qlynw led k sdk`` sde`n" Ln oyebbna kba
q~ybna les kqqnbqemb ikcj qm qln imkya"
E ykb du hebonys qlym~ol du lkey ~bqe` qln in`` ykbo" E sqmma ~ kba okqlnyna du immjs
qmonqlny, sq~hhebo qlnd ebqm du s`ebo iko"
E `mmjna ~ hymd du iko kba bmqecna qln c~qn o~u sqkbaebo eb hymbq mh dn" Lnu, Ed
Kslqmb" Ln skea lm`aebo les lkba m~q" E `kcna du lkba eb les kba sde`na"
Ed Clnyequ, i~q, ~l, um~ ckb ck`` dn Clny" Ln bmaana kba yn`nksna du lkba" Sm,
wlkqs um~y bn|q c`kss= E ksjna ks wn wk`jna m~q mh qln c`kssymmd"
@~bcl" Qln skdn ks um~" Ln cl~cj`na kba E i`~slna sq~ea`u"
Yeolq" E skea eb k bm a~l dkbbny"
_lu ambq um~ seq weql dn kba cm~`n mh du hyenbas= Ln mhhnyna"
S~yn, Ea `ejn qlkq" E skea oyebbebo" _n wk`jna qm qln `mcjny kynk kba E `kcna du iko eb
du `mcjny" E hm~ba Kslqmb wkeqebo hmy dn weql k se``u sde`n mb les hkcn"
_lkq= E ksjna, a~di$hm~ba"
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Um~yn ynk``u ynqqu" Ln skea ks eh eq wnyn qln cks~k`$esq qlebo"
E i`~slna ann`u kba mmjna kwku hymd led" _n``, qlkbj um~")
Kbuqedn" Um~ ynkau= Ln ksjna weql les ql~dis eb qln mcjnqs mh les ckyom slmyqs" E
bmaana sde`ebo kba wk`jna insean led eb cmdhmyqki`n se`nbcn" Ks wn wk`jna qlym~ol qln ~bcl
`ebn, E oykiina k sk`ka kba k imw` mh hy~eq" E hm``mwna led qm k qki`n qlkq d~`qe`n nm`n, oey`skba imus, wnyn seqqebo kq"
Nxnyumbn, qles Clnyequ" Clnyequ, qles es nxnyumbn" Ln ~``na m~q k snkq hmy dn kba E skq
bn|q qm led, sde`ebo kq nxnyumbn"
Eqs becn qm dnnq um~ k``" E skea {~enq`u, qkjebo k ieqn mh ckbqk`m~n"
Le, Ed Yu`kbcn" K yeaec~`m~s`u qk``, yeaec~`m~s`u ynqqu, yeaec~`m~s`u sjebbu om`anb$lkeyna
oey` qm`a dn" Lny sdk`` sm~qlnyb qwkbo dkan dn oyeb"
Kyn um~ hymd H`myeak= E ksjna, kqqndqebo qm dkjn cmbxnyskqemb" Kba hyenbas"
Bm, Ed hymd Qn|ks, i~q H`myeaks oynkq" Sln skea, ecjebo ~ k sdk`` ckyymq kba
ckynh~``u nkqebo eq"
Lmw mbo lkxn um~ innb lnyn=
Sebcn dea$s~ddny" Bmq xnyu mbo" I~q qln inkclns kyn sm d~cl inqqny qlkb qln mbns eb
Qn|ks"
E mxn qln inkclns lnyn" _lecl aea um~ om qm= _nyn bmq n|kcq`u c`msn qm qln cmksq"
Du hkde`u kba E wnbq qm Dekde qln wnnj khqny wn dmxna eb" Qlkqs qln mbn cmd`kebq E
lkxn kim~q An`qmbk, eqs sm hky hymd qln mcnkb" Qln wkqny es sm ink~qeh~` kba eq jebak s~cjs qlkq E
ckbq f~sq ayexn amwb khqny sclmm`"
Qn`` dn kim~q eq" E bmaana eb koynndnbq" Qln inkcl wks ykcqeck``u du sncmba lmdn"
_n slm~`a om smdnqedn" Sln s~oonsqna" Sln sde`na ynxnk`ebo nyhncq, wleqn qnnql"
S~yn" E sde`na ikcj"
_lu ambq um~ cmdn qm du lm~sn khqny sclmm` qmdmyymw kba wn ckb am smdn
ynsnkycl"
Sm~bas omma" E skea, q~cjebo du lkey inleba du nky"
E hebeslna du ~bcl dkjebo sdk`` qk`j weql qln nm`n kym~ba dn" Mbcn wn wnyn
aesdessna, Kslqmb wk`jna weql dn qm du `mcjny, wkqclebo dn"
_lkqs um~y bn|q c`kss= Ln ksjna nkbebo mb qln s~yym~baebo mcjnys, wkeqebo hmy dn" E
~``na du sclna~`n m~q mh du ikcj mcjnq kba sq~aena eq"
Nbo`esl weql _k`qnys" E skea"
Skdn" E sde`na kq led kba swkna m~q k cm~`n bmqnimmjs, sl~qqebo qln dnqk` ammy"
Ln wk`jna yeolq bn|q qm dn, i~q bnxny nq m~y les qm~cl" _n wk`jna eb qln c`kssymmd
kba ln o~eana dn qm qwm ansjs" Ln skq insean dn kba Dy" _k`qnys sqkyqna les qnkclebo" E wks
`esqnbebo qm Dy" _k`qnys ~bqe` E hn`q smdnqlebo `kba eb du `k" E `mmjna amwb kba k lmbn wks
mnbna qm k bnw cmbqkcq" E mmjna kq Kslqmb kba ln f~sq sly~oona kba sde`n" E oyebbna kba ~q
du b~diny eb les lmbn, `kcebo eq ikcj eb les `k"
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Dy" _k`qnys snndna qm om mb hmynxny, i~q nxnbq~k``u qln in`` ykbo, kbbm~bcebo qln nba
mh qln aku" E sqmma ~ kba wk`jna m~q mh qln c`kssymmd, lnkyebo Kslqmbs {~ecj hmmqsqns hymd
inleba dn"
Lnu Clnyequ, Kslqmb ck``na khqny dn" E q~ybna kym~ba qm heba dusn`h bmsn qm bmsn weql
Kslqmb" E qmmj k sdk`` sqn ikcj kba q~ybna ~ mbn cmybny mh du dm~ql" _m~`a um~ wkbq qmcmdn qm du lm~sn= K i~bcl mh ~s kyn lkboebo m~q qmbeolq" _nyn f~sq omebo qm lkbo m~q eb qln
mm` kba myany smdn evvk"
E ieq du `e kba omq i~qqnyh`ens" Kq `nksq lmn qlnyn wnyn i~qqnyh`ens, i~q dkuin qln ikiu
wks lkxebo k kyqu mh eqs mwb"S~yn" Qn|q dn um~y kaaynss" E`` snn um~ qmbeolq" E wk`jna m~q mh
k sean n|eq ebqm qln wkyd H`myeak key weql qln ieoonsq sde`n mb du hkcn"
E skw Cku`ks cky kyjna mb qln c~yi kba ykb qm qln kssnbony"
Lmw wks um~y qleya aku ks k snbemy= E ksjna Cku`k" Sln ykb lny lkba qlym~ol lny
i`mban lkey kba sly~oona"
Eq wks hebn" Lmw kim~q um~, Ds" Leol Sclmm`= Sln ksjna"
E dnq qln oynkqnsq o~u, Cku+ Ed omebo qm les lm~sn qmbeolq" Lns qk`` kba f~sq sm akyb
kamyki`n+ E ynsqna du hkcn eb du lkba kba cm~`abq wen qln sde`n mhh du hkcn" E `mmjna kq
Cku`k, wkeqebo hmy lny ~s~k` n|ceqna ynsmbsn, i~q sln f~sq mmjam~iqh~`"
Lmw mhqnb am E lkxn qm yndeba um~, Clny= Um~ kyn ynobkbq+ Um~ ckbq sqkyq omebo m~q
weql imu b~diny qwm wle`n um~yn ynobkbq weql imu b~diny mbns ikiu" W`~s, E qlm~olq um~
kba Fkyna wnyn omebo qm jnn qln ikiu, qmonqlny"
Mjku, Cku`k, wm~`a eq je`` um~ qm in n|ceqna hmy dn= E jbmw wlkq um~yn skuebo es qy~n,
i~q E aeabq qn`` um~ nxnyu anqke` kim~q wlnb E s`nq weql Fkyna Du xmecn hkana, ks aea du
sde`n"
Qlnb wlkq kd E dessebo, Clnyequ=
Qln dmybebo khqny eq, Fkyna wks ombn" Qlkq wks qln ksq qedn E skw led inhmyn qln
s~ddny nbana" _lnb E wnbq qm les lm~sn, ln wksbq n|ncqebo qm in qm`a qlkq ln wks k hkqlny" E
qlebj qlkq ln hn`q mi`eokqna qm qn`` dn qlkq ln `mxns dn" E lkxn bm am~iq qlkq Fkyna we`` in kb
kdkvebo hkqlny kba mxn qles ikiu, i~q ln amnsbq mxn dn"
Kba Cku, Kslqmb dku bmq ~banysqkba, i~q eqs wmyql k qyu" Nxnyu bmw kba qlnb, qlnyns
qlkq mbn o~u qlkq we`` k`wkus in qlnyn hmy um~" E`` onq qm jbmw Kslqmb inhmyn E qn`` led, kba
lmnh~``u ln`` in qlnyn hmy dn"
Cku`k nkbna mxny kba l~oona dn, bmaaebo" Ed sckyna hmy um~" Um~yn f~sq k jea"
E jbmw" E skea sed`u"
Du lmbn innna kym~ba hexn kba E sde`na kq qln qn|q hymd Kslqmb" E sqyena m~q mh qln
sclmm` c`mqlns kba sq~aena du imau eb k h~`` `nboql deyymy" E `mmjna hymd k seanwkus kbo`n kba
~q du lkbas mb du sqmdkcl" Qlnyn wks k xnyu sdk`` i~d qlkq mb`u smdnmbn wlm jbnw E wks
ynobkbq wm~`a bmqecn" Sm, E anceana qm qkjn qln yesj mh wnkyebo du hkxmyeqn ebj iejebe" E qlynw
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k wleqn s~baynss mxny eq kba ~``na du lkey eb k dnssu i~b" E sq~hhna k qmwn` kba du cn`` lmbn
eb k inkcl iko kba ykb amwb qln sqkeys weql k oyeb `ksqnyna mb du hkcn"
Um~ ynkau= Cku`k ksjna" E bmaana kba wk`jna m~q qm lny cky" E omq seq~kqna eb qln
kssnbony snkq kba im~bcna weql kbqecekqemb" Cku`k k~olna ks sln omq eb kba E okxn lny
Kslqmbs kaaynss" _n ~``na ~ qm kb kdkvebo, wleqn lm~sn qlkq wks mb qm k becn sevna le``"F~sq ks E omq m~q, E skw Yu`kbcn inebo aymna mhh"
Yu`kbcn+ E ck``na m~q qm lny" Sln q~ybna qm dn kba sde`na, wkxebo" E fmoona mxny qm lny
kba wn sqnna ~ qln kyon am~i`n ammys"
Um~ `mmj oynkq" Kslqmb es sm ebqm um~" Sln cmddnbqna, oeoo`ebo"
Um~ qlebj=
Ml `nksn Clnyequ, E jbmw" E k~olna kba leq qln ammyin`` weqlm~q qlebjebo" Kslqmb
ckdn qm qln ammy eb bmqlebo i~q swed qy~bjs"
Lnu o~us" Ln skea, sde`ebo" Yu`kbcn wkxna iyesj`u kba wk`jna ksq Kslqmb, nkxebo led
kba dn k`mbn kq qln hymbq ammy"
Qlkbjs hmy cmdebo" Kslqmb skea {~enq`u, onsq~yebo hmy dn qm nbqny les l~on lm~sn" E
wk`jna eb inleba led kba `kcna du iko mb k wleqn `nkqlny cm~cl"
Qlkbjs hmy lkxebo dn" Um~y lm~sn es ink~qeh~`" E qmmj k qlynn$se|qu mmj kym~ba qln
lm~sn eb kdkvndnbq"
Qlkbjs, eq cmdns weql qwm kwuny kynbqs" Ln skea, sly~ooebo"
Edynssexn" E k~olna slmyq`u"
Hm``mw dn" Kslqmb skea, qkjebo qln nka kba wk`jebo amwb k `mbo lk``wku" E sqkuna kq
les lnn`s ~bqe` wn ckdn qm s`eaebo o`kss ammy" Ln s`ea qln ammy mnb kba wn wk`jna m~q mbqm k
oeokbqec ancj" Qln nbqeyn ancj wks sqy~bo weql eolqs kba kbqnybs kba amwb qln sqns, eb les
ukya, wks qln ieoonsq mm` Ea nxny snnb"
Ml, wmw" E wlesnyna"
Um~ `ejn eq= Ln ksjna"
E `mxn eq" Eqs qln cmm`nsq qlebo nxny" E `mmjna amwb mxny qln ik`cmbu mh les ancj kba skw
qln dkfmyequ mh qln jeas hymd `~bcl" Yu`kbcn lka lny akebqu hnnq eb qln wkqny kba wks seqqebo mb
qln `naon eb k xnyu sdk``wleqn iejebe" E hm``mwna Kslqmb amwb qln sqns kba qmmj k snkq mb k
wleqn mm` clkey" E sn`h$cmbscem~s`u qmmj mhh du aynss kba q~ybna qm Kslqmb" E sde`na ks les nuns
weanbna f~sq qln s`eolqnsq"
^l, ~d, am um~, ~l, wkbq kbuqlebo qm ayebj= M~cl+ Kslqmb sq~iina les qmw mb du
clkey kba `k~olna bnyxm~s`u"
E oeoo`na kba sly~oona" F~sq smdn wkqny `nksn"
Ln bmaana kba wk`jna ksq dn, slkjebo les lnka" Du nuns hm``mwna led k sdk`` iky
~bany qln ancj" Les lm~sn wks snyem~s`u kdkvebo"
Ln ckdn ikcj kba `kcna k o`kss mh wkqny mb qln qki`n bn|q qm du clkey" Qlkbj um~" E
skea, sqkbaebo ~ kba s`eebo mhh du h`e$h`ms"
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Um~ ynkau qm om eb qln wkqny= Ln ksjna, sde`ebo" E bmaana kba hmy qln heysq qedn, qmmj
bmqecn mh les qeolq d~sc`ns" Les sqmdkcl wks nyhncq`u ckyxna weql se|, o`myem~s kiamdebk`
d~sc`ns" Ln cl~cj`na ks ln bmqecna dn sqkyebo" E `mmjna kwku kba i`~slna ann`u" E eolq`u
~slna les slm~`any kba wk`jna qm qln anscnbaebo sqkeys ebqm qln mm`" F~sq ks E omq qm qln heysq
sqn, wkyd lkbas ~slna du ikcj kba E hn`` eb"E ckdn kimxn qln wkqny kba ~slna lkey ikcj, `k~olebo" Kslqmb wks sqe`` mb qln ancj
weql les lkbas kimxn les lnka eb ebbmcnbcn"
Kslqmb+ E slm~qna `kuh~``u"
Ln cl~cj`na y~bbebo les lkba qlym~ol les lkey" Smyyu, i~q eq wks sm qndqebo" Ln qlnb
s`mw`u dkan les wku ebqm qln mm` kba swkd qm wlnyn E wks" E f~dna kimxn qln wkqny, `kcebo
du lkbas mb les lnka, kba E ~slna led ~bany" Ln hm~olq ikcj, oykiiebo du wkesq kba qmssebo
dn ebqm qln key" E `k~olna ks E `kbana ~bany wkqny" E hn`q k lkba kym~ba dn wyesq kba Kslqmb
~``na dn ~"
Wkuikcjs k ieqcl" _n skea eb ~besmb, k~olebo" E q~ybna du lnka qm snn Yu`kbcn mb qm
k i~y`u i`mban o~us slm~`anys"
Clecjnb heolq+ Sln slm~qna" E q~ybna du lnka qm Kslqmb kba ln sly~oona, sde`ebo"
_lu bmq= E ksjna" Ln wnbq ~bany wkqny kba E `kcna dusn`h mb les slm~`any" Ks ln
ckdn ~, kba qln s~myq mh wkqny nhq dn, E kbecjna kba oykiina les lkey hmy ik`kbcn"
M~cl+ Ln skea, k~olebo"
Ml, smyyu, smyyu+ E km`moevna, `kcebo du lkbas mb du qleols"
Um~yn hebn" Kslqmb wk`jna ~ qm Yu`kbcn kba lny kyqbny, sm wn wnyn kim~q hexn hnnq
kwku hymd nkcl mqlny"
K imu E yncmobevna ks, Kbau slm~qna, Ynkauom+ E eddnaekqn`u oykiina Yu`kbcns
slm~`anys kba kqqndqna qm ~sl lny" Lny imbu imau wks anhebeqn`u ~banynsqedkqebo, inck~sn
sln wks sqymbo" I~q inhmyn Yu`kbcn cm~`a ~sl dn, Kslqmb ~slna qln i`mban o~u" Ln kba
Yu`kbcn hn`` ebqm qln mm` kba E qlynw du kyds ~, `k~olebo" Kslqmb kqqndqna qm `mmj ~ kq dn
kba ln ykesna les lkba hmy k leol hexn" Inhmyn, E cm~`a dmxn, E hn`` hymd Kslqmbs slm~`anys ebqm
qln mm`"
E ckdn ~ kba skw Yu`kbcn k~olebo lusqnyeck``u" E `k~olna k`mbo weql lny kba swkd qm
Kslqmb"
Becn wmyj qnkddkqn" E skea, ykesebo du lkbas hmy k sncmba slmq kq k leol hexn" Ln
s`kna les k`d kokebsq debn, cl~cj`ebo"
E `mmjna mb qln ancj qm snn k dkb eb i`kcj kba wleqn `kcebo k amvnb evvks mb k qki`n"
Um~ lkxn k i~q`ny= E ksjna"
Dkuin" Kslqmb skea, ~bs~yn mh lmw Ea ynkcq"
Qlkqs cmm`" Ln yn`k|na kba bmaana"
Um~ wkbbk nkq bmw=
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S~yn" E skea ckyn`nss`u, qyuebo bmq qm sm~ba nkony" E hm``mwna led m~q mbqm qln ancj kba
skq eb du clkey weql du kyds wykna kym~ba du sqmdkcl"
_lnyns um~y qmwn`= Kslqmb ksjna"
E `nhq eq ebsean"
Ml, wn``, cmdn mb" _n ckb om onq eq" E bmaana kba sqmma ~, hm``mwebo led ebqm qlnlm~sn" Ln lkbana dn du iko, i~q bneqlny mh ~s dmxna" Smbqkbnm~s`u, E `kbqna k jess mb les
clnnj" _lnb E ~``na ikcj E q~ybna iyeolq yna"
Ed smy$$
Ambq km`moevn" Ln skea" E bmaana hm``mwebo led ikcj m~qsean" Yu`kbcn ck~olq du nun
kba oykiina du n`imw, ~``ebo dn hymd Kslqmb"
_lkqa um~ am= Sln ksjna, s~secem~s`u"
_lkq am um~ dnkb= E ksjna, wykebo du qmwn` kym~ba dn"
Ambq `ku a~di" Um~yn dkfmy`u i`~slebo"
Du lkba wnbq sqykeolq qm du clnnj" E jessna led mb qln clnnj"
Ml, qlkqs swnnq" E qm`a um~ ln wks ebqm um~" Sln skea, mjebo dn"
Dkuin, i~q E dnkb, E f~sqdnq led"Kba ln amnsbq jbm qlkq Ed wynobkbq" E kaana eb
du lnka"
_lm ckyns= Um~ imql ejn nkcl mqlny" Sln skea, sly~ooebo" Bmw, nqs onq smdn evvk"
Ed sqkyxebo" E hm``mwna lny kba oykiina qwm encns mh evvk"
Yu`kbcn skq amwb insean dn kba beii`na kq lny evvk qlkq mxnyh`mwebo weql qmebos"
Um~yn sqe`` cmdebo mxny qmdmyymw, yeolq=
Anhebeqn`u" E skea, sde`ebo"
E cm~`a ebxeqn, Kslqmb Sln s~oonsqna weql k s`u sde`n"
Qlkbjs, i~q bm qlkbjs" E ambq wkbbk y~sl qln wlm`n Kslqmb qlebo"
_lkqnxny um~ sku"
E {~ecj`u hebeslna mhh du evvk kba skq amwb mb qln sean mh qln mm`, k``mwebo du `nos qm
ayehq" E lnkya smdnmbn seq insean dn kba E cm~`a qn`` eq wks Kslqmb iu les hkde`eky lnkxu
iynkqlns"
E `ejn um~ kba E wkbq qm jbmw eh um~ wkbq qm am smdnqlebo qles wnnjnba" Ln skea
{~ecj`u"
E `mmjna mxny kq led kba `k~olna" Unkl, Ea `ejn qlkq"
Dmxens mb Skq~yaku beolq=
E s~aanb`u yndndinyna qlkq E lka aebbny weql Fkyna kba du kynbqs mb Skq~yaku" Lmw
kim~q S~baku ebsqnka=
S~yn" Ln skea sde`ebo" E oyebbna kba inokb qm `nkb eb" Ln aea qln skdn, i~q E ~slna les
ikcj kba ln hn`` ebqm qln wkqny" Ln k~olna kba oykiina du kbj`n, ~``ebo dn ebqm qln wkqny"
_n cmbqeb~na ~``ebo ykbjs mb nkcl mqlny kba dnssebo kym~ba ~bqe` E lnkya du lmbn yebo" E
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{~ecj`u f~dna m~q mh qln wkqny kba h`ena eq mnb" Cku`k ebhmydna dn qlkq sln wks m~qsean
kba E inokb ayuebo mhh"
Kslqmb c`edina m~q kba wk`jna qm du sean" @nkxebo sm smmb=
Eqs qnb" Eqs ynqqu `kqn" E `k~olna kba ~``ebo du s~baynss mxny du lnka" E wk`jna ~
qm qln ancj kba qlym~ol qln lm~sn, qm qln hymbq ammy" E ~``na eq mnb kba sqnna mbqm qlnmycl, Kslqmb yeolq inleba dn"
_n``, qlkbjs hmy cmdebo" Ln skea lnseqkbq`u"
S~yn, E lka h~b" Qn|q dn kim~q S~baku"
E we``" E`` snn um~ qmdmyymw"
Uns, um~ we``" E skea, wykna du kyds kym~ba les bncj" Ln okxn dn k sqymbo l~o kba
yn`nksna dn weql k sde`n mb les hkcn" E sckdnyna amwb qln sqkeys kba okxn led mbn ksq wkxn,
inhmyn onqqebo eb qln cky"
Mml k`k" Cku`k skea, wkoo`ebo lny nuniymws kba `k~olebo"
Um~xn omq qlkq yeolq" E qm`a Cku`k qln wlm`n sqmyu a~yebo qln yean kba {~ecj`u omq eb qln
slmwny wlnb E ynkclna lmdn"
E ~q mb du se`j kfkdks kba sb~oo`na ebqm ina" Ks E wks hk``ebo ks`nn, k`` E cm~`a qlebj
kim~q wks aebbny mb Skq~yaku" E aeabq jbmw eh E wks ynkau qn`` du kynbqs" Kba Ea lkxn qm qn``
Kslqmb nxnbq~k``u" E anhebeqn`u wksbq ynkau" I~q aea E lkxn k clmecn=
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Clkwqny 3
E y~ddkona qlym~ol du c`msnq mmjebo hmy k aynss qm wnky qm aebbny qmbeolq" E anceanaqlkq eq slm~`a in ynqqu dmansq cmbseanyebo qlkq E wks qn``ebo du kynbqs qlkq E wks ynobkbq"
Cku`k+ E slm~qna, ~``ebo m~q k lmq ebj se`j aynss" E qlynw eq ksean kba Cku`k knkyna
eb qln ammywku"
Um~ bnna k aynss hmy qmbeolq= Sln ksjna, jbmwebo dn k`` qmm wn``"
Unkl" E skea, k~olebo" Sln aesknkyna kba ckdn ikcj weql k `keb i`~n aynss"
Qlkbjs, um~yn qln insq" Sln sde`na kq dn kba wnbq ikcj qm lny ymmd" E sl~q du ammy kba s`ea
qln aynss mxny du lnka, veebo ~ qln sean" Qln aynss wnbq f~sq ksq du dea$qleol kba qln
lnd ebn sqkuna kq qln skdn `nxn` ks du ~banykyds, sm bm c`nkxkon" E ~``na mb k wleqn swnkqny
kba k`dmsq i~qqmbna eq k`` qln wku" Qlnyn wks k sdk`` qk mb qln ammy kba E jbnw eq wks du
dmqlny"
Cmdn eb+ E un``na" Ks smmb ks du dmd mnbna qln ammy, E eym~nqqna hmy lny"
Um~ mmj ink~qeh~`, swnnqlnkyq" Bmw, yndeba dn wlu wnyn omebo qm k ynsqk~ykbq k``
qln wku eb My`kbam"
Dmd, E k`ynkau qm`a um~, E wkbq um~ qm dnnq qln imu qlkq E dnq mxny qln s~ddny, um~``
ynk``u ejn led" W`~s, E jbmw um~ mxn qln Xnbnqekb Ymmd kba My`kbams mb`u qleyqu de`ns m~q"
_keq, kynbq um~ omebo mb k akqn weql qlkq imu hymd um~y sclmm` qmdmyymw= Sln
ksjna, s~secem~s`u"
Ml sleq, E qlm~olq qm dusn`h" E lnseqkqna kba inokb snkjebo eb inqwnnb sq~qqnys" Unkl,
~d, i~q Dmd, eqs bmq `ejn Ed, ~l, qena amwb my kbuqlebo" E sly~oona, hnn`ebo du clnnjs q~yb
ebj"
Qnnbkonys" Sln scmhhna kba q~ybna kwku"
Um~ mmj ynqqu Dmd+ E slm~qna khqny lny" Sln kcq~k``u mmjna oynkq" Cku`k kba E wnyn
i~e`q qln n|kcq skdn wku ks du dmd wks bmw, `nkb kba qk``" Hmy qlkq E wks qlkbjh~`"
E {~ecj`u s`ena mb wleqn h`kqs kba oykiina du cn`` lmbn, y~slebo amwb qln sqkeys"
Dmd, Aka, kba Cku`k wnyn wkeqebo kq qln hymbq ammy"
Kyn wn qkjebo Cku`ks cky= E ksjna"
Un" Um~ kba E kyn seqqeb eb hymbq" Cku`k skea, sde`ebo" E oyebbna kba hm``mwna lny m~q qm
qln cky, seqqebo eb qln kssnbony snkq ks ~s~k` ks du kynbqs he`na ebqm qln ikcj snkq" _n inokb
m~y fm~ybnu eb k cmdhmyqki`n se`nbcn" I~q E jbnw qlkq wm~`a clkbon"
E nysmbk``u ynhny qln imu hymd sclmm`" Um~ slm~`abq lkxn qm ayexn qles hky hmy k imu"
Du hkqlny cmddnbqna" E sqkuna {~enq kba h~di`na weql du cn`` lmbn ~bqe` E yncnexna k qn|q
hymd Kslqmb"
Lnu kyn wn sqe`` mb 1 9dmyymw==
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Les qn|q ynka"
Dmsq anhebeqn`u
E qn|qna ikcj, kaaebo k sde`nu hkcn mb qln nba" Ln qn|qna dn qln qedn kba `kcn kba E
{~ecj`u nbana qln cmbxnyskqemb, ynk`evebo lmw c`msn wn wnyn qm qln ynsqk~ykbq" E skw Fkynas
hkde`eky wleqn Ykbon Ymxny kyjna kq qln hymbq kba du sqmdkcl s{~nnvna" Cku`k `kcna lny
lkba mb du slm~`any kba E qmmj k nnj kq lny ynkss~yebo n|ynssemb" Cku`k ~``na ebqm k skcn
kba E s`mw`u sqnna m~q mh qln cky"
Um~ ynkau= Cku`k wlesnyna, qkjebo du lkba eb lnys" E slmmj du lnka, i~q qmmj k
cmbheanbq sqn ebqm qln ynsqk~ykbq" E ck~olq Fkynas nuns kba ln dmqembna hmy du hkde`u qm cmdn
qm qln qki`n ln wks k`ynkau snkqna kq weql les kynbqs" Ks m~y kynbqs ebqyma~cna qlndsn`xns
kba qmmj qlney snkqs, E ksjna qm in n|c~sna weql Fkyna" E oykiina les wyesq kba fnyjna led m~q mh
qln hymbq ammys weql dn"
Lnu, Ln skea smhq`u, c~ebo du hkcn kba `kbqebo k jess mb du es" Qlkq slmcjna dn" E
eddnaekqn`u sqnna ikcj kba ~``na les lkbas mhh mh du clnnjs" _lkqs wymbo=
Cle``" Ed hebn" Um~ ambq lkxn qm ynqnba um~ mxn dn" E skea lkysl`u"
Wynqnba= Clny, E qm`a um~ E `mxna um~ wlnb um~ ckdn qm snn dn k wnnj kom" Kba um~
skea eq ikcj" _lkqs wymbo= Ln ksjna kokeb"
Fkyna, cmdn mb" E wks ska sm E bnnana smdnimau qm nkb mb kba E kyncekqn qlkq um~
wnyn qlnyn qm cmdhmyq dn, i~q Ed mjku bmw" Um~ ambq lkxn qm `mxn dn qm qkjn ckyn mh qles
ikiu"
I~q E am `mxn um~" Ln nysesqna"
E slmmj du lnka" Bm um~ ambq" E yndndiny, um~ nhq qln beolq khqny" Eqs k`yeolq, Ed bmq
kboyu kq k``" Ambq hnn` mi`eokqna qm mxn dn inck~sn Ed ynobkbq weql um~y cle`a" E skea, sqe``
a~di$hm~bana"
Qlkq wks k des~banysqkbaebo, du oykbadmqlny aena nky`u qlkq dmybebo, sm du kynbqs
wlesjna dn kwku qm K`ksjk" Ln n|`kebna"
Kba um~ f~sq aeabq ck``= E ksjna, kcea`u"
Ed sm smyyu kim~q qlkq" E lmbnsq`u aeabq qlebj wna ksq, inck~sn um~ exna hky nbm~ol
kwku hmy eq qm in k ymi`nd" I~q wlnb E skw um~ `ksq wnnj, eq wks `ejn bmqlebo lka clkbona
inqwnnb ~s Eqs mixem~s`u aehhnynbq hmy um~" Ln misnyxna du n|ynssemb, skabnss hk``ebo mxny
les nuns"
EEd smyyu" E qlm~olq$$
Um~ qlm~olq E ~sna um~ hmy sn|" Ln skea {~enq`u" E bmaana" _n`` E aeabq, kba E wkbq qm
in k kyq mh qles ikius `ehn" _n ckb in qmonqlny`ejn k ynk` hkde`u" Ln sde`na kba okvna kq dn"
E slmmj du lnka s`mw`u" Ed wkbq qm ykesn qles ikiu weql um~i~q bmq in eql um~"
Fkyna, E wks lnkyqiymjnb khqny um~ nhq dn, kba qlnb E dmxna mb" @ksq wnnjnba, E wks lusqnyeck`
kba E wksbq qlebjebo sqykeolq" Kba E kd sm smyyu hmy qlkq, i~q eqs f~sq bmq omebo qm in qln skdn
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inqwnnb ~s" E wkbq qles ikiu qm lkxn qwm kynbqs" Kba eqs bmq `ejn wnyn aexmycna my kbuqlebo"
Qlnyn wmbq lkxn qm in kbu c~sqmau ikqq`ns my sq~hh `ejn qlkq" Eqs f~sq
Qlnyns smdnmbn n`sn" Ln hebeslna du snbqnbcn, dksskoebo qln iyeaon mh les bmsn"
Unkl E skea smhq`u" E ~``na led ebqm du kyds, kqqndqebo qm cmdhmyq led" Ln oebony`u
`kcna les lkbas kym~ba dn, mb qln sdk`` mh du ikcj" Um~ ynkau= E wlesnyna"Bm, i~q eqs bmq `ejn wn lkxn k clmecn" Ln skea, qkjebo du lkba eb les" Qles lkba lm`aebo
wksbq ebqedkqn my ymdkbqec, eq wks f~sqbecn" _n wk`jna ikcj ebqm qln ynsqk~ykbq kba qmmj m~y
snkqs"
_n myanyna aebbny kba qk`jna kim~q lmw Fkyna kba E dnq kba wlkq wn aea mxny qln
s~ddny" Ks qln hmma kyyexna nxnyumbn wks {~enq" Qln mb`u bmesn wks qln c`ebjebo mh se`xnywkyn
kokebsq `kqns" E hn`q Fkynas lkba oyki debn ~bany qln qki`n c`mql kba E jbnw eq wks qedn" E
`mmjna kq led, bmq s~yn wlkq qm am"
Dmd, Aka" Dy" kba Dys" Fmbns" Clnyequ kba E lkxn smdnqlebo qm qn`` um~" Fkyna
kbbm~bcna smhq`u" Cku`ks nuns ck~olq debn" Qlnu wnyn wean weql qnyymy" E sly~oona s`eolq`u kba
q~ybna ikcj qm qln qwm snqs mh kynbqs" E cm~`a k`ynkau hnn` qln qnkys wn`` ~ eb du nuns" E
{~ecj`u ck~olq mbn qlkq hn`` kba qmmj k ann iynkql"
EEd E inokb smiiebo kba q~ybna qm nkb ebqm Fkynas clnsq" E qmmj k o`kbcn kq qlney
cmbh~sna hkcns kba skq ikcj ~, weebo kwku du qnkys"
E s~aanb`u hn`q dmyn cmbheanbq" Ed""yn E cm~`abq iyebo dusn`h qm sku qln wmyas" Ed
lkxebo k ikiu" E wlesnyna" Fkyna ~``na dn ebqm les kyds kba E cyena ebqm les mixem~s`u
n|nbsexn% i`kcj sleyq" Ln ln`a dn qeolq kba E wkeqna hmy du kynbqs qm sqkyq scynkdebo" E
s~aanb`u lnkya clkeys scynncl kokebsq qln wmmanb h`mmy kba Fkyna ~``na dn ~ mbqm du hnnq"
_nyn `nkxebo" Ln skea, sqe`` lm`aebo dn eb les kyds" E bmaana kokebsq led kba k``mwna
led qm o~ean dn m~qsean" Ln `nq om mh dn mbcn wn wnyn m~qsean kba E q~ybna qm sqkyn kq qln
qlynn yna$hkcna ka~`qs" Qln mb`u kynbq wlm mmjna bmydk` wks Fkynas dmd" Sln mnbna lny
kyds qm dn kba E wykna dusn`h eb k l~o"
Ml swnnqen, Ed sm smyyu" E ckbq in`enxn qlkq du ikiu wm~`a am qles qm k ink~qeh~`,
um~bo oey` ejn um~" Sln wlesnyna eb du nky" E slmmj du lnka"
Ambq i`kdn qles k`` mb led" E skea ikcj" Sln yn`nksna dn kba bmaana" E qmmj du `kcn
ikcj insean Fkyna kba wkeqna hmy du kynbqs qm sku smdnqlebo" Du hkqlny kba Fkynas hkqlny
wnyn swkebo cn`` lmbn b~dinys kba inhmyn E jbnw eq, Cku`k wks aykooebo dn qm qln cky" E
inoona kb km`mou qm Fkyna weql du nuns kba E cm~`a qn`` qlkq ln ~banysqmma" Cku`k ~q dn eb
qln ikcj snkq kba E i~cj`na ~" Sln s`ea eb bn|q qm dn kba ~q lny lkba mxny debn eb s~myq"
Du kynbqs kbana eb qln hymbq snkqs kba eb nss qlkb qleyqu sncmbas, wn wnyn snnaebo amwb
qln leolwku"
Aka, ck`d amwb" Qles esbq wmyql onqqebo ~s k`` s{~eslna" Cku`k skea {~enq`u"
Ck`d amwb= Slns h~cjebo hehqnnb unkys m`a+ Ln slm~qna hymd qln qm mh les `~bos" E
cyebona kq qln sm~ba mh du hkqlny c~ssebo" Nxny sebcn E heysq lnkya led c~ysn, eq qnyyehena dn"
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Clnyequ+ Lmw cm~`a um~ am qles= Ln mebqna kb kcc~sebo hebony kq dn weqlm~q `mmjebo kwku
hymd qln ymka"
E$E
Um~ jbmw wlkq, E ambq wkbq kb n|c~sn" Um~y dmqlny we`` qkjn um~ qm qln wmdnbs
c`ebec qmdmyymw kba um~ ckb onq yea mh qlkq qlebo" Ln qk`jna kim~q qln ikiu ks eq wnyn k oekbq,lkeyu seany" Kba ln qk`jna kim~q qln seq~kqemb ks eh eq wks les clmecn"
Bm" E skea {~enq`u, i~q sqymbo"
N|c~sn dn= Um~`` am ks E sku+ Ln slm~qna, dkjebo k slky yeolq q~yb" E okwjna kq du
dmqlny, kdkvna kq lmw sln cm~`a f~sq seq qlnyn kba am bmqlebo kim~q k`` mh qles" E dnkb, du aka
wks k onbnyk``u becn o~u" Eq wks f~sq wlnb ln omq dka qlkq ln wks sckyu"
Bm" E skea kokeb, m~any kba kboyeny" Qln cky swnyxna qm qln sean mh qln ymka kba ckdn
qm k lk`q" Du aka q~ybna kym~ba qm `mmj kq dn kba les hkcn wks ykcqeck``u ~y`n" Cku`k
s{~nnvna du lkba f~sq qm nq dn jbmw qlkq sln wks sqe`` qlnyn"
Um~yn bmq jnnebo eq" E ambq ckyn wlkq um~ wkbq" Ln oymw`na" E jbnw ln n|ncqna dn
qm minu ks E ~s~k``u aea wlnb ln wks qnyyehuebo`u kboyu"
Qles esbq um~y ikiu, Aka+ Eqs Fkynas kba debn+ Eqs bmq um~y clmecn wlkq E am weql eq"
Qln h~bbu qlebo es qlkq qles es um~y oykbacle`a kba um~ we``ebo qm je``eq" E skea je`` ks eh eq wnyn qln
wmysq qlebo qlkq cm~`axn nhq du dm~ql" Les hkcn smhqnbna f~sq qln qebensq ieq kba ln wks kim~q
qm mnb les dm~ql qm ~q ~ kbmqlny heolq"
Sqm eq+ Am um~ nxnb lnky um~ysn`h= Akxea, qles ikiu es bmq mb`u um~y oykbacle`a" Eqs
debn qmm" Qles es ikyn`u um~y clmecn my nxnb debn" Slns omebo qm am wlkqnxny sln wkbqs weql
qln cle`a, kba wnyn omebo qm s~myq lny" Bm dkqqny wlkq" Du dmqlny lessna" Du aka q~ybna
ikcj qmwkya qln hymbq webamw kba inokb ayexebo kokeb, ynqnbaebo ks eh du dmqlny lkabq skea
k wmya"
Du dmd q~ybna kym~ba kba `kcna lny lkba mb qm mh debn kba Cku`ks lkbas" E `mxn
um~, sln dm~qlna qm dn" E sde`na ikcj kba wena kq du nuns" E lkabq n|ncqna lny qm in sm
s~myqexn mh qln nbqeyn ikiu qlebo" _n hebk``u kyyexna lmdn kba du hkqlny f~dna m~q qln cky
kba sqmdna ebqm qln lm~sn"
Ambq wmyyu kim~q led" Ln`` `nkyb qm onq mxny eq" Du dmqlny skea, s`eolq`u sde`ebo" E omq
m~q mh qln cky kba {~ecj`u okxn lny k qeolq l~o"
Qlkbj um~" E d~di`na ebqm lny bncj"
Inebo kboyu weql um~ wm~`abqxn ln`na um~ my qln ikiu mbn ieq" Sln skea, nqqebo dn
om" E sde`na kq lny kba sln wk`jna ebqm qln lm~sn nkxebo Cku`k kba dn inleba"
Um~ aea oynkq" Cku`k skea, wykebo lny kyd kym~ba dn" E ynsqna du lnka mb lny
slm~`any kba slmmj du lnka" Kq nksq eqs mxny kba ambn weql" Sln kaana" I~q Cku`k wks
wymbo, eq lka f~sq ikyn`u ino~b"
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E mnbna du nuns qm k iyeolq S~baku dmybebo" E skq ~ kba {~ecj`u sl~q qln i`ebas,i`ebjebo k hnw qedns qm onq yea mh qln smqs eb hymbq mh dn" E qlynw qln i`kbjnqs mhh mh dn,
o`kbcebo kq qln qedn" N`nxnb qleyqu= E a~o qlym~ol du c`msnq kba oykiina k key mh sjebbu fnkbs,
weoo`ebo du wku ebqm qlnd" E ckdn qm qln i~qqmb kba kqqndqna qm c`msn qln kbqs" I~q du akyb
sqmdkcl wks eb qln wku" E ym``na du nuns kba s`ea mhh qln fnkbs, oykiiebo k `mmsny key kba
s`eaebo qlnd ~" E ~``na mb k c~qn x$bncj kba iy~slna qlym~ol du lkey" E k`ena smdn `eolq
dkjn ~ kba y~slna amwb qln sqns"
Cku`k, kyn um~ ynkau= E ck``na ~ qln sqkeys" Cku`k `mqqna amwb qln sqkeys eb swnkqs
kba lny c~y`u lkey wks ~``na ebqm k lnk mb qln qm mh lny lnka"
S~yn" Sln d~di`na, oykiiebo lny jnus kba y~iiebo lny nuns"
Smyyu hmy wkjebo um~ ~" Kynbq um~ omebo smdnwlnyn qmaku= E ksjna, wk`jebo m~q qm
qln ayexnwku kba sqnebo ebqm qln cky"
Unkl, Ed f~sq omebo qm @ebasnus lm~sn kqny qmbeolq" Kyn um~ n|ceqna= Sln nq m~q k
`m~a ukwb kq qln nba kba sqkyqna qln cky"
Anhebeqn`u" Lns s~cl k oynkq o~u kba E lkxn qln qebensq hnn`ebo qlkq qlebos we`` om wn``
weql led" E sde`na kba h~di`na weql qln anieq ckya eb du lkbas"
Kyn um~ omebo qm qn`` led= Sln ksjna"
E skea E lka k hnn`ebo qlkq qlebos wnyn omebo qm om wn``" Eh qlnu ambq, E ambq wkbq qm qn``
led hmy bm ynksmb" Eh wn kcq~k``u i~e`a k yn`kqembsle, qlnb s~yn, E`` qn`` led" Cku`k bmaana
kccnqebo du kbswny" K sde`n oynw mb du hkcn ks qln cky ym``na qm k sqm eb hymbq mh qln qlnkqyn"
E inokb qm onq m~q wlnb Cku`k oykiina du hmynkyd"
Lnu, ambq am kbuqlebo sq~ea" Sln skea snyem~s`u"
Ed k`ynkau ynobkbq" E ynsmbana skycksqeck` u" Sln sde`na kba `nq om mh dn" E s`ea m~q
mh qln cky kba wk`jna ebqm qln qlnkqyn, snnebo Kslqmb seqqebo mb nkqlny i`kcj smhks qlkq wnyn
kyykbona eb k `m~bon kynk"
Lnu" Ln skea, sde`ebo" E wk`jna mxny kba okxn led k wkyd l~o"
Lmw kyn um~= E ksjna"
Omma" Lmw kim~q um~= Um~ mmj k `eqq`n k`n"
Du lkba h`nw du hkcn kba E i`~slna"
Qlkqs k eqq`n inqqny" Ln skea, iy~slebo du clnnj" E i`~slna annny kba q~ybna du
imau qmwkya qln qecjnq ebn" _n wk`jna qlym~ol qln ebn kba Kslqmb jeba`u im~olq du qecjnq hmy
dn"
Um~ ynk``u aeabq lkxn qm am qlkq" E skea ks wn wkeqna eb qln sbkcj `ebn" Lmw kim~q E
cmxny sbkcjs=
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S~yn" Ln skea, oyebbebo" _n oykiina mcmyb kba qwm ayebjs qlnb wk`jna ebqm qln
`kyon akyj qlnkqyn" _n clmsn qwm snkqs bnky qln ikcj kba E snqq`na, mebo k encn mh mcmyb
ebqm du dm~ql"
E lnkya qles es s~msna qm in omma" Kslqmb skea, onsq~yebo qmwkya qln l~on scynnb"
Unkl, Ed n|ceqna" E skq ikcj kba qln `eolqs aeddna, qln ynxenws inokb ym``ebo kba qlnynxenw hmy k bnw `mxn he`d wks ym``ebo" E hn`q Kslqmbs lkba s`e ebqm debn kba E sde`na, bmq
`mmjebo kq led"
Qln dmxen inokb `kuebo kba E `k~olna kq k`` qln kymyekqn dmdnbqs kba wlesnyna
qm Kslqmb kim~q qln qlebos qlnu cm~`axn ambn inqqny"
Onnv, um~yn mbn qm~ol cyeqec" Ln wlesnyna" E sde`na, i~q du sqmdkcl s~aanb`u
c`nbclna" E s`kna du lkba mxny du dm~ql kba syebqna m~q mh qln qlnkqyn, dkjebo eq qm qln
qme`nq f~sq eb qedn" E cm~olna kba hn`q kbmqlny wkxn mh bk~snk cmdn mxny dn" E qlynw ~ kokeb
kba ~slna m~q mh qln sqk`` hnn`ebo c`k~sqymlmiec" E wkslna m~q du dm~ql kba n|kdebna du
hkcn eb qln deyymy" E wks secj`u k`n kba E `mmjna aykebna" Qlnyn wnyn akyj ceyc`ns ~bany du nuns
nxnb qlm~ol E omq k h~`` beolqs ynsq" E ~``na du lkey ebqm k mbuqke` kba qlynw eq mxny du
slm~`any ckyn`nss`u"
E qlynw k debq eb du dm~ql kba s`mw`u wk`jna m~q mh qln ynsqymmd"
Kyn um~ mjku= Kslqmb y~slna ~ qm dn, oykiiebo du n`imws"
Jeba mh= Ed hebn bmw"
Um~ ambq mmj qlkq oynkq"
Onn, qlkbjs" E d~di`na" Ln cl~cj`na kba slmmj les lnka"
Qlkqs bmq lmw E dnkbq eq" _lu ambq E onq um~ lmdn= Du iymqlnys m~qsean" E bmaana
kba k``mwna Kslqmb qm o~ean dn m~q mh qln qlnkqyn"
E skq eb qln ikcj insean Kslqmb weql du lnka ynsqna mb les slm~`any" _lnb wn ~``na ~
qm du lm~sn E wks aeskmebqna" Qles lkabq kq k`` ombn ejn E `kbbna" E yn`~cqkbq`u s`ea m~q mh
qln cky kba esqnbna qm Kslqmb cmdn m~q inleba dn" E wk`jna qm qln hymbq ammy kba q~ybna qm
hkcn led"
Ea jess um~, i~q Ln skea, oyebbebo" E sde`na kq led kba wykna du kyds kym~ba led"
_lu ambq um~ cmdn eb= E mhhnyna"
E ambq jbmw" Kyn um~ s~yn um~yn mjku= Ln ~bwykna les kyds hymd dn i~q jnq k
lkba mb du wkesq"
Unkl, Ed mjku bmw" Eq wks f~sq k qnb$deb~qn qlebo" E kss~yna led"
Eh um~yn s~yn Qlnb unkl, Ea ejn qm cmdn eb" E sde`na kba oykiina les lkba" E ~``na
led ebqm qln lm~sn kba aea k {~ecj qlynn$se|qu"
Qles es du `kcn" E skea sly~ooebo"
Eqs sm lmdnu" Ln cmddnbqna, mmjebo kym~ba" E lnkya hmmqsqns cmdebo amwb qln
sqkeys"
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Ml omma, eqs um~" Um~yn `~cju Aka esbq lmdn" Cku`k skea, sqe`` eb qln skdn c`mqlns ks
nky`eny" Sln inokb s`kebo qmonqlny k skbawecl kba jeba`u eobmyebo ~s"
Hm``mw dn" E skea, q~ooebo mb Kslqmbs lkba" E ~``na led ~ qm du ymmd"
Um~ ckb seq wlnyn nxny, Ed ombbk clkbon ynk``u {~ecj" E oykiina swnkqkbqs kba k
swnkqsleyq, akslebo qm qln ikqlymmd" E ckdn ikcj weql k c`nkb dm~ql kba qmssna du m`a c`mqlnsebqm du lkdny" E `mna amwb bn|q qm Kslqmb mb du ina kba nkbna kokebsq qln wk``"
Qlkbjs hmy qln akqn" E oy~di`na, qkjebo les lkba"
Ed smyyu um~ omq secj Ln kbswnyna, wkqclebo dn heaa`n weql les lkba"
Bm, Ed smyyu hmy qlkq" E y~ebna qln wlm`n qlebo"
Bm um~ aeabq" Qln dmxen wksbq qlkq oynkq kbuwku" E aeabq ynk`evn um~ wnyn s~cl k
lkysl cyeqec"
E onq qlkq hymd du aka" E skea `k~olebo {~enq`u"
_lkqs ln ejn= Kslqmb ksjna, snndebo qm qkjn lmbnsq ebqnynsq"
_n``lns f~sq k lkysl cyeqec" E ambq qlebj ln nxny oexns kbumbn k ynk` clkbcn ~bqe` ln
onqs qm jbmw qlnd" Eh `mmjs kynbq knk`ebo qm led, qlnb ln amnsbq imqlny omebo annny" Lns
becn kba k``, i~qE ambq jbmw" E `mxn led"
Am um~ qlebj ln`` ejn dn=
Qm in qmqk``u lmbnsqbm" Exn innb qlym~ol smdn cyk weql o~us kqn`u, sm lns jeba mh
kbqe$imu hmy bmw" I~q, dkuin um~`` clkbon qlkq" E sde`na kq led kba sly~oona" Lmw kim~q
um~y aka= _lkqs ln `ejn=
Dnkb" Kslqmb skea cl~cj`ebo"
Ynk``u= E `k~olna kba `nkbna mb Kslqmb"
Unkl" Ed bmq qmqk``u s~yn lmw ln kba du dmd nbana ~ qmonqlny" Du dmd es qln
oynkqnsq" Slns qmm becn" E k~olna kq qlkq kba bmaana, wkeqebo hmy dmyn" I~q slns innb
aehhnynbq sebcn~l E skq ~ kba sqkyna kq Kslqmb"
Um~ ckb qn`` dn" E skea smhq`u"
_n``, sebcn du sesqny kssna" E ck~olq du iynkql kba `kcna k s~myqexn lkba mb
Kslqmbs jbnn"
N|c~sn dn hmy ksjebo, i~q lmw=
Cky kcceanbq Ln d~di`na"
Ed smyyu" E aeabq dnkb qm
Bm, eqs mjku" Eh wnyn ombbk in qmonqlny, qlnb E slm~`a in ki`n qm qn`` um~ qlebos `ejn
qlkq"
E sde`na kq led" In qmonqlny= E ksjna"
Kslqmbs nuniymws ykesna kba ln sly~oona" Unkl, eh um~ wkbq qm" _n lkxnbq jbmwb
nkcl mqlny hmy nxnb k wnnj, i~q E `ejn um~ k `mq"
Omma, inck~sn E `ejn um~ k `mq qmm" Kba uns, E`` in um~y oey`hyenba" E skea qln wmya s`mw`u
kba sde`na, ieqebo du `e"
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Um~ skea um~ wnyn hnn`ebo inqqny= E bmaana" Qlnb E o~nss E ckb am qles" Kslqmb s`mw`u
ynssna les `es qm debn" E oyebbna kokebsq les smhq sjeb kba i`eba`u hm~ba les lkba" Kba jessna
led ikcj smhq`u kba qlnb ~``na kwku"
S`mw" E wlesnyna, ynssebo du hmynlnka qm les"
Mh cm~ysn" Ln skea, webaebo les hebonys qlym~ol debn" Les lmbn i~vvna kba ln mmjnakq k bnw qn|q"
E lkxn qm om" Ed smyyu" Ln d~di`na, sqkbaebo ~"
E sqmma ~ bn|q qm led kba slmmj du lnka" Eqs mjku" E oyebbna"
E`` snn um~ kq sclmm` qmdmyymw=
S~yn"
K`yeolq, iun Clnyequ"
Iun Kslqmb" Ln ncjna dn, i~q les es `ebonyna mb debn hmy kb n|qyk sncmba my qwm" E
~``na kwku kba k~olna, ~slebo led m~q mh du inaymmd" F~sq ks E lnkya Kslqmbs hmmqsqns
anscnbaebo qln sqkeys, Cku`k akslns ebqm du ymmd, s`kds qln ammy sl~q kba `ms amwb mb du
ina"
Qn`` dn nxnyuqlebo" Um~ wnynbq kq qln dmxens xnyu mbo" Sln skea s~secem~s`u"
Dmybebo secjbnss" Oynkq, esbq eq= E lessna skycksqeck``u"
Qlkq s~cjs" K `mq" I~q wlkq kim~q wlnb ln wks eb lnyn hmy k wle`n=
E qm`a led kim~q Aka kba qlnb ln ksjna dn qm in les oey`hyenba kba qlnb wn jessna" E
sde`na kq qln yncnbq dndmyu"
Khqny um~ qlynw ~= Cku`k ksjna, lny n|ynssemb aeso~sqna"
_mw, qlkbjs hmy inebo n|ceqna hmy dn" E skea, fmjebo`u"
Ml unkl, smyyu" _n``, cmboykq~`kqembs" Ln snnds becn" Sln skea sde`ebo"
Ln es" E oyebbna kba qlynw dusn`h ikcj kokebsq du e``mws"
Ml oma, `nksn ambq om ebqm qnnbkon aynkdu kba" Lns f~sq imu kba um~yn f~sq k jea"
Ambq onq ck~olq ~" Cku`k sqmma kba okxn dn qwm ql~dis ~, wk`jebo m~q" E ym``na du nuns kq
lny kba sqyman m~q mh du ymmd, amwb qln sqkeys" E ynkclna ebqm qln ynhyeonykqmy kba ~``na m~q
smdn nhq$mxny dkckymbe" E skq amwb kq m~y es`kba kba ckynh~``u inokb nkqebo qln bmma`ns mbn iu
mbn" Qlnyn wks k qk mb qln ammy kba E s`ea mhh qln sqmm`" E kaana qm qln hymbq ammy kba mnbna
eq"
Lnu Fkyna, E skea, bmbclk`kbq`u wk`jebo ikcj qm du an`ecem~s, cm`a dkckymbe"
Du kynbqs kyn eb qln ayexnwku" Qlnu skea wn lka qm qk`j kim~qeq"
Mjku qlnb, seq kba wn ckb qk`j" I~q wnxn k`ynkau qk`jna" E sly~oona kba ~q k hmyjh~`
mh dkckymbe eb du dm~ql" Fkyna skq mb qln sqmm` kcymss hymd dn kba `nkbna mb les kyds"
Qlnu wkbq ~s qm ynqlebj jnnebo qln ikiu" Ln iynkqlna" E k`dmsq cm~olna ~ du
dkckymbe"
Bm" Du aka k`ynkau qyena qm ~sl dn ebqm kimyqemb kba Ed bmq lkbaebo du ikiu mhh qm
smdn sqykbonys"
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M~y" Fkyna skea s`mw`u"
_lkq=
M~y ikiu" Bmq um~y ikiu" Qles es k ancesemb wn imql lkxn qm dkjn"
Ml, smyyu" Neqlny wku, wnyn jnnebo eq" E skea cmbheanbq`u"
_lkq eh _lkq eh E ambq wkbq qm= Fkyna ksjna {~enq`u"Um~ wnyn qln mbn wlm cmbxebcna dn ebqm jnnebo eq kbuwku+ Kba eh um~ ambq wkbq qm,
qlnb E`` ykesn eq iu dusn`h" Eh k`` um~yn amebo lnyn es qyuebo qm cmbxebcn dn qm clkbon du deba, eq
wmbq wmyj" Um~ ckb om" E lessna" Fkyna ynkclna hmy du lkba, i~q E ~``na eq ~bany qln qki`n"
Ed smyyu, i~q du kynbqs Ln `mmjna kq dn ~bany les mbo nun`kslns kba E scmhhna"
Oymw ~, Fkyna" _nyn lkxebo k ikiu" Um~ bnna qm sqm yn`uebo mb um~y kynbqs" E mxn
qlnd, i~q in um~y mwb nysmb" @ejn um~ skea, qles es um~yancesemb, bmq qlneys" Fkyna bmaana
kba sqmma ~" Ln wk`jna qm qln ammy kba ~``na eq mnb" Sm= E ksjna {~enq`u"
_nyn jnnebo eq" Ln skea, sm~baebo ejn bmqlebo cm~`a i~aon led" E sde`na ks E
wkqclna led wk`j m~q qln ammy" E wlesnyna k qlkbj um~ kba qmssna du dkckymbe cmbqkebny
ebqm qln sebj"
E qmmj qln sqns qwm kq k qedn kba h`ecjna mhh du inaymmd `eolq, f~debo ebqm du ina"
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Clkwqny >
Ckb wn `nksn om qm qln inkcl qles wnnjnba= Yu`kbcn ksjna hymd kcymss qln ~bclqki`n" Eq wks dea$Mcqminy kba Yu`kbcn lka innb ksjebo qln skdn {~nsqemb nxnyu aku" E ynsesqna
nxny skuebo uns a~n qm qln qebensq i~d eb du sqmdkcl" E cm~`abq yesj eq" Cku`k jnq qn``ebo dn
qlkq sln cm~`abq nxnb snn kbuqlebo, i~q lmw cm~`a E yesj eq=
E qmmj k ieqn mh du sk`ka, k kyq mh du bnw xnonqkyekb aenq qlkq es s~msna qm s~`u qln
ikiu weql k`` qln yeolq b~qyenbqs, kba sly~oona du slm~`anys qm Yu`kbcns {~nsqemb" Kslqmb lka
les kyd aykna mxny qln ikcj mh du clkey qk`jebo qm smdn o~us kq qln qki`n inleba ~s"
Kyn um~ mjku= Yu`kbcn ykesna lny nuniymws kq dn, qkjebo k ieqn mh lny lkdi~yony" Ml
Oma"""lkdi~yonys" E ynk``u kbq k lkdi~yony"
_lkq= Unkl, unkl Ed hebn+ E skea weql k eqq`n qmm d~cl nbql~seksd"
Mjku""" Sln skea s`mw`u kba am~iqh~``u" E qmssna du sk`ka, okqlnyna du iko kba s`ena
m~q mh qln ckhnqnyek kba ebqm qln ikqlymmd" Qles wlm`n nnebo qwnbqu qedns k aku wks onqqebo
m`a" E wks eb qln deasq mh scy~iiebo du lkbas wlnb Yu`kbcn s`ena ebqm qln ikqlymmd kba
anka im`qna qln ammy" Sln aea k {~ecj swnn qm dkjn s~yn wn wnyn k`mbn kba qlnb knkyna eb
hymbq mh dn"
Kyn um~ ynkau qm sqm uebo qm dn= Sln cymssna lny kyds kba nkbna ebqm lny le"
_lkq kyn um~ qk`jebo kim~q= Sln ymiki`u jbnw" E qyena qm jnn ck`d kba sq~cj du
lkbas ~bany qln ayuny"
Clnyequ, `nksn sqm i~``sleqqebo dn" Ed bmq kb eaemq" E ckyn kim~q um~ kba E wkbq qm
jbmw wlkqs wymbo" Um~ jbmw qlkq E wm~`a bnxny qn`` kbumbn kbuqlebo bm dkqqny lmw ika eq
wks" Qy~sq dn my ambq qy~sq dn, i~q um~yn bmq onqqebo m~q mh lnyn ~bqe` E onq qln qy~ql"
_lkq dkjns um~ qlebj qlnyns smdnqlebo wymbo=
Um~yn k`wkus y~bbebo qm qln ikqlymmd kba mmjebo n|lk~sqna kba ikyn`u nkqebo+ E
jbmw qlnyns k `mq mh ynss~yn qm heq eb, i~q ay~os kynbq$$
_keq, wkeq, wkeq"""um~ qlebj Ed amebo ay~os= E cm~`abq ln` i~q k~ol"
Kynbq um~= Sln ksjna a~dihm~bana"
Bm+ Mh cm~ysn bmq+
Qlnb wlkqs ~ weql qln hyn{~nbq qyes qm qln ikqlymmd kba qln n|lk~sqemb kba uebo=
Kba qln ~o`u c`mqlns kba qln sk`kas kba qln cykcjnys kba$$$ml du oma" Um~yn bmq"""=
Wynobkbq= E hebeslna ckyn`nss`u" _lm ckyns eh sln jbnw= Nxnyumbn wm~`a jbmw
nxnbq~k``u"
Ml du"""kba Kslqmbs qln hkqlny= Amns ln jbmw=
Bm mh cm~ysn Kslqmbs bmq qln hkqlny+ Exn jbmw qln o~u hmy `nss qlkb k dmbql+
I~q amns ln jbmw= Sln wks sqkyebo kq dn" Bmq f~aoebo, i~q cmbcnybna"
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Bm Yu`kbcn, ln amnsbq jbmw" E seolna kba clncjna qln qedn" Um~yn omebo qm in kqn
hmy c`kss"
E lkxn hynn nyema weql um~" Sln mebqna m~q ikyn`u i`ebjebo" _n sqmma eb se`nbcn hmy k
wle`n ~bqe` qlnyn wks k jbmcjebo mb qln ammy" E inokb qm dmxn qm mnb eq, i~q Yu`kbcn slmmj lny
lnka kba nyclna lnysn`h mb qln sebj cm~bqny" E fmebna lny, s`~debo mxny kba s~aanb`u hnn`ebobk~snm~s"
E hebeslna ~jebo kba iy~slna du qnnql weql qln qmmqliy~sl Ea yncnbq`u innb jnnebo eb
du iko" E k`sm ~``na m~q k iko mh sk`qebns kba inokb d~bclebo mb qlnd"
_e`` um~ `nksn qn`` dn wlkqs omebo mb= Sln ksjna ykcqeck``u k wlesny" Sm E qm`a lny,
kim~q Fkyna kba nxnyuqlebo"
_lnb am um~ qlebj um~`` qn`` Kslqmb= Sln ksjna khqny Ea hebeslna"
E lkxn bm eank" E lkxn du heysq ~`qyksm~ba khqny sclmm`"""
Yu`kbcn qmmj du lkba" Ed smyyu um~yn omebo qlym~ol qles" E`` ln` eb kbu wku E ckb" Ks
um~y hyenba, E qlebj um~ slm~`a qn`` Kslqmb ks smmb ks mssei`n" @ejn qmbeolq"
Qmbeolq= Du xmecn s{~nkjna"
Yu`kbcn bmaana kba s`ea mhh qln cm~bqny, ~b`mcjebo qln ammy" _n s`ea m~q ebqm qln cymwa
kba ebqm m~y hebk` c`kssns hmy qln aku"
E skq amwb kq du ~s~k` ansj hmy Nbo`esl, jbmwebo qlkq Kslqmb wm~`a s`ean ebqm qln ansj
bn|q qm dn eb k dkqqny mh sncmbas"
Lnu, wlnyna um~ om khqny ~bcl=
Yu`kbcn kba E f~sq l~bo m~q a~yebo m~y hynn nyema" E sly~oona kba ~``na m~q du
bmqnimmj kba nbce`"
Um~ jbmw E f~sq omq du `ecnbsn, E bmaana, eq wks k`` ln cm~`a qk`j kim~q" Ckb E qkjn um~
m~q qmdmyymw beolq= Ln oyebbna les kamyki`n oyeb kba dn"
Kcq~k``u, ~l, wm~`a um~ deba cmdebo mxny qmbeolq= E wks h~di`ebo weql du nbce` ks E
ksjna"
S~yn, um~ mjku ikin= Ln iy~slna du lkey inleba du nky kba ~``na du nuns qm dnnq
les"
Ed omma" E sde`na kba q~ybna du kqqnbqemb qm Dy" _k`qnys" E amwbna qwm imqq`ns mh
wkqny qlym~olm~q qln c`kss hmy qln ~`qyksm~ba kba eh E ckb sku, eq wks ynqqu kwh~`"
Qln in`` hebk``u ykbo kba E `kbqna k {~ecj jess mb Kslqmbs clnnj inhmyn y~slebo m~q qm
Cku`ks cky" Sln dnq dn k cm~`n deb~qns kba okxn dn k {~nsqembebo mmj"
_lkqs ~ weql um~= Sln ksjna, sqkyebo kq dn" E omq eb qln cky kba sl~q du nuns" Sln
omq eb k`sm, i~q aeabq sqkyq qln cky"
Ed qn``ebo Kslqmb qmbeolq, E d~di`na"
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Ml fnnv"""wn`` qlkqs qmbeolq" @nqs ank` weql yeolq bmw kba onq um~ qm qlkq ~`qyksm~ba"
Dmd es dnnqebo ~s qlnyn" Es Fkyna cmdebo=
Unkl, lns dnnqebo ~s qlnyn" E hn`` ks`nn mb qln qnb deb~qn ayexn qm qln mhhecn" Oma
wks E qeyna"
Clny, cmdn mb" Cku`k slmmj dn kwkjn kba ykcqeck``u aykoona dn ebqm qln c`ebec"Clnyequ, Fkyna iynkqlna m~q, ~``ebo dn eb hmy k l~o" E {~ecj`u ~``na kwku, s`~debo
ebqm k clkey"
Clnyequ Oksqmb, K b~ysn ck``na m~q hehqnnb deb~qns `kqny" E ~q mb qln omwb eb k
aynssebo ymmd kba wk`jna weql du dmd, sesqny, kba Fkyna qm qln ymmd" Qln amcqmy nxnbq~k``u
fmebna ~s kba aeddna qln eolqs" Sln s{~nnvna k wkyd on` mb du sqmdkcl kba ym``na qln wkba
mxny du sqmdkcl"
Um~ snn qlkq= Ay" Sqk``dnb ksjna, mebqebo kq qln slyed mmjebo qlebo mb qln scynnb"
Eq lka kyds kba `nos kba k lnka kba eq wks yncem~s" I~q qles wksbq wlkq dkan dn wkbq qm cyu"
Eq wks qln hksq, aesqebcq ql~debo qlkq wks he``ebo qln se`nbq ymmd"
Ml du, Du dmqlny wlesnyna oykiiebo du mqlny hynn lkba" K`` mh k s~aanb qln ikiu
fm`qna" E oksna ks E wkqclna kba hn`q eq lknb"
Es qlkq qln heysq dmxndnbq um~xn hn`q= Ay" Sqk``dnb ksjna" E bmaana" Bmw qln ikiu
wm~`abq sqm dmxebo"
Fkyna, hnn`" E skea {~enq`u" Ln `kcna les lkba mb du sqmdkcl kba les nuns weanbna"
Qln amcqmy yebqna ~s ecq~yns kba okxn ~s k xeanm aesc kba qlnb qm`a ~s ebhmydkqemb
sqkuebo lnk`qlu kba jnnebo qln ikiu lnk`qlu" Sln k`sm yncmddnbana ynbkqk` xeqkdebs kba
qlnb sclna~`na qln bn|q kmebqdnbq wlnyn wna heba m~q qln sn| mh qln ikiu"
_n sqnna m~q mh qln kyjebo mq kba Fkyna q~ybna qm dn"
Qlkq wks ynqqu kdkvebo, l~l= Les sde`n wks oeokbqec"
Kism`~qn`u, Qln hnn`ebo mh du ikiu dmxebo ebsean mh dn dkan dn"""E cm~`abq nxnb
n|`keb eq"
Um~ wkbq qm om hmy aebbny= Ln ksjna" Ks hyenbas mh cm~ysn, ln kaana {~ecj`u"
E ckbq, i~q anhebeqn`u kbmqlny beolq" E`` snn um~ kqny Fkyna" E l~oona led kba fmebna
Cku`k eb qln cky"
_lnb wn omq lmdn E qlynw mb swnkqs kba dkan k imw` mh qmdkqm sm~, c~y`ebo ~ mb
qln cm~cl" Qlnyn wks k jbmcj mb qln ammy kba E oynnqna Kslqmb weql k dm~ql h~`` mh sm~"
Lnu, ink~qeh~`, Ln jessna du hmywkya kba hm``mwna dn ikcj qm qln cm~cl"
Sm lmws qln ecnbsn= Du xmecn wks k`ynkau slkju weql bnyxns mh wlkq E wks kim~q qm
qn`` led"
Kwnsmdn" E ambq hnn` ejn k jea kbudmyn, um~ jbmw= E bmaana inck~sn E aea jbmw"
Jeas ambq lkxn jeas" E wksbq k jea kbudmyn
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Kbu `kcn eb kyqec~`ky um~ wkbq qm om qmdmyymw beolq hmy aebbny= Ln ksjna, ~``ebo
dn qm led"
E ambq jbmw eh um~yn omebo qm wkbq qm om qm aebbny kbudmyn khqny qmbeolq" E
wlesnyna"
_lkq= Ln ~``na kwku hymd dn, scy~bclebo les nuniymws" E snq du sm~ mb qln qki`nkba qmmj imql mh Kslqmbs lkbas"
E bnna qm qn`` um~ smdnqlebo" I~q `nksn jbmw qlkq E ckyn kim~q um~ sm d~cl" Um~yn
qln oynkqnsq o~u E jbmw kba um~ ansnyxn kb kdkvebo oey`$$
Kyn um~ iynkjebo ~ weql dn= Ln ksjna, les xmecn h`kq"
Bm" Qlnyn wks k mbo k~sn" Kslqmb"""Ed ynobkbq" E skea s`eolq`u dmyn cmbheanbq"
Nxnb eh qles kdkvebo o~u wk`jna m~q mb dn qlnyn wks k`wkus smdnmbn wlm wm~`a bnxny, du
ikiu"
_lkq= I~q Clnyequ wn lkxnbq"""wkeq, um~ clnkqna mb dn= Ln ~``na les lkbas m~q mh
debn kba sqmma ~, y~bbebo les lkbas qlym~ol les lkey"
Bm, E wm~`a bnxny" Eq wks inhmyn wn nxnb dnq" E smdnlmw qlm~olq qles wm~`a dkjn eq
k eqq`n inqqny, i~q imu wks E wymbo"
Sm um~ jbnw= _lnb wn dnq, um~ jbnw um~ wnyn ynobkbq weql kbmqlny o~us ikiu=
Les xmecn wks yesebo kba ln wks ikcjebo kwku hymd dn ks eh ln wnyn aeso~sqna"
Kslqmb E aeabq qlebj$$
Bm Clnyequ, um~ aeabq qlebj" Um~ aeabq qlebj my nxnb cmbseany lmw E wm~`a hnn`" Um~ nq
dn hk`` hmy um~+ Hk`` hmy dn=
Clnyequ= E lnkya Fkynas xmecn hymd qln hmuny kba ln s~aanb`u knkyna inleba
Kslqmb"
Fkyna, E cm~`a ikyn`u onq les bkdn m~q inhmyn ynk`evebo qln seq~kqemb E wks eb"
Kslqmb q~ybna qm `mmj kq Fkyna" Sm qles es led= Aea um~ nxnb ckyn kim~q dn eb qln heysq
`kcn, Clny= Ln ksjna, les xmecn {~enq bmw"
Mh cm~ysn E aea, Kslqmb+ E qmmj k sqn qmwkya led, i~q ln sqkoonyna ikcj qmwkya qln
hymbq ammy"
_lkq qln ln``= Fkyna nuns wnyn akyqebo inqwnnb Kslqmb kba dn inhmyn ln hebk``u
~banysqmma" Sm, Clny, wlnb wnyn um~ omebo qm qn`` dn um~ wnyn akqebo smdnmbn= _nyn um~
omebo qm ykesn qln ikiu weql led qmm= Fkyna slm~qna"
Bm, Fkyna, E wks f~sq, Kba qlnb qlnu wnyn imql slm~qebo kba E cy~di`na"