A Time of Reflection and Remembrance By Mariah Battiston,

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I always have enjoyed the Fall and the time after Halloween at the begin- ning of November. The season changing with the falling of leaves, days getting shorter and the holiday season bustle about to begin. However another reason that this time is dear to my heart is that it is a time of remembrance and reflection for the life that we are so blessed to have due in a large part to the sacrifice of others. I have always included my chil- dren in Remembrance Day services. As I was sourcing articles for the newsletter, I thought what better time to reflect on why we wear a poppy at this time of remembrance. During the First World War (1914–1918) much of the fighting took place in Western Europe. Previously beautiful countryside was blasted, bombed and fought over, again and again. The land- scape swiftly turned to fields of mud: bleak and barren scenes where little or nothing could grow. Bright red Flanders poppies (Papaver rhoeas) however, were deli- cate but resilient flowers and grew in their thousands, flourishing even in the middle of chaos and destruction. In early May 1915, shortly after losing a friend in Ypres, a Canadian doctor, Lt Col John McCrae was inspired by the sight of poppies to write a now famous poem called 'In Flanders Fields'. McCrae’s poem inspired an American academic, Moina Michael, to make and sell red silk poppies which were adopted in 1921 by A Parenting Education Evening Hosted by the Council of Parent Participation Preschools in BC $90.00 for PPP member schools with 30 members or fewer, $110.00 for more than 30 members. Single tickets available at door $10.00 Contact Council for tickets: (604)435-4430 or [email protected] Attendance at this event can count as Parent Ed requirement for either November or December! A Time of Reflection and Remembrance By Mariah Battiston, CPPPBC Office Coordinator Dates to Remember CPPPBC Board Meeting Monday, Nov. 21st at 7:00pm in the Council Office CPPPBC Parent Education Speaker Event Tuesday, Nov. 29th 7:00 –9:00pm WIN WIN Raffle Early Bird Draw Date Jan. 16th, 2016 Regular Office Hours Monday to Thursday 9:30-am to 2:30pm Closed for Christmas Break Dec. 17th to Jan. 3rd William McLellan AKA “Disaster Bill” Tuesday, November 29th, 2016, 7:00 – 9:00 pm EMERGENCY PREPAREDNESS Marlborough Elementary School 6060 Marlborough Avenue, parking lot off Dover Street http://goo.gl/maps/6LVo1 Disaster Bill has been a Paramedic for the past 32 years. He is a member of the Vancouver Urban Search & Rescue Team; a member of the Deltta Emergency Social Services; a member of the Provincial Emergency Program and Instructor of the Year, Justice Institute, BC. Disaster Bill will give an entertaining and informative workshop on the anatomy and physiology of an earthquake; man made versus natural disasters; disaster prepared- ness at home; school and community plans and will discuss Community Reception Centres and the H.E.R.O.S Program. the military veterans groups in parts of the former British Em- pire: Canada, United Kingdom, Australia and New Zealand. They were sold on 11 November that year. The poppies sold out almost immediately and that first ever 'Poppy Appeal' raised a considerable amount of money at the time. This was used to help WW1 veterans with employment and housing. Here is the well-known poem that inspired the tradition. IN FLANDERS FIELDS In Flanders' fields the poppies blow Between the crosses, row on row, That mark our place: and in the sky The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below. We are the dead. Short days ago We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie In Flanders' fields. Take up our quarrel with the foe; To you from failing hands we throw The torch; be yours to hold it high, If ye break faith with us who die We shall not sleep, though poppies grow In Flanders' Fields.

Transcript of A Time of Reflection and Remembrance By Mariah Battiston,

Page 1: A Time of Reflection and Remembrance By Mariah Battiston,

I always have enjoyed the Fall and the time after Halloween at the begin-

ning of November. The season changing with the falling of leaves, days

getting shorter and the holiday season bustle about to begin. However

another reason that this time is dear to my heart is that it is a time of

remembrance and reflection for the life that we are so blessed to have due

in a large part to the sacrifice of others. I have always included my chil-

dren in Remembrance Day services. As I was sourcing articles for the

newsletter, I thought what better time to reflect on why we wear a poppy

at this time of remembrance.

During the First World War (1914–1918) much of the fighting

took place in Western Europe. Previously beautiful countryside

was blasted, bombed and fought over, again and again. The land-

scape swiftly turned to fields of mud: bleak and barren scenes

where little or nothing could grow.

Bright red Flanders poppies (Papaver rhoeas) however, were deli-

cate but resilient flowers and grew in their thousands, flourishing

even in the middle of chaos and destruction. In early May 1915,

shortly after losing a friend in Ypres, a Canadian doctor, Lt Col

John McCrae was inspired by the sight of poppies to write a now

famous poem called 'In Flanders Fields'.

McCrae’s poem inspired an American academic, Moina Michael,

to make and sell red silk poppies which were adopted in 1921 by

A Parenting Education Evening Hosted by the Council of Parent Participation Preschools in BC

$90.00 for PPP member schools with 30 members or fewer, $110.00 for more than 30 members.

Single tickets available at door $10.00

Contact Council for tickets: (604)435-4430 or [email protected]

Attendance at this event can count as Parent Ed requirement for either November or December!

A Time of Reflection and Remembrance By Mariah Battiston, CPPPBC Office Coordinator Dates to Remember

CPPPBC Board

Meeting

Monday, Nov. 21st

at 7:00pm in the

Council Office

CPPPBC Parent

Education Speaker

Event

Tuesday, Nov. 29th

7:00 –9:00pm

WIN WIN Raffle

Early Bird Draw Date

Jan. 16th, 2016

Regular Office Hours

Monday to Thursday

9:30-am to 2:30pm

Closed for Christmas

Break

Dec. 17th to Jan. 3rd

William McLellan AKA “Disaster Bill”

Tuesday, November 29th, 2016, 7:00 – 9:00 pm

EMERGENCY PREPAREDNESS

Marlborough Elementary School

6060 Marlborough Avenue, parking lot off Dover Street

http://goo.gl/maps/6LVo1

Disaster Bill has been a Paramedic for the past 32 years. He is a member of the Vancouver Urban Search & Rescue Team; a member of the Deltta Emergency Social

Services; a member of the Provincial Emergency Program and Instructor of the Year, Justice Institute, BC.

Disaster Bill will give an entertaining and informative workshop on the anatomy and physiology of an earthquake; man made versus natural disasters; disaster prepared-

ness at home; school and community plans and will discuss Community Reception Centres and the H.E.R.O.S Program.

the military veterans groups in parts of the former British Em-

pire: Canada, United Kingdom, Australia and New Zealand.

They were sold on 11 November that year. The poppies sold out

almost immediately and that first ever 'Poppy Appeal' raised

a considerable amount of money at the time. This was used to

help WW1 veterans with employment and housing. Here is the

well-known poem that inspired the tradition.

IN FLANDERS FIELDS

In Flanders' fields the poppies blow

Between the crosses, row on row,

That mark our place: and in the sky

The larks, still bravely singing, fly

Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the dead. Short days ago

We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,

Loved and were loved, and now we lie

In Flanders' fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe;

To you from failing hands we throw

The torch; be yours to hold it high,

If ye break faith with us who die

We shall not sleep, though poppies grow

In Flanders' Fields.

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police and a black person. That’s not the place that anyone can start if

they haven’t been building vocabulary and comfort and confidence

before then.

Black Lives Matter was a tangible and easily accessible place to engage a

young person. I might say to my children: “We live in a world that’s

unfair. People are not treated the same all the time, and that has to do

with how we look sometimes. People who are white don’t have to worry

about this, but people who are black do sometimes. We’re treated differ-

ently based on our skin tone; we don’t want the world to be like that,

and it’s important to us to stand up to this. We don’t want to live in a

world where people who are black aren’t safe.” The concept of fairness

and unfairness is a very tangible thing for a three- or four-year-old!

I’m organizing a small gathering with some neighbors to make Black

Lives Matter shirts with fabric markers, and window signs, in honor

of Wear Out the Silence. For me, this is a concrete way to get my chil-

dren in dismantling white privilege in however so small a way.

ON CHILDREN’S BOOKS

Sachi: With books about race, there are two types: a diverse cast of char-

acters that’s sort of the point of the book [like Everywhere Babies], and

our goal there is to name race. And then there are books that talk di-

rectly — Let’s Talk about Race by Julius Lester or The Colors of Us by

Karen Katz.

Lori: It’s also important to have books that have characters of color and

yet aren’tabout race — to normalize the idea that that’s enough. [There

was a great Slate post about this, too.] These stories of everyday people

are worth telling. For example, Ezra Jack Keats books are wonderful.

[Here are more children’s books with characters of color.)

People Colors Crayons also allow students from different colors to rep-

resent themselves and others in their artwork in a way that traditional

color schemes did not. They’re useful in supporting students’ explora-

tion of race and color. Also having a diverse set of toys — both black and

white dolls, for example.

ON EVERYDAY CONVERSATIONS

Sachi: My daughter knows she’s white. I’m not sure when I knew I was

white, not when I was four. It’s not like it’s this rigorous thing where

you’re doing something wrong if you don’t talk about race every day,

but the more experience I’ve gained as a parent, the more of a daily

experience it is for me. If I walk by the basketball court by my house and

see that most of the kids playing that day are brown-skinned boys, if I

don’t break it down and say some days we see a more interracial group

and sometimes we see girls playing, then I am letting my child see that

stereotype every day.

ON SEEKING OUT A DIVERSE COMMUNITY

Lori: Having a diverse friend group is important, as much as it’s possi-

ble. Of course, we work with some folks who are just in homogenous

neighborhoods and that makes it difficult. Interaction helps children, in

particular, break down biases they would have otherwise believed. We

might join a soccer leagues or swim team that is more diverse. Try to

find a church with people who aren’t the same color as you. There are

opportunities to do things that are more integrated – there’s value in

seeking them out, if that’s important to you.

Raising Race-Conscious Children

By Joanna Goddard, Professional writer, Creator of “Cup of Jo” blog. Submitted by Vancouver Branch of PPPTA

As a mother, I’ve always wanted my children be kind to everyone and

accept people without biases or stereotypes. I figured that by being

“colorblind,” or not calling attention to race, I was showing them that

everyone was equal. But then I read a Washington that explained that

a colorblind approach may actually do more harm than good. To fur-

ther educate myself, I spoke to Lori Taliaferro Riddick and Sachi Feris

from the fantastic site Raising Race-Conscious Children, and here’s

what they told me…

Lori identifies as black/biracial/multi-racial, and Sachi is a white Jew-

ish woman of Russian, Polish, Lebanese, Syrian and Cuban descent.

They each have two children.

ON NAMING RACE

Sachi: Parents can be so nervous of making a mistake that they avoid

conversations about race. They make an assumption that the topic

hasn’t come up for their kids yet. But that’s not true. It’s easier to

imagine that kids aren’t seeing things we aren’t comfortable with, ver-

sus that they’re observing the world around them with a higher level of

accuracy than we notice or want them to.

When reading a children’s book, you might say, “I see a picture here

and it has three little girls and one has pale skin, and we call that

white, and we’re white, too, and there’s another little girl with brown

skin.” We’re just saying the words, just like we’re saying the sky is blue.

Ultimately, before you can teach more higher level critical thinking,

you have this language in your toolbox.

Lori: With very young children we often point out the colors of buses,

fire trucks and grass, as we teach them about the world. We’re naming

all these things, but we’re not talking about people’s colors. In some

ways, it’s really odd that there’s this whole description that we’re not

addressing. It teaches kids that race is not okay to talk about. When

parents are silent, children make up their own stories as to why.

Sachi: Parents often ask which words they should use to describe skin

tones. We advocate for using both types of words — actual skin tones

(like “brown” or “peach”) is more descriptive and more accurate to

what we actually see; but I use the words “white” and “black” even

though it is a social construct just to break it down for my children. If I

don’t use those words, it’s harder to talk in a larger way about race in

our society.

Lori: Some parents will say, “I don’t want to mention that someone’s

black,” and I say, “Black people aren’t upset that they’re black.” I think

it’s important to dispel that idea.

ON STARTING A LARGER CONVERSATION ABOUT RACE

Sachi: As a white woman, I had never heard the term “white privilege”

until I got to college. I don’t want my children to learn at 18 that white

privilege exists and is very real. I want them to understand that as chil-

dren. It’s hard for them to understand they’re little people who can

make a difference in the world and their immediate lives if they don’t

have the awareness to talk about it.

We don’t expect any family to have their first conversation on race or

racial justice when another tragic media story comes up about the

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I was recently reading customer reviews on Amazon and, specifi-

cally, I was reading a review of a Bill Martin Jr. picture book. It is

worth noting that Bill Martin Jr co-authored Chicka Chicka

Boom Boom, and Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?

Both of these very popular classic picture books are on a list of the

top 100 Picture Books by School Library Journal. The reviewer

asked, "Why not just call someone Tom Smith" (rather than using char-

acter names that include alliteration or perhaps rhyme)? So, let's

take a look at why picture book authors often use alliteration,

rhyming and repetition when they write for children.

Quite apart from wanting to write an engaging and entertaining

story for children, authors who use alliteration, rhyming and repe-

tition are helping to prepare young children for formal reading

instruction because children who hear stories with alliteration

(Lilly's Purple Plastic Purse and Some Smug Slug ), rhyming

(The Cat in the Hat, Hop on Pop) and repetition (Going on a

Bear Hunt, Mortimer) gain phonemic awareness.

Phonemic awareness is a key element of reading readiness and yet

it is easily overlooked by people (like the book reviewer I men-

tioned previously). Phonemic awareness is the understanding that

words are made up of sounds. To you or me that might seem like

an incredibly obvious statement. We take it for granted that words

are made up of sounds. For children, we want to reinforce this mes-

sage frequently. We want them to learn to pick out sounds and

manipulate sounds. We want them to understand that Swishy-swashy!

Swishy-swashy! Swishy-swashy! in Going on a Bear Hunt is a wonderful

example of playing with sounds and manipulating sounds. When the

The Cat in the Hat says, "I know it is wet And the sun is not sunny. But

we can have Lots of good fun that is funny!", we want young children to

hear sun and sunny, fun and funny and understand that the author is

writing something clever and playful and entertaining.

If you want to grow a great reader (and a good speller), please make a

point of reading picture books that include alliteration, rhyming and

repetition. Use funny voices, talk with your child about the rhymes

and nonsense. Help your child to hear that purple, plastic and purse

all begin with the same sound and hop and pop end with the same

sound. If you do that, your child will have an easier time with spell-

ing and reading because she will be ready to blend letter sounds

together to make words and pull words apart in order to spell them.

StoryTime Standouts!

By Carolyn Hart, BC Certified Teacher and Parent Educator

Carolyn presents Parent Ed. programs throughout British Columbia. She is a former PPP parent and a B.C. certified teacher. Please visit her website -

www.storytimestandouts.com and follow her on Twitter @StoryStandouts and Pinterest.com/storystandouts/.

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