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A Personality Orientated Approach to EFL TeachingSubmitted by TE Editor on 17 April, 2003 - 13:00

In the language classroom we often ask students to talk about or refer to their personal

situation and experiences. This is seemingly good practice. However, with some learners,

particularly younger ones, this focus on their personal lives can bring personal problems to the

fore, which may actually hinder their language learning or affect their confidence in class. This

article discusses this problem through actual situations and suggests a practical way to solvethe problem, a way that actually widens students' communicative abilities.

My first problem

Is a correct answer a true answer?

Looking for personal reasons, personal problems

A real situation, a real problem

A practical approach, a practical solution

Conclusion

My first problemMy first experience with a personality oriented approach to EFL teaching occurred about seven

years ago, when after many years as a university lecturer I began to work at school, and with

junior classes at that.

A ten-year-old girl, one of my best students, suddenly stopped doing homework, refused to

answer in the lessons, and finally went into hysterics. When everyone left the classroom, I

asked her what the matter was, whether I had irritated her in some way. A few minutes of

silence, then she blurted out, "You are always by your children's side, I also want to be

hugged by mum!" She burst into tears, I hugged her, feeling her whole small body shake,

thinking, "That's it, our current topic is 'Family', and the Russian EFL textbooks are full of

questions which children see as very personal".

Is a correct answer a true answer?

Such problems do not occur in lessons of physics or maths, for instance. But in any lesson, achild is conditioned into giving a 'correct' answer, which they sometimes perceive as a 'true'

one.

I talked to the girl's grandfather and learned about a very typical modern situation. The girl's

parents divorced a long time ago; the father had a new family and had forgotten about his

daughter; the mother went abroad for a long time, so the child remained with her

grandparents. There are plenty of such 'forgotten' children around. If they live with a relative

or guardian, that's not the worst that may happen. So I began to work out my own personality

oriented approach.

Looking for personal reasons

I know that today, at least in Russia, what's meant by a 'personality orientated approach' isthat every student requires an individual approach according to the abilities shown. One

should get an extra task so as not to be bored, another barely manages to follow the lesson,

yet another needs a lesser task and some extra attention. A teacher should look for new

sources of motivation and encouragement, which is quite difficult, considering that Russian

teachers' salaries are very small and they are habitually delayed.

It was my belief that the new approach must include the teachers' ability to look beyond a

student's refusal to answer or occasional bad discipline, to see if there aren't any personal

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reasons which have nothing to do with school or subject. Every year, when getting a new

class, I check their families, talk to homeroom teachers, listen to the children themselves.

Naturally I do get my share of lazybones, hooligans and incapable kids. But they are all

children. They cannot always control their emotions or cope with their problems. A teacher is a

substitute parent for some of them.

A real situation, a real problemFamily is traditionally included into the list of the school final EFL exam, in the 10th (the last

but one) grade we are to discuss it during the whole second term. Youth problems, family

structure, questions like "who takes after whom in your family", the vocabulary which includes

words like "supportive, understanding, dysfunctional". On the other hand, I deal with real

teenagers. Every year, I check my groups. Two single-parent families in one group, four in

another, an orphan and divorced parents in the third There are also normal two-parent

families. Still, when I know that a kid's mother, aged 37, died recently, should I forget about

that one bereaved kid and ask them those questions from the textbook, who takes after

whom, who cooks, who sews?

A practical approach, a practical solutionChildren often perceive the questions as something to be answered fully and truthfully, they

become confused and don't know what to do when asked something totally innocent, whichthey see as something personal.

So, I start preparing in September, when we study a totally neutral topic - 'Education'. When

we come to a speaking task, I explain seriously what is expected. We are learning how to build

sentences in English which are grammatically correct. It is OK to answer anything, as long as

it is sensible and up to the point. For example, if I ask you, "Where's the Pacific ocean?", and

you've forgotten, just answer, "I don't remember exactly but I know it is somewhere on

Earth". This way; you show me that you understood my question; you built your own

sentence; communication has been achieved.

By November, the end of the 1st term, all my students are well-trained. The results? A boy

whose father recently left them stopped trembling at every "personal" question andconfidently talks about modern family values. A girl whose mother died stopped crying silently

and now takes part in all the discussions. The whole group stopped turning their heads when

we come to questions and comments.

ConclusionI wrote several lessons to supplement the textbooks. My students passed their final exams

very well. After all, no teacher can know all the circumstances that may influence a student's

answer or behaviour when an examination board member may ask any questions on the

theme. My students are always ready, they know how to discourse, how to cope when they

hear a 'personal' question.

Nina Koptyug, Ph.D., associate professor of English, Russia