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70SimpleSecretsOfAMoreFulfilling,SuccessfulLife

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TableofContents

THEFOUNDATIONFORSUCCESS................................................................................................4

ONBUSINESS&INCREASINGYOURINCOME..........................................................................7

ONPROCRASTINATION..............................................................................................................11

ONMAKINGMISTAKES...............................................................................................................16

ONBEINGPRODUCTIVE&REACHINGGOALS.....................................................................18

ONCONFIDENCE............................................................................................................................21

ONPEOPLE......................................................................................................................................26

ONMAKINGMONEYDOINGWHATYOULOVE....................................................................29


OK,letsgetrighttoit…Youalreadyhaveexperiencedsomesuccessbutyouknowthereismoretoyou,youknowtherearedreamsyettobefulfilledandthisminireportisgoingtohelpyoubutONLYifyouimplement.Canyoudoall70rightnow?NO!Canyouimplementthemoneatatime?YES.Successisahabitanditisasyouletsomelesshelpfulthingsandyoutakeonmorehelpfulthingsthatyoucreatealifefullofactionsthatgetyoutotheplaceyouwanttobe.Takewhatyouneedandbegin.


TheFoundationForSuccess1. YouHaveAPurpose&AReasonToBeHere

Everythinghingesonyouknowingandacceptingthis.Youarenotheretolivetoanyone’sagenda…Youmatter!Whatyouwant,mattersandyoucancreatewhateveryouimagineifyouwillchooseto.Realisethis–Thisworldwouldbeadifferentplacewithoutyouinit.Everyoneyouhavespokento,everyplaceyouhavevisited–Allofithasbeenaffectedbyyou.Allofitwouldbedifferentifyouhadnotimpacteditinsomesmallorbigway.2. EveryNewThingStartsWithAction

Theactionsyouaretakingtodayarenotgettingtheresultyouwantsothereforeyouhavetotakenewactions.Doingexactlythesamethingyouhavebeendoingtodatewillnotgetyouanynewresults.Whatnewactioncanyoutaketodaytochangedirection?Sometimes,itisthesimplestthingsthatmakeadifference.Keepreading…therearesimpleactionsinherethatcanchangeyourlife.3. GetClarity

Thenextthingtoconsiderishowclearyoufeelinside.Mostpeoplethinkthataslongastheyaretakingactionthenthingswillworkout.Myresponsetothatisthatweallknowsomeonewhoworksprettyhardandhasdonesoforyears,whoisstillprettybrokeanddissatisfied.Soobviously,hardworkaloneisnotenoughtoliveafulfilling,successfullife.So,answermethis-Areyoucarryingaroundresentments?Doyoucarefartoomuchabouttheopinionsofothers?Are


younottakingcertainactionsbecauseyouarefearful?Doyouhavecleargoals?Iseveryactionyoutakeclearlytakingyouinthedirectionofyourgoals?4. GetAJournal

Ifyouhavebeenwalkingthroughyourlifewithoutpayingmuchattentiontoyourinsides,thisisyourmomenttochangethat.Stopbeingscaredoflookingwithin.Instead,getyourselfajournalandstartwritingdownsomeofyourinternalthoughtsandgettingthemworkedout.GetaJournaltoday!5. DoMorningPages

Now,thatyouhaveajournal,makeacommitmenttowriteout2-3pageseachday.Itdoesnotneedtobesomedeepandmeaningfulanything,thoughyoumayfindthatitincreasinglybecomesthat.Sometimes,itisjustawaytogetyourmindclearandreadytotakeontheday.Write2-3pageseachmorningofanythingthatcomestomind.6. WriteOutGoalsDaily

Thiscouldbepartofyourmorningpages.Howcleardoyoufeelaboutyourdirection?Areyouclearaboutwhatyouwant?Startgettingmoreandmoreclearbydeliberatelywritingdownyourgoalseachday.7. DoALotMoreQuestioning

Toomanynormsgothroughliferefusingtoquestionsbeliefs,waysofactingandbeingthatwereinstilledinthemsincechildhood.Andthisincludesreligiousbeliefs,traditions,culturalbeliefsandmore.Bewillingtoquestioneverything!Itisincrediblethepoweryourbeliefshaveonyou.Rememberthis,truthstandsuptoscrutinysodonotbeafraidtoquestion.Thetruthwillremain.


Whatquestionsareyouaskingyourselfdaily?8. DevelopAHabitOfGratitude

Thatwonderfuljournalofyourscanalsobeusedtorecordthingsthatyouaregratefulfor.Thiskeepsyourmindonthegoodthingsinyourlifeandhastheaddedbenefitofattractingmoregoodthingstoyou.Writeoutatleast3thingsadaythatyouarethankfulfor.

9. NoMoreBlamingAnyoneorAnythingElse–TakeFullResponsibilityForEVERYTHING!

Thereisatendencyof‘norms’tothinkthatthenegativethingsthathappentothemarearesultofcircumstancesbeyondtheircontrol.Attimes,itistruethattheeventisnotsomethingyouhaveasayoverbutthatjustleavesyoupowerless–Youcanchoosetoreactdifferentlyandfigureouthowyoucantakeadifferentactionandgetabetterresult.Ifyoukeepwaitingforsomeoneorsomethingtogetbetterbeforeyoumove,youwillfindyourselfstuckandtrappedinplace.

Tobemoreproductive,youhavetoMOVE!


OnBusiness&IncreasingYourIncome

Itiseasiertoaccomplishawholelotmorewhenyouhavemoney.NormsmaynotacceptthatbutIreallydobelievethatifyouarereallycommittedtohelpingpeople,youneedtogetrich.Notjustforthemoneythoughthebenefitsareprettyawesome,moreforthepersonyoubecomeasyoulearntocreatewealthandmorealsofortheabilitytoservemorepeople.Now,IpersonallythinkbusinessisagreatwaytocreatewealthandIdothinkthatanyonewithdeterminationcanmakeitworkespeciallynowwiththeInternetandthepossibilitiesthatopensusallupto.Iworkwithclientstohelpthemgettheirbusinessesoffthegroundandherearetwosimpleplansthatyoucanstarttoimplementnow.

Plan1–Iwantcashnowplan10. Considerwhatyouaresellingandthenclearlyidentifywhoyouridealprospectsare.Whatdotheywantandwhy? Considerwhattheyread,wheretheyhangoutonline,whatkeepsthemawakeatnightandsoon.

11. Onceyou’veidentifiedyouridealprospects,createsomethingthatwillhelporservetheminsomeway.Someexamplesofusefulgiveawaysmightbe:

a. Areportlikethisone


b. Apre-recordedwebinarhostedone.g.WebinarJam

c. AnaudiorecordingthatyouuploadtoSoundCloud-youcanemailthemthelinkwhenthey’vesignedup

d. AvideoyouuploadtoYouTubewhichyoucanthensendthemthelinkto

e. Asampleofyourproduct–Youcouldasktheprospecttopayshippingonthat(usePayPal)

12. CreateaLandingpage

Signupwithhttp://rosemarynonnyknight.aweber.comtocollectemailsaddressesfromyourprospects.SetupalandingpageonyourwebsitewithasignupformonitfromAWeber.Orsimplyuseaservicelikehttp://RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/leadpagestocreatealandingpage(Nowebsiterequired)Thislandingpageisthefirstplaceyousendeveryonewhentheyengagewithyousothatyoustarttobuildamailinglist. Amailinglististherealassetinyourbusiness.

13. Setupa‘thankyou’page

Thiswillimmediatelyshowthemaproductyouwantthemtobuy,avideoyouwantthemtowatchtoadvertiseyourbusinessopportunity,aninvitationtohaveaconsultationwithyou.Again,dothisinleadpages(http://rosemarynonnyknight.com/leadpages)-Makesurethatthemomenttheysignup,theyareredirectedtothispage-YOUWILLSTARTTOMAKESALESifyouhavechosenanitemthatiscompellingandischeapenoughnottobeoverthoughtabout.Andforcoachesorprofessionalnetwork


marketers-Youwillgetconversationsifyourofferiscompellingenough.

14. GotoFacebookAdsManagerandsetupa‘clickstowebsite’advertpromotingthefreegiveaway–‘Hi,Wouldyouliketo___________?RegisterhereformyFREE_______________anddiscoverhowto__________’ Theygetitbyclickingthroughtoyourlandingpageascreatedabove.Theysignupforitandtheygettakentothe‘ThankYou’pageandsomewillbuyorsendtheircontactdetailsforacall.

15. Youdeliver!

eCommerce:SendtheitemASAP-Doahappydanceandsetupanothersalesfunnelforanotherproduct. Coaches:CallthemupASAP-Listentotheirchallenges,listentotheirgoalsandofferthemsomethingcompellingand2inevery5willbuyfromyou.

ServiceProvider:Givethemaquoteandaskthemtobuy

Speaker/InformationProduct:Offeradigitalproductonthethankyoupageandautomateitsdelivery.Invitethemtoaneventonthethankyoupage.

Plan2:‘Iaminthisforthelonghaul’planHere’swhattodotopromoteyouandyourbusiness… 16. Writeablogpost

Havealistofquestionsyourpeoplewouldaskaboutyourproduct,service,businessopportunitytogetstarted.Alsohavealistoftopicsyoufeelpeopleneedtohearabout–


yourmessage.Listpostsareeasyandquicktowriteandalsoprettyeasytodigest–5stepsto…3secretsof…10waysto…Endeverythingwithacalltoaction–Sendthemtothelandingpagecreatedabove.17. Recordyourselfreadingyourblogpostonyoursmartphone

UploadtoYouTube.Extracttheaudiousinghttp://audio-extractor.net/anduploadtosoundcloud.18. TakethesamevideoanduploadtoFacebook

Yourprofileoryourpageifyouhaveone.19. Spend10minutesansweringquestions

InLinkedInGroups,FacebookGroupswhereyourpeoplemaybehangingout.20. Connectwithafewmorepeopleeachday

OnyourpersonalFacebookprofile–Thiswillstarttohappenautomaticallyasyoudothis90minuteworkdaily–Peoplewillstarttoaskyoutoaddthem.EngagewithpeopleinyourtimelineonFacebook–Gointotheirworldandtheninvitethemtoyourworld.21. Doafewmoresocialmediaupdates

OnyourFacebookpageifyouhaveone.-Itcanbesharesofotherpeople’spostsasthattoo,willhelpyounetworkwithotherbusinessowners.22. Broadcastanemailtopeople

Onyourever-growingmailinglistsendingthemtoasalespagewheretheycanbuyyourstufforaskforaconversationwithyouorwatchyourrecruitingvideo.2emailsminimumaweek


GetRidOfProcrastination

23. FacedownYourFearsTakeamomentrightnowtoreallyaskyourselfwhatisgoingoninyourhead?

Whatisitthatyouaretryingtoavoid?Whatisitthatyouthinkwillhappenifyoutakeactionrightnow?Spendalittletime,(noteIsay,ALITTLEtime:-D)

Whipoutajournalandwriteyourfearsdown.Sometimes,justtheseeingitonpaperhelpsyourealisethatitisnowherenearasscaryasitappearsinyourhead.Sometimes,yourealisethatyouarefearfulbecauseitisataskthatyoujustdonotknowhowtodo–Youcanthenconsideroutsourcingit

Ultimately,youmakeitmorerealandmorepracticaltodealwith,whenyouwritethingsdown.

24. Whatwillyougainasaresultofmeetingyourgoal?

Thisisthepointwhereyougetprettyexcitedaboutwhatyouwantandhowyouaregoingtogetthere.

Visualisetheendresult,feelhowyouwillfeel,imaginethepersonyouwillbewhenyoureachyourendgoal.Createaprettycompellingpictureinyourheadofallthegreatthingsthatwillhappenasaresultofyoureachingyourgoal.Figureoutyourbigreasonwhy!Thiswillbeoneofthehugestepsinfiguringouthowtostopprocrastinating.


25. UseThisLawToYourAdvantageAsYouLearnHowToStopProcrastinating

HaveyouheardoftheParkinson’slaw?Theonethatsaysyourworkwillexpandtofillthetimeyouhavegivenit?Yes?No?Whateveryourresponse,itisthetruth.Yourememberthosecollegedays,whenyouhadalltermtohandinanassignment,youjustcouldnotgetitdoneuntilthenightbeforeandsuddenly,youonlyhad8hourstogetitdoneanditGOTDONE!

Youhadatermandittookallthattimeandstilldidnotgetdone

Youhad8hours,anditgotdonebecausetherewasasenseofurgencybehindit.

Samewithgrowingyourbusiness,ifyouallowyourdailyworktaskstotakeallday,theywill!If,however,youplaceademandonyourselftogetitdoneinhalfthetime,youwillsurprisinglyfindthatyoucan.Tryitoutandsee.Thedifficultywillbeensuringyoudohaveasenseofurgency.Canyoufindanaccountabilitypartnertoholdyoutoaccount?

26. Startsomewhere

Maybeyouareuncertainaboutwhereexactlytostartbutwhynotstartanywhereatall?Whosaidyouhavetostartatthebeginningandgoallthewaysequentiallytotheend?Breakfreeofthoseshacklesandbeginwherevertakesyourfancyandthenyoumaydiscoverthatthefunreturnstothework.

27. Starteasy

Somesayyoushouldeatthatfrogandusually,Iwouldagreebutwhatifyoujuststartedmovingforwardbydoingtheeasystuffandthenworkingyourwaytothehardstuff.


Thereisapossibilitythatyouwillgetstucklookingformoreeasystufftodosokeepbreakingdownthehardstuffintoeasychunksandchargefullspeedintoaworldofeasy.

28. Stopoverthinkingeverything

Somepeoplewillthinkthemselvesoutofagreatidea.

Whynotbecomeoneofthosesuperefficientandaccomplishedpeoplewhogetanideaandimmediatelyimplement?Goingbacktotip1,youmayfearfailurebutifyoustoppedthinkingsomuchandtookconsiderablymoreaction,youmightfindthatsuccessstartstocomesoeasilytoyou.

29. Forgivenessworkstoo.

Youmaybeoneofthosepeoplethatgetstrappedinaspiralofguiltoverallthethingsyouhavenotdoneyet.Andthenthatguiltkeepsyoutrappednotdoinganythingstillandthenyoustartagaintofeelevenmoreguilty.

Exittheguilt–inaction–guiltcyclebyforgivingyourself.Thereisabsolutelynoneedtofeelguilty.Brushoffyourlastboutofinactionandflowrightintothenextpartofyourlifeinsteadofdwellinganddwellingonthepast.

30. Takeabreak

Iknow,Iknowitseemscounterintuitivebutthefactis,ifyouaresittinginfrontofyourcomputertryingtomakesomethinghappenandnothingisflowingoutofyou,thenyouareprobablybetterofftakingabreakandcomingbacktoitlater.

WhenIwasapharmacist,wehadtotakementalbreakstoensurewelookedatthedrugswithneweyesandcaughtanymistakesbeforeitreachedthecustomer.Thisappliestoyouaswell.Sometimes,whileyouaredesperatelytryingto


makeyourselfdosomething,itbecomesincrediblydifficulttofeelanythingbuthopeless.

So,takeaquickbreak,haveadrink,gofora20minutewalk,letideasmeanderinyourheadandthencomeonbackandgetstuckrightintothefirstthingonyourmind.

31. Doyouactuallyneedtodoit?

Nowthisisnotaninvitationtolietoyourselfandpretendyounolongerwantwhatyousaidyouwanted.Youareawarrior,right?Youdonotjustdeludeyourselfintonotdoingsomethingjustbecauseyouhavedecidedtheeffortisnotworthit.

No,thisisforwhenyoureallyhavetakentimetogetclearonwhatyouwantandyourealizetherearemorethanonewaystoskinacatsothisparticularwayisnotabsolutelyessential.

Thendelegateordiscard.

32. RewardYourself

Whatwouldyoureallylikeafteryoucommitandgettheworkdone?Well,planinarewardforsittingthere(orstanding)andgettingtheworkdone.

Makeitsomethingyoureallywantsothatyouincentivizeyourselftokeepmovingforward.

Togodeeper,joinmeonthe10dayadventurethatwillempoweryoutoovercomeprocrastination,explodeyourincomeandfightforthelife&businessyouwant.

Findoutmorehere–Rosemarynonnyknight.com/procrastination


33. Areyoulonely?

Procrastinationcansometimesbetheresultofbeinglonely.Youareonyourownandyoufindithardtodothethingsyouknowyoushouldbedoing.Whynotlinkupwithotherpeoplewhoaretryingtomakethingshappensothattheycanholdyouaccountabletodoingwhatyousayyouwanttodo?ThisisoneHUGEkeyasyoulearnhowtostopprocrastinating.


OnMakingMistakes

Everyonemakesmistakesfromtimetotimeandtheycanflooryouortheycanbepartofthefoundationthattakesyoutofurthersuccess.34. AcknowledgeIt/Beawareofit

Pretendingitdoesnotexistdoesnotmakeitgoaway.Theonlywaytodealwithitandgetpastitistofirstlyacknowledgeit.35. LearnFromIt

Ifyoudonotwanttorepeatthemistake,quickly,andIdomeanquickly,figureoutandlearnthelessoninthemistake.Everythingthathappenstoyoucanpropelyouforward36. TakeResponsibilityForIt

Yes,youmusttakefullresponsibilityforanymessesleftinthewakeofthemistake.Doyouneedtoasksomeoneforforgivenessevenifitcutsthroughyourego?37. ForgiveYourselfForit

Youmadeamistakeandyoufeelsillyforit.Itistimetoforgiveyourself.Ihaveworkedwithclientswhosebiggestproblemistheirinabilitytoletthemselvesoffthehookformistakestheymadeinthepast.Theykeeplivingoutofthatmistakesasthoughitdefinesthem.Forgiveyourself!38. LetItGo

Nowyouhaveaskedforforgiveness,donewhatyoucantolearnthelesson,pickedupanyremainingpiecesandforgivenyourself,itistimetoletitgocompletely.Wipetheslatecleanandstartafresh.Thisiswheretransformationhappens.


Rememberyouarenotthesumtotalofyourmistakes.Letthemgosoyoucancreatesomethingfreshandnew.


OnBeingProductive&ReachingGoals

39. MakeSureYourGoalsAreInAlignmentWithyourValues

Ifyoukeeptryingtotraveltheworldspeakingwhileleavingyourfamilybehind,itwillbehardtobebothagreatparentandagreatspeaker.Atsomepoint,youwillfeelpulledapartandsomethingwillsuffer.Lookforanoverallsuccess,notjustaonesided,wonkysuccess.Consideryourhealth,yourwealth,yourfamilyrelationships,yourrecreation,yourwork,yourspirituality–Considerallareas.Whatdoyouwantitalltolooklike?Getclear!Writeoutyourperfectlife.Expecttogetclearerandclearerasyougetwiserandastimepasses.40. KnowYourself,KnowYOURstrengths

Doyouknowyourstrengthsordoyoukeepcopyingeveryoneelse?Doyousufferfromshinybuttonsyndrome?Readytorunwithanythingbecauseithasworkedforsomeoneelse?

Needlesstosay,thatgetsyounowhere.

WhatareYOUgoodat?Whatcomesnaturallytoyou?Itmaynotbeawe-inspiringbutitisyourthinganditisexactlythethingthatwillgetyoutheresultsyouwant.TryitCONSISTENTLYandsee…

41. IfYouMustWorkHard…

Ifyoumustworkhardanyway,whynotworkhardatsomethingyouenjoy.

Thatmakessense,right?


Designalifewhereyouonlydoworkyouenjoy.Youmayfindthatyourcurrentlackofproductivityisaresultofdoingworkyouarejustsettlingfor.

42. StartWakingUpEarlier

OK,IknowsomepeoplesaytheyworkequallywellbothmorningandnightbutIfindthathardtobelieve.Thechancesare,youworkbetterinthemorning.Andalso,ifyouwakeupalittleearlierthanyourhousehold,yougetthetimetoquietlyreflectonwhatyouwanttocreateandonwhatyouhavealreadycreatedandthatgetsyouintherightmind-setforhavingaproductiveday.Sofar,Ihavenotfoundanyonewhodoesnotworkbetterinthefirstfewhoursafterwakingup–butofcourse,checkitoutforyourselfandplaytoyourownstrengths.

43. StopOverThinking

Howlongdoyouspendoverthinkingeverythinginsteadofjusttakingaction?Theoverthinkingdoesnothelp.Itdoesnotmakeyouclearerormorecertain.Ifanything,itmakesyoumorelikelytothinkyourselfoutofeverygoodideayoumayevercomeupwith.Giveitup.

ACTION:Getintothe‘HaveAnIdea,ActOnIdea’mode.MOVE!

44. NoMoreWaitingOnInspiration

Inspirationcansometimescomewhileyouaresittingonthefencebutifyoupersistinwaitingforitthere,youwillfindadrywellsoonenough.Instead,forceyourselfintoactionandthenwatchinspirationmeetyouonthepath.Sometimes,itdoesnotbutyoustillgetaquietsenseofaccomplishmentwhenyoudotheworkanyway!


45. CelebrateTheLittleWinsOnTheJourney

Sometimes,thepathwaytoyourbigdreamisfraughtwithdramaandtension–WillIgetthere?AmIdeluded?Andsoon.Insteadofjusttryingtokeepbeingproductiveuntilyougettothebiggoal,choosetoalsomarkoutlittlewinsontheroad.Littlewinsthatyouhavecontrolover–Didyouwritethetenthblogpost?Woohoo!Didyoudothe2ndstrategysession?Wahey!Seeeverystepasastepping-stonetoyourbigvisionandkeepmovingforward.

46. KeepYourFocusOnTheBigVision

Asyoucelebratethelittlewinsonyourjourney,alsodonotlosesightofthebigidea,thebiggoal.Writeitoutregularlyandletitkeepyouexcitedandenthusiasticabouttheworkyoudoonadailybasis.

Tieeverythingyoudotothebigdreamsothatitallfeelsworthwhile.Imagineyouarestillinajobyoudonotreallylike,youcanconnectittothebigideaofyourbusinessbecausethemoneyyougetfromthejobenablesyoutostartinvestinginyourbigdreamsoinsteadofseeingthejobassoul-destroying.Youcaninsteadseeitaspartofthejourney!Anythingyouhavetodocanbelinkedtothebigideaandbroughttolifeasaresult.

47. Stopsaying‘YES’toeverything

Remember‘NO’isaperfectlygoodresponseifarequestdoesnotmatchuptowhatyouwanttocreateinyourlife.Insteadoflungingstraightforthe‘yes’,startgivingyourselfabreathertothinkthroughwhatyoureallywant!

Toincreaseyourproductivity,learntoprioritizewhatyouwanttodoandyourownagenda


OnBecomingConfident

Withoutagoodlevelofconfidence,youwillstaytrappedinyourcurrentversionofreality.Byotherpeople’sstandards,youareprobablyprettyconfidentbutyoucannotcompareyourselftoanorm.Thestandardforyouishigher.48. YouDeserveToHaveEverythingInLifeExactlyTheWayYouWantIt

Thefirsttimeyoureadthat,youmaydoubtit.Youmaythinkyoudonothavearighttoevenbelievethatbuthoney,unlessyoustarttobelieveit,howonearthareyougoingtofindtheconfidencetoaskforwhatyouwantoutoflife?Youwillkeepwaitingforsomeonetogiveyoupermissionandyoudon’tneedtodothat.Rightnow,inthismoment,youhaveallthepermissionyouneedtogettheresultsyouwantoutoflife.Confidenceisbuiltonadeepbeliefthatyouareableandallowedtoaskforandreceiveyourbirthrightandyourbirthrightisabundance.Willyouchoosetobelieveit?

49. AcceptThatItIsOkayForLifeTobeGoodAlltheTime

Iknowthatseemssimpleand,ofcourse,youbelieveitwhenyoudonotdeliberatelythinkaboutit.However,REALLY,doyouunderstandthatitisokayforYOURlifetofeelgoodallthetime.

IfyouacceptthatyouhavetofeeldownandshyandifyouthinkitisnormaltosufferwithalackofgoodfeelingsaboutyourselfthennothingIsaynextwillmakeanyimpacton


yourlifeandtheresultsyouget.Youhavetocompletelyallowyourselftobelievethatlifecanbegoodallthetime.Ifyouhavenotreadabookcalled‘TheBigLeap’thenthisisyourmomenttogogetit.Itwillopenyoureyestothepossibilitiesofalifethatfeelsgoodallthetime.

Thisisagreatstartingplaceforyoutobuildself-esteemandconfidence.

Sayitwithme“Ichooseabundance,Ichooselove,Ichoosesuccess”

Anddeliberatelysaythistoyourselfoverandoveragainuntilyoustarttofeelthatitcanbecomeyourreality.Andnotjustthesettledforreality,Imeantheoneyoudreamaboutinyourhead.

50. YourInnerCriticCanShowyouhowtobuildselfesteem

OK,itistimetostartpayingalittlemoreattentiontothatvoiceinsideofyou.Toomanypeoplewalkthroughlifethinkingtheyarefairlypositivepeoplebutwhentheystarttolisten,reallylistentotheon-goingcommentaryinsidetheirheads,theyrealisetheyaremistaken.

Iworkedwithaclientoncewhoalsoassumedhewasverypositiveandthensuddenlyrealisedjusthowwronghewasashestartedtolistenin.Youmayreadthisandthink–“Well,howdidithelphimtoknow?”

Andletmetellyou…

Justbecauseyouclaimignoranceofanissuedoesnotmeanitisnot,quietlybutverydestructively,eatingawayatyourconfidence,makingyousecond-guessyourdecisions,makingyouslowtomakeanydecisionsandallbecauseunderthesurface,youarequietlysabotagingyourselfasyoulistentothisinnercritic.


Youhavetobringitintothelightsothatyoucancombatit.Youhavestartedbyfollowingtheactioninsecretabove–Yes,youcanstarttocrowditoutbyinstallingnewthoughts.Donotthink,however,thatitwillgowithoutafight.Itishorridtoseehowmuchofastrongholdyourcritichasoveryourmindsoexpecttohavetofighttotakebackcontrol.

Butthisisapartofyousofightgentlybutdeterminedly.Listenin,acknowledgethatyourinnercriticfeelsthatyouarelazy,notgoodenough,afraudetcetcandthenfirmlyinsertanewthoughtofwhythatisnotthecase.Anditcansimplybebecauseyounolongerchoosetobelieveit.

51. WhatActionCanYouTake?

Tofirmlyestablishyournewwayofthinkingaboutlifeandyourself,youwillhavetostretchyourselfalittle.Writealistofthingsyouwouldliketodonowthatyouarechoosingtotakealeaptoawholenewconfidencelevelandcreatealifefilledwithmorefunthings?

Donotjudgeyourlist…

Donotallowyourselftothinkitisimpossibletodoallthethingsyouwrite…

Justallowyourselftowriteandwrite,fromthelittlestofactionstothebiggest,morewilddesires.

Writeitalldown.

Anddoonethingtoaffirmtoyourselfthatyouarenowgoingtostartexpandingandbecomingmore.Maybe,youcangiveadinnerpartyforfriends,maybeyoucanoutsourcethecleaningofyourhome,maybeyoucangotothetheatrejustbecauseyouwanttoandmaybeyoucanlaunchthatbusinessorthatnewproductline.


Whateverchoicesyoumake,eachactionexpandsyoumoreandbuildsupyourselfesteemalittlemoreeachtimeyoudoitsuccessfully.Evenwhenyoumakeamistake,youstillstarttorealisesubconsciouslyorconsciouslythatyouaremorethanyoueverrealisedandfrankly,youwereprettyawesomealready.

52. MonitorYourEnvironment

Thisisnotimetohavenegativenelliesaroundyouandtoxicpeople.Itistimetomanageandmonitoryourinfluencessothatyouareencouragedtogoformoreandmore,notlessandlessasyouexhaustyourselftryingtokeepupwithemotionalvampires.

Therearetimeswhenitishardtoavoidnegativeinfluencesbutyouhavetotakecontrolofhowlongyouremainintheircompanyandalsowhattheyareallowedtosaytoyou.Spendmoretimewithpeoplewhosupportandupliftyou.

53. LiveToYourOwnAgenda

Yougiveawayyourpowerandthereforeyourself-esteemwhenyourwholelifeisaboutfulfillingtheexpectationsanddesiresofeveryonebutyourself.ItmayseemtobethethingstodotobegoodandselflessandnicebutifItookamomenttoaskyouwhatyouwanted,wouldyoubevagueanduncertainorwouldyouknow,absolutelydefinitelyknowwhatyourlifewastobeabout?

Itistimetolivetoyourownagendaforyourlife…

Itmayevenbetimetorediscoverit.

Thiswillinevitablyhelpyoubuildamoresoundandsolidself-esteemwhenyouactuallystarttochooseyourselfandyouragenda.


54. TheMythOfPerfection

Sometimes,itisokaytobegoodenough.No,thisisnoreasontonotdoyourbestbutyoumustallowyourselftomoveratherthankeeptryingtoperfectsomethingbecauseyouarelivingtoanimpossiblestandard.Thiscanbetheresultofcomparingyourselftootherpeople’shighlightsinsteadofchoosingtobeyourverybestself.YouarenotlikeanyoneelseandthatisEXACTLYthewayitshouldbesowhy,ohwhytrysohardtobesomeoneelse.

Thisofcourse,leadstoprocrastinationandthenyoufallintothetrapoffeelinglikeyoucannevergetanythingdoneandthen,yourself-esteemtakesanothernose-dive.

Breakfreeofthisdownwardcycle.

Howtobuildself-esteeminthefaceoftheperfectionismmyth–TakeActionWithWhatYouHaveOnHandToday&StopProcrastinating.Thereisnothinglikeboldaction(rightorwrong)toshakeyououtoflethargyandmakeyouseejusthowpowerfulyoucanbe.Andhoney,youcanhandleit,ifyougotitwrong!soRelaxandbepowerful.


OnPeople

Relationshipsareessentialforsuccess.However,peoplecanmakeorbreakyou…55. AvoidToxicPeople

Itfeelsselfishattimestothinkthatyoudonotwanttobearoundtoxicityandyet,youhavetomakethesechoicesifyouaredeterminedtocreateasuccessfullife.Noteveryoneisreadytowalkthepathwithyouandtheymayveryhorridlycauseyoutodoubtyourself,todoubtyourdreams,tothinkitisallimpossiblewhenitreallyisnot.So,bewaryaboutwhoyouhangoutwith.56. YouAreNoOne’sSaviour

Itistemptingtothinkthatyoucansaveeveryone.You,powerfulleaderyou,canfeelresponsibleforeveryone’sissuesandyouthenstarttotrytosavethemall.Youmustrealizethatyoucannotsaveanyonewhodoesnotwanttobesavedandmoreeventhanthat,itisnotyourjobinlifetosaveANYONE!Theymustchoosethemselves–Sameasyouarehavingto.Unfortunately,thatinternaldesiretosavepeopleisusuallythesignofpeople-pleasingtendencies.Itmakesyoufeelgoodtobeneededbutthatisunhealthy.Tobetrulysuccessful,youneedtoweanyourselfawayfromthatneed.57. Activelycultivaterelationshipswithempoweringinfluences

Dowhateverittakestobuildrelationshipswiththoseaheadofyou,intheracetosuccess.Thosepeoplewillmakeyouthinkthatyouarecapableofawholelotmorethanyoueverthoughtyoucoulddo.And,linkingupwithpeopleaheadof


youmayevenmeanyoucanformalliancesthatpropelthegrowthofyourbusinessorlifeforward.Moreopportunitiesanddealoccurandyoucannowbepartytoallofthat.Thereiscertainlysometruthinthe‘Itisallaboutwhoyouknow’thingbutyoustillhavetohavesomefoundationsinplace.Again,dowhateverittakestoup-levelyourrelationships.Paytojoinmastermindgroups,workwithcoaches,ifnecessary.Donotleavethistochance.58. WhoDoYouNeedToForgive?

Chancesare,thereissomeoneinyourlifethatyouneedtoforgive.Whathasthistodowithsuccessandfulfillment?EVERYTHING!WhenIforgaveafamilymemberforsomethingIfelttheyhaddonetome,mybusinessdoubled!IfeltreleasedfrommyneedtopleaseorcompetewiththemandsoIwasfreertodomyownthingandyouhavetodoyourownthingtoreallyexperiencesuccess.Makeaquicklistofgrudgesyouarecarrying…59. Forgiveness–Blame&Shame

Tobefreeofthepowerresentmentandgrudgeshaveonyou,youneedtoworkthroughwhereyouareplacingblame.Itmaybeyourparent–Whatdoyoufeeltheydidtoyou?Ormaybe,thereisahighlevelofshame–thisiswhenyouinternalizeitandmakeeventsmeansomethingterribleaboutyou.Writeoutalistagainofwhatyoublameothersforandwhatyoufeelshamefulabout.60. Forgiveness-TurnitAround


So,nowyouseeclearlywherethepainlies,gothrougheachthingandattemptfirstlytoseeitdifferently.Ifyouarespiritual,askGodwhereHewasinthatsituationandseewhatcomesupforyou.Writethisdown.Theremaystillbeangerthere–Letitcomethroughandmaybeyouwanttoworkthisthroughwithsomeoneelse.Ihavesupportedagoodnumberofclientsthroughthisprocesssoreachouttomeviaemailandwecanarrangesomething.Seethatpeoplegenerallydothebesttheycanandchoosetoletitgo.61. Forgiveness–Rinse,Repeat

Itisnotaonetimejourney.Itisacontinualchoicetoturnitarounduntilthewoundbecomesoldandblunt.Theeffectsofchoosingtoforgiveareimmense.Youcannotunderstandjusthowmuchofadifferenceitwillmaketotheresultsyoumakeuntilyouunblockyourself.So,choosetodothework.62. Sharewithothershowimportanttheyaretoyou

Intheprocessofcreatingasuccessfullife,intheprocessofeliminatingtoxicpeople,makesurethatyoutelltheonesyoulovejusthowmuchyouappreciateandcareforthem.Theymayfeelalittleunsettledbythechangesinyouasyouuplevel.Don’tunderestimatehowimportantitisforpeopletohearfromyouanditaddstoyourfeelingsofhappinesswhenyoudeliberatelychoosetoempowerothers.


OnMakingMoneyDoingWhatYouLove

63. DonotGiveInToThisYouwillbetemptedtothinkitisimpossibletobuildalifeandabusinessdoingworkyoulovedoing.Youwilllookatthesuperstarsinyourindustryandsomeofthemwilltellyoutodoworkthatwillpayyoumoneyandthendothethingyouloveandarebestsuitedfor,ontheside.Donotbelievethem!Thereasontheyaresosuccessfulisbecausetheycloselymatchedwhattheydowithwhotheyare.Itmayhavehappenedbyaccidentbutitdidhappen.Whateveryouchoosetodotouplevelyourlifeandbringaboutmassivesuccesswilltakealotofhardworkfromyousowhynotspendthetimeandthehardworkdoingexactlywhatyouwanttodountilitworks!64. Itisthebestwaytoimpact

Thethingyoumustrealizeisthatthepathwaytomaximumimpactforyouisthroughyourskills,experience,strengths.Otherthingsmayworkbutwillnevergiveyouthefulfillmentyoudesire.No,Idonotsaythatfindingandfollowingyourexactpathwillbeeasybutthejourneyisworthitandtheresultisworthittoo.Ibelieveyouhavebeencreatedwithaspecificbentforareason.Itistheexactpieceofthejigsawpuzzlethattheworldneeds.You,beingyou,isthatexactpiece.Ifyouwanttoimpactalotofpeopleforgood,ifyouwanttocreatewealthinawaythatfeelsgoodtoyouthenthisisthebestway.65. YouwillWalkThroughTheFire


IKnow,itisnotwhatyouwanttohearandyet,lifehasthrownallkindsofnonsenseatyouandthathascoveredyouwithlotsoflayers.Thoselayersneedtobetakenoffandthatiswhy,attimes,itwillfeellikeyouarewalkingthroughthefireLITERALLY!Andyet,youcanbesurethattheendresultisgood!Infacttheendresultisamazing.66. NotallFireisCreatedAlike

Whenwalkingthroughthefire,youwillbetemptedtostepovertowhatseemslikeaneasierkindoffire–DoNOTDOIT!Theeasyrouteisnotnecessarilythebestrouteforyou.Stayonthenarrowpathandgettowhereyouwanttogoquicker.Thejumpingoffandjumpingbacknthingyouhavebeendoingforsolongiskeepingyouinthefireforlongerthannecessary.Puttheblinkersonandstayinthefireuntilthedrossisburntoffandthegoldisrevealed.67. Theywilltrytohelpyou

Somecoaches,mentors,familymembers,friends,peerswilltrytohelpyouinanunhelpfulway.Theywillseeyourpainandtrytomakeiteasyforyouinsteadofwalkquietlybyyouandsupportingyou.Thisisthething,youhavealreadyexperiencedsuccessinsomemeasureandthathasnotbeensatisfyingforyoubecauseyouknowthatthereismoretoyou,much,muchmore.Youhavetofindthestrengthofmindtostayonthenarrowpath,tofindpeoplewhowillwalkwithyouonthenarrowpathandnottrytocircumventtheprocess.Therearenoshortcuts.Thereisawaytogettotheendfasteranditisbystayingonthepathandnotbeingdistracted.Icannotemphasize


enoughjusthowimportantyouaretotheplanet.Youmayseeyourselfaslittleoldyoubutthatisnonsense!68. WhatYouWantMatters

OK,Therearecertaindreams,visionswithinyouthatyoumayhavedecidedwillneverhappen.Andso,youhavestartedtothinkthatwhatyouwantisirrelevant.Tomakemoney,tohaveimpactdoingwhatyoulove,youdoitbypayingattentiontowhatyouwant.TodeliberatelychoosingtocreateanddesignalifethatincludesONLYwhatyoulovetodo.Ifyoukeepsettlingforlessthanthat,youwillsimplykeepgettinglessthanthat.69. BeSelfish!

Theywillcallyouselfish,youwillcallyourselfselfishuntilyougetwiseandrealizethatyouareonamissionthatisbiggerthanYOUandyourfeelings!Ifeveryonecoulddowhatyouhavesetouttodothentheywouldbedoingitsowhyonearthareyoulisteningtothe‘norm’definitionofselfish?ItisSELFISHtonotliveoutyourpurposeinlifebecauseyouarescaredoruncertain,livingtoeveryoneelse’sagendaorplainoldweak!Youarenotsupposedtosacrificeyourself,yourdreamsforthe‘greatergood’–Iknow,IKNOW,youhavebeenbroughtuptothinkthatyoushouldandsoyoubeatyourselfupandreduceyourselftothewhimsofthemany?AndthenNOONEgetsservedbytherealyou!70. UnleashYou

Whatisitthatyouareheretodo?Foraseason,youmaybetheonlyonewhoseesit.Willyoustayontrackanyway?Willyoudowhatmostareunwillingtodo?


Andthen,youwillgettolivethelifethatmanywillnevergettheopportunitytolive.Itstartsbylookingatthosestrengthsandchoosingtousetheminyourwork.Italkedyouthroughaplanforcreatingwealthquicklyinbusiness(Seethesectiononbusinessandincreasingincome)butforitnotjusttobeasidewaysstepintoabusinessthatdoesnotfulfillyou,youhavetobeopentocontinuingclarityaboutwhoyouareandwhatyouarehereontheplanettodo.Anditmaychangeshapefromwhatyouthoughtitwouldbesooneday,youareworkinghardtogettoacertaingoalonlytorealizethatitisnottheexactplaceforyoutostopforever.Thatisokay.You,morethanmost,arecreatedforcontinuingexpansion.Thereareliterallynolimitssoallowyourselftoexploreandexpandandcontinuallyincrease.Toend,Iseeapictureofajigsawpuzzleandthecompletepictureisthewholeplanet.Youareapieceofthatjigsawpuzzle.Asolitarypiecewithaspecificshape.Foryears,youhavetriedtofiledownyoursharpedges,youhavetriedtobelikeeveryoneelseandsothejigsawpuzzlecanneverbecompletedbecausenothingfitsthatwelltogetheranymore.AsyoupracticethesecretsinthiseBook,youreturntoyouroriginalshapeandthenyoustarttodrawyourpeopletoyouandyoustarttoservethemasyouwereoriginallydesignedtoandyoufindfulfillment.Wealthfollowsasyoustayonpathandyoudeliberatelychoosetocreateit.YouKNOWyoucanhaveitall–Abundanceis,afterall,yourbirthright.


Hereismyinvitationtoyou…Ihavecreatedahomeforus–aplaceforpeoplewhoresonatewiththethoughtsinthisbook.TherearemanymorethingsIcouldhavesharedbutIhadtostopsomewhereandgiveyouatasteofthethinkingthatledmetocreatethisspace.ItisaspaceIcalltheDeliberateMillionaireFastTrackGroup.Itisforyouwhohavebigideas,maybenotenoughfollowthroughbutdefinitelyadesiretoliveamorefulfillingexperienceoflife.Itisforyou,ifyouknowyouarecalledtomorethanyouarecurrentlyexperiencingandyouwanttobeamongotherswhowanttomoveuptoo.Itisaplaceofdailyawakeningtothepowerwithinyouanditisaplacetogetallyourquestionsanswered.Itisasafeplaceandyouwillcreatemorewealthwhileinthere…Ioriginallycreateditjustforentrepreneursbutthisisthething,Iamcalledtopeoplewhowantmoreandarewillingtodowhatittakestocreatemoreandreally,itdoesnotmatterwhetheryoucallyourselfanentrepreneurornot.Youmaywanttoimpactyoungpeoplewithyourstoryandyoudon’tknowhoworifyoucan…Youmaywanttowriteabookwhilecontinuinginyouremployment…Youmaywanttobeinministry…Youmaywanttobeginorrampupyourbusiness…


Ultimately,youhaveacallingandyouwanttofulfillitinsomeway…Andwhateveritis,youarereadytobecomealotmoredeliberateaboutdesigningyourlife…TheDeliberateMillionaireisforyou.Iinviteyoutoexperienceitfor90days-Youwillhaveaconversationwithmewithinthatfirst90daysandIwillgiveyoutheexactstrategyyouneedtomoveforward.Takefullpartinthedailycheckins,askyourquestions,takepartinthetrainingthatisdeliveredtoyouonaweeklybasisfromaneverincreasingcatalogueofleadership,sales,marketingtrainingprograms…Experienceitallandifyoudonotlikeit,justtellmeonDay59andIwillrefundyoucompletelyonanyinvestmentyouhavemadetothatpoint.Findoutmoreathttp://RosemaryNonnyKnight.com/deliberate-millionaire

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