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May 2015 For some months now I have been working with a professional leadership coach. This has been an excellent learning experience of becoming more aware of my strengths and how to use them more effecCvely for the benefit of this congregaCon that I have been called to lead. It was not really a surprise to me to discover that my greatest strengths are in strategic thinking and execuCng. Strategic thinkers are focused on what could be, always looking for and seeing opportuniCes for growth. Executors work hard to make things happen by being responsible, disciplined, deliberaCve, and consis tent. AddiConally, I am a relator who finds deep saCsfacCon in working together with others, and a maximizer who seeks to transform what is good into something superb. All this is grounded in “connect edness” — a code word for faith and spirituality. One cannot help but come out of a strengths assessment feeling good about oneself and one’s poten Cal. It is an experience that I highly recommend. Of course, that is just the first step. What follows is a lifelong journey of learning to use those strengths to build trust, demonstrate compassion, bring stability and hope to members of the organizaCon that one is leading. This part is trickier because it requires having a sense not only of one’s own strengths and needs, but other people’s strengths and needs. It involves things like recognizing that a person whose dominant strength is relator/empathy might find a strategic thinker/executor just a bit cool and distant, or even somewhat inCmidaCng; and learning to work around that. But I did not embark on this journey primarily for my own personal benefit, but for the benefit of this congregaCon. The most promising thing that I have learned is that although individual leaders do not need to be, and indeed rarely are, “wellrounded,” leadership teams should be. What that means is that as we move forward we will want to liV up into congregaConal leadership, i.e. church council, commit tees and ministry teams, persons with a diversity of strengths. So… Would you like to explore your strengths? Would you like to learn how to use those strengths to build up your commiYee or ministry team here at church, and/or any group that you lead in daily life? Join me on Wednesday, May 27, at 7:30pm to organize a small group devoted to “Exploring Our Strengths.” Blessings, Pastor Ritva

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May  2015

For  some  months  now  I  have  been  working  with  a  professional  leadership  coach.  This  has  been  an  excellent  learning  experience  of  becoming  more  aware  of  my  strengths  and  how  to  use  them  more  effecCvely  for  the  benefit  of  this  congregaCon  that  I  have  been  called  to  lead.  

It  was  not  really  a  surprise  to  me  to  discover  that  my  greatest  strengths  are  in  strategic  thinking  and  execuCng.  Strategic  thinkers  are  focused  on  what  could  be,  always  looking  for  and  seeing  opportuniCes  for  growth.  

Executors  work  hard  to  make  things  happen  by  being  responsible,  disciplined,  deliberaCve,  and  consis-­‐tent.  AddiConally,  I  am  a  relator  who  finds  deep  saCsfacCon  in  working  together  with  others,  and  a  maximizer  who  seeks  to  transform  what  is  good  into  something  superb.  All  this  is  grounded  in  “connect-­‐edness”  —  a  code  word  for  faith  and  spirituality.  

One  cannot  help  but  come  out  of  a  strengths  assessment  feeling  good  about  oneself  and  one’s  poten-­‐Cal.  It  is  an  experience  that  I  highly  recommend.  

Of  course,  that  is  just  the  first  step.  What  follows  is  a  lifelong  journey  of  learning  to  use  those  strengths  to  build  trust,  demonstrate  compassion,  bring  stability  and  hope  to  members  of  the  organizaCon  that  one  is  leading.  This  part  is  trickier  because  it  requires  having  a  sense  not  only  of  one’s  own  strengths  and  needs,  but  other  people’s  strengths  and  needs.  It  involves  things  like  recognizing  that  a  person  whose  dominant  strength  is  relator/empathy  might  find  a  strategic  thinker/executor  just  a  bit  cool  and  distant,  or  even  somewhat  inCmidaCng;  and  learning  to  work  around  that.  

But  I  did  not  embark  on  this  journey  primarily  for  my  own  personal  benefit,  but  for  the  benefit  of  this  congregaCon.  The  most  promising  thing  that  I  have  learned  is  that  although  individual  leaders  do  not  need  to  be,  and  indeed  rarely  are,  “well-­‐rounded,”  leadership  teams  should  be.  What  that  means  is  that  as  we  move  forward  we  will  want  to  liV  up  into  congregaConal  leadership,  i.e.  church  council,  commit-­‐tees  and  ministry  teams,  persons  with  a  diversity  of  strengths.  So…  

Would  you  like  to  explore  your  strengths?  Would  you  like  to  learn  how  to  use  those  strengths  to  build  up  your  commiYee  or  ministry  team  here  at  church,  and/or  any  group  that  you  lead  in  daily  life?  Join  me  on  Wednesday,  May  27,  at  7:30pm  to  organize  a  small  group  devoted  to  “Exploring  Our  Strengths.”  

Blessings,Pastor Ritva

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Earlier  this  year,  our  confirma-­‐Con  students  were  invited  to  interview  members  of  the  con-­‐gregaCon  to  learn  how  they  do  God’s  work  with  their  hands.  In  reviewing  the  interviews,  I  am  humbled  by  the  way  that  the  people  of  St.  Stephen’s  conCnu-­‐

ally  do  God’s  work  in  this  church,  their  vocaCons,  and  the  Cedar  Rapids  community.  

We  all  have  a  story  to  share.  And  wherever  that  story  has  taken  us,  and  wherever  it  will  lead  us,  God  is  in  the  midst  of  that  story.  On  our  own,  our  stories  may  seem  insignificant,  but  gathered  together  as  disciples  of  Christ,  we  join  together  in  God’s  mission  for  the  world.  Knowing,  living,  and  sharing  Christ’s  message  of  radical  love,  jus-­‐Cce,  and  inclusion  to  all  people,  we  have  a  story  worth  sharing.  

Recently,  the  council  met  to  consider  the  future  of  ministry  at  St.  Stephen’s.  Meanwhile,  our  out-­‐reach  team  has  encouraged  us  to  invite  someone  to  St.  Stephen’s,  and  to  share  the  story  of  the  community  with  others.  And  as  I  look  back  on  my  Cme  here  at  St.  Stephen’s  and  at  St.  Luke’s,  I  know  that  I  too  have  been  shaped  by  the  story  

that  I  have  been  welcomed  into.  As  I  have  wor-­‐shipped,  ate,  talked,  cried,  and  served  with  you,  your  story  has  shaped  my  story.  Through  your  witness,  my  story  has  been  transformed  to…

…  embrace  all  people  for  who  they  are,  and  to  welcome  all  to  the  table  of  God’s  sacrament.  

…  engage  in  whole-­‐hearted  hospitality,  open-­‐ing  myself  to  life-­‐changing  relaConships.  

…  claim  my  giVs  as  a  leader  of  the  church,  and  to  boldly  confess  the  daily  implicaCons  of  the  Gospel  message  for  all.

…  see  the  world  through  the  lens  of  the  suf-­‐fering,  the  outcast,  and  the  oppressed,  and  to  envision  where  God  is  calling  me  amidst  that.  

Your  story  has  influenced  my  story  and  my  jour-­‐ney.  For  that  I  give  thanks  for  sharing  your  story  with  me.  I  pray  that  you  conCnue  in  bold  witness  to  share  your  story,  our  story,  and  God’s  story  with  the  world!  

 Peace,Vicar Aleese Baldwin

Your Story. Our Story. God’s Story.

St. Stephen’s Former Vicar Paul Johnson Extends an Invitation!Paul  will  graduate  from  Wartburg  Theological  Seminary  Sunday,  May  17,  3pm,  at  St.  Joseph  The  Worker  Church,  2001  Saint  Joseph  Street,  Dubuque,  Iowa.  All  are  wel-­‐come  to  join  Paul  for  his  commencement!

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Sunday, May 31: We’re switching to summer worship hours!

1st Worship Service: 8am • 2nd Worship Service: 9:30am

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It  is  that  Cme  of  the  year,  when  pastoral  interns  —  vicars  —  who  are  currently  serving  are  begin-­‐ning  to  think  about  final  evaluaCons  as  they  en-­‐ter  the  last  quarter  of  their  internship.  You  can  begin  to  see  those  reflecCons  in  Vicar  Aleese’s  arCcle  for  this  month.  This  is  also  the  Cme  of  the  year  when  current  seminarians  (“middlers”)  re-­‐ceive  their  internship  assignments.  

Two  weeks  ago  I  was  delighted  to  spend  two  and  half  days  at  Wartburg  Theological  Seminary  get-­‐Cng  to  know  Luci  Sesvold  who  will  be  our  intern  beginning  the  end  of  August.  Luci  is  originally  from  Chippewa  Falls,  Wisconsin,  where  she  has  been  a  member  of  Our  Savior’s  Lutheran  Church  since  1992.  She  is  a  2009  graduate  of  St.  Olaf  College  in  Northfield,  Minnesota,  with  a  BA  in  Theatre  and  Religion.  As  a  college  student,  Luci  spent  four  summers  working  as  a  counselor  and  coordinator  at  Luther  Park  Bible  Camp  in  Chetek,  Wisconsin,  where  she  met  her  husband,  Chris.  They  were  married  in  September  2010.  

AVer  graduaCng  from  college,  Luci  worked  for  four  years  as  a  Director  of  Children’s  Ministries  in  the  Minneapolis  area.  She  was  in  charge  of  all  acCviCes  for  children  from  birth  to  fiVh  grade,  as  

well  as  organizing  their  volunteer  base.  Luci  be-­‐gan  her  seminary  training  in  July  of  2013.  

Her  husband,  Chris,  is  also  an  Mdiv  student  at  Wartburg  Theological  Seminary.  He  will  be  doing  his  internship  at  First  Lutheran  Church  here  in  Cedar  Rapids  while  Luci  serves  half-­‐Cme  with  us  and  half-­‐Cme  in  the  Spiritual  Care  Department  at  St.  Luke’s  Hospital.  

Luci  and  Chris  have  a  year  old  daughter,  Anika,  and  a  dog,  Raji.  They  will  be  living  in  the  “for-­‐merly  Red  House”  which  will  undergo  some  renovaCons  before  they  move  in.

Pastoral Internship 2015-2016

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Youth Gathering Update: On the Road to Detroit

FantasCc  news!  With  your  support,  we  have  raised  enough  money  to  get  the  kids  to  Detroit,  pay  for  our  expenses  in  Detroit,  and  make  it  all  the  way  back!  THANK  YOU  for  your  generous  donaCons  and  for  supporCng  our  youth.  To  date,  we  have  raised  $12,532.91.  Because  we  have  exceeded  our  expenses  for  the  trip  itself,  we  will  be  able  to  give  an  offering  at  the  Gathering.  The  large  offering  at  the  Gathering  will  go  toward  Walk  for  Water,  an  off-­‐shoot  program  of  ELCA  World  Hunger.  At  the  Gathering,  youth  and  adult  leaders  will  have  the  chance  to  experience  an  unforgeYable  walk  around  a  track,  designed  to  simulate  the  experience  of  collecCng  water  miles  away  from  home,  while  raising  quesCons  about  access  to  water  here  in  the  U.S.  too.  

With  a  goal  to  raise  $500,000  for  ELCA  World  Hunger-­‐supported  water  projects  around  the  world,  the  Gathering  is  calling  us  and  our  youth  

to  rise  up  to  the  occasion.  For  this  reason,  we  thank  you  for  seong  an  example  for  our  youth  and  leaders  of  what  it  means  to  give  to  God’s  work  around  the  world.  Youth  will  also  be  en-­‐couraged  to  give  of  their  own  means  if  they  are  interested  at  the  end  of  the  week.  

With  about  two  months  unCl  the  Gathering,  our  team  will  conCnue  to  meet  in  fellowship  and  study.  For  May,  we  will  meet  on  Friday,  May  15  at  6:30pm  at  Dan  Husmann’s  house.  Come  and  enjoy  a  cookout  and  perhaps  some  conversaCon  and  games.  

If  you  have  any  quesCons  about  what’s  goin’  on  with  our  youth,  please  contact  Vicar  Aleese  (email:  [email protected];  cell:  319-­‐427-­‐0600)  or  DeeAnn  Hebrink  (email:  [email protected];  cell:  319-­‐361-­‐9776).  Thank  you  for  rising  up  together  with  our  youth!

Graduate Recognition Sunday – May 17

If  you  or  a  family  member  are  expecCng  to  graduate  this  spring,  and  would  like  to  be  recognized  on  Sunday,  May  17,  send  a  pho-­‐tograph  (digital  or  print)  together  with  their  name,  the  insCtuCon  they  are  graduaCng  from,  and  the  diploma  or  degree  they  will  receive  to  our  office  manager,  Susan  Hallock,  at  [email protected]  and/or  to  Ellen  Kinsinger  at  [email protected].

Join us Sunday, May 24 as our 8th graders affirm their baptismal promises.

  9:15am   Doing  God’s  Work  with  Our  Hands

 10:30am   AffirmaPon  of  Faith

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 PRAYER  Mondays  at  12:30pm  –  Join  us  as  we  pray  for  each  other  and  St.  Stephen’s.

Wednesdays  at  6:30pm  –  Worship  with  prayer  around  the  cross,  healing  staCon,  and  more.

 STUDY  Children:   Sundays  9:15amSunday  SchoolMusic  second  Sunday  of  each  month

Men’s  Group:  Mondays  8am  at  Mr.  Beans-­‐Marion.  

Women’s  Bible  Study  –  Tuesdays  10amFour  week  exploraIon  of  1  Peter  –  in  the  Fellowship  Hall;  facilitated  by  Pr.  Ritva

ConfirmaPon  for  Middle  School  Youth:Wednesdays  at  7:15  p.m.,  Room  9

Sunday  Bible  Brunch  will  be  on  hiatus  in  May,  June,  and  July.    

 INVITE  &  ENCOURAGE  Women,  Wine,  Wisdom  Fellowship  Group  –Thursday,  May  7,  6pm  at  the  Tic  Toc,    6000  17th  Street  NE.  Please  RSVP  Amy  at  [email protected]  or  call/text  319-­‐270-­‐6365.

Beer  and  the  Bible  Men’s  Fellowship  Group  –  Thursday,  May  21,  6:30pm,  Tim  and  Laura  Sagers’,  1612  Colony  Ct.  SE.  RSVP  to  Tim  by  text:  319-­‐929-­‐1830  or  email:  [email protected].    

New  Small  Group:  Wednesday,  May  27,  7:30pmJoin  Pastor  Ritva  to  organize  a  small  group  de-­‐voted  to  “Exploring  Our  Strengths.”  Would  you  like  to  explore  your  strengths  and  learn  how  to  use  those  strengths  to  build  up  your  commiYee  or  ministry  team  here  at  church,  and/or  any  group  that  you  lead  in  daily  life?  If  interested,  please  join  us  May  27.

Southeastern  Iowa  Synod  Assembly  –  Friday,  May  29-­‐Saturday,  May  30,  Lutheran  Church  of  Hope,  West  Des  MoinesWe  are  used  to  praying  “in  the  name  of  Jesus.”  But  what  does  it  mean  to  live  and  serve  “in  the  name  of  Jesus?”  Join  us  for  the  2015  Assembly  of  the  Southeastern  Iowa  Synod,  as  we  worship,  sing,  share  stories  of  our  faith,  and  act…  In  the  Name  of  Jesus.  

Raise  money  for  Family  Promise  by  while  you  get  rid  of  unneeded  clothing  and  other  “stuff”  by  taking  them  to  Stuff  Etc.,  252  Blairs  Ferry  Road  NE,  Cedar  Rapids.  This  consignment  store  has  agreed  to  give  50%  of  its  sales  from  items  donated  by  members  of  Family  Promise  congre-­‐gaCons  to  Family  Promise.  Check  out  the  Cedar  Rapids  store’s  website,  stuffetccedarrapids.com,  to  see  what  the  store  currently  is  accepCng.  Or  call  319-­‐373-­‐2380.

 SERVE  Thank  you  to  all  who  have  signed  up  for  the  Sunday  morning  altar  flowers.  We  sCll  have  open  dates  available.  Please  check  the  WWJS⇡4  board  to  select  a  date  to  honor  a  birthday,  anni-­‐versary  or  memorial  or  to  the  Glory  of  God  or  for  no  reason  at  all!  Then  place  your  giV  of  $25  in  the  offering  plate,  marked  "FLOWERS."

Practice Discipleship in Daily LifeJoin us as we explore the seven faith practices that are the foundation for

following Jesus in daily life: Worship, Prayer, Encourage, Study, Give, Invite, Serve.

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Amy Kuhn: What St. Stephen’s Means to Me

We  have  been  aYending  St.  Stephen’s  for  about  15  years.  Growing  up  in  a  small  town,  going  to  the  8:00am  service  and  siong  in  the  front  every  Sunday  no  maYer  what,  I  promised  never  to  do  that  to  my  children.  That  is  why  you  will  find  my  family  at  the  

10:30  service  siong  in  the  back.

We  were  preYy  faithful  about  aYending,  giving  when  we  could,  and  making  a  few  friends  along  the  way.  All  that  changed  in  2008,  the  year  of  the  flood,  when  we  lost  our  home.  

The  police  woke  us  up  at  2:00am  that  Wednes-­‐day  morning  telling  us  to  leave  our  home  be-­‐cause  the  water  was  rising.  This  didn’t  make  any  sense  since  we  lived  on  the  “hill”  side  of  C  St.  The  police  didn’t  think  we  would  get  any  water,  but  since  our  address  was  C  St  we  had  to  evacu-­‐ate.  We  spent  the  rest  of  the  night  hanging  out  on  the  street  with  our  neighbors,  finally  leaving  at  4:00pm  on  Wednesday.  At  that  Cme  the  po-­‐lice  said  we  might  get  a  liYle  water  in  the  base-­‐ment.  We  moved  all  our  pictures  and  the  com-­‐puter  upstairs,  and  leV  the  DVDS  on  the  kitchen  counter.  I  loaded  up  my  car  with  the  five  days  of  required  clothing,  the  kids  and  our  dog,  and  headed  to  Manchester  to  stay  with  my  parents.  

It  wasn’t  unCl  Thursday  that  we  realized  how  bad  it  was.  As  my  mom  and  I  were  watching  the  news,  we  could  see  that  the  Cedar  River  looked  high.  It  wasn’t  unCl  the  news  crew  widened  the  screen  that  I  realized  what  I  thought  was  the  river  was  actually  1st  Ave.  It  was  then  that  it  hit  me:  my  house  was  flooded  and  I  didn’t  have  a  stove.  I  needed  that  stove  to  cook  dinner  for  Jon  Rasmussen.  I  began  to  cry  and  panic.  It  took  a  

while  to  reach  someone  at  St.  Stephen’s  to  let  them  know  I  couldn’t  make  dinner  for  Jon  as  I  didn’t  have  a  stove.  They  asked  if  it  had  broken  and  I  said  no  my  house  is  underwater  and  so  I  don’t  have  a  stove.  They  were  like,  “what  your  house  is  flooded?”  They  told  me  not  to  worry  about  cooking  for  Jon.  Soon  word  got  around  that  we  were  flooded.  Everyone  was  worried  about  us  not  having  a  home,  and  my  only  con-­‐cern  was  I  couldn’t  cook  for  Jon.  I  was  so  upset.  I  had  finally  volunteered  for  something  and  I  couldn’t  do  it.

One  of  Brian’s  friends  took  his  boat  down  C  St  and  stopped  right  in  front  of  our  house  on  the  day  the  waters  crested.  The  depth  from  the  street  to  the  top  of  the  water  was  18  feet.  We  had  5’  2”  of  water  on  our  main  floor.

If  it  wasn’t  for  St.  Stephen’s  and  all  the  love  and  generosity  that  you  showed  us,  I  don’t  think  we  could  have  overcome  this.  A  member  loaned  us  an  apartment  for  two  weeks.  The  youth  group  offered  up  their  “red  house”  for  us  to  live  in.  The  giVs  and  donaCons  kept  coming  in,  even  from  members  we  didn’t  know.  They  were  hard  to  accept.  I  am  someone  who  thinks  she  can  do  it  all  by  herself,  and  never  ask  for  help.  Those  giVs  helped  us  realize  St.  Stephen’s  is  not  just  our  church  –  it  is  our  family.  

A  group  came  from  China  to  help.  They  were  giving  each  flood  family  $500.00.  They  had  set  up  at  Westdale  Mall.  I  stood  in  line  for  3  hours,  and  then  spent  another  two  hours  siong  in  a  room,  waiCng  to  tell  my  story.  As  I  sat  there  watching  the  men  interact  with  us,  all  of  them  seemed  very  caring,  shaking  hands  with  those  who  were  flooded,  offering  each  one  a  bit  of  

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hope.  Each  family  received  the  money  and  a  large  navy  blue,  very  warm  blanket  with  their  logo  on  it.  But  there  was  one  worker  who  never  smiled,  never  showed  compassion  to  those  he  helped,  didn’t  even  shake  anyone’s  hands.  I  prayed  that  I  wouldn’t  get  him.  God  was  listen-­‐ing,  and  I  was  assigned  to  that  man.  He  didn’t  welcome  me  with  a  handshake  or  a  smile,  he  made  me  nervous.  AVer  going  over  everything,  while  tears  ran  down  my  face,  he  asked  if  our  family  needed  temporary  housing.  I  said  no,  our  church  youth  group  had  offered  to  give  up  their  hangout  house  for  us  to  live  in.  He  began  to  cry  too,  and  asked  if  he  could  give  me  a  hug.  This  man  who  had  seemed  so  cold  was  anything  but.  He  asked  the  name  of  this  amazing  church  and  I  proudly  told  him  (and  anyone  else  who  would  listen)  St.  Stephen’s  Lutheran  Church.  As  he  got  my  blanket,  he  told  the  others,  and  they  too  came  over  to  hear  about  my  wonderful  church.  

AVer  that  we  knew  we  had  to  step  up  our  game.  We  started  to  give  a  steady  donaCon  each  

month.  We  have  conCnued  to  up  that  amount  each  year;  it  may  only  be  an  extra  $5  a  month  but  we  up  it  just  the  same.  And  what  we  can’t  give  in  monetary  donaCons  we  make  up  for  with  Cme  and  “talents”  –  I  have  been  told  I’m  a  preYy  good  cook!  I  stepped  out  of  my  comfort  zone  to  co-­‐lead  the  Hospitality  Ministry  Team.  When  Tim  started  the  “Beer  and  Bible”  men’s  fellowship,  the  women  of  St.  Stephen’s  came  to  us  asking  for  a  group  for  women.  Nicole  and  I  brain-­‐stormed  and  then  started  WWW  –  Women,  Wine,  Wisdom.  I  love  this  group  and  look  for-­‐ward  to  it  each  month.  Leading  these  efforts  was  something  I  needed  but  didn’t  know  that  I  needed  when  Karen  Johns  had  asked  me  to  pon-­‐der  doing  this.  I  enjoy  bringing  fun  and  fellow-­‐ship  to  St.  Stephen’s.  

I  give  Cme,  talent  and  money  to  St  Stephen’s  out  of  love  and  graCtude  because  they  have  given  so  much  to  our  family.  So  I  ask  that  each  of  you  “step  up”  and  give,  so  we  can  conCnue  to  make  a  difference!

Stewardship:  How  Your  Financial  Gi[s  Make  a  Difference!

AVer  geong  off  to  a  slow  start  in  January,  we  have  had  three  months  of  strong  giving.  THANK  YOU  for  your  generosity.

This  pie  chart  shows  how  every  dollar  you  give  supports  our  mission  of  knowing,  living,  and  sharing  Christ.  The  2015  budget  breaks  down  as  follows:

  Knowing  Christ  –  Worship     $114,269   Knowing  Christ  –  Learning*   $    28,241   Living  Christ       $    53,201   Sharing  Christ       $    55,775

*Includes  the  hiring  of  a  part-­‐Cme  youth  director,  conCngent  on  funding.

To  ensure  that  your  gi?  reaches  the  church  consistently,  you  might  consider  seEng  up  a  monthly  elec-­‐tronic  funds  transfer  (EFT).  For  more  informa<on,  contact  Jackie  Lee  at  319-­‐241-­‐5399  or  [email protected].

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May is National Foster Care MonthDo  you  know  someone  who  is  open-­‐minded,  pa-­‐Cent,  caring,  a  team  player,  and  has  a  great  sense  of  humor?  He  or  she  could  be  a  great  foster  par-­‐ent!  As  a  partner  agency  in  Iowa  KidsNet,  LSI  helps  find,  train,  support,  and  license  Iowa’s  foster  and  adopCve  families.  To  learn  more,  visit  www.IowaKidsNet.com.  

LSI  is  proud  to  be  an  affiliated  social  ministry  or-­‐ganiza<on  of  the  Evangelical  Lutheran  Church  in  America  (ELCA).  Learn  more  at  www.LSIowa.org  and  www.facebook.com/LSI.iowa.  

A  Dream  Team  for  BrookeOn  a  spring  day  in  MuscaCne,  LSI  brought  together  a  dream  team.  A  pastor,  principal,  guidance  coun-­‐selor,  teacher,  grandmother,  and  mom  all  gathered  for  one  reason:  to  make  sure  a  special  teen  girl  knew  how  much  she  maYered.  

The  girl  was  Brooke,  a  sweet,  shy  16-­‐year-­‐old  who  had  been  struggling  at  school  with  poor  decision-­‐making  and  social  issues.  “Since  my  daughter  was  in  kindergarten,  all  I  had  ever  heard  were  nega<ve  

comments,”  said  her  mom  Nicole.  “No  one  else  saw  what  I  saw  in  Brooke  un<l  LSI  came  along.”LSI’s  Dream  Team  program  brings  together  all  the  people  who  care  about  a  teen.  Brooke’s  team  lis-­‐tened  to  her  share  her  dreams  to  help  animals  or  help  the  elderly,  and  then  they  responded  with  love,  encouragement,  and  ideas.  “They  talked  about  her  big  heart  and  how  they  could  help  her  reach  her  goals  when  she  graduates,”  Nicole  said.  “Brooke  was  ecsta<c.”“Brooke’s  self-­‐worth  has  skyrocketed,”  said  Rochelle,  an  LSI  coordinator.  “You  can  just  see  when  you  talk  to  her  she  feels  be_er  about  herself.”Brooke  also  spent  months  working  with  LSI’s  Brief  Intensive  Services  staff  to  learn  how  to  make  beYer  choices.  She  didn’t  fail  a  single  subject  last  year  and  even  made  A’s.  “LSI  convinced  us  to  have  her  re-­‐tested,  and  she  was  diagnosed  with  Asperger’s  and  ADHD,”  said  Nicole.  “Without  LSI  I  think  we  would  be  in  jeopardy  of  Brooke  not  gradua<ng.”  Brooke  is  starCng  to  believe  in  herself  for  the  first  Cme.  And  that’s  a  dream  come  true.

Please Join Us to Reach Out: Meeting the Needs of Foster Care Children and Families

Through  the  month  of  May,  St.  Stephen’s  is  recog-­‐nizing,  honoring,  raising  awareness,  and  reaching  out  to  meet  the  needs  of  children  and  families  in  foster  care.  You  are  invited  to  parCcipate  in  the  following  ways.  

Sunday,  May  3:  Temple  Talk  and  Adult  EducaPon  at  9:15am  –  Learn  about  the  work  of  Families  Helping  Families  (FHF)  from  Molly  Gansen  and  Amy  Jellison.  Molly  is  a  foster  and  adopCve  parent,  serving  as  Vice  President  of  FHF.  Amy  Jellison  is  the  execuCve  director  of  FHF.

Sunday,  May  10:  Temple  Talk  and  Adult  EducaPon  at  9:15am  –  Kai  McGee  of  Iowa  KidsNet  will  share  important  informaCon  about  foster  care  in  Iowa,  the  need  for  homes,  what  it  takes  to  be  a  foster  parent,  and  ways  that  we  can  support  foster  par-­‐ents  or  foster  youth.  

Through  the  month  of  May  we  will  be  taking  up  a  collecCon  for  Families  Helping  Families.  Please  

bring  items  from  the  list  below  to  church  and  put  them  in  the  designated  boxes.  Thank  you!

• SOCKS:  Infant  Skid  Resistant;  Teen  No  Show  or  Crew

• UNDERWEAR:  2T  -­‐  8  Kids;  10-­‐12  &  14-­‐16  (Boxer/Brief);  Mens  S,M,L  (Brief);  Womens  5-­‐12  (Jersey,  Boyshorts,  Medium  Cut)

• DIAPERS  (SensiPve  Skin):  Cloth  &  Accessories;  Preemie;  Sizes  1-­‐6;  Pull  Ups;  Goodnights

• BABY  SUPPLIES:  Formula  (unopened);  Any  Johnson's  or  SensiCve  Skin  LoCon/Bath  Sup-­‐plies;  Diaper  Rash  Cream  &  Vaseline;  BoYles  (Dr.  Browns,  Avent,  Tommee  Tippee);  Boppee  Pillows;  Baby  Swing/High  Chair/Bouncer

• BEDS:  Bunkbeds;  All  Sizes  Bed  MaYresses  and  Boxsprings;  Baby  Beds  (no  drop  down  sides);  Baby  Bed  MaYresses

• BEDDING:  Baby  Crib  Sheets;  Baby  Blankets  and  Wraps;  Receiving  Blankets;  Flannel  or  CoYon  Blankets

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Through the Week at St. Stephen’sWhat’s usually happening on a given day

Sundays   Beginning  May  31  –     Summer  Worship  Hours:  8  &  9:30am8:00am     Worship  9:05am   Fellowship9:15am   EducaCon  Hour9:15am   Confirmation  Students’  Witness  (5/24)10:30am     Worship  10:30am   Graduate  RecogniCon  Sunday  (5/17)10:30am   ConfirmaCon  of  8th  Graders  (5/24)11:45am   Choir  Rehearsal11:45am   BackPack  Prog  Organizing  Mtg  (5/3)  

Mondays   Office  closed  Memorial  Day  5/249  to  1:00     Church  office  open  8:00am   Men’s  Fellowship  at  Mr.  Beans12:00pm   eNews  deadline12:30pm     Prayer  Team6:30pm   Stephen  Ministry  Supervision        (5/4  &  5/18))7:00pm   Boy  Scouts  (5/11,  18)

Tuesdays9  to  1:00     Church  office  open10:00am   Women’s  Bible  Study5:30pm   Worship  &  Music  CommiYee  (5/12)6:30pm   Ministry  Teams  MeeCngs  (5/12)6:30pm   Mutual  Ministry  (5/26)

Wednesdays9  to  1:00     Church  office  open6:30pm     Worship7:15pm   Worship  Ensemble  Rehearsal          (does  not  meet  on  5/6)7:15pm   ConfirmaCon  Class7:30pm   Organize  a  New  Small  Group:        Exploring  Our  Strengths  (5/27)

Thursdays9  to  1:00     Church  office  open3:00pm     Women’s  Coffee  on  Thursdays  at     Mr.  Beans  (2nd  &  4th  weeks)6:00pm   Women,  Wine,  Wisdom-­‐        at  Tic  Toc;  600  17th  St  NE  (5/7)6:30pm   Cedar  River  Conference  Mtg  (5/7)6:30pm   Beer  &  the  Bible  Men’s  Group  (5/21)

Fridays   Pastor’s  Sabbath   Church  office  open  by  appointment)6:30pm   Youth  Gathering  Fellowship          at  the  Husmann’s  (5/15)

Saturdays9:00am     Tai  Chi  (1st,  2nd,  &  3rd  Saturdays)

Fr.i-­‐Sat.,  May  29/30  –  SEIA  Synod  Assembly

We  welcome:Emma  Seraphina  Victoria  Reimers,  daughter  of  John  and  Michelle  Reimers  and  granddaughter  of  Vicky  and  Marty  Johnson,  bapCzed  April  26.

Our  condolences  to  the  family  and  friends  of:Margaret  Dennis,  mother  of  David  Dennis,  who  passed  away  March  31.  

Burge  Petersen  who  passed  away  April  19.

Henry  Hall,  father  of  Sorina  Abernathey,  who  passed  April  19.  

EvereY  Kruse,  grandfather  of  Molly  Chambers,  who  passed  away  April  26.

On the Prayer List

Please  contact  the  office  or  use  a  Prayer  Request  card  (in  your  pew  rack)  to  place  your  loved  one’s  name  on  this  list  for  two  weeks  and/or  request  prayer  of  the  Monday  Prayer  Team.  If    your  loved  one  desires  a  pastoral  visit,  please  contact  Pastor  Ritva.

MembersSteve  ThomasMick  ButzLee  TramutoloPete  HansenKen  KaiserJoan  PetersenElaine  PetersMarian  ZierathEmma  IsraelAmy  KuhnEllen  KinsingerJada  FlowersQuenCn  BurtunekDavid  Hebrink

Rela<vesTerry  SwalveGary  CoatesTrent  RosbergDon  CovellShirley  CoatesDave  Marner  Sr.June  PfeifferCarolyn  Towell

FriendsGlenn  KelleyDenise  AllamandSusan  Hallock

Serving  in  the  military  and/or  overseasKate  Munro      (Malawi)  

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Thanksgiving for Baptism

Easter Sunday, April 5, 2015

Easter Blooms

Easter Breakfast & Easter Egg Hunt(hosted by Red House Youth)

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Saturday, April 25, 2015

Suzanne  generously  donated  37  of  her  water  color  painPngs  to  the  youth  to  sell.  Her  work  is  beauPful  and  so  well  done,  and  she  is  oh  so  humble  when  she  talks  about  it!  Of  the  37  painPngs,  all  but  5  were  sold!  She  was  surprised  and  elated  at  the  turnout  for  her  work!  Many  of  the  purchasers  were  our  own  congregaPon  members  who  wanted  a  "Suzanne  Schmidt  PainPng"  –  not  only  because  of  their  beauty  but  because  of  the  beauP-­‐ful,  generous,  and  wonderful  woman  they  remind  us  of.    

I  feel  privileged  to  have  golen  to  know  her  beler  over  the  last  few  weeks  of  planning  this  event.  The  youth  are  ever  so  grateful  to  now  have  this  money  in  their  account:  some  of  which  will  go  toward  the  offering  they  present  at  the  Gathering  this  July,  some  of  which  will  be  "seed"  money  toward  the  next  mission/service  trip.  And  the  amount  raised....    $1,557!!  This  includes  some  money  donated  above  the  cost  of  the  painPngs  (which  were,  by  all  accounts,  certainly  under-­‐priced!).

Thank  you,  once  again,  to  all  the  members  of  our  congregaPon  for  supporPng  our  youth!  And  please  thank  Suzanne  for  selflessly  donaPng  most  of  the  remaining  work  she's  painted  over  the  last  40+  years!

DeeAnn Hebrink

A Note from Suzanne . . .Thank  you  sincerely  to  the  members  of  St.  Stephen’s  who  were  able  to  aYend  the  St.  Stephen’s  Youth  art  sale.  It  was  successful  due  to  your  generosity.

Blessings  to  all,Suzanne Schmidt

Our  former  vicar,  Paul  Johnson,  was  welcomed  back  Sunday,  April  26,  to  receive  this  beauPful  banner  created  by  the  commilee  of  Ellen  Kinsinger  (lep),  DeeAnn  Hebrink  (right),  and  Sorina  Abernathey.  It  is  indeed  a  work  of  art!  Ellen  did  the  lion's  share  of  the  construcPon  of  the  banner.  DeeAnn  and  Sorina  helped  with  the  design  and  selecPng  fabrics.

The  Holy  BapPsm  of  Emma  Seraphina  Victoria  Reimers  at  the  10:30  service.  Emma’s  grandparents  are  Marty  and  Vicky  Johnson.

Sunday, April 26, 2015

Suzanne Schmidt Watercolor Paintings Art Benefit a Huge Success!

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