4Developers 2015: People Skills for Geeks - Michał Parkoła
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People Skills for Geeks Michał Parkoła
Transcript of 4Developers 2015: People Skills for Geeks - Michał Parkoła
People Skills for GeeksMichał Parkoła
peopleskillsforgeeks.com
Level 1: How to listen
Don’t talk
Don’t think about talking
But, but, but, …
But I know what you’re gonna say!
Let her say it anyway!
But it doesn’t make any sense!
In what context could this make some sense?
Listen?
Don’t talk Don’t think about talking
Level 3: Don’t believeeverything you think
The Work 1. Judge your neighbour 2.Write it down 3.Ask four questions 4.Turn it around
Is it true?
Can you absolutely know it’s true?
What happens (how do you act)
when you believe this?
Who would you be without this thought?