22 Muslim Views . July 2017 ‘I just want to go for Hajj’

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Muslim Views . July 2017 22 O NE of the great rewards of being consulted by intending Hajj pilgrims is to hear their narrations. There is always the trepidation of being vaccinated, and to ease the anxiety we employ a variety of strategies, which include them re- lating their viewpoint of their in- tended pilgrimage. Sometimes, not a word is said, not due to fear-induced paralysis but due to emotions. Many were simply too over- whelmed by the blessing and hon- our of undertaking the journey that they would not utter a word. The tears rolling down their cheeks, the avoidance of eye con- tact and the gulp-like swallowing told a story on its own. Sometimes it comes in a flood, with different torrents of thoughts confusing the gentle flow of the spoken tide. Most of the related tales are of gratitude, of being honoured to be given a chance to be more Allah- conscious, of being given a new leash in life and of being able to re- pent and attaining redemption. What always fascinates me is how much pilgrims are prepared to sacrifice in the quest to perform Hajj as perfectly as they perceive possible. She consulted me months be- fore she was due to depart our southern shores. She had planned, saved and dreamt of her Hajj and it was finally going to materialise. She informed me of her prepara- tions and how she planned to stay as long as possible in the Holy Land. She was going to spend every minute of the precious time there in worshipping her Creator in the two holiest mosques in Islam. The vast majority of Muslims will only perform Hajj once in their lifetime, and she was one of those who were acutely aware of this fact. There was not going to be any regrets about not having had enough time to do all the activities she had planned. The Saudi authorities only allow a certain duration of stay and she was going to be of the first to depart South Africa and of the last to re- turn. She planned to have six weeks com- pletely detached from her worldly, mun- dane affairs and only be involved with her inner spiritual self. Her work was quite de- manding and again she had planned every aspect way be- forehand. Her accreditation to perform Hajj had come through early and she had set things in mo- tion immediately. All her work had been prepared months in ad- vance and was ready whenever it was required. For the duties that would re- quire her physical presence while she was away, she had asked for a replacement way ahead of the scheduled times needed for such requests to be approved. She had put in her leave requests timeously and had not thought that there would be any problems in it being granted. She had informed her superiors some time back of her intention to perform Hajj, and they were aware of the normal duration of the journey for the ordinary Capetonian. None of them had in- dicated any discomfort with her plans, and she mentioned that one of her superiors was a Muslim who had performed Hajj already. ‘However, things are not going as planned,’ she said. She said it matter-of-factly, and did not seem perturbed by her statement at all. ‘What do you mean?’ I asked, my curiosity stirred. ‘My work got back to me and are absolutely understanding of how important Hajj is to Muslims so they have no problems with me going. What they have a problem with is the duration of the leave that I requested. They say that it is longer than they can grant,’ she replied. ‘I am sure you can take unpaid leave,’ I suggested. ‘I told them that; I even said that my whole leave period can be unpaid. I don’t mind that if the leave is an issue, I just want to go for Hajj,’ she explained. She elab- orated how she had had meetings with management and had tried to explain her side of the story but to no avail. The maximum time off they were prepared to give her was four weeks. ‘What about the Muslim who is part of management?’ I asked. ‘That person was of the opinion that Hajj was in reality only five days long and that a month was more than enough,’ was her reply. I was dumbstruck. She worked for a big institution and her time away, as in any such organisation, should not have been a problem. However, her absence would have inconvenienced, not paral- ysed, them as they would have to redeploy someone or even hire someone on a temporary basis. If they were willing to do it for four weeks, surely they could do it for six weeks. I thought of what difference two weeks could mean to her. However, I am probably the last person to ask! Two extra weeks! Her early arrival in Saudi would not be an en- gagement of tol- erance and endurance as the airport and other transport staff would be more than ade- quate to handle the number of travellers. As she would be leaving be- fore the major- ity of pilgrims would arrive in Saudi Arabia, she would have more opportu- nities to enter the Prophet’s Mosque in Madinah. She would have more time to spend in the Roudatul Jannah, in the serene and immensely spiritual environ- ment that not even massive crowds can eliminate. In Makkah, there would be more tawaafs possible, more time to spend in the Haram, whether reciting, praying or just letting the sights of the Ka’bah overwhelm her. I spoke then of the medical ben- efits of going early. This gives the person more time to acclimatise to the oppressive heat and decreases the chance of heat stroke. Also, orientation and getting used to the massive crowds be- come easier. ‘So what are you going to do?’ I asked. ‘I am going for the six weeks,’ she said determinedly. ‘And your work?’ was my next predictable question. ‘Doc, I am not going to give up my long held desire. Whatever Allah wills will happen. I’ll con- sider my future after Hajj but until my journey is complete, it will be the only thing occupying my mind,’ she answered. She explained that she would not resign from her job as she would lose some of her benefits. She was not going to claim for sick leave even though she had plenty of that available. In fact, she was determined that she would indicate to them, in writing, that she had more than enough reasons to go for six weeks and would be departing on a particular date. ‘If they call me to a disciplinary meeting or fire me before I leave, I’ll state my case and leave as planned and do something when I come back. ‘If they say that they would consider that I absconded on the day I departed without their per- mission then they must institute steps against me on my return. They can even fire me while I am gone. But I am going to depart on my booked date.’ Some often say that you are tested during Hajj. The obnoxious behaviour of fellow travellers, the non-delivery of agents, the disdain the authorities treat pilgrims with, often lead to an upsurge of anger and hatred, which, while at times probably justified, is against the spirit of Hajj. Her test started way before she even spread her wings. I did not hear from her again but I am sure with her resolve and determina- tion, Allah will smile on her. May she and all other hujaaj have a Hajj maqbool and Hajj mabroor. ‘I just want to go for Hajj’ What fascinates me is how much pilgrims are prepared to sacrifice in the quest to perform Hajj as perfectly as they perceive possible, writes DR SALIM PARKER. The hajji wanted to arrive early in Saudi Arabia so that she would have more opportunities to enter the Prophet’s Mosque in Madinah, which is known for not allocating much space for women in the Roudatul Jannah. Photo SALIM PARKER ‘I told them that; I even said that my whole leave period can be unpaid. I don’t mind that if the leave is an issue, I just want to go for Hajj,’ she explained. She elaborated how she had had meetings with management and had tried to explain her side of the story but to no avail...

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Muslim Views . July 201722

ONE of the great rewardsof being consulted by intending Hajj pilgrims is

to hear their narrations.There is always the trepidation

of being vaccinated, and to easethe anxiety we employ a variety ofstrategies, which include them re-lating their viewpoint of their in-tended pilgrimage.Sometimes, not a word is said,

not due to fear-induced paralysisbut due to emotions.Many were simply too over-

whelmed by the blessing and hon-our of undertaking the journeythat they would not utter a word.The tears rolling down their

cheeks, the avoidance of eye con-tact and the gulp-like swallowingtold a story on its own.Sometimes it comes in a flood,

with different torrents of thoughtsconfusing the gentle flow of thespoken tide.Most of the related tales are of

gratitude, of being honoured to begiven a chance to be more Allah-conscious, of being given a newleash in life and of being able to re-pent and attaining redemption.What always fascinates me is

how much pilgrims are preparedto sacrifice in the quest to performHajj as perfectly as they perceivepossible.She consulted me months be-

fore she was due to depart oursouthern shores. She had planned,saved and dreamt of her Hajj andit was finally going to materialise.She informed me of her prepara-tions and how she planned to stayas long as possible in the HolyLand.She was going to spend every

minute of the precious time therein worshipping her Creator in thetwo holiest mosques in Islam.

The vast majority of Muslimswill only perform Hajj once intheir lifetime, and she was one ofthose who were acutely aware ofthis fact.There was not going to be any

regrets about not having hadenough time to do all the activitiesshe had planned.The Saudi authorities only

allow a certain duration of stayand she was going to be of the firstto depart SouthAfrica and ofthe last to re-turn. Sheplanned to havesix weeks com-pletely detachedfrom herworldly, mun-dane affairs andonly be involvedwith her innerspiritual self.Her work

was quite de-manding andagain she hadplanned everyaspect way be-forehand. Heraccreditation toperform Hajj had come throughearly and she had set things in mo-tion immediately. All her workhad been prepared months in ad-vance and was ready whenever itwas required.For the duties that would re-

quire her physical presence whileshe was away, she had asked for areplacement way ahead of thescheduled times needed for suchrequests to be approved. She hadput in her leave requests timeouslyand had not thought that therewould be any problems in it beinggranted.

She had informed her superiorssome time back of her intention toperform Hajj, and they wereaware of the normal duration ofthe journey for the ordinaryCapetonian. None of them had in-dicated any discomfort with herplans, and she mentioned that oneof her superiors was a Muslimwho had performed Hajj already.‘However, things are not going

as planned,’ she said. She said itmatter-of-factly, and did not seemperturbed by her statement at all.‘What do you mean?’ I asked,

my curiosity stirred.‘My work got back to me and

are absolutely understanding ofhow important Hajj is to Muslimsso they have no problems with megoing. What they have a problemwith is the duration of the leavethat I requested. They say that it is

longer than they can grant,’ shereplied.‘I am sure you can take unpaid

leave,’ I suggested.‘I told them that; I even said

that my whole leave period can beunpaid. I don’t mind that if theleave is an issue, I just want to gofor Hajj,’ she explained. She elab-orated how she had had meetingswith management and had tried toexplain her side of the story but tono avail.The maximum time off they

were prepared to give her was fourweeks.

‘What about the Muslim who ispart of management?’ I asked.‘That person was of the opinion

that Hajj was in reality only fivedays long and that a month wasmore than enough,’ was her reply.I was dumbstruck.She worked for a big institution

and her time away, as in any suchorganisation, should not havebeen a problem.However, her absence would

have inconvenienced, not paral-ysed, them as they would have toredeploy someone or even hiresomeone on a temporary basis.If they were willing to do it for

four weeks, surely they could do itfor six weeks.I thought of what difference

two weeks could mean to her.However, I am probably the lastperson to ask! Two extra weeks!

Her early arrivalin Saudi wouldnot be an en-gagement of tol-erance andendurance asthe airport andother transportstaff would bemore than ade-quate to handlethe number oftravellers.As she would

be leaving be-fore the major-ity of pilgrimswould arrive inSaudi Arabia,she would havemore opportu-

nities to enter the Prophet’sMosque in Madinah. She wouldhave more time to spend in theRoudatul Jannah, in the sereneand immensely spiritual environ-ment that not even massivecrowds can eliminate.In Makkah, there would be

more tawaafs possible, more timeto spend in the Haram, whetherreciting, praying or just letting thesights of the Ka’bah overwhelmher.I spoke then of the medical ben-

efits of going early. This gives theperson more time to acclimatise to

the oppressive heat and decreasesthe chance of heat stroke.Also, orientation and getting

used to the massive crowds be-come easier.‘So what are you going to do?’

I asked.‘I am going for the six weeks,’

she said determinedly.‘And your work?’ was my next

predictable question.‘Doc, I am not going to give up

my long held desire. WhateverAllah wills will happen. I’ll con-sider my future after Hajj but untilmy journey is complete, it will bethe only thing occupying mymind,’ she answered.She explained that she would

not resign from her job as shewould lose some of her benefits.She was not going to claim for

sick leave even though she hadplenty of that available. In fact,she was determined that shewould indicate to them, in writing,that she had more than enoughreasons to go for six weeks andwould be departing on a particulardate.‘If they call me to a disciplinary

meeting or fire me before I leave,I’ll state my case and leave asplanned and do something when Icome back.‘If they say that they would

consider that I absconded on theday I departed without their per-mission then they must institutesteps against me on my return.They can even fire me while I amgone. But I am going to depart onmy booked date.’Some often say that you are

tested during Hajj. The obnoxiousbehaviour of fellow travellers, thenon-delivery of agents, the disdainthe authorities treat pilgrims with,often lead to an upsurge of angerand hatred, which, while at timesprobably justified, is against thespirit of Hajj.Her test started way before she

even spread her wings. I did nothear from her again but I am surewith her resolve and determina-tion, Allah will smile on her.May she and all other hujaaj

have a Hajj maqbool and Hajjmabroor.

‘I just want to go for Hajj’

What fascinates me is how much pilgrims are prepared tosacrifice in the quest to perform Hajj as perfectly as theyperceive possible, writes DR SALIM PARKER.

The hajji wanted to arrive early in Saudi Arabia so that she would have more opportunities to enter the Prophet’s Mosque inMadinah, which is known for not allocating much space for women in the Roudatul Jannah. Photo SALIM PARKER

‘I told them that; I even said that my

whole leave period can be unpaid. I

don’t mind that if the leave is an issue,

I just want to go for Hajj,’ she explained.

She elaborated how she had had meetings

with management and had tried to explain

her side of the story but to no avail...