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Marian medalists to be honored One hundred and two persons will receive the Marian Medllli in ceremonies at 3 p.m. Sunday at St. Mary's Cathedral. The award, to be presented by Bishop Daniel A. Cronin, goes to mem'>ers of diocesan parishes nominated by their pastors as outstanding for devotion and service. The list of recipients and their parishes follows: Cape and Islands William Burke, St. Anthony, E. Falmouth; Pauline Cahoon, St. Patrick, Falmouth; Lillian Cam- acho, O.L. of Cape, Brewster; Robert A. Collyer, St. John the Evang., Pocasset; Alice Creemer, St. Elizabeth Seton, No. Fal- mouth. Martha Curley, O.L. of As- sumption, Osterville; Philip E. Dempsey, St. Pius Tenth, So. Yarmouth; James J. Fegan, O.L. of Lourdes, Wellfleet; Hilda Foley, St. Mary, Nantucket; Eleanor Foster, St. Augustine, Vineyard Haven. Bernice N. Johnson, Holy Trinity, West Harwich; Pauline Leonard, St. Margaret, Buzzards . Bay; Margaret M. Macpherson, O.L. of Victory, Centerville; Wil- liam McBride, Holy Redeemer, Chatham; Mary Margaret Mc- Devitt, St. Joan of Arc, Orleans. Antone J. Pina, St. Rita, Marion; George A. R<lss, St. Peter, 'Provincetown; Eileen S. Thompson, St. Francis Xavier, Hyannis; Rita S. Willoughby, St. Elizabeth, Edgartown. Attleboro Area David M. Burke, St. Mark, At- tleboro Falls; Kathleen Carroll, St. John the Evangelist, AWe- boro; Anne M. Chambers,' St. Mary, Mansfield; Ruth V. Char- ron, St. Mary, Norton; John A. Haug, St. Mary, No. Attleboro. Normand C. Prefontaine, Sa- cred Heart, No. Attleboro; Ed- ward F. Tedesco, St. Theresa, So. Attleboro; Jose C. Viveiros, Holy Ghost, Attleboro; Agnes T. Walek, St. Mary, Seekonk. Taunton Area Elsie Abreau, St. Anthony, Taunton; Joseph V. Andrade, Immaculate Conception, Taun- ton; Angeline Aranjo, St, Ann, Raynham; Leo A. Beauvais, St. Jacques, Taunton; Walter Bie- dak, Holy Rosary, Taunton. Luz Burgos, Spanish Aposto- late, Taunton; Joseph Cambra, Our Lady of Lourdes, Taunton; Rosalie Connors, St. Paul, Taun- ton; Rosalie Davis, Holy Family, Taunton; James R. Dutra, St. Peter, Dighton. . James M. Goldrick, St. Jo- seph, Taunton; Raymond J. Har- rison, Sacred Heart, Taunton; Josephine F. Hill, Holy Cross, No. Easton; William R. Silva, St. Mary, Taunton; Edward J. Robi- cheau, Immaculate Conception, No. Easton. New Bedford Area Mary a. Almeida, O.L. of As- sumption, New Bedford; Alice Beaulieu, St. Joseph, New Bed- ford; Anita BelHveau, St. Francis of Assisi, New Bedford; Dorothy Cahoon, St. Patrick, Wareham; Leonard G. Cejka, Sacred Hearts, Fairhaven. William E. Constant, St. Mary, New 'Bedford; Alden Davignon,- St. Theresa, New Bedford; Jean LaBelle, St. Julie, No. Dart- mouth; Germaine Lagesse, Sa- cred Heart, New Bedford; Vivian R. 'Lapre, St. Francis Xavier, Acushnet. Norbert F. Latimer, St.' An-. thony of Padua, New Bedford; Victor Lemos, Holy Name, New Bedford; Sophie Machowski, St. Casimir, New Bedford; Carlota J. Marujo, Immaculate Concep- tion, New Bedford; John Mur- St. John the Baptist, West- port. Stephanie A. Patla, St. Hed- wig, New Bedford; Elda Poitras, Our Lady of Fatima, New Bed- ford; Leo F. St. Aubin, St. Law- rence, New Bedford; Harry A. Sears, St. Anne, New Bedford;' Gabriel B. Senna, St. Anthony, Mattapoisett. Charles O. Silva, Jr., O.L. of Mt. Carmel, INew Bedford; Caro.. .}ine Silveira, St. Mary, South Dartmouth; Rose Silveira, St. Boniface, New 'Bedford; Cather- ine Stanton, St. James, New Bedford; Stella Supczak, O.L. of Perpetual Help, New Bedford. Donald Sylvain, St. George, Westport; Wilbur J. Teves, St. Kilian, New Bedford; John A. Wojcik, St. Mary, Fairhaven. Fall River Area Domingos Andrade, Santo Christo, Fall River; Mary Costa Bernard, St. John of God, Som- erset; Leo Bienvenue, St. Louis de France, Swansea; Agnes P. Black, Sacred Heart, Fall River; Jane M. Borden, St. -Thomas More, Somerset. Jeremias Botelho, St. Anthony of Padua, Fall River; Raymond W. Brogan, Immaculate Concep- tion, Fall River; Albert Cartier, Holy Cross, Fall River; John Cassidy, St. Louis, Fall River; Therese Chabot, St. Dominic, Swansea. Robert Chouinard, Notre Dame, Fall River; Mary DiGiam- mo, Holy Rosary, Fall River; David Dunne, Jr., St: Patrick, Somerset; Ernest Edwards, St. Stimislaus, Fall River; Dominick D. Faggioli, Sr., Our Lady of Grace, Westport. Florence Labecki, St. Jean Baptiste, Fall River; Herve La- voie, St. Michael, Swansea; Yvonne Lavoie, St. Mne, Fall River; Irene Levesque, Blessed Sacrament, Fall River; Mary Lu- iz, St. Bernard, Assonet. James P. McKnight, St. Wil- liam, Fan River; Armanda Mello, O.L. of Angels, Fall River; Ver- onica Melvin, Our lady of Fati- ma, Swansea; Nobrega, St. Elizabeth, Fall River; John Nunes, Espirito Santo, Fall River. Maureen O'Rourke, Holy Name, Fall River; Raymond A. Poisson, St. Mathieu, Fall River; Louise Regan, St. Patrick, Fall River; Ann Standish, St. Mary's Cathedral, Fall River; Jordan Travassos, Our Lady of Health, Fall River; Edward D. Tyrrell, Sts. ·Peter & Paul, Fall River. j the anc 0 DIOCESAN NEWSPAPER FOR SOUTHEAST MASSJg CAPE & ISLANDS Vol. 27, No. 47 Fall River, Mass., Friday, December 2, 1983 $8 Per Year \ , , f ; .; UNDER DIRECTION of Glenn Giuttari, the Diocesan Choir and the Greater New Bedford Choral Society rehearse at St. Mary's Cathedral for a joint performance of Han- del's Messiah at 7 p.m. Sunday, Dec. 11, at the Zeiterion Theatre, New Bedlford. The first such offering at the recently restored playhouse, the concert will feature Gerald P. Dyck, Edward G. Doucette, Polly Maynard and Joanne Mercier as soloists. A 16-piece will be led by concertmistress Ann Danis, (Gaudette Photo) 'Model, point of reference' for nations Family rights charter WASHINGTON (NC) - The Holy See on Nov. 2 issued a Charter of the Rights of the Family. calling it a "model and point of reference" for the laws and policies of nations. Its major points include· the following: I. All persons have the right to choose freely to marry and establish a family or to remain single. 2. Only through "the free and full consent" of the spouses is there a real marriage. 3. Spouses "have the inalien- able right to found a family" and to decide freely on fami'ly size. 4. "Human life must be re- spected and protected absolute- ly from the moment of concep- tion." 5. Parents have "the original, primary and inalienable right to educate" their children, and pub- lic authorities must assure the structures and means to assure those rights. 6. The right "to exist and progress as a family" requires protection of the family's dignity and stability; divorce "attacks the very institution of marriage and the family," 7. Every family has the right to full freedom of religion. , 8. "The family has the right to exercise its social and politi- cal function" and to form asso- ciations to acpieve its socio- political values effectively. 9. "An adequate family poli<:y" by governments is need- ed "in the juridical, economic, social and fiscal domains." 10. Working conditions and wages must respect family needs and rights. 11. Families have a right to "decent housing," a suitable "physical environment" and "basic services for the life of the family and the community." 12. Families of migrants- im- migrants, migrant workers, re- fugees - "have the right to the /same protection as that ac<:ord- ed other families," The 12-article charter, paral- leling other international chart- ers of human rights, declares the priority of the family over "the state or any other community" as a "natural society" that has "inherent rights which are in· alienable." It declares marriage "the natural institution to which the mission of transmitting ·life is exdusively entrusted" and says that any attempts "in any way to limit the freedom of couples in .deciding about their children constitute a grave offense ,against human dignity and jus- tice." Rights of the family that it outlines range from a right to privacy to "economic conditions which assure them a standard of living appropriate to their dignity and full development," from freedom of choice in reli- gion and in the education of their children tp the rights to Turn to Page Six

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Marian medalists to be honored

One hundred and two persons will receive the Marian Medllli in ceremonies at 3 pm Sunday at St Marys Cathedral

The award to be presented by Bishop Daniel A Cronin goes to memgters of diocesan parishes nominated by their pastors as outstanding for devotion and service

The list of recipients and their parishes follows

Cape and Islands William Burke St Anthony

E Falmouth Pauline Cahoon St Patrick Falmouth Lillian Camshyacho OL of Cape Brewster Robert A Collyer St John the Evang Pocasset Alice Creemer St Elizabeth Seton No Falshymouth

Martha Curley OL of Asshysumption Osterville Philip E Dempsey St Pius Tenth So Yarmouth James J Fegan OL of Lourdes Wellfleet Hilda Foley St Mary Nantucket Eleanor Foster St Augustine Vineyard Haven

Bernice N Johnson Holy Trinity West Harwich Pauline Leonard St Margaret Buzzards Bay Margaret M Macpherson OL of Victory Centerville Wilshyliam McBride Holy Redeemer Chatham Mary Margaret McshyDevitt St Joan of Arc Orleans

Antone J Pina St Rita Marion George A Rltlss St Peter Provincetown Eileen S Thompson St Francis Xavier Hyannis Rita S Willoughby St Elizabeth Edgartown

Attleboro Area David M Burke St Mark Atshy

tleboro Falls Kathleen Carroll St John the Evangelist AWeshyboro Anne M Chambers St Mary Mansfield Ruth V Charshyron St Mary Norton John A Haug St Mary No Attleboro

Normand C Prefontaine Sashycred Heart No Attleboro Edshyward F Tedesco St Theresa So Attleboro Jose C Viveiros Holy Ghost Attleboro Agnes T Walek St Mary Seekonk

Taunton Area Elsie Abreau St Anthony

Taunton Joseph V Andrade Immaculate Conception Taunshyton Angeline Aranjo St Ann Raynham Leo A Beauvais St Jacques Taunton Walter Bieshydak Holy Rosary Taunton

Luz Burgos Spanish Apostoshylate Taunton Joseph Cambra Our Lady of Lourdes Taunton Rosalie Connors St Paul Taunshyton Rosalie Davis Holy Family Taunton James R Dutra St Peter Dighton

James M Goldrick St Joshyseph Taunton Raymond J Harshyrison Sacred Heart Taunton Josephine F Hill Holy Cross No Easton William R Silva St Mary Taunton Edward J Robishycheau Immaculate Conception No Easton

New Bedford Area Mary a Almeida OL of Asshy

sumption New Bedford Alice Beaulieu St Joseph New Bedshyford Anita BelHveau St Francis of Assisi New Bedford Dorothy Cahoon St Patrick Wareham

Leonard G Cejka Sacred Hearts Fairhaven

William E Constant St Mary New Bedford Alden DavignonshySt Theresa New Bedford Jean LaBelle St Julie No Dartshymouth Germaine Lagesse Sashycred Heart New Bedford Vivian R Lapre St Francis Xavier Acushnet

Norbert F Latimer St An- thony of Padua New Bedford Victor Lemos Holy Name New Bedford Sophie Machowski St Casimir New Bedford Carlota J Marujo Immaculate Concepshytion New Bedford John ~ Murshyley~ St John the Baptist Westshyport

Stephanie A Patla St Hedshywig New Bedford Elda Poitras Our Lady of Fatima New Bedshyford Leo F St Aubin St Lawshyrence New Bedford Harry A Sears St Anne New Bedford Gabriel B Senna St Anthony Mattapoisett

Charles O Silva Jr OL of Mt Carmel INew Bedford Caro ine Silveira St Mary South Dartmouth Rose Silveira St Boniface New Bedford Cathershyine Stanton St James New Bedford Stella Supczak OL of Perpetual Help New Bedford

Donald Sylvain St George Westport Wilbur J Teves St Kilian New Bedford John A Wojcik St Mary Fairhaven

Fall River Area Domingos Andrade Santo

Christo Fall River Mary Costa Bernard St John of God Somshyerset Leo Bienvenue St Louis de France Swansea Agnes P Black Sacred Heart Fall River Jane M Borden St -Thomas More Somerset

Jeremias Botelho St Anthony of Padua Fall River Raymond W Brogan Immaculate Concepshytion Fall River Albert Cartier Holy Cross Fall River John Cassidy St Louis Fall River Therese Chabot St Dominic Swansea

Robert Chouinard Notre Dame Fall River Mary DiGiamshymo Holy Rosary Fall River David Dunne Jr St Patrick Somerset Ernest Edwards St Stimislaus Fall River Dominick D Faggioli Sr Our Lady of Grace Westport

Florence Labecki St Jean Baptiste Fall River Herve Lashyvoie St Michael Swansea Yvonne Lavoie St Mne Fall River Irene Levesque Blessed Sacrament Fall River Mary Lushyiz St Bernard Assonet

James P McKnight St Wilshyliam Fan River Armanda Mello OL of Angels Fall River Vershyonica Melvin Our lady of Fatishyma Swansea ~ntonio Nobrega St Elizabeth Fall River John Nunes Espirito Santo Fall River

Maureen ORourke Holy Name Fall River Raymond A Poisson St Mathieu Fall River Louise Regan St Patrick Fall River Ann Standish St Marys Cathedral Fall River Jordan Travassos Our Lady of Health Fall River Edward D Tyrrell Sts middotPeter amp Paul Fall River

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UNDER DIRECTION of Glenn Giuttari the Diocesan Choir and the Greater New Bedford Choral Society rehearse at St Marys Cathedral for a joint performance of Hanshydels Messiah at 7 pm Sunday Dec 11 at the Zeiterion Theatre New Bedlford The first such offering at the recently restored playhouse the concert will feature Gerald P Dyck Edward G Doucette Polly Maynard and Joanne Mercier as soloists A 16-piece orche~tra will be led by concertmistress Ann Danis (Gaudette Photo)

Model point of reference for nations

Family rights charter WASHINGTON (NC) - The

Holy See on Nov 2 issued a Charter of the Rights of the Family calling it a model and point of reference for the laws and policies of nations

Its major points includemiddot the following

I All persons have the right to choose freely to marry and establish a family or to remain single

2 Only through the free and full consent of the spouses is there a real marriage

3 Spouses have the inalienshyable right to found a family and to decide freely on family size

4 Human life must be reshyspected and protected absoluteshyly from the moment of concepshytion

5 Parents have the original primary and inalienable right to educate their children and pubshylic authorities must assure the structures and means to assure those rights

6 The right to exist and progress as a family requires protection of the familys dignity and stability divorce attacks the very institution of marriage and the family

7 Every family has the right to full freedom of religion

8 The family has the right to exercise its social and politishycal function and to form assoshyciations to acpieve its socioshypolitical values effectively

9 An adequate family polilty by governments is needshyed in the juridical economic social and fiscal domains

10 Working conditions and wages must respect family needs and rights

11 Families have a right to decent housing a suitable physical environment and basic services for the life of the family and the community

12 Families of migrants- imshymigrants migrant workers reshyfugees - have the right to the

same protection as that acltordshy

ed other families The 12-article charter paralshy

leling other international chartshyers of human rights declares the priority of the family over the state or any other community as a natural society that has inherent rights which are inmiddot alienable

It declares marriage the natural institution to which the mission of transmitting middotlife is exdusively entrusted and says that any attempts in any way to limit the freedom of couples in deciding about their children constitute a grave offense

against human dignity and jusshytice

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THE ANCHORshyFriday Dec 2 1983

Pope lauds cardinals

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Pope John Paul II recalled the contrishybutions of the middotIate Cardinals Humberto Medeiros of Boston and Terence Cooke of New York during a recent Mass in the Sisshytine Chapel commemorating cardinals and bishops who have died recently

In his homily the pope outshyHned the life of Cardinal Medshyeiros who was born in the Portushyguese islands of the Azores and immigrated to Fall River as a teenager

Named bishop of Brownsville Texas in 1966 Cardinal Medshyeiros defended the rights of immigrant workers and farm labshyorers the pope said

After he was named archshybishop of Boston in 1970 the cardinal distinguished himself for his constant work for evanmiddot gelization and for ecumenical dialogue the pope added

Cardinal Medeiros died Sept 17 of cardiac arrest after undershygoing heart surgery He is burshyied with his parents in St Patshyrick~s Cemetery Fall River

Cardinal Cooke who died ~ Oct 6 after a battle with leushy

kemia went to his death with great faith and great serenity the pope said

He recalled that the New York cardinal had spoken out for the gift of life during his final weeks Struck down in the full vigor of his pastoral activity by an incurable illness he united himself with the cross of Christ with the full consciousness of a Christian a priest and a bishop the pope said

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dinar Agostino casaroli papal Pio Laghi apostolic delegate in Andropovs response he reitershysecretary of state me~ I with the United States the cardinal ated Id say the tone and conshyPresident Ronald Reagari Nov met with the press at the White tent of the answer was really 22 to discuss the intern~tional House after his session withRea- respectful and positive situation the main conce~n of gan He said the Vatican does not the Holy See according to the In talks with the president worry that world leaders will cardinal I you can imagine the Holy See prove irrespon~ible on the numiddot

Cardinal Casaroli a1so report- can only talk about the main clear allls issue because we ed that both Reagan and Soviet concern the international situamiddot are confident they will conduct President Andropov ha41 sent tion Cardinal Casaroli said themselves responsibly respectful and positive reo The Holy See is very much In his brief comments to the spouses to recent private Imess- concerned about it and seeks press he did not provide any ages from Pope John Paul II to do what we can which is details of his meeting with Reamiddot urging peace and arms dontrol not verY much he added gan or his thoughts on arms negotiations I He said the pope has received control or another topic of inter-

Nov 23 - a day after the car- responses from both Reagan and est to US Catholics - Conshydinars comments - the Soviets Andropov to his appeal for peace gress decision to allow formal walked out of the two-y~r-old In both -eases the answer was diplomatic ties between the US-Soviet negotiations dn re- respectful was positive he United States and Vatican inshyduction of medium-range mis- Haid The word of the pope was cluding exchange of ambassashysile arsenals in Europe not rejected dorial representatives

Regional eCllmelllical meeting Tuesday The Massachusetts Icom- necessarily impactmiddot the local Tuesdays meeting is being

miSSion on Christian Unity will church or congregation coordinated by Rev Alan Preshyhold a r~gional m~eting on to For example the commission v~to of Trinity United Methoshythe pU~hc at St Vmcent s Jlome recently made a very special re- dlst Church Taunton F~l1 River from 930 a~ to port on a study aimed at some 1215 pm Tues~ay I kind of ecumenicalconsensus on

The MeCU a 25-memberl body the churchs future ministry of representatives from d~nom- There was much diversity as the

inations and jUdicafori~s subject w~s looked at through throughout the comrponwealth the eyes pf perJions from both is headed by Rev Warren ISave liturgical and non-liturgical trashyage of St Marys parish West- ditions field I

We were able to see that ourIn a prepared statement Father tl~rminology often gets in theSavage said commission fuemshyway of expressing ourselvesbers hope to bring their messshyclearly and precisely What reshyage to all parts of tl~e statel duro form means to a Protestant is ing 1984 quite different from what ftWe are inviting local dioceshymeans to someone from the Eastshysan or denominationalecufueni em Orthodox tradition Yetcal bodies to join us for tftese what we can agree upon canregional meetings helsaid have a lasting effect upon theand to share with us in Vhat shape of the ministry of the to

ways the MCeU can be ofl sershy tfll Christian church in the fushyvice to them tureOver the last 15 years the

MCCU has attempted to f~ster serious dialogue between Chrisshytians on subjects which divide us as well as unite us This kind of dialogue requires mu-eh enshyergy and commitment to tackle subjects of concern which dont

Our conning together with 10shycnl ecumenical bodies can be a way of checking out our diashylogue on such important subjects with those who will be most dishyrectly affeltted by our deliberashytiems

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ROME (NC) At his first press conference as superior general of the Society of Jesus Father Peter-Hans Kolvenbach reaffirmshyed the Jesuits loyalty to the pope and agreed with Pope John Paul II that the order has deshyfects resulting in too much secular activity

The Society of Jesus has no meaning and loses its very reashyson to exist if it lacks distincshytive fidelity to the holy father and a special dedication to the Lords church in its actual aposshytolic embodiments said Father Kolvenbach at a press conference at Jesuit headquarters in Rome

In a prepared statement Father Kolvenbach said the pope was concerned about the Jesuits and said he agreed with the pope that the order has defects inshycluding certain secularizing practices and attitudes sacrificshying prayer for activity that is too simply humanitarian and adopting socio-political modes of behavior that are determined by criteria that are not always evangelical in nature

The 54-year-old Dutch linguist who until his election had been rector of Romes Pontifical Oriental Institute said the soshyciety would continue to work for peace and justice but noted that suCh work should always be undertaken in the name of the church in communion with its pastors and not according to individualistic criteria and persshypectives

usee protests detention

WASHINGTON (NC) - The US Catholic Conference has joined the Catholic bishops of England and Wales in protesting detention of a South African Catholic Church official

Father Smangaliso Mkhatmiddot shwa general secretary of the South African Catholic Bishops Conference was detained 1y poshylice Oct 30 after attending a prayer service at Fort Hare Unimiddot versity in Ciskei Efforts to learn his whereabouts have been unsuccessful Msgr Daniel F Hoye general

secretary of the USCC the public policy arm of the National Conshyference of Catholic Bishops wrote to SACBC president Bishshyop Denis Hurley of Durban sayshying the USCC would urge Amshyerican officials and news media to note the situation and take appropriate action

Ciskei is one of four black tribal homelands in South Afr-ica which the government declared independent as part of its policy of apartheid or strict racial segregation Father Mkhatshwa the first black general secretary of tl)e SACBC is a leading symshybol of church opposition to aparshytheid

Saying the USCC was outshyraged by the actions of the Ciskei police Msgr lioye told Bishop Hurley that we pray for the safe and prompt release of Father Mkhatshwa and supshyport your efforts to free him

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Father olster to mark silver jubilee

Rev John R Foister pastor of St Anne parish Fall River will celebrate the silver jubilee of his ordination to the priestshyhood during a special noon Mass Sunday December 11

Very Rev John Paul Driscoll pastor of St Lawrence parish and New Bedford area dean will be the homilist The St Anne Chorale uncler direction of Normand Gingras will perform and lead the congregation in song

Following the Mass and under the cochairmanship of Donald Valcourt and Stephen Marcisshyzyn the p~ish will host Father Foister and his guests at a banshyquet and reception in St Anne School auditorium on Forest Street

middotBom in Fall River on Decemshyber 6 1931 the jubilarian was educated at the Brown School and Dominican Academy and at St Anne and Blessed Sacrament parish schools also at Mt St Charles Academy in Woonsocket and Our Lady of Providence seminary in Warwick

He prepared for the priestshyhood at St Marys Seminary Baltimore and at the Pontifical North American College in Rome where at the Pontifical Gregorian University he obshytained a Licentiate in Sacred TheologY degree

He was ordained a priest on December 20 1958 by too Most Rev Martin J OConnor rector of the American College in Rome

In his pastoral ministry Father liolsterserved as associshyate pastor at St Roch Sacred Heart Notre Dame and St Louis pQrishes in Fall River St Anthony of Padua parish in New Bedford and St Louis de France jn Swansea Before asshysuming ~is present pastorate in 1978 he was for two years passhytor of Sacred Heart parish Fall River

Also in pastoral work he has been CCD director of the Fall River and New Bedford areas secretary of the Board of Exshyaminers of the Clergy member of the editorial staff and acting editor of The Anchor and a prosynodal judge of the Dioceshysan Tribunal

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the moorinstJ ~ea~e Advent H~reg I

There is no doubt that the movement for peace among the peoples of the world has special meaning at this particushylar time in mans hist9ric journey More and more dp we see men and women coming together in public gatherings to witness to their desire for peace in the family of ban

A great impetus to the peace movement in this c04ntry was supplied by the American bishops peace pastora~~ Its publication by such a prestigious church body amid the tension of armament buildup in this country Was a courageous and unprecedented action I

Yet despite the ominous clouds on the int~rnat~onal horizon we in the church should remember that we are preparing to celebrate the enduring reality pf the PHnce of Peace I

The liturgy of this holy time of Advent begins approshypriately with the verse of thepnarmed prophet Is~iah They shall beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks I

In a recent address to the Pontifical Academy of I Sciences our Holy Father gave powerful witness tO the

Iwords of Isaiahmiddot saying Unarmed prophets have been the object of derision in every age especially on the patt of shrewd politicians the supports of power But todayfuust not our civilization recQgnize that humanity has neetl of them I

Developing his thoughts on this subject of peace the pope strove forcefully tolet his hearers know that Ireal peace is born not only from elimination of the hotbeds of war but from positive acts of justice The work for p~ace must be seen as a relentless struggle not the passing f~ncy of enthusiasts Sin injustice and oppression never c~ase their efforts to enslave and destroy Peace must be waged with equal persistence I

In this context the pope reflected that the OnlYWar that should be waged is that against hunger disease and the death of millions of human beings whose lives could be lived in dignity and happiness with the monies wbrld powers spend each year on the arms race I

It should be obvious to all that the Catholic Church is actively supporting those who feel threatened by ~we-some atomic warfare I

The church has become a moral leader in the search for peace more meaningful than ever in this Advent sea~on But words of peace must become deeds of peace and for many this transition is more than difficult So many in the so-called peace movement demonstrate their peaceful inshytentions through violent actions This gives their mqveshyment a sense of ridiculous contradiction and causes a loss of credibility To be perfectly frank many of th~ antidof so-called peace demonstratorsturn people off I

But it is imperative that the peace movement distapce itself from the extremist the radical and the ungovernable This can be done when the quest for lasting peace becorttes a moving force both among those who believe that it corhes from God and those who sincerely seek that God of peJce

IThis quest should indeed be in the forefront of the

mind of all Catholics as they share the churchs longing for the Awaited One

Peace indeed is the stuff of Advent May its speedy coming be our prayer

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Something special about us BY Father Kevin J Harrington

A century ago the great Amshyerican poet Walt Whitman wrote A single mouse is miracle enough to convert a trillion inshyfidels The odds that a mouse would evolve as it has are beshyylDnd calculation

Another overlooked miracle is the incredible diversity of livshying creatures The genes that constitute the inheritance of each species unite and dissociate to produce ever-fleeting evermiddot different combinations This endmiddot less combinatorial system guarshyantees the diversity that gives species their versatility and posshysibBities

Discoveries in physics bear out the theory that there has been an incalculable number of universes with differing rates of expansion and differing physical constants

Many scientists believe that only such a theory postulating an almost infinite number of universes evolving during an alshymost infinite period of time can acount for the emergence of self-aware creatures such as ourshyselves

The conclusions that can be re~lched by the unaided power

of reason do indeed boggle the mirtd Even Albert Einstein who shook the world of physics with his discoveries was not comshyforted by them But dismissing the statistical view of rea~ity

with the exasperated comment GDd does not play dice he inshy

tuitively sensed a world of times and those to come as a order going beyond mere chance period of grace during which we

Grace certainly builds on na- should live according to the visshy-ture and God rarely int~rvenes

in history to change mans desshytiny yet faith teaches that man can load the dice in his own favor through freedom 01 choice

Our sun a~ we know it has a stable lifetime of eight to 10 billion years therefore condishytions favorable to life as we know it will not be eternal There is therefore something

- special about our human species that invited the Lord of all creshyated things to become one of us

Jesus came to us both as a free gift from the Father and as the result of the free consent of a member of the human race through the Blessed Mothers life-affirming yes to the mysterishyous will of God Our species is mysteriously called into a relashytionship with the eternal through this marvelous intervention of

bull God into our history

Exercising human reason scishyentists have taught us uncountshyed lessons aIJout the universe If we destroy ourselves it will

I not be because of failure of reason but failure of imagination

Christ came to share with us a vision of Gods kingdom Our imagination displays before lis the ever changing picture of the possible yet we cannot fully imshyagine how dismal is life without God nor how blissful it is in total union with him

We should -look upon our own

ion of -love revealed to us in Christ Our life should be the more precious to us when we consider our possibly uniqutl position in Gods creation Acshycording to quantum cosmology there is an infinitesimal chance that the peculiar combination necessary for that correct mixshyture of energy and matter will ever duplicate itself to generate another creature capable of selfshyawareness

Our tools of technology have given us hitherto undreamed freedom to affirm or destroy life With this our power to make Earth a better place to Hve or a hell we need to ask anew Why did God become man Surely to save us from our sins

EDICTAL CITATIONmiddot DIOCESAN TRIBUNAL

FALL RIVER MASSACHUSETTS

Since the actual place of residence of GERARD HENRI MARTIN is unknown

We cite GERARD HENRI MARTIN to appear personally before the Tribunal of the Diocese of Fall River on Monday December 12 1983 at 130 pm at 344 Highland Avenue rge~~v~I~Sh~assachusetts to lIve testimony

Whether the nullity of the marriage exists in the LEVESQljE-MARTIN case

Ordinaries of the place or other pastors having the knowledge of the residence of the above person Gerard Henri Martin must see to It that he Is properly advised In regard to this edictal citation

Henry T Munroe Offlclalls

Given at the Tribunal Fall River Massachusetts on this the 28th day of November

1983

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Family Night A weekly at-home program for families

sponsored hy the Diocesan Office of Family Ministry

OPENING PRAYER Dear Father tonight we are

going to celebrate the wonder of our growth We praise you for the gift of life and your nourishshyment that has helped us to grow Amen

ACTIVny TIME Young Family

This evening the famiy is inshyvited to stand back and look at and celebrate the growth and development of each family member

Bring out the baby books picshytures baby shoes other memo rabilia Share with the chHd the events that surrounded his birth Baptism early years up to the present time If you do not have a memorabilia box you might make one so that items related to his growing can be displayed in his bedroom on his wall or on a shelf You might begin a

tape recording of the chHds voice which can be added to periodically

Middle Years and Adult Families

Arrange snapshots of the famshyiy members at various stages of growth on a large bulletin board or cardboard Exchange names and find fitting descriptions hushymorous captions from magazines to be put under each picture

SNACK Hot apple cider garnished

with a stick of cinnamon

ENTERTAINMENT Variations of the Tag Games

Sibling fighting Sibling fighting - ever

since Cain and Abel its plagued parents Where have we gone wrong wonshyder anguished parents who subshyscribe to the myth that the famshyily should be a haven of peace and serenity

Lets face it Kids fight And although this may surprise some they fight as much in healthy families as in not-so-healthy families The main difference lies in how parents handle it

First they expect it as a norshymal even positive family activity They know that whereshyever two or three children are gathered together there wi be some fighting Secondly they realize that its in fighting with siblings that children learn to get along with other children with future roommates and spouses and with eventual bosses

The child who refuses to play fairly soon finds himself withshyout friends so he has to modify his behavior Thats how we learn Thats why only children have more difficulty coping with their own childrens fighting and why they often have a tougher time in marriage than the ones with Seven siblings

Learning to fight fairly is an important part of growing up but its up to the parents to set olimits and rules on fighting Here are the most common ones Ive found in the healthy famishylies I studied

1 Physical fighting and obshyscenitieli are forbidden at all times These include hitting bitshying kicking and hair pulling Parents let their children know

that these will not be tolerated and that children who hit will face severe discipline from par- ents

And the parents follow through In this way children are forced to develop other ways of dealing with conflict

2 The kids fight belong to them not to the parents Ive seen cases where a mother three rooms away takes on the quarrel of two children because she views herself as family peaceshykeeper This tells the children that their mother is responsible for any arguments they start In healthy families the parents insist that those who fight must also learn to reconcile not tum it over to them when it escalates beyond their expectations or conshytrol

3 Parents know that children fight for a variety of reasons not because they hate each other Wanting parental attention is a very common reason Boredom is another He looked at me is a classic reason Often when the parent allows herself to get swept up into a meaningless fight between two children they join forces against her and it becomes a parent-child conflict Many parents live in a constantshyly stressful climate because of this

4 Healthy families do not alshylow sibling fighting to ruin their time together When children begin to fight they ban them to their room backyard or elseshywhere until theyre through Its their fight and the rest of the flUlJily isnt made to suffer from the hollering name caHing and tears

5 Constantly-fighting siblings

can be fun Shadow Tag must be played at night Try to step on someones shadow if you are playing near a porch light Or try to catch someone with a beam of light if you are using a flashlight

SHARING 1 Share one sign or indication

that you are growing in some way physically inshytellectually etlt

2 Share a positive thought about how another family member has grown reshycently

CLOSING PRAYER -Scripture Reading Romans

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-or Compose a family litany For the power I have to All answer We praise and thank you Lord

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are made responsibIe for family peace If they continue to fight for non-reasons privileges like

TY or playtime are withdrawn One mom keeps a list of fjghtshying chores on the refrigerator Whenever children start fighting as a means of activity she says You sweep out the garage and You clean the bathroom

Probably the biggest differshyence between these parents and those who lament continual fighting is that parents in healthy families stick firmly to their rules By their behavior they let their children know that they can fight but that this fightshying is not going to intrude upon an otherwise pleasant family atmosphere Once the children learn this and know the parents mean it they are on their way to developing conf1ict resolution techniques that will be of value to them the rest of their lives

Poor Is Better Better the poverty which

keeps to honest ways than the middotlot of a rich man who never learned to speak truth - Provo 191

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PR for a tough customer

The big money in comshymunications is in public reshylations not journalism A good relations person can create an attractive image for a corporation president or polishytician or any aspiring person who can afford it A public reshylations person tells his or her client what to say and what not to say A warm smooth soothing image is what the good pr pershyson seeks to create for a client Controversy is bad for sales and candor doesnt play in Peoria Corporation presidents and polishyticians hate to be identified with a hard line For deciding what should not be uttered by a client a top pr person earns a fabushylous salary

Imagine a meeting between GUy Royal founder and presishydent of the pr firm of Guy Royal amp Associates and a promshyinent figure he hoped to represhysent for a fee one John the Baptist

Good of you to drop by my shop to hear what I have to say John Guy might begin in his rich deep voice Call me Guy John A first-name basis spells trust

John the Baptist ~ooked puzshyzled He said nothing Guy Royal could see that this man was all business so Guy launchshyed immediately into his pitch He explained how he had built winning images for numerous household names

If I may John 1 would like to suggest for your own good of course that you adopt a someshywhat less strident style of pubshylic speaking Guy Royal proshyposed As 1 understand it you have a habit of teUing your audiences to turn away from their sins because the kingdom of heaven is near Heh heh Our feeling here at Guy Royal amp Associates John is that your approach is just a tad uh unshycompromising Rather a bit too straightforward for public conshysumption

Guy Royal leaned forward as though sharing a confJdence John the gang here in market research - and our market reshysearchers are the best in the game John and they have the track record to prove it - they feel strongly that a ~ow-key

understated approach relying on sweet reason and avoiding fire and brimstone is always best Nobody likes a scold John Heh heh

John the Baptist looked skepshytical People might not know what I meant he said Theymiddot might not get the message

Precisely Guy Royal reshyplied smiling Keep them a little jn the dark Be coy Use phrases dike by and ~argemiddot all things considered on the

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whole on the other hand broadly viewed tentatively speaking aU the votes arent in yet and so forth Never comshymit yourself Always ~eave room to back off a position gracefully Meaningless phrases will make you seem tolerant and trustshyworthy In Sl year or two your old image as a crank will be forgotten believe me

Isnt it important to be clear Doesnt that show respect for listeners John the Baptist askmiddot ed frowning

This was going to be tougher than Guy Royal had thought He opted for a frank stance

No offense intended John but your whole approach is much too preachy Guy exshyplained For example referring to the religious establishment as snakes is a tum-off Then you tell them to show evidence that they have reformed their Hves You keep mentioning uh sins

Guy Royal wor1dly fellow rolled his eyes John pardon me for saying so but you really ought to stop talking about sin Its bad taste to mention sin People dont like to be preached to John Youll only antagonize the very people you hope to reach

John the Baptist said nothing Guy Royal cleared his throat and continued Now when you refer to this fellow who you say will come after you you say he will bum the chaff in a fire that never goes out Heh heh John the hell concept is outshydated Modern people are too sophisticated to buy a superstishytion like eternal damnation

Our market researchers say that folks are buying good feelshyings Im okay youre okay You do your thing Ill do mine They dont want to be burdened by a heavy message So use phrases like its only my opinion and I dont have aU the answers Be humble John

As John the Baptist walked out in disgust Guy Royal warnshyed him And stay out of Herods affairs or hell have your head

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Fro FoIster Continued from Page Three

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olic Conference emphasized the important issues facing Hispanics - unemployment and education including bilingual education shythat he said must be faced throughout the year

In an interview Sedillo said the high unemployment rate among Hispanic youth is partishycularly critical and the report on excellence in education showshyed some very disturbing statisshytics about education of minorishyties

For example Sedillo said theres a 75 percent dropout rate among Puerto Ricans in this country

Lending to the Lord He that hath mercy on the

poor lendeth to the Lord and he will r~pay him - Provo 1917

ADVENT WREATH PRAYER

SECOND WEEK OF ADVENT

STffi UP our hearts 0 Lord to prepare the ways of thine only-beshygotten Son that through his coming we may atshytain to serve thee with purified minds who Inveth and reigneth with thee in the unity of the Holy Spirit God world withshyout end Amen

Charter Continued from page one

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The charter insists that gOYshyernments uphold the institutionshyal value of marriage and repushydiates any law placing the situation of non-married couples on the same level as marshyriage duly contracted

The charter originated as an idea presented to the 1980 world Synod of Bishops by UkrainianshyRite Archbishop Maxim Hermanshyiuk of Winnipeg Manitoba who proposed the concept and a genshyeral outline of its contents in a speech to the synod

The idea drew enthusiastic support from the more than 200 bishops assembled for the synod who asked Pope John Paul II to finish development of the docushyment in consultation with experts and bishops conferences around the world

Despite the modest disclaimer that the charter is simply listing existing established rights it presents sharp challenges to exshyisting laws or policies of probshyably every country in the world

To Western democracies it challenges abortion artificial birth control and in some counshytries such as the United States a policy of placing what the charter calls unjust burdens on the exercise of the right of educational choice

To countries in the Soviet bloc it challenges state control of education and policies of disshycrimination againstmiddot professed believers

Third World governments are challenged to provide stronger structural systems of basic sershyvices and adequate distribution of wealth to assure family stashybility

The full document consists of an introduction a 13-pointmiddot preshyamble middotIaying out the context and theoretical basis for the charter the charter itself and a list of sources and references

The fiist three articles of the charter deal with the rights of marriage articles 4 and 5 with children 6 to 8 with human rights of the family and 9 to 11 with socioeconomic rights Artishycle 12 deals with the special problems of immigrant migrant worker and refugee families

Nurses parley attended by 22

22 members of the Diocesan Council of Catholic Nurses atshytended the 24th fall conference of Ute New England Council of Catholic Nurses held recently in Providence

Presentations included a talk by Betty Hutton on her involveshyment with Christianity and Witshyness to Christ An Historical Nursing Heritage presented by Josephine Dolan RN

The conference was hosted by Providence Bishop LOIJis E Gelishyneau and the Providence Counshycil of Catholic Nurses New ofshyficers were installed at a Mass with Bishop Gelineau as princi~ pal concelebrant

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AT THE RECENT annual banquet benefiting retired Sisters of Mercy Msgr Patrick J ONeill pastor of SS Peter and Paul parish Fall River where Sisters of Mercy have taught for decades chats with from left Sisters Constance Monahan St Lawrence convent New Bedford Mary NoellBlute provincial superior and Rose de Lima Clark administrator of St Vincents Home Fall River (Torchia Photo)

the mail packet Letters Ire welcomed but should be no

more than 200 words The editor reserves the right to condense or edit All letters must be signed and Include a home or business address and telephone number for the purpose of verification If deemed nampC8ssary

Pilgrimage Dear Editor

A small group of parishioners from Holy Rosary Church Taunmiddot ton was fortunate to be able to accompany Father Matthew Swizdor the Franciscan healing priest from Chicopee and his group on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land

I wish I could adequately deshyscribe this intense spiritual exshyperience To walk where Jesus walked and taught and to visit the places where He suffered died and was buried were events beyond my poor powers of demiddot scription

My prayer Is that many readers will make this trip In the future and refresh themshyselves physically mentally spiritually and emotionally

Finding God We flew to find you in the

Upper Room The site of your Transmiddot

substantiation I could not find you here in

the lonely absences Because I knew 0 God the

crosses sent to me Were sent to widen my

dimensions In the flights long hours I

prayed and trusted You ~re forgiveness in the

Clouds with my contrition And down below relentless

in the sea I wa filled with fear yet

found a new grace For You pressed my face with

your loving hands And eased my aChing lungs

and limbs I felt uplifted in your glory

and saw you everywhere (Walking in the hot sands of

Jerusalem when we arrived) And knew the grandeur of

you at the holy places That Upper Room - unmiddot

familiar - so high remote and vast

(Da Vinci had brushed it to seem so close)

Still I felt the compass of my heart point a steady straight and true

I looked for you there with hungry heart clean of hand and mind

I found you there at last my love waiting all the time

I would not want it Lord my God any other way

Bridget L OHearne Taunton

Thank you Dear Editor

We the Dominican Sisters of the Presentation wish to thank our families friends and neighshybors who extended so much kindshyness to us during the recent tragedy that took place at our Provincial House in Dighton

We express our gratitilde to the Dighton Police and Fire Demiddot partments and the Volunteer Ambulance Corps and to the staff at St Annes Hospital for responding immediately to our caIl for help

We are deeply grateful to Bishop Daniel A Cronin who came to Dighton immediately and supported us by his presence We also want to say thank

you to the Clergy of the Diomiddot cese who were with us during those first hours and even now continue to support us by their prayers

We want to thank the Clergy and faithful of all denominations and Religious Congregations in particular the Dominican Fathers of Providence College who continue to pray and supshyport us by their friendship

We wish to thank the Amerishycan Red Cross and the Knights of Columbus of Providence Colshylege who are meeting Sr Vimshyalas need for blood

Finally we want to say ~thank

you to all those peopl~ who have been kind to us in any way and whom we have not been able to contact because we do not have their Correct address

Sr Mary Patricia Sullivan Provincial

(necrolo9YJ December 3

Rev John W McCarthy PR Pastor 1926 Sacred Heart Fall River

December 4 Rev Charles Ouellette Assisshy

tant 1945 St James Taunton December 8

Rev Joseph L Cabral Pastor 1~59 Our Lady of Angels Fall River

Rt Rev John H Hackett Chancellor of Fall River Diocese June-Dec 1966

Rev Joseph WeIch Retired Pastor 1971 Our Lady of Vicshytory Centerville

Deeemeber 7 Rev Ambrose Bowen Retired

Pastor 1977 St Joseph Taunmiddot ton

Rev Thomas F Daly Retired Pastor 1976 St James New Bedford

December 8 Rev John F Broderick Pastor

1940 St Mary South Dartshymouth

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

Instead of thinking just about fulfiHing the rubrics lets think about whats good for the celeshy ~ ~Z~~~~i~i~~BA~bration and what makes comshy

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the conscience of the church he urged participants to pershysevere even if your pastor doesnt accept what you do the fitst time

Father Deiss said We priests ~_ ~MACEDD _-- I - ----have been your conscience You

must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

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Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

Then one day it hits you youVe become a valuable commiddot modity in an endlessly lucrative field Why not market it sell your services to one of the big guys No doubt theyU pay a better wage for your proven salesmanship not to mention the

By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

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The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

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Stangites Debra Brodeur Jill Pierce and Jeanne Biown were orchestra members for a recept Fall River Little Theatre producshytion of Gypsy Music director was George Campeau also Stangs music director and also in the Gypsy orchestra was Terry Furtadomiddot the Spartans band director

Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

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ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

CATHOLIC WOMANS CLUB NB

Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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THE ANCHORshyFriday Dec 2 1983

Pope lauds cardinals

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Pope John Paul II recalled the contrishybutions of the middotIate Cardinals Humberto Medeiros of Boston and Terence Cooke of New York during a recent Mass in the Sisshytine Chapel commemorating cardinals and bishops who have died recently

In his homily the pope outshyHned the life of Cardinal Medshyeiros who was born in the Portushyguese islands of the Azores and immigrated to Fall River as a teenager

Named bishop of Brownsville Texas in 1966 Cardinal Medshyeiros defended the rights of immigrant workers and farm labshyorers the pope said

After he was named archshybishop of Boston in 1970 the cardinal distinguished himself for his constant work for evanmiddot gelization and for ecumenical dialogue the pope added

Cardinal Medeiros died Sept 17 of cardiac arrest after undershygoing heart surgery He is burshyied with his parents in St Patshyrick~s Cemetery Fall River

Cardinal Cooke who died ~ Oct 6 after a battle with leushy

kemia went to his death with great faith and great serenity the pope said

He recalled that the New York cardinal had spoken out for the gift of life during his final weeks Struck down in the full vigor of his pastoral activity by an incurable illness he united himself with the cross of Christ with the full consciousness of a Christian a priest and a bishop the pope said

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AT WHITE HOUSE Following his election as president of the National Conference of Catholic Bishops Bishop James W Malone of Youngstown 0 accompanied by Taunshyton native Msgr Danibl F ioye NCCB gen eral secretary meets with President Reagan (Official White House rhotO)

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Cardilnal~ president meet WASHINGTON (NC) 1 Car- Accompanied by Archbishop Asked agam to characterize

dinar Agostino casaroli papal Pio Laghi apostolic delegate in Andropovs response he reitershysecretary of state me~ I with the United States the cardinal ated Id say the tone and conshyPresident Ronald Reagari Nov met with the press at the White tent of the answer was really 22 to discuss the intern~tional House after his session withRea- respectful and positive situation the main conce~n of gan He said the Vatican does not the Holy See according to the In talks with the president worry that world leaders will cardinal I you can imagine the Holy See prove irrespon~ible on the numiddot

Cardinal Casaroli a1so report- can only talk about the main clear allls issue because we ed that both Reagan and Soviet concern the international situamiddot are confident they will conduct President Andropov ha41 sent tion Cardinal Casaroli said themselves responsibly respectful and positive reo The Holy See is very much In his brief comments to the spouses to recent private Imess- concerned about it and seeks press he did not provide any ages from Pope John Paul II to do what we can which is details of his meeting with Reamiddot urging peace and arms dontrol not verY much he added gan or his thoughts on arms negotiations I He said the pope has received control or another topic of inter-

Nov 23 - a day after the car- responses from both Reagan and est to US Catholics - Conshydinars comments - the Soviets Andropov to his appeal for peace gress decision to allow formal walked out of the two-y~r-old In both -eases the answer was diplomatic ties between the US-Soviet negotiations dn re- respectful was positive he United States and Vatican inshyduction of medium-range mis- Haid The word of the pope was cluding exchange of ambassashysile arsenals in Europe not rejected dorial representatives

Regional eCllmelllical meeting Tuesday The Massachusetts Icom- necessarily impactmiddot the local Tuesdays meeting is being

miSSion on Christian Unity will church or congregation coordinated by Rev Alan Preshyhold a r~gional m~eting on to For example the commission v~to of Trinity United Methoshythe pU~hc at St Vmcent s Jlome recently made a very special re- dlst Church Taunton F~l1 River from 930 a~ to port on a study aimed at some 1215 pm Tues~ay I kind of ecumenicalconsensus on

The MeCU a 25-memberl body the churchs future ministry of representatives from d~nom- There was much diversity as the

inations and jUdicafori~s subject w~s looked at through throughout the comrponwealth the eyes pf perJions from both is headed by Rev Warren ISave liturgical and non-liturgical trashyage of St Marys parish West- ditions field I

We were able to see that ourIn a prepared statement Father tl~rminology often gets in theSavage said commission fuemshyway of expressing ourselvesbers hope to bring their messshyclearly and precisely What reshyage to all parts of tl~e statel duro form means to a Protestant is ing 1984 quite different from what ftWe are inviting local dioceshymeans to someone from the Eastshysan or denominationalecufueni em Orthodox tradition Yetcal bodies to join us for tftese what we can agree upon canregional meetings helsaid have a lasting effect upon theand to share with us in Vhat shape of the ministry of the to

ways the MCeU can be ofl sershy tfll Christian church in the fushyvice to them tureOver the last 15 years the

MCCU has attempted to f~ster serious dialogue between Chrisshytians on subjects which divide us as well as unite us This kind of dialogue requires mu-eh enshyergy and commitment to tackle subjects of concern which dont

Our conning together with 10shycnl ecumenical bodies can be a way of checking out our diashylogue on such important subjects with those who will be most dishyrectly affeltted by our deliberashytiems

REV ALAN PREVITO

meeting coordinator disshycusses its agenda with Fashyther Horace J Travassos chairman of the Diocesan

Ecumenical Commission

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SJ loyalty reaffirmed

ROME (NC) At his first press conference as superior general of the Society of Jesus Father Peter-Hans Kolvenbach reaffirmshyed the Jesuits loyalty to the pope and agreed with Pope John Paul II that the order has deshyfects resulting in too much secular activity

The Society of Jesus has no meaning and loses its very reashyson to exist if it lacks distincshytive fidelity to the holy father and a special dedication to the Lords church in its actual aposshytolic embodiments said Father Kolvenbach at a press conference at Jesuit headquarters in Rome

In a prepared statement Father Kolvenbach said the pope was concerned about the Jesuits and said he agreed with the pope that the order has defects inshycluding certain secularizing practices and attitudes sacrificshying prayer for activity that is too simply humanitarian and adopting socio-political modes of behavior that are determined by criteria that are not always evangelical in nature

The 54-year-old Dutch linguist who until his election had been rector of Romes Pontifical Oriental Institute said the soshyciety would continue to work for peace and justice but noted that suCh work should always be undertaken in the name of the church in communion with its pastors and not according to individualistic criteria and persshypectives

usee protests detention

WASHINGTON (NC) - The US Catholic Conference has joined the Catholic bishops of England and Wales in protesting detention of a South African Catholic Church official

Father Smangaliso Mkhatmiddot shwa general secretary of the South African Catholic Bishops Conference was detained 1y poshylice Oct 30 after attending a prayer service at Fort Hare Unimiddot versity in Ciskei Efforts to learn his whereabouts have been unsuccessful Msgr Daniel F Hoye general

secretary of the USCC the public policy arm of the National Conshyference of Catholic Bishops wrote to SACBC president Bishshyop Denis Hurley of Durban sayshying the USCC would urge Amshyerican officials and news media to note the situation and take appropriate action

Ciskei is one of four black tribal homelands in South Afr-ica which the government declared independent as part of its policy of apartheid or strict racial segregation Father Mkhatshwa the first black general secretary of tl)e SACBC is a leading symshybol of church opposition to aparshytheid

Saying the USCC was outshyraged by the actions of the Ciskei police Msgr lioye told Bishop Hurley that we pray for the safe and prompt release of Father Mkhatshwa and supshyport your efforts to free him

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Father olster to mark silver jubilee

Rev John R Foister pastor of St Anne parish Fall River will celebrate the silver jubilee of his ordination to the priestshyhood during a special noon Mass Sunday December 11

Very Rev John Paul Driscoll pastor of St Lawrence parish and New Bedford area dean will be the homilist The St Anne Chorale uncler direction of Normand Gingras will perform and lead the congregation in song

Following the Mass and under the cochairmanship of Donald Valcourt and Stephen Marcisshyzyn the p~ish will host Father Foister and his guests at a banshyquet and reception in St Anne School auditorium on Forest Street

middotBom in Fall River on Decemshyber 6 1931 the jubilarian was educated at the Brown School and Dominican Academy and at St Anne and Blessed Sacrament parish schools also at Mt St Charles Academy in Woonsocket and Our Lady of Providence seminary in Warwick

He prepared for the priestshyhood at St Marys Seminary Baltimore and at the Pontifical North American College in Rome where at the Pontifical Gregorian University he obshytained a Licentiate in Sacred TheologY degree

He was ordained a priest on December 20 1958 by too Most Rev Martin J OConnor rector of the American College in Rome

In his pastoral ministry Father liolsterserved as associshyate pastor at St Roch Sacred Heart Notre Dame and St Louis pQrishes in Fall River St Anthony of Padua parish in New Bedford and St Louis de France jn Swansea Before asshysuming ~is present pastorate in 1978 he was for two years passhytor of Sacred Heart parish Fall River

Also in pastoral work he has been CCD director of the Fall River and New Bedford areas secretary of the Board of Exshyaminers of the Clergy member of the editorial staff and acting editor of The Anchor and a prosynodal judge of the Dioceshysan Tribunal

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4 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec 2 1983

the moorinstJ ~ea~e Advent H~reg I

There is no doubt that the movement for peace among the peoples of the world has special meaning at this particushylar time in mans hist9ric journey More and more dp we see men and women coming together in public gatherings to witness to their desire for peace in the family of ban

A great impetus to the peace movement in this c04ntry was supplied by the American bishops peace pastora~~ Its publication by such a prestigious church body amid the tension of armament buildup in this country Was a courageous and unprecedented action I

Yet despite the ominous clouds on the int~rnat~onal horizon we in the church should remember that we are preparing to celebrate the enduring reality pf the PHnce of Peace I

The liturgy of this holy time of Advent begins approshypriately with the verse of thepnarmed prophet Is~iah They shall beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks I

In a recent address to the Pontifical Academy of I Sciences our Holy Father gave powerful witness tO the

Iwords of Isaiahmiddot saying Unarmed prophets have been the object of derision in every age especially on the patt of shrewd politicians the supports of power But todayfuust not our civilization recQgnize that humanity has neetl of them I

Developing his thoughts on this subject of peace the pope strove forcefully tolet his hearers know that Ireal peace is born not only from elimination of the hotbeds of war but from positive acts of justice The work for p~ace must be seen as a relentless struggle not the passing f~ncy of enthusiasts Sin injustice and oppression never c~ase their efforts to enslave and destroy Peace must be waged with equal persistence I

In this context the pope reflected that the OnlYWar that should be waged is that against hunger disease and the death of millions of human beings whose lives could be lived in dignity and happiness with the monies wbrld powers spend each year on the arms race I

It should be obvious to all that the Catholic Church is actively supporting those who feel threatened by ~we-some atomic warfare I

The church has become a moral leader in the search for peace more meaningful than ever in this Advent sea~on But words of peace must become deeds of peace and for many this transition is more than difficult So many in the so-called peace movement demonstrate their peaceful inshytentions through violent actions This gives their mqveshyment a sense of ridiculous contradiction and causes a loss of credibility To be perfectly frank many of th~ antidof so-called peace demonstratorsturn people off I

But it is imperative that the peace movement distapce itself from the extremist the radical and the ungovernable This can be done when the quest for lasting peace becorttes a moving force both among those who believe that it corhes from God and those who sincerely seek that God of peJce

IThis quest should indeed be in the forefront of the

mind of all Catholics as they share the churchs longing for the Awaited One

Peace indeed is the stuff of Advent May its speedy coming be our prayer

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Something special about us BY Father Kevin J Harrington

A century ago the great Amshyerican poet Walt Whitman wrote A single mouse is miracle enough to convert a trillion inshyfidels The odds that a mouse would evolve as it has are beshyylDnd calculation

Another overlooked miracle is the incredible diversity of livshying creatures The genes that constitute the inheritance of each species unite and dissociate to produce ever-fleeting evermiddot different combinations This endmiddot less combinatorial system guarshyantees the diversity that gives species their versatility and posshysibBities

Discoveries in physics bear out the theory that there has been an incalculable number of universes with differing rates of expansion and differing physical constants

Many scientists believe that only such a theory postulating an almost infinite number of universes evolving during an alshymost infinite period of time can acount for the emergence of self-aware creatures such as ourshyselves

The conclusions that can be re~lched by the unaided power

of reason do indeed boggle the mirtd Even Albert Einstein who shook the world of physics with his discoveries was not comshyforted by them But dismissing the statistical view of rea~ity

with the exasperated comment GDd does not play dice he inshy

tuitively sensed a world of times and those to come as a order going beyond mere chance period of grace during which we

Grace certainly builds on na- should live according to the visshy-ture and God rarely int~rvenes

in history to change mans desshytiny yet faith teaches that man can load the dice in his own favor through freedom 01 choice

Our sun a~ we know it has a stable lifetime of eight to 10 billion years therefore condishytions favorable to life as we know it will not be eternal There is therefore something

- special about our human species that invited the Lord of all creshyated things to become one of us

Jesus came to us both as a free gift from the Father and as the result of the free consent of a member of the human race through the Blessed Mothers life-affirming yes to the mysterishyous will of God Our species is mysteriously called into a relashytionship with the eternal through this marvelous intervention of

bull God into our history

Exercising human reason scishyentists have taught us uncountshyed lessons aIJout the universe If we destroy ourselves it will

I not be because of failure of reason but failure of imagination

Christ came to share with us a vision of Gods kingdom Our imagination displays before lis the ever changing picture of the possible yet we cannot fully imshyagine how dismal is life without God nor how blissful it is in total union with him

We should -look upon our own

ion of -love revealed to us in Christ Our life should be the more precious to us when we consider our possibly uniqutl position in Gods creation Acshycording to quantum cosmology there is an infinitesimal chance that the peculiar combination necessary for that correct mixshyture of energy and matter will ever duplicate itself to generate another creature capable of selfshyawareness

Our tools of technology have given us hitherto undreamed freedom to affirm or destroy life With this our power to make Earth a better place to Hve or a hell we need to ask anew Why did God become man Surely to save us from our sins

EDICTAL CITATIONmiddot DIOCESAN TRIBUNAL

FALL RIVER MASSACHUSETTS

Since the actual place of residence of GERARD HENRI MARTIN is unknown

We cite GERARD HENRI MARTIN to appear personally before the Tribunal of the Diocese of Fall River on Monday December 12 1983 at 130 pm at 344 Highland Avenue rge~~v~I~Sh~assachusetts to lIve testimony

Whether the nullity of the marriage exists in the LEVESQljE-MARTIN case

Ordinaries of the place or other pastors having the knowledge of the residence of the above person Gerard Henri Martin must see to It that he Is properly advised In regard to this edictal citation

Henry T Munroe Offlclalls

Given at the Tribunal Fall River Massachusetts on this the 28th day of November

1983

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Family Night A weekly at-home program for families

sponsored hy the Diocesan Office of Family Ministry

OPENING PRAYER Dear Father tonight we are

going to celebrate the wonder of our growth We praise you for the gift of life and your nourishshyment that has helped us to grow Amen

ACTIVny TIME Young Family

This evening the famiy is inshyvited to stand back and look at and celebrate the growth and development of each family member

Bring out the baby books picshytures baby shoes other memo rabilia Share with the chHd the events that surrounded his birth Baptism early years up to the present time If you do not have a memorabilia box you might make one so that items related to his growing can be displayed in his bedroom on his wall or on a shelf You might begin a

tape recording of the chHds voice which can be added to periodically

Middle Years and Adult Families

Arrange snapshots of the famshyiy members at various stages of growth on a large bulletin board or cardboard Exchange names and find fitting descriptions hushymorous captions from magazines to be put under each picture

SNACK Hot apple cider garnished

with a stick of cinnamon

ENTERTAINMENT Variations of the Tag Games

Sibling fighting Sibling fighting - ever

since Cain and Abel its plagued parents Where have we gone wrong wonshyder anguished parents who subshyscribe to the myth that the famshyily should be a haven of peace and serenity

Lets face it Kids fight And although this may surprise some they fight as much in healthy families as in not-so-healthy families The main difference lies in how parents handle it

First they expect it as a norshymal even positive family activity They know that whereshyever two or three children are gathered together there wi be some fighting Secondly they realize that its in fighting with siblings that children learn to get along with other children with future roommates and spouses and with eventual bosses

The child who refuses to play fairly soon finds himself withshyout friends so he has to modify his behavior Thats how we learn Thats why only children have more difficulty coping with their own childrens fighting and why they often have a tougher time in marriage than the ones with Seven siblings

Learning to fight fairly is an important part of growing up but its up to the parents to set olimits and rules on fighting Here are the most common ones Ive found in the healthy famishylies I studied

1 Physical fighting and obshyscenitieli are forbidden at all times These include hitting bitshying kicking and hair pulling Parents let their children know

that these will not be tolerated and that children who hit will face severe discipline from par- ents

And the parents follow through In this way children are forced to develop other ways of dealing with conflict

2 The kids fight belong to them not to the parents Ive seen cases where a mother three rooms away takes on the quarrel of two children because she views herself as family peaceshykeeper This tells the children that their mother is responsible for any arguments they start In healthy families the parents insist that those who fight must also learn to reconcile not tum it over to them when it escalates beyond their expectations or conshytrol

3 Parents know that children fight for a variety of reasons not because they hate each other Wanting parental attention is a very common reason Boredom is another He looked at me is a classic reason Often when the parent allows herself to get swept up into a meaningless fight between two children they join forces against her and it becomes a parent-child conflict Many parents live in a constantshyly stressful climate because of this

4 Healthy families do not alshylow sibling fighting to ruin their time together When children begin to fight they ban them to their room backyard or elseshywhere until theyre through Its their fight and the rest of the flUlJily isnt made to suffer from the hollering name caHing and tears

5 Constantly-fighting siblings

can be fun Shadow Tag must be played at night Try to step on someones shadow if you are playing near a porch light Or try to catch someone with a beam of light if you are using a flashlight

SHARING 1 Share one sign or indication

that you are growing in some way physically inshytellectually etlt

2 Share a positive thought about how another family member has grown reshycently

CLOSING PRAYER -Scripture Reading Romans

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-or Compose a family litany For the power I have to All answer We praise and thank you Lord

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are made responsibIe for family peace If they continue to fight for non-reasons privileges like

TY or playtime are withdrawn One mom keeps a list of fjghtshying chores on the refrigerator Whenever children start fighting as a means of activity she says You sweep out the garage and You clean the bathroom

Probably the biggest differshyence between these parents and those who lament continual fighting is that parents in healthy families stick firmly to their rules By their behavior they let their children know that they can fight but that this fightshying is not going to intrude upon an otherwise pleasant family atmosphere Once the children learn this and know the parents mean it they are on their way to developing conf1ict resolution techniques that will be of value to them the rest of their lives

Poor Is Better Better the poverty which

keeps to honest ways than the middotlot of a rich man who never learned to speak truth - Provo 191

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec 2 1983

PR for a tough customer

The big money in comshymunications is in public reshylations not journalism A good relations person can create an attractive image for a corporation president or polishytician or any aspiring person who can afford it A public reshylations person tells his or her client what to say and what not to say A warm smooth soothing image is what the good pr pershyson seeks to create for a client Controversy is bad for sales and candor doesnt play in Peoria Corporation presidents and polishyticians hate to be identified with a hard line For deciding what should not be uttered by a client a top pr person earns a fabushylous salary

Imagine a meeting between GUy Royal founder and presishydent of the pr firm of Guy Royal amp Associates and a promshyinent figure he hoped to represhysent for a fee one John the Baptist

Good of you to drop by my shop to hear what I have to say John Guy might begin in his rich deep voice Call me Guy John A first-name basis spells trust

John the Baptist ~ooked puzshyzled He said nothing Guy Royal could see that this man was all business so Guy launchshyed immediately into his pitch He explained how he had built winning images for numerous household names

If I may John 1 would like to suggest for your own good of course that you adopt a someshywhat less strident style of pubshylic speaking Guy Royal proshyposed As 1 understand it you have a habit of teUing your audiences to turn away from their sins because the kingdom of heaven is near Heh heh Our feeling here at Guy Royal amp Associates John is that your approach is just a tad uh unshycompromising Rather a bit too straightforward for public conshysumption

Guy Royal leaned forward as though sharing a confJdence John the gang here in market research - and our market reshysearchers are the best in the game John and they have the track record to prove it - they feel strongly that a ~ow-key

understated approach relying on sweet reason and avoiding fire and brimstone is always best Nobody likes a scold John Heh heh

John the Baptist looked skepshytical People might not know what I meant he said Theymiddot might not get the message

Precisely Guy Royal reshyplied smiling Keep them a little jn the dark Be coy Use phrases dike by and ~argemiddot all things considered on the

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Isnt it important to be clear Doesnt that show respect for listeners John the Baptist askmiddot ed frowning

This was going to be tougher than Guy Royal had thought He opted for a frank stance

No offense intended John but your whole approach is much too preachy Guy exshyplained For example referring to the religious establishment as snakes is a tum-off Then you tell them to show evidence that they have reformed their Hves You keep mentioning uh sins

Guy Royal wor1dly fellow rolled his eyes John pardon me for saying so but you really ought to stop talking about sin Its bad taste to mention sin People dont like to be preached to John Youll only antagonize the very people you hope to reach

John the Baptist said nothing Guy Royal cleared his throat and continued Now when you refer to this fellow who you say will come after you you say he will bum the chaff in a fire that never goes out Heh heh John the hell concept is outshydated Modern people are too sophisticated to buy a superstishytion like eternal damnation

Our market researchers say that folks are buying good feelshyings Im okay youre okay You do your thing Ill do mine They dont want to be burdened by a heavy message So use phrases like its only my opinion and I dont have aU the answers Be humble John

As John the Baptist walked out in disgust Guy Royal warnshyed him And stay out of Herods affairs or hell have your head

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Fro FoIster Continued from Page Three

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olic Conference emphasized the important issues facing Hispanics - unemployment and education including bilingual education shythat he said must be faced throughout the year

In an interview Sedillo said the high unemployment rate among Hispanic youth is partishycularly critical and the report on excellence in education showshyed some very disturbing statisshytics about education of minorishyties

For example Sedillo said theres a 75 percent dropout rate among Puerto Ricans in this country

Lending to the Lord He that hath mercy on the

poor lendeth to the Lord and he will r~pay him - Provo 1917

ADVENT WREATH PRAYER

SECOND WEEK OF ADVENT

STffi UP our hearts 0 Lord to prepare the ways of thine only-beshygotten Son that through his coming we may atshytain to serve thee with purified minds who Inveth and reigneth with thee in the unity of the Holy Spirit God world withshyout end Amen

Charter Continued from page one

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The charter insists that gOYshyernments uphold the institutionshyal value of marriage and repushydiates any law placing the situation of non-married couples on the same level as marshyriage duly contracted

The charter originated as an idea presented to the 1980 world Synod of Bishops by UkrainianshyRite Archbishop Maxim Hermanshyiuk of Winnipeg Manitoba who proposed the concept and a genshyeral outline of its contents in a speech to the synod

The idea drew enthusiastic support from the more than 200 bishops assembled for the synod who asked Pope John Paul II to finish development of the docushyment in consultation with experts and bishops conferences around the world

Despite the modest disclaimer that the charter is simply listing existing established rights it presents sharp challenges to exshyisting laws or policies of probshyably every country in the world

To Western democracies it challenges abortion artificial birth control and in some counshytries such as the United States a policy of placing what the charter calls unjust burdens on the exercise of the right of educational choice

To countries in the Soviet bloc it challenges state control of education and policies of disshycrimination againstmiddot professed believers

Third World governments are challenged to provide stronger structural systems of basic sershyvices and adequate distribution of wealth to assure family stashybility

The full document consists of an introduction a 13-pointmiddot preshyamble middotIaying out the context and theoretical basis for the charter the charter itself and a list of sources and references

The fiist three articles of the charter deal with the rights of marriage articles 4 and 5 with children 6 to 8 with human rights of the family and 9 to 11 with socioeconomic rights Artishycle 12 deals with the special problems of immigrant migrant worker and refugee families

Nurses parley attended by 22

22 members of the Diocesan Council of Catholic Nurses atshytended the 24th fall conference of Ute New England Council of Catholic Nurses held recently in Providence

Presentations included a talk by Betty Hutton on her involveshyment with Christianity and Witshyness to Christ An Historical Nursing Heritage presented by Josephine Dolan RN

The conference was hosted by Providence Bishop LOIJis E Gelishyneau and the Providence Counshycil of Catholic Nurses New ofshyficers were installed at a Mass with Bishop Gelineau as princi~ pal concelebrant

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AT THE RECENT annual banquet benefiting retired Sisters of Mercy Msgr Patrick J ONeill pastor of SS Peter and Paul parish Fall River where Sisters of Mercy have taught for decades chats with from left Sisters Constance Monahan St Lawrence convent New Bedford Mary NoellBlute provincial superior and Rose de Lima Clark administrator of St Vincents Home Fall River (Torchia Photo)

the mail packet Letters Ire welcomed but should be no

more than 200 words The editor reserves the right to condense or edit All letters must be signed and Include a home or business address and telephone number for the purpose of verification If deemed nampC8ssary

Pilgrimage Dear Editor

A small group of parishioners from Holy Rosary Church Taunmiddot ton was fortunate to be able to accompany Father Matthew Swizdor the Franciscan healing priest from Chicopee and his group on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land

I wish I could adequately deshyscribe this intense spiritual exshyperience To walk where Jesus walked and taught and to visit the places where He suffered died and was buried were events beyond my poor powers of demiddot scription

My prayer Is that many readers will make this trip In the future and refresh themshyselves physically mentally spiritually and emotionally

Finding God We flew to find you in the

Upper Room The site of your Transmiddot

substantiation I could not find you here in

the lonely absences Because I knew 0 God the

crosses sent to me Were sent to widen my

dimensions In the flights long hours I

prayed and trusted You ~re forgiveness in the

Clouds with my contrition And down below relentless

in the sea I wa filled with fear yet

found a new grace For You pressed my face with

your loving hands And eased my aChing lungs

and limbs I felt uplifted in your glory

and saw you everywhere (Walking in the hot sands of

Jerusalem when we arrived) And knew the grandeur of

you at the holy places That Upper Room - unmiddot

familiar - so high remote and vast

(Da Vinci had brushed it to seem so close)

Still I felt the compass of my heart point a steady straight and true

I looked for you there with hungry heart clean of hand and mind

I found you there at last my love waiting all the time

I would not want it Lord my God any other way

Bridget L OHearne Taunton

Thank you Dear Editor

We the Dominican Sisters of the Presentation wish to thank our families friends and neighshybors who extended so much kindshyness to us during the recent tragedy that took place at our Provincial House in Dighton

We express our gratitilde to the Dighton Police and Fire Demiddot partments and the Volunteer Ambulance Corps and to the staff at St Annes Hospital for responding immediately to our caIl for help

We are deeply grateful to Bishop Daniel A Cronin who came to Dighton immediately and supported us by his presence We also want to say thank

you to the Clergy of the Diomiddot cese who were with us during those first hours and even now continue to support us by their prayers

We want to thank the Clergy and faithful of all denominations and Religious Congregations in particular the Dominican Fathers of Providence College who continue to pray and supshyport us by their friendship

We wish to thank the Amerishycan Red Cross and the Knights of Columbus of Providence Colshylege who are meeting Sr Vimshyalas need for blood

Finally we want to say ~thank

you to all those peopl~ who have been kind to us in any way and whom we have not been able to contact because we do not have their Correct address

Sr Mary Patricia Sullivan Provincial

(necrolo9YJ December 3

Rev John W McCarthy PR Pastor 1926 Sacred Heart Fall River

December 4 Rev Charles Ouellette Assisshy

tant 1945 St James Taunton December 8

Rev Joseph L Cabral Pastor 1~59 Our Lady of Angels Fall River

Rt Rev John H Hackett Chancellor of Fall River Diocese June-Dec 1966

Rev Joseph WeIch Retired Pastor 1971 Our Lady of Vicshytory Centerville

Deeemeber 7 Rev Ambrose Bowen Retired

Pastor 1977 St Joseph Taunmiddot ton

Rev Thomas F Daly Retired Pastor 1976 St James New Bedford

December 8 Rev John F Broderick Pastor

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THE PERMANENT DIACONATE community entertains Bishop Cronin at annual Bishops Night From left with bishop Jo-Anne Marzelli James Marzelli Jr Deacon RichshyaJid Murphy Sr Joan Murphy Anne Meloni Deacon James Meloni Jr Father John F Moore permanent diaconate program di~ector (Rosa Photo)

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

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must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

~ there really a Santa Claus I think so - Santa Claus -lives most of the

time in the North Pole of our

Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

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Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

life and works It is a narrow twc-story

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

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The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

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this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

eyo Hockey

Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

Father McDonough is also on WMYD from 130 to 2 pm each Sunday

Sunday Dec 4 (NBC) Guideshyline - Todays guest is Father William Byron president of the Catholic University of America

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I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

church parking lot and return~

ing to hot chocolate in the parshyish center Call rectory for transportation if needed

LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

CATHOLIC WOMANS CLUB NB

Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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Rev John R Foister pastor of St Anne parish Fall River will celebrate the silver jubilee of his ordination to the priestshyhood during a special noon Mass Sunday December 11

Very Rev John Paul Driscoll pastor of St Lawrence parish and New Bedford area dean will be the homilist The St Anne Chorale uncler direction of Normand Gingras will perform and lead the congregation in song

Following the Mass and under the cochairmanship of Donald Valcourt and Stephen Marcisshyzyn the p~ish will host Father Foister and his guests at a banshyquet and reception in St Anne School auditorium on Forest Street

middotBom in Fall River on Decemshyber 6 1931 the jubilarian was educated at the Brown School and Dominican Academy and at St Anne and Blessed Sacrament parish schools also at Mt St Charles Academy in Woonsocket and Our Lady of Providence seminary in Warwick

He prepared for the priestshyhood at St Marys Seminary Baltimore and at the Pontifical North American College in Rome where at the Pontifical Gregorian University he obshytained a Licentiate in Sacred TheologY degree

He was ordained a priest on December 20 1958 by too Most Rev Martin J OConnor rector of the American College in Rome

In his pastoral ministry Father liolsterserved as associshyate pastor at St Roch Sacred Heart Notre Dame and St Louis pQrishes in Fall River St Anthony of Padua parish in New Bedford and St Louis de France jn Swansea Before asshysuming ~is present pastorate in 1978 he was for two years passhytor of Sacred Heart parish Fall River

Also in pastoral work he has been CCD director of the Fall River and New Bedford areas secretary of the Board of Exshyaminers of the Clergy member of the editorial staff and acting editor of The Anchor and a prosynodal judge of the Dioceshysan Tribunal

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There is no doubt that the movement for peace among the peoples of the world has special meaning at this particushylar time in mans hist9ric journey More and more dp we see men and women coming together in public gatherings to witness to their desire for peace in the family of ban

A great impetus to the peace movement in this c04ntry was supplied by the American bishops peace pastora~~ Its publication by such a prestigious church body amid the tension of armament buildup in this country Was a courageous and unprecedented action I

Yet despite the ominous clouds on the int~rnat~onal horizon we in the church should remember that we are preparing to celebrate the enduring reality pf the PHnce of Peace I

The liturgy of this holy time of Advent begins approshypriately with the verse of thepnarmed prophet Is~iah They shall beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks I

In a recent address to the Pontifical Academy of I Sciences our Holy Father gave powerful witness tO the

Iwords of Isaiahmiddot saying Unarmed prophets have been the object of derision in every age especially on the patt of shrewd politicians the supports of power But todayfuust not our civilization recQgnize that humanity has neetl of them I

Developing his thoughts on this subject of peace the pope strove forcefully tolet his hearers know that Ireal peace is born not only from elimination of the hotbeds of war but from positive acts of justice The work for p~ace must be seen as a relentless struggle not the passing f~ncy of enthusiasts Sin injustice and oppression never c~ase their efforts to enslave and destroy Peace must be waged with equal persistence I

In this context the pope reflected that the OnlYWar that should be waged is that against hunger disease and the death of millions of human beings whose lives could be lived in dignity and happiness with the monies wbrld powers spend each year on the arms race I

It should be obvious to all that the Catholic Church is actively supporting those who feel threatened by ~we-some atomic warfare I

The church has become a moral leader in the search for peace more meaningful than ever in this Advent sea~on But words of peace must become deeds of peace and for many this transition is more than difficult So many in the so-called peace movement demonstrate their peaceful inshytentions through violent actions This gives their mqveshyment a sense of ridiculous contradiction and causes a loss of credibility To be perfectly frank many of th~ antidof so-called peace demonstratorsturn people off I

But it is imperative that the peace movement distapce itself from the extremist the radical and the ungovernable This can be done when the quest for lasting peace becorttes a moving force both among those who believe that it corhes from God and those who sincerely seek that God of peJce

IThis quest should indeed be in the forefront of the

mind of all Catholics as they share the churchs longing for the Awaited One

Peace indeed is the stuff of Advent May its speedy coming be our prayer

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Something special about us BY Father Kevin J Harrington

A century ago the great Amshyerican poet Walt Whitman wrote A single mouse is miracle enough to convert a trillion inshyfidels The odds that a mouse would evolve as it has are beshyylDnd calculation

Another overlooked miracle is the incredible diversity of livshying creatures The genes that constitute the inheritance of each species unite and dissociate to produce ever-fleeting evermiddot different combinations This endmiddot less combinatorial system guarshyantees the diversity that gives species their versatility and posshysibBities

Discoveries in physics bear out the theory that there has been an incalculable number of universes with differing rates of expansion and differing physical constants

Many scientists believe that only such a theory postulating an almost infinite number of universes evolving during an alshymost infinite period of time can acount for the emergence of self-aware creatures such as ourshyselves

The conclusions that can be re~lched by the unaided power

of reason do indeed boggle the mirtd Even Albert Einstein who shook the world of physics with his discoveries was not comshyforted by them But dismissing the statistical view of rea~ity

with the exasperated comment GDd does not play dice he inshy

tuitively sensed a world of times and those to come as a order going beyond mere chance period of grace during which we

Grace certainly builds on na- should live according to the visshy-ture and God rarely int~rvenes

in history to change mans desshytiny yet faith teaches that man can load the dice in his own favor through freedom 01 choice

Our sun a~ we know it has a stable lifetime of eight to 10 billion years therefore condishytions favorable to life as we know it will not be eternal There is therefore something

- special about our human species that invited the Lord of all creshyated things to become one of us

Jesus came to us both as a free gift from the Father and as the result of the free consent of a member of the human race through the Blessed Mothers life-affirming yes to the mysterishyous will of God Our species is mysteriously called into a relashytionship with the eternal through this marvelous intervention of

bull God into our history

Exercising human reason scishyentists have taught us uncountshyed lessons aIJout the universe If we destroy ourselves it will

I not be because of failure of reason but failure of imagination

Christ came to share with us a vision of Gods kingdom Our imagination displays before lis the ever changing picture of the possible yet we cannot fully imshyagine how dismal is life without God nor how blissful it is in total union with him

We should -look upon our own

ion of -love revealed to us in Christ Our life should be the more precious to us when we consider our possibly uniqutl position in Gods creation Acshycording to quantum cosmology there is an infinitesimal chance that the peculiar combination necessary for that correct mixshyture of energy and matter will ever duplicate itself to generate another creature capable of selfshyawareness

Our tools of technology have given us hitherto undreamed freedom to affirm or destroy life With this our power to make Earth a better place to Hve or a hell we need to ask anew Why did God become man Surely to save us from our sins

EDICTAL CITATIONmiddot DIOCESAN TRIBUNAL

FALL RIVER MASSACHUSETTS

Since the actual place of residence of GERARD HENRI MARTIN is unknown

We cite GERARD HENRI MARTIN to appear personally before the Tribunal of the Diocese of Fall River on Monday December 12 1983 at 130 pm at 344 Highland Avenue rge~~v~I~Sh~assachusetts to lIve testimony

Whether the nullity of the marriage exists in the LEVESQljE-MARTIN case

Ordinaries of the place or other pastors having the knowledge of the residence of the above person Gerard Henri Martin must see to It that he Is properly advised In regard to this edictal citation

Henry T Munroe Offlclalls

Given at the Tribunal Fall River Massachusetts on this the 28th day of November

1983

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Family Night A weekly at-home program for families

sponsored hy the Diocesan Office of Family Ministry

OPENING PRAYER Dear Father tonight we are

going to celebrate the wonder of our growth We praise you for the gift of life and your nourishshyment that has helped us to grow Amen

ACTIVny TIME Young Family

This evening the famiy is inshyvited to stand back and look at and celebrate the growth and development of each family member

Bring out the baby books picshytures baby shoes other memo rabilia Share with the chHd the events that surrounded his birth Baptism early years up to the present time If you do not have a memorabilia box you might make one so that items related to his growing can be displayed in his bedroom on his wall or on a shelf You might begin a

tape recording of the chHds voice which can be added to periodically

Middle Years and Adult Families

Arrange snapshots of the famshyiy members at various stages of growth on a large bulletin board or cardboard Exchange names and find fitting descriptions hushymorous captions from magazines to be put under each picture

SNACK Hot apple cider garnished

with a stick of cinnamon

ENTERTAINMENT Variations of the Tag Games

Sibling fighting Sibling fighting - ever

since Cain and Abel its plagued parents Where have we gone wrong wonshyder anguished parents who subshyscribe to the myth that the famshyily should be a haven of peace and serenity

Lets face it Kids fight And although this may surprise some they fight as much in healthy families as in not-so-healthy families The main difference lies in how parents handle it

First they expect it as a norshymal even positive family activity They know that whereshyever two or three children are gathered together there wi be some fighting Secondly they realize that its in fighting with siblings that children learn to get along with other children with future roommates and spouses and with eventual bosses

The child who refuses to play fairly soon finds himself withshyout friends so he has to modify his behavior Thats how we learn Thats why only children have more difficulty coping with their own childrens fighting and why they often have a tougher time in marriage than the ones with Seven siblings

Learning to fight fairly is an important part of growing up but its up to the parents to set olimits and rules on fighting Here are the most common ones Ive found in the healthy famishylies I studied

1 Physical fighting and obshyscenitieli are forbidden at all times These include hitting bitshying kicking and hair pulling Parents let their children know

that these will not be tolerated and that children who hit will face severe discipline from par- ents

And the parents follow through In this way children are forced to develop other ways of dealing with conflict

2 The kids fight belong to them not to the parents Ive seen cases where a mother three rooms away takes on the quarrel of two children because she views herself as family peaceshykeeper This tells the children that their mother is responsible for any arguments they start In healthy families the parents insist that those who fight must also learn to reconcile not tum it over to them when it escalates beyond their expectations or conshytrol

3 Parents know that children fight for a variety of reasons not because they hate each other Wanting parental attention is a very common reason Boredom is another He looked at me is a classic reason Often when the parent allows herself to get swept up into a meaningless fight between two children they join forces against her and it becomes a parent-child conflict Many parents live in a constantshyly stressful climate because of this

4 Healthy families do not alshylow sibling fighting to ruin their time together When children begin to fight they ban them to their room backyard or elseshywhere until theyre through Its their fight and the rest of the flUlJily isnt made to suffer from the hollering name caHing and tears

5 Constantly-fighting siblings

can be fun Shadow Tag must be played at night Try to step on someones shadow if you are playing near a porch light Or try to catch someone with a beam of light if you are using a flashlight

SHARING 1 Share one sign or indication

that you are growing in some way physically inshytellectually etlt

2 Share a positive thought about how another family member has grown reshycently

CLOSING PRAYER -Scripture Reading Romans

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-or Compose a family litany For the power I have to All answer We praise and thank you Lord

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are made responsibIe for family peace If they continue to fight for non-reasons privileges like

TY or playtime are withdrawn One mom keeps a list of fjghtshying chores on the refrigerator Whenever children start fighting as a means of activity she says You sweep out the garage and You clean the bathroom

Probably the biggest differshyence between these parents and those who lament continual fighting is that parents in healthy families stick firmly to their rules By their behavior they let their children know that they can fight but that this fightshying is not going to intrude upon an otherwise pleasant family atmosphere Once the children learn this and know the parents mean it they are on their way to developing conf1ict resolution techniques that will be of value to them the rest of their lives

Poor Is Better Better the poverty which

keeps to honest ways than the middotlot of a rich man who never learned to speak truth - Provo 191

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PR for a tough customer

The big money in comshymunications is in public reshylations not journalism A good relations person can create an attractive image for a corporation president or polishytician or any aspiring person who can afford it A public reshylations person tells his or her client what to say and what not to say A warm smooth soothing image is what the good pr pershyson seeks to create for a client Controversy is bad for sales and candor doesnt play in Peoria Corporation presidents and polishyticians hate to be identified with a hard line For deciding what should not be uttered by a client a top pr person earns a fabushylous salary

Imagine a meeting between GUy Royal founder and presishydent of the pr firm of Guy Royal amp Associates and a promshyinent figure he hoped to represhysent for a fee one John the Baptist

Good of you to drop by my shop to hear what I have to say John Guy might begin in his rich deep voice Call me Guy John A first-name basis spells trust

John the Baptist ~ooked puzshyzled He said nothing Guy Royal could see that this man was all business so Guy launchshyed immediately into his pitch He explained how he had built winning images for numerous household names

If I may John 1 would like to suggest for your own good of course that you adopt a someshywhat less strident style of pubshylic speaking Guy Royal proshyposed As 1 understand it you have a habit of teUing your audiences to turn away from their sins because the kingdom of heaven is near Heh heh Our feeling here at Guy Royal amp Associates John is that your approach is just a tad uh unshycompromising Rather a bit too straightforward for public conshysumption

Guy Royal leaned forward as though sharing a confJdence John the gang here in market research - and our market reshysearchers are the best in the game John and they have the track record to prove it - they feel strongly that a ~ow-key

understated approach relying on sweet reason and avoiding fire and brimstone is always best Nobody likes a scold John Heh heh

John the Baptist looked skepshytical People might not know what I meant he said Theymiddot might not get the message

Precisely Guy Royal reshyplied smiling Keep them a little jn the dark Be coy Use phrases dike by and ~argemiddot all things considered on the

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whole on the other hand broadly viewed tentatively speaking aU the votes arent in yet and so forth Never comshymit yourself Always ~eave room to back off a position gracefully Meaningless phrases will make you seem tolerant and trustshyworthy In Sl year or two your old image as a crank will be forgotten believe me

Isnt it important to be clear Doesnt that show respect for listeners John the Baptist askmiddot ed frowning

This was going to be tougher than Guy Royal had thought He opted for a frank stance

No offense intended John but your whole approach is much too preachy Guy exshyplained For example referring to the religious establishment as snakes is a tum-off Then you tell them to show evidence that they have reformed their Hves You keep mentioning uh sins

Guy Royal wor1dly fellow rolled his eyes John pardon me for saying so but you really ought to stop talking about sin Its bad taste to mention sin People dont like to be preached to John Youll only antagonize the very people you hope to reach

John the Baptist said nothing Guy Royal cleared his throat and continued Now when you refer to this fellow who you say will come after you you say he will bum the chaff in a fire that never goes out Heh heh John the hell concept is outshydated Modern people are too sophisticated to buy a superstishytion like eternal damnation

Our market researchers say that folks are buying good feelshyings Im okay youre okay You do your thing Ill do mine They dont want to be burdened by a heavy message So use phrases like its only my opinion and I dont have aU the answers Be humble John

As John the Baptist walked out in disgust Guy Royal warnshyed him And stay out of Herods affairs or hell have your head

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Fro FoIster Continued from Page Three

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olic Conference emphasized the important issues facing Hispanics - unemployment and education including bilingual education shythat he said must be faced throughout the year

In an interview Sedillo said the high unemployment rate among Hispanic youth is partishycularly critical and the report on excellence in education showshyed some very disturbing statisshytics about education of minorishyties

For example Sedillo said theres a 75 percent dropout rate among Puerto Ricans in this country

Lending to the Lord He that hath mercy on the

poor lendeth to the Lord and he will r~pay him - Provo 1917

ADVENT WREATH PRAYER

SECOND WEEK OF ADVENT

STffi UP our hearts 0 Lord to prepare the ways of thine only-beshygotten Son that through his coming we may atshytain to serve thee with purified minds who Inveth and reigneth with thee in the unity of the Holy Spirit God world withshyout end Amen

Charter Continued from page one

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The charter insists that gOYshyernments uphold the institutionshyal value of marriage and repushydiates any law placing the situation of non-married couples on the same level as marshyriage duly contracted

The charter originated as an idea presented to the 1980 world Synod of Bishops by UkrainianshyRite Archbishop Maxim Hermanshyiuk of Winnipeg Manitoba who proposed the concept and a genshyeral outline of its contents in a speech to the synod

The idea drew enthusiastic support from the more than 200 bishops assembled for the synod who asked Pope John Paul II to finish development of the docushyment in consultation with experts and bishops conferences around the world

Despite the modest disclaimer that the charter is simply listing existing established rights it presents sharp challenges to exshyisting laws or policies of probshyably every country in the world

To Western democracies it challenges abortion artificial birth control and in some counshytries such as the United States a policy of placing what the charter calls unjust burdens on the exercise of the right of educational choice

To countries in the Soviet bloc it challenges state control of education and policies of disshycrimination againstmiddot professed believers

Third World governments are challenged to provide stronger structural systems of basic sershyvices and adequate distribution of wealth to assure family stashybility

The full document consists of an introduction a 13-pointmiddot preshyamble middotIaying out the context and theoretical basis for the charter the charter itself and a list of sources and references

The fiist three articles of the charter deal with the rights of marriage articles 4 and 5 with children 6 to 8 with human rights of the family and 9 to 11 with socioeconomic rights Artishycle 12 deals with the special problems of immigrant migrant worker and refugee families

Nurses parley attended by 22

22 members of the Diocesan Council of Catholic Nurses atshytended the 24th fall conference of Ute New England Council of Catholic Nurses held recently in Providence

Presentations included a talk by Betty Hutton on her involveshyment with Christianity and Witshyness to Christ An Historical Nursing Heritage presented by Josephine Dolan RN

The conference was hosted by Providence Bishop LOIJis E Gelishyneau and the Providence Counshycil of Catholic Nurses New ofshyficers were installed at a Mass with Bishop Gelineau as princi~ pal concelebrant

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AT THE RECENT annual banquet benefiting retired Sisters of Mercy Msgr Patrick J ONeill pastor of SS Peter and Paul parish Fall River where Sisters of Mercy have taught for decades chats with from left Sisters Constance Monahan St Lawrence convent New Bedford Mary NoellBlute provincial superior and Rose de Lima Clark administrator of St Vincents Home Fall River (Torchia Photo)

the mail packet Letters Ire welcomed but should be no

more than 200 words The editor reserves the right to condense or edit All letters must be signed and Include a home or business address and telephone number for the purpose of verification If deemed nampC8ssary

Pilgrimage Dear Editor

A small group of parishioners from Holy Rosary Church Taunmiddot ton was fortunate to be able to accompany Father Matthew Swizdor the Franciscan healing priest from Chicopee and his group on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land

I wish I could adequately deshyscribe this intense spiritual exshyperience To walk where Jesus walked and taught and to visit the places where He suffered died and was buried were events beyond my poor powers of demiddot scription

My prayer Is that many readers will make this trip In the future and refresh themshyselves physically mentally spiritually and emotionally

Finding God We flew to find you in the

Upper Room The site of your Transmiddot

substantiation I could not find you here in

the lonely absences Because I knew 0 God the

crosses sent to me Were sent to widen my

dimensions In the flights long hours I

prayed and trusted You ~re forgiveness in the

Clouds with my contrition And down below relentless

in the sea I wa filled with fear yet

found a new grace For You pressed my face with

your loving hands And eased my aChing lungs

and limbs I felt uplifted in your glory

and saw you everywhere (Walking in the hot sands of

Jerusalem when we arrived) And knew the grandeur of

you at the holy places That Upper Room - unmiddot

familiar - so high remote and vast

(Da Vinci had brushed it to seem so close)

Still I felt the compass of my heart point a steady straight and true

I looked for you there with hungry heart clean of hand and mind

I found you there at last my love waiting all the time

I would not want it Lord my God any other way

Bridget L OHearne Taunton

Thank you Dear Editor

We the Dominican Sisters of the Presentation wish to thank our families friends and neighshybors who extended so much kindshyness to us during the recent tragedy that took place at our Provincial House in Dighton

We express our gratitilde to the Dighton Police and Fire Demiddot partments and the Volunteer Ambulance Corps and to the staff at St Annes Hospital for responding immediately to our caIl for help

We are deeply grateful to Bishop Daniel A Cronin who came to Dighton immediately and supported us by his presence We also want to say thank

you to the Clergy of the Diomiddot cese who were with us during those first hours and even now continue to support us by their prayers

We want to thank the Clergy and faithful of all denominations and Religious Congregations in particular the Dominican Fathers of Providence College who continue to pray and supshyport us by their friendship

We wish to thank the Amerishycan Red Cross and the Knights of Columbus of Providence Colshylege who are meeting Sr Vimshyalas need for blood

Finally we want to say ~thank

you to all those peopl~ who have been kind to us in any way and whom we have not been able to contact because we do not have their Correct address

Sr Mary Patricia Sullivan Provincial

(necrolo9YJ December 3

Rev John W McCarthy PR Pastor 1926 Sacred Heart Fall River

December 4 Rev Charles Ouellette Assisshy

tant 1945 St James Taunton December 8

Rev Joseph L Cabral Pastor 1~59 Our Lady of Angels Fall River

Rt Rev John H Hackett Chancellor of Fall River Diocese June-Dec 1966

Rev Joseph WeIch Retired Pastor 1971 Our Lady of Vicshytory Centerville

Deeemeber 7 Rev Ambrose Bowen Retired

Pastor 1977 St Joseph Taunmiddot ton

Rev Thomas F Daly Retired Pastor 1976 St James New Bedford

December 8 Rev John F Broderick Pastor

1940 St Mary South Dartshymouth

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

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Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

cert this year titled Christnt~s WIShes will take place at 730 pm Dec 18 and will feature the schools concert band mIxed chorus glris chorus and autilshyiary marching band units

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Stangites Debra Brodeur Jill Pierce and Jeanne Biown were orchestra members for a recept Fall River Little Theatre producshytion of Gypsy Music director was George Campeau also Stangs music director and also in the Gypsy orchestra was Terry Furtadomiddot the Spartans band director

Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

THEYRE ON ALL ntE CHANNEL r ICU gtOU OUR STELLITE l7ISH ISNT WORlltIfigtR1GHT

In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

Father McDonough is also on WMYD from 130 to 2 pm each Sunday

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

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LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

CATHOLIC WOMANS CLUB NB

Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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the moorinstJ ~ea~e Advent H~reg I

There is no doubt that the movement for peace among the peoples of the world has special meaning at this particushylar time in mans hist9ric journey More and more dp we see men and women coming together in public gatherings to witness to their desire for peace in the family of ban

A great impetus to the peace movement in this c04ntry was supplied by the American bishops peace pastora~~ Its publication by such a prestigious church body amid the tension of armament buildup in this country Was a courageous and unprecedented action I

Yet despite the ominous clouds on the int~rnat~onal horizon we in the church should remember that we are preparing to celebrate the enduring reality pf the PHnce of Peace I

The liturgy of this holy time of Advent begins approshypriately with the verse of thepnarmed prophet Is~iah They shall beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks I

In a recent address to the Pontifical Academy of I Sciences our Holy Father gave powerful witness tO the

Iwords of Isaiahmiddot saying Unarmed prophets have been the object of derision in every age especially on the patt of shrewd politicians the supports of power But todayfuust not our civilization recQgnize that humanity has neetl of them I

Developing his thoughts on this subject of peace the pope strove forcefully tolet his hearers know that Ireal peace is born not only from elimination of the hotbeds of war but from positive acts of justice The work for p~ace must be seen as a relentless struggle not the passing f~ncy of enthusiasts Sin injustice and oppression never c~ase their efforts to enslave and destroy Peace must be waged with equal persistence I

In this context the pope reflected that the OnlYWar that should be waged is that against hunger disease and the death of millions of human beings whose lives could be lived in dignity and happiness with the monies wbrld powers spend each year on the arms race I

It should be obvious to all that the Catholic Church is actively supporting those who feel threatened by ~we-some atomic warfare I

The church has become a moral leader in the search for peace more meaningful than ever in this Advent sea~on But words of peace must become deeds of peace and for many this transition is more than difficult So many in the so-called peace movement demonstrate their peaceful inshytentions through violent actions This gives their mqveshyment a sense of ridiculous contradiction and causes a loss of credibility To be perfectly frank many of th~ antidof so-called peace demonstratorsturn people off I

But it is imperative that the peace movement distapce itself from the extremist the radical and the ungovernable This can be done when the quest for lasting peace becorttes a moving force both among those who believe that it corhes from God and those who sincerely seek that God of peJce

IThis quest should indeed be in the forefront of the

mind of all Catholics as they share the churchs longing for the Awaited One

Peace indeed is the stuff of Advent May its speedy coming be our prayer

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Something special about us BY Father Kevin J Harrington

A century ago the great Amshyerican poet Walt Whitman wrote A single mouse is miracle enough to convert a trillion inshyfidels The odds that a mouse would evolve as it has are beshyylDnd calculation

Another overlooked miracle is the incredible diversity of livshying creatures The genes that constitute the inheritance of each species unite and dissociate to produce ever-fleeting evermiddot different combinations This endmiddot less combinatorial system guarshyantees the diversity that gives species their versatility and posshysibBities

Discoveries in physics bear out the theory that there has been an incalculable number of universes with differing rates of expansion and differing physical constants

Many scientists believe that only such a theory postulating an almost infinite number of universes evolving during an alshymost infinite period of time can acount for the emergence of self-aware creatures such as ourshyselves

The conclusions that can be re~lched by the unaided power

of reason do indeed boggle the mirtd Even Albert Einstein who shook the world of physics with his discoveries was not comshyforted by them But dismissing the statistical view of rea~ity

with the exasperated comment GDd does not play dice he inshy

tuitively sensed a world of times and those to come as a order going beyond mere chance period of grace during which we

Grace certainly builds on na- should live according to the visshy-ture and God rarely int~rvenes

in history to change mans desshytiny yet faith teaches that man can load the dice in his own favor through freedom 01 choice

Our sun a~ we know it has a stable lifetime of eight to 10 billion years therefore condishytions favorable to life as we know it will not be eternal There is therefore something

- special about our human species that invited the Lord of all creshyated things to become one of us

Jesus came to us both as a free gift from the Father and as the result of the free consent of a member of the human race through the Blessed Mothers life-affirming yes to the mysterishyous will of God Our species is mysteriously called into a relashytionship with the eternal through this marvelous intervention of

bull God into our history

Exercising human reason scishyentists have taught us uncountshyed lessons aIJout the universe If we destroy ourselves it will

I not be because of failure of reason but failure of imagination

Christ came to share with us a vision of Gods kingdom Our imagination displays before lis the ever changing picture of the possible yet we cannot fully imshyagine how dismal is life without God nor how blissful it is in total union with him

We should -look upon our own

ion of -love revealed to us in Christ Our life should be the more precious to us when we consider our possibly uniqutl position in Gods creation Acshycording to quantum cosmology there is an infinitesimal chance that the peculiar combination necessary for that correct mixshyture of energy and matter will ever duplicate itself to generate another creature capable of selfshyawareness

Our tools of technology have given us hitherto undreamed freedom to affirm or destroy life With this our power to make Earth a better place to Hve or a hell we need to ask anew Why did God become man Surely to save us from our sins

EDICTAL CITATIONmiddot DIOCESAN TRIBUNAL

FALL RIVER MASSACHUSETTS

Since the actual place of residence of GERARD HENRI MARTIN is unknown

We cite GERARD HENRI MARTIN to appear personally before the Tribunal of the Diocese of Fall River on Monday December 12 1983 at 130 pm at 344 Highland Avenue rge~~v~I~Sh~assachusetts to lIve testimony

Whether the nullity of the marriage exists in the LEVESQljE-MARTIN case

Ordinaries of the place or other pastors having the knowledge of the residence of the above person Gerard Henri Martin must see to It that he Is properly advised In regard to this edictal citation

Henry T Munroe Offlclalls

Given at the Tribunal Fall River Massachusetts on this the 28th day of November

1983

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Family Night A weekly at-home program for families

sponsored hy the Diocesan Office of Family Ministry

OPENING PRAYER Dear Father tonight we are

going to celebrate the wonder of our growth We praise you for the gift of life and your nourishshyment that has helped us to grow Amen

ACTIVny TIME Young Family

This evening the famiy is inshyvited to stand back and look at and celebrate the growth and development of each family member

Bring out the baby books picshytures baby shoes other memo rabilia Share with the chHd the events that surrounded his birth Baptism early years up to the present time If you do not have a memorabilia box you might make one so that items related to his growing can be displayed in his bedroom on his wall or on a shelf You might begin a

tape recording of the chHds voice which can be added to periodically

Middle Years and Adult Families

Arrange snapshots of the famshyiy members at various stages of growth on a large bulletin board or cardboard Exchange names and find fitting descriptions hushymorous captions from magazines to be put under each picture

SNACK Hot apple cider garnished

with a stick of cinnamon

ENTERTAINMENT Variations of the Tag Games

Sibling fighting Sibling fighting - ever

since Cain and Abel its plagued parents Where have we gone wrong wonshyder anguished parents who subshyscribe to the myth that the famshyily should be a haven of peace and serenity

Lets face it Kids fight And although this may surprise some they fight as much in healthy families as in not-so-healthy families The main difference lies in how parents handle it

First they expect it as a norshymal even positive family activity They know that whereshyever two or three children are gathered together there wi be some fighting Secondly they realize that its in fighting with siblings that children learn to get along with other children with future roommates and spouses and with eventual bosses

The child who refuses to play fairly soon finds himself withshyout friends so he has to modify his behavior Thats how we learn Thats why only children have more difficulty coping with their own childrens fighting and why they often have a tougher time in marriage than the ones with Seven siblings

Learning to fight fairly is an important part of growing up but its up to the parents to set olimits and rules on fighting Here are the most common ones Ive found in the healthy famishylies I studied

1 Physical fighting and obshyscenitieli are forbidden at all times These include hitting bitshying kicking and hair pulling Parents let their children know

that these will not be tolerated and that children who hit will face severe discipline from par- ents

And the parents follow through In this way children are forced to develop other ways of dealing with conflict

2 The kids fight belong to them not to the parents Ive seen cases where a mother three rooms away takes on the quarrel of two children because she views herself as family peaceshykeeper This tells the children that their mother is responsible for any arguments they start In healthy families the parents insist that those who fight must also learn to reconcile not tum it over to them when it escalates beyond their expectations or conshytrol

3 Parents know that children fight for a variety of reasons not because they hate each other Wanting parental attention is a very common reason Boredom is another He looked at me is a classic reason Often when the parent allows herself to get swept up into a meaningless fight between two children they join forces against her and it becomes a parent-child conflict Many parents live in a constantshyly stressful climate because of this

4 Healthy families do not alshylow sibling fighting to ruin their time together When children begin to fight they ban them to their room backyard or elseshywhere until theyre through Its their fight and the rest of the flUlJily isnt made to suffer from the hollering name caHing and tears

5 Constantly-fighting siblings

can be fun Shadow Tag must be played at night Try to step on someones shadow if you are playing near a porch light Or try to catch someone with a beam of light if you are using a flashlight

SHARING 1 Share one sign or indication

that you are growing in some way physically inshytellectually etlt

2 Share a positive thought about how another family member has grown reshycently

CLOSING PRAYER -Scripture Reading Romans

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-or Compose a family litany For the power I have to All answer We praise and thank you Lord

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are made responsibIe for family peace If they continue to fight for non-reasons privileges like

TY or playtime are withdrawn One mom keeps a list of fjghtshying chores on the refrigerator Whenever children start fighting as a means of activity she says You sweep out the garage and You clean the bathroom

Probably the biggest differshyence between these parents and those who lament continual fighting is that parents in healthy families stick firmly to their rules By their behavior they let their children know that they can fight but that this fightshying is not going to intrude upon an otherwise pleasant family atmosphere Once the children learn this and know the parents mean it they are on their way to developing conf1ict resolution techniques that will be of value to them the rest of their lives

Poor Is Better Better the poverty which

keeps to honest ways than the middotlot of a rich man who never learned to speak truth - Provo 191

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PR for a tough customer

The big money in comshymunications is in public reshylations not journalism A good relations person can create an attractive image for a corporation president or polishytician or any aspiring person who can afford it A public reshylations person tells his or her client what to say and what not to say A warm smooth soothing image is what the good pr pershyson seeks to create for a client Controversy is bad for sales and candor doesnt play in Peoria Corporation presidents and polishyticians hate to be identified with a hard line For deciding what should not be uttered by a client a top pr person earns a fabushylous salary

Imagine a meeting between GUy Royal founder and presishydent of the pr firm of Guy Royal amp Associates and a promshyinent figure he hoped to represhysent for a fee one John the Baptist

Good of you to drop by my shop to hear what I have to say John Guy might begin in his rich deep voice Call me Guy John A first-name basis spells trust

John the Baptist ~ooked puzshyzled He said nothing Guy Royal could see that this man was all business so Guy launchshyed immediately into his pitch He explained how he had built winning images for numerous household names

If I may John 1 would like to suggest for your own good of course that you adopt a someshywhat less strident style of pubshylic speaking Guy Royal proshyposed As 1 understand it you have a habit of teUing your audiences to turn away from their sins because the kingdom of heaven is near Heh heh Our feeling here at Guy Royal amp Associates John is that your approach is just a tad uh unshycompromising Rather a bit too straightforward for public conshysumption

Guy Royal leaned forward as though sharing a confJdence John the gang here in market research - and our market reshysearchers are the best in the game John and they have the track record to prove it - they feel strongly that a ~ow-key

understated approach relying on sweet reason and avoiding fire and brimstone is always best Nobody likes a scold John Heh heh

John the Baptist looked skepshytical People might not know what I meant he said Theymiddot might not get the message

Precisely Guy Royal reshyplied smiling Keep them a little jn the dark Be coy Use phrases dike by and ~argemiddot all things considered on the

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whole on the other hand broadly viewed tentatively speaking aU the votes arent in yet and so forth Never comshymit yourself Always ~eave room to back off a position gracefully Meaningless phrases will make you seem tolerant and trustshyworthy In Sl year or two your old image as a crank will be forgotten believe me

Isnt it important to be clear Doesnt that show respect for listeners John the Baptist askmiddot ed frowning

This was going to be tougher than Guy Royal had thought He opted for a frank stance

No offense intended John but your whole approach is much too preachy Guy exshyplained For example referring to the religious establishment as snakes is a tum-off Then you tell them to show evidence that they have reformed their Hves You keep mentioning uh sins

Guy Royal wor1dly fellow rolled his eyes John pardon me for saying so but you really ought to stop talking about sin Its bad taste to mention sin People dont like to be preached to John Youll only antagonize the very people you hope to reach

John the Baptist said nothing Guy Royal cleared his throat and continued Now when you refer to this fellow who you say will come after you you say he will bum the chaff in a fire that never goes out Heh heh John the hell concept is outshydated Modern people are too sophisticated to buy a superstishytion like eternal damnation

Our market researchers say that folks are buying good feelshyings Im okay youre okay You do your thing Ill do mine They dont want to be burdened by a heavy message So use phrases like its only my opinion and I dont have aU the answers Be humble John

As John the Baptist walked out in disgust Guy Royal warnshyed him And stay out of Herods affairs or hell have your head

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Fro FoIster Continued from Page Three

Father FoIster as his liaison with Worldwide Marriage Encounter in 1979 During the past five years Father FoIster has preshyslmted weekends monthly for married couples throughout New England and has served on the EKecutive Team coordinatingSltgtUth County Mass

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olic Conference emphasized the important issues facing Hispanics - unemployment and education including bilingual education shythat he said must be faced throughout the year

In an interview Sedillo said the high unemployment rate among Hispanic youth is partishycularly critical and the report on excellence in education showshyed some very disturbing statisshytics about education of minorishyties

For example Sedillo said theres a 75 percent dropout rate among Puerto Ricans in this country

Lending to the Lord He that hath mercy on the

poor lendeth to the Lord and he will r~pay him - Provo 1917

ADVENT WREATH PRAYER

SECOND WEEK OF ADVENT

STffi UP our hearts 0 Lord to prepare the ways of thine only-beshygotten Son that through his coming we may atshytain to serve thee with purified minds who Inveth and reigneth with thee in the unity of the Holy Spirit God world withshyout end Amen

Charter Continued from page one

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The charter insists that gOYshyernments uphold the institutionshyal value of marriage and repushydiates any law placing the situation of non-married couples on the same level as marshyriage duly contracted

The charter originated as an idea presented to the 1980 world Synod of Bishops by UkrainianshyRite Archbishop Maxim Hermanshyiuk of Winnipeg Manitoba who proposed the concept and a genshyeral outline of its contents in a speech to the synod

The idea drew enthusiastic support from the more than 200 bishops assembled for the synod who asked Pope John Paul II to finish development of the docushyment in consultation with experts and bishops conferences around the world

Despite the modest disclaimer that the charter is simply listing existing established rights it presents sharp challenges to exshyisting laws or policies of probshyably every country in the world

To Western democracies it challenges abortion artificial birth control and in some counshytries such as the United States a policy of placing what the charter calls unjust burdens on the exercise of the right of educational choice

To countries in the Soviet bloc it challenges state control of education and policies of disshycrimination againstmiddot professed believers

Third World governments are challenged to provide stronger structural systems of basic sershyvices and adequate distribution of wealth to assure family stashybility

The full document consists of an introduction a 13-pointmiddot preshyamble middotIaying out the context and theoretical basis for the charter the charter itself and a list of sources and references

The fiist three articles of the charter deal with the rights of marriage articles 4 and 5 with children 6 to 8 with human rights of the family and 9 to 11 with socioeconomic rights Artishycle 12 deals with the special problems of immigrant migrant worker and refugee families

Nurses parley attended by 22

22 members of the Diocesan Council of Catholic Nurses atshytended the 24th fall conference of Ute New England Council of Catholic Nurses held recently in Providence

Presentations included a talk by Betty Hutton on her involveshyment with Christianity and Witshyness to Christ An Historical Nursing Heritage presented by Josephine Dolan RN

The conference was hosted by Providence Bishop LOIJis E Gelishyneau and the Providence Counshycil of Catholic Nurses New ofshyficers were installed at a Mass with Bishop Gelineau as princi~ pal concelebrant

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AT THE RECENT annual banquet benefiting retired Sisters of Mercy Msgr Patrick J ONeill pastor of SS Peter and Paul parish Fall River where Sisters of Mercy have taught for decades chats with from left Sisters Constance Monahan St Lawrence convent New Bedford Mary NoellBlute provincial superior and Rose de Lima Clark administrator of St Vincents Home Fall River (Torchia Photo)

the mail packet Letters Ire welcomed but should be no

more than 200 words The editor reserves the right to condense or edit All letters must be signed and Include a home or business address and telephone number for the purpose of verification If deemed nampC8ssary

Pilgrimage Dear Editor

A small group of parishioners from Holy Rosary Church Taunmiddot ton was fortunate to be able to accompany Father Matthew Swizdor the Franciscan healing priest from Chicopee and his group on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land

I wish I could adequately deshyscribe this intense spiritual exshyperience To walk where Jesus walked and taught and to visit the places where He suffered died and was buried were events beyond my poor powers of demiddot scription

My prayer Is that many readers will make this trip In the future and refresh themshyselves physically mentally spiritually and emotionally

Finding God We flew to find you in the

Upper Room The site of your Transmiddot

substantiation I could not find you here in

the lonely absences Because I knew 0 God the

crosses sent to me Were sent to widen my

dimensions In the flights long hours I

prayed and trusted You ~re forgiveness in the

Clouds with my contrition And down below relentless

in the sea I wa filled with fear yet

found a new grace For You pressed my face with

your loving hands And eased my aChing lungs

and limbs I felt uplifted in your glory

and saw you everywhere (Walking in the hot sands of

Jerusalem when we arrived) And knew the grandeur of

you at the holy places That Upper Room - unmiddot

familiar - so high remote and vast

(Da Vinci had brushed it to seem so close)

Still I felt the compass of my heart point a steady straight and true

I looked for you there with hungry heart clean of hand and mind

I found you there at last my love waiting all the time

I would not want it Lord my God any other way

Bridget L OHearne Taunton

Thank you Dear Editor

We the Dominican Sisters of the Presentation wish to thank our families friends and neighshybors who extended so much kindshyness to us during the recent tragedy that took place at our Provincial House in Dighton

We express our gratitilde to the Dighton Police and Fire Demiddot partments and the Volunteer Ambulance Corps and to the staff at St Annes Hospital for responding immediately to our caIl for help

We are deeply grateful to Bishop Daniel A Cronin who came to Dighton immediately and supported us by his presence We also want to say thank

you to the Clergy of the Diomiddot cese who were with us during those first hours and even now continue to support us by their prayers

We want to thank the Clergy and faithful of all denominations and Religious Congregations in particular the Dominican Fathers of Providence College who continue to pray and supshyport us by their friendship

We wish to thank the Amerishycan Red Cross and the Knights of Columbus of Providence Colshylege who are meeting Sr Vimshyalas need for blood

Finally we want to say ~thank

you to all those peopl~ who have been kind to us in any way and whom we have not been able to contact because we do not have their Correct address

Sr Mary Patricia Sullivan Provincial

(necrolo9YJ December 3

Rev John W McCarthy PR Pastor 1926 Sacred Heart Fall River

December 4 Rev Charles Ouellette Assisshy

tant 1945 St James Taunton December 8

Rev Joseph L Cabral Pastor 1~59 Our Lady of Angels Fall River

Rt Rev John H Hackett Chancellor of Fall River Diocese June-Dec 1966

Rev Joseph WeIch Retired Pastor 1971 Our Lady of Vicshytory Centerville

Deeemeber 7 Rev Ambrose Bowen Retired

Pastor 1977 St Joseph Taunmiddot ton

Rev Thomas F Daly Retired Pastor 1976 St James New Bedford

December 8 Rev John F Broderick Pastor

1940 St Mary South Dartshymouth

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THE PERMANENT DIACONATE community entertains Bishop Cronin at annual Bishops Night From left with bishop Jo-Anne Marzelli James Marzelli Jr Deacon RichshyaJid Murphy Sr Joan Murphy Anne Meloni Deacon James Meloni Jr Father John F Moore permanent diaconate program di~ector (Rosa Photo)

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

Instead of thinking just about fulfiHing the rubrics lets think about whats good for the celeshy ~ ~Z~~~~i~i~~BA~bration and what makes comshy

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the conscience of the church he urged participants to pershysevere even if your pastor doesnt accept what you do the fitst time

Father Deiss said We priests ~_ ~MACEDD _-- I - ----have been your conscience You

must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

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Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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Melissa Gilbert discusses Choices of the Heart

By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

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NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

cert this year titled Christnt~s WIShes will take place at 730 pm Dec 18 and will feature the schools concert band mIxed chorus glris chorus and autilshyiary marching band units

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Stangites Debra Brodeur Jill Pierce and Jeanne Biown were orchestra members for a recept Fall River Little Theatre producshytion of Gypsy Music director was George Campeau also Stangs music director and also in the Gypsy orchestra was Terry Furtadomiddot the Spartans band director

Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

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Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

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both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

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decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

church parking lot and return~

ing to hot chocolate in the parshyish center Call rectory for transportation if needed

LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

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Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

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FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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Family Night A weekly at-home program for families

sponsored hy the Diocesan Office of Family Ministry

OPENING PRAYER Dear Father tonight we are

going to celebrate the wonder of our growth We praise you for the gift of life and your nourishshyment that has helped us to grow Amen

ACTIVny TIME Young Family

This evening the famiy is inshyvited to stand back and look at and celebrate the growth and development of each family member

Bring out the baby books picshytures baby shoes other memo rabilia Share with the chHd the events that surrounded his birth Baptism early years up to the present time If you do not have a memorabilia box you might make one so that items related to his growing can be displayed in his bedroom on his wall or on a shelf You might begin a

tape recording of the chHds voice which can be added to periodically

Middle Years and Adult Families

Arrange snapshots of the famshyiy members at various stages of growth on a large bulletin board or cardboard Exchange names and find fitting descriptions hushymorous captions from magazines to be put under each picture

SNACK Hot apple cider garnished

with a stick of cinnamon

ENTERTAINMENT Variations of the Tag Games

Sibling fighting Sibling fighting - ever

since Cain and Abel its plagued parents Where have we gone wrong wonshyder anguished parents who subshyscribe to the myth that the famshyily should be a haven of peace and serenity

Lets face it Kids fight And although this may surprise some they fight as much in healthy families as in not-so-healthy families The main difference lies in how parents handle it

First they expect it as a norshymal even positive family activity They know that whereshyever two or three children are gathered together there wi be some fighting Secondly they realize that its in fighting with siblings that children learn to get along with other children with future roommates and spouses and with eventual bosses

The child who refuses to play fairly soon finds himself withshyout friends so he has to modify his behavior Thats how we learn Thats why only children have more difficulty coping with their own childrens fighting and why they often have a tougher time in marriage than the ones with Seven siblings

Learning to fight fairly is an important part of growing up but its up to the parents to set olimits and rules on fighting Here are the most common ones Ive found in the healthy famishylies I studied

1 Physical fighting and obshyscenitieli are forbidden at all times These include hitting bitshying kicking and hair pulling Parents let their children know

that these will not be tolerated and that children who hit will face severe discipline from par- ents

And the parents follow through In this way children are forced to develop other ways of dealing with conflict

2 The kids fight belong to them not to the parents Ive seen cases where a mother three rooms away takes on the quarrel of two children because she views herself as family peaceshykeeper This tells the children that their mother is responsible for any arguments they start In healthy families the parents insist that those who fight must also learn to reconcile not tum it over to them when it escalates beyond their expectations or conshytrol

3 Parents know that children fight for a variety of reasons not because they hate each other Wanting parental attention is a very common reason Boredom is another He looked at me is a classic reason Often when the parent allows herself to get swept up into a meaningless fight between two children they join forces against her and it becomes a parent-child conflict Many parents live in a constantshyly stressful climate because of this

4 Healthy families do not alshylow sibling fighting to ruin their time together When children begin to fight they ban them to their room backyard or elseshywhere until theyre through Its their fight and the rest of the flUlJily isnt made to suffer from the hollering name caHing and tears

5 Constantly-fighting siblings

can be fun Shadow Tag must be played at night Try to step on someones shadow if you are playing near a porch light Or try to catch someone with a beam of light if you are using a flashlight

SHARING 1 Share one sign or indication

that you are growing in some way physically inshytellectually etlt

2 Share a positive thought about how another family member has grown reshycently

CLOSING PRAYER -Scripture Reading Romans

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-or Compose a family litany For the power I have to All answer We praise and thank you Lord

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are made responsibIe for family peace If they continue to fight for non-reasons privileges like

TY or playtime are withdrawn One mom keeps a list of fjghtshying chores on the refrigerator Whenever children start fighting as a means of activity she says You sweep out the garage and You clean the bathroom

Probably the biggest differshyence between these parents and those who lament continual fighting is that parents in healthy families stick firmly to their rules By their behavior they let their children know that they can fight but that this fightshying is not going to intrude upon an otherwise pleasant family atmosphere Once the children learn this and know the parents mean it they are on their way to developing conf1ict resolution techniques that will be of value to them the rest of their lives

Poor Is Better Better the poverty which

keeps to honest ways than the middotlot of a rich man who never learned to speak truth - Provo 191

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PR for a tough customer

The big money in comshymunications is in public reshylations not journalism A good relations person can create an attractive image for a corporation president or polishytician or any aspiring person who can afford it A public reshylations person tells his or her client what to say and what not to say A warm smooth soothing image is what the good pr pershyson seeks to create for a client Controversy is bad for sales and candor doesnt play in Peoria Corporation presidents and polishyticians hate to be identified with a hard line For deciding what should not be uttered by a client a top pr person earns a fabushylous salary

Imagine a meeting between GUy Royal founder and presishydent of the pr firm of Guy Royal amp Associates and a promshyinent figure he hoped to represhysent for a fee one John the Baptist

Good of you to drop by my shop to hear what I have to say John Guy might begin in his rich deep voice Call me Guy John A first-name basis spells trust

John the Baptist ~ooked puzshyzled He said nothing Guy Royal could see that this man was all business so Guy launchshyed immediately into his pitch He explained how he had built winning images for numerous household names

If I may John 1 would like to suggest for your own good of course that you adopt a someshywhat less strident style of pubshylic speaking Guy Royal proshyposed As 1 understand it you have a habit of teUing your audiences to turn away from their sins because the kingdom of heaven is near Heh heh Our feeling here at Guy Royal amp Associates John is that your approach is just a tad uh unshycompromising Rather a bit too straightforward for public conshysumption

Guy Royal leaned forward as though sharing a confJdence John the gang here in market research - and our market reshysearchers are the best in the game John and they have the track record to prove it - they feel strongly that a ~ow-key

understated approach relying on sweet reason and avoiding fire and brimstone is always best Nobody likes a scold John Heh heh

John the Baptist looked skepshytical People might not know what I meant he said Theymiddot might not get the message

Precisely Guy Royal reshyplied smiling Keep them a little jn the dark Be coy Use phrases dike by and ~argemiddot all things considered on the

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whole on the other hand broadly viewed tentatively speaking aU the votes arent in yet and so forth Never comshymit yourself Always ~eave room to back off a position gracefully Meaningless phrases will make you seem tolerant and trustshyworthy In Sl year or two your old image as a crank will be forgotten believe me

Isnt it important to be clear Doesnt that show respect for listeners John the Baptist askmiddot ed frowning

This was going to be tougher than Guy Royal had thought He opted for a frank stance

No offense intended John but your whole approach is much too preachy Guy exshyplained For example referring to the religious establishment as snakes is a tum-off Then you tell them to show evidence that they have reformed their Hves You keep mentioning uh sins

Guy Royal wor1dly fellow rolled his eyes John pardon me for saying so but you really ought to stop talking about sin Its bad taste to mention sin People dont like to be preached to John Youll only antagonize the very people you hope to reach

John the Baptist said nothing Guy Royal cleared his throat and continued Now when you refer to this fellow who you say will come after you you say he will bum the chaff in a fire that never goes out Heh heh John the hell concept is outshydated Modern people are too sophisticated to buy a superstishytion like eternal damnation

Our market researchers say that folks are buying good feelshyings Im okay youre okay You do your thing Ill do mine They dont want to be burdened by a heavy message So use phrases like its only my opinion and I dont have aU the answers Be humble John

As John the Baptist walked out in disgust Guy Royal warnshyed him And stay out of Herods affairs or hell have your head

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Fro FoIster Continued from Page Three

Father FoIster as his liaison with Worldwide Marriage Encounter in 1979 During the past five years Father FoIster has preshyslmted weekends monthly for married couples throughout New England and has served on the EKecutive Team coordinatingSltgtUth County Mass

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olic Conference emphasized the important issues facing Hispanics - unemployment and education including bilingual education shythat he said must be faced throughout the year

In an interview Sedillo said the high unemployment rate among Hispanic youth is partishycularly critical and the report on excellence in education showshyed some very disturbing statisshytics about education of minorishyties

For example Sedillo said theres a 75 percent dropout rate among Puerto Ricans in this country

Lending to the Lord He that hath mercy on the

poor lendeth to the Lord and he will r~pay him - Provo 1917

ADVENT WREATH PRAYER

SECOND WEEK OF ADVENT

STffi UP our hearts 0 Lord to prepare the ways of thine only-beshygotten Son that through his coming we may atshytain to serve thee with purified minds who Inveth and reigneth with thee in the unity of the Holy Spirit God world withshyout end Amen

Charter Continued from page one

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The charter insists that gOYshyernments uphold the institutionshyal value of marriage and repushydiates any law placing the situation of non-married couples on the same level as marshyriage duly contracted

The charter originated as an idea presented to the 1980 world Synod of Bishops by UkrainianshyRite Archbishop Maxim Hermanshyiuk of Winnipeg Manitoba who proposed the concept and a genshyeral outline of its contents in a speech to the synod

The idea drew enthusiastic support from the more than 200 bishops assembled for the synod who asked Pope John Paul II to finish development of the docushyment in consultation with experts and bishops conferences around the world

Despite the modest disclaimer that the charter is simply listing existing established rights it presents sharp challenges to exshyisting laws or policies of probshyably every country in the world

To Western democracies it challenges abortion artificial birth control and in some counshytries such as the United States a policy of placing what the charter calls unjust burdens on the exercise of the right of educational choice

To countries in the Soviet bloc it challenges state control of education and policies of disshycrimination againstmiddot professed believers

Third World governments are challenged to provide stronger structural systems of basic sershyvices and adequate distribution of wealth to assure family stashybility

The full document consists of an introduction a 13-pointmiddot preshyamble middotIaying out the context and theoretical basis for the charter the charter itself and a list of sources and references

The fiist three articles of the charter deal with the rights of marriage articles 4 and 5 with children 6 to 8 with human rights of the family and 9 to 11 with socioeconomic rights Artishycle 12 deals with the special problems of immigrant migrant worker and refugee families

Nurses parley attended by 22

22 members of the Diocesan Council of Catholic Nurses atshytended the 24th fall conference of Ute New England Council of Catholic Nurses held recently in Providence

Presentations included a talk by Betty Hutton on her involveshyment with Christianity and Witshyness to Christ An Historical Nursing Heritage presented by Josephine Dolan RN

The conference was hosted by Providence Bishop LOIJis E Gelishyneau and the Providence Counshycil of Catholic Nurses New ofshyficers were installed at a Mass with Bishop Gelineau as princi~ pal concelebrant

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AT THE RECENT annual banquet benefiting retired Sisters of Mercy Msgr Patrick J ONeill pastor of SS Peter and Paul parish Fall River where Sisters of Mercy have taught for decades chats with from left Sisters Constance Monahan St Lawrence convent New Bedford Mary NoellBlute provincial superior and Rose de Lima Clark administrator of St Vincents Home Fall River (Torchia Photo)

the mail packet Letters Ire welcomed but should be no

more than 200 words The editor reserves the right to condense or edit All letters must be signed and Include a home or business address and telephone number for the purpose of verification If deemed nampC8ssary

Pilgrimage Dear Editor

A small group of parishioners from Holy Rosary Church Taunmiddot ton was fortunate to be able to accompany Father Matthew Swizdor the Franciscan healing priest from Chicopee and his group on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land

I wish I could adequately deshyscribe this intense spiritual exshyperience To walk where Jesus walked and taught and to visit the places where He suffered died and was buried were events beyond my poor powers of demiddot scription

My prayer Is that many readers will make this trip In the future and refresh themshyselves physically mentally spiritually and emotionally

Finding God We flew to find you in the

Upper Room The site of your Transmiddot

substantiation I could not find you here in

the lonely absences Because I knew 0 God the

crosses sent to me Were sent to widen my

dimensions In the flights long hours I

prayed and trusted You ~re forgiveness in the

Clouds with my contrition And down below relentless

in the sea I wa filled with fear yet

found a new grace For You pressed my face with

your loving hands And eased my aChing lungs

and limbs I felt uplifted in your glory

and saw you everywhere (Walking in the hot sands of

Jerusalem when we arrived) And knew the grandeur of

you at the holy places That Upper Room - unmiddot

familiar - so high remote and vast

(Da Vinci had brushed it to seem so close)

Still I felt the compass of my heart point a steady straight and true

I looked for you there with hungry heart clean of hand and mind

I found you there at last my love waiting all the time

I would not want it Lord my God any other way

Bridget L OHearne Taunton

Thank you Dear Editor

We the Dominican Sisters of the Presentation wish to thank our families friends and neighshybors who extended so much kindshyness to us during the recent tragedy that took place at our Provincial House in Dighton

We express our gratitilde to the Dighton Police and Fire Demiddot partments and the Volunteer Ambulance Corps and to the staff at St Annes Hospital for responding immediately to our caIl for help

We are deeply grateful to Bishop Daniel A Cronin who came to Dighton immediately and supported us by his presence We also want to say thank

you to the Clergy of the Diomiddot cese who were with us during those first hours and even now continue to support us by their prayers

We want to thank the Clergy and faithful of all denominations and Religious Congregations in particular the Dominican Fathers of Providence College who continue to pray and supshyport us by their friendship

We wish to thank the Amerishycan Red Cross and the Knights of Columbus of Providence Colshylege who are meeting Sr Vimshyalas need for blood

Finally we want to say ~thank

you to all those peopl~ who have been kind to us in any way and whom we have not been able to contact because we do not have their Correct address

Sr Mary Patricia Sullivan Provincial

(necrolo9YJ December 3

Rev John W McCarthy PR Pastor 1926 Sacred Heart Fall River

December 4 Rev Charles Ouellette Assisshy

tant 1945 St James Taunton December 8

Rev Joseph L Cabral Pastor 1~59 Our Lady of Angels Fall River

Rt Rev John H Hackett Chancellor of Fall River Diocese June-Dec 1966

Rev Joseph WeIch Retired Pastor 1971 Our Lady of Vicshytory Centerville

Deeemeber 7 Rev Ambrose Bowen Retired

Pastor 1977 St Joseph Taunmiddot ton

Rev Thomas F Daly Retired Pastor 1976 St James New Bedford

December 8 Rev John F Broderick Pastor

1940 St Mary South Dartshymouth

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

Instead of thinking just about fulfiHing the rubrics lets think about whats good for the celeshy ~ ~Z~~~~i~i~~BA~bration and what makes comshy

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Father Deiss said We priests ~_ ~MACEDD _-- I - ----have been your conscience You

must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

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Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

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NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

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Stangites Debra Brodeur Jill Pierce and Jeanne Biown were orchestra members for a recept Fall River Little Theatre producshytion of Gypsy Music director was George Campeau also Stangs music director and also in the Gypsy orchestra was Terry Furtadomiddot the Spartans band director

Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

Father McDonough is also on WMYD from 130 to 2 pm each Sunday

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

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LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

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ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

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230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

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Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

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Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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Fro FoIster Continued from Page Three

Father FoIster as his liaison with Worldwide Marriage Encounter in 1979 During the past five years Father FoIster has preshyslmted weekends monthly for married couples throughout New England and has served on the EKecutive Team coordinatingSltgtUth County Mass

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olic Conference emphasized the important issues facing Hispanics - unemployment and education including bilingual education shythat he said must be faced throughout the year

In an interview Sedillo said the high unemployment rate among Hispanic youth is partishycularly critical and the report on excellence in education showshyed some very disturbing statisshytics about education of minorishyties

For example Sedillo said theres a 75 percent dropout rate among Puerto Ricans in this country

Lending to the Lord He that hath mercy on the

poor lendeth to the Lord and he will r~pay him - Provo 1917

ADVENT WREATH PRAYER

SECOND WEEK OF ADVENT

STffi UP our hearts 0 Lord to prepare the ways of thine only-beshygotten Son that through his coming we may atshytain to serve thee with purified minds who Inveth and reigneth with thee in the unity of the Holy Spirit God world withshyout end Amen

Charter Continued from page one

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The charter insists that gOYshyernments uphold the institutionshyal value of marriage and repushydiates any law placing the situation of non-married couples on the same level as marshyriage duly contracted

The charter originated as an idea presented to the 1980 world Synod of Bishops by UkrainianshyRite Archbishop Maxim Hermanshyiuk of Winnipeg Manitoba who proposed the concept and a genshyeral outline of its contents in a speech to the synod

The idea drew enthusiastic support from the more than 200 bishops assembled for the synod who asked Pope John Paul II to finish development of the docushyment in consultation with experts and bishops conferences around the world

Despite the modest disclaimer that the charter is simply listing existing established rights it presents sharp challenges to exshyisting laws or policies of probshyably every country in the world

To Western democracies it challenges abortion artificial birth control and in some counshytries such as the United States a policy of placing what the charter calls unjust burdens on the exercise of the right of educational choice

To countries in the Soviet bloc it challenges state control of education and policies of disshycrimination againstmiddot professed believers

Third World governments are challenged to provide stronger structural systems of basic sershyvices and adequate distribution of wealth to assure family stashybility

The full document consists of an introduction a 13-pointmiddot preshyamble middotIaying out the context and theoretical basis for the charter the charter itself and a list of sources and references

The fiist three articles of the charter deal with the rights of marriage articles 4 and 5 with children 6 to 8 with human rights of the family and 9 to 11 with socioeconomic rights Artishycle 12 deals with the special problems of immigrant migrant worker and refugee families

Nurses parley attended by 22

22 members of the Diocesan Council of Catholic Nurses atshytended the 24th fall conference of Ute New England Council of Catholic Nurses held recently in Providence

Presentations included a talk by Betty Hutton on her involveshyment with Christianity and Witshyness to Christ An Historical Nursing Heritage presented by Josephine Dolan RN

The conference was hosted by Providence Bishop LOIJis E Gelishyneau and the Providence Counshycil of Catholic Nurses New ofshyficers were installed at a Mass with Bishop Gelineau as princi~ pal concelebrant

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AT THE RECENT annual banquet benefiting retired Sisters of Mercy Msgr Patrick J ONeill pastor of SS Peter and Paul parish Fall River where Sisters of Mercy have taught for decades chats with from left Sisters Constance Monahan St Lawrence convent New Bedford Mary NoellBlute provincial superior and Rose de Lima Clark administrator of St Vincents Home Fall River (Torchia Photo)

the mail packet Letters Ire welcomed but should be no

more than 200 words The editor reserves the right to condense or edit All letters must be signed and Include a home or business address and telephone number for the purpose of verification If deemed nampC8ssary

Pilgrimage Dear Editor

A small group of parishioners from Holy Rosary Church Taunmiddot ton was fortunate to be able to accompany Father Matthew Swizdor the Franciscan healing priest from Chicopee and his group on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land

I wish I could adequately deshyscribe this intense spiritual exshyperience To walk where Jesus walked and taught and to visit the places where He suffered died and was buried were events beyond my poor powers of demiddot scription

My prayer Is that many readers will make this trip In the future and refresh themshyselves physically mentally spiritually and emotionally

Finding God We flew to find you in the

Upper Room The site of your Transmiddot

substantiation I could not find you here in

the lonely absences Because I knew 0 God the

crosses sent to me Were sent to widen my

dimensions In the flights long hours I

prayed and trusted You ~re forgiveness in the

Clouds with my contrition And down below relentless

in the sea I wa filled with fear yet

found a new grace For You pressed my face with

your loving hands And eased my aChing lungs

and limbs I felt uplifted in your glory

and saw you everywhere (Walking in the hot sands of

Jerusalem when we arrived) And knew the grandeur of

you at the holy places That Upper Room - unmiddot

familiar - so high remote and vast

(Da Vinci had brushed it to seem so close)

Still I felt the compass of my heart point a steady straight and true

I looked for you there with hungry heart clean of hand and mind

I found you there at last my love waiting all the time

I would not want it Lord my God any other way

Bridget L OHearne Taunton

Thank you Dear Editor

We the Dominican Sisters of the Presentation wish to thank our families friends and neighshybors who extended so much kindshyness to us during the recent tragedy that took place at our Provincial House in Dighton

We express our gratitilde to the Dighton Police and Fire Demiddot partments and the Volunteer Ambulance Corps and to the staff at St Annes Hospital for responding immediately to our caIl for help

We are deeply grateful to Bishop Daniel A Cronin who came to Dighton immediately and supported us by his presence We also want to say thank

you to the Clergy of the Diomiddot cese who were with us during those first hours and even now continue to support us by their prayers

We want to thank the Clergy and faithful of all denominations and Religious Congregations in particular the Dominican Fathers of Providence College who continue to pray and supshyport us by their friendship

We wish to thank the Amerishycan Red Cross and the Knights of Columbus of Providence Colshylege who are meeting Sr Vimshyalas need for blood

Finally we want to say ~thank

you to all those peopl~ who have been kind to us in any way and whom we have not been able to contact because we do not have their Correct address

Sr Mary Patricia Sullivan Provincial

(necrolo9YJ December 3

Rev John W McCarthy PR Pastor 1926 Sacred Heart Fall River

December 4 Rev Charles Ouellette Assisshy

tant 1945 St James Taunton December 8

Rev Joseph L Cabral Pastor 1~59 Our Lady of Angels Fall River

Rt Rev John H Hackett Chancellor of Fall River Diocese June-Dec 1966

Rev Joseph WeIch Retired Pastor 1971 Our Lady of Vicshytory Centerville

Deeemeber 7 Rev Ambrose Bowen Retired

Pastor 1977 St Joseph Taunmiddot ton

Rev Thomas F Daly Retired Pastor 1976 St James New Bedford

December 8 Rev John F Broderick Pastor

1940 St Mary South Dartshymouth

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J J AT HOLY YEAR day of prayer at St Marys Cathedral sponsored by the Diocesan

Council of Catholic Women from left Mary Almond Emma Andrade Mary Geary Msgr Anthony M Gomes DCCW moderator Msgr Thomas J Harrington Claudette Armstrong Jane Sellmayer Joanne QUi~k Rosaries adorning M~rian statue will go to misshysions (Gaudette Photo)

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THE PERMANENT DIACONATE community entertains Bishop Cronin at annual Bishops Night From left with bishop Jo-Anne Marzelli James Marzelli Jr Deacon RichshyaJid Murphy Sr Joan Murphy Anne Meloni Deacon James Meloni Jr Father John F Moore permanent diaconate program di~ector (Rosa Photo)

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

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must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

~ there really a Santa Claus I think so - Santa Claus -lives most of the

time in the North Pole of our

Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

once a year he is able to pack

FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

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Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

life and works It is a narrow twc-story

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

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The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

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this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

eyo Hockey

Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

Father McDonough is also on WMYD from 130 to 2 pm each Sunday

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

CATHOLIC WOMANS CLUB NB

Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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AT THE RECENT annual banquet benefiting retired Sisters of Mercy Msgr Patrick J ONeill pastor of SS Peter and Paul parish Fall River where Sisters of Mercy have taught for decades chats with from left Sisters Constance Monahan St Lawrence convent New Bedford Mary NoellBlute provincial superior and Rose de Lima Clark administrator of St Vincents Home Fall River (Torchia Photo)

the mail packet Letters Ire welcomed but should be no

more than 200 words The editor reserves the right to condense or edit All letters must be signed and Include a home or business address and telephone number for the purpose of verification If deemed nampC8ssary

Pilgrimage Dear Editor

A small group of parishioners from Holy Rosary Church Taunmiddot ton was fortunate to be able to accompany Father Matthew Swizdor the Franciscan healing priest from Chicopee and his group on a pilgrimage to the Holy Land

I wish I could adequately deshyscribe this intense spiritual exshyperience To walk where Jesus walked and taught and to visit the places where He suffered died and was buried were events beyond my poor powers of demiddot scription

My prayer Is that many readers will make this trip In the future and refresh themshyselves physically mentally spiritually and emotionally

Finding God We flew to find you in the

Upper Room The site of your Transmiddot

substantiation I could not find you here in

the lonely absences Because I knew 0 God the

crosses sent to me Were sent to widen my

dimensions In the flights long hours I

prayed and trusted You ~re forgiveness in the

Clouds with my contrition And down below relentless

in the sea I wa filled with fear yet

found a new grace For You pressed my face with

your loving hands And eased my aChing lungs

and limbs I felt uplifted in your glory

and saw you everywhere (Walking in the hot sands of

Jerusalem when we arrived) And knew the grandeur of

you at the holy places That Upper Room - unmiddot

familiar - so high remote and vast

(Da Vinci had brushed it to seem so close)

Still I felt the compass of my heart point a steady straight and true

I looked for you there with hungry heart clean of hand and mind

I found you there at last my love waiting all the time

I would not want it Lord my God any other way

Bridget L OHearne Taunton

Thank you Dear Editor

We the Dominican Sisters of the Presentation wish to thank our families friends and neighshybors who extended so much kindshyness to us during the recent tragedy that took place at our Provincial House in Dighton

We express our gratitilde to the Dighton Police and Fire Demiddot partments and the Volunteer Ambulance Corps and to the staff at St Annes Hospital for responding immediately to our caIl for help

We are deeply grateful to Bishop Daniel A Cronin who came to Dighton immediately and supported us by his presence We also want to say thank

you to the Clergy of the Diomiddot cese who were with us during those first hours and even now continue to support us by their prayers

We want to thank the Clergy and faithful of all denominations and Religious Congregations in particular the Dominican Fathers of Providence College who continue to pray and supshyport us by their friendship

We wish to thank the Amerishycan Red Cross and the Knights of Columbus of Providence Colshylege who are meeting Sr Vimshyalas need for blood

Finally we want to say ~thank

you to all those peopl~ who have been kind to us in any way and whom we have not been able to contact because we do not have their Correct address

Sr Mary Patricia Sullivan Provincial

(necrolo9YJ December 3

Rev John W McCarthy PR Pastor 1926 Sacred Heart Fall River

December 4 Rev Charles Ouellette Assisshy

tant 1945 St James Taunton December 8

Rev Joseph L Cabral Pastor 1~59 Our Lady of Angels Fall River

Rt Rev John H Hackett Chancellor of Fall River Diocese June-Dec 1966

Rev Joseph WeIch Retired Pastor 1971 Our Lady of Vicshytory Centerville

Deeemeber 7 Rev Ambrose Bowen Retired

Pastor 1977 St Joseph Taunmiddot ton

Rev Thomas F Daly Retired Pastor 1976 St James New Bedford

December 8 Rev John F Broderick Pastor

1940 St Mary South Dartshymouth

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THE PERMANENT DIACONATE community entertains Bishop Cronin at annual Bishops Night From left with bishop Jo-Anne Marzelli James Marzelli Jr Deacon RichshyaJid Murphy Sr Joan Murphy Anne Meloni Deacon James Meloni Jr Father John F Moore permanent diaconate program di~ector (Rosa Photo)

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

Instead of thinking just about fulfiHing the rubrics lets think about whats good for the celeshy ~ ~Z~~~~i~i~~BA~bration and what makes comshy

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the conscience of the church he urged participants to pershysevere even if your pastor doesnt accept what you do the fitst time

Father Deiss said We priests ~_ ~MACEDD _-- I - ----have been your conscience You

must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

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Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

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The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

church parking lot and return~

ing to hot chocolate in the parshyish center Call rectory for transportation if needed

LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

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Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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THE PERMANENT DIACONATE community entertains Bishop Cronin at annual Bishops Night From left with bishop Jo-Anne Marzelli James Marzelli Jr Deacon RichshyaJid Murphy Sr Joan Murphy Anne Meloni Deacon James Meloni Jr Father John F Moore permanent diaconate program di~ector (Rosa Photo)

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

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He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

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must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

~ there really a Santa Claus I think so - Santa Claus -lives most of the

time in the North Pole of our

Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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FOLLOWING A RETREAT for retired sisters at the Park Street Dominican Convent in Fall River bedridden Sister Marie of the Assumption QP 86 blesses Sister Jeanne Andre Brendel OP as Sister Mary Butler OP holds holy water vessel Sister Jeanne and Sister Mary Amityshyville Dominicans were directors of the five-day retreat which sought to help the retired sisters see how the memshyory of their lives is intertwined with the memory of the life of Jesus (Gaudette Photo)

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

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Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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Melissa Gilbert discusses Choices of the Heart

By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

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TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

eyo Hockey

Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

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I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

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ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

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Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

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Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

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Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

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Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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Better Sunday liturgies

By OK Johnson

POCATELLO Idaho (NC)shyUnderstanding the ~inisterial

function of the parts of the Mass is the key to improving Sunday liturgies said Holy Gh~st Father Lucien Deiss

The liturgist Scripture scholar and musician recently conductshyed a liturgy workshop with edushycator-dancer Gloria Weyman in Pocatello

He told participants that unshyderstanding the Mass parts is paying the price needed to worship the Lord in eucharistic rites shy

Think about what the minisshyterial function of each person each rite each singing is the 62-year-old French priest said What is the ministerial funcshytion of the priest the deacon Why do we sing What is the ministerial function of the enshytrance rite the Sanctus the Credo

Liturgies can be significantly improved when each person realizes that only the best effort is worthy of the Lord he said When our singing is at least not equal to the quality of the silence it is better to remain silent

Father Deiss said parishes should use the best people they

have for each ministry but that does not mean setting up an exshyclusive tight-knit group thatmiddot monopolizes minsterial functions

Pay the price for the Lord and you will put a lot of happishyness in your life he said Our liturgy is not perfect but do the best yOl~ can on your own level

The highest ministerial funcshytion he said is to meet Jesus Christ That is the ministerial function of the eucharistic rite You can miss that point entire ly

Directing workshop particishypants in singing Father Deiss told them that the role of a choir is to help the congregashytion and that singing must be done from the heart

Referring to the practice of reading songs during Mass Father Deiss said A song middotis not a song unless it is sung The Gloria is a hymn Sing it or forshyget it

Preparation to incorporate dignity and beauty into the liturshygy is also necessary he said We must prepare with the greatest care our ministry He urged rehearsing even of anmiddot nouncements ~o that you say things in a nice way

Priests need to preside with dignity and beauty he noted urging priests not to destroy the dignity of the Gospel reading by holding a missalette in the hand -like a chicken That is a pity

The Gospel acclamation is not an aoclamation unless it is acclaimed Father Deiss said commenting thatmiddot some congreshygations are dour and show more spirit and vitality at football games The Lord did not say

The Souvenir booklet for the 29th annual Bishops Ball is beshying filled with the nllmes of benefactors of this social and charitable event The ball win be held Friday evening Jan 13 at Lincoln Park Ballroom North Dartmouth

The booklet has seven cateshygories and persons and organshyizations listed in any of them

receive BaH tickets The Ball committee together with the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women and the Society of St Vincent de Paul Ball cosponsors asks that Vincentian conferences and DCCW affiliates submit booklet listings within the next two weeks Others may send listings directly to Ball head- quarters PO Box 1470 Fall

do something boring in -memory THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec 2 1983 of me

He ~xPlained that the acclamashytion also emphasizes the dignity of the word of God which is IIs CITIZEILSwhy the procession should be treated with serious respect the for Personal Loans pulpit reflects the table of the Low Savings Bank Rates word of God just as the altar reshyflects the table of the bread of heaven

Instead of thinking just about fulfiHing the rubrics lets think about whats good for the celeshy ~ ~Z~~~~i~i~~BA~bration and what makes comshy

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Father Deiss said We priests ~_ ~MACEDD _-- I - ----have been your conscience You

must be ours Hand in hand we must walk toward the Lord It is one step after -another and that could be a nice step ~

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

~ there really a Santa Claus I think so - Santa Claus -lives most of the

time in the North Pole of our

Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

once a year he is able to pack

FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

Then one day it hits you youVe become a valuable commiddot modity in an endlessly lucrative field Why not market it sell your services to one of the big guys No doubt theyU pay a better wage for your proven salesmanship not to mention the

By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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Melissa Gilbert discusses Choices of the Heart

By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

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this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

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I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

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LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

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pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

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Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

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Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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who spent most of his priestly life hearing confessions was canonized Oct 16 at a time whe~

the world Synod of Bishops was meeting to discuss reconciliation and penance

The canonization of Father Leopold Mandic who died in 1922 and was beatified in 1976 was -deliberately timed to coin- cide with the synod -Pope John Paul II said

Because Father Mandic had a speech defect and could not preach he- devoted his ministry to the sacrament of penance He spent nearly every waking hour hearing confessions in a tiny room adjacent to his monasterys church in the northern ltaHan city of Padua

Despite suffering from eye and stomach ailments and crippling arthritis the priest arrived at the room nearly every day to minister to penitents who arshyrived from aH over the country

Born in 1866 in what is now part of Yugoslavia Father Manshydic was the last of 12 children He entered a Capuchin semin~

ary in Italy at the age of 16 and was ordained when he was 22

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Is there a Santa Claus

By Dr James and Mary Kenny

Dear Dr Kenny My 6-year old daughter asked me Is there really a Santa Claus I dont kno~ hew to answer that I would like her to realize that iGod sends us all our wonderful litifts not some imaginary fat old man living at the North Pole Its the w~rd really that gets me Maybe we should tell her Ithe tru~ that the gifts really lome from her parents Isnt the ltOry of Santa Claus bringing lhe gifts like the story of a stork

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Christian unity by preaching in his homeland where there was a strong Orthodox Church But his superiors decided that beshycause of his health and speech problems he should stay in Italy

After spending several years hearing confessions in several Italian cities Father Mandic moved in 1909 to the Capuchin monastery in Padua where he established his confessional room He leftmiddot Padua only once to make a pilgrimage to Lourdes France

Father Mandic suffered a fatal cerebral attack while premiddot paring for Mass on July 30 1942 His confessional cell in Padua is stiU the object of daily pilgrimages

Directly after the canonization in speaking of the new saint to 100000 Holy Year pilgrims in St Peters Square the pope said St Leopold didnt leave behind thlological or literary

FATHER MANDICworks He didnt fascinate us with his culture He didnt found hearing confessions the pope social institutions For those added who knew him he was nothing Attending his canonization but a poor monk small and were 6000 pilgrims from the sickly Yugoslavian region of Croatia

His sainthood was in the pershy and several thousand people formance of his pastoral task of from Padua

bringing babies Shouldnt weshy What a beautiful coincidence tell the truth (penn) that Santa Claus leaves the

Do you really want to take North Pole on the ~ve of the all the fun out of life

Truth comes in many forms There is truth in a wordless tear a flowing river an airplane risshying up to greet the sky There is truth in numbers that add up in recounting to someone where you have been and in telling a story

When Jesus was asked some very hard questions he often told stories- Who is my neighshybor the young mall asked Jesus responded Once upon a time a certain man went down to Jericho and fell victim to robbers Once upon a time the world became so selfish and greedy that people thought only of themmiddot selves People ate and drank and would not share This was very hard on old people and little children on poor people and widows on sick people and those with a handicap But there was one good man whose name was Nicholas and he decided he would feed the hungry visit the -lonely care for the sick and old and bring joy to smat chHdren

A story Is it just a story No it is really true true in the sense that the story of Santa Claus expresses the love and sharing in the hearts of each one of us

~DDRESS LABEL below so we can up- Literal truth is not the only truth Is there literally a Santa

Claus Of course not Bllt is ~

~ there really a Santa Claus I think so - Santa Claus -lives most of the

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Clip this eltire form and mail to hearts frozen in by our greed THE ANCHOR and selfishness But at least PO BOX 7

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FALL RIVER MASS 02722 his sleigh hitch up his reindeer THANK YOU and fly south to each family in the whole world

day Jesus was born God so loved the wor-ld that he sent his only son as a baby to be born in a stable and to take on all the vulnerabilities of the human condition

Christmas is a love feast a time of giving and sharing The Santa Claus legend does not take away from the magnificence of Christmas it enhances it

John the Evangelist says that Godsmiddot truest name is love that wherever love is God is That means that whether we say that gifts are brought by the Christ child by Santa Claus or by our parents does not matter God is in us and most especiaHy in the love that we express

Yes there really is a Santa Claus He is the symbol and the sign of loving and giving the love middotthat wakes from hibernashytion in the heart of each of us

Reader queStions on family living and chUd care to be anshyswered in print are invited Adshydress The Kennys Box 872 St Josephs College Rensselaer Ind 27978

Armed with love SACRAMENTO Calif (NC) shy

Peacemakers armed with love are stronger than the bomh Bishop Francis A Quinn of Sacshyramento said in a prayer during a peace symposium Bishop Quinn paraphrasing a text from Father Thomas Mertons writmiddot ings urged symposiupl particimiddot pants to recognize ~emselves

as peacemakers arm~d with a therapeutic love whictt political leaders fear more thn violent revolution for violenc~ changes nothing But love changes everyshything

Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

By Any

ARTHUR

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

Then one day it hits you youVe become a valuable commiddot modity in an endlessly lucrative field Why not market it sell your services to one of the big guys No doubt theyU pay a better wage for your proven salesmanship not to mention the

By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

life and works It is a narrow twc-story

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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Melissa Gilbert discusses Choices of the Heart

By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

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IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

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TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

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New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

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WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

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I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

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Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

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Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

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pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

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Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

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St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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Geographic morality

can pose problems ST LOUIS (NC) - The

churchs ethical teachings can and should be applied to specishyfic situations in Catholic health care facilities Archbishop Danshyiel E Pilarczyk of Cincinnati said at a St Louis workshop on health care ethics

The workshop was sponsored by the Catholic Health Associashytion of the United States and the Pope John XXIII Medical-Moral Research and Education center

The archbishop said that geographic morality - when for example the bishop of a dioshycese permits medical procedures disapproved by a neighboring bishop - is not necessarily a reshyjection of church teaching

The bishops task is to make a prudential judgment about how the ethical directives for health care facilities fit into the comshyplexities of the individual situashytions which arise in Catholic health care facilities in his jurisshydidion the archbishop said

The ethical directives apshyproved by the US bishops in 1971 and reVjsed slightly Sn 1975 reflect the ordinary teachshying of the church the archbishop said

It seems to ine that two prushydent persons could conceivably come up with different responses to the same set of problems if they are sufficiently complex he said

When a physician asked Archshybishop Pilarczyk the difference between prudential judgment and situation ethics he replied that standard Catholic moral teaching always involves tenshysion between principle and cirshycumstances Situation genershyally rejects the notion that some principles are unchangeable he said

A hospital administrator askshyed the archbishop how he would answer the criticism that a Cathshyolic hospital when it is the only hospital in an area imposes its morality on others

Catholic health care is not inshytended to provide all kinds of

health care for everyone but is meant as a witness to the church in the context of sickness and wellness said the archbishop

We have to be careful about other peoples consciences but we also have to be careful about our own he said

Proportionalism as a method of moral decision was criticized by Dominican Father Benedict M Ashley in a talk on ethical methodologies

Proportionalists determine the morality of an action not only by its nature but also by its purposesmiddot and circumstances Father Ashley said

A better way to overcome legalism without succumbing to moral relativism as proportionshyalism tends to do is to recogshynize that certain kinds of actions are always wrong because they are contradictory to fundamental goods or rights of human pershysons Thus abortion is always wrong because it deprives an inshynocent human being of its fundashymental right to life he said

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Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

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By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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Melissa Gilbert discusses Choices of the Heart

By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

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In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

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Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

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I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

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Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

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Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

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Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

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Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

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Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

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St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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THE ANCHOR-Docee 0 Fall Rve-Fdday DJ 2 1982 I

By Any

ARTHUR

MURPHY

and Am

RICHARD

MURPHY

Imagine yourself a sales representative for a compushyter software company Your territory is New England The better part of most weeks you spend driving flying troubleshyshooting wining dining and pitching - in all selling your clients Youve developed a winmiddot ning style to go with your namiddot tural sincerity which is earnmiddot ing you commissions aplenty

Then one day it hits you youVe become a valuable commiddot modity in an endlessly lucrative field Why not market it sell your services to one of the big guys No doubt theyU pay a better wage for your proven salesmanship not to mention the

By Sister Mary Ann Walsh

VATICAN CITY (NC) - Relishygious around the world have been invited to send representashytives to the Vatican for a Feb 2 Jubilee Day for religious a celebration aimed at emphasizshying tjle personal obligation of religious to obey pope John Paul II as their superior

The celebration one of middota sershyies marking the Holy Year will be highlighted by a Mass in St Peters Basilica celebrated by Pope john Paul at which men and women Religious will renew their vows according to the Vatimiddot cans ~entral Committee for the Holy Year

Preparatory materials include an Aug 30 Ietter to Religious ann~uncing the celebration and the Nov 13 edition of VOssermiddot vatore Romano which published a 16-page study of religious life prepared by the holy year commiddot mittee

The Aug 30 letter says ~hat the Feb 2 Mass includes renewal of vows into_the hands of the holy father

The 16-page study stresses the new C~e of Canon Law esshy

peciaHy Canon 590 which states that in~~yidual members of aremiddot

Hgious ~ommunity are bound to obey the supreme pontiff as their hig~est superior by reason alio of their sacred bond of obedience

The study notes that religious life exists within the church

Empldye-e agreements not to compete chance to put your kiowledge scotch and water not the com- be of a certain type to justify Mexico might seem more like

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of the New England client base pany president It is no wonder imposing such Hmits on employmiddot harassment than protection of to work for them then that the anti-c~m~etition ee move1Jlent Little for exammiddot legitimate goodwi1~ interests

Well before you go calling clause to prevent mtmerant pIe would stand to be gamed by Just how far it may extend is your broker youd bett~r reread ~orkers from tugging on loyalty preventing a cashi7r at StoP and a twostep process of I) identifyshythe back of your employment hnes emerged Shop from operatmg a register ing the area in which your exmiddot contract Chances are gqod that Obviously working once for at Purity Supreme for any employers good will exists 2) it explicitly prohibits such a Company A cannot forever bar amount of time the area in which your own work move at least for a certain you from working for Company Time ltlimitations are important was centered and then balancing amount of time after you quit B There must be sensible limits in two places a) length of time the two Not surprisingly emmiddot (or are discharged) Suchlcoven- To begin with in order for such worked for Company A necess- ployees in these lawsuits argue ants not to compete as the a covenant to be enforceable at ary to bind you to its antimiddotcommiddot that the handsmiddotoff policy should contract provisions are calIed alI two basic facts must apply petition contract and more immiddot apply only to actual customers are inserted to make sOre that to your former job and the one portantly how ltlong you may be held while employers push for workers in sales-sensitiye posi- you now seek restricted In the first case it the more general (and more tions dont later engage in client 1 COMPANY As GOOD stands to reason that you have easily enforceable) geographical piracy I WILL Your first employmiddot to ha~e worked l~ng enough to limitation

Although both business commiddot ers business must rely on establish some chent contacts Perhaps middotthe most important petition and choice of jobs are customer goodwill eg reo If you quit after the training thing to note is that unlike the basic freedoms of the American peat sales or demonstrated program or work for someone unauthorized use of confidential workplace there may be some reputation for excelIence in else the anticompetition promiddot information or trade secrets menshyrules to keep things fair For exmiddot a given community With vision should not preyent you tioned above competition with ample the law recogn~~s and out this there is nothing though some other provision an ex-employer is not illegal in protects trade secrets developmiddot for you to unfairly commiddot may On the other hand a couple itself - there must be some ed exolusively by one cdmpany pete for at Company B of aggressive weeks may be aU agreement in order to prevent from poaching by othets who Most businesses which stay thats needed it The agreement can be oral would like to benefit froin them in business have some As for the length of time you though its a lot easier to prove for free I goodwill established cannot compete time limits it in writing Because of the namiddot

Similarly in some highly commiddot 2 CLIENT-CONTACT JOBS vary Some 10-year restrictions tural inclination to protect our petitive industries vyingl for a Your work at both places have been upheld while other sense of economic freedom the limited number of customers must bring you into direct courts have set 90 days as the courts are reluctant strictly to development of a loyal clientele contact with customers If maximum Each case is truly enforce covenants nbt to commiddot is a jealously-guafded as~et for- youre a bookkeeper for a different andjudged on the ba- pete unlessthey are clear specishymally calIed goodwill milk company this should sis of its distinct facts One neat fie and reasonable In any case

But the nature of-these busi~ never prevent you from rule used by some courts is whether you are emplo~er or nesses is such that ofte~ it is being a route driver for never to impose the restriction employee always be specific the sales representativ~ first their competitor even beyond the time worked at the about your eXlgtectations on this and then the company that th~ though as bookkeeper you first job point before entering any work client has grown to trust It is knew all the customers If your sales territory is New contract the sales representativel

who names England a restriction covering The Murphys are Braintree knows he takes a twist~n his Obviously the business must a subsequent sales job in New attorneys

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Jubilee day for religious to stress obedience not side by side with it

The religious state is not seen vis a vis the church conshyfronting it and dialoguing it as a stranger or as an equal deshyclares the study

It adds that to talk about diashylogue with the church is ab~ surd whether such di~logue is by an institution or by an individual

The study emphasizes the obshyligation of religious to follow the new Code of Canon Law which was promulgated Nov 27 and says that currently religious life is in crisis 1

Confessors wilI no longer beable to say to you that you I are too good but they will ha~e to control with a little bit more seriousness what it is you are doing before the expressed will of the church the study says It adds that if confessors db riot know what canon law dertiands of religious then religiou~ bullare obliged to teH them I

The stress on obedience also runs throughout other recent documents such as the April 3 guidelines sent to the US bishshyops by the Vatican Congtegashytion for Religious and Se~ular Institutes when the Vaticatimiddot anmiddot nounced the formation 6f a commission headed by Archshybishop John Quinn of San Fran cisco to examine religious life in the United States

The religious is pledged to obey the directives of lawful sushy

periors according to the constishy have its constitutions approved See insists on the primacy of tutions of the institute said if it dpes not include that obedishy one person That concept is the congregation and further ence means obedience to the difficult to accept for people ilccepts a particular obedience to the holy father in virtue of Ithe vow of obedience

Vatican sources say it is rio accident that the Holy See is litressing obedience

Theres a strong stress on obedience now and I think it is justified said one official of the Vatican Curia the churchs central administration The pope is aware of whats happenshying in some areas for example in the United States where a ll)~ of people have tuned out the pope and the Holy See The pope iiI emphasizing the unity which should exist in the church

The official added that the concept of dialogue promoted by many religious is not accepted by the Holy See and referred to objections of some religious in the United States that they were not consil1ted before the pope commissioned the study of US rtligious life

If something is going to come out I1rom Rome the Holy See does not have middotto sit down and dialogue about it before the pigtpe sendls a oetter Thats crazy the official said

Several religious who work with the Vatican point out that obedience to the pope is not a nEW teaching Whats new is the stress on it

No religious coinmunity will

pope as highest superior said raised in a democracy and used one religious to working in teams

The source noted that obedishy The source also said that a ence to the pope has always poor sense of ecclesiology in the been implied if not stated in United States will complicateconstitutions and that 99 pershy the problems cent of religious accept the fact

l Religious life exists withinThe changing stress on obedishy the church and is nothing apart

ence will be accepted differently from it the source said Like around the world said another it or not the fact is that the source predicting problems of church has the upper hand over acceptance in countries having the religious life Its as simpledemocratic traditions such as as realizing that if you join thethe United ~tates club you foHow the rules A

The Holy See is saying that community is free to leave the the church is not a democracy club but then it is no longer a the source added The Holy religious communitymiddot

Papal museum VATICAN CITY (NC) - The walk It haS a tile roof a plain

Catholic Church in Poland has stucco exterior and anungabled acquired the house where Pope attic John Paul II was born and plans to tum it into a museum

Vatican Radio reported that the church bought the house from the smaH town of Wadomiddot wice in southern Poland where Karol Wojtla now Pope John Paul II was born May 18 1920

The planned museum win dismiddot play memorabilia of the popes

life and works It is a narrow twc-story

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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Melissa Gilbert discusses Choices of the Heart

By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

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Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

THEYRE ON ALL ntE CHANNEL r ICU gtOU OUR STELLITE l7ISH ISNT WORlltIfigtR1GHT

In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

eyo Hockey

Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

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I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

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decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

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Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

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Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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MEUSSA GILBERT playing the part of Jean Donovan is stopped by Salvadoran government troops in a scene from Choices of the Heart (NC Photo)

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Melissa Gilbert discusses Choices of the Heart

By Michael Gallagher

NEW YORK (NC) - Choices of the Heart is an NBC teleshyvision movie about Jean Donoshyvan who with Ursuline Sister Dorothy Kazel and Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford and Maura Clarke died three years ago aJlegedly at the hands of Salvashydoran National Guardsmen It was a vicious crime for which the suspect-soldiers have yet to be brought to trial Choices of the Heart will be broadcast on the night of Dec 5 within three days of the Dec 2 anniversary of the murders

Were it not however for Melissa Gilbert who endeared herself to television audiences as Laura in Little House on the Prairie this profoundly moving account of an extraordinary young woman who left behind a comfortable Jife and a successshyful career to serve the poor of El Salvador might never have reached your home screen

All three networks I was told turned down the script because it was too controversial and when it seemed as though it would never be produced Miss

Gilbert came into the picture She loved the part of Jean

Donovan and on the strength of the reputation and popularity she had gained from Little House Choices of the Heart went into production in Mexico last year

Recently she told me how much the role of Jean meant to her

I wall thrilled she said that somebo(1y like John Houseman would think enough of my abilshyity to offer me a role like that Houseman the distinguished proshyducer and actor (Prof Kingsfield in The Paper Chase) is the

producer of Choices and was also the prime mover on Roses in December the splendid docushymentary on Jean Donovan

What did Miss Gilbert like about the role

Well she said I always remembered something my mother told me when I was very young If you have some kind of talent some kind of ability she said Jts something that youve been given for a purpose Youve got to use it in the right way for something thats imporshytant You must never abuse it

And so I kept reading all these scripts and they were all

so shallow - full of fluff or exploitation or both And so even though I hadnt done my acting for a long time and I was almost going crazy with nothing to do I wouldnt take any of the parts offered me Then John Houseman brought me Choices of the Heart and right away I knew it was for me

Why Well Jean is a person that

any actress should love to play Theres something about her that appeals to young people Hke me We have plenty of material possessions - our nice clothes our houses our cars - but the most important thing is to be able to do something for someshybody else To receive by giving Thats what Jean ~id Shes an inspiration to me She was a hero and young people today dont have any real heroes

Miss Gilbert said that Choices of the Heart had recently been screened before what would have to be its toughest audience Raymond and Pat Donovan Jeans father and mother

What did they think of it They loved it she said

Christmas gift to television

NEW YORK (NC) - The Chrisshytoph~rs a Catholic television production organization is offershying its Christmas special to comshymercial and cable stations free of charge said Christophers dishyrector Father John Catoir

The program hosted by Father Catoir and Jeanne GIYQn will feature a retelling of the Christmas story in sign langshyuage songs and readings by Good Morning America host David Hartman and actor Wayne Tippit

Commercial and cable stations running Christopher Closeup the organizations regular halfshyhour weekly program will reshyceive the special automatically Some 500 American land and sea bases serviced by the American Forces Network will also receive the program

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And what was so wonderful was that Mrs Donovan gave me Jeans old cross You remember that prayer I say at the end about God carrying you in diffishycult times Well I have it framed in my room now with Jeans cross

All Americans Catholic or not owe a tremendous debt to Jean Donovan and to Sisters Dorothy Kazel Ita Ford and Maura Clarke And now I think we also owe very much to Melissa Gilbert

It might be a long way from the Little House to El Salvador hut shes made the journey

Thanks to her talent and dedication the story of these four gallant women is now goshying to livemiddot for millions of Amshyericans who either never knew about them or to whom they were nothing more than soonshyforgotten names on a newscast

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

By

TOM

LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

cert this year titled Christnt~s WIShes will take place at 730 pm Dec 18 and will feature the schools concert band mIxed chorus glris chorus and autilshyiary marching band units

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Stangites Debra Brodeur Jill Pierce and Jeanne Biown were orchestra members for a recept Fall River Little Theatre producshytion of Gypsy Music director was George Campeau also Stangs music director and also in the Gypsy orchestra was Terry Furtadomiddot the Spartans band director

Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

THEYRE ON ALL ntE CHANNEL r ICU gtOU OUR STELLITE l7ISH ISNT WORlltIfigtR1GHT

In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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By Bill Morrissette

ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

eyo Hockey

Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

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The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

Father McDonough is also on WMYD from 130 to 2 pm each Sunday

Sunday Dec 4 (NBC) Guideshyline - Todays guest is Father William Byron president of the Catholic University of America

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

church parking lot and return~

ing to hot chocolate in the parshyish center Call rectory for transportation if needed

LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

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Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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)- 14 THE ANCHOR-Diocese of Fall River-Friday Dec ~ 1983

IWhats on your

mind Q How can I get along with

friends who act like they are too good for me

A For some surprising words about friendship lets tum to the Book of Proverbs in the Bible There an unknown wise man says A true friend is more loyal than a brother (1824)

Perhaps this is one of the reasons we value genuine friendshyships Such loyalty presupposes othermiddotqualities - sincerity tactshyfulness generosity truthfulness respect and commitment

And surely such loyalty would rule out thinking that one is too good for her or his friends

The disturbing question you must face is this Do I really want to be the friend of people who act like they are too good for me

Other troubling questions arise

Can such people be genuinely friendly

can persons who tend to be snobs also be sincere tactful respectful and committed

How loyal can these friends be especially in times of diffishyculty

But even as thesemiddot questions disturb you you may still want to be friends with these people you may still want very mucIt to belong to this crowd So it would seem that this time and

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LENNON

this situation make it approprishyate for you to devoteI some thought to what frieJldship should be I

You might find it helpful to I search for eight or 10 ways of completing this sentence

A good friend is someone who I

One young person completed the sentence this way Pi good friend is someone who sti~ks by you when three guys are gangshying up on you You might also consider this

question Imiddot Would I rather spend the

evening with seven or Ieight clever funny good-looking peoshyple who act like they a~e too good for me or with one or two

Ipersons not quite so clever who are sincere loyal and cotnmitshy

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Another question that must be faced is this I

Would it be better to endure some loneliness as I search for a genuine friend than to $pend my time with people who Iseem to be ultimately phony asfthey have fun putting me down

Finally it might be well for you to consider which friends are worth having and which are not

Send comments and queStions to Tom Lennon 1312 MassjAVe NW Washington DC~ 20005I

Ibull our schoals Bishop Feehan Feehan students recently parshy

ticipated in 8 middotday of prayer and fasting as part of Oxfam Amershyicas aniWal FaSt for a World Harvest to demonstrate comshypassion for the worlds hungry MoDay saved by fasting funds self-help devetopment projects in need areas of Asia Africa and Latin America Feehans contribution was $23340

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An evening of recolection for the FeehanfacuIty will be held

- Dec 14 in theRcligiou~ Educashytion -Center beginning wIth a potluck supper at 515 pm Fashyther Mauricemiddot Proulx MS will lead the recollectionmiddot program

Coyle-Cassidy Congratulations go to Chris

Lamb Michelle Precourt Emily LarocqlJe and Steve Rawlings who limned a recruitment team to bring the C-e message to area junior hi~ ~ools also to Mary Figlock Bill Orsi and Scott Lazarz rho organized tours fCr visiting prospectlve students and

I to the teachers who hel~middot inshytroduce the visitors to CoC

C-C Spanish students land their parents hav~ the opporshytunity of going to Mexico duHng April vacation on a tour organshyized by the American ~nstitute

for middotForeign tuy0 r As at ~er diocesan highs

C-C stude~ts participated in the annual Oxfam America Fast for a World Harvest turning in

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Preparations are underway for the schools third annual Fektishy I val of the Arts to take place Dec i 0 and to feature a ohe- act play One Night in iBet~leshyhem

Bishopmiddot Stang The annual Christmas conshy

cert this year titled Christnt~s WIShes will take place at 730 pm Dec 18 and will feature the schools concert band mIxed chorus glris chorus and autilshyiary marching band units

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Stangites Debra Brodeur Jill Pierce and Jeanne Biown were orchestra members for a recept Fall River Little Theatre producshytion of Gypsy Music director was George Campeau also Stangs music director and also in the Gypsy orchestra was Terry Furtadomiddot the Spartans band director

Building Block prayer meeting

The Building Block Youth Group of Taunton recently sponshysored a youth prayer group meeting at St Jacques Church in that city

The service was gtJed by Jon Polce charismaticmiddot singer and recording artist from the Provishydence diocese and music was by him and Building Block musishycians led by Dave Lewis Manny Medeiros and Bobby Lima A final blessing was given by Fashyther Steven R Furtado associate pastor at Mt Carmel Church New Bedford

Youth groups represented were from LaSalette Shrine Attleboro Mt Carmel parish New Bedford Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford and Mt Carmel parish Seekonk as well as fiom the Building Block

The evening included counselshying healing prayer and a felshylowship period Slides were shown of trips to charismatic youth conferences at the Univershysity of Steubenville Ohio and tlmtative plans were made for

attendance by diocesan youth at the next conference

The youth prayer groups say officials offer young charisshymatics instruction in Catholic doctrine retreat programs peer ministry and outreach services It is hoped that they will be established in each diocesan deanery

The media By Cecilia BelaJllger

Since I can remember disenshychantqlent with the media has never been so high On radio talk programs for instance peoshyple are up in armsmiddot against the way world and national events have been handled

Abuse of freedom of the press can be as fatal to a country as deprivation of that freedom

Some media instead of enshylightening inflame minds omitshyting much that should be said picking and choosing only what they wish to present

Farewell to liberty when the press has all the power Ive often wondered if some reporters reshyport theirmiddot findings for a good end or for mere sensationalism Where the welfare of a nation is involved are we to listen only to the press whose bottom line is seHing papers and who seem to believe that the more conshyfusion and controversy the betshyter even when not justified

Those are not gods who rule over the networks the presses

CIi By Charlie Martin

FAKE FRIENDS

Wmen you were down Thlay were never there

When youre all alone You really get to learn If you et back up llteyre going to come around All tII1e sycophants they love to make romance To the ugly sound of them Tellingyou what you want to hear ami you pretend Cause they aD agree

Youre SUJ1JOlM to have a better life But youre feeling worse And they build you up til you fool yourself That youre something else And its like a curse Cause you cant live up tomiddot what they made of you Anell they tell you that youre losin friends Losin friends losin friends You got nothing to lose

You dont nose whfn yon I~ fake friends You go and te~ them you were king of thehIil When you need a hand that was yesterday You see them laugh while youre on your knees And it breaks your heart cause you gave so much And you elmt believe that you hIt the ground And you notice youve been Iosin friends

Sung by Joan Jett and the BI8ckhearts written by J Jett and K Laguna (c) 1983 by Jett Pack Music

[lIOES ~NDSHIP defy defi- qualities of a goOd fri~nd could nition Certainly a list of the go on and on _

the institutions of this or any other country They can be inshyspected with an impartial watchshyful and undazzled eye Their virtues and services should be noted and the opposite should be condemned

I think we should pray for reshyporters with incorruptible integshyrity We know that there are trustworthy Ieporters and corshyrespondents but of late there are many to whom I would not care to speak without a witness

Young men are fighting and dying for civil and religious Hbshyerties It behooves us to respect each others rights not to allow self-seekers to put cracks in our foundation and most of aU not to despair of our country this America the Beautiful for which so many have given their lives their youth and their future

THEYRE ON ALL ntE CHANNEL r ICU gtOU OUR STELLITE l7ISH ISNT WORlltIfigtR1GHT

In your experience what does it mean to be a friend

Fake Friends takes up the question of friendship Joan Jett is one of the more famous rock stars Formerly with the aUshyfemale band the Runaways she now tours extensively with the Blackhearts

Her song is about thinking someone was a friend when acshytuaUy he or she was interested only in what could be got from the relationship

Mrs Jett says fake friends may try to build us up in flatshytering or unrealistic ways They may make us feel good for a while but as she says Its like a curse cause you cant Hve up to what they made of you Treatment like that pressures us to be something we are not

What makes a real friend A place to begin looking for the answer is with people who acshycept us for what we are Real friends neither ignore nor condemn us for our mista~es

They give support and chaHenge us to recognize howw~ can grow and improve

A friend is someone we seek out to celebrate joyful events Friends help us to discover more about ourselves and about God

For God uses the human touch to help communicate his love his challenge and his sJpport to us

Please address correspondence to Charlie Martin 1218 So ROo therwood Ave Evansville Ind 47714

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By Bill Morrissette

ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

eyo Hockey

Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

THE ANCHORshy 15Friday Dec 2 1983

gram on the power of God to touch lives produced by the Pastoral Theological Institute of Hamden Conn

The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

Father McDonough is also on WMYD from 130 to 2 pm each Sunday

Sunday Dec 4 (NBC) Guideshyline - Todays guest is Father William Byron president of the Catholic University of America

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THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

church parking lot and return~

ing to hot chocolate in the parshyish center Call rectory for transportation if needed

LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

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Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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By Bill Morrissette

ports watch Coyle-Cassidy Trl-City Champioll1

The Coyle and Cassidy harshyriers have retained the Tri-City cross-country championship in competition with Taunton and Bristol-Plymouth Regional high schools

The Warriors of Coyle and Cassidy who finished their regushylar season with an 8-1 record have now won the Taunton TrishyCity crown twice equalling the record of Taunton High BristolshyPlymouth is winless in the anshynual tournament The CoyleshyCassidy girls team also won the annual meet

In addition to the Tri-City crown Coyle-Cassidy also capshytured the Southeastern Mass Conference dual meet title and the conference meet championshyship

In Thanksgiving Day footshy

ball the Bishop Feehan High Shamrocks romped to a 26-7 trishyumph over Coyle-Cassidy Senior fullback Peter Luongo who rushed for 140 yiards scored three touchdowns for Feehan on runs of 3 67 and 11 yards Ted Roediger scored the other Feeshyhan touchdown and ran for the two extra points Tim Dermody scored on a one-yard run for the Warriors Feehan and CoyleshyCassidy finished the season with identical 7-3 records

Worthy of mention are the outstanding performances of Jeff Pontes and Bob Hargraves as Durfee Highs Hilltoppers deshyfeated the New Bedford Crimshyson 17-7 on the holiday for the first Durfee victory over New Bedford since 1972

eyo Hockey

Posting the highest team score of the season Fall River North defeated Somerset 9-4 and reshytained first place in the Bristol County CYO Hockey League In the companion game defending champion New Bedford pinned a 7-3 setback on Mansfield and strengthened its hold on second place

Goals by Peter McDonald Gary Parsons Scott Durocher and Scott Orton gave North a 4-0 first-period lead before Peter Morse scored for Somerset in the closing moments of the period Parsons Marc Gallagher and Mario Pasqua scored for North Morse and Bob Pendrake for Somerset in the second period Last period goals were

by Durocher and Orton for North Dave Plumer for Somershyset

Dave Gerwatowski scored twice Tony DeMoranville Scott Allen and John Carroll once each for New Bedford while Dave Morganelli Mike Cassidy and Eric Waldman scored for Mansfield

Games starting at 9 pm Sunshyday in the DriscoH Rink Fall River New Bedfordvs Somershyset Fall River North vs Fall River South

The standings Fall River North 6-1-1 (won lost tied) New Bedford 5-2-1 Mansfield 4-4-0 Fall River South 3-5-0 Somerset 1-7-0

Cougarettes On All-Star Team Michelle LHeureux Karen

Pontbriand and Terri Travers of Bishop Connolly High School have been named to the 13shyplayer all-star volleyball team of the New Bedford StandardshyTimes

Other volleyball all-stars on the team are Kristen Paul and Diane Daniello Case Andrea Costa and Kristen Sullivan Durshyfee Chris Reagan and Jodi Lishyzotte Somerset ieryl Braga Dartmouth Sue Chadwick Fairshyhaven Kathy Baggerly Old Roshychester and Tracy Kaliff Westshyport

The Hockomock League has announced some of its aH-star teams Listed on the field hockey team are Diann Reynolds (the all-star captain) and patricia Tobin Oliver Ames Pasha Travers Patty Drury and Diane Leary fanton Barbara Carbone Foxboro Tricia Kennedy Frankshylin Sarah Andrews King Philip Danielle Lamarre and Joanne Lamarre Mansfield Laura Brushynell North Attleboro Dawn

Fitzhugh Sharon Dianne Blomshystrom and Linltla Pellegrino Stoughton

Named to the leagues all-star soccer team are Gregg Muscarshyella (aU-star captain) Sean Spilshylane Steve Murphy and Daniel Fitzgeral Foxboro Tom Phillips Gary Lippert Joe Gruscek and Matt Sousa Franklin Andy MueHer Peter Russo Larry Rausch King Philip Kirk Murshyphy and Mike Sheppard North Attleboro and Buddy Lampshylough Stoughton

More food needed VATICAN CIIY (NC) - All

countries must increase their food capacity middotto provide needy countries with basic foodstuffs declared Pope John Paul II reshycently He noted that a small number of countries holds alshymost half of the world grain reserves and said that developshyed countries have an obligation to reduce excessive consumpshytion and to lower food prices

tv movie news Symbols following film reviews indicate

both general and Catholic Film Office ratings which do not always coincide

General ratings G-suitable for genmiddot eral viewing PG-parental guidance sugshygested R-restricted unsuitable for children or younger teens

Catholic ratings AI-approved for children and adults A2-approved for adults and adolescents A3--approved for adults only A4-separate classification (given to films not morally offensive which however require some analysis and explanation) O-morally offensive

NOTE Please check dates and

times of television and radio programs against local listshyings which may differ from the New York network schedshyules supplied to The Anchor

New Film Venti (MGM-UA) Barbra

Streisand is Yentl an intelligent and witty Jewish woman of turn of the century Eastern Europe a time when only men studied in religious schools Tutored secretshyly by her father (Nehemiah Pershysoff) himself a Talmudic scholar she determines after his death to dress as a man and enter a yeshiva or religious school There she excels but finds hershyself attracted to a handsome student already engaged to be married When the engagement is called off by the father Yentl is persuaded to become the bridegroom instead All is reshysolved more or less happily when Yentl brings handsome student and his beloved together by emishygrating to America and less reshystrictive educationa1 prerequisshyites

Based on a story by Isaac Bashevis Singer the film spends much of its time laboriously showing how a male-dominated society oppresses women At center stage throughout is Miss Streisand who also produced directed and co-authored the script Although her many fans may not find this too much others will be unconvinced by her performance unmoved by her songs and wearied by seeing her in every scene

Evocation of period and setshyting is excellent as is the reshyspectful treatment of religious belief The complications resultshying from Yentls disguise as a male and entering into a mock marriage to another woman make the film inappropriate for young viewers Because of this and some suggested nudity it is

middotrated A3 PG

TV Program Its unlikely that 100 milIon

Americans wiU watch the teleshyvision movie Choices of Heart at 9 pm on Dec 5 but this acshycount of the spiritual awakening of well-off Jean Donovan of Westport Conn and her death in El Salvador deserves such an audience as much as The Day After

Choices begins with friends at the airport in San Salvador Jean Donovan (Melissa GHbert) a lay missioner and Sister Doroshythy Kazel (Pamela Bellwood) an

Ursuline nun arrive to pick up Maryknoll Sisters Ita Ford (Mari Gorman) and Maura Clarke (Mary McCusker) who have just returned from a conference in Nicaragua

A short distance from the airshyport when Jean stops her mishycrobus at a roadblock armed men in civilian clothes step out of the shadows

From there the story gives us flashbacks of Jeans life

We see her in Irelarttl during a junior year abroad and then coming under the influence of a tough Irish priest (Martin Sheen) who says to her much the same things that Ignatius Loyola must have said to Franmiddot cis Xavier

Jean reluctantly begins to look more deeply into herself and her faith The results are not imshymediately apparent She takes a good job in Cleveland emshybarks on a period of conspicuous consumption and starts falling in love with a young doctor (Peter Norton)

Finally however in a decision that startles many she goes to EI Salvador for two years of missionary work There she overcomes fear and uncertainty inspired by her three closest companions and the charismatic figure of the soon-to-be-martyrshyed Archbishoup Oscar Romero

Though Choices II with quite admirable restraint doesnt deshypict the final ordeal of Jean and her companions it makes abunshydantly clear what happened to them

Melissa Gilbert despite her youth is as near-ly perfect a Jean as one could hope for She catches Jeans sense of fun and radiates conviction

The supporting cast is unishyformly good with MaTi Gorman and Mary McCusker standing out for the quiet conviction and warmth they bring to the roles of Ita and Maura

There are shortcomings most of them due to the nature of the low budget of television films but the defects of Choices are insignificant comshypared to the tremendous emomiddot tional impact that it generates

Choices is a story of love faith and greatness of heart Though it is too mature for very young children it should be a must for Catholic teen-agers some of whom might discover here for the first time that faith can be quite exciting

Religious Broadcasting - TV Sunday Dec 4 1030 am

WLNE Channel 6 Diocesan Television Mass

Mass Monday to Friday every week 1130 am to noon WXNE Channel 25

Confluence 8 am each Sunday on Channel 6 is a panel program moderated by Truman Taylor and having as permanent participants Father Peter N Grashyziano diocesan director of social services Right Rev George Hunt Episcopal Bishop of Rhode Island and Rabbi Baruch Korff

Breakthrough 630 am each Sunday Channel 10 a promiddot

THE ANCHORshy 15Friday Dec 2 1983

gram on the power of God to touch lives produced by the Pastoral Theological Institute of Hamden Conn

The Glory of God with Father John Bertolucci 730 am each Sunday Channel 27

MarySon a family puppet show with moral and spiritual perspective 6 pm each Thursshyday Fall River and New Bedshyford cable channel 13

Spirit of tihe Bride a talk show with William Larkin 6 pm each Monday cable chanshynel 35

Sunday Dec 4 (SPN) World Report - NC News weekly report on religious ethishycal and moral concerns

Sunday Dec 4 (ABC) Direcshytions - A report from the Vatishycan

I Sunday Dec 4 (CBS) For Our Times - Religion in Amshyerica

On Radio Charismatic programs are

heard from Monday through Frishyday on station WICE 1210 AM Father John Randall 9 to 10 am and 11 to 12 pm Father Edward McDonough 812 am Father Real Bourque 841 am

Father McDonough is also on WMYD from 130 to 2 pm each Sunday

Sunday Dec 4 (NBC) Guideshyline - Todays guest is Father William Byron president of the Catholic University of America

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In the Beginning

THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

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ST RITA MARION Advent service 7 pm each

Friday of the season

ST THOMAS MORE SOMERSET

Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

church parking lot and return~

ing to hot chocolate in the parshyish center Call rectory for transportation if needed

LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

CATHOLIC WOMANS CLUB NB

Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us

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In the Beginning

THE ANCHOR-Diocese ofFcill River-Friday Dec 2 1983 STJOS~PH NB

I16 Prayer group activities Christmas party 8 pm Dec 7

Ileering healing Masses 7 pm Dec 14

21 28 Volunteers needed for church

decorating 1 pm Dec 18 Senior citizens Christmas

party noon Dec 8 Thads Steak House

Legion of Mary holy hour 530 pm Dec 16I IBL SACllAMENTFR-

PUL1CI CHAIIMEII CATHEDRAL FR I Bus trip to LaSalette Shrine ara asked to submit news Items for this St Nicholas feast program of 5 pm Decmiddot 7 Informationcolumn to The Anchor Po Box 7 Fall Lessons and Carols 8 pm~ DecRiver 02722 Name of city or town should Helen Ouellette be included as well as fUll dates of aII 6 I activities Please send news of future rather Womens Guild Christmas dinshy IDATHOLlIQ COMMUNITYthan past avents Note We do not carry news of fundralslng activities such as ner 630 pm Dec 6 school IE FREETOWN bingos whlsts dances suppers anlt bazaars hall Bible study 730 pm first Wa Ire happy to carry notices of spiritual lind third Sundaysprograms club meetings youth projects and ST JOSEPH FAIRHAVENsimilar nonprofit activities Fundrafslng proshy CCD FIrst communion candi_ Jects may ba advertised at our regular rates CCD retreat for first-gr~ders dates and families special liturshyobtainable from The Anchor business office 10 am to 3 pm Dec 3 St by 9 am Dec 4 grades 1 to 6tele8hone 675-7151 Joseph School I n Steering Points Items FR Indicates ltlasses 10 to 11 am each SatshyFall River NB Indicates New Bedford Advent prayer service ~am urday grades 7 and 8 7 to 8

at school each Monday of Ad- pm each Tuesday All classes 5T MARY NORTON vent All welcome at Cathedral CampWomens Guild Christmas party Dec 15 630 pm parish ST FRANCIS OF ASSISIINB Boys interested in altar sershy

Womens League Christmascenter Members are asked to vice practice 9 to 10 am Dec 3 bring gifts for nursing home party 630 pm Dec 6 church Charismatic prayers meeting residents 7 to 9 pm each Wednesdayhall camp chapelFIVE HOUR VIGIL ST JACQUES TAUNTON _ Advent program Monday

All are welcome to attend the LaSalette Shrine pilgriqlage evenings 730 pmmonthly five-hour vigil held in for CCD students in ~rades 9 diocesan churches This months and 10 6 pm Dec 6 Parents of ST STANiSLAUS FR service will begin at 8 tonight these students will meet lat 7 Holy Rosary Sodality Christ shyat Blessed Sacrament Church pm Dec 13 at the CCD center mas social 2 pm Dec 4 Kolbe Fall River opening and closing Hallto discuss the adolescent sexualshy with Mass and including a holy ity component of the parishtconshy ST 1I_0UlS de FRANCEhour middotrecitation of the rosary firmation program SWANSEAand time for private prayer The narish Advent wrea h is Parents of first penance canshyThere will be a coffee break being lit by memb~rs middotof the Ifirst dEdates meeting following 930at 10 pm or serond grade CCD class with Hm Mass Dec 4 in the youththeir families at weekend M~sses5S PETER amp PAUL FR center --Volunteers needed to aid inSpIritual life committee chair_ Confirmation retreats week-CCD center housekeeping Satshyman is Cynthia Strojny ends of Jan 14 and 15 andurday morning also one aide

CYO presidentmiddot Michael Marshy for grade 6 class Sunday mbrnshy -Jan 21 and 22 Adult volunshytin will represent his organizashy teers needed to help cook theing Information 238-6394 Ition on the parish council CYOshy Tetreat meals ers will attend 11 am Mass FIRST FRIDAY CLUB FR Ladies of St Anne Christmas Dec 4 Members will meet at 6110shy party 630 pm Dec 7 Eileen

Reunion Mass 630 pm Dec nightmiddot for Mass at Sacred Heart Dl~rlings restaurant entertainshy5 for confirmation candidates church followed by a supper ml~nt by Somerset High School 745 Dec 5 school meeting in the sc~ool hall I Jazz Chorale

Education committee meeting DAMES PATRONESSES NB NOTRE DAME FR745 Dec 5 school

Dames Patronesses will hold a Ouring Advent a 7 pm Mass middotDOMINICAN LAITY FR Christmas party for residentS of is celebrated Monday through

S1 Rose of Lima chapter will Sacred Heart Home at 1 pm Friday in the rectorys Lourdes meet at 730 pm Dec 9 at Dec 4 including entertainment Chapel Dominican Convent 37 Park 51 gifts and refreshments Mrs Cmiddothildren and grandchildrenThe session will begin with Normand Brassard presid~nt of Womens Guild members are Mass Members are asked -to will present a special gift to invited to a Christmas party at bring a Christmas gift for a reshy the home for the use of all 230 pm Dec 11 at Notre Dame tired sister residents _ School

1

1983 -I CHRISll~lS

$ bull

Festival of Uights Largest Display 0Relig~ous

Chnstmas Lights in the COiJntry

OPEN EVERY EVENIr~G I

NOVEMBER 24th THRU JA~ARY 1st Weekdays 500 - 900 ~iM

Weekends 500 - 1000 ~rM

FREE ADMISSIONamp PARKIIIG G

For areas largest selection ofR~igious Gifts VISIT THE SHRINE GIFT SHCJPI

I

Shrine nhmiddot_1II11middot_middotMUAliIssmiddot~middot~~middotHL~middotEmiddot~middot~middot~LaSalette

ST RITA MARION Advent service 7 pm each

Friday of the season

ST THOMAS MORE SOMERSET

Trim-a-tree open houserecshytory Sunday evening Dec 11 Bring an ornament

LaSalette pilgrimage 530 to 830 pm Dec 14 leaving from

church parking lot and return~

ing to hot chocolate in the parshyish center Call rectory for transportation if needed

LEGION OF MARY Annual reunion OL Mi Carshy

mel Church New Bedford 2 pm Dec 4 including Benedicshytion prayers and a socIal gathshyering All welcome

ST JAMES NB Ladies Guild Christmas party

and meeting 730 pm Dec 14 parish hall featuring a Christ shymas chorale by the Stetsonaires

Prospective altar boys grade 3 or older are asked to contact Father Richard Gendreau

The parish has received a set of the Cathoiic Encyclopedia which will be available for use ltgtf the parish staff CCD teachshyers students and all others in need of middotthe information it cov- ers

SEPARATEDDIVORCED NB A support group meets at

730 pm each Sunday at Our Ladys Chapel New Bedford December schedule Dec 4 A Christmas Carol Dec 11 Mass and social hour Dec 18 wine and cheese party Counseling available at every meeting Anshynulment information sessions 1 pm each Saturday Informashytion Father Edward Holleran OFM 996-8275

ST ANNE FR Jesse Tree ceremony 4 pm

Mass Dec 10

SACRED HE~RT FR Exposition of the BlessE~d Sacshy

rament following 1205 pm Mass each Monday of Advent concluding at 4 pm with Eveshynin~ Prayer and Benediction

Gifts for nursing home pashytients _may be left under the church Jesse Tree this weekend or next weekend Families are invited to make symbols for the Jesse tree each week and place them on the tree when theyattend Mass

ST JOHN EVANGELIST ATTLEBORO

Holy Year Attleboro area celshyebration 730 pm Dec 9 Father Robert Kaszynski will speak on Adventas the season of hope and the service will include exshyposition of tHe Blessed Sacrashyment imparting of the jubileeindulgence and the opportunity to receive the sacrament of penance

HOLY TRINITY W HARWICH Ladies Association ecumenishy

cal tea 230 this afternoon church hall beginning with Benediction service

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION TAUNTON

Instrumentalists needed for the ensemble which meets at 8 pm Wednesdays in the church loft tenors needed for the choir which meets at 730 pm Monshydays

Instruction for the Girl Scout I Live My Faith Award began l~st night in the parish center The Junior Scout Troop has several openings Information 823-4488

DEAF APOSTOLATE Mass and Christmas party

230 pm Dec 18 51 James chur~h hall New Bedford WIDOWED SUPPORT NB

St Kilians Support Group will hold a dutch treat dinner at 630 pm Dec 12 at Thads Steak House New Bedford Inshyformation 998-3269

OL VICTORY CENTERVILLE New choir members needed

rehearsals 730 pm each Thursshyday

Ultreya parish center 730 pm Dec 3

HOLY NAME FR New altar boys installation

1115 am Mass Dec 4 with reshyhearsal at 830 am Dec 3 in the church

Youth group organizational meeting 7 pm Dec 4 Holy Name School

CATHERINIAN CENTER Advent day of prayer 2 to 8

pm Dec 11 Information Sisshyter Judith Brunell OP 996-1035

ST MARY NB A piano is needed for school

use Any donor may call Karen Besse 995-8305

CATHOLIC WOMANS CLUB NB

Christmas meeting 730 pm Dec 7 WamsuUa Club Music by Young at Heart Senior Sweethearts ST DOMINIC SWANSEA

Lector needed for 530 pm Mass Saturday Information janet Barbelle 674-0180

FAMILY LIFE CENTER NDARTMOUTH

Permanent diaconate retreat weekend tonight through Sunshyday

New Bedford deanery meetshying 11 am to 1 pm Dec 5

Lamaze Prepared Childbirth class Tuesday evening Dec 6

Christmas party workers at St Patricks parish Fall River 6 pm Dec 7

SECULAR FRANCISCANS POCASSET

St Francis of the Cape frashyternity meeting 710 pm Dec 6 St Johns parish center Poshycasset Mass and talks by Father Edwin Dirig OFM and Fred middotJones SFO All welcome

Mass precedes steel plant vote WEIRTON W Va (NC) shy

After an evening of prayer and rallying steelworkers in Weirshyton voted middotby a 7-1 margin to buy Weirton Steel from its parent company

The vote last month to accept the Employee Stock Ownership Plan made Weirton Steel the largest employee-owned comshypany in the world

The employees voted to pay National Intergroup $386 million for the mill by 1998 and to asshysume $1923 million in debts Workers also had to accept a 32 percentmiddot pay and benefit reshyduction and fewer days off

Last year National Intergroup had announced plans to sell or shutdown the Weirton plant which employs over 11000 peoshyple The possible shutdown threatened not only Weirton Steel but the Weirton communshyity itself On the eve of the vote Cathshy

olics attended a special Mass at St Joseph the Worker Church in Weirton An ecumenical candlelight ceremony followed at the steel plant

Edwin Mullaney deacon at St Paul parish in Weirton and a 28-year Weirton Steel employee was the homilist

I guess you could say that it has been raining here in our valley for the past 18 months shyever since National Steel anshynounced they would not put any more capital investments into Weirton Steel said Mullaney

We have come a 10pg way in the past 18 months but our ordeal is not yet over he said We need only recognize Gods help and have the faith and courage to accept the help he gives to us