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1  dream come true - beer me, i’m a cowboy

3  stretch your world...  . . .  c  h  a  n  g  e  y  o  u  r  p  e  r  s  p  e  c  t i  v  e2  alone we survive together we thrive

4  koi philosophy: pieces that build us

5  business news: risk is sexy, so is stanford

Content Table

6  a bonus section: the creators’ crypt

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my notebook pg. u

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this idea is related to the above

use the flow arrows, like this

so is this one

this idea too or two

here is a bit bigger idea

and here is another one

you try throughout this book

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1  dream come true - beer me, i’m a cowboy

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my notebook pg. 13

In what new interest will you engage yourself thisweek? Which resources will you need to fully

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my notebook pg. 2

What are you choosing to do differently each day tomake your life more exciting and less mundane?

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+ > cancer 

2  alone we survive together we thrive

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my notebook pg. 3

In what areas of your life can you welcome the support

of others so that you may thrive?

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  m  b  r  a  c  e

  t  h  e

  w  o  r  d

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my notebook pg. 4

Have you ever allowed your passion, or pursuit of agoal, to force you out of balance? How can you realign

yourself and your goals to create better balance inyour life?

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When are you going to set aside some time to travelalone? Where will you go? What do you want to see

there? How will you clear some space to just be in yourown head?

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  s  e  v  i  l  l  a

 

 -  B

  r  e  a  n  n  e

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Everything you do in life including helping and taking

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Everything you do in life-including helping and takingcare of others-will mean a whole lot more if you

also take care of yourself. What are you planning ondoing today to take care of you?

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What makes you special, indispensable, and separateyou from everyone, including the old you? How will

this affect your next big transition?

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my notebook pg. 12

What are three ideas you have had that you thinkyou can execute this year? Which random moments

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y yconjure up your greatest thoughts? Exercise, staring

at the sun, drinking beer?

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  o  t  e  b  o  o  k

  n  i  g  h  t  m  a  r  e

 

 -

  R  e  i  d

my notebook pg. 13

Find something in which you can fully engage yourmind in the learning process. Find something that

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In what new interest will you engage yourself thisweek? Which resources will you need to fullyimmerse yourself?

  b

  r  e  w

  a

  n  e  w

  y  o  u

 

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  C  u  r  t

l g p o o gcould be just a hobby. Learn everything about that

hobby. Thus,turning it in to one more skill you have and anarea of expertise you can share.

my notebook pg. 14

A few years ago I became quite convicted as to howI was choosing to live this short life I had been given.

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What are you choosing to do differently each day tomake your life more exciting and less mundane?

I didn’t have a near death experience; I just decided

to make life more interesting. Life is short.

  w  r  a

  n  g  l  i  n  g

  l  i  f  e  a  s  c  o  w  b  o  y

 

 -  S  c

  h  w  a  b

  (  J  a  k  e  )

my notebook pg. 15

Accepting support does not mean you are weak. Itsimply means you are smart enough to realize how

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In what areas of your life can you welcome thesupport of others so that you may thrive?

much stronger you will be with the support of 

others. Alone one individual can survive, but withthe support of others we thrive.

  w  i  n  n  e  r  s  e  m  b  r  a  c  e

  t  h  e

  w  o  r  d  u  s

 

 -

  L  o

  r  i 

my notebook pg. 16

Our society talks a great deal about passion, andpassion is a critical element in discovering who you are

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p o l l o g o yoand what you should pursue in life. Often, we overlookbalance, allow that passion to own us, and end up out of balance.

Have you ever allowed your passion, or pursuit of agoal, to force you out of balance? How can yourealign yourself and your goals to create betterbalance in your life?

  p  a  s  s  i  o  n  i  s

  n  o  t

  t  h  e

  p  u  r  s  u  i  t ,   l  o  v  e

  i  s

 

 -

  S  h  a  n  e

my notebook pg. 17

Your legacy will not be a full bank account, stockoptions and life insurance. Hopefully, it is tales somei ht ll “t ll ” h t f th dkid t t t

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might call “tall,” photos for the grandkids to stare at

in disbelief and a smattering of foreign currency leftin a bedside drawer. Everyday, I’m trying to decide.Have you decided?

What is the “photo” you want to share in the future?

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  o  l  o

  e  n

  s  e  v  i  l  l  a

 

 -

  B  r  e  a  n  n  e

my notebook pg. 18

Open your mind to what’s in front of you. Step out ofyour comfort zone. Volunteer. Speak out for what youbelieve Don’t be a cynic they’re a dime a dozen and

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Where will you have the courage to be controversial?What will you do to innovate and better the world

that immediately surrounds yourself and others?Do you have the guts?

believe. Dont be a cynic—they re a dime a dozen and

contribute little besides negative energy. Be aninnovator—not only in inventing new gadgets, but also inimproving failing systems and governments and fightingfor the underdog. Don’t be afraid to be controversial— the most controversial and detested figures in historyare the ones that reallybroke down barriers and made

societal advancements.

my notebook pg. 19

When I was young, I thought I knew everything,and I thought I wanted to grow up. But, in doingthis you’ll miss out on enjoying exactly where you

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this, you ll miss out on enjoying exactly where you

are. Don’t be in hurry to get where you’re going;just enjoy the ride right here and now. Don’t settle,but don’t be too restless, and keep enough time andpatience to enjoy the world around you and thoseclose to you. Finally, pursue challenges, and seek tolearn something new every day.

Will this matter 5 years from now? Are you toofocused on getting there rather than enjoyingyour moment?

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  p  l  a

  y

 

 -

  N  i  c  o  l  e

my notebook pg. 20

The hardest part of success is failure. Failure hurts. Itleaves you writhing in purposeless, wondering how toaccomplish your dreams No one succeeded before they

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accomplish your dreams. No one succeeded before they

failed. Every failure is a preparation for success. Thereal challenge is having the gall to fail again.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              -

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If you could tell someone today how much they meanto you, who would you tell? Do it.

my notebook pg. 21

Respect, always try to understand, and help otherswhenever you can. Never underestimate the reciprocalpower of kindness In the wise words of Ralph Waldo

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power of kindness. In the wise words of Ralph Waldo

Emerson, “It is one of the most beautiful compensationsof this life that no man can sincerely try to helpanother without helping himself. Serve and thou shallbe served.”

Everything you do in life-including helping and takingcare of others-will mean a whole lot more if youalso take care of yourself. What are you planning ondoing today to take care of you?

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  i  n

  t  h  e

  w  a  t  e  r

 . . .   o  f  t  e  n

 

 -  K  e  l  l  y

my notebook pg. 22

Your story is what you have uniquely done. Create aresume that tells your story. Paint a picture withstrokes no one else has Make it sans tasks Create

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strokes no one else has. Make it sans-tasks. Create

future resumes that highlight goals and success.Make room because you cannot attach to pastaccomplishments. Instead, you must prepare forfuture achievement.

What makes you special, indispensable, and separate

you from everyone, including the old you? How willthis affect your next big transition?

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my notebook pg. 23

I can hardly believe I did not realize this sooner. Life ismany a thing, but at its heart, life is about stories. Ourability to share and listen to stories is directly

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correlated to the depth that we are able to appreciate,make meaning, and change our lives.

How have stories shaped or influenced your life andrelationships? In what ways might you start to thinkabout, listen, collect, and tell stories to assist you in

achieving your goals? What story is your lifecurrently telling? What kind of story do you wantyour life to tell? How can stories help make theanswers to the last two questions identical?

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my notebook pg. 24

Humans generate thousands of thoughts a day. Goodjob to you. But, humans lose thousands of thoughts aday. Be a contributor to your world by writing down

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What are three ideas you have had that you think

you can execute this year? Which random momentsconjure up your greatest thoughts? Exercise, staringat the sun, drinking beer?

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day. Be a contributor to your world by writing down

thoughts that have substance, are engaging, and thatyou can act upon now or in the future.

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Writing Roster 

Name: Curt Greeley

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School: Minnesota State University Mankato, Pacific University College ofOptometry

Current Job: Student

Your age: 25

Hometown: Newton, IA

Current location: Hillsboro, OREmail: [email protected] 

Name: Schwab, Jake

School: Anderson University

Current Job: CowboyYour age: 23

Hometown: Baroda, MI

Current location: Sedaliam, CO

Email: [email protected] 

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Name: Lori Griffin

School: Truman State University

Current Job: Personal Trainer

Your age: 25

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Your age:

Hometown: Newton, IA

Current location: West Des Moines, IA

Email: [email protected] 

Name: Shane GriffinSchool: Truman State University

Current Job: Performance Consultant, Dale Carnegie Training

Your age: 24

Hometown: Newton, IA

Current location: West Des Moines, IAEmail: [email protected] 

Name: Breanne Wilson

School: Butler University, Universidad de Murcia

Current Job: Job Searcher, Marketing InternYour age: 22

Hometown: Newton, IA / Stevensville, MI

Current location: Stevensville, MI

Email: [email protected] 

10.22

Name: Drew Aiken

School: Michigan State University, University of Miami School of Law

Current Job: Legal Fellow at The Center for Reproductive Rights

Your age: 25

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Hometown: Stevensville, MI

Current location: Washington D.C.

Email: [email protected] 

Name: Nicole Wilder

School: Clarkson University, Syracuse University

Current Job: Financial Leadership Development, Lockheed Martin

Your age: 23

Hometown: Huntington, NY

Current location: North Bethesda, MDEmail: [email protected]

Name: Elliot Trotter

School: University of Puget Sound

Current Job: Editor-in-Chief Skyd Magazine, Business/Marketing Director ofRISE UP Ultimate, President/Founder of Moon Rock Creative

Your age: 26

Hometown: Highland Park, IL

Current location: Seattle, WA

Email: [email protected] 

10.22

Name: Kelly Dotseth

School: Luther College, University of Cologne

Current Job: German Congress Scholarship Fellow, Studying Law

Your age: 22

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Hometown: Colorado Springs, CO

Current location: Cologne, Germany

Email: [email protected]

Name: Nikolai Skievaski

School: Arizona State, Boston University

Current Job: Principal - Words, Numbers, Images LLC

Your age: 25

Hometown: Phoenix, AZ

Current location: Madison, WIEmail: [email protected]

Name: Mandy Wubben

School: Luther College, Minnesota State - Mankato

Current Job: Residence Life - Hall DirectorYour age: 26

Hometown: Buffalo Center, IA

Current location: Mankato, MN

Email: [email protected]

10.22

Name: Reid Wilson

School: Luther College

Current Job: Residence Life - Hall Director, Coach, Creator - If I Knew Now

Your age: 24

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Hometown: Newton, IA / Stevensville, MI

Current location: Decorah, IA

Email: [email protected] 

my notebook pg. 25

What should I do now?

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