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1 dream come true - beer me, i’m a cowboy
3 stretch your world... . . . c h a n g e y o u r p e r s p e c t i v e2 alone we survive together we thrive
4 koi philosophy: pieces that build us
5 business news: risk is sexy, so is stanford
Content Table
6 a bonus section: the creators’ crypt
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my notebook pg. u
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get your thoughts down
which leads to this idea
here is an idea
this idea is related to the above
use the flow arrows, like this
so is this one
this idea too or two
here is a bit bigger idea
and here is another one
you try throughout this book
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my notebook pg. 13
In what new interest will you engage yourself thisweek? Which resources will you need to fully
immerse yourself?
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wrangling life as a cowboy
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my notebook pg. 2
What are you choosing to do differently each day tomake your life more exciting and less mundane?
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+ > cancer
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In what areas of your life can you welcome the support
of others so that you may thrive?
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Have you ever allowed your passion, or pursuit of agoal, to force you out of balance? How can you realign
yourself and your goals to create better balance inyour life?
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When are you going to set aside some time to travelalone? Where will you go? What do you want to see
there? How will you clear some space to just be in yourown head?
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What makes you special, indispensable, and separateyou from everyone, including the old you? How will
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In what new interest will you engage yourself thisweek? Which resources will you need to fullyimmerse yourself?
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A few years ago I became quite convicted as to howI was choosing to live this short life I had been given.
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What are you choosing to do differently each day tomake your life more exciting and less mundane?
I didn’t have a near death experience; I just decided
to make life more interesting. Life is short.
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Accepting support does not mean you are weak. Itsimply means you are smart enough to realize how
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In what areas of your life can you welcome thesupport of others so that you may thrive?
much stronger you will be with the support of
others. Alone one individual can survive, but withthe support of others we thrive.
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Our society talks a great deal about passion, andpassion is a critical element in discovering who you are
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p o l l o g o yoand what you should pursue in life. Often, we overlookbalance, allow that passion to own us, and end up out of balance.
Have you ever allowed your passion, or pursuit of agoal, to force you out of balance? How can yourealign yourself and your goals to create betterbalance in your life?
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Your legacy will not be a full bank account, stockoptions and life insurance. Hopefully, it is tales somei ht ll “t ll ” h t f th dkid t t t
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might call “tall,” photos for the grandkids to stare at
in disbelief and a smattering of foreign currency leftin a bedside drawer. Everyday, I’m trying to decide.Have you decided?
What is the “photo” you want to share in the future?
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Open your mind to what’s in front of you. Step out ofyour comfort zone. Volunteer. Speak out for what youbelieve Don’t be a cynic they’re a dime a dozen and
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Where will you have the courage to be controversial?What will you do to innovate and better the world
that immediately surrounds yourself and others?Do you have the guts?
believe. Dont be a cynic—they re a dime a dozen and
contribute little besides negative energy. Be aninnovator—not only in inventing new gadgets, but also inimproving failing systems and governments and fightingfor the underdog. Don’t be afraid to be controversial— the most controversial and detested figures in historyare the ones that reallybroke down barriers and made
societal advancements.
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When I was young, I thought I knew everything,and I thought I wanted to grow up. But, in doingthis you’ll miss out on enjoying exactly where you
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this, you ll miss out on enjoying exactly where you
are. Don’t be in hurry to get where you’re going;just enjoy the ride right here and now. Don’t settle,but don’t be too restless, and keep enough time andpatience to enjoy the world around you and thoseclose to you. Finally, pursue challenges, and seek tolearn something new every day.
Will this matter 5 years from now? Are you toofocused on getting there rather than enjoyingyour moment?
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The hardest part of success is failure. Failure hurts. Itleaves you writhing in purposeless, wondering how toaccomplish your dreams No one succeeded before they
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accomplish your dreams. No one succeeded before they
failed. Every failure is a preparation for success. Thereal challenge is having the gall to fail again.
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If you could tell someone today how much they meanto you, who would you tell? Do it.
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Respect, always try to understand, and help otherswhenever you can. Never underestimate the reciprocalpower of kindness In the wise words of Ralph Waldo
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power of kindness. In the wise words of Ralph Waldo
Emerson, “It is one of the most beautiful compensationsof this life that no man can sincerely try to helpanother without helping himself. Serve and thou shallbe served.”
Everything you do in life-including helping and takingcare of others-will mean a whole lot more if youalso take care of yourself. What are you planning ondoing today to take care of you?
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Your story is what you have uniquely done. Create aresume that tells your story. Paint a picture withstrokes no one else has Make it sans tasks Create
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strokes no one else has. Make it sans-tasks. Create
future resumes that highlight goals and success.Make room because you cannot attach to pastaccomplishments. Instead, you must prepare forfuture achievement.
What makes you special, indispensable, and separate
you from everyone, including the old you? How willthis affect your next big transition?
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I can hardly believe I did not realize this sooner. Life ismany a thing, but at its heart, life is about stories. Ourability to share and listen to stories is directly
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correlated to the depth that we are able to appreciate,make meaning, and change our lives.
How have stories shaped or influenced your life andrelationships? In what ways might you start to thinkabout, listen, collect, and tell stories to assist you in
achieving your goals? What story is your lifecurrently telling? What kind of story do you wantyour life to tell? How can stories help make theanswers to the last two questions identical?
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Humans generate thousands of thoughts a day. Goodjob to you. But, humans lose thousands of thoughts aday. Be a contributor to your world by writing down
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What are three ideas you have had that you think
you can execute this year? Which random momentsconjure up your greatest thoughts? Exercise, staringat the sun, drinking beer?
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School: Minnesota State University Mankato, Pacific University College ofOptometry
Current Job: Student
Your age: 25
Hometown: Newton, IA
Current location: Hillsboro, OREmail: [email protected]
Name: Schwab, Jake
School: Anderson University
Current Job: CowboyYour age: 23
Hometown: Baroda, MI
Current location: Sedaliam, CO
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Name: Lori Griffin
School: Truman State University
Current Job: Personal Trainer
Your age: 25
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Hometown: Newton, IA
Current location: West Des Moines, IA
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Name: Shane GriffinSchool: Truman State University
Current Job: Performance Consultant, Dale Carnegie Training
Your age: 24
Hometown: Newton, IA
Current location: West Des Moines, IAEmail: [email protected]
Name: Breanne Wilson
School: Butler University, Universidad de Murcia
Current Job: Job Searcher, Marketing InternYour age: 22
Hometown: Newton, IA / Stevensville, MI
Current location: Stevensville, MI
Email: [email protected]
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Name: Drew Aiken
School: Michigan State University, University of Miami School of Law
Current Job: Legal Fellow at The Center for Reproductive Rights
Your age: 25
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Current location: Washington D.C.
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Name: Nicole Wilder
School: Clarkson University, Syracuse University
Current Job: Financial Leadership Development, Lockheed Martin
Your age: 23
Hometown: Huntington, NY
Current location: North Bethesda, MDEmail: [email protected]
Name: Elliot Trotter
School: University of Puget Sound
Current Job: Editor-in-Chief Skyd Magazine, Business/Marketing Director ofRISE UP Ultimate, President/Founder of Moon Rock Creative
Your age: 26
Hometown: Highland Park, IL
Current location: Seattle, WA
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Name: Kelly Dotseth
School: Luther College, University of Cologne
Current Job: German Congress Scholarship Fellow, Studying Law
Your age: 22
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Name: Nikolai Skievaski
School: Arizona State, Boston University
Current Job: Principal - Words, Numbers, Images LLC
Your age: 25
Hometown: Phoenix, AZ
Current location: Madison, WIEmail: [email protected]
Name: Mandy Wubben
School: Luther College, Minnesota State - Mankato
Current Job: Residence Life - Hall DirectorYour age: 26
Hometown: Buffalo Center, IA
Current location: Mankato, MN
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Name: Reid Wilson
School: Luther College
Current Job: Residence Life - Hall Director, Coach, Creator - If I Knew Now
Your age: 24
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Hometown: Newton, IA / Stevensville, MI
Current location: Decorah, IA
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What should I do now?
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