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The I needs the You

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Personal DevelopementFolgore Eugenio Pozzolini

Fellow Professor

Bachelors 3rd Year

Alexandra TORRENT Arnaud GILAIZEAU Arthur LESCAULT Bruno MARTIN-CHAVE Christelle CHAIRON Christophe MARTY Claire CHAMPENOIS Di LEI

Dichen LIU Nil JANUEL Domitille DAMBRICOURT Oana DRAGAN Olivia CHILMA Robin

GUETTA Victor VATUS Yue YU Yi ZHANG Xinyu LIU

Advancia Business School Paris

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FIRST PUZZLE

Why are you here ?

What is the motivation that pushes you to be part of this course, to share the pains and gains of learning, the ups and downs of success and failure, the coming short again and again of sense of self that may make you realize the demand upon you to strive , fight and please your dream(s)?

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SECOND PUZZLE

Since when don’t you feel the thrill, rush, heart beat of the first time experience?

When you will feel the thrill, rush, thumbing heart beat of a first time experience, how will you cope with it?

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FIRST FACTI am going to set the bar of this course very hightherefore I demand :

High committmentExtraordinary sense of ChallangeHigh interaction« Stirling « homework performanceAwarness of the fact that somehow, somewhere, some one, is doing a least that good job than you.

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SECOND FACTWhen you are finished with this course you will be no better or worse than you were when you started.However you may have acquired a better sense of self and I.Last and not least you will learn the interactions that will be required of you to enhance your leadership, prove your drive, shine your enthusiasm in leading others, assessing and assuming risk, making the You of the other believe in I of you and above all establishing your credibility which is what really counts in life

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First assumption

Giveni. Who I am ii. What I read iii.Why I act iv. When I act v. How I act

I , SOLUTION or PROCESS Who comes first ?

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Second assumptionGiven

my Needs my Wants how I define my sense of Effort achievement and accomplishment. (How do they sound to my ears)my “build “ of my sense of need of Reward where I position Self and Other in the general social contract my ambitions.my dreams how Chance and Luck occur, and which one may come first.my assessment of value and priority of Character, Stamina, Endurance, Leadership , Charisma, manifest or innate, developed or nurtured my most well kept desires

Part of the SOLUTION or part of the PROBLEM ?What am I ? Who am I ?

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Third assumption

Do I believe in Hero ? If so…..

Who are the Heroes I identify with ?

Do I believe in Myth ? If so….

Who are my Myths ?

Am I “driven” ? If so…

What drives me ?How will I tame myself if self-driven ?How will I confront myself to the Other ?How will I be able to interact with the Other ?

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Time & Direction

• One a scale of A to E what is your sense of priority that you will assign to a cathegory, be it Future vs. Now, Needs and Want, etc…?

• On a scale of one to ten what is the value, in relation to the sense of priority, that you assume a category, be it Effort, Gain, Myth, etc… has for you?

• One a scale of time how rapidly and with which linear and non linear progression will you assign priorities and values to each chosen Category ?

• How will you be influenced by the tribe or group in your decision making and taking ?

• When will you refuse to assign a priority as well or a value ?• When will you be so uncertain that you will be unable to

assign a priority and value ?

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Time & Direction

Myth Dreams Values Principles Gains Pleasure Self Other Future Now Decency Needs Wants Effort

Scale of Values

Alexandra 1Arnaud Arthur 2Bruno Christelle 3ChristopheClaire 4Di Dichen 5Domitille Nil 6Oana Olivia 7Robin Victor 8Yue Yi 9Xinyu

Scale of Priorities A B C D E

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Timing & Direction

Myth the role it plays in your life

HIGH Value

AlexandraArnaud Arthur Bruno ChristelleChristopheClaire Di Dichen Domitille NilOana Olivia Robin Victor Yue Yi Xinyu

LOW Value

Scale of Priorities A B C D E

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Timing & DirectionDecency

its importance in Others’ & Your behavior

HIGH Value

AlexandraArnaud Arthur Bruno ChristelleChristopheClaire Di Dichen Domitille NilOana Olivia Robin Victor Yue Yi Xinyu

LOW Value

Scale of Priorities A B C D EE

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Timing & Direction

Gains (material and immaterial), the place they take in your assessment of

Choiche HIGH Value

AlexandraArnaud Arthur Bruno ChristelleChristopheClaire Di Dichen Domitille NilOana Olivia Robin Victor Yue Yi Xinyu

LOW value

Scale of PrioritiesA B C D E

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Timing & Direction

Dreams their role in determining your conduct and

choices HIGH Value

AlexandraArnaud Arthur Bruno ChristelleChristopheClaire Di Dichen Domitille NilOana Olivia Robin Victor Yue Yi Xinyu

LOW value

Scale of Priorities A B C D E

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Timing & Direction

Needs and their importance/relevance in your every

day life HIGH Value

AlexandraArnaud Arthur Bruno ChristelleChristopheClaire Di Dichen Domitille NilOana Olivia Robin Victor Yue Yi Xinyu

LOW value

Scale of Priorities A B C D E

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Sense of Values , Priorities, Timing & Direction

Question One

Do the above slides reflect the realities of your assessment and positioning in the areas of Myth , Dreams, Values, Principles, Gains, Pleasure, Self, Other, Future, Now , Decency, Needs, Wants, Effort, etc….?

Question Two

I doubt. There very good probabilities the answer is NO, MAYBE, PROBABLY, WHY NOT, WHO KNOWS, etcetera, etcetera….

The answer could be

Give me your answer , explain it in detail, drill down, break it up, build an argument why I should dissent, approve, converge, ally myself to you

Basically find & sell yourself through this course!!!

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All this has a lot to do with your Personal development , because for the future 40 years your development will relay on you and your interactions with others

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The I needs the You

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Thank for your time, attention and questions