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ASCA* Meeting Tour
*Adult Survivors of Child Abuse ProgramCreated by :
The Morris Centerwww.ascasupport.org
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“Good evening and welcome to ASCA, my name is Scott and I will be the co-secretary for this meeting along with
Mary.”
So begins a typical ASCA meeting.
We will now take you on a tour of how a meeting works.
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Meeting Format
We run each meeting according to a script
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ASCA Meeting Format (Opening)
1 Co-Facilitator One Good evening and welcome to ASCA. My name is __________ and I will
be the Co-Secretary for this meeting along with __________. As we begin our meeting, let us pause for a moment of silence, to reflect on what we are feeling and what we want to accomplish here today.
Pause for about 30 seconds.The purpose of ASCA is to bring together within a nurturing and supportive community, we who were abused as children either physically, sexually, or emotionally. Our meetings empower us to transform our identities from victims, to survivors, to thrivers. We will now pass around the Telephone Support Sign-Up list. Signing the telephone support list is totally voluntary.
2 Co-Facilitator Two By participating in this meeting we all agree to honor and abide by the
guidelines contained in the Welcome to ASCA handout, the philosophy and spirit of ASCA, as well as any interventions made by the Co-Secretaries....
The script continues for several pages.
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Benefits of the Script
Safety The Morris Center put a lot of thought into the format and piloted the script many times with many different groups
Consistency Reduces anxietyParticipants know what to expectReduces chance of diversion from format
Less pressure on facilitators Co-facilitators can rely on the script to guide the meetingCo-facilitators can both participate and lead – because the script reminds them exactly what to say and do from beginning to end
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Many ASCA groups rotate their meeting
focus each week.Let’s take a closer look!
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Rotational MeetingsA – Open topic (Week 1)B – Step study (Week 2)
ASCA is built on a 21 step program designed for adult survivors of child abuse
C – Topic study (Week 3)Topics include self-esteem, depression, confronting abusers, suicidal thoughts, self-help
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FacilitatorsCo-facilitators
ASCA meetings have two leaders to ease pressure and diffuse authorityCo-facilitators follow meeting script but may need to intervene if meeting procedures are violated
The Morris Center offers training in person (in several cities) or via long-distance
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How ASCA Meetings Flow1. Opening Comments by Co-Secretaries,
Readings (15 minutes)2. Presenter (maximum 15 minutes)3. Feedback to Presenter (10 minutes)4. Shares (maximum 5 minutes each)5. Closing Comments (5 minutes)6. Announcements & Closing (5 minutes)
Total time = 1½ to 2 hours, depending on group size and group charter (group may limit
meetings to shorter time).
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1. Opening Comments, Readings
List of 21 steps
Statement of philosophy Four paragraphs of affirmations concerning the journey of recovery (Start with statement 1: We are here today to face our past and reclaim our lives as survivors of childhood abuse. We know intuitively or objectively that we were physically, sexually, or emotionally abused as children….
Readings on steps Use in Rotation B step-oriented meetingsOne-page elaboration on step of the day, with suggested exercises
Readings on topics Use in Rotation C topic-oriented meetingsBrief half-page readings on topic of the day
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2. Presenter
Speaker shares up to 15 minutes on personal experiences, feelings, thoughtsTimer notifies presenter when he/she has 1 minute remaining
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Contents of Presenter’s Share
Differ from person to person, meeting to meetingPresent – talk about current state of emotions, relationships, workPast – talk about childhood, emerging memoriesFuture – talk about future plans, hopes, fearsSpeaker often helps “set the tone” for the day’s step or topic.
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Examples of Shares
“Hi my name is Charlie. (pause) I’m so depressed today. Darn it, I’ve been depressed for twenty years. But it is getting better. (pause) When I was a kid, I was my father’s punching bag….”“Hi my name is Sue. For a long time, I thought that there was no way I was ever going to recover from my childhood. But over time….”
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3. Feedback to Presenter Volunteers raise handsPresenter chooses who will speakFeedback consist of supportive commentsFeedback is for presenter’s benefit - no mini-shares, judgment, analysis, or adviceExamples:
“What you described must have been difficult and painful for you. I feel sad that you had to go though all that junk.”“I respect your courage to do what you did. I feel inspired and hopeful.”
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4. SharesTag shares
Each speaker gets 3 – 5 minutes, then chooses next speaker from among those who raise their hands
No cross-talkSpeaker talks about self, own experience and feelingsNo comments on or reference to another person’s share
VoluntaryShares are voluntaryNo one has to share
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More on Shares
Speaker decides what he or she wants to talk aboutTimer notifies speaker when 1 minute remains for his or her shareTag shares continue until there are no more volunteers - or until 15 minutes remain for the meeting
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5. Closure
Each person has 30 seconds to say a few words on their current emotionsA person who does not wish to speak says “pass”Example: “I’m feeling tired but hopeful. I’m glad to be here tonight.”
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6. Announcements & Closing
Announcements on ASCA meeting business matters and meeting logisticsCollection of contributions
Voluntary, depending on group charterGenerally used for room rental, literature, training, website listing, donations to The Morris Center
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Closing Statement (recited by whole group)
“We have come together to face our past, united in survival, determined to rebuild our lives, by healing the pain, and transforming our shame….”
And so our ASCA meeting closes.
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Final Thoughts
ASCA meetings are a terrific device for sharing and healing The format becomes familiar and easy to manage after one or two run-throughsASCA groups help build a feeling of community - that we are not alone in our journey
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Thank you for taking this tour!
You are on a journey in which you do not have to travel alone any more. You can
do it!
Start your own ASCA meeting.