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The Dessert:
Your view of Reality Your perspective on life Your psychological landscape “The dessert is your life.”
What does it mean?
Words that you use to describe your desert may also be words that you feel describe your life.
A lush hospitable dessert with lots of water or oases indicates optimism. A desert that is harsh and forbidding indicates pessimism.
The way you see your desert can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Desert Decor
Palm trees – sources of support, shelter, nourishment
Water – emotional nourishment Mirages – “life illusions” enjoy fantasy
or mystery, perhaps disapointments in your past, people who have tricked you
Dunes – suggestive of sensuality Mountains – Spirituality, transcendent
experiences
Palm Trees
sources of support, shelter, nourishment
Suggests a trust that the world will provide
Could suggest a “money tree” More palm trees can suggest
affluence of faith in the abundance of the universe
Water
Water – emotional nourishment A presence or feeling of love Excess of water, like an ocean, can
indicate a “life’s a beach” attitude
Mirages
“life illusions” enjoy fantasy or mystery, perhaps disapointments in your past, people who have tricked you
Dunes
Suggestive of sensuality Soft pillowy curves of flesh Can signify a happy love life See the world as welcoming and
motherly
Mountains
Spirituality, transcendent experiences
Snow capped peaks can indicate a spiritual perspective
Cliffs and gullies can indicate strong mood swings or someone who seeks an eventful challenging life.
Nothing
A desert with no “extras” can indicate extreme self-reliance
May indicate that you don’t ask for or expect help
You may choose to “go it alone”
The Cube
Your identity Self-portrait Ego Personality traits An image of you in the world* Remember that your cube is a
snapshot of you in life at this time; it may change over time or in response to life experience.
Turning
Indicates several different sides or moods
Can indicate indecision Bored with sameness Enjoyment of variety
Buried in the Sand
Can indicate seeking concealment “undercover” Avoiding attention Lying in wait to ambush someone
Only one side showing
Showing a public face Desire to control how one is seen Public poise May indicate unusual self-control Compartmentalizes life Conceals emotion
Corner facing
Energetic Active Dynamic and pioneering Slices through red tape, breaks new
ground Can be an exhausting person that is
tireless and great fun
Hovering above the ground
Intuitive, impulses Keeping options open Gap between cube and ground can
signify intuitive leaps in association Reluctance to settle down
On top of a hill or cliff
Noble, uncompromsing Isolated, bitter Trapped like a cat in a tree May hold yourself to high standards Lone crusader mindset
Balancing on edge
Between worlds, “on edge” Resourceful , adaptable Split, rootless, precarious Overlooked Mindset may be dominated by a
“then and now” view
“It’s a pyramid.”
May make a major contribution while taking minimal credit
Unsung heroes Controlled emotions
Size
SMALL
Humility Selflessness Timidity Undervaluing self Realism
LARGE
Confidence Egotism Generosity Adventurousness Self-importance
Texture
Air – someone with permeable or non-existent boundaries
Transformer – someone whose ideas advance humanity
Clay – earthy, cool, sensitive to outside influences
Cloud – purity, somewhat disembodied
Cystal – spiritual
Texture (continued)
Diamond – incisive mind, someone who sheds light on things
Dice – gambler, risk-taker in life Fabric – sensuous, woven of many
influences Jewel – precious Gold – adored child, self-indulgent Silver – self-esteem hard-won
through spiritual quest
Texture (continued)
Steel – introverted, almost indestructable Iron – primitive, powerful Copper – sexy, warm temperamental Titanium – ahead in time, futuristic thinker Plastic – flexible, useful, possibly fake Plexiglass – candor, toughness Rubik’s cube – ingenuity, versatile, clever Stone – associated with craftsmanship Water – emotional, deep-feeling, intuitive
The Ladder
Represents your support network , your wise advisors, your family and friends.
The proximity to the cube and position indicate the closeness and type of relationship.
The number of rungs (steps) indicate the size of your support group.
Ladder Details
Branches – funky, alternative, “Green” friends Step ladder – duality, can lean on the ladder
or stand on its own Broken ladder – can indicate divorce or
divided family Leaning on the cube – you like to be close
and involved with others, possibly overly social
Ladder stands on its own – you like people who are self-sufficient
Ladder far away from cube – you may be a loner or very private person
Ladder Details (continued)
Lying down – low expectations, hanging out, slackers
Ladder shorter than the cube – dominance, leadership, influence
Shorter than the cube – admiration, service, humility, opportunism
Horse Details
Arabian – elegant, high strung, underlying endurance
Black – dark-haired or dark complected lover, someone with “black moods,” powerful romantic bond
Brown – normality, warmth, familial donkey – affectionate exasperation, been
with in a long time Pegasus – flying horse, you are taken away
to a fantasy romance, flight attendant
Horse Details
Gray – cool, mature, a person who is poised or reserved
Mare – motherly, sensitive, nurturing Multiple horses – a roving eye . . . Mustang – street wise, tough,
scrappy Palomino – golden blonde, California
type, casual Pony – a pet, cute, lovable, not
particularly useful
Horse Details
Stallion – bold, dominant, assertive, stong mate
Thoroughbred – competition, a model type, professionally on a fast track
Unicorn – purity enchantment, innocent and otherworldly
White – idealization, knight or damsel on a white horse
Saddled or bridled – you like control in your relationships
The Storm
Represents trouble and stress in your life. The storm swirling immediately over the cube means immediate and pressing problems. Storms that are looming in the distance represent more distant, not immediate problems or stress.
Storm Details
Clouds – depression or apprehension Rain – sadness, greif, discouragement Wind – opposition, opportunity Thunder – conflict, anger, noisy person in
your life during angry times Lightning – breakthrough, possible
inspiration or enlightenment, friction of conflict
Tornadoes – unpredictable violence, trauma that strikes suddenly with no warning
Sandstorms – confusion, painful, overwhelming, you may feel humiliated, mocked, buried under problems
Rainbows – hope , relief, success Storm coming closer – problem headed
your way, but chance to prepare Inside the cube – inner turmoil, cry for help,
most frightening place for the storm to be Out of sight – good fortune, denial, “out of
sight, out of mind”
The Flowers
These represent your children, future children, creative projects, or idealized children.
Flower Details
By the base of the cube – “under your wing”, a common place for young children
On top of the cube – you are supporting the children,
Growing all over the cube – dependent, your pride and joy
Inside the cube – possibly pregnant, filled with longing for a child, overprotective of children
Flower Details
Cut flowers in a vase – disconnected, on display, adopted children
In an oasis – well-provided for, in a safe place
Near/on the ladder – your children are your friends
On the horse – your partner’s prize Eaten by the horse – a demanding
partner, not enough emotional nourishment for your partner
Flower Details
In patches – someone with many different interests or projects
In a field – a leader with many followers