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Welcome toRadical Living
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In this program you will learn: How to make your dreams come true How to remove the #1 biggest obstacle
holding you back The #1 biggest source of relationship conflict The #1 solution to all relationship problems Solving the 7 biggest challenges of Radical Living Our 3 favorite Radical Living exercises 4 do-able steps to achieving your dreams Top 5 strategies of Radical Living
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How can you live your life to the
fullest, with your partner, in the
time you have left on this planet?
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The Hard Truth:
You cannot be happy and successful and
fulfilled living within your comfort zone.
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Comfort Zone= area
between our upper and
lower limits
Fulfillment requires taking
risks and going outside
our comfort zone.
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What is Radical Living?
Radical Living is about… Living your life to the fullest Allowing yourself to be
increasingly happy Putting effort into achieving
your dreams.
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What is your biggest dream for your life?
Ask Yourself
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What is your biggest dream for your life?
How can you keep your life fresh, exciting and continually evolving?
Ask Yourself
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What is your biggest dream for your life?
How can you keep your life fresh, exciting and continually evolving?
What do you want that you are aware of and can conceive right now?
Ask Yourself
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What is your biggest dream for your life?
How can you keep your life fresh, exciting and continually evolving?
What do you want that you are aware of and can conceive right now?
What would you be ecstatic about that you aren’t even aware of yet?
Ask Yourself
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Vision Be aware that there is
more there, and get in touch with what that is.
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Vision Be aware that there is
more there, and get in touch with what that is.
Some things you won’t be able to fully see until you start accomplishing your dreams and desires.
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Vision Be aware that there is
more there, and get in touch with what that is.
Some things you won’t be able to fully see until you start accomplishing your dreams and desires.
You can uncover a lot right now with the help of a few vision exercises.
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So what exactly is Vision?
Your vision is what you want to realize (make real).
Your vision is what you want in your life and relationship.
Your vision helps you reach your wildest dreams and go beyond them.
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Benefits of VisionVision is crucial for
happiness and fulfillment.
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Benefits of VisionVision is crucial for
happiness and fulfillment.
Vision helps you recognize available opportunities and resources.
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Benefits of VisionVision is crucial for
happiness and fulfillment.
Vision helps you recognize available opportunities and resources.
Vision guides you in making your life choices.
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Our #1 biggest obstacle is not external .
Our #1 biggest obstacle is . . .
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Fear
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FearFalse Expectations Appearing Real
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Yes, Yes, Hell NoThree Parts of the Self:
The mind – where cognition, reasoning, and logic reside
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Yes, Yes, Hell NoThree Parts of the Self:
The mind – where cognition, reasoning, and logic resideThe spirit – your intuition or inner voice
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Yes, Yes, Hell NoThree Parts of the Self:
The mind – where cognition, reasoning, and logic resideThe spirit – your intuition or inner voiceThe body – houses your basic, instinctive, reactive emotions, especially fear
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Yes, Yes, Hell NoIf the mind says “Yes!”. . .
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Yes, Yes, Hell NoIf the mind says “Yes!”. . .If the spirit says “Yes!” . . .
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Yes, Yes, Hell NoIf the mind says “Yes!”. . .If the spirit says “Yes!” . . .If your fear says “Hell No!” . . .
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Yes, Yes, Hell NoIf the mind says “Yes!”. . .If the spirit says “Yes!” . . .If your fear says “Hell No!” . . .
You should probably go for it!
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According to Gottman
69% of relationship conflict is due to “unrealized expectations”.
“Unrealized expectations” is another word for vision.
Conflict happens when you have a need, expectation, dream, or vision that isn’t being realized or isn’t being supported by your partner.
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1. Vision – what you want your life to look like
Five Parts of Radical Living
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1. Vision – what you want your life to look like
2. Purpose – your reason for being on this planet
Five Parts of Radical Living
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1. Vision – what you want your life to look like
2. Purpose – your reason for being on this planet
3. Requirements – core foundational needs for your life to work
Five Parts of Radical Living
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1. Vision – what you want your life to look like
2. Purpose – your reason for being on this planet
3. Requirements – core foundational needs for your life to work
4. Needs – what you need to be OK
Five Parts of Radical Living
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1. Vision – what you want your life to look like
2. Purpose – your reason for being on this planet
3. Requirements – core foundational needs for your life to work
4. Needs – what you need to be OK
5. Wants – what makes life fun and enjoyable
Five Parts of Radical Living
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Radical Living together requires:
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Radical Living together requires:
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Radical Living together requires:
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Radical Living together requires:
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Radical Living together requires:
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Exercise #1:
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Example
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What Gets in the Way Skills Attitudes Choices
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Solving the Seven Biggest Challenges
1. Money Couples must work as a team
and get on the same page about money, not work to agree or think the same way.
Money is critical to achieving your vision
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Solving the Seven Biggest Challenges
2. Family We are more desensitized to
our own family than our partner’s family.
As a couple you must figure out how to accommodate the other’s rituals and develop rituals of your own.
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Solving the Seven Biggest Challenges
3. Domestic Issues It’s common to avoid conflict
when it comes to domestic issues and go along with what your partner wants.
Most men think they are doing more than they really are around the house.
Many women interpret doing chores as a sign of love.
Many women feel more sexually responsive when they feel their partner is doing their part.
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Solving the Seven Biggest Challenges
4. Gender Differences Women communicate to connect, men
communicate to get things done.
Women want men to simply listen, men want women to provide information.
Men and women usually don’t want sex at the same time in the same way.
Both partners should initiate sex and connection.
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Solving the Seven Biggest Challenges
5. Adaptations
Adaptations occur when you take on a role, make a choice, or perform a behavior, without really thinking or talking about it.
Adaptations create conflict when they no longer work and eventually come to a head.
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Solving the Seven Biggest Challenges
6. Kids and ParentingYou and your partner will differ
in your approach to raising children
Each partner will have strong opinions about what is best for their kids.
Having a baby is a time of huge transition.
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Solving the Seven Biggest Challenges
7. NeedsA common challenge is
different ways in which individuals feel loved.
Functional needs - chores money, and other necessities of life.
Emotional needs – how we feel loved.
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#1 Solution: The Platinum Rule
The things that make us feel loved are not necessarily those that make our partner feel loved.
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#1 Solution: The Platinum Rule
The things that make us feel loved are not necessarily those that make our partner feel loved.
Do unto others as they want to be done to.
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#1 Solution: The Platinum Rule
The things that make us feel loved are not necessarily those that make our partner feel loved.
Do unto others as they want to be done to.
Be responsive to each other’s functional and emotional needs and give to each other in the ways the other wants.
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Staying Conscious Staying conscious is the best way to prevent the
pain of divorce.
Identify and discuss any areas where you are not in alignment with your partner.
Decisions have long term consequences and you must be aware of the significance of your choices in the present.
Make choices in alignment with your vision and long-term goals.
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3 Levels of ConsciousnessLevel One: Conscious
You are aware and paying attention
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3 Levels of ConsciousnessLevel One: Conscious
You are aware and paying attention
Level Two: Semi-conscious
When you think you know, but actually aren’t paying full attention to reality
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3 Levels of ConsciousnessLevel One: Conscious
You are aware and paying attention
Level Two: Semi-conscious
When you think you know, but actually aren’t paying full attention to reality
Level Three: Unconscious
You are awake but not paying attention, on automatic pilot
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Key Questions
Are you willing to do what it takes in your relationship
together to achieve that?
What do you need to achieve that?
What do you want for your preferred lifestyle as you get
older?
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Exercise#2: Your Perfect Day
Variations:
• Now and 10 years from now
• Weekday and weekend day
• Vacation day
• Perfect date
• Day with family
• Birthday and other holidays
• Alone and with partner
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Four Steps to Achieving Your Vision
Step 1 – Identify your individual vision
Explore the purpose of your life, your values, and the lifestyle that you want to live.
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Four Steps to Achieving Your Vision
Step 2 – Create a shared vision Get together with your partner and see how
your individual visions fit together and create a shared vision.
Great activity for your Radical Marriage retreat!
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Four Steps to Achieving Your Vision
Step 3 – Develop a Plan Use the Relationship Journal to identify any
challenges, then determine whether each challenge is a requirement, need, or want.
Focus on the requirements first and develop a goal around that challenge.
Develop an action plan and determine whose responsibility it is to implement each item.
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Four Steps to Achieving Your Vision
Step 4 – Implement and Follow Up Make plans and agreements, implement them,
and follow up by checking in with each other regularly on your progress.
Develop a written relationship plan to help you with this step.
Review quarterly in your Radical Marriage retreat
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Exercise#3: Your Relationship Plan
CATEGORY
STATUS CHALLENGE
GOAL ACTION PLAN
START DATE
OWNER CHECK IN DATE
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Five Strategies for Radical Living
STRATEGY #1: DREAMGive yourself permission to dream. Realize that not only can you achieve your dream but you can go far beyond that.
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Five Strategies for Radical Living
STRATEGY #2: STAY IN THE QUESTIONAsk powerful questions and stay in inquiry. Continue asking the question even when the answer isn’t clear. Stay in the question and you will discover alternatives and answers and support that you didn’t know was possible.
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Five Strategies for Radical Living
STRATEGY #3: GET SUPPORTWhen you’re having trouble, find someone who can either open the door for you or show you how to open it yourself.
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Five Strategies for Radical Living
STRATEGY #4: KEEP MOVING FORWARDIf you’re not moving forward, you’re moving backwards. Don’t stop dreaming. There is always another mountain after you’ve reached the top of the one you’re currently climbing.
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Five Strategies for Radical Living
STRATEGY #5: BELIEVETake a leap of faith and believe that you can be loved for exactly who you are and that you can be fully supported to live the life that you really want.
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You’re in this Together
To achieve your vision you need the support of your partner and work together as a team.
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Radical Living requires… An attitude of we are in this
together, no matter what. Taking 100% responsibility Going for it to live your best life. Clear vision of what you want your
life together to look like Defining, growing, and evolving your
dreams
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Make your life together your greatest
adventure
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