Welcome To Pastor Garry Clark’s PowerPoint presentation from

the May 20th sermon:

Hallmark: Kid Moments!

Welcome To Pastor Garry Clark’s PowerPoint presentation from

the May 20th sermon:

Hallmark: Kid Moments!

Information on ordering a DVD copy of this sermon

will be available at the end of this presentation

Information on ordering a DVD copy of this sermon

will be available at the end of this presentation

What Does The Word

“Hallmark” Mean?

What Does The Word

“Hallmark” Mean?• An official mark or stamp indicating a standard of purity• It is used in marking gold or silver by goldsmiths in London• It is used to mark an article, indicating it’s origin, authenticity and quality• It’s a stamp or imprint signifying quality, excellence and accuracy

How Can We Mark Our

Children 99.999% Fine?

How Can We Mark Our

Children 99.999% Fine?

Valued Quality An Original Excellent

How Can We Let Them Know That

They Are…

How Can We Let Them Know That

They Are…

Parents, Listen Up!Parents,

Listen Up!Nobody can

love your child like you

can!

Nobody can love your

child like you can!

Parents, Listen Up!Parents,

Listen Up!Nobody can

care likeyou can!

Nobody can care likeyou can!

Parents, Listen Up!Parents,

Listen Up!Nobody can connect like

you can!

Nobody can connect like

you can!

Parents, Listen Up!Parents,

Listen Up!Nobody can invest likeyou can!

Nobody can invest likeyou can!

Parents, Listen Up!Parents,

Listen Up!Nobody can “Hallmark” them likeyou can!

Nobody can “Hallmark” them likeyou can!

It is your responsibility!

It is the greatest opportunity in your

life!

To “Hallmark” your child for the glory of

God is the Will of God for your life!

It is your responsibility!

It is the greatest opportunity in your

life!

To “Hallmark” your child for the glory of

God is the Will of God for your life!

Proverbs 22:6Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

We Often Think Of This Verse As

Saying…

We Often Think Of This Verse As

Saying…• Raise your kid as God fearing, Church going kids• Have them attempt Sunday School, VBS, Church Camps, etc.• Always make them carry their Bible• Make sure they know the 10 Commandments• Get’em saved as early as possible• Make them say their prayers before they go to bed and before they eat

We Often Think Of This Verse As

Saying…

We Often Think Of This Verse As

Saying…Most likely they will

sow some wild oats and even rebel, but when they are older (maybe even really old) they’ll

come back toJesus Christ…

Most likely they will sow some wild oats and

even rebel, but when they are older (maybe even really old) they’ll

come back toJesus Christ…

We Often Think Of This Verse As

Saying…

We Often Think Of This Verse As

Saying…“…but only if you

raised them right!!!”

“…but only if you raised them

right!!!”

Is that what this verse

is really saying?

Does that bring you much comfort and

hope?

IT DOESN’T ME!

Is that what this verse

is really saying?

Does that bring you much comfort and

hope?

IT DOESN’T ME!

Proverbs 22:6Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Let’s take a look at

this verse, breaking it down to an expanded Hebrew

translation…

Let’s take a look at

this verse, breaking it down to an expanded Hebrew

translation…

“Cultivate a thirst, initiate a hunger,

create an appetite for spiritual things in the lives of your children of any age, as long as they are living under

your roof...”

“Cultivate a thirst, initiate a hunger,

create an appetite for spiritual things in the lives of your children of any age, as long as they are living under

your roof...”

“…And do it in the way they are bent,

disciplining the disobedience and the evil, while affirming and encouraging the good, the artistic and

the beautiful…”

“…And do it in the way they are bent,

disciplining the disobedience and the evil, while affirming and encouraging the good, the artistic and

the beautiful…”

“…As children begin to grow into adults, their paths will be

aimed directly toward the Lord, and they

will continue to walk in His Sovereignty.”

“…As children begin to grow into adults, their paths will be

aimed directly toward the Lord, and they

will continue to walk in His Sovereignty.”

This Proverb isnot saying if you do

“X” I will do “Y”

This Proverb isnot saying if you do

“X” I will do “Y”

Raising kids is notan exact science

Raising kids is notan exact science

This proverb is a principle for livingThis proverb is a

principle for living

Unfortunately, as long as we live in a

sinful world, our best efforts are

sometimes met with failure!

Unfortunately, as long as we live in a

sinful world, our best efforts are

sometimes met with failure!

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

Remember this:“You don’t become

a goldsmith through wand

waving!”

IT TAKES WORK!

Remember this:“You don’t become

a goldsmith through wand

waving!”

IT TAKES WORK!

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOW YOUR KIDS

To do this, you need tospend time with them.

Time spent with your kids says:

“I Matter To Mom & Dad!”

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOWTHE WORD OF GOD

To do this, you need tospend time in the Word.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOWTHE WORD OF GOD

Psalm 119:33-3533 Teach me, O LORD, the way of thy statutes; and I shall keep it unto the end.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOWTHE WORD OF GOD

Psalm 119:33-3534 Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law; yea, I shall observe it with my whole heart.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOWTHE WORD OF GOD

Psalm 119:33-3535 Make me to go in the path of thy commandments; for therein do I delight.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOWTHE WORD OF GOD

Psalm 119:33-35105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOWTHE WORD OF GOD

Psalm 119:130130 The entrance of thy words giveth light; it giveth understanding unto the simple.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO KNOWTHE WORD OF GOD

Time spent in the Word of God says: “I matter to God

and He matters to me!”

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO SHARE WHATYOU KNOW WITH YOUR KIDS

Deuteronomy 6:5-75 And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO SHARE WHATYOU KNOW WITH YOUR KIDS

Deuteronomy 6:5-76 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsKnowledgeKnowledge

YOU NEED TO SHARE WHATYOU KNOW WITH YOUR KIDS

Deuteronomy 6:5-77 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

A child feels loved when their parents take time to

correct them

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Proverbs 13:24He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Your children need to hear:“You’re not going to do this or

that!”

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Your children need to hear:“You’re not going to get

away with doing what you did!”

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Your children need to hear:“It ain’t happening!”

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Proverbs 22:15Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Without discipline, yourchild will be left to drift

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

He will not have aim or direction, and will feel

disconnected

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Proverbs 23:13-1413 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDisciplineYOU NEED TO

DISCIPLINE YOUR KIDS

Proverbs 23:13-1414 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

BUT WE’RENOT TALKING

ABOUT ABUSE!

BUT WE’RENOT TALKING

ABOUT ABUSE!

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Ephesians 6:4And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Abuse LeavesHELL-MARKS!Abuse Leaves

HELL-MARKS!

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Discipline Leaves

HALLMARKS!

Discipline Leaves

HALLMARKS!

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Abuse is CruelDiscipline Corrects

Abuse is CruelDiscipline Corrects

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Abuse is UnfairDiscipline is FairAbuse is Unfair

Discipline is Fair

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Abuse is Too Harsh

Discipline is Reasonable

Abuse is Too Harsh

Discipline is Reasonable

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Abuse Leaves Marks

Discipline is Restrained

Abuse Leaves Marks

Discipline is Restrained

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

Abuse DamagesSelf -Worth

Discipline Affirms

Abuse DamagesSelf -Worth

Discipline Affirms

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

NEVER PUNISH IMMATURITY

NEVER PUNISH IMMATURITY

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

The purpose of disciplining your child

is to reestablish authority, by

temporarily breaking their will –

but NEVER their spirit!

The purpose of disciplining your child

is to reestablish authority, by

temporarily breaking their will –

but NEVER their spirit!

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsDisciplineDiscipline

If you break yourchild’s spirit, theywill feel valueless!

NEVER GO THERE!

If you break yourchild’s spirit, theywill feel valueless!

NEVER GO THERE!

A HOPELESSCHILD HASNO HOPE!

A HOPELESSCHILD HASNO HOPE!

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsBuildBuild

Psalm 139:13-1413 For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb. 14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsBuildBuild

Know who you are, Accept who you are and Be who you are!

Know who you are, Accept who you are and Be who you are!

Are You A Builder?

Are You A Builder?I saw them tearing

a building down,A group of men in a busy town,

With a hefty blow and a zesty yell,They swung with zest, and a side wall fell.

I saw them tearing a building down,A group of men in a busy town,

With a hefty blow and a zesty yell,They swung with zest, and a side wall fell.

Are You A Builder?

Are You A Builder?Asked of the foreman,

“Are these men skilled?The kind you would hire, if you had to build?”

He looked at me, and laughed, “No indeed!

Unskilled labor is all I need.

Asked of the foreman, “Are these men skilled?The kind you would hire, if you had to build?”

He looked at me, and laughed, “No indeed!

Unskilled labor is all I need.

Are You A Builder?

Are You A Builder?

Why, they can wreck in a day or two,

What it has taken builders years to do.

Why, they can wreck in a day or two,

What it has taken builders years to do.

Are You A Builder?

Are You A Builder?

I asked myself, as I went my way,

Which of the roles have I tried to play?

I asked myself, as I went my way,

Which of the roles have I tried to play?

Are You A Builder?

Are You A Builder?

Am I a builder with rule and square,

Measuring and constructing with skill and care?

Am I a builder with rule and square,

Measuring and constructing with skill and care?

Are You A Builder?

Are You A Builder?

Or am I a wrecker who walks the town,

Content with the business of tearing down?

Or am I a wrecker who walks the town,

Content with the business of tearing down?

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsBuildBuild

TEACH THEM TO BE REAL

Phony parents build phony kids!

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsBuildBuild

NEVER PUT YOUR KIDS DOWN

Romans 14:10But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.

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COMMUNICATE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE TO

YOUR KIDSEphesians 4:1-31 I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsBuildBuild

COMMUNICATE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE TO

YOUR KIDSEphesians 4:1-32 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;

3 Ways To Hallmark Your Kids

3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsBuildBuild

COMMUNICATE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE TO

YOUR KIDS

Ephesians 4:1-33 Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

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3 Ways To Hallmark Your KidsBuildBuild

LISTEN TO THE ULTIMATE FATHER - GOD

Matthew 3:16-1716 And Jesus, when he was baptized, went up straightway out of the water: and, lo, the heavens were opened unto him, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove, and lighting upon him:

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LISTEN TO THE ULTIMATE FATHER - GOD

Matthew 3:16-1717 And lo a voice from heaven, saying, This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.

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