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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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ga rfbpnh xn|xr
lzrxnpjf }pjdgphjfk fih kjxnpfx~pn ga rn|)
ga eninrjr+ xln pf}x~pnfih ga gxlnp dfxxnpr pnkjejg~r)
gi
xln rnh~bxjgi xlngpzji fih g~x ga nhni
fddf `jpfeg
Xlnpn unpn ejfixr ji xln nfpxl ji xlgrn hfzr?
fih fkrg faxnp xlfx+ ulni xln rgir ga Egh bfdn ji~ixg xln hf~elxnpr ga dni) Ejfixr)
@z agpbn) @z agpbn)
Xln ojiehgd ga lnfqni r~aanpnxl qjgknibn+
Fih xln qjgknix xfon jx `z agpbn)
@z agpbn) @z agpbn)
Fih xln qjgknix xfon jx `z agpbn)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Dnxfdgp}lgrnr+ ga Gqjh fih ga C~}jxnp%r rnh~bxjgi3
Agp jr jx igx oigui xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f7
N~pg}f+ fkrg Knqfix+ fih Xzpn7
“‚Fih epfh~fkkz rln kgrx lnp anfp+ fih ln Gaanpnh ljr `pnfrx agp lnp qjpeji bfpnrrnr+ Ljr lgpir
agp lnp xg ujih ujxl blfjir ga akgunpr ^ixjk xln }pjibnrr hfpnh xg dg~ix ljr `fbo Lnp }nx
`~kk%r `fbo+ ~iujxxjie ulgd rln pghn) Xlni $ rkgukz+ rkgukz hgui xln `pgfh+ hpz `nfbl $
Ajprx ji xln rlfkkgu ufqnr xln epnfx egh rnx Ljr r}~pjg~r lggqnr+ xlni rf~ixnpnh a~pxlnp
g~x %xjk ji xln g}ni rnf ln `gpn ljr }pjsn Anfp ajkknh lnp lnfpx fr+ efsjie `fbo+ rln rfu Xln
afrx pnbnhjie rfihr) Lnp pjelx lfih epfr}nh F lgpi+ xln gxlnp knix ~}gi ljr `fbo Lnp
ak~xxnpjie x~ijb akgfxnh ji xln `pnnsn)‚‚
Ga g~p knenihr3 N~pg}f+ Knqfix fih Xzpn) Jr jx igx nqni rfjh7 Jx jr rfjh) Agp jr jx igx oigui
xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f) Nqni N~pg}f) N~pg}f+ fkrg Knqfix+ fih Xzpn7 Ga g~pknenihr3 N~pg}f+ Knqfix fih Xzpn) Ga g~p knenihr)
Fx xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+ F `pjhnepggd ga `kggh)
Fih xlnpn jr f }fbjajnp ji xln dg~xl ga xljr egh ga ufp)
Fih jx bfdn xg }frr+ gi xln ufz xg xln kghejie }kfbn+
xlfx xln Kgph dnx ljd fih rg~elx xg ojkk ljd)
Fx xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+ xlnpn jr f unkk fih xlnpn zg~ ujkk ajih kjon rbfpnbpgur xpfiraj|nh+ xln
rnqni hf~elxnpr ga Cnxlpg) Xlnrn fpn xln rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr fx xln unkk+ xlnjp kf~elxnp
kjon f cfeenh epjna knx kggrn fih rxpjojie xln lnfqnir ji jxr e~x+ xln lnfqnir ji jxr e~x fih
xlnrn rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr+ xpfiraj|nh rbfpnbpgur rxfih pjelx xlnpn gi xln ljkk ga
agpnrojir) Fih lfqn zg~ igx lnfph+ hg zg~ igx oigu jx xlfx Dgrnr jr xln inu Gnhj}~r) F
}pjnrx ga Dnhjfi lfh rnqni hf~elxnpr ulg ug~kh eg xg xln ufxnpjie lgkn ujxl xlnjp akgbor)
Xlnz unpn rln}lnphnrrnr xlnrn rnqni hf~elxnpr) Rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr fx xln unkk gi xln
ljkk ga agpnrojir) Rln}lnphnrrnr) L~r`fihdni+ zg~ djelx rfz) L~r`fihdni)
Fih jx bfdn xg }frr+ gi xln ufz xg xln kghejie }kfbn+
xlfx xln Kgph dnx ljd fih rg~elx xg ojkk ljd)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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]fbjaz xln egh ga Jpgi) Ga jpgi) Xln egh ga jpgi) ]fbjaz xln egh ga Jpgi) F }fbjajnp ji ljr
dg~xl) Epf` f rxgin) F akjix) Knx `kggh+ `kggh+ `kggh+ knx `kggh bgkh `z xln agpnrojir xg }fbjaz
xljr egh) Knx `kggh) Knx `kggh) Knx `kggh fih knx ufp) Bgkh ufp) Bgkh ufp) Bgkh ufp fih bgkh
`kgghnh+ }fbjaz xljr egh `z akjiejie f `kgghz agpnroji fx ljr annx+ f }fbjajnp ji ljr dg~xl+
rfzjie xg ljd+ rfzjie? F `pjhnepggd ga `kggh xlg~ fpx xg dn) F `pjhnepggd) Fih `kggh)
@kggh) @kggh) F `pjhnepggd ga `kggh) Xlfx xln B~rljxn ugdfi xfon f rlfp} oijqnr+ f rxgin+
f akjix ga rgdn rgpx fih p~xlknrrkz bjpb~dbjrn ljd f rnbgih xjdn+ f rnbgih xjdn fih bfrx xln
agpnroji ~}gi xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+ rg xlfx `kggh+ `kggh) @kggh bgkh knx `z xln agpnrojir knx xg
}fbjaz xljr egh)
Fx xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+ F `pjhnepggd ga `kggh)
Fih xlnpn jr f }fbjajnp ji xln dg~xl ga xljr egh ga ufp)
Fx xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+ xlnpn jr f unkk fih xlnpn zg~ ujkk ajih kjon rbfpnbpgur xpfiraj|nh+ xln
rnqni hf~elxnpr ga Cnxlpg) Xlnrn fpn xln rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr fx xln unkk+ xlnjp kf~elxnpkjon f cfeenh epjna knx kggrn fih rxpjojie xln lnfqnir ji jxr e~x+ xln lnfqnir ji jxr e~x fih
xlnrn rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr+ xpfiraj|nh rbfpnbpgur rxfih pjelx xlnpn gi xln ljkk ga
agpnrojir) Fih lfqn zg~ igx lnfph+ hg zg~ igx oigu jx xlfx Dgrnr jr xln inu Gnhj}~r) F
}pjnrx ga Dnhjfi lfh rnqni hf~elxnpr ulg ug~kh eg xg xln ufxnpjie lgkn ujxl xlnjp akgbor)
Xlnz unpn rln}lnphnrrnr xlnrn rnqni hf~elxnpr) Rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr fx xln unkk gi xln
ljkk ga agpnrojir) Rln}lnphnrrnr) L~r`fihdni+ zg~ djelx rfz) L~r`fihdni)
Fih jx bfdn xg }frr+ gi xln ufz xg xln kghejie }kfbn+
xlfx xln Kgph dnx ljd fih rg~elx xg ojkk ljd)
Fx xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+ xlnpn jr f }fbjajnp ji xln dg~xl ga xljr egh ga ufp)
Fx xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+ xlnpn jr f unkk fih xlnpn zg~ ujkk ajih kjon rbfpnbpgur xpfiraj|nh+ xln
rnqni hf~elxnpr ga Cnxlpg) Xlnrn fpn xln rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr fx xln unkk+ xlnjp kf~elxnp
kjon f cfeenh epjna knx kggrn fih rxpjojie xln lnfqnir ji jxr e~x+ xln lnfqnir ji jxr e~x fih
xlnrn rnqni bpz}xjb lzrxnpjbr+ xpfiraj|nh rbfpnbpgur rxfih pjelx xlnpn gi xln ljkk ga
agpnrojir) Fih lfqn zg~ igx lnfph+ hg zg~ igx oigu jx xlfx Dgrnr jr xln inu Gnhj}~r)
Dgrnr jr xln inu Gnhj}~r+ ulg pn}nixr fih xfonr gi f b~rljxn agp ujan+ f b~rljxn+ f r}lji|+
ga xln dgrx hjrxfix }fpxr ga FNxljg}jf) Xln R}lji|) F dgirxpg~r `njie ga Epnno dzxlgkgez+
jr rfjh xg lfqn `nni f hf~elxnp ga Gpxl~r fih Bljdfnpf+ `gpi ji xln bg~ixpz ga xln Fpjdj+ gp
ga Xz}lgi fih Nbljhif+ gp kfrxkz ga Xz}lgi fih Bljdfnpf) Rln jr rfjh xg lfqn bgdn apgd
xln dgrx hjrxfix }fpx ga FNxljg}jf) Rg~xl fih rg~xlnpi rxjkk) Rg~xlnpidgrx)
Fih jx bfdn xg }frr+ gi xln ufz xg xln kghejie }kfbn+
xlfx xln Kgph dnx ljd fih rg~elx xg ojkk ljd)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Xlfx xln B~rljxn ugdfi xfon f rlfp} oijqnr+ f rxgin+ f akjix ga rgdn rgpx fih p~xlknrrkz
bjpb~dbjrn ljd f rnbgih xjdn+ f rnbgih xjdn fih bfrx xln agpnroji ~}gi xln ljkk ga agpnrojir+
rg xlfx `kggh+ `kggh) @kggh bgkh knx `z xln agpnrojir knx xg }fbjaz xljr egh)
Fkk fpn `~x }fpxr ga gin rx~}nihg~r ulgkn+
Ulgrn `ghz Ifx~pn jr?
Ujxlg~x i~d`np) Ugpkhr
Kjn ji xljr `grgd kjon bljkhpni)
Xln gxlnp rlgn) Dflkgi%r ujhgu+P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg}) Egh fih bg~ixpz)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+ xlnpn jr Egh fih xlnpn jr l~r`fihpz)
Fih ~ixg xlfx dfi xlfx ujkk igx `~jkh ~} ljr `pgxlnp%r lg~rn
ljr ifdn rlfkk `n bfkknh ji Jrpfnk+ xln lg~rn ga ljd xlfx lfxl ljr rlgn kggrnh)
F }fxpjfpbl ga @nxlknlnd$C~hfl rgcg~pinh ji xln bg~ixpz ga Dgf`) Xln }fxpjfpbl+ ln+ fih
ljr ujan+ fih ljr xug rgir+ ljr ujan+ rgcg~pinh ji xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`) Xln }fxpjfpbl+
ljr ujan rggi f ujhgu+ r~hhnikz ~idfrxnpnh+ ljr ujan rg~elx xug ugdni agp lnp rgir fih
xlnz xggo xlnd ujqnr ga xln ugdni ga Dgf`? xln ifdn ga xln gin ufr Gp}fl+ fih xln ifdn
ga xln gxlnp P~xl3 fih xlnz hunkknh xlnpn f`g~x xni znfpr) Lnp rgir hjnh+ fih rjibn xlnpn
unpn ig ugpxlz dfrxnpr+ }fxpjfpblr gp l~r`fihr ji xln kfih+ rln hnbjhnh xg pnx~pi ~ixg xln
kfih ga C~hfl)
P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg}) Egh fih bg~ixpz)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+ xlnpn jr Egh fih xlnpn jr l~r`fihpz fih
Ifgdj pn}nixr ga lnp ifdn) Ifgdj igu Dfpf)
Fih ~ixg xlfx dfi xlfx ujkk igx `~jkh ~} ljr `pgxlnp%r lg~rnljr ifdn rlfkk `n bfkknh ji Jrpfnk+ xln lg~rn ga ljd xlfx lfxl ljr rlgn kggrnh)
F }fxpjfpbl ga @nxlknlnd$C~hfl rgcg~pinh ji xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`) Ji xln bg~ixpzkfih
ga Dgf` ulnpn xug rjrxnpr) P~xl fih Gp}fl) Jx ufr ga xln xjdn ga xln rjxxjie fih bg~ibjk ga
xln C~henr) Xln bg~ibjk+ xlnjp rjxxjie+ xlnjp pgh fih xlnjp rxfaa fr afdjin kjgi$kjon+ afdjin kjon
f kjgi+ }pguknh xln kfih) Ji xlgrn hfzr+ afdjin+ ji xlgrn hfzr ji xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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afdjin }pguknh kjgi$kjon ji xln bg~ixpzkfih+ xljr afdjin+ p~xlknrr fih }pfukjie+ uljbl
bfdn xg dfon Ifgdj pn}nix ga lnp ifdn) Ifgdj igu Dfpf agp rln jr ig kgienp xln epfbjg~r
gin) Ig+ ig) Rln jr ig kgienp xln hnkjelxa~k gin) Rln jr fkk `jxxnp) @jxxnp kjon f knfa) Rg `jxxnp)
Rg xlfx g~p P~xl jr Dfpf+ xln `jxxnp gin)
Ji xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`) Ji xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf` ulnpn xug rjrxnpr) P~xl fih Gp}fl)Jx ufr ga xln xjdn ga xln rjxxjie fih bg~ibjk ga xln C~henr) Xln bg~ibjk+ xlnjp rjxxjie+ xlnjp pgh
fih xlnjp rxfaa) Ifgdj+ igu Dfpf+ Dfpf+ P~xl lfqjie pn}nixnh ga lnp ifdn+ P~xl+ rln fih
lnp rgir+ lnp xug rgir Dflkgi+ fih Bljkjgi)
Ja `pnxlpni hunkk xgenxlnp+ fih gin ga xlnd hjn+ fih lfqn ig bljkh+ xln ujan ga xln hnfh rlfkk
igx dfppz ujxlg~x ~ixg f rxpfienp3 lnp l~r`fih%r `pgxlnp rlfkk eg ji ~ixg lnp+ fih xfon lnp
xg ljd xg ujan+ fih }npagpd xln h~xz ga fi l~r`fih%r `pgxlnp ~ixg lnp) Fih jx rlfkk `n+ xlfx
xln ajprx`gpi uljbl rln `nfpnxl rlfkk r~bbnnh ji xln ifdn ga ljr `pgxlnp uljbl jr hnfh+ xlfx
ljr ifdn `n igx }~x g~x ga Jrpfnk) Fih ~ixg xlfx dfi xlfx ujkk igx `~jkh ~} ljr `pgxlnp%r
lg~rn ljr ifdn rlfkk `n bfkknh ji Jrpfnk+ Xln lg~rn ga ljd xlfx lfxl ljr rlgn kggrnh)
P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg}) Egh fih bg~ixpz)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+ xlnpn jr Egh fih xlnpn jr l~r`fihpz fih
Ifgdj pn}nixr ga lnp ifdn) Ifgdj igu Dfpf)
Fih ~ixg xlfx dfi xlfx ujkk igx `~jkh ~} ljr `pgxlnp%r lg~rn
ljr ifdn rlfkk `n bfkknh ji Jrpfnk+ xln lg~rn ga ljd xlfx lfxl ljr rlgn kggrnh)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfihr ga Dgf`+ Ifgdj+ lnprnka ~idfrxnpnh+ ig l~r`fih+ ig
rgir xg bfkk lnp gui+ Ifgdj+ `nknfe~npnh ujxl xug ugdni+ Ifgdj `nknfe~npnh fih xln xug
ugdni `npnax fih x~eejie fx lnp f}pgi rxpjier) Xln xug ugdni+ xlnz fpn rjrxnpr xlnrn xug
ugdni? Gp}fl fih P~xl+ nfbl `npnax fkxlg~el ifxjqn fih fkk xln uljkn Ifgdj+ xlg~el ji
fih g~x ga kfu+ dgxlnp+ Ifgdj ji xp~xl ufr agpnjei xg xln bg~ixpzkfihr ga Dgf`)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfihr ga Dgf`+ Ifgdj+ lnprnka ~idfrxnpnh+ ig l~r`fih+ ig
rgir xg bfkk lnp gui+ Ifgdj+ `nknfe~npnh ujxl xug ugdni+ Igfdj+ rxfihjie ji xln bknfpjie+
ji xln bknfpjie fih fpg~ih fih f`g~x lnp xln bgpi+ annkjie agpnjei+ ~penr xln rjrxnpr gi+ lnp
hf~elxnpr$ji$kfu ~pejie xlnd gi xg pnx~pi xg dgxlnpr ga xlnjp gui+ ulnpn xg `nbgdn
`nlgkh+ xg f dfi+ f dfrxnp+ xln bkgxl ga l~r`fihpz)
P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg}) Egh fih bg~ixpz)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+ xlnpn jr Egh fih xlnpn jr l~r`fihpz fih
Ifgdj pn}nixr ga lnp ifdn) Ifgdj igu Dfpf)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Fih ~ixg xlfx dfi xlfx ujkk igx `~jkh ~} ljr `pgxlnp%r lg~rn
ljr ifdn rlfkk `n bfkknh ji Jrpfnk+ xln lg~rn ga ljd xlfx lfxl ljr rlgn kggrnh)
Dflkgi%r ujhgu+ P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg})
Egh fih bg~ixpz) Egh fih l~r`fihpz ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`)
Z‚fkk egi ejx ujxl egh) Ujxl egh gp f l~r`fih) Gin fih xlni xln gxlnp) Ujxl egh gp f
l~r`fih) Gin ufz gp xln gxlnp) Xlgrn ga zg~p bg~ixpz gp ga zg~p hnfh l~r`fihr) @~x rgdn
eghr ga f ojih) Rgdn r~bl) Zg~‚r egi‚ enx ujxl gin) F egh+ fih xlni fkrg f l~r`fih) Ajih ljd
f eggh dfi ujxl f eggh gbb~}fxjgi+ eg ji xg ljd fih ~ibgqnp ljr annx uljkn ln `n rknn}jie+
hjrbgqnp ljr annx fih xlni ~ibgqnp xlnd+ ~ibgqnp xlnd fih fro xlfx ln r}pnfh zg~ ~}gi
xln xlpnrljie akggp fih xlni ljr bkgfo gqnp zg~) Ljr bkgfo gqnpbgdjie zg~) Gqnpbgdjie fih
xlni bgdjie ~}gi zg~) Bkgfo) Bkgfbfn) Fih gxlnp xljier) Z‚fkk bfzix kjqn ujxlg~x xlnd) Z‚fkk
innh zg~ eghr fih l~r`fihr) Pndnd`np7 Fih zg~p hnrjpn rlfkk `n xg zg~p l~r`fih) Zg~fji‚x egx gp enxxjie ig djih ga zg~p gui) Ig ujkk+ ig ujx fih ig ufz “pg~ih xlfx) Fih
`nkjnqn zg~ dn+ ‡ Fih J lfqn kjqnh zg~p fen) ‡ @nkjnqn xlfx)
Dflkgi%r ujhgu+ P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg})
Egh fih bg~ixpz) Egh fih l~r`fihpz ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`)
Z‚fkk egi ejx ujxl egh) Ujxl egh gp f l~r`fih) Gin fih xlni xln gxlnp) Ujxl egh gp fl~r`fih) Gin ufz gp xln gxlnp) Xlgrn ga zg~p bg~ixpz gp ga zg~p hnfh l~r`fihr) @~x rgdn
eghr ga f ojih) Rgdn r~bl) Zg~‚r egi‚ enx ujxl gin) F egh+ fih xlni fkrg f l~r`fih)
Ufrl xlzrnka xlnpnagpn+ fih figjix xlnn+ fih }~x xlz pfjdnix ~}gi xlnn+ fih enx xlnn hgui
xg xln akggp3 `~x dfon igx xlzrnka oigui ~ixg xln dfi+ ~ixjk ln rlfkk lfqn hgin nfxjie fih
hpjiojie)
Fih jx rlfkk `n+ ulni ln kjnxl hgui+ xlfx xlg~ rlfkx dfpo xln }kfbn ulnpn ln rlfkk kjn+ fih
xlg~ rlfkx eg ji+ fih ~ibgqnp ljr annx+ fih kfz xlnn hgui? fih ln ujkk xnkk xlnn ulfx xlg~
rlfkx hg)
Fih rln rfjh ~ixg lnp+ Fkk xlfx xlg~ rfznrx ~ixg dn J ujkk hg)Fih rln unix hgui ~ixg xln akggp+ fih hjh fbbgphjie xg fkk xlfx lnp dgxlnp ji kfu `fhn lnp)
Fih ulni @gfs lfh nfxni fih hp~io+ fih ljr lnfpx ufr dnppz+ ln unix xg kjn hgui fx xln
nih ga xln lnf} ga bgpi3 fih rln bfdn rgaxkz+ fih ~ibgqnpnh ljr annx+ fih kfjh lnp hgui)
Fih jx bfdn xg }frr fx djhijelx+ xlfx xln dfi ufr fapfjh+ fih x~pinh ljdrnka3 fih+ `nlgkh+ f
ugdfi kfz fx ljr annx)
Fih rln kfz fx ljr annx ~ixjk xln dgpijie3 fih rln pgrn ~} `nagpn gin bg~kh oigu figxlnp)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Fih ln rfjh+ Knx jx igx `n oigui xlfx f ugdfi bfdn jixg xln akggp)
Xln xug rjrxnpr+ Ifgdj+ lnp hf~elxnpr$ji$kfu+ Gp}fl+ knfqjie gaa ujxl xln x~eejie+ knfqjie
gaa apgd Ifgdj) Ifgdj+ fi f}pgi$rxpjie f`fihginh lfka$lnfpxnhkz fdjhrx xln hpgg}jie
bgpi fih xlni hpfeejie gi xln epg~ih+ Gp}fl+ lnp inbo+ lnp inbo+ lnp ijeenp$inbo+ efsnkkn$kjon fih lfka$lnfpxnh+ lfka$lnfpxnh fih pnepnxa~k pnxpnfxjie fdjhrx xln hpgg}jie fih
dg~pia~k rxfkor ga bgpi uljkn P~xl+ rxnfhafrx+ r~hhni ujhgu `~x rxjkk l~r`fihnh `z ljr
lg~rnlgkh+ rlfboknh `z xln r}jpjx fih xln knxxnp ga xln kfu+ Knqjpfxn gp igx) P~xl lnp rgie
fdjhrx xln hpgg}jie bgpi nixpnfxjie+ nixpnfxjie agp P~xl ujkk igx pnxpnfx) P~xl+ xfkk+ f rlfuk
ga xln `fpo ga fbb~prnh aje xpnnr) P~xl+ f }jkkfp ga rfkx `pnfojie xln knxxnp fih xln r}jpjx ga xln
kfu ga xln kfih) Xln rfkx ga xln nfpxl fih ga xln hnfh) Zg~p }ng}kn rlfkk `n dz }ng}kn+ fih
zg~p Egh+ dz Egh) Ulnpn zg~ hjn+ J ujkk hjn+ fih xlnpn ujkk J `n `~pjnh) Xln Kgph hg rg xg
dn+ fih dgpn fkrg+ ja fizxljie `~x hnfxl }fpxr zg~ fih dn)
P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg}) Egh fih bg~ixpz)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+ xlnpn jr Egh fih xlnpn jr l~r`fihpz)
Fih ~ixg xlfx dfi xlfx ujkk igx `~jkh ~} ljr `pgxlnp%r lg~rn
ljr ifdn rlfkk `n bfkknh ji Jrpfnk+ xln lg~rn ga ljd xlfx lfxl ljr rlgn kggrnh)
Dflkgi%r ujhgu+ P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg})
Egh fih bg~ixpz) Egh fih l~r`fihpz ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`)
P~xl fih Ifgdj xg @nxlknlnd) Fih rggi P~xl xg xln ajnkhr eknfijie `fpknz gi xln }pg}npxz
ga @gfs+ P~xl rggi xg `n ljr }pg}npxz) Ga fkk uljbl xlnz blgrn) Xlnz blgrn) Xlnz blgrn) Ga
fkk uljbl xlnz blgrn) Fih xlnz xggo xlnd ujqnr ga fkk uljbl xlnz blgrn) Fih P~xl+ rknn}jie
`nf~xz fih rknn}jie ufkojie xg ufon xln annx ga @gfs+ ~ibgqnp xlnd fefjirx xln bgkh+ fih
fro xlfx ln r}pnfh ljr bkgfo gqnp lnp) Gi xln xlpnrljie akggp+ bkgfo fih bkgfbf) Xln lg~rn ga
C~hfl) Xln Lg~rn ga Hfqjh)
P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg}) Egh fih bg~ixpz)
Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+ xlnpn jr Egh fih xlnpn jr l~r`fihpz)
Dflkgi%r ujhgu+ P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln bkgfo gqnp ljd xg bgqnp lnp)
Egh fih bg~ixpz) Egh fih l~r`fihpz ji xln `fpknzajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga @gfs)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Ji xln bgpiajnkhr ga xln bg~ixpzkfih ga Dgf`+ xlnpn jr Egh fih xlnpn jr l~r`fihpz)
Xln gxlnp rlgn) Dflkgi%r ujhgu+
P~xl+ jr ufjxjie agp xln gxlnp rlgn xg hpg}) Egh fih bg~ixpz)
Dz }npa~dn+ dz `g| fkf`frxnp fih dz hjpxz kjini ji }~`kjb+ ji }~`kjb fih a~kk$apgixfk)
Xln lnd ga zg~p bkgfo+ Gjixdnix apgd dz `g| fkf`frxnp fih fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn)
Ja J ufrlnh fih }npa~dnh zg~p annx ug~kh zg~ agpejqn dn7 Ja J fkkgunh zg~ l~r`fihpz gqnp
dn ug~kh zg~ dfon fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn7 Ug~kh xln kf~ihpz lfqn `nni hgin7 Xln
kf~ihpz+ xln kf~ihpz+ xlfx fih dz pn}~xfxjgi7
@nf~xja~k l~r`fihdfi+ epfih xljr dfi+ epfih fih f dfi ga xln ugpkh) F ugpkhkz dfi+
epfih fih rxfihjie xfkk+ f ulgkn lnfh f`gqn fkk ga xln dfi+ ))) Epfih fih ulgkn lnfh xfkknp
xlfi fkk ji xljr f dfi‚r ugpkh) Jx jr ln xljr Dfrxnp ga Jrpfnk `nbgdn dz kgqnp+ bkgfo fih
hfeenp ji f dfi‚r ugpkh fih J lgkh ji dz `grgd dz kgqnp‚r pn}~xfxjgi+ ))) Dfrxnp ga Jrpnfk+
dz kgqnp+ f dfi ga jigphjifxn fh~kfxjgi ji fkk ga xln kfih+ ji fkk ga xln kfih+ xln ulgkn kfih+
xln ulgkn ugpkh) Xln lnd ga ljr bkgfo) Gjixdnix apgd dz `g| fkf`frxnp) @nbf~rn ga ljd+
dz }npa~dn+ dz `g| fkf`frxnp ga nrrnixjfk gjkr fih dz hjpxz kjini ji }~`kjb+ ji }~`kjb fih
a~kk$apgixfk) Fih J }pfz xlfx ln dfonr fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn+ fih lginrx ugdfi uljkn
hgui gi dz oinnr+ ufz hgui gi dz ufzr+ uljkn ljr neg ajkkr dz djih fih J apgxl fx xlndg~xl+ gi xln dg~xl+ efeejie kjon f `pfbnh fijdfk+ fr J gi dz oinnr kfqjrl ljr pn}~xfxjgi
ujxl }pfjrn n|gp`jxfix)
Ja J ufrlnh fih }npa~dnh zg~p annx ug~kh zg~ agpejqn dn7 Ja J fkkgunh zg~ l~r`fihpz gqnp
dn ug~kh zg~ dfon fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn7 Ug~kh xln kf~ihpz lfqn `nni hgin7 Xln
kf~ihpz+ xln kf~ihpz+ xlfx fih dz pn}~xfxjgi7
@nf~xja~k l~r`fihdfi) Xln bgkh fjp `fpenr ji fih xln dni rxgin ~}gi rxgin+ xln dni
}k~bojie rxgin apgd xln ufkkr fih apgd xln anibnr+ xln dni }k~bojie rxgin apgd xlnepg~ih+ rifxbljie xlnd apgd xln epj} ga xln nfpxl+ ‡
Xlfx xln nfpxl+ xlfx xln nfpxl g}ni ~} fih rufkkgu dn+ rufkkgu dn+ rufkkgu dn+ xlfx xln
nfpxl g}ni ~} fih rufkkgu dn)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Xln bgkh fjp `fpenr ji fih xln dni rxgin ~}gi rxgin+ xln dni }k~bojie rxgin apgd xln ufkkr
fih apgd xln anibnr+ xln dni }k~bojie rxgin apgd xln epg~ih+ rifxbljie xlnd apgd xln epj}
ga xln nfpxl+ ln gikz `pnfrx}kfxn xlfx bgdnr xg djih+ xln gikz gin xg bgqnp dz ifonhinrr jr
dz bgianrrjgi+ dz ifonhinrr fih dz jiigbnibn ji xljr dfxxnp fih epfih c~pz)
Xlfx xln nfpxl+ xlfx xln nfpxl g}ni ~} fih rufkkgu dn+ rufkkgu dn+ rufkkgu dn+ xlfx xln
nfpxl g}ni ~} fih rufkkgu dn) Xln nfpxl+ xln gikz `pnfrx}kfxn xlfx bgdnr xg djih+ xln gikz
gin xg bgqnp dz ifonhinrr jr dz bgianrrjgi+ dz ifonhinrr fih dz jiigbnibn ji xljr
dfxxnp fih epfih c~pz+ ‡ J lfqn rjiinh+ J lfqn bgddjxxnh fh~kxnpz+ ))) J fd bfrx g~x+ `p~jrnr
`knnhjie+ ‡ J fd bfrx g~x gi xln g~xrojpxr+ rxp~bo `z kjelxijie+ rxp~bo fih rxpfihnh fdgierx
xln bgpi+ J fd P~xl fdgie xln bgpi+ nfpr ga bgpi epjnqjie fih xlnjp hjpen dg~pia~k
blgp~rnr+ fbbnixr ji xln lnfqnir fih J+ fdjhrx xln bgpi+ J fd xpf}}nh ji xln bkfur ga xln
kfu+ fi g~xbfrx+ fi g~xbfrx fdjhrx rbpfeekz rlfhgur fih rbfpnbpgur ji xln xujkjelx+ xln
rbpfeekz dggpr ga xljr bg~ixpzrjhn fih g~xrojpxr)
@nf~xja~k l~r`fihdfi) Xln bgkh fjp `fpenr ji fih xln dni rxgin ~}gi rxgin+ xln dni
}k~bojie rxgin apgd xln ufkkr fih apgd xln anibnr+ xln dni }k~bojie rxgin apgd xln
epg~ih+ rifxbljie xlnd apgd xln epj} ga xln nfpxl+ ln gikz `pnfrx}kfxn xlfx bgdnr xg djih+
xln gikz gin xg bgqnp dz ifonhinrr jr dz bgianrrjgi+ dz ifonhinrr fih dz jiigbnibn ji
xljr dfxxnp fih epfih c~pz)
@nbf~rn ga ljd+ dz }npa~dn+ dz `g| fkf`frxnp ga nrrnixjfk gjkr
fih dz hjpxz kjini ji }~`kjb+ ji }~`kjb fih a~kk$apgixfk)
Xln lnd ga zg~p bkgfo+ Gjixdnix apgd dz `g| fkf`frxnp fih fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn)Ja J ufrlnh fih }npa~dnh zg~p annx ug~kh zg~ agpejqn dn7 Ja J fkkgunh zg~ l~r`fihpz gqnp
dn ug~kh zg~ dfon fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn7 Ug~kh xln kf~ihpz lfqn `nni hgin7 Xln
kf~ihpz+ xln kf~ihpz+ xlfx fih dz pn}~xfxjgi7
@nf~xja~k l~r`fihdfi+ epfih xljr dfi+ epfih fih f dfi ga xln ugpkh) F ugpkhkz dfi+
epfih fih rxfihjie xfkk+ f ulgkn lnfh f`gqn fkk ga xln dfi+ ))) Epfih fih ulgkn lnfh xfkknp
xlfi fkk ji xljr f dfi‚r ugpkh) Jx jr ln xljr Dfrxnp ga Jrpfnk `nbgdn dz kgqnp+ bkgfo fihhfeenp ji f dfi‚r ugpkh fih J lgkh ji dz `grgd dz kgqnp‚r pn}~xfxjgi+ ))) Dfrxnp ga Jrpnfk+
dz kgqnp+ f dfi ga jigphjifxn fh~kfxjgi ji fkk ga xln kfih+ ji fkk ga xln kfih+ xln ulgkn kfih+
xln ulgkn ugpkh) Xln lnd ga ljr bkgfo) Gjixdnix apgd dz `g| fkf`frxnp) @nbf~rn ga ljd+
dz }npa~dn+ dz `g| fkf`frxnp ga nrrnixjfk gjkr fih dz hjpxz kjini ji }~`kjb+ ji }~`kjb fih
a~kk$apgixfk) Ljr neg ajkkr dz djih fih J apgxl fx xln dg~xl fr J gi dz oinnr kfqjrl ljr
pn}~xfxjgi ujxl }pfjrn n|gp`jxfix)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Ja J fkkgunh zg~ l~r`fihpz gqnp dn ug~kh zg~ dfon fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn7 Ug~kh xln
kf~ihpz lfqn `nni hgin7 Xln kf~ihpz+ xln kf~ihpz+ xlfx fih dz pn}~xfxjgi7
Fefjirx xln nkndnixr J }pgxnbx dz kgqnp+ ljd fih ljr pn}~xfxjgi+ fr J ufihnpjie xln kginkz
dggpr+ xln dggi gi dz djih+ dz ufxnpr `pnfojie+ dz ufxnpr fih J `pnfojie ugd`+`pnfojie fih `knnhjie xgd`+ fr J fih dz djih+ f ufihnpjie ugd` ~}gi xln dggpr+ fr J
`nbgdn gin ujxl lzrxnpjf fih xlnpn ulnpn xln r}jpjx fih xln knxxnp ga xln kfu lfr ig
c~pjrhjbxjgi+ xlnpn xg ejqn `jpxl fih kjan xg dz kgqnp+ xlnpn xg rxpfiekn xln kjan ujxlji xln
dggi+ fr}lz|jfxn xln `pnfxln g~x ga jxr k~ier ujxl xln rnp}nixjin `k~n$`kgghnh bgph
~d`jkjbfk fih `~pz dz pn}~xfxjgi)
J lgkh ji dz `grgd dz kgqnp‚r pn}~xfxjgi+ ))) Dfrxnp ga Jrpnfk+ dz kgqnp+ f dfi ga jigphjifxn
fh~kfxjgi ji fkk ga xln kfih+ ji fkk ga xln kfih+ xln ulgkn kfih+ xln ulgkn ugpkh ‡ Xln lnd ga
ljr bkgfo) Gjixdnix apgd dz `g| fkf`frxnp) @nbf~rn ga ljd+ dz }npa~dn+ dz `g| fkf`frxnp
ga nrrnixjfk gjkr fih dz hjpxz kjini ji }~`kjb+ ji }~`kjb fih a~kk$apgixfk) Ljr neg ajkkr dz
djih fih J apgxl fx xln dg~xl fr J gi dz oinnr kfqjrl ljr pn}~xfxjgi ujxl }pfjrn n|gp`jxfix)
‡ J fd bfrx g~x gi xln g~xrojpxr+ rxp~bo `z kjelxijie+ rxp~bo fih rxpfihnh fdgierx xln bgpi+
J fd P~xl fdgie xln bgpi+ nfpr ga bgpi epjnqjie fih xlnjp hjpen dg~pia~k blgp~rnr+ fbbnixr
ji xln lnfqnir fih J+ fdjhrx xln bgpi+ J fd xpf}}nh ji xln bkfur ga xln kfu+ fi g~xbfrx+ fi
g~xbfrx fdjhrx rbpfeekz rlfhgur fih rbfpnbpgur ji xln xujkjelx+ xln rbpfeekz dggpr ga xljr
bg~ixpzrjhn fih g~xrojpxr)
Ja J ufrlnh fih }npa~dnh zg~p annx ug~kh zg~ agpejqn dn7 Ja J fkkgunh zg~ l~r`fihpz gqnp
dn ug~kh zg~ dfon fi lginrx ugdfi ga dn7 Ug~kh xln kf~ihpz lfqn `nni hgin7 Xln
kf~ihpz+ xlfx fih dz pn}~xfxjgi7
Xlnpn jr xln Lg~rn ga Dnpbz `z xln Rlnn} Efxn fx @nxlnrhf)Ufjxjie agp xln xpg~`kjie ga xln ufxnp xlnpn ulnpn fienkr lfqn xpgh)
Xln }ggkr infp xln Rlnn} Efxn+ xln }gpxjbg+ jxr ajqn bgkgiifhnr) @nxlnrhf) Xlnpn jr xln
Lg~rn ga Dnpbz `z xln Rlnn} Efxn fx @nxlnrhf) F }kfbn ga epfbn) F }kfbn agp xln epfixjie ga
lnfkjie) Xlnpn ulnpn un rxfih fih cgji lfihr ufjxjie agp xln xpg~`kjie ga xln ufxnp xlnpn
ulnpn fienkr lfqn xpgh) Ufjxjie agp xln xpg~`kjie ga xln ufxnp xlnpn ulnpn fienkr lfqn
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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xpgh+ oigujie xlfx xln rgir ga xl~ihnp+ xln rgir ga Sn`nhnn+ xln qjgknix dni xfon jx `z
agpbn) Xlnz xfon jx `z agpbn) Xlnz xfon xlnjp k̀nrrjie `z agpbn fih `z xl~ihnp)
Eg& Eg& Eg&
@z agpbn) @z agpbn)Xln ojiehgd ga lnfqni r~aanpnxl qjgknibn+
Fih xln qjgknix xfon jx `z agpbn)
@z agpbn) @z agpbn)
Fih xln qjgknix xfon jx `z agpbn)
Xlnpn jr xln Lg~rn ga Dnpbz `z xln Rlnn} Efxn fx @nxlnrhf)
Ufjxjie agp xln xpg~`kjie ga xln ufxnp xlnpn ulnpn fienkr lfqn xpgh)
Xln }ggkr infp xln Rlnn} Efxn+ xln }gpxjbg+ jxr ajqn bgkgiifhnr) @nxlnrhf) Xlnpn jr xln
Lg~rn ga Dnpbz `z xln Rlnn} Efxn fx @nxlnrhf) F }kfbn ga epfbn) F }kfbn agp xln epfixjie ga
lnfkjie) Xlnpn ulnpn un rxfih fih cgji lfihr ufjxjie agp xln xpg~`kjie ga xln ufxnp xlnpnulnpn fienkr lfqn xpgh)
Eg& Eg& Eg&
J ujkk igx knx xlnn eg+ n|bn}x xlg~ `knrr dn)
Ulfx jr xlz ifdn7
@z agpbn) @z agpbn)
Xln ojiehgd ga lnfqni r~aanpnxl qjgknibn+
Fih xln qjgknix xfon jx `z agpbn)
@z agpbn) @z agpbn)
Fih xln qjgknix xfon jx `z agpbn)
Xghfz jr xln hfz J fd r}goni agp)
Dz dgxlnp%r bljkhpni unpn fiepz ujxl dn?Xlnz dfhn dn xln onn}np ga xln qjinzfphr? `~x djin gui qjinzfph lfqn J igx on}x)
Xghfz jr xln hfz J fd r}goni agp) @kfbo fih bgdnkz+ J fd r}goni agp)
Un lfqn f kjxxkn rjrxnp+ fih rln lfxl ig `pnfrxr3 ulfx rlfkk un hg agp g~p rjrxnp ji xln hfz
ulni rln rlfkk `n r}goni agp7 Ja rln `n f ufkk+ un ujkk `~jkh ~}gi lnp f }fkfbn ga rjkqnp3 fih
ja rln `n f hggp+ un ujkk jibkgrn lnp ujxl `gfphr ga bnhfp)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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J fd f ufkk+ fih dz `pnfrxr kjon xgunpr3 xlni ufr J ji ljr nznr fr gin xlfx ag~ih afqg~p)
Rgkgdgi lfh f qjinzfph fx @ffk$Lfdgi? ln knx g~x xln qjinzfph ~ixg onn}npr? nqnpz gin agp
xln ap~jx xlnpnga ufr xg `pjie f xlg~rfih }jnbnr ga rjkqnp)
Xghfz jr xln hfz J fd r}goni agp) @kfbo fih bgdnkz+ J fd r}goni agp)
Dz qjinzfph+ uljbl jr djin+ jr `nagpn dn3 xlg~+ G Rgkgdgi+ d~rx lfqn f xlg~rfih+ fih
xlgrn xlfx onn} xln ap~jx xlnpnga xug l~ihpnh)
J fd `kfbo+ `~x bgdnkz+ G zn hf~elxnpr ga Cnp~rfknd+ fr xln xnixr ga Onhfp+ fr xln b~pxfjir ga
Rgkgdgi) Kggo igx ~}gi dn+ `nbf~rn J fd `kfbo+ `nbf~rn xln r~i lfxl kggonh ~}gi dn3 dz
dgxlnp%r bljkhpni unpn fiepz ujxl dn? xlnz dfhn dn xln onn}np ga xln qjinzfphr? `~x
djin gui qjinzfph lfqn J igx on}x)
@nlgkh ljr `nh+ uljbl jr Rgkgdgi%r? xlpnnrbgpn qfkjfix dni fpn f`g~x jx+ ga xln qfkjfix ga
Jrpfnk) Xlnz fkk lgkh rugphr+ `njie n|}npx ji ufp3 nqnpz dfi lfxl ljr rugph ~}gi ljr xljel
`nbf~rn ga anfp ji xln ijelx)
Un lfqn f kjxxkn rjrxnp+ fih rln lfxl ig `pnfrxr3 ulfx rlfkk un hg agp g~p rjrxnp ji xln hfz
ulni rln rlfkk `n r}goni agp7 Ja rln `n f ufkk+ un ujkk `~jkh ~}gi lnp f }fkfbn ga rjkqnp3 fih
ja rln `n f hggp+ un ujkk jibkgrn lnp ujxl `gfphr ga bnhfp)
J fd f ufkk+ fih dz `pnfrxr kjon xgunpr3 xlni ufr J ji ljr nznr fr gin xlfx ag~ih afqg~p)
Rgkgdgi lfh f qjinzfph fx @ffk$Lfdgi? ln knx g~x xln qjinzfph ~ixg onn}npr? nqnpz gin agp
xln ap~jx xlnpnga ufr xg `pjie f xlg~rfih }jnbnr ga rjkqnp)
Dz qjinzfph+ uljbl jr djin+ jr `nagpn dn3 xlg~+ G Rgkgdgi+ d~rx lfqn f xlg~rfih+ fih
xlgrn xlfx onn} xln ap~jx xlnpnga xug l~ihpnh)
Dz dgxlnp%r bljkhpni unpn fiepz ujxl dn?
xlnz dfhn dn xln onn}np ga xln qjinzfphr? `~x djin gui qjinzfph lfqn J igx on}x)
Xghfz jr xln hfz J fd r}goni agp) @kfbo fih bgdnkz+
J fd r}goni agp) J fd r}goni agp) Fih J fd igx lnpn)
Kfxnp J }frrnh `z+ fih ulni J kggonh fx zg~
fih rfu xlfx zg~ unpn gkh nig~el agp kgqn+
J r}pnfh xln bgpinp ga dz efpdnix gqnp zg~
fih bgqnpnh zg~p ifonhinrr) J efqn zg~
dz rgkndi gfxl fih nixnpnh jixg f bgqnifix ujxl zg~+
hnbkfpnr xln Rgqnpnjei Kgph+ fih zg~ `nbfdn djin)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Xln kfrx r~}}np ujxl xln `gzr)
Fk`fxpgrrnr fih bp~bjaj|nr fx Egkegxlf fih `nzgih)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Dfpz Dfehfkni) Kfsfp~r+ ga @nxlfijf+ ga xln xgui ga Dfpz+ xln xgui fih xln bg~ixpz ga
Dfpxlf lnp rjrxnp) Dnpbz& ‡ Kgph+ lfqn dnpbz) Rnqni hnqjkr) Rnqni) Rnqni hnqjkr bfrx g~x
fih lnp rjrxnp rjxr fx xln annx ga xln kgph+ uljkn Dfehfkni+ Dfpz Dfehfkni fx Egkegxlf fih
xlnjp `pgxlnp ji rufhhkn bkgxl+ rufhhkn fih infp ~xnpg+ rufhhkn+ ji ~xnpg fih f xgd`
rx~aanh }~pn kjini+ uljxn+ gkh fih xjixnh gxlnpugpkhkz l~nr ga egkh) Dfpz+ lnp `g| fkf`frxnp
ga lnfkjie rfkqnr fih gjkr+ lnp akgujie lfjp xln bgkgp ga xln gblpn ga xln nfpxl agp xgunk+
hgxnr gi xln annx ga lnp infp$l~r`fih+ uljkn Dfpxlf+ lnp nznr a~kk ga ugprlj} fih lnp djih
l~iepz agp dgpn+ agp dgpn fih ujrla~k xljiojie fi jiqjxn xg xln kfrx r~}}np ujxl xln `gzr+lnp nznr a~kk ga ugprlj}+ lnp lnfpx kj}$rnpqjbn xg xln r}jpjx fih xln knxxnp ga xln kfu+ xln r}jpjx
fih xln knxxnp ga xln kfu fih ujrla~k xljiojie fi jiqjxn+ fi jiqjxn fih fi gxlnp xljier+ gxlnp
xljier kjon `gzr+ `gzr fih dni+ `gzr `nbgdn dni fih qjbn qnprf+ uljkn xljr lnpn Dfpxlf
ujrla~k xljiojie fi jiqjxn fih fi gxlnp xljier hnbonh ujxl f}grxkn fih }nijr niqz)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh
`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Jx ufr xln kfrx r~}}np ujxl xln `gzr+ fih xln dfrxnp+ ljr annx `nhnbonh ujxl gjkr fkf`frxnp
fih hgxnh gi ujxl akgujie lfjp xln bgkgp ga xln gblpn ga xln nfpxl agp xgunk+ `z xljr dfrxnp+
xln f}grxknr bgdn xg rjx fih dnfx uljkn Dfpxlf `nrjhn lnprnka ujxl }nijr niqz fih Dfpz+
nfxjie lnp lnfpx g~x+ lnp lnfpx fxn g~x fkk xln uljkn anfrxjie gi xln runnx rfkx ga lnp rbfpknx
xnfpr)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh
`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Xln kfrx r~}}np ujxl xln `gzr) Fk`fxpgrrnr fih bp~bjaj|nr fx Egkegxlf fih `nzgih)
Ugdfi+ `nlgkh zg~p rgi3 `nlgkh zg~p dgxlnp) Xghfz zg~ ujkk `n ujxl dn ji }fpfhjrn)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Xln dggi fih xln ugd`) Ejfixr fih Dgir Qninpjr)
Lzrxnpjf jr Hnkjkfl+ ga xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp) Hnkjkfl fih Rfdrgi)
Fih ji fkk xln ugpkh xghfz+ f ejfix rknn}r gi lnp oinnr+ kjon f `f`n+ ln rknn}r gi lnp oinnr)
Xln `kggh ga dni epgur fih hjdjijrlnr ujxl xln kjelx ga xln dggi+
uljkn knfqnr fih lnp`fen fkrg annk xln rfdn jiak~nibn)
Hnkjkfl+ ga xln Hf~elxnpr ga xln nfpxl+ fih ji fkk xln ugpkh xghfz+ f ejfix rknn}r gi lnp
oinnr+ kjon f `f`n+ ln rknn}r gi lnp oinnr) Ji fkk Jrpfnk xghfz+ f ejfix rknn}r gi lnp oinnr+
kjon f `f`n+ ln rknn}r gi lnp oinnr) Ji fkk }ljkjrxjin xghfz+ f ejfix rknn}r gi lnp oinnr+ gi
Hnkjkfl‚r oinnr+ kjon f `f`n+ ln rknn}r gi lnp oinnr)
Xln dggi fih xln ugd`) Ejfixr fih Dgir Qninpjr)
Lzrxnpjf jr Hnkjkfl+ ga xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp) Hnkjkfl fih Rfdrgi)
Rfdrgi jr ̀ nbgdn Gnhj}~r+ Gnhj}~r fih ~}gi Cgbfrxf‚r }pjdgphjfk dg~ih+ ~}gi lnp dgir
qninpjr+ Gnhj}~r ~}gi lnp dgir qninpjr+ xln rxnd ga ljr `pfji) Xln rxnd ga ljr `pfji)
Gqnpijelx+ Rfdrgi+ `nbgdn Gnhj}~r+ ljr nzn }k~bonh g~x+ `pgoni fih eg~enh g~x+ Rfdrgi
jr `kjihnh fih niblfjinh+ eifrljie ga xnnxl+ ljr rxpniexl knfqjie ljd ugdfi+ ugdfi fr ln
ufr ulni rln ajprx kgqnh ljd+ ji ~xnpg+ ugdfi+ ji f xjdn rg kgie feg jx jr g~x ga djih+ g~x ga
djih fih g~x ga xjdn) Hnhjbfxnh fr f Ifsjpjxn apgd xln ugd` xg xln hfz ga ljr hnfxl?
Rfdrgi agp`jhhni xg xg~bl ujin gp b~x ljr lfjp)
Xln `kggh ga dni epgur fih hjdjijrlnr ujxl xln kjelx ga xln dggi+
uljkn knfqnr fih lnp`fen fkrg annk xln rfdn jiak~nibn)
Xln `nejiijie) Ji xln `nejiijie) Ji xln `nejiijie xlnpn unpn Ejfixr ji xln kfih)
Ejfixr+ xln rgir ga Egh) Xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp)
Fih xlnz xggo xlnd ujqnr ga fkk uljbl xlnz blgrn)
Ejfixr) Xlnpn unpn ejfixr ji xln nfpxl ji xlgrn hfzr3 fih fkrg djelxz dni uljbl unpn ga
gkh+ dni ga pnigui) Xln agpdnp rj`kjier ga Egh+ unkk `nagpn C~$]fxnp) C~$]fxnp xln rfdn
uljbl jr Cflqn fkrg oigui fr Cgqn) E~`npifxgpjfk+ rozufph+ xlnz unpn r~pifdnh xln
egqnpijie ginr) Nddfi~$nk+ Djblf$nk+ xln gin ulg jr kjon Egh+ Cgqn) Fih ^p$j$nk+ xln akfdn
ga Egh) Xln akfdn ga Egh) Pfdn$nk+ ulgrn ifdn dnfir dgpijie ga Egh fih ulg `nbfdn
Fsfs$nk+ F$sfs$nk+ xln lf~elxz fih negxjrxjbfk rxpniexl ga Cflqn) Negxjrxjbfk+ xljr rxpniexl ga
Egh) Egh ulg jr C~]fxnp)
Xln dggi fih xln ugd`) Ejfixr fih Dgir Qninpjr)
Lzrxnpjf jr Hnkjkfl+ ga xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp) Hnkjkfl fih Rfdrgi)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Rln jr Hf~elxnp ga xln Nfpxl) Xln Nfpxl jr lnp Dgxlnp) Hnkjkfl+ uljkn ln Rfdrgi+ Rfdrgi
`nbgdn Gnhj}~r+ uljkn Rfdrgi hnhjbfxnh fr f Ifsjpjxn apgd xln ugd` xg xln hfz ga ljr
hnfxl? Rfdrgi agp`jhhni xg xg~bl ujin gp b~x ljr lfjp) Hnkjkfl) Hnkjkfl) Jibgeijxg+ xljr
Hnkjkfl) Jibgeijxg fih figizdn+ figizdn kjon fiz gin ga xln kjkjnr ga xln qfkknz ga Rgpno+
figizdn fih bkgfonh+ lfpkgx znx qjpeji xg l~r`fihpz) Xlnpn unpn ejfixr ji xln nfpxl ji
xlgrn hfzr+ ejfixr+ djelxz dni ga pnigui+ ga xln pjqfkr ga xln eghr? dni xfkk+ dfrrjqn fih
lfihrgdn ji rxfx~pn+ e~`npifxgpjfk+ fih r~pifdnh xln egqnpijie ginr+ ga xln egqnpijie
ginr+ gin ga ulgd ufr xfoni+ rdjxxni+ r}nkk$`g~ih `z Hnkjkfl)
Xln `kggh ga dni epgur fih hjdjijrlnr ujxl xln kjelx ga xln dggi+
uljkn knfqnr fih lnp`fen fkrg annk xln rfdn jiak~nibn)
Pnx~pi+ pnx~pi+ pnx~pi ljd+ Rfdrgi+
pnx~pi ljd Ijbghnd~r$kjon f rnbgih xjdn jixg xln ugd`)
Fkk fpn `~x }fpxr ga gin rx~}nihg~r ulgkn+
Ulgrn `ghz Ifx~pn jr?
Ujxlg~x i~d`np) Ugpkhr
Kjn ji xljr `grgd kjon bljkhpni)
Hnkjkfl‚r hnrjpn ulfkn$kjon fih c~rx fr ~ip~kz+ Hnkjkfl+ ga xln Nfpxl+ ga xln Hf~elxnpr ga xln
Nfpxl+ Hnkjkfl lnp Dgxlnp xln Nfpxl ujxlg~x jxr dggi)
Nqni `nagpn xln ufp+ xln kggx+ xln `ggxz+ xln }k~ihnp) Nknqni l~ihpnh }jnbnr ga rjkqnp)
Hnkjkfl+ Hnkjkfl+ ejphknr fih k~|~pjg~r kjinir+ bkgfonh fr lfpkgx znx qjpeji xg l~r`fihpz)
Xlnpn unpn ejfixr ji xln nfpxl ji xlgrn hfzr+ ejfixr+ djelxz dni ga pnigui+ ga xln pjqfkr ga
xln eghr? dni xfkk+ dfrrjqn fih lfihrgdn ji rxfx~pn+ e~`npifxgpjfk+ fih r~pifdnh xln
egqnpijie ginr+ ga xln egqnpijie ginr+ gin ga ulgd ufr xfoni+ rdjxxni+ r}nkk$`g~ih `z
Hnkjkfl) Rfdrgi)
Xln `kggh ga dni epgur fih hjdjijrlnr ujxl xln kjelx ga xln dggi+
uljkn knfqnr fih lnp`fen fkrg annk xln rfdn jiak~nibn)
Hnkjkfl+ Hnkjkfl) Hnkjkfl+ rln jr xln gin ulg ~}pggxr fih unfonir) Hnkjkfl+ Hnkjkfl) Hnkjkfl+rln ulg ajprx ~}pggxnh fih unfoninh) Fih Rfdrgi kfz xjkk djhijelx+ fih fpgrn fx djhijelx+
fih xggo xln hggpr ga xln efxn ga xln bjxz+ fih xln xug }grxr+ fih unix fufz ujxl xlnd+ `fp
fih fkk+ fih }~x xlnd ~}gi ljr rlg~khnpr+ fih bfppjnh xlnd ~} xg xln xg} ga fi ljkk xlfx jr
`nagpn Ln`pgi)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Xln dggi fih xln ugd`) Ejfixr fih Dgir Qninpjr)
Lzrxnpjf jr Hnkjkfl+ ga xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp) Hnkjkfl fih Rfdrgi)
Hnkjkfl+ ga xln Hf~elxnpr ga xln nfpxl+ fih ji fkk xln ugpkh xghfz+ f ejfix rknn}r gi lnp
oinnr+ kjon f `f`n+ ln rknn}r gi lnp oinnr) Ji fkk Jrpfnk xghfz+ f ejfix rknn}r gi lnp oinnr+
kjon f `f`n+ ln rknn}r gi lnp oinnr) Ji fkk }ljkjrxjin xghfz+ f ejfix rknn}r gi lnp oinnr+ gi
Hnkjkfl‚r oinnr+ kjon f `f`n+ ln rknn}r gi lnp oinnr)
Rfdrgi jr ̀ nbgdn Gnhj}~r+ Gnhj}~r fih ~}gi Cgbfrxf‚r }pjdgphjfk dg~ih+ ~}gi lnp dgir
qninpjr+ Gnhj}~r ~}gi lnp dgir qninpjr+ xln rxnd ga ljr `pfji) Xln rxnd ga ljr `pfji)
Gqnpijelx+ Rfdrgi+ `nbgdn Gnhj}~r+ ljr nzn }k~bonh g~x+ `pgoni fih eg~enh g~x+ Rfdrgi
jr `kjihnh fih niblfjinh+ eifrljie ga xnnxl+ ljr rxpniexl knfqjie ljd ugdfi+ ugdfi fr ln
ufr ulni rln ajprx kgqnh ljd+ ji ~xnpg+ ugdfi+ ji f xjdn rg kgie feg jx jr g~x ga djih+ g~x ga
djih fih g~x ga xjdn) Hnhjbfxnh fr f Ifsjpjxn apgd xln ugd` xg xln hfz ga ljr hnfxl?
Rfdrgi agp`jhhni xg xg~bl ujin gp b~x ljr lfjp)
Xln `kggh ga dni epgur fih hjdjijrlnr ujxl xln kjelx ga xln dggi+
uljkn knfqnr fih lnp`fen fkrg annk xln rfdn jiak~nibn)
Pnx~pi+ pnx~pi+ pnx~pi ljd+ Rfdrgi+
pnx~pi ljd Ijbghnd~r$kjon f rnbgih xjdn jixg xln ugd`)
Fkk fpn `~x }fpxr ga gin rx~}nihg~r ulgkn+
Ulgrn `ghz Ifx~pn jr?
Ujxlg~x i~d`np) Ugpkhr
Kjn ji xljr `grgd kjon bljkhpni)
Rgi ga Hfqjh+ Ulfx dfiinp ga dfi fpn zg~7
Lzrxnpjf jr xln dggi) Ugdfi ujxl fi jrr~n ga `kggh)
Xlnpn jr fi fbln xlfx pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn+ pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn fih p~knr dz djih)
Xlnpn jr fi fbln xlfx x~er fx dz f}pgi rxpjier+ dz djih rxpjier+ lnfpx rxpjier+ dggi rxpjier+
ugd` rxpjier+ Lnpdnr‚ rxpjier+ }~}}nx fih rxp~d}nxjie xljr fbln)
Xlnpn jr fi fbln xlfx pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn+ pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn fih p~knr dz djih+ fi
fbln xlfx rxp~xr jxr rx~aa ji dz afbn+ ji dz afbn+ ji dz e~x fih xg dz afbn) Xlnpn jr fi fbln
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 6<
xlfx rx~aar jxr afbn annhjie gi dz jirjhnr+ pj`r fih xlpgfx+ dz `fbo+ e~x+ rjhnr fih `fborjhnr+
hpfjijie dn ga dz `kggh+ `kggh+ `kggh+ `kggh) Ga dz `kggh fih cgz+ dz `kggh fih cgz+ dz
`pnfrxr ga xln djko agp dz gui fih dz djih ga ufzr fih dnfir v~fkjajnh)
Xlnpn jr fi fbln xlfx pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn) Pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn fih p~knr dz djih+ xln
qnpz rnfx ga dn) Jx jr rx~bo ji dz xlpgfx+ ji dz xlpgfx ulnpn dz qgjbn kgrx+ dz xlpgfx ulnpnig Fhfd‚r f}}kn) J rxjbo dz agpnajienp epgui knfi fih rbfpnbpgu hgui dz xlpgfx xg `pjie
`fbo fih g~x+ pne~pejxfxn dndgpjnr fih bnpndgijnr pjx~fk+ xlfx gp xlni f hjpen+ fi nknez
ajelxjie xg `n lnfph ji rjeir fih ugihnpr djrhjpnbxnh `z e~x$rnfxnh annkjier+ e~x$rnfxnh
fih e~xxnpnh)
Xlnpn jr fi fbln xlfx pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn+ pgbor xln bpfhkn ga dn fih p~knr dz djih)
Xlnpn jr fi fbln xlfx x~er fx dz f}pgi rxpjier+ dz djih rxpjier+ lnfpx rxpjier+ dggi rxpjier+
ugd` rxpjier+ Lnpdnr‚ rxpjier+ }~}}nx fih rxp~d}nxjie xljr fbln)
J fd xln ugdfi ujxl fi jrr~n ga `kggh)
Fih zg~ xljr rgi ga Hfqjh+ ulfx dfiinp ga dfi fpn zg~7
Fienkr ji hpfe+ ji }kfji rjelx fih xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ fih igx rg kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx fih igx rg
kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn) Xlnpn unpn fienkr ji hpfe bgdn xg Dfdpn+ fienkr xpgkkjie
xljr bgbo$}jx ga f bjxz+ hn}pfqnh xljr bjxz+ hn`f~blnh fih hn}pfqnh xljr bjxz) Fienkr ji hpfe)
Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx fih igx rg
kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
Xln dni ga xln bjxz) Xln dni ga xln bjxz)
Xljr dgrx hn`f~blnh fih xlni dgrx hn}pfqnh bjxz)
@~x `nagpn xlnz kfz hgui+ xln dni ga xln bjxz+ xln dni ga Rghgd+ `gxl zg~ie fih gkh+ fkk xln
}ng}kn xg xln kfrx dfi+ r~ppg~ihnh xln lg~rn? fih xlnz bfkknh xg Kgx+ "Ulnpn fpn xln dni
ulg bfdn xg zg~ xgijelx7 @pjie xlnd g~x xg ~r+ xlfx un dfz oigu xlnd fih lfqn rn| ujxl
xlnd+ jixnpbg~prn fih xlni rn| ujxl xlnd+ hjrbg~prnr fih jixnpbg~prnr ujxl dni ji fienk
hpfer+ fih xlni rn| ujxl xlnrn fienkr ji hpfe)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 6:
Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx fih igx rg
kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
F`pflfdr in}lnu+ ljr ujan bpfqjie rfkx fih xln }jkkfpr xlfx ~}lgkh xln ag~ihfxjgir ga
Rghgd fih xln pggar ga Egdgppfl+ F`pflfd‚r in}lnu+ ljr xug qjpeji hf~elxnpr ‡ @~x ig+
xln dn ga xln bjxz+ xln dni ga xljr bgbo}jx+ xlnz xlpnfxninh xg hg d~bl ugprn+ ugprn+ d~bl+
d~bl ugprn+ fih xlnz ug~kh `pnfo hgui xln hggp)
@pnfo hgui xln hggp7
Znr+ `pnfo hgui xln hggp) @pnfo jx hgui) @pnfojie ji fih nixnpjie+ fih xlnpn hg d~bl+
d~bl ugprn) ‡
Ulnpn~}gi xln dni fpn rxp~bo `kjih `z xln Fienkr ji hpfe) Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji
}kfji rjelx+ ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx fih igx rg kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
Fih F`pflfd‚r in}lnu+ efxlnpjie ljr afdjkz knax xln bjxz+ xljr bgbo}jx+ f dgrx hn}pfqnh bjxz+
dfojie xlnjp nrbf}n+ F`pflfd‚r in}lnu+ bpfqjie rfkx fih xln }jkkfpr xlfx ~}lgkh xlnag~ihfxjgir ga Rghgd fih xln pggar ga Egdgppfl+ fkrg ajpn fih `pjdrxgin+ fih fienkr ji
hpfe)
Fienkr ji hpfe) Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ fih igx rg kgie feg ji xln }kfjir
ga Dfdpn ulg `fponh fx F`pflfd‚r in}lnu rfzjie Ifz? `~x un ujkk f`jhn ji xln rxpnnx fkk
ijelx)
Xln rxpnnxr7
Znr+ ji xln rxpnnxr)
Fienkr ji hpfe) Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ fienkr ulg xlndrnkqnr bpfqjie
hn}pfqjxz+ bpfqjie xln dni ga xljr dgrx hn`f~blnh fih xlni xln dgrx hn}pfqnh bjxz+ xln
dni ga xljr bgbo}jx+ bpfqjie xln kjan ga f bjxz blgboa~kk xg jxr inbo fih rxpfieknh `z hn}pfqjxz)
Un ujkk xg f`jhn ji xln rxpnnx fkk ijelx)
"Ulnpn fpn xln dni ulg bfdn xg zg~ xgijelx7 @pjie xlnd g~x xg ~r+ xlfx un dfz oigu
xlnd fih lfqn rn| ujxl xlnd+ jixnpbg~prn fih xlni rn| ujxl xlnd+ hjrbg~prnr fih
jixnpbg~prnr ujxl dni ji fienk hpfer+ fih xlni rn| ujxl xlnrn fienkr ji hpfe)
Fienkr ji hpfe+ ji }kfji rjelx fih xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ fih igx rg kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx fih igx rg
kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn) Xlnpn unpn fienkr ji hpfe bgdn xg Dfdpn+ fienkr xpgkkjie
xljr bgbo$}jx ga f bjxz+ hn}pfqnh xljr bjxz+ hn`f~blnh fih hn}pfqnh xljr bjxz) Fienkr ji hpfe)
Fienkr ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx+ ji dni‚r bkgxlnr fih ji }kfji rjelx fih igx rg
kgie feg ji xln }kfjir ga Dfdpn)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 0=Egkegxlf fih Hgui$^ihnp) Fixlpg}g}lfej+ Fk`fxpgrrnr fih bp~bjaj|nr)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh `fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr
inxlnp kj})
Lnknif) Lnknif xln ufihnpjie Cnu+ ufihnpjie fr xln dggi$ugd` ji xln bgrdgr+ Lnknif
rln ufihnpnh+ lnp gui ugd` ufihnpjie f`g~x+ lnp ugd` ufihnpjie Cnu fih lzrxnpjb+ ji
lnp bgrdgr `nkgu+ ))) Lnknif ga Bgirxfixjig}kn) dgxlnp ga Nd}npgp Bgirxfixjin+
Bgirxfixjin xln ajprx) Rfjix Lnknif) Lnknif ga Bgirxfixjig}kn) Rxf`~kfpjf Lnknif) Onn}np ga
xln jii) Lnknif+ `gif rxf`~kfpjf ji l~d`kn bkgxlnr+ ufrlnh g~x kjini ufjxjie gi xln xf`knr
fih xln rxf`~kfpjf) Eggh fih afjxla~k rnpqfix) Afjxla~k fih ljel ajhnkjxz) Xlnpn jr ig pggd jixln jii xgijelx) Zg~ djelx ufix xg rlfpn dz pggd7
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh
`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Lnknif) Lnknif xln ufihnpjie Cnu+ ufihnpjie fr xln dggi$ugd` ji xln bgrdgr+ Lnknif
rln ufihnpnh+ lnp gui ugd` ufihnpjie f`g~x+ lnp ugd` ufihnpjie Cnu fih lzrxnpjb+ ji
lnp bgrdgr `nkgu+ ))) Lnknif ga Bgirxfixjig}kn) Dgxlnp ga Nd}npgp Bgirxfixjin+
Bgirxfixjin xln ajprx) Rfjix Lnknif) Lnknif ga Bgirxfixjig}kn)
Ga g~p knenihr3 Jr jx igx rfjh xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f7
Nqni N~pg}f) N~pg}f+ fkrg Knqfix+ fih Xzpn7
Lnknif) Lnknif xln ufihnpjie Cnu+ ufihnpjie fr xln dggi$ugd` ji xln bgrdgr+ Lnknif
rln ufihnpnh+ lnp gui ugd` ufihnpjie f`g~x+ lnp ugd` ufihnpjie Cnu fih lzrxnpjb+ ji
lnp bgrdgr `nkgu+ ))) Lnknif ga Bgirxfixjig}kn) dgxlnp ga Nd}npgp Bgirxfixjin+
Bgirxfixjin xln ajprx) Rfjix Lnknif) Lnknif ga Bgirxfixjig}kn) Rxf`~kfpjf Lnknif) Onn}np ga
xln jii) Egkegxlf fih Hgui$^ihnp) Fixlpg}g}lfej+ Fk`fxpgrrnr fih bp~bjaj|nr) F rnbgih
xjdn jixg xln ugd`) Ugdfi+ `nlgkh zg~p rgi3 `nlgkh zg~p dgxlnp)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 06
Apgd Egkegxlf xg Fdnpjbf)
Pnkjbr nig~el xg `~jkh f bpgrr+ f `fpv~n fbpgrr xg xln rxfx~n ga kj`npxz)
Nd}npgp Lfhpjfi lfr `nni xlpg~el xgui) Cnp~rfknd ufr gi lnp oinnr fih ufr rlgujie
g`qjg~r rjeir xlfx Lfhpjfi lfh `nni xlpg~el xgui+ }k~ihnpnh fih }jkkfenh xln xgui fx
ijelx+ ji xln djhhkn ga xln ijelx+ xln djhhkn ga xln ijelx fih }fixr hgui+ fih xfoni xln
hf~elxnpr ga Cnp~rfknd ujqnr+ ujqnr+ xfoni xlnd ujqnr+ fih ujqnr ga fkk uljbl ln blgrn)
L~r`fihpz) L~r`fihpz fih xlni ~r~pz) Fi jrr~n ga ̀ kggh) Fi jrr~n ga `kggh) Fi jrr~n ga
`kggh fih ajqn+ ajqn+ ajqn+ ajqn l~r`fihr)
Fih Lnknif+ ujxl lnp pgh fih lnp rxfaa+ rln ujxl lnp x~`n afkkg}jfi a~kk$apgixfk fih lnp }fjp
ga gqfpjnr hnrbnihjie+ rln lnkh lnp rxfaa xg xln hjrxfaa rfzjie+ Hnrxpgz Lfhpjfi‚r ufkk fih
b~kx fih J ujkk pfjrn jx ji xlpnn hfzr) Hnrxpgz Lfhpjfi‚r ufkk fih b~kx) Ljr ufkk fih b~kx) Ljr
ufkk fih b~kx) fih J ujkk pfjrn jx ji xlpnn hfzr) Fih xln ugdni ga Cnp~rfknd+ xln ugdni+ gi
xlnjp oinnr fih xlnjp bpzjie }knfr+ xlnjp bpzjie }knfrn+ xlnjp lfihr xg xln lnkd ga lnp bgfx+
xln lnkd ga lnp bkgfo+ xlnz bpjnh fih rln bgdagpxnh xlnd+ rfzjie+ Ugdni ga Cnp~rfknd)Unn} agp dn) Unn} agp dn) F rnbgih xjdn) F rnbgih xjdn) F rnbgih xjdn7 Lgu bfi f dfi
`n `gpi ulni ln jr gkh7 bfi ln nixnp xln rnbgih xjdn jixg ljr dgxlnp%r ugd`+ fih `n `gpi7
Apgd Egkegxlf xg Fdnpjbf) Pnkjbr nig~el xg `~jkh f bpgrr+ f `fpv~n fbpgrr xg xln rxfx~n ga
kj`npxz)
Apgd Egkegxlf xg Fdnpjbf) Pnkjbr nig~el agp f bpgrr+ f `fpv~n fbpgrr xg xln rxfx~n ga
kj`npxz)
Fih xln ugdni ga Cnp~rfknd+ xln ugdni+ gi xlnjp oinnr fih xlnjp bpzjie }knfr+ xlnjp bpzjie
}knfrn+ xlnjp lfihr xg xln lnkd ga lnp bgfx+ xln lnkd ga lnp bkgfo+ xlnz bpjnh fih rln
bgdagpxnh xlnd+ oigujie xlfx Cnp~rfknd ufr gi lnp oinnr fih ufr rlgujie g`qjg~r rjeir
xlfx Lfhpjfi lfh `nni xlpg~el xgui+ }k~ihnpnh fih }jkkfenh xln xgui fx ijelx+ ji xln
djhhkn ga xln ijelx+ xln djhhkn ga xln ijelx fih }fixr hgui+ fih xfoni xln hf~elxnpr ga
Cnp~rfknd ujqnr+ ujqnr+ xfoni xlnd ujqnr+ fih ujqnr ga fkk uljbl ln blgrn) L~r`fihpz)
L~r`fihpz fih xlni ~r~pz) Fi jrr~n ga `kggh) Ajqn l~r`fihr) Fih xunkqn znfpr)
G+ J bg~kh }kfz xln ugdfi ujxl djin nznr fih `pfeefpx ujxl dz xgie~n&
Xg f}}nfrn fi fiepz egh) Knxxnp xg kfhz DfbH~aa) @knnh+ `knnh }ggp bg~ixpz) @knnh)
G+ J bg~kh }kfz xln ugdfi ujxl djin nznr fih `pfeefpx ujxl dz xgie~n&
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 00
Knx ~r rnno g~x rgdn hnrgkfxn rlfhn+ fih xlnpn Unn} g~p rfh `grgdr nd}xz)
Knx ~r pfxlnp Lgkh afrx xln dgpxfk rugph+ fih kjon eggh dni @nrxpjhn g~p hgui$afkk%i
`jpxlhgd3 nfbl inu dgpi Inu ujhgur lguk+ inu gp}lfir bpz+ inu rgppgur Rxpjon
lnfqni gi xln afbn+ Fx Ajan ufr xlnpn f qgjbn lnfph+ kfdnixfxjgi+ fih unn}jie+ fih epnfx
dg~pijie+ Kfhz Dfbh~aa unn}jie agp lnp bljkhpni+ fih ug~kh igx `n bgdagpxnh+ `nbf~rn
xlnz fpn igx)
G+ J bg~kh }kfz xln ugdfi ujxl djin nznr fih `pfeefpx ujxl dz xgie~n&
Ulfx lfh ln hgin+ xg dfon ljd akz xln kfih7 Ljr akjelx ufr dfhinrr3 ulni g~p fbxjgir hg
igx+ G~p anfpr hg dfon ~r xpfjxgpr) ‡ xg knfqn ljr ujan+ xg knfqn ljr `f`nr+ Ljr dfirjgi fih
ljr xjxknr ji f }kfbn Apgd ulnibn ljdrnka hgnr akz7 Ln kgqnr ~r igx? Ln ufixr xln ifx~pfk
xg~bl3 agp xln }ggp upni+ Xln dgrx hjdji~xjqn ga `jphr+ ujkk ajelx+ Lnp zg~ie ginr ji lnp
inrx+ fefjirx xln guk) Fkk jr xln anfp fih igxljie jr xln kgqn? Fr kjxxkn jr xln ujrhgd+ ulnpn
xln akjelx Rg p~ir fefjirx fkk pnfrgi)
Rjppfl+ zg~p afxlnp%r hnfh? Fih ulfx ujkk zg~ hg igu7 Lgu ujkk zg~ kjqn7 Fr `jphr hg+
dgxlnp) Ulfx+ ujxl ugpdr fih akjnr7 Ujxl ulfx J enx+ J dnfi? fih rg hg xlnz) ]ggp `jph&
xlg~%khrx inqnp anfp xln inx igp kjdn+ Xln }jxafkk igp xln eji) Ulz rlg~kh J+ dgxlnp7 ]ggp
`jphr xlnz fpn igx rnx agp) Dz afxlnp jr igx hnfh+ agp fkk zg~p rfzjie) Znr+ ln jr hnfh? lgu
ujkx xlg~ hg agp f afxlnp7 Ifz+ lgu ujkk zg~ hg agp f l~r`fih7 Ulz+ J bfi `~z dn xunixz fx
fiz dfponx)
G+ J bg~kh }kfz xln ugdfi ujxl djin nznr fih `pfeefpx ujxl dz xgie~n&
Uljxlnp rlg~kh J akz7 J lfqn hgin ig lfpd) @~x J pndnd`np igu J fd ji xljr nfpxlkz ugpkh?
ulnpn xg hg lfpd
Jr gaxni kf~hf`kn+ xg hg eggh rgdnxjdn Fbbg~ixnh hfienpg~r agkkz3 ulz xlni+ fkfr+ Hg J }~x
~} xlfx ugdfikz hnanirn+ Xg rfz J lfqn hgin ig lfpd7
Ulnpn jr zg~p l~r`fih7
J lg}n+ ji ig }kfbn rg ~irfibxjajnh
Ulnpn r~bl fr xlg~ dfzrx ajih ljd)
Ulfx+ zg~ nee&Ln lfr ojkk%h dn+ dgxlnp3 P~i fufz+ J }pfz zg~&
%D~phnp&%
G+ J bg~kh }kfz xln ugdfi ujxl djin nznr fih `pfeefpx ujxl dz xgie~n&
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 02 Aggxigxnr fx xln bpgrr)
Xljr xg lnfp Ug~kh Hnrhndgif rnpjg~rkz jibkjin?
Fixlpg}g}lfej+ Fk`fxpgrrnr fih bp~bjaj|nr) Pnifjrrfibn dni+ Egkegxlf fih Qnijbn) F
rnbgih xjdn jixg xln ugd`)
Aggxigxnr fx xln bpgrr) ]kjiz xln Nkhnp+ ljr Ifx~pfkjr Ljrxgpjf xlfx xln rfdn bfiij`fkr infp
Rbzxljf ugpn xln rbfk}r ga dni gi xlnjp blnrx) Xln Fixlpg}g}lfej+ ulgd un lfqn
}pnqjg~rkz dnixjginh fr hunkkjie xni hfzr% cg~pinz `nzgih xln @gpzrxlninr+ fbbgphjie xg
xln fbbg~ix ga Jrjegi~r ga Ijbáf+ unpn ji xln lf`jx ga hpjiojie g~x ga l~dfi ro~kkr+ fih
}kfbjie xln rbfk}r+ ujxl xln lfjp fxxfblnh+ ~}gi xlnjp `pnfrxr+ kjon rg dfiz if}ojir)
Ga g~p knenihr3 Jr jx igx rfjh xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f7
Nqni N~pg}f) N~pg}f+ fkrg Knqfix+ fih Xzpn7
%Xufr }jxja~k+ %xufr ugihpg~r }jxja~k) Rln ujrl%h rln lfh igx lnfph jx+ znx rln ujrl%h Xlfx
lnfqni lfh dfhn lnp r~bl f dfi? rln xlfio%h dn+ Fih `fhn dn+ ja J lfh f apjnih xlfx kgqnh
lnp+ J rlg~kh `~x xnfbl ljd lgu xg xnkk dz rxgpz+ Fih xlfx ug~kh ugg lnp) ^}gi xljr ljix J
r}fon3 Rln kgqnh dn agp xln hfienpr J lfh }frr%h+ Fih J kgqnh lnp xlfx rln hjh }jxz xlnd)
Xljr gikz jr xln ujxblbpfax J lfqn ~rnh) Lnpn bgdnr xln kfhz? knx lnp ujxinrr jx)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh
`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Dz ig`kn afxlnp+ J hg }npbnjqn lnpn f hjqjhnh h~xz3 Xg zg~ J fd `g~ih agp kjan fih
nh~bfxjgi? Dz kjan fih nh~bfxjgi `gxl hg knfpi dn Lgu xg pnr}nbx zg~? zg~ fpn xln kgph ga
h~xz? J fd ljxlnpxg zg~p hf~elxnp3 `~x lnpn%r dz l~r`fih+ Fih rg d~bl h~xz fr dz dgxlnp
rlgu%h Xg zg~+ }pnanppjie zg~ `nagpn lnp afxlnp+ Rg d~bl J blfkknien xlfx J dfz }pganrr
H~n xg xln Dggp dz kgph)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Fih ln rln kgqnh }pgqnh dfh) Dz dgxlnp lfh f dfjh bfkknh @fp`fpz3 Rln ufr ji kgqn+ fih
ln rln kgqnh }pgqnh dfh Fih hjh agprfon lnp3 rln lfh f rgie ga ‛ujkkgu?— Fi gkh xljie
%xufr+ `~x jx n|}pnrrnh lnp agpx~in+ Fih rln hjnh rjiejie jx3 xlfx rgie xg$ijelx Ujkk igx eg
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 08
apgd dz djih? J lfqn d~bl xg hg+ @~x xg eg lfie dz lnfh fkk fx gin rjhn+ Fih rjie jx kjon
}ggp @fp`fpz) ]pjxlnn+ hjr}fxbl)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh
`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Lnp afxlnp kgqnh dn+ gax jiqjxnh dn+ Rxjkk v~nrxjgi%h dn xln rxgpz ga dz kjan Apgd znfp xg
znfp+ xln `fxxknr+ rjnenr+ agpx~inr+ Xlfx J lfqn }frr%h) J pfi jx xlpg~el+ nqni apgd dz `gzjrl
hfzr Xg xln qnpz dgdnix xlfx ln `fhn dn xnkk jx3 Ulnpnji J r}fon ga dgrx hjrfrxpg~r
blfibnr+ Ga dgqjie fbbjhnixr `z akggh fih ajnkh+ Ga lfjp$`pnfhxl %rbf}nr j% xln jddjinix
hnfhkz `pnfbl+ Ga `njie xfoni `z xln jirgknix agn Fih rgkh xg rkfqnpz+ ga dz pnhnd}xjgi
xlnibn Fih }gpxfibn ji dz xpfqnkr% ljrxgpz? Ulnpnji ga fixpnr qfrx fih hnrnpxr jhkn+ Pg~el
v~fppjnr+ pgbor+ fih ljkkr ulgrn lnfhr xg~bl lnfqni+ Jx ufr dz ljix xg r}nfo$ r~bl ufr xln
}pgbnrr$ Fih ga xln Bfiij`fkr xlfx nfbl gxlnp nfx+ Xln Fixlpg}g}lfej+ fih dni ulgrn
lnfhr Hg epgu `ninfxl xlnjp rlg~khnpr) Xljr xg lnfp Ug~kh Hnrhndgif rnpjg~rkz jibkjin?@~x rxjkk xln lg~rn faafjpr ug~kh hpfu lnp xlnibn+ Uljbl nqnp fr rln bg~kh ujxl lfrxn
hjr}fxbl+ Rln%kh bgdn fefji+ fih ujxl f epnnhz nfp Hnqg~p ~} dz hjrbg~prn? uljbl J
g`rnpqjie+ Xggo gibn f }kjfix lg~p+ fih ag~ih eggh dnfir Xg hpfu apgd lnp f }pfznp ga
nfpinrx lnfpx Xlfx J ug~kh fkk dz }jkepjdfen hjkfxn+ Ulnpnga `z }fpbnkr rln lfh rgdnxljie
lnfph+ @~x igx jixnixjqnkz) J hjh bgirnix+ Fih gaxni hjh `ne~jkn lnp ga lnp xnfpr Ulni J hjh
r}nfo ga rgdn hjrxpnrra~k rxpgon Xlfx dz zg~xl r~aanp%h) Dz rxgpz `njie hgin+ Rln efqn dn
agp dz }fjir f ugpkh ga rjelr? Rln rugpn+ ji afjxl+ %xufr rxpfien+ %xufr }frrjie rxpfien?
%Xufr }jxja~k+ %xufr ugihpg~r }jxja~k) Rln ujrl%h rln lfh igx lnfph jx+ znx rln ujrl%h Xlfx
lnfqni lfh dfhn lnp r~bl f dfi? rln xlfio%h dn+ Fih `fhn dn+ ja J lfh f apjnih xlfx kgqnh
lnp+ J rlg~kh `~x xnfbl ljd lgu xg xnkk dz rxgpz+ Fih xlfx ug~kh ugg lnp) ^}gi xljr ljix J
r}fon3 Rln kgqnh dn agp xln hfienpr J lfh }frr%h+ Fih J kgqnh lnp xlfx rln hjh }jxz xlnd)
Xljr gikz jr xln ujxblbpfax J lfqn ~rnh) Lnpn bgdnr xln kfhz? knx lnp ujxinrr jx)
J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh
`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Dz ig`kn afxlnp+ J hg }npbnjqn lnpn f hjqjhnh h~xz3 Xg zg~ J fd `g~ih agp kjan fih
nh~bfxjgi? Dz kjan fih nh~bfxjgi `gxl hg knfpi dn Lgu xg pnr}nbx zg~? zg~ fpn xln kgph ga
h~xz? J fd ljxlnpxg zg~p hf~elxnp3 `~x lnpn%r dz l~r`fih+ Fih rg d~bl h~xz fr dz dgxlnprlgu%h Xg zg~+ }pnanppjie zg~ `nagpn lnp afxlnp+ Rg d~bl J blfkknien xlfx J dfz }pganrr
H~n xg xln Dggp dz kgph)
Aggxigxnr fx xln bpgrr) Xljr xg lnfp Ug~kh Hnrhndgif rnpjg~rkz jibkjin?
Fixlpg}g}lfej+ Fk`fxpgrrnr fih bp~bjaj|nr) Pnifjrrfibn dni+ Egkegxlf fih Qnijbn) F
rnbgih xjdn jixg xln ugd`)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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J oigu f kfhz ji Qnijbn ug~kh lfqn ufkonh
`fpnaggx xg ]fknrxjin agp f xg~bl ga ljr inxlnp kj})
Aggxigxnr fx xln bpgrr) ]kjiz xln Nkhnp+ ljr Ifx~pfkjr Ljrxgpjf xlfx xln rfdn bfiij`fkr infp
Rbzxljf ugpn xln rbfk}r ga dni gi xlnjp blnrx) Xln Fixlpg}g}lfej+ ulgd un lfqn}pnqjg~rkz dnixjginh fr hunkkjie xni hfzr% cg~pinz `nzgih xln @gpzrxlninr+ fbbgphjie xg
xln fbbg~ix ga Jrjegi~r ga Ijbáf+ unpn ji xln lf`jx ga hpjiojie g~x ga l~dfi ro~kkr+ fih
}kfbjie xln rbfk}r+ ujxl xln lfjp fxxfblnh+ ~}gi xlnjp `pnfrxr+ kjon rg dfiz if}ojir)
Ga g~p knenihr3 Jr jx igx rfjh xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f7
Nqni N~pg}f) N~pg}f+ fkrg Knqfix+ fih Xzpn7
Gbxg}~rrz fih un`$kjon rlpg~hr ga X~pji) Hjfdgihr fpn agpnqnp)
Dfhfdn @gqfpz7 G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn @gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj)
Fkgpr+ Dfhfdn @gqfpz ‡ Dfz J rnn zg~p x~`nr afkkg}jfi+ x~`nr afkkg}jfi fih x~`nr a~kk$
apgixfk+ x~`nr fih fkrg gqfpjnr kjon fkdgihr hnrbnihjie) Fl& V~nk }kfjrjp& V~nk }kfjrjp&
Hjfdgihr fpn agpnqnp) Hjfdgihr fpn agpnqnp)
Dfhfdn @gqfpz7 G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn @gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj) ‡ Fkgpr+ Dgirjn~p Dfhfdn@gqfpz‡ Rxjedfxf+ ug~ihr f}}nfp gi dzrnka+ ug~ihr epfaxnh r~hhni fih g~x ga igulnpn+
xlnz f}}nfp+ oigbojie dn hgui fih `jhhjie dn b~prn Egh fih hjn+ b~prn Egh fih hjn+
b~prn Egh+ kfdnix fih kgrn xln r}jpjxr hnrbnihnh fienkjb gi Lnpdnr‚ kfhhnpr bkjdf|jie xg
lnfqni+ xlgrn Lnpdjxjb r}jpjxr fijdfxjie dz }fpxr fih dnd`npr }pjqfxn) Akgeenh ujxl `fkkr
fih blfjir fih rlpg~hr ga X~pji f}}nfpjie+ hjrf}}nfpjie fih pnf}}nfpjie)
Dfhfdn @gqfpz7
G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn @gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj)
Rxjedfxf+ ug~ihr f}}nfp gi dzrnka+ ug~ihr epfaxnh r~hhni fih g~x ga igulnpn+ xlnz
f}}nfp+ oigbojie dn hgui fih `jhhjie dn b~prn Egh fih hjn+ b~prn Egh fih hjn+ b~prnEgh+ kfdnix fih kgrn xln r}jpjxr hnrbnihnh fienkjb gi Lnpdnr‚ kfhhnpr bkjdf|jie xg lnfqni
Dfhfdn @gqfpz7
G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn @gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj)
Fkgpr+ Dgirjn~p Dfhfdn @gqfpz ‡ Dfz J rnn zg~p x~`nr afkkg}jfi+ x~`nr afkkg}jfi fih x~`n
a~kk$apgixfk+ fkrg gqfpjnr kjon fkdgihr hnrbnihnh) Dfhfdn @gqfpz7 G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 01
@gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj) A~kk$apgixfk ig dgpn+ dz f}}fpfx~r jr hnagpdnh+ dfkagpdnh+ dgp}lnh
fih djrjiagpdnh `z xlnrn fijdfk r}jpjxr hn}fpxjie dz }fpxr fih dnd`npr }pjqfxn) R}jpjx
un`r in~pfk fih aj`npr hjrdnd`npnh+ d~xjkfxnh+ fr}lz|jfxnh `z xln gbxg}~rrz ujxl bkfur+
`nbogijie f rnbgih xjdn+ f rnbgih xjdn+ f rnbgih xjdn jixg xln ugd`+ hnbpzjie fih
hjrbkfjdjie }lfkkjxjb afkkfbjnr+ xnrxnr+ xnrxjdgijnr fih xnrxfdnixr+ ujxlg~x bgixnrx)
Dfhfdn @gqfpz7
G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn @gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj)
Rxjedfxf+ ug~ihr f}}nfp gi dzrnka+ ug~ihr epfaxnh r~hhni fih g~x ga igulnpn+ xlnz
f}}nfp+ oigbojie dn hgui fih `jhhjie dn b~prn Egh fih hjn+ b~prn Egh fih hjn+ b~prn
Egh+ kfdnix fih kgrn xln r}jpjxr hnrbnihnh fienkjb gi Lnpdnr‚ kfhhnpr bkjdf|jie xg lnfqni+
xlgrn Lnpdjxjb r}jpjxr fijdfxjie dz }fpxr fih dnd`npr }pjqfxn) Akgeenh ujxl `fkkr fih
blfjir fih rlpg~hr ga X~pji f}}nfpjie+ hjrf}}nfpjie fih pnf}}nfpjie) ‡ A~kk$apgixfk ig
dgpn+ dz f}}fpfx~r jr hnagpdnh+ dfkagpdnh+ dgp}lnh fih djrjiagpdnh `z xlnrn fijdfk
r}jpjxr hn}fpxjie dz }fpxr fih dnd`npr }pjqfxn) R}jpjxr un`r in~pfk fih aj`nprhjrdnd`npnh+ d~xjkfxnh+ fr}lz|jfxnh `z xln gbxg}~rrz ujxl bkfur+ `nbogijie f rnbgih
xjdn+ f rnbgih xjdn+ f rnbgih xjdn jixg xln ugd`+ hnbpzjie fih hjrbkfjdjie }lfkkjxjb
afkkfbjnr+ xnrxnr+ xnrxjdgijnr fih xnrxfdnixr+ ujxlg~x bgixnrx)
Gbxg}~rrz fih un`$kjon rlpg~hr ga X~pji) Hjfdgihr fpn agpnqnp)
Dfhfdn @gqfpz7 G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn @gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj)
Fkgpr+ Dfhfdn @gqfpz ‡ Dfz J rnn zg~p x~`nr afkkg}jfi+ x~`nr afkkg}jfi fih x~`nr a~kk$
apgixfk+ x~`nr fih fkrg gqfpjnr kjon fkdgihr hnrbnihjie) Fl& V~nk }kfjrjp& V~nk }kfjrjp&
Hjfdgihr fpn agpnqnp) Hjfdgihr fpn agpnqnp)
Dfhfdn @gqfpz7
G~j+ dgirjn~p) Dfhfdn @gqfpz+ b%nrx dgj)
DGIRJN^P NX DFHFDN AJXBL7
Lnp l~r`fih‚r xg Fkn}}g ejin+ dfrxnp ga xln Xzenp)
Ga g~p knenihr3 Jr jx igx rfjh xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f7
Nqni N~pg}f) N~pg}f+ fkrg Knqfix+ fih Xzpn7
Ulnpn lfrx xlg~ ̀ nni+ rjrxnp7 Ojkkjie rujin) Rjrxnp+ ulnpn xlg~7 F rfjkgp%r ujan lfh
blnrxi~xr ji lnp kf}+ Fih d~ibl%h+ fih d~ibl%h+ fih d~ibl%h) "Ejqn dn&" v~gxl J3 "Fpgjix
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 05
xlnn+ ujxbl&" xln p~d}$anh pgizgi bpjnr) Lnp l~r`fih%r xg Fkn}}g egin+ dfrxnp g% xln Xjenp3
@~x ji f rjnqn J%kk xljxlnp rfjk+ Fih+ kjon f pfx ujxlg~x f xfjk+ J%kk hg+ J%kk hg+ fih J%kk hg) J%kk ejqn
xlnn f ujih) Xlg~%px ojih) Fih J figxlnp) J dzrnka lfqn fkk xln gxlnp+ Fih xln qnpz }gpxr
xlnz `kgu+ Fkk xln v~fpxnpr xlfx xlnz oigu J% xln rlj}dfi%r bfph) J ujkk hpfji ljd hpz fr lfz3
Rknn} rlfkk injxlnp ijelx igp hfz Lfie ~}gi ljr }nixlg~rn kjh? Ln rlfkk kjqn f dfi agp`jh3
Unfpz rn%iijelxr ijin xjdnr ijin Rlfkk ln hujihkn+ }nfo fih }jin3 Xlg~el ljr `fpo bfiigx
`n kgrx+ Znx jx rlfkk `n xnd}nrx$xgrr%h) Kggo ulfx J lfqn) Rlgu dn+ rlgu dn) Lnpn J lfqn f
}jkgx%r xl~d`+ Upnbo%h fr lgdnufph ln hjh bgdn) F hp~d+ f hp~d& Dfb`nxl hgxl bgdn)
Xln unjph rjrxnpr+ lfih ji lfih+ ]grxnpr ga xln rnf fih kfih+ Xl~r hg eg f`g~x+ f`g~x3
Xlpjbn xg xljin fih xlpjbn xg djin Fih xlpjbn fefji+ xg dfon ~} ijin) ]nfbn& xln blfpd%r
ug~ih ~})
Ga g~p knenihr jr jx igx rfjh xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f7
Rg ag~k fih afjp f hfz J lfqn igx rnni) Lgu afp jr%x bfkk%h xg Agppnr7 ‘ Ulfx fpn xlnrn Rgujxlnp%h fih rg ujkh ji xlnjp fxxjpn+ Xlfx kggo igx kjon xln jilf`jxfixr g% xln nfpxl+ Fih znx
fpn gi%x7 Kjqn zg~7 gp fpn zg~ f~elx Xlfx dfi dfz v~nrxjgi7 Zg~ rnnd xg ~ihnprxfih dn+
@z nfbl fx gibn lnp blg}}z ajienp kfzjie ^}gi lnp rojiiz kj}r3 zg~ rlg~kh `n ugdni+ Fih
znx zg~p `nfphr agp`jh dn xg jixnp}pnx Xlfx zg~ fpn rg) R}nfo+ ja zg~ bfi3 ulfx fpn zg~7
Dgirjn~p nx Dfhfdn Ajxbl7
Lnp l~r`fih‚r xg Fkn}}g ejin+ dfrxnp ga xln Xzenp)
Ga g~p knenihr3 Jr jx igx rfjh xlfx Knqfix jr xln `jpxl}kfbn ga N~pg}f7
Nqni N~pg}f) N~pg}f+ fkrg Knqfix+ fih Xzpn7
Dfehfknin jr xln ugdfi fx xln epfqnrjhn fih bpzjie ugka)
Lzrxnpjf) Bpzjie ugka) Xln bpzjie efdn fih xln bpzjie gxlnp xljier)
Xlnpn lfr `nni f ufp) @kggh+ `kggh) Xln ojkkjie ajnkhr) Bgkh `kggh fih bgkh ufp) xlnpn lfr
`nni ufp) Ufp fih Ugpkh ujxlg~x nih)
Xlnpn lfr `nni f ufp) F ufp dgrx }pjdgphjfk) F ufp }pjdnqfk) Xln ajprx ufp) Un r~aanp
`nbf~rn xln eghr znfpi xg `n l~dfi) Fkk xljier annkjie+ fijdfxjie+ xln zfpir fih zfpir ga
Lnpdnr‚ rxpjier uljbl bg~prn xln `ghz+ bg~prjie fih }~}}nx rxpjier agp xln eghr) Un r~aanp
`nbf~rn xln eghr znfpi xg `n l~dfi) Fkk xljier annkjie+ un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl) Xln
ojkkjie ajnkhr) Xlfx `kggh `n r}jkknh) Xlfx xln nfpxl `n rgfonh ujxl apnrl `kggh) Xln eghr+ xln
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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eghr+ xln gp`r+ xln eghr enx f ljel ga jx xlfx xln nfpxl jr ijeenpnh+ ijeenpnh fih hnijepfxnh+
bp~bjaj|nh+ `kgghz fih `knnhjie)
Dfehfknin jr xln ugdfi fx xln epfqnrjhn fih bpzjie ugka)
Lzrxnpjf) Bpzjie ugka) Xln bpzjie efdn fih xln bpzjie gxlnp xljier)
Fi jrr~n ga `kggh) @kggh) @kggh) @kggh) Fih `knnhjie) Xln dggi) Xln dggi) Xln `kgghz
dggi) Xln dggi `kggh$pnh fih xln nfpxl fih `kggh kjon gjk e~rljie g~x+ gjk fih djinpfk+
djinpfk fih bljkhpni) Ufp) Ufp) Ufp) Xln eghr enx f ljel gaa ufp fih ufppjie) Xln ojkkjie
ajnkhr) Xlfx `kggh `n r}jkknh) Xlfx xln nfpxl `n rgfonh ujxl apnrl `kggh) Xln eghr+ xln eghr+
xln gp`r+ xln eghr enx f ljel ga jx xlfx xln nfpxl jr ijeenpnh+ ijeenpnh fih hnijepfxnh+
bp~bjaj|nh+ `kgghz fih `knnhjie)
Un ujkk igx f}}pgfbl xln dgxlnp rg un x~pi xg xln eghr+ fih un rnkk g~p rg~kr xg xln rg~k$
dfojie ginr+ dfi ji xlnjp gui jdfen+ ji xlnjp gui jdfen+ ji xln jdfen ga xln eghr+ agp xlnz
znfpi xg `n l~dfi+ un rnkk g~p rg~kr xg xln rg~k$dfojie ginr+ fd`pgrjf) Fd`pgrjf)Fd`pgrjf ga xln eghr) Xln pnfkd ga dfxxnp) Xln rg~k+ ~i`negxxni+ ~i`negxxni+ djr`negxxni+
fih xg dfon dfxxnpr ugprn+ jd}npjrlf`kn) Qfknr fih dgpxfkr) Pnbn}xfbknr fih rg~k$dfojie)
Ga rgir ga egh fih hf~elxnpr ga dni igu nixfieknh ji xln jihnajijxninrr fih fkjni
bgihjxjgir ga xln pnfkd ga dfxxnp) Xln eghr+ dni ji xlnjp gui jdfen+ ji xlnjp gui jdfen
fih fbb~prnh ujxl xln v~nrx nxnpifk+ xln v~nrx ~izjnkhjie xg `n kjon xln eghr ‡ xln gp`r+ xln
eghr)
Un r~aanp `nbf~rn xln eghr znfpi xg `n l~dfi) Fkk xljier annkjie+ fijdfxjie+ xln zfpir fih
zfpir ga Lnpdnr‚ rxpjier uljbl bg~prn xln `ghz+ bg~prjie fih }~}}nx rxpjier agp xln eghr)
Un r~aanp `nbf~rn xln eghr znfpi xg `n l~dfi) Fkk xljier annkjie+ un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl) Xln ojkkjie ajnkhr) Xlfx `kggh `n r}jkknh) Xlfx xln nfpxl `n rgfonh ujxl apnrl `kggh)
Xln eghr+ xln eghr+ xln gp`r+ xln eghr enx f ljel ga jx xlfx xln nfpxl jr ijeenpnh+ ijeenpnh
fih hnijepfxnh+ bp~bjaj|nh+ `kgghz fih `knnhjie)
Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih
bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
Dfehfknin jr xln ugdfi fx xln epfqnrjhn fih bpzjie ugka)
Lzrxnpjf) Bpzjie ugka) Xln bpzjie efdn fih xln bpzjie gxlnp xljier)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
]fen { 0:
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn)
Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn) Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr ig dggi
`~x xln `fxxkn ga lzdni)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn) Xln rjrxnpr ga Rf`jin) Xln rgir ga Egh) Xln rgir ga Egh) Xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp) Ujqnr) Xlnz
xggo xlnd ujqnr) L~r`fihpz) Xpfenhz G Xpfenhz) Xpfenhz) L~r`fihpz xlni ~r~pz)
Ga Pgdn fih Pgd~k~r+ xln rgir ga Egh)
Fih xlz hnrjpn rlfkk `n xg xlz l~r`fih+ fih ln rlfkk p~kn gqnp xlnn) Xln rjrxnpr ga
Rf`jin)
Xln dggi fih xln nirnd`kn) Jx ufr xln Rgdf+ xln AjprxL~r`fih `nxunni xln dggi fih xln
ugd` ga xln nfpxl+ fih nqnpzxljie lfh f bzbkn+ xln bj}lnp `njie ga xlnd xln ajprx) Xln
bj}lnp) Xln ugd`+ apgd uljbl bj}lnpjie fih hnbj}lnpjie) Xln pfzr ga xln dggi+ fx nfblv~fpxnp+ xln }fk}f`kn pfzr anpxjkjsnh fkk fih bj}lnp fih nqnpzxljie uf|nh fih ufinh
ujxlg~x naagpx) Un hfibnh xln dggi+ un fxn xln dggi fih hpfio xln dggi) Un r}gon xln
dggi+ }pfznh xln dggi+ fih rfie xln dggi fr ji bjpbknr un rxggh ji xln kgunrx }fpxr ga xln
nfpxl ulni xln dggi igu a~kk fih xlni rufkkgunh `z xln ajpdfdnix `kfbo)
Ga Pgdn fih Pgd~k~r+ xln rgir ga Egh)
Fih xlz hnrjpn rlfkk `n xg xlz l~r`fih+ fih ln rlfkk p~kn gqnp xlnn) Xln rjrxnpr ga
Rf`jin)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn)Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn) Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr ig dggi
`~x xln `fxxkn ga lzdni) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn) Xln rjrxnpr ga Rf`jin) Xln rgir ga
Egh) Xln rgir ga Egh) Xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp) Ujqnr) Xlnz xggo xlnd ujqnr)
L~r`fihpz) Xpfenhz G Xpfenhz) Xpfenhz) L~r`fihpz xlni ~r~pz) Ujqnr) Xlnz xggo xlnd
ujqnr) L~r`fihpz)
Xlnpn unpn ejfixr ji xln nfpxl ji xlgrn hfzr? fih fkrg faxnp xlfx+ ulni xln rgir ga Egh bfdn
ji ~ixg xln hf~elxnpr ga xln nfpxl dgxlnp+ fih xlnz `nfp bljkhpni xg xlnd+ xln rfdn
`nbfdn djelxz dni uljbl unpn ga gkh+ dni ga pnigui)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn) Xln rjrxnpr ga
Rf`jin) Xln rgir ga Egh) Xln rgir ga Egh) Xln hf~elxnpr ga xln NfpxlDgxlnp) Ujqnr) Xlnz
xggo xlnd ujqnr) L~r`fihpz) Xpfenhz G Xpfenhz) Xpfenhz) L~r`fihpz xlni ~r~pz)
Un fpn igx l~dfi `njier lfqjie f r}jpjx~fk n|}npjnibn)
Un fpn r}jpjx~fk `njier lfqjie f l~dfi n|}npjnibn)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Un lfqn ig bgiakjbx ujxl `kggh fih aknrl
`~x ujxl fpblgifxnr+ f~xlgpjxjnr+ xln ugpkh$p~knpr ga xljr hfpo pnejgi+
fih r}jpjx~fk agpbnr ga nqjk ji xln ~}}np lnfqnir)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn)
Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr ig dggi `~x xln `fxxkn ga lzdni)
Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr xln pf}n fih xln jixnpqnixjgi ga xln Rf`jin ugdni
Xln rnp}nix ga Rgkgdgi+ xln rnp}nix fih f}}knr ga Rgkgdgi+ ljr nznr fih djih‚r nzn+ Nqn‚r
rnp}nix fih Fhfd‚r f}}kn+ rln ufr Pgd~k~r‚ ujan Lnprjkjf ‘ xln hf~elxnp ga Xjx~r Xfxj~r+
knfhnp ga xln Rf`jinr+ rln }kfbnh lnp xnihnp `f`nr+ xlnjp xnihnp `kggh$ajkknh xgnr kjon }j}r
fih xlnjp ajienpr xj}}nh kjon pgrn `~hr ji `nxunni xln cfur ga ufp fih }nfbn+ fih lnp `ghz
fr xln }fui ufejie ufp fih ufejie }nfbn+ ufejie ufp fih ufejie }nfbn ujxl lnp jirjhnr+
lnp }pnbjg~r jirjhnr g~xrjhn fih fx xln annx ga lnp l~r`fih fih lnp afxlnp `gxl jpgi$bkfh
fih ̀ kggh$rgfonh)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn)
Xlnpn ujkk `n ig }jkkfejie xgijelx) Ig }jkkfejie fih ig }k~ihnpjie injxlnp) Xln afxlnp fih
xln l~r`fih+ fih xln rgkhjnpr+ xln r~i lfqjie lfh ig xjdn xg rjx hgui xlfx hfz+ xlnz rlnfxl
xlnjp rugphr fih x~bo ji xlnjp }lfkk~rnr) Xlnpn ujkk `n ig kggxjie xgijelx+ ig `ggxz injxlnp)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn)
Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr ig dggi `~x xln `fxxkn ga lzdni)
Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr xln pf}n fih xln jixnpqnixjgi ga xln Rf`jin ugdni
Xln rnp}nix ga Rgkgdgi+ xln rnp}nix fih f}}knr ga Rgkgdgi+ ljr nznr fih djih‚r nzn+ Nqn‚r
rnp}nix fih Fhfd‚r f}}kn+ rln ufr Pgd~k~r‚ ujan Lnprjkjf ‘ xln hf~elxnp ga Xjx~r Xfxj~r+
knfhnp ga xln Rf`jinr+ rln }kfbnh lnp xnihnp `f`nr+ xlnjp xnihnp `kggh$ajkknh xgnr kjon }j}r
fih xlnjp ajienpr xj}}nh kjon pgrn `~hr ji `nxunni xln cfur ga ufp fih }nfbn+ fih lnp `ghz
fr xln }fui ufejie ufp fih ufejie }nfbn+ ufejie ufp fih ufejie }nfbn ujxl lnp jirjhnr+
lnp }pnbjg~r jirjhnr g~xrjhn fih fx xln annx ga lnp l~r`fih fih lnp afxlnp `gxl jpgi$bkfh
fih ̀ kggh$rgfonh)
Xlnpn ujkk `n f hnbpnfrjie ga xln unjelx ga xlnjp xnrxnr fih xln xnrxjdgijnr ujxlji xlfx
rg~elx xg ejqn xnrxfdnix xlfx ijelx+ xnrxfdnix gkh fih inu+ egr}nkr+ fr unkk+ rnnhjie xln
ugdni+ xln nfpxl ujxl `kggh+ pnupjxjie xln bgixnixr ga xln fiifkr fih `pjiejie gphnp
ulnpn blfgr lgkhr rufz) Rln ufxblnh xln bjxz afkk `fbo frknn} fx xln `pnfrx ga xln rknn}jie
dgxlnp+ fih xln r~i afkk `nkgu xln pgbo Xfp}njfi)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Xln rnp}nix ga Rgkgdgi+ xln rnp}nix fih f}}knr ga Rgkgdgi+ ljr nznr fih djih‚r nzn+ Nqn‚r
rnp}nix fih Fhfd‚r f}}kn+ rln ufr Pgd~k~r‚ ujan Lnprjkjf+ hf~elxnp ga Xjx~r Xfxj~r+ knfhnp
ga xln Rf`jinr)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn)
Xlnpn ujkk `n ig }jkkfejie xgijelx) Ig }jkkfejie fih ig }k~ihnpjie injxlnp) Xln afxlnp fihxln l~r`fih+ fih xln rgkhjnpr+ xln r~i lfqjie lfh ig xjdn xg rjx hgui xlfx hfz+ xlnz rlnfxl
xlnjp rugphr fih x~bo ji xlnjp }lfkk~rnr) Xlnpn ujkk `n ig kggxjie xgijelx+ ig `ggxz injxlnp)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn)
Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr ig dggi `~x xln `fxxkn ga lzdni)
Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr xln pf}n fih xln jixnpqnixjgi ga xln Rf`jin ugdni
Xln pf}n ga xln Rf`jin ugdni) Fih xlnz xggo xlnd ujqnr) Xln rgir ga egh) Xln rgir ga egh)
L~r`fihpz) Fih xlnz xggo xlnd ujqnr) Ujqnr) Ujqnr) Fih xlnz xggo xlnd ujqnr ga fkk
uljbl xlnz blgrn) Pf}x~pn) Pf}x~pn) Pf}x~pn) Pf}x~pn fih lzdir ga }pfjrn xg xln `pgonilzdnir) Pf}x~pn fih }pfjrn$rgier) Fbxr lnpgjb xg `n pnbgphnh ji xln fiifkr) Fih xln bpz ga
xln ugdni lnkh `fifk fih xlnjp xnrxjdgijnr lnpnrjnr) Pf}x~pn fih }pfjrn$rgier) Fbxr
lnpgjb xg `n pnbgphnh ji xln fiifkr) Fih xln bpz ga xln ugdni lnkh fbxr ga lzrxnpjf fih
xlnjp r}nfojie hndnixjf)
Xlnpn ujkk `n ig }jkkfejie xgijelx) Ig }jkkfejie fih ig }k~ihnpjie injxlnp) Xln afxlnp fih
xln l~r`fih+ fih xln rgkhjnpr+ xln r~i lfqjie lfh ig xjdn xg rjx hgui xlfx hfz+ xlnz rlnfxl
xlnjp rugphr fih x~bo ji xlnjp }lfkk~rnr) Xlnpn ujkk `n ig kggxjie xgijelx+ ig `ggxz injxlnp)
Xln Pf}x~pn) Xln Pf}x~pn) Jx jr xln Pf}x~pn) Lzdni fih lzdifkr ga }pfjrn)Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr ig dggi `~x xln `fxxkn ga lzdni)
Gi Bf}jxgkjin Ljkk+ xlnpn jr xln pf}n fih xln jixnpqnixjgi ga xln Rf`jin ugdni
Aje xpnnr fx xln aggx ga Egkegxlf)Ji Nhni+ J fd xln aje xpnn fbb~prnh) F bp~bjaj| ~}gi dz }nkqjr fih
ji fixn`nkk~d+ xlnpn fpn rbfpnbpgur c~d}jie Cjd Bpgu ~ihnp gfo xpnnr)
J fd xln fbb~prnh aje xpnn fx xln aggx ga Egkegxlf }fpfhjie xln bp~bjaj| ~}gi dz }nkqjr+
fienkr hnrbnihjie fih frbnihjie hjrkghejie dz lj} apgd jxr `gin fih fkrg jxr rgbonx ejqni
xln dfiz fbxjqjxjnr n|xpf$b~ppjb~kfp) Ejqni xlfx dfiz fbxjqjxjnr n|xpf$b~ppjb~kfp+ xln eghr+
ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr) Zg~ rnn+ ‡ Zg~ rnn+ x ljr kjan jr
xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
‛Lgu bp~nk fpn xln }kfinxr xlfx rxfz xlnpn fih bgir}jpn nqjk ji xlnjp pfen ) ) ) xln }kfinxr bgir}jpn ji pfen fefjirx ~r)—
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Xln eghr+ xln gp`r+ xln fienkr+ xlnjp fbxjqjxjnr+ xlnjp cgz fih }knfr~pn pjhnr `nhnbonh
`nxunni dz runnx xljelr+ xlnjp bkjdf| fih gxlnpujrn+ xlnjp bgdjier fih egjier unhenh
fih ejqjie dn ug~ihr+ ug~ihr ga xln r}jpjx fih ug~ihr ga djih fih jrr~nr ga `kggh)
J fd xln fbb~prnh aje xpnn fx xln aggx ga Egkegxlf }fpfhjie xln bp~bjaj| ~}gi dz }nkqjr) Dz
ifdn jr Rxjedfxf) Apgd xln xunkqn lg~rnr ga xln eghr }kfinxfpz fih bnknrxjfk+ dz afxn
rnfknh+ hnkjqnpnh lnpn ji xljr ugpkh ulnpn afjxl jr hgin ujxl+ hgin ujxl fih pnh~ihfix) Dz
ifdn jr Rxjedfxf+ J fd fbb~prnh) Xujbn) J ujkk epnfxkz d~kxj}kz xlz rgppgu fih fkrg d~kxj}kz
xlz bgibn}xjgi? ji rgppgu xlg~ rlfkx `pjie agpxl bljkhpni? fih xlz hnrjpn rlfkk `n xg xlz
l~r`fih+ fih ln rlfkk p~kn gqnp xlnn)
Ufp) F }pgepfd }kfinxfpz) Apgd xln xunkqn lg~rnr ga xln eghr }kfinxfpz fih bnknrxjfk) Afxn
rnfknh+ hnkjqnpnh lnpn ji xljr ugpkh ulnpn afjxl jr hgin fih pnh~ihfix) J fd fbb~prnh)
L~r`fihpz) L~r`fihpz+ jx dnfir dfifendnix) Dfifendnix ga pnrg~pbnr ifx~pfk+ ifx~pfk
fih djinpfk+ xln dnfir ga }pgh~bxjgi fih fkrg pn}pgh~bxjgi) Fih xlz hnrjpn rlfkk `n xg xlz
l~r`fih+ fih ln rlfkk p~kn gqnp xlnn)
J fd jr b~prnh) B~prnh) Fih xujbn)
Ajprx jx ufr ji xln efphni) Xln rgir ga egh) Xln rgir ga egh) Xggo ~r ujqnr) Ujqnr) Ujqnr)
Xggo ~ ujqnr ga fkk uljbl xlnz blgrn) Xlfx xlnpn ufr xln ajprx) Rnbgih ufr ljd+ xln rgi ga
dfi) Lnpdnr) Xln rgi ga dfi) Igu ji xln dgpijie fr ln pnx~pinh jixg xln bjxz+ ln
l~ienpnh) Fih ulni ln rfu f aje xpnn ji xln ufz+ ln bfdn xg jx+ fih ag~ih igxljie xlnpngi+
`~x knfqnr gikz+ fih rfjh ~ixg jx+ Knx ig ap~jx epgu gi xlnn lnibnagpufph agpnqnp) Fih
}pnrnixkz xln aje xpnn ujxlnpnh fufz)
J fd xln fbb~prnh aje xpnn fx xln aggx ga Egkegxlf }fpfhjie xln bp~bjaj| ~}gi dz }nkqjr+
fienkr hnrbnihjie fih frbnihjie hjrkghejie dz lj} apgd jxr `gin fih fkrg jxr rgbonx ejqni
xln dfiz fbxjqjxjnr n|xpf$b~ppjb~kfp) Ejqni xlfx dfiz fbxjqjxjnr n|xpf$b~ppjb~kfp+ xln eghr+
ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr) Zg~ rnn+ ‡ Zg~ rnn+ x ljr kjan jr
xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl) Xln eghr+ xln gp`r+ xln fienkr+ xlnjp
fbxjqjxjnr+ xlnjp cgz fih }knfr~pn pjhnr `nhnbonh+ xlnjp bkjdf| fih gxlnpujrn+ xlnjp bgdjier
fih egjier unhenh fih ejqjie dn ug~ihr+ ug~ihr rxjedfxf fih ug~ihr ga xln r}jpjx+ fkrg
ug~ihr ga djih fih jrr~nr ga `kggh)
Aje xpnnr fx xln aggx ga Egkegxlf)Ji Nhni+ J fd xln aje xpnn fbb~prnh) F bp~bjaj| ~}gi dz }nkqjr fih
ji fixn`nkk~d+ xlnpn fpn rbfpnbpgur c~d}jie Cjd Bpgu ~ihnp gfo xpnnr)
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Ulni xln eghr ufix xg }~ijrl ~r+ xlnz firunp g~p }pfznpr)
Xljr kjan jr xln xlnfxpn ga xln eghr) Fih un fpn xlnjp }g~ih ga aknrl)
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ga rfbpnh xn|xr
lzrxnpjf }pjdgphjfk fih kjxnpfx~pn ga rn|)
ga eninrjr+ xln pf}x~pn
fih ga gxlnp dfxxnpr pnkjejg~r)
gi
xln rnh~bxjgi xlngpzji fih g~x ga nhni