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Mastering Emotional Intelligence to Boost Relationships at Work

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People 2.0 | www.people20.com222 Valley Creek Blvd, Suite 100 Exton, PA 19341| (888) 270-3579

Mastering

Emotional Intelligence

to Boost Relationships

At Work presented by

Pamela Jett, CSP

I want to be the master of my

emotions and not let my emotions be the master of me.

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People 2.0 | www.people20.com222 Valley Creek Blvd, Suite 100 Exton, PA 19341| (888) 270-3579

4 Pillars of EI

Self

Awareness

Self

Regulation Empathy Social Skills

Emotional Intelligence is the

Ability to Identify, Understand,

Manage, and Use Emotions in

Positive and Constructive

Ways.

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People 2.0 | www.people20.com222 Valley Creek Blvd, Suite 100 Exton, PA 19341| (888) 270-3579

Build Your

Emotional

Vocabulary

If you can name it, you can tame it.

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Embrace Duality

Embrace Duality

AND

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Locus of Control

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Know Your “Buttons”

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Hungry

Angry

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Hungry

Angry

Lonely

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Hungry

Angry

Lonely

Tired

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Power of Choice

Respond React

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Change Your

Frame

Power of Choice

Feelings

Behaviors

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Coping Statements

Coping Statements

• Present Tense

• Desired Feeling/Behavior

• Call Yourself by Name

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Empathy

Empathy

Sympathy

Feeling

“With”

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Empathy

Criticism

Criticism

Accurate

Well Intended

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Criticism

Accurate

Well Intended

Inaccurate

Well Intended

Criticism

Accurate

Well Intended

Inaccurate

Well Intended

Accurate

Not Well

Intended

Criticism

Accurate

Well Intended

Inaccurate

Well Intended

Accurate

Not Well

Intended

Inaccurate

Not Well

Intended

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People 2.0 | www.people20.com222 Valley Creek Blvd, Suite 100 Exton, PA 19341| (888) 270-3579

Emotional Intelligence is the

Ability to Identify, Understand,

Manage, and Use Emotions in

Positive and Constructive

Ways.

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