LANGUAGE UNSAID

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Language UnheardUnsaid !!!

Facial Expressions

States of body language

Body language in different states

State of confidence

• Defensive state or state of unease

• State of confusion

• Negative body gestures

• Positive gestures

How to detect lies???

What is lie?

• A false statement deliberately presented as being true -Dictionary

• “Lies are neither bad nor good. Like a fire they can either keep you warm or burn you to death, depending on how they're used.” ―Max Brooks

Clues for detecting lies

• Avoiding direct statements or answers • Speaking excessively in an effort to convince• Speaking in muddled sentences• Pausing at an unusual time, such as in the

middle of a sentence.

Establish Methods to Detect Lying

• Learn to recognize deflections• Look for stammers and stutters.• Look for nervousness. • Stare at them with a look of disbelief.

Walking Style

• The way one walks reflects his/her personality traits .

• It also reflects one’s current mood.

The Folded Arms Walk

• The person is generally a defensive person

• They generally feel insecure

• It is an evidence of lack of confidence

The Hands In The Pockets Walk

• It indicates a very private and introverted individual

• This person conceals his or her own feelings from the outside world

• They are good judges

The Deep Thoughts Walk

• The person is distressed• They are withdrawn

from others.

The Strutting Walk

• Shows proud and arrogant character

• Shows the character’s superiority

The Hand On The Hip Walk

• It’s a seductive walking style

• Generally adopted by women.

Handshake

Handwriting Emotional energy

Slant { /// ||| \\\ }

SPACING BETWEEN WORDS

SPEED OF WRITING

SPACING BETWEEN LETTERS

An Interview

Steps to observe stranger

• First, start off easy. Choose a target• Study their face• Take a look at their body language• Shake hands if possible• Make conversation• Observe walking style• The most important step is PRACTICE!

Things You'll Need•A clear head.•A critical mind.•No heart, feelings, or pity.•If necessary, a writing device to take notes

with.•Sunglasses to look cool and incognito.

Warning• •Do not get caught staring at your subject, or

they may start to judge you and be offended.• First impressions don’t last life long• Don’t be prejudice• Observe Carefully but your observation may

be wrong