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Hikikomori 2013
Cause or Solution?
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
How did we come at this point?
Luca’s story
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
(original video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50Y7R5zP0wc )
Luca’s originsDr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
Luca’s hard Childhood
the World doesn’t understand me
I don’t understand this World
I’m a loner
this World looks too threatening
this World terrifies me
maybe I can avoid it
or maybe I can escape it
exile is the only solution
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
The sweet confinementDr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
How do Luca socialize?Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
And while isolation goes over and over...Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
...what do Luca feel inside him?Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
A shattered Soul?Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
Luca’s roomDr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
His readings: Mangas
Clean, shining
Genuinely inviting
No need to conquer it
Ruoli e valori chiaramente definiti
A predictable World
Free Emotions and no prejudices...
...without peaks
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
His music: Heavy Metal
Rebellion, anger
Testosterone/estrogen a go go
Strong models, rigidly definied
Niche music, only for few people
Underground symbols and topics
In contact with your Inner Self
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
His furnitures: the Blades
Ritual blades
Symbols bringers
Expression of inner defenses
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
Internet Addiction: the cause or the effect?
A window to the World
...but with caution...
A shield behind the screen
Relationship training
A tool to build an Identity
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
The Hikikomori System
AsensitivePerson
Anaccomplice
Family
A Worldwith
no References
Anaccomplice
Society
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
Is it all lost?Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
How could we have reached Luca?Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
What to do in his room?
Empathy
Feeling
Emotions
Mirroring
Captatio benevolentiae
Guidance
Step by step...
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com
(original video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXx6mKF_WH4 )
Thank you!!! Our Journey continues...
diariodiunhikikomori.blogspot.it/ (ITA ver.)
bit.ly/internetaddictioncommunity
Dr Ivan Ferrero - Web Psychologist ivan.ferrero1975@gmail.com