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Whatothersaresayingaboutthismanualtoolkit:
ThisisreallygoodmanuscriptIreallylikethewayyouusereallife
examples.
-ShurvonHayes
Mr.Amonshowsthatifyoubelievethebestwaytocontrolofonesown
mind,istositbackandthink.Veryfewofusreallytakethetimetosit
downandthink.Alltheinformationontheplanetisatourfingertips,so
onemustclearhisheadandbody.
-ZakiAli
Ifanyhumanbeingappliedwhatyouwroteitwouldmakethema
righteousperson.Thegreatestgiftwecangivesomeoneisknowledge
thatwillmakehimorherabetterperson,thankyoubro.-JamesMcDowell
Mr.Amonawesomewisdomandknowledge.Keepbelievingandyou
shallachieve!
-Gum-LaiRoss
Ilovetheideayouhaveinthisareaofmaterial.Yourbookisagreat
read.
-AjaniSnellingNovelAuthor
Wemuststopgivingourselvestounnaturalpeople,thingsandideas.
Ashumanbeings,wemustreturntothenaturalwayoflivingofbeingin
touchwitheachotherandourselves.Themotivationforhealingmust
startwithinonesself!
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Mr.AmonsconceptinthismanualkitisaVERYPOWERFULone!He
teachesustheimportanceofeducationourselvesfinancially,and
surroundingourselveswithpositivepeopleandindividualswiththe
drive,direction,andvisionssimilartothoseyouareworkingtoward.
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Heruhascreatedapracticalguideforallages.Hetouchesonsubjects
andmattersthatwillhelpindividualstakecontroloftheirlivesand
theirowndestiny.Hehaschallengedyoutolookdeepinsideyourselfandconnectwiththeinnerenergytoovercomeobstaclesandbarriers
thatmaybeinyourway.Hetrulywriteswiththeintenttomotivate,
inspire,andtoinstillconfidenceintheabilitieshehighlightsthat
everyonepossesses.
-RashadC.Norris
HeruAmonisapowerthoroughlyexpressingtheknowledgetothe
peopleliketheairwebreathe(freely),favorableimpressingthoseof
thoughttheprincipleofattainingadesireforfoodandwaterthemind
needsthroughreadingandgoingoverallderivativesofwords,greatexampleofayoungblackgod,brotherHeruAmonhasinspiredmeto
stepupmygame.Hisbookcreatesthoughtsomethingouryoungand
oldforgot.
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CONTENTS
ABOUTTHEAUTHOR
WARNING-DISCLAIMER
ACKNOWLEDGMENTSFOREWARDBYSUKUMAAVERY
1.WHATAREYOUHEREFOR RESETTINGYOURROOTS DESIREOFNEEDS ADIFFERENTTHINKING HABITMAKING
2.MINDOVERMATTER
FORMULATINGYOURMIND SUBCONSCIOUSMINDCONTROL CREATIVEVISUALIZATION USINGYOUREMOTIONALTHOUGHTS
3. POWEROFTHESPOKENWORD WHATYOUSAYISWHATYOUGET SELFTALK FAITHINONESELF FOODOFTHOUGHT
4.BELIEVEORBELIEF SETTINGYOUROUTCOMES YOUROUTCOMEPLANNINGFORM OUTCOMESETTINGFORMULA EMBRACINGCHANGE CONSISTENCECREATESPERSISTENCE ACTIONMENTALITY EMBRACINGSUCCESS
5.NOPLANNOWORK PLANYOURWORK,WORKYOURPLAN GROWYOURSELFBIGGERTHENTHEPROBLEM STOPTHEPROCRASTINATING/JUSTDOITNOW FOCUSACTIONS/MULTITASKING EMBRACINGFAILURES ISMYTIMENOTIMPORTANT KEEPONKEEPINGON
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6.RELATINGWITHOTHERS USINGTHEHIGHESTSTIMULIOFTHEMIND SETTINGSEEDS THECHARACTERPEOPLESEEINYOU AMINEGATIVEORPOSITIVE ADMITTINGYOURFAULTS OPENINGYOURMINDTOOTHERS THEMOREYOUGIVE AHARVESTTOGETHER
7. LEADERSCREATEOTHERLEADERS SETTINGTHEEXAMPLE CREATINGYOURFUTURE INTEGRITYCREATING
UPDATEDLEADERS YOUAREYOUROWNSAVIOR WHATSNEXTCOACH/MENTORSHIP HOWDOYOUWANTTOLIVE PUTTINGITALLTOGETHER
AFTER-WORD
BONUSPACKAGEINFORMATION
APPENDIX/CD-ROM
EXTRAWORKSHOP/PROGRAMFORMS
BIBLIOGRAPHYINDEX/SPRINKLES
CONTACTINFORMATION/ORDERFORM
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ABOUTTHEAUTHOR
Heru-Amon
FreedomFighter/Author/Publisher/Copywriter/Consultant/Marketeris
veryconceptualandaninnovator.Heconstantlyisthinkingnew
ideasandnewwaysinconnectingconcepts.NotonlydoesHeru
havetheabilitytocreate,buthealsohastheskillsandknow-how
inturningtheseideasintoreality.Heruisagifted,committedand
talentedindividual.Heisfluidandmulti-facetedinhisapproachof
creatingandworkingwithothers.
Thebest-sellingguideonself-helpandpersonaldevelopmentthathasshownhundredsofpeoplehowtotakepossessionoftheirown
minds.Whatisyourholdup?
FounderofUniversalConceptsoftheMasterMindsGroup
FounderofMySovereignWorldAssociation
FounderofAutonomousLivingSocietyAssociation
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WARNING-DISCLAIMER
Ifyouarethetypeofpersonworriedaboutbadgrammarandmissed
spelledwords,thissystemisnotforyou.Ontheotherhand,ifyouare
thepersonlookingforastepbystepsystemthatwillhaveanimpacton
yourlifethenyougottherightprogram.Theauthorandpublisherof
thisbookandtheaccompanyingmaterialshaveusedtheirbestefforts
inpreparingthisprogram.Theauthorandpublishermakeno
representationorwarrantieswithrespecttotheaccuracy,applicability,
fitness,orcompletenessofthecontentsofthisprogram.Theydisclaim
anywarranties(expressedorimplied),merchantability,orfitnessfor
anyparticularpurpose.ThisManualcontainsmaterialprotectedunder
CopyrightLawsandTreaties.Anyunauthorizedreprintoruseofthis
materialisprohibited.
Youmayshareasmanycopiesasyoulike.Enjoy!
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
GivethankstoDailynnWebber,toHeatherJonesand
familyforallyourlove,totheAveryfamily,NelsonDel
Pino,Darryl&SarahBriceandFamily,NaziyrandFamily,JihadandFamilyZakiAliandFamily,KhafreAmen
RaHotepandFamily,CherylBlackfordandFamily,Sukuma
Avery,KwameAvery,ThomasRitchieandthefamily,
NeliahUhuruAsantewaa,DorienHunterandFamily,
GranddaddyandFamily,YoshikoHarden,Natasha
Burrowes,JoshMagallanes,ChayudaOverby,Jonathan
Brown,MartaReeves,Staff&facultyatHighline
CommunityCollege,ZevSiegl,AaronReaderandFamily,AjaniSnelling,BazMoreno,thankstoallforthesupportin
mylifejourneyandtowhomeverIdidnotlistyourinmy
heart.
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FORWARD
Ifyouhadtheopportunityrightnowtositdownwithanexpertthat
couldshowyouhowtoreset,reprogramthenegativethoughtsthatrun
thoughyourmindonadailybasis,enablingyoutoachievemoreandgetthefinerthingsthatyoudesireinyourlife.
Howwouldthatmakeadifferenceinyourbusinessworld,yoursocial
worldandinyourdaytodaylife?
Woulditallowyoutofreeupmoretimetospendwithfamily,friends
andlovedones?Willitenableyoutoputmoremoneyinyourbank
accountandlivelifeonyourownterms?Ithinkso!
Icantthinkofabetterpersonwhocanshowyouhowtoreprogram
yourmindinallaspectsofyourlifeformassivesuccess.Ihaveknown
HeruAmonmyentirelifeandheisagentleman,agiverandmost
importantanactiontaker.
SukumaAvery
January2011
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HOWTOTAKEPOSSESSIONOF
YOUROWNMIND
DISCOVERTHESECRETSOFTAKING
POSSESSIONOFYOUROWNMIND
GUARANTEED!
HERU-AMON
2NDEDITIONEDITOR:DR.BAZMORENO
U&CPUBLISHING
COPYRIGHT2005-2011
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Chapter1WhatareYouHereForYourfirststeptowardsinternalriches
ResettingYourRootsResettingyourrootsbytakingwhatyourparentstaughtyou,then
reevaluatinginaddition,reprogrammingyourmind.Asyoulookbackuponyourlife,thinkaboutthesocializationandthedifferentlessonsyouwheretaughtasa
youngster.Whatkindofinfluencedidtheyhaveonyourmind?Howdoyoureacttowardsituationsinlife?Lookingback,youthinktoyourself,Didmyparentsteachmethebestthingsthattheycould?IfnotcouldImyselfchangethatwayof
thinking?Growingup,youarepressuredorinfluencedbywhereyouliveandby
peopleyourearoundyouaremorelikelytodowhatotherssaytodo,ratherthenhearingyourselfandtakingyourowncounsel,furthermore,weareimpactedby
informationthroughmediatrends.Everyonewilltellyouwhatyouneedtolooklikeorbeliketobeacceptedamongyourcommunity.
Ifyournothappywithothersmakingyourdecisions,isittimetochangeyourwayofthinking?Resettingyourrootsistheobjectivetounderstandingand
changingyourthinkinghabitsandyourways.Themainpurposeistochangeyour
mindset.Thepotentialyouhaveisgreat,farbeyondwhatyourealize,youalreadypossesstheinternalriches,allIwouldliketodoandthatyouseekfourstagestotap
into.Whohasbeenyourinfluence,whynotme.Therearefourelementstages.
1. Mental2. Emotional3. Spiritual4. PhysicalorPersonal
Theseelementshavebeenshapedbyyoursocializationcycleofinfluences.
Therefore,thefollowingcharacteristicshasbeenverbal,modelingformsof
informationandintendedtoattractyourhabitsandbehaviorsthatcreatethepersonyouaretoday.Mentallyourmindsworkasifyouareacreativeartist.Forexample,Larryisasalesrepresentativeforasmalladvertisingagency.Larryisout
andaboutthetownrunningsomeeonsandfindingmoreleadstodevelopingandgrowingtheagency,Larrywalksinalocalgrocerystoreforafewitemsandabitto
eat.Larryisawareofwhatheislookingfor,thisactionofLarrysbraintriggersthementaltoreactandrecognizewhatLarryisseeking.Hegoestothedelisectionof
thestoretofindthepremadesandwiches.Larryaskedhimself,Howcanweuse
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thissamemethodattheagency?CreativityisdevelopedinLarrysmindashetakes
noteofhisimpulsethoughtsandactionsthatcontrolshismentalthought.Thisbringsustothesecondstageofemotion.Emotionalstageisamental
associationthathasbeenassociatedwithyourmindandwhatsomethingorsomeoneshouldlooklike.Larryrecognizedthethinkingofhismentalandhowit
feltwhenhehadfoundthesandwiches.Eventhoughheknewwhatitlookliketheemotionaltriggersinhismindstimulithetastebudsandfeelingofholdingthe
sandwichinhand.Larrythoughtifhecouldcreatethissameemotionasforthe
clientsthatwouldwanttheagenciesservices,howtheagencywouldbenefittotheclients.
Thethirdstagewouldbespiritual,whatandwhoisguidingyou.Whatmade
Larryclickandbeawareofwhatwasgoingon?First,hisstomachIamhungry,and
thenhestartedtopayattentiontothesurroundingofhowthelayoutofthestoreattractedthetriggersofLarryshabitsofconsumption.Societyhascreatedan
atmosphereofwhatworksandwhatdonotwork.Theyhavealsomasteredtheart
ofbrandingandwhatattractspeopletobuywithaspiritualoremotionalconnection
totheproduct.Thefourthstageisyourphysicalorpersonalbeingandouterstructure.
PhysicallyLarrytookactiontofollowinghisheartandstomach.Bywalkinginthis
storeandapplyingthehabitsofhishumannature.Larrywasaccountabletohis
actionsandthinkingaswellashisfeelingtowardstheimpulseideathathemustard
upfortheagency.Nowletustakeitbackwhenyouwereaboutfiveyearsold.Themostcommon
wordyouheard,outofyourparentsorwhomeveryourauthorityfigurewas,you
heard,(No,dontdothat,thatsanono,etcAllnegativeaffirmations.Nothingpositiveaboutthatwordno.Growingupandadaptingtothatwordwouldmake
youafraidofwhattheresultswere.Thatmaybewhyinyourlifepathyouareso
skepticalofmakingdecisionsincertainsituations.Didsomeoneinyourlifesay,Doyouthinkmoneygrowsontrees?Therefore,parentsthinktheyaregivengoodadvicebutinfact,theyaredestroyingyourdreams.
Forexample,Samwasborninalovingfamily,afamilythatgaveSamthepassion
andattentionthatayoungchildneeded.Hisparentshadaverysuccessfullaw
practicefirmthatspecializedindivorcesandbankrupts.TheylovedlittleSamso
muchthattheybroughthimtotheiroffice.TheykeptSamaroundthebusinessandexpressedonhimhowtobecomealawyerandwhatitwouldtake.Samlearnedfast
andthoughtinhisheartthathewouldbecomeasuccessfullawyerasparents.Sam
grewupexperimentinglifethroughhisparentseyesandseemstounderstandhow
thebusinesssystemworked.
Ashegotolder,hewasexposedtootheropportunitiesbesideshissuccessfulparentsfirmandhewantedtodosomethingsimpler.EverytimeSamwantedtodo
somethingonhisown,hisparentsdidnotapproveofwhathewanted.Samwanted
togotoanothercollegetopursebeingascientistinsteadofalawyer,buthisparents
hadabigproblemwiththat.ThenitcametothattimewhenSamparentswantedhimtodo,bygoingtothecollegetopracticelaw.Samsmothersuggestedthat,
WhynotgothecollegesyourfatherandIattend?Samwasgettingconfusedon
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whomtosatisfy,themormyself.WhoselifeIamliving?Hequestionshimself.
Whatcomestomindwhenyouthinkaboutthissituation?Todayifyourepeatthesesamewordsandactions,theymaykeepyoudownand
stopyoufromgrowth.Whenyoureprogramyourmind,youenableyourselftogrowandmanifestgoodthingsforyouandyourfamily.Yourmindisfullof
thoughts,butyouhavebeenprogrammedbythoughtsfromothersthatlimitedyoufromgreatness.Thoughtsareideas.Therefore,actonthemandyouwillreceive
them.Youintendtodosomething,butasofchange,youaresocalledpreparing
yourselfforthechange.Example,youwouldliketostopeatingmeat,andbecomeavegetarian,thereforeyouarepreparingyourselftoactintheaccordingmatterto
makingthechange,butsomehowyouarestillcravingthemeat.Youwouldtake
theseprocedures,educatingyourselfonothersubstitutesofnonmeatproducts.
Researchingthelibraryoryourlocalbookstorestofindingtherightinformationonbecomingavegetarian.Sometimesaskingothersiftheyknowofanyonewhoisa
vegetarian.Youaretakingactiononthethoughtorideayouwouldliketo
accomplish.Itisalsogoingtotakewillpowerandselfdiscipline.
Usingthefollowingexample,youwillmakeitanefforttobecomingavegetarian.Daysgobybutyoumakeachangeofyoureatinghabits.Breakingthatoldhabitofeatingmeatandputtingsomethinginitsplace.Youarementallyat
peace.Thispartakesinanythingyoudooursayinlife.Takecontrolofyourmind
set.
Humansadapttotheenvironmenttheyarearound,asyousee,Ihaveasystematicmethodtoresettingyourroots,bycreatingalearningenvironmentaroundyouandyours.Creatingahabitofpickingupbooksandlearningsupplies
andcomprehensionofwhatspecializesknowledgeyouattain.Therealkeytoresettingyourrootsistolearntheinformationandapplyittothesubconscious
mindinaformofselftalk,moreonselftalkinlaterchapters.Speakingtoyour
innerselfandputtingpositivelywhereitbelongs,thatisyou.Youareagifttothisworld;youalsohavetheabilitytouseyoursixthsense,tappingintoyourGodliketalent.
Sprinkles:Selfdisciplineishowyousucceedinaninternalandexternalriches
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DesireofNeeds
What makes you cringe or get excited about something or someone youdesire? For example, throughout history being under limited situations, people
haveovercomefloodsoffailurestobeabletosucceedintheirdesiresandpassions
inlife.Wetendtobeexcitedoverotherssuccesses,howtheybecamestrongerand
keepgoingregardlessoftheresults.Eventhough,themajorityofthetimeyoudonotthink,itispossibletoachievethatoneandonlydesireyouwantandneed.Iwill
illustratethisaction.Youhaveinyourmindlimitswhichyoucallexcuses.
Johnisamerchandiseratamidsizerecordcompany.Onhisbehalf,hehas
toplantogeneratenewmerchandiseaccountsforthecompany.Hewasinstructedbythevicepresidentofsalestocontactfourdistributorsperweekforservicingandexpandingbusinessaccounts.Attheendoftheweek,theVPofsalesaskedJohnfor
thenewcontactsinformation.
VPSales:WhatnewcontactsdidyoumakethisweekJohn?John: Icouldonly contact one distributor. Iwillhave the remainderdone lateron
today.(Excuse)
VPSales:IthoughtImadeitcleartoyouthatIwantedfournewaccountseveryweek.
John:Yes,youmadeitreallyclear.VPSales:Whatarethereasonsthatyoucouldnotcompletetheotherthreecalls?
John:Ihadtocatchupwithseveralotherdutiesyouexpectedfromme.Checkitout.
AndIhavelotmoredonethisweekthanlastweek!
VPSales:Nicework,butdontforgetaboutthosenewaccounts.
John:No,Iwontforget.Thankyou.
Excuses account for your failures and the desires you cannot accomplish.
Creativemindsareresponsibleforinitiatingthisuniverseoftodayintoexistence!
Forwardmoving,positivepeoplesetthestandardforyou.Beexcitedaboutyour
desiresandthefactthatyoucanmakeyourdesiresareality.Youmustdowhatittakestomakeittruetoyourself.
Iamheretobringyouthefactsoflifeandthedetailsofhowtobecomethe
significant figure in life, to bridge the gap between the matrix and reality of
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specializeknowledge.Whatareyourdesires?Whatisthedifferencebetweenneed
andwant?Howdoesthisdesirecomeabout?Adesireisadreamoravisionnotyetsetintoreality.Ifyoudonothaveanyambitiontoreceivethatdream,thatisnota
concretedesire.Manytimes,youhavebeencriticizedaboutwhatyoudesireorwantin yourdreammaking stage. Dreams aredestroyed dueto thenegative thinking
and your social pool of negative people. Your ethic moral of that dictates yourbehaviorsinfluencesyourthinkingandhowyoureacttowardsthatdesireorneed.
Mysystematicprogramwillguideyoutoyourmostdesiredneedorwantinlife.You
must understand the difference. Aneed is being in want of a necessity like food,clothingandshelter.Towantistofeelorsuffertheneedofsomethingorsomeone.
Desireisthefirststep,butyoumustunderstandthatitcannotbewithoutadefined
plantoachievethismaindesireoroutcomeinyourlife.
Lackofprogressonattainingtherightspecializedknowledgeandresearchthat you need to accomplish this desire you want. Ask yourself, What is the
importantthingIneedinmyliferightnow?
Sprinkles:Icanpaynowandplaylaterorplaynowandpaylater-ByJohnMaxwell
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ADifferentThinking
Understanding the logic of creative thinking is simple but not easy.
Opinions arethe worst commodities, EarlNightgale would say.Have you reallyanalyzedyourprocessofthinking?Whatareyourresults,andwhatmadeyoucome
upwiththissocalledwayofthinking?Whoinfluencesyourthinking?Adifferenttypeof thinkingisthechallengeyougothroughonadailybasis.
Thinking is what makes the character stand out in you. Life gives you manychallenges to take or not take action, this gives you the experience it whatever
situationyoumayencounter.Howdoyougooutandgetthisdifferentwayofthinking?Theanswerisas
simple as applying yourself and opening your mind to other ways at looking at
problemsandusingothersolutions.Areyourprioritiesofthinkingintherightfieldofthought? Thinkabout that!Are your priorities ofthinkingin the right fieldof
thought?Whataretheimportantthoughtsthatcometomindeveryday?Mygoalis
to make you think in an organized way to accomplish anything your mind can
conceive.All formsof art are expressions ofthoughts andemotionsfor all peopleto
relateto.Musicisanartofthinking;youlistentoothersexpresstheirthoughtsand
feelings. In studying your thinking patterns put the right information in yoursubconscious mind by simulating the Nero thinking meaning your impulse
thoughts to reacting to whatever habits you are applying. News and media hasinfluenceyourlife,theysaythatyousubconsciouslyseeover3000adsaday.What
are thesesubliminal messages feeding you? The ads feed you what tothinkand
howtoreact.Insteadoflettingmediaandsocietyfeedyourthinking;feedyourself
motivationalandinspirationalinformationtopromoteyourpersonaldevelopmentandcreatetheenvironmentsaroundyouandyours.Forthisreason,setyoursocialcyclearoundothergreatpositivepeople.
Iwouldlikeyoutochallengeyouwiththefollowingexercise.First,findawritingtoolandsomepaper.
Iwouldlikeforyoutoobtainthisnewthoughtprocessbyclearingyourmind;findaplacewhereitisquietoutside.Imagineastreamofwateroraparkwherethebirds
arechirpingandthesoundofnatureisonewithyourmind.Thiswayyoucanfocus
onyouandyourthinking.Youwouldlookforatreeorsomewheretositdownandrelaxyourbodyandsoulwhileyouarebeingawareofeverythingthatisaround
you.Take10minutesandwritedownallyourawarenessthoughtsthatcometo
mind.
Iwouldlikeyoutowritedownthisformat.Forexample,Iamawareofthesquirrelrunningacrossthegrass.Iamawareofthewindblowingthetrees.IamawareofI
amawareofIamawareof
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Now,Iwantyoutogoovereveryawarenessactionandwritedownatthe
endofeachsentencethesensesthatyouused.Forexample,youusedyourfeelings,hearing,touch,smellorsight.
Iamawareofthesquirrelrunningacrossthegrass.(Sight)Iamawareofthewindblowingthetrees.(Sight,hearing)
Dothesameawarenessactivityonyourphysicalreactionstounderstandhowyourhabitscontrolyourreactionofyourphysicalbody.IfIwereyouIwouldfollowand
usethesefollowingsteps&questionsthroughoutmylifetoseewereIstand.
NowthatIhaveyourmindonyou,writedownthesequestionsandanswerthem.
1.Whatismypurposeforbeinghere?
2.HowcanIbestusemytimeonearth?3.Whataretheresults,ifIdonotfulfillmypurpose?WhathappensifIdontfulfill
mypurpose?
4.HowcanIgoaboutusingothersfortheactivitiesIcannotfulfill?
5.Whatistakingmytime?6.HowcanIbemoreeffective?
Sprinkles:Negativeexperiencedwellsonapositiveoutcome
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HabitMaking
Habitisanactionpackedword;awordthatexpressesmovement.AtermIwouldliketouseforthewordhabitishave.itisinyoursubconsciousmindto
automatically pick it up or put it down, like saying something that you areconditionedtospeakon.Youcanchangethishabitbyapplyingthisformula.
POSITIVEHABITS+ACTIONS+BUILDSCHARACTER=RESULTS
In other words, habits make you the person you imitate today.
Understandingand overstanding habits are a big challenge for you. Your mind is
conditionedtoyouractionsandreactions.Habitscanbecontrolledemotionallyandphysically.They alsomay bea goodor abadinfluenceon you and others around
youasIstatedbeforeintermsofyoursocialstructure.
Makinganewhabitchallengesyourthinking.Goingaboutdoingsomething
forthefirsttimeisthehardestmovetomake.Thisiswhereyouloseyourfocus.Youconstantly try to preparefor your new challenge. You have two factors pain orpleasureasAnthonyRobbinsalwaysspeakson.Whichsideisyourscaletilted
painorpleasure?Habitsaretheresultofyourcommunity.Well how do you go about creating real positive habits? Lots of time, you
assumethatyoucannotputa100%intoapassionofwhatyoureallyenjoy.Applynewhabitswithmysystematicmethod.Youautomaticallymultitask,I believe,ina
concept called counter balancing. There are certain behaviors you have and you
start to examinehabits.Notallyourhabits arepositive. Building yourhabits and
buildingyourcharacterthisiswhatreflectstheoutlookofwhatothersseeinyou.I was taught at a young age that practice makes things perfect. What that
taughtmewasdisciplineandselfdeterminationinwhateverathleticsorbusiness
ventureIwastobeinvolved.Understandingthatconcept,Ilearnedthatyouneedtopracticetheskillortalentto bebetterormoreoutstanding.Therefore,getaround
othersthatwillchallengeyourabilities.Habitsareethicsthatcreatevaluesinyourlife,whichmakeyouthegreatest
sentientbeingonearth.Valuesaremapsthatkeepyouontracktolife,principles
you live by to formulate your habits to have as many descriptions of skills andknowledgeforyourwellbeing.Wearewhatwerepeatedlydo.Excellence,then,is
notanact,butahabit.Aristotle.Now,thisissomethingtodigest.
Habits work byrepeatinga behavior repeatedly. What isjoyful isthat you
can reprogram yourselfatanytimeyoulike.Itisatrip whenyouseea habitasayoungchild,andsayIamnotgoingtodothatwhenIbecomeanadult.Assoonas
you become thatadult you havethatcertainhabitthatyoudidntwant asa childlookingatyouinyouradulthood.Youhavechoices,youcantakeitorleaveit,but
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you must understandthatsome social structures donot have choice because the
choicesaredecidedforyou.Moreonsocialstructuresinlaterchapters.Changingyour habits take time and energy. Foremost, when you want to experience
successfulhabitchanges,keepinmindthathabitstakeabouttwentyonedays,orless,of repeatingthenewbehaviorsandactions. Howlonghaveyoubeenfighting
withthishabit?Thiswilldeterminehowlongitwilltakeyoutochange.Sometimes,yourchanginghabitseemstorevertintoyouroldhabits,becauseofstressornot
gettingtheresultsasfastasyouwant.
Wearecreaturesofhabit,soyouareveypredictable.Youmightnotseetheresultsofthenewhabitasquickasyouwantitbutitwillsoonstarttoshow.
Improvingyournewbehaviorsorhabitsisamatteroftakingonehabitatatimein
eachmonth.Setthishabitchangeasanoutcomeforyoutoaccomplishwithinthat
certainmonth.Inaddition,youcanusemymethodinthefollowingsectiononhowtobeawareofyouractionsofgoodorbadhabits.Yourbeliefsaretiedtoyourhabits
andyoumustreprogramyourselffromthisdayforth.Changingthemeaningofyour
habitwillchangetheeffectandtherewillbeabenefitintheend.Recondition
yourself.Forexample,ifIworkout(liftweights)foraperiodoftimeandgettheresultsIwaslookingforandafterwards,stopIwillendupbackinthesameplaceIstartedandtheresultswillwasteaway.Youhavetomakethisalifestyle.Makeitan
automaticreactiontowhatyoudoorsayinyourhabitbehaviors.
Mysystematicmethodwillshowyouhowtointerruptyourhabitpatterns.
Theonlythingisyouhavetowanttochangethishabitorbehaviorofpatternssetinyoursubconsciousmind.Nobooksoraudiotapeprogramsaregoingtomakeyouchange.Youhavetohaveitdeepdowninyourhearttowanttochange.Youmust
learn through experiences.Apply each and everyday towards teaching yourmindstatenewsuccessfulhabits.Nothingwillchange,untilyouchange.
Sprinkles:Soathought,reapanaction,sowsanaction,reapsahabit;sowahabit,reapacharacter,reapadestiny Asyouareneartheclosingofthischapter,Iwouldliketosuggestthatyoure
readthechapterbeforeyoucontinuetothenext.
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Chapter2MindOverMatter
YourSecondStepTowardsInternalRichesFormulatingYourMind
Theuseoftheoldestequipmentisnotbeingusedtoitsfullestpotential.Themostpowerfulcomputereverinexistenceisyourbrain.Itistimetoawakenyour
mind and use the full capacityof it. You limityourself bynot developing amindlearning attitudetowards furtheringyoureducationor knowingyourself.Thereis
much information on knowing yourself. Formulating your mind takes time andpatience. Yet, you enjoy that quick gratification. Mind over matter is what yourintellectissupposedtobeusedfor.Theinformationinsideyourbrainhaswhatever
youdesire.Logically,yoursocialclasshasdominatedyourmind.Itisstatedthatthere is an 85% chance that you will stay in your social class without making a
majormovetoanotherclass.The brain controls the function of your body. Your mind is the most
importantpieceofyourbodygiventoyou.Whateverthemindcanconceiveandbelieve it can achieve. Napoleon Hill. The mind dwells on pain and pleasures.
Studyyourmind.Howdoesyourmindworktoavoidpain?Whatarethepleasuresyour mind thinks about? You can control your minds state of thoughts. Setting
yourselfuptowinisthetruethoughtsyouthinkabout.Understandingyourmindis
the cause. Therefore, you get the effect of your results of what you have learnedthroughtrialanderror.Formulatingyourmindissoimportantyoucantakecontrol
overyourselfinsteadoflettingotherscontrolyou.Threecharacteristicsofamindset:
1. IndependencemeaningIcan.Iamselfrelevantandresponsibleformyownactions.
2. Dependentmeaningneedfromotherstogetwhattheymaywant.3. Interdependencemeaningwecan.Togetherwecandoit.
Combining your talents to create a bigger picture goes back to resetting yourroots. Asyou dealwith othermindsyou look atthe now instead ofthe future
outcomes.Youknowthatyoustopthegreatestpotentialofwhatyourmindreally
has imbedded. Clutter kills the mind everyday with junk that is not needed. It is
important that you form a structure or an outline to guide the mind in the rightdirection.
Sprinkles:Picture the condition youwant,not the condition youare attempting toovercome
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SubconsciousMindControl
Yoursubconscioushastheabilitytodowhateveryouprogramittodorightor
wrong,negativeorpositive.Youhaveamindwithasubconsciousandconsciousthatmakesdecisionsforyou.Useyourcreativethoughtsforyourimpulsethoughtsandlifewillbemoredetailedtoyou.Mindcontrolisapatternbrokedowninto
habits,memory,standardsofbelief,andsoforth.Subconsciouscontrolisthepower
toactonortodoit.Yourconsciousmindissetuptopotentiallyactuponandtodo
whatyouthink.So,theoutcomehereistoredirectyoursubconsciousmindandtothinkinanotherthinkingpattern.
The spiritual world exists in the subconscious mind. As you control andbalanceyourlife,othersareaffectedbywhatyouarethinking.Doesreligionplaya
bigpartinyourlife?Youmustresearchandgetthebasicsofallreligiontobreak
downyourconsciousandsubconsciousmindscomprehension.Takethetimetogetto know yourself. Most of all, you are turned on by your feelings or emotions
insteadoflookingattheact,logically.
Mysystematicmethodshowshowtotakecontrolofthepowerthatswithin
you; subconscious mind. Setting yourself apart from the masses and identifyingyourself, changes your destiny and future. Once you are able to strengthen the
subconsciousmindwithpositivethinking,youwillbecomeunstoppable.Youneed
tomakeyourpositiveemotionsworkforyou.
Unlockthepotentialofyoursubconsciousmindinordertocontrol,actonideasyouhaveconceivedanddeveloptheatmosphereforyourselfwhichenablesyoursubconsciousmindtoactinthecorrectmanneritknows.Whenyoubecome
awareofyoursubconsciousmindscreativity,youwillbeontopofyourideasandactuponthem.Takesmallstepstowardscreatingyoursubconsciousmindcontrol.
Irecommendthatyouread15minutesofknowledgeforselfdevelopmentrightbeforelyingdowntosleep.
Sprinkles:Everystepyoutakeisanimprovement
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CreativeVisualization
Useyourimaginationtocreatewhateveryourmindwishestoconceiveand
believe and you will achieve. You are the creator of your life. What are thesepatterns that tap into your brain waves? You stop yourself from growth and
advancementordevelopingyourpotentialofgreatness.Whoareyou?Haveyoubecomeawareofyourtrueessence?Prosperity,inyourlife,iswhatyouarelooking
for.Thisisthatdreamordesireyouseekeveryday.Whatmakesyourcreativevisualizationdifferentfromothers?Youhaveyour
owncreativeimaginationandvisioncapabilitiestocreatewhatyouwantorneed.Youareimpactedbyothersinfluenceindifferentways.Youvisualizeandcreateyou
andthesurroundingsthatprotectyou. Thetype ofrelaxation you areusingis a
deeperslowerlevelofthebrainknownasthealphalevel.Thelevelyoukeepbusyisyourconsciousmindknownasthebetalevel. Visualizationisnotthatyouseeit
physically,butyouseeitmentallyorusingyourimagination.ShaktiGawain.You
canfeelorthinkintermsofvisualtoobtainwhatyouwant.
Thewordvisionmeanstoseephysicallyormentallyintoexistence.Youstartyourcreativevisionwhenyouputactionor movementto it.Keywordsareactionandmovement. Whataretheissues thatcomein yourpathof lifethatstops you
from moving forward? Things what are those things that consume your time?Whenyouthinkaboutthesethingsaretheyimportant?Sometimes,youarecaught
updoingsomethingsthatyouthinkareimportant.Creativityisalsoanartformthatsomeofuspossess;andsomeofusdonot.
Itisalearnedabilitywhichyoudevelop.Creativityisworkthatmustbedeveloped
tocreateortosketchyourdreamintoareality.Thatiswhatissogreataboutyou;
youinfluencethewholeworldwithyourcreativeimagination.Somementorsinmylifehadsaid,Thegoodnewsisthefutureisinyourhands.Andthebadnewsisthefutureisinyourhands.
Youruinorcreateyourdestinyinlife.Lookatthefactsoflife.Lifegivesyouwhatyouwantandneedlikecauseandeffect.Issuesyoufaceareforthepurposeof
changeinwhomorwhatyouare,atthattimeofexperience,inlife.Everyonethatcomesintoyourlifehassomekindofinfluenceonyou.Youmaynotbelieveit,but
every day you are learning habits of others that you are around. Creative
visualization is practiced every day. Think of the new inventions which areintroducedtothemarketonadailybasis.Youhavetheabilitytoexpresswhatever
youhaveinthatbeautifulmindofyours.Youhavetorealizethatyoualsohavetwo
elementsofcreationgoodandbad.Whatweputinthebrainwillbeshownbythe
results.Besides,youreapwhatyousow.
Sprinkles:Thecreativepowerliesinyou.So,convertthattopositiveenergytoaffectsomethingorsomeone.
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UsingYourEmotionalThoughts
Emotionsarea verychallengingsubjecttoreflecton.Emotions areusedin
everysituationofyourlifesinvolvement.Othersjudgeyouemotionally.Thoughts
arethings;NapoleonHillsaidthateverythoughtyoubringtotheconsciousyouputactiontocreatingareaction.Sciencetheoryspeaksonhowyoucancontrolyour
emotions.Youreactincertainsituationsofrelationshipswithothers.Emotionscanmakeorbreakyouthechallengeisthatyouhavechoice.
In many cases, your parents dictate your emotions because they have
installed emotional association to whatever that may be. You have to distinguish
between situation and reaction. For example, for years your parents have beenusingCresttoothpastetobrushtheirteeth.Andtheyhavebeentellingyouthatyour
teethwillbecleanandwhiteeverytimeyouuseit.Yourparentshaveassociated
somethingtothattoothpastethatkeptyouwantingtobuyit.Eventhoughthereareother brands of toothpaste, youd rather buy what you think is doing what your
parents taught you it should do instead of researching for yourself and finding abettersolution.
Using your emotions means to express thoughts or sometimes feelingstowardthatspecialoneor others.Whydothesefeelingshappenthewaythatthey
do? Your feelings couldchange atcertain timesof emotional balance. Therefore,feelinghappyorsadatthetimeofengagementofthiscertainissuethatneedstobe
addressed. Themajorityofthetime,youtendtomakesurethatyourfeelingsare
takingcareofbeforesomeoneelses.Youshouldputyourselfintheshoesofothersbeforeactingonthatparticularbehavior.
Themostchallengingemotionisindealingwiththeoppositesex themaleandfemalerelationship.Whatabigstepinlife.Yousayitisgreatandothersmay
saytheydonotagree.Itslike,ifthebirdstoldalltheairplanesintheairtogetoutofourskybecausewegotsomeflyingtodo.Itsnotlikeyouhavetoadjustyour
emotionsandthoughtstofitthesituationthatisathand.Mostofthetimeyouwanttogivegoodthoughtstoothersandsometimesitcouldhurtyou.Thatistheriskyou
take.Youhavetokeepkeepingon.Youhavesetbacksinlifeandthisiswhatmakes
youthegreatpersonthatyouare.Youshouldhavehumblenessandpatiencefortherightemotionalfeelingtocometoyou.Asignofemotionalexpressionshowswho
youreallyare.Forexample,youmaybeupsetwithyourfeelingsbyexpressingyourlove through a form of music or art of some form with some related detail that
speaksfromyourheart.Youevenexpressattimeswhenyourspiritisup.The only time someone can understand you is by communicating their
emotions. Action creates a reaction. And beingaware ofyouremotionsand how
many times per day are you emotionally down? You know that you cannot bepositive in every situation of your life. Emotions are expressed throughout your
difficulties contacting your energy levels of excitement. Someone is always
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whippingoutthatemotionalbeatingsuchasyourbillcollectors.Thisfeelingcreates
stressthatbreaksdownmotivationandambitiontoacton.
Youhaveasituationyourchildisonthemonkeybarsandyouretellingthechildtobecarefulbecausehemightfall.Yourfirstreactionisanegativethought.
Whatifithappens?Expressionsofnegativitycometomind.Youhavenofaithinyour child and this allows a negative association to you as well as your childs
thinking.Sometimesyouhavetopushoutofyourcomfortzone.Youhavethepower
tocreatethatlifestyleyouimagine,buttherearelimitstotheAmericandream;itisamyth.Emotions are habits that can bechanged. You must change your reaction
patterns from negative topositive. Thinkabout this takemoreinto let yourself
look at a situation from his/her point of view; and have a more humbling heart
towards them. Emotions affect every part of your body from the motion of yourhandstothewayyoureyeslookatothers,thewordsyouspeakandthemannerin
whichyoucarryyourself.Youdonothaveasixthsensefornothing.
Sprinkles:Endthecycleoftheold,andbeginthecycleofthenew
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Chapter3PoweroftheSpokenWordYourThirdStepTowardsInternalRiches:
WhatYouSayisWhatYouGet
Yourpeerswouldsay,Holdyourtongue!Youweremadewithtwoearsand
one mouth. Get the clue? You speak such words and hear such sayings whichconvictyoueveryday.Iwanttochallengeyoutostudythewordsandphasesthat
come out of your mouth. In addition, study your thoughts and thinking patterns.Studywhatyousayandhowyoureacttosituations.Thewordsfromyourmouth
havecontrolofyourlifewhatyousayiswhatyouget.Itisallsaidanddone.So,whatdoyousayaboutyourfuture?Canyoucreate
one?Studyandobserveotherculturesspeakinghabits,andyouwillbeamazedat
how they look upon themselves. They speakof poverty and negative thoughts ofthinking.Youcannotriseabovewhatyouallowyourselftothinkorsay.Thelawof
nature says, If youre lazy, youre lazy. The law of nature also says, If I am awinner,therefore,Iamawinner.FrancisP.Martin.Doyouhonestlyspeaktoyour
innerself? Searchthroughyourmindandfindthepositiveambitions.TaketheTimein
and Time out is what you get. What you say is what you get because yoursubconscious is continually on the thought or idea of some kind, constructive or
nonconstructiveform.Whenyouthinkaboutthoseexpressions,thatswhatitis.
Others in your life pressure these issues and thats when your mind seems toembracethatfact.Evenifitsrightorwrong.Mostofthetime,youaremockingor
imitatingtheiractionsbecauseyouwouldliketobelikethemorhavethethingsthattheyhaveintermsofcharacterormaterialobjects.
Spoken wordsare power. You are more intune tospeak negativelythingsabout certain situations in ones life than to think positive about the outcome.Wordsarespokeneveryday.Whataretheselectwordsthatyouspeaktoyourself
andothers?Societyhasyouthinkingmorenegativelyandtalkingaboutothersto
thepointthatyoudonotworryaboutyourself.Lookatitinanotherperspective.Say
positiveandgoodthingsaboutyourself.Canyouseehowthemodechanges?Ifyouspeakgreatthingsinyourlife,greatthingswillcomebacktoyou.
Sprinkles:Speakwhatyouwantintoexistence.
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Self-Talk
Iamthegreatest.
IcandoanythingIputmymindto.
Iamveryattractive.
Iammorepowerfulandstrongereveryday.
Iamawinner.
Iwillnotbedenied
Iwillhaveagreatday,today.
Everynegativesituationwillofferapositiveresult.
Theseareafewofselftalkaffirmationsforunderstandingyourawarenessofselftalkamongyourselfandothers.Selftalkisthemostpowerfuluseofwordsin
understandingandknowingyourself.Youknowhowyouspeak.Thinkofallyour
pastencounterswithothers.Youattractpeoplewithwhatyouthink,ratherthanhowyoulookinsome
cases. If you can develop your subconscious to believe in yourself as a positivehuman,youwillsucceedinwhateverventureyouwishtoachieve.
Iaminpowerofmyself;therefore,Iempowerothersaroundme.
MythoughtsaresopositivethatIknowthatIwillbesuccessfulinanythingItouch
ordo.
MyattitudeissopositivethatIattractgreatandmotivatedpeopletome.
Iwillbringmydreamsintoreality.
Iamthegreatesthumanbeingonearth.
Sprinkles:Puttingmythoughtstoaction
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FaithinOneself
Faith is a key principle of being successful. What is faith? Faith is selfawareness ofwho, what and why you exist. Faith isan element brokedowninto
sectionsandemphasizingbeliefinoneself.Inaddition,faithisanactionwordwhenyou obtain the knowledge of something or someone you have faith in. You jump
rightinto.Forexamplewhenyoulearnaboutsubstantialitylivingandotheroffthegridtechnologyforashousing,gardening,solarandothernaturelivingyoutendto
learnmoreand have faith inwhat itcan dofor you and others. Here isanotherexampleoffaithyouhavefaiththattheotherdriverontheoppositesideoftheroad
willstayon his/hersideandwillnotcross thatyellow line.Youhave got tohavefaithwhenyouwakeupeverymorning.Youhavefaithinsomeoftheleadersofthis
country;knowingthattheywilldoagreatjobandsupportthebestinterestforthe
people.Faith is created by repeating affirmations and habits which you develop.
Apply faith in oneself due to positive actions resulting from persistence for a
successful outcome. Ideas and abilities you believe in could guide you in the
directiontowhereyouwouldliketoendup.Notallresultswillbesuccessful,butkeepfaithandbelieveyoucandoitwithapositivementalattitude.
Sprinkles:Havefaithinthyself
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FoodforThought
Ifoundhappinessbyhelpingothersfindit.
I found sound health by living temperately and eating only the food my body
requirestomaintainitself.
Ineitherhateorenvynomanandrespectallmankind.
IamengagedinalaboroflovewithwhichIgenerouslymixplay.Therefore,Inever
growtired.
I pray daily. Not for more riches, but for more wisdom with which to recognize,embraceandenjoythegreatabundanceofrichesIalreadypossess.
I speak no name save only to honor it. And I slander no man for any cause,whatsoever.
Iasknofavorsofanyoneexcepttheprivilegeofsharingmyblessingswithallwho
desirethem.
I am on good terms with my conscious. Therefore, it guides me accurately ineverythingthatIdo.
IhavemorematerialwealththanIneedbecauseIamfreefromgreedandconvertonlythosethingsIcanuseconstructivelywhileIlive.
MywealthcomesfromthosewhomIhavebenefitedfrombysharingmyblessings.
Thestateofhappyvalley,whichIown,isnottaxable.
It exist mainly in my own mind, intangible riches that cannot be assessed for
taxationorappropriatedexceptbythosewhoadoptmywayoflife.
Icreatedthisestateoveralifetimeofeffortbyobservingnatureslawsandforming
habitstoconformwiththem.NapoleonHill
Its that time again. As the chapter comes to a close, I ask that you go back andrereadtheinformationuntilyougetitdeepdownintoyoursoul.
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Chapter4
BelieveorBelief
YourFourthStepTowardsInternalRiches:SettingYourOutcomes
The firstStepistobean outcomeorientatedperson. Believe insomethingand stand up. You judgesentientbeings before they express their feelings orthe
beliefsystemthattheyrepresent.Wetendtogetstuckonthislevelofthinkingona
beliefsystem.Astrongmindcreatesastrongwilltowardscreatingagreatimpacton
yourlife.Themedia,TV,andentertainmentinfluencetellyouwhatyouneedtobelikeanddo.Thishasaverybigimpactononesmindcontrolintodayssociety.
Outcomesarehabitscreatedbyselfdiscipline.Youhaveoutcomes,butmost
ofthetimeyoudonotreallysitdownandplanyouroutcomes.Whatmakesyounot
wanttosetanyoutcomes?1).Youdontknowhowtogoaboutit.2).Youhavealowselfimageofyourself.
3).Youhaveafearofwhatwillhappen.
4).Seedsthatarenotsowedintherightareasoflife.
5).MisEducationorinformationyouneedtohaveforcertainoutcomes.
Believe in you! Let me qualify this word believe or belief, these are
manufacturedwordsthathasbeenkeepingmostpeopletrappedinasystemthatdonot give them a way out unless they are critically thinking outside this belief or
believeetc..Conditionyourselftoestablishhabitsofbeliefsyoucantrainandretrain
yourself. Believeinyour instincts. Your firstreactionisyour best reactiontotheproblemorsolution.Beliefwillsetyouapartfromthemasseswiththethinkingofanindependentthinker.Whenyouhavebelief,youstandforsomething.
As time goes on, you will have more and more selfconfidence and grow
stronger in reaching your outcomes in my systematic method. This program will
teach you how to stay focused and consistent on your outcomes. Committing
yourself to your outcomes and dreams will make you stand out from the crowd.Accountability plays a bigrole, inoutcome setting,to discipline yourhabitsto do
whatyousayyouaregoingtodo.Beingresponsibleforyouractionsandplanswe
makeyousucceed,soifyoudonthitthatgoalreplanandkeepitpushing.Build
yourselfasolidfoundationtolayyouroutcomes.Educateyourselfaboutthefield
you would like to be involved; it is all about paying the price for failure. Directyourselfintherightdirection.Setyourtimetobesuccessful.Thetimeisnow!
Sprinkles:Confidenceinachievingyouroutcomes
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YourOutcomePlanningForm
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Now,writeaparagraphtellingyourself,Iwillmakethisoutcomebecomeareality
inmylife.Iwillliveit.Iwilltalkaboutit.Iwillbeit.And,itwillbemine.Then,you
willsignanddateatthethisparagraph.
Sign:
Date:
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OutcomeSettingFormula
My3-monthOutcomesare:
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EmbracingChange
Yourlifewillchangeifyouwantittoornot!Changecouldbesetupasfear.
Notonlywillitchange,butfearwillmakeyouembracetheoutcome.Yousometimes
takeor makeshortcutstosituationsyouwouldliketoaccomplishquicker.Mostofthe time thats why the outcomes dont look right or as you pictured it in the
beginningstages.Youholdthekeytoeverysituationasofeverythoughtyoucan
generate.Youareincontrolofwhatyoumakeofyourself.Understandwhoyouarebythe powerof wisdom. Doyou look atchange?Sometimes ithurts. Asthe old
timerssaytome,Takeitlikeaman/woman.You are quicker to improve your circumstances,but you are not willing to
improveyourself.AccordingtoBenSweetland,Knowledgeisofnovalueunlessyou
makeuseofit.I,myself,embracechange.MymindthinksonhowIcangetthrough
this action inthe best manner. For example,you never have securityunless youownyourownlife.Whatyoucontroliswhatyougot.Ihadtoquitmydayjobtobe
abletoattendcollegeinordertofurthermyeducationsothatImayunderstandthe
businessworldandhowtocommunicatemysuccess.Whatareyourlearningskillsand what abilities do youapply?Informationalor transformational learning, here
aresomecharacteristicsaboutthelearningqualities.Informational is your leftbrain function. Meaning intellectual, structure
and knowledge. Transformational is your right brain function, i.e., emotional,creativeandunderstanding.
Changeisconstantinyourlife.Ofcourse,allofmyexperiencesinlifewerelearningthehardway,inmemories,toreflectonhowtogainsuccessfromactionon
it.Therefore,ifthesamesituationinmylifecomesforth,Iknowhowtodealwithit.
Wordsofwisdomfromthehigheronesstate,Thedefinitionofinsanityisdoingthesamethingandexpectingadifferentresult.Useyourpersonalityethicsorvaluesto
change your behaviors and attitudes to positive. You will see others reflect thechangeinlifebackatyou.Makeachangeinyourlife.Focusonyourattitudesand
behaviors.Lookinsideofyourselfandfigureyourparadigm.
Sprinkles:Freedomstartsinthemindset.
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ConsistenceCreatesPersistence
Your mind delivers habits of doing day after day and night after night.
Consistence is what separates the men/women from the boys/girls. This is that
actionthatmakesgreatpeoplegreat.Consistenceisanactionwordmeaningtodoonasteadypace.Consistenceleadstopersistencethatcreatesorganizationforyou.
Persistence development makes you continue after any task youre striving to
accomplish.RalphW.Emersonsaid,Itiseasyintheworldtoliveaftertheworldsopinion; it is easy in solitudeto live afterour own; but the greatman/woman is
he/she who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness theindependence of solitude. Set your own course of action. This is the formula of
beingagreatsuccessinyourlifepathasyoucreate.
Sprinkles:Takethechanceonrisk
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ActionMentality
Goforwardwiththeactionyouwishtotakeinlife!Justdoit,now! The
maintracktotheactionmentalityistobeorganized.Areyoutoobusybeinglazy?
Youhaveamanypeoplebeingactorsliketheyaresobusybutnotreallydoinganythingfortheirpresentsituation.Findthemotivationthatmovesyoutodowhat
youhavetodoforyourdreamsandoutcomeswithprinciples.Takingfromwhatisimportant from you and your family. Control your actions by focusingon what is
importantandtakestepsthatyoumusttaketoseesuccess.
Sprinkles:Movementcreatesaction.Therefore,actionbringsresults
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EmbracingSuccess
Successiswhatyoumakeit.Embracinganythingisachallengeofalifetime.
Youmustunderstandwhatyouwantoutoflifeandbeawareofdifferentroadblocks
thatyouencounterthroughoutlife.Embracingsuccessisabigpartinyourlifethatyou do not recognize. Embrace means to take hold of, or grip of something or
someone.Whenyouhaveafocusonyouroutcomesyouwillachievethatwhatyouseek.Embracingistherealityofyoursuccess.
Whatissuccess?Successishavinghappinessforwhatyouveachievedandstrivedfor.Regardlessofwhetheryourerich,brokeorjustthankfulforwhatyou
have. And too, financial literacy can help you bridge that gap to understandingsocial issues and how to create a foundation to success. The ability to recognize
opportunitywhenitcomesyourwayiswhatmakesgreatpeoplegreat.Italsohelpsto have an attitude and/or intentions of staying in the fight regardless of the
outcome.
Sprinkles:Keepyourmindfocusedonyouroutcomes
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Chapter5NoPlanNoWorkYourFifthStepTowardsInternalRiches
PlanYourWork,WorkYourPlanSystematicMethod
A plan of action is the key principle to address your way to a successfuloutcome.Carryingoutaplantakesorganization,strategyandconceptstogetgreat
results. For example, after remembering how much better I felt when I wasphysically active and too, how much I missed it, I decided that I needed to
consciously work to increasemy timeavailabilityfor improving thepossibility ofworkingout.Iwasdeterminedtodosomething;if,nothingmorethanweightlifting
orjusttakingarunonthetreadmill.MyPlanofAction
57yearplanIwillputmyplanintoeffect20052012.
IwillestablishmyphysicalfitnessprogramandbefaithfultoitbyFebruary2005.
IwillfinishcollegebyJune2007.
IwillestablishandacquiremyownhomebyAugust2009.
IwillpublishmysecondbookbyApril2009.
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GrowYourselfBiggerThantheProblem
Yourplanistogrowinthebestmanner,possible.Todoso,youwillneedto
createanenvironmentaroundyourselfwithpositiveinfluences.Therewillalways
beastompinyourpath.Still,youmuststayinthefightregardlessoftheoutcome.Patienceisthekeytoahealthylivelihood.Youareattractedtoproblemsbecause
causeandeffectistheuniversallaw.Growingyourselfbiggerthantheproblemis
achievedbyoutgrowingyourpersonalissuesandimprovinghowyoureacttowardsyourself and others. Growth is a vital science in living things. As I refer to
EmbracingSuccess(Chapter4)thishelpsyoumoveonandkeepgoing.Itistimetoprepareyourselfforalmostanythingthatcomesyourway.
Growing is part of you. You learn by experiencing different social groups,
jobs,schools,anddifferentinstitutions.Ifyouarenottaughttosolveyourproblems,
sometimesotherswillsolvethemforyou.Independenceiswhatyoulivefor.Youwerebornindependentandyoushouldliveanindependentmindframethatallows
youtothinkforyourself.
YouandIareindependentofanother.Youmustexpandyourknowledgeandexperienceoflifeinordertobeabletobebiggerthantheproblemsyouencounter.
Problemscomeandgo.Buildingconfidenceinyourselfmakestheproblemseasier.Itallstartswiththeparents.Techniquestaughtbyparentsteachtheirchildren,at
an early stage in life, your cycle of socialization. You must find role models inpositivepeoplethatwillembraceyouandhelpyoualongyourjourney.Tobebigger
thanlife,youcanrespectandcherishthatlessonoflife.Howbigcanyoube?Biggerthanlifeitself.Revelationswakeyouandkeepyouawareofissuesyoudonotwant
toencounter.
Sprinkles:Iwillalwaysgrowmyselfbiggerthantheproblem.
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StoptheProcrastinating/JustDoItNow
Procrastinatingistheworstdefeaterinthehumanactiveness.Youdelaythe
most important activitythat needs tobe done atany particular time. Thisword,
alone, couldstop you from success. Procrastinating is a nonactive word puttingmetaphorsandotherthingsinyourwayofthinkinginsteadofthatimportantaction
thatneedsyourattentionatthetime.Howmanytimeshaveyouputsomethingoffandthoughttoyourselfitcanbedonelater?Laterdoesnotcomearound,butthe
deadlinecomesandfortheprojectisnotdone.Thatiswhatprocrastinationisallabout.Somethingsnaturallydonotworkthewayyouwantedthemtoo,butyoucan
controltheoutcomeofyourreactionupontheyourdesiredeffects.Procrastination makes up other things to take over action at hand. You
cannotacceptanyexcuse;moreexcusesmoreproblems.Youlearnfromthebest!Our government and parents have every excuse for you to be afraid of. Lots of
opportunitygoes byyoubecause you failto act onthem. AsPhillip Knight ofthe
Nike Corporation says, Just do it. These three powerful words are the cure toovercomingprocrastination.Timewastediswhatprocrastinationamountsto.
Thisisyoursecrettocompletingyourtasksaheadoftimeinsteadofwaiting
foritto bedonelaterorbehindschedule.Youhaveexperimentedprocrastination
onceorafewtimes.Ifyouwanttosucceedinlife,whethereconomically,financially,personaland/orbusinesswise,youmustcutprocrastinationoutofyourlife.Youmustadaptajust-do-it-nowmentality.Ajustdoitnowmentalitycomeswithaplan
of action. The principle must be an understanding of going about your plan ofaccomplishments and stopping the procrastination because it destroys your
confidence and selfdiscipline. Of course, these actions bring about fear. Makeyourself aware of what actions you take before responding. You must keep a
positiveattitudeandajustdoitnowmentality.Onestepattime.
Sprinkles:Thereareonly24hoursinaday.So,dontputoffuntiltomorrowwhatyoucandotoday.
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FocusActions/Multi-Tasking
Focus,focus,focusandfocusonyourplans.Youmayhavetoadjustevery
onceinawhile,butagreatplanyoushouldbeabletoadjustwithfire.Focusactions
areselfdiscipline.Youmaynotunderstandwhyyouhavetofocusbutitiscriticaltofocusonthingsinsteadofputtingthemoffanddoingthemlater(procrastinating).
Focusisamatterofenergyexpressedthroughconsistentandpersistence.The
Websterdictionarydefinesfocusas,tobringorcometo.Astudypointthatkeepsyourighton.Hereisanillustrationdrivingyourcarbetweentheyellowandwhite
linesontheroad.Youstayfocusanddonotcrossthoselinesunlessitisrequiredoryouhavetherightaway.Visversatheotherpersonfocusesontheirsideoftheroad
toavoidcontactwiththeother.
Focusisawarestrategyortactictounderstandwhereyouareat.Itisaterm
calledmultitasking,doingmanythings,focusingonmanyoutcomesandobjectives.Todayyouareforcedtomultitask,duetoaccessofbusyschedule,andoccupiedby
yourjobandprovidingfoodandshelterforyourfamily.Focusingkeepsyourmind
together,andkeepyousharponwhatoutcomesorobjectiveofdirectionyouareheading.
Youcannotsucceedwithoutfocusing.Youmustkeepyourselffocusedandlearnhowtobeawareofwhatyouwantorneed.Learnhowtofocusyourmulti
taskingbyfacingtheoutcome.Yourmindisprogrammedtomultitask.Youdonotthinkinonestraighttrack,youthinkallovertheplace.Whatyoumustdoiscontrol
yourthinkingtofocusonyourobjectives,whichmeansmultitaskingorganizingyourthoughts.
Sprinkles:Continuedsuccessisaresultofcontinuedimprovement
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EmbracingFailures
Embracingfailuresiswhatkeepsyouinthegameoflife.Iexperiencedatrial
thatlimitedmefromreceivingmoney,fromthegovernment,togobacktoschool.I
hadputalltheelementstogetherthatI thoughtIneededandfoundoutthatitwaswaypastthedeadlinefortherequirements. Therefore,whatIdidwaswaituntil
thenextperiodandtookcareofwhatIhadtodotobequalified.Ihadtoadjustwithfireandreworkmyplan.
Embracingfailuresisapartofyourlife.Makesuccesshappenregardlessofwhatisinyourway.Keepapositivemindframeandnothingcanstopyou.Lifeisa
journey not a destination. You cannot settle for anything! And this includesfailuresthatyou encounter. You learnthroughapplicationofactions opposed to
procrastinating.Failuresarecausedbyprocrastinating. So,actnowsetthetone.Outcomesmustpositiveinyourmind,bodyandsoul.Failureisadestructiveact.It
canmakeorbreakyourreactionstoallthingsyouwillcomeupagainst.Lookback
onallyourfailuresandreflectonhowyousuccessfullylearnedfromit. Failurescouldbeforthegoodandforthebad;thismeansgrowth.Sometimes
youmustexperiencefailuretobeabletogetyououtofyourcomfortzone.Failures
areinyourlifetomakesurethatyouarenotaperfectsentientbeing.Funnyhuh?
Strive not to be perfect, but strive to be. Furthermore, set your outcomes forexcellence.Besides,faithisbuiltthroughfailure.Youbuildyourselfconfidenceupthrougheveryactionoffailureorcreativeenergy.Dontbeafraidtoapproachyour
failures:theseareyoursteppingstonesandexperiencestohelpyoufindtherightwaytogetthosegreatresultsyouarelookingfor.Noeducationhasanending.Keep
thefaithinyourselfbecauseyouwillcomeupagainstthewall(failure)moretimesthanyoumayimagine.Makesuccessarecordofaccomplishmentinyourlifeand
liveforsignificance.
Sprinkles:Awo/maniswheretheyarebecauseofhabitsdeedsandthoughts.
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IsMyTimeNotImportant
Timeisthegreatestcommodity.Itismoreimportantthanallthemoneyin
theworld.Organizeyourtimetocreatetimeforthethingsthatareimportantto
you.Beawareofwhatmakesyoufeelgreataboutyourself.Askyourselfismytimenotimportantenoughformenottoreflectonhowothersabusemytime?Think
aboutit.Areyouaccountableforyourword?Timeispreciousandtimedoesntneed
yourpresence.InSectionOne(DifferentThinking)ofChapter1,Ihelpyoufocusontheimportantactionsyoumaytaketohelpyourjourney.
Lifeisaneducationcourseinitself.Timeisonyoursideifyouwouldletitbe.Youhave24hoursinadayandyoumustorganizethattimetofityourbusy
schedule. What causes you tobeso busy that you cannot focuson whats really
important?Everyoneelseistakencareofexceptthegreatestsentientbeingthat
suppliesthe gifts. Yourtimeisthe essenceof life itself. You are existingbecausetherearereasonsandapurposeforyoutofulfill.
Thissystematicmethodiscalled Reflections.Takeoutawritingutensiland
some paper. Write Reflections on the top left corner of the page. In the rightcorner, place todaysdate. Follow theexamplebelow as you honestlyanswer the
questions:
HowoldamI?Iam27yearsold.Whataremytalentsandskills?Mymaintalentiswritingsongsandpoetry.
HowmanychildrendoIhave?Ihavethree(3)beautifulchildren.WhatmusicdoI enjoylisteningto?Whenalone,IplaymyfavoriteCDEarthWind
andFireformyself.
These are some thoughts to get you started on your reflections on whatsimportant to you. You should constantly question yourself so that you may
understandwhereyourtruefocuslies.
Sprinkles:Yourtimeisintheplansofyourmind
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KeepOnKeepingOn
Keepgoinganddonotstopforanything.Ifanythinggetsyouofftrack,go
backtothefollowingexerciseandthesectionon Reflectionsandfigureoutwhat
wentwrong.Thisisanattitude:keeponkeepingon.Noonecanstopyoubutyoucanlookoutsideofyoursocialstructurestratifications.Youareincontrolofyour
actions and reactions. You can create or destroy and sometimes both could be
effective.Controliswhatyoulivefortherefore,createitandlive.Havethedriveandselfmotivationtoaccomplishwhatyouwantinlife.Ifitberichesorabighome
maybeyourownbusinesswhateveryourheartdesire,youmustkeeponkeepingon. This is where you are building selfdiscipline and patience with a lot of
humbleness.
Sprinkles:Reflectonyourheart.
Youareneartheclosingofthischapter.Please,reflectbackonitbeforeyou
moveontonextchapter.
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Chapter6RelatingWithOthersYourSixthStepTowardsInternalRiches:
UsingtheHighestStimuli
Thehigheststimulusofyourmindhasbeensex.Furthermore,itisthemost
powerfulinfluenceofallyourdesires.Whatyouhavetodoisutilizethesestimulifor otherelements in your life. Meaning transferyour sexual desires into other
forms of expression. Not through the physical, but by means of nonphysicalexpressions.Youareatyourbestwhenthisemotionisatwork.So,whynotusethat
sameenergyforotherthingsyoudo.YourSexstimuliisusedforyourcreativity.Ifyoucanbringthatsamemindstatetobusinessoranyotherform,youwillreceive
excellence.Your mind respondsand acts upon what itmay be focused on. You are in
control. You tell your body what you want to do and it will respond. Use your
strengthstodevelopyourweakness.Youaretemptedtodothingsthatyoudonotwant to do. Love drives you to do just about anything that you want to do. A
stimulusisenergythattriggersyourdesiretolove,careand/ordestroyandkillthepassionforwhoorwhatyouseek.
Humans drive humans. Therefore, the science of a woman drives a manspassiontomakeorbreakthatman.Howdoyoutransferthisspecialenergythat
youhave?Youmustbringtheessencebacktoyourselfandunderstandyourhabitsandemotions.Ageniusiswithinyouwhenavisionisputtoactionbecauseyouare
a creature ofhabit. You come back toyour tracks repeatedlyunless someone or
something stopsthe habit. Sex drives the forces ofyour desires to an ambitiousstageofenergyorsynergythatpowersormotivatesthereflectionofsomeoneelse.
Asyoustrivetobetteryourself,youmustknowinyoursubconsciousthatyouarethegreatest;youcansucceedinwhateverendeavoryoumaytakeon.That
smallvoicethatwhispers,Youcandoitisareminder.Haveyouevernoticedhow
highlysexedindividualsaremotivatedandhaveaattractiveness thatinfluencesothersaroundthem.Sometimes,othersareinsecureaboutsomeonessexualnature
andlookuponthemasiftheyareacursetotheworld.Therefore,nothavinga
highlysexednaturecouldcreatetheoppositeinnotinfluenceanyone.Youarenot
enthusiasticaboutlifeoryourlovelifeingeneral.Thesuperemotionsthatdriveyou
tofullpowerareromance,loveandsex.Themind,soulandbodybecomeallinone
tocreatethesuperemotion.Thesesuperemotionsdriveamantogoouthiswayfor
hiswoman;influenced,aswellastheopposite.Youcontrolyourlifeandtransfer
thesethoughtstoothernaturesandyouwillsucceed.Motivateyourthoughtsand
othervibrationstomoveyouintoactiontopursueyourdreamsandoutcomes.
Sprinkles: The emotion of sex is a virtue only when used intelligently, and with
discrimination. It may be misused, and often is, to suchan extent that it debases,
insteadofenriches,bothbodyandmind.-NapoleonHill
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SettingSeeds
Sellyourselffirst.Thenotherswillrespectyourserviceorproduct.Believe
inyourservicesandproductsandotherswillseethatyouareconcernedaboutwhat
yourepresent.Youplanttheseedinthepeopleyouassociatewith;theproductofyour environment. What you plant, mentally or physically, in someone or
something,willgrowifyoumanagetowaterit.Cultivateyourseeds;nourishandgrowtheirvision.
Thissameprocessmustbedoneonothersaroundyounotjustonplantsthat you grow in the backyard. Do not ever destroy something without having
somethingtoreplaceit.Thisistypicalwhenyouareonthemovetoconvertotherswithyourideas.Youdonotrealizethatyouaretearingdowntheirdreamswithout
preparingthemtoputsomethinginthevacancy. Itissimple tocriticizeotherswithoutthinkingabouttheirfeelingsandthe
outcomeoftheirsituation.Togrowothersaroundyou,youmustsettheexample.
When you criticize, you criticize the act not the person. Setting seeds is whatgrowsyou.Infivetotenyearsofwork,thepositiveseedsettingwillshow.Maybe,at
thefirstitmaynotshow,butafterawhileitwillblossom.Renderfreeservices
andwatchwhathappenstoyourcareer.
Youhabituallyfocusyourmindonwhatdoesntworkinsteadofwhatdoesworkandseeminglygravitatetowardstheeasiestroadofsuccess.Thereisnotanyeasyroadtosuccess.Yourplanmusthaveactionanddetermination.Youmustknow
whatyouwantandwhatkindofreactionyourelookingfor.Remember,negativemindsthinknegativelyandpositivemindsthinkpositivity.Smallthoughtsaresmall
thoughtsgreatthoughtsaregreatideasthatyoumakehappen.
Sprinkles:Faithisoneofthekeystolivingaspirituallife.Butawarenessisthekeyto
faith.-KRS-ONE
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TheCharacterOthersSeeInYou
SystematicMethod
Circleyourbestchoice!Morecopiesinbonuspackage
Discipline
Areyoupatient?YesorNo Doyouallowyouremotionstoaffectyourjudgment?YesorNo Doyouspeakbeforeyouthinkaboutwhatyouaregoingtosay?YesorNo
Faith
Areyouconfidentinyourabilitiesortalents?YesorNo Doyouhavefaithinyourintelligence?YesorNo DoyoubelieveinthisformofgovernmentAmericastandsfor?YesorNo
Thinking
Doyouresearchthefieldofinterestthatyouvalue?YesorNo Doyouvaluetheopinionsofothers?YesorNo Doyouthoroughlythinkthingsthrough?YesorNo
Vision
Imakemyowndecisions.YesorNo Myimaginationisverycreative.YesorNo Myideasarepractical.YesorNo
YourPurpose Doyouhaveoutcomes?YesorNo Myoutcomeshavedeadlines.YesorNo Ihaveaplantoreachmyoutcomes.YesorNo
ExtraMiles
DoIrenderfreeserviceswithoutbeingpaid?YesorNo DoIknowsomeonethatbecameverysuccessfulrenderingmorefree
servicesthantheywerepaid?YesorNo
WillIhireothersthatrenderfreeservicesandhaveapositiveoutlookasmyself?YesorNo
MasterMind Areothershelpingmetoreceivemyoutcomes?YesorNo CanIreceivemyoutcomeswithoutthehelpofothers?YesorNo Doesmyfamilysupportmydreamsandoutcomes?YesorNo
Initiative
Iplanmyworkeachday.YesorNo
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Ihavetohavemyplanworkedout.YesorNo Igiveupwhenmyplansdontworkout.YesorNo
PositiveAttitude
Iamapositivethinkingperson.YesorNo Icancontrolmyattitude.YesorNo Icancontrolmyreactionstowardsothers.YesorNo
Personality
Ihavehabitsthatoffendothersaroundme.YesorNo Iamlikedbyothersatmyplaceofwork.YesorNo PeopleareinterestedinmewhenIspeak.YesorNo
Enthusiasm
Ihavebeenknowntohaveenthusiasm.YesorNo Icontrolmyenthusiasmonmyplansofaction.YesorNo Myenthusiasmisthemasterofmyjudgment.YesorNo
Attention
IconcentrateonwhateverIamdoing.YesorNo Iamprettyeasytochangemyplansormydecision.YesorNo IamquicktoabandonmyplanswhenIaminastruggle.YesorNo
BudgetingTime&Money
IhavesetamountofincomeIwouldliketomeet.YesorNo Ispendmoneylikewaterrunningdownariver.IhavenothoughtaboutifI
didnthaveitwhereIdbe.YesorNo
Mytimeisnotmanagedright.YesorNoHealth
Imaintainaworkoutscheduleformyhealth.YesorNo Ifeedmybodytherightfoodsitneeds.YesorNo Iamawareofmyhealthconditions.YesorNo
TeamWork
Igetalongwitheveryoneatmyjob.YesorNo IhavedisagreementswithothersIamworkingwith.YesorNo Iamaverycooperativeperson.YesorNo
Habits
IhavehabitsthatIcantcontrol.YesorNo IhadhabitsthatIstopped.YesorNo Ihavedevelopednewhabitsoverafewmonthsperiodoftime.YesorNo
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Adversity&Defeat
IhaveproblemsthatIface,butIdontletitstopme.YesorNo IfIfail,Iwilltryagainwithanewconcept.YesorNo IovercomefailureeverytimeIrunintoit.YesorNo Ibelievefailurescreatesuccess.YesorNo
Reviewthissurveyonceeverytwoweeksforimprovement.
Whatisanimprovement?
ScoreResultsfromapossible52
40YesGreatCommunicator.
31YesAverageDeveloppersonalimprovement.
24YesNeedpersonalskills.
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AmINegativeorPositive
HowdoIreacttomyself?DoIkeepmyspiritshighorlow?WhatdoIthinkof
myself? Am I negative or positive? These are some questions you should ask
yourself.HowcanIbecomethatpositivepersonallthetime?IfIhadmorepositivethoughts and thinking to my conscious my mind will notice the differences and
maketherightchoice.Thesetwochoicesarerightacrosstheboard.Youcanaccept
thewayyouareorchangethewayyoulive.Youmaythinkthatyouaretoooldtochange now or that you are too young to beable to do something. Age does not
matter.Ageisonlyastateofmindofwhereyouwouldliketobe. Takeitorleaveit!Thisiswherehabitsarecreatedofnegativethoughtsand
yourenotrecognizingwhatyouproduce.Youunderstandthatwhatyouaccept,you
valueitbecauseitiswhatyouthinkofyourselfandthewayyouacceptwhatever
outcome.You are responsible for your resultsand the thoughtsyou let into yourmind.Youhavethechoiceofwhatyouwantanddonotwant.Takecontroloverthe
thoughtsandwordsyouprogrammedintoyourconsciousmind. To control your life you have to control your mind. You will becomewhateveryourmindchoosestodwellonthemost.Youcannotjustacceptwhatever
someone tells you. You must research on your own to create faith or belief in it.Causeandeffectaretheresultsofwhatyousaytoyourselfandothers.Everything
happenstoyou for areasonbywayof yourthoughts and the wordsthat cometoyourmindandsoon.Again,yourthoughtsarewhatmakeyouthegreatestsentient
being.AmInegativeorpositive?
Sprinkles:Youarealivingmagnet;youinvariablyattractintoyourlifethepeople,
situation,andcircumstancesthatareinharmonywithyourdominantthoughts.-BrainTracy
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AdmittingYourFaults
Standingupforyourwrongdoingtakescourage.Sometimes,youdontwont
toadmitthatyouareinthewrong.Youfeelguiltyfornotcommittingtothetruthor
someoneupfront.Lowselfesteemisbuildinginyoueverytimeyoudontadmittoyourfaults.Faultsaretrapsthatholdyoufromgrowth.Forexample,Iwouldwant
totakethetimeoutmydaytofinishthisbookandmyfaultsfrommypastcoupleof
dayscausemeto feelguilty. Thisisthefeelingyoudonotwant.So, youthink upevery excuse not to proceed with your accomplishments. Admitting your faults
allowsyoutofacethetruth.Insteadofmakingothersorsomethingelsefeeluncontrolling,itisyouthatsuncontrolling.
Faults are also your negative thoughts that you let come in your
subconscious mind. You must embrace selfdiscipline and control what you say,
think,andacton.Youcontrolyourfaultswiththethoughtsofthinkingbeforeyoureact. Mentally, you are ahead of what wouldyou do, if you were in their shoes.
Treat others how you would want to be treated. You forgot the main lesson you
weretaughtasayoungster.Thisvaluemakesyoustandoutfromthecrowd.Peoplecanrelatetoarealsentientbeing.Understand,thatyourenotperfectandtherefore,
youhavemessupsjustlikethenextmanorwoman. Howmanytimesdoyouholdyourtonguefornegativereasons?Faultsarea
destructiveartform.Itlimitsyoutogoonlysofarinlife.Yourheartmuststorethemostpositiveandupliftingthoughtstogivetoyourselfandothers.Researchyour
subconsciousmindtoreprogramyourthoughtsandreplacethemwithempoweringthoughts.
Sprinkles:Admittingyourfaultsisthatyoufacethetruth.-Heru-Amon
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OpeningYourMindtoOthers
Yourcontrolofyourmindiscontrolofyourenvironment.Openyourmindto
others with positive thoughts. Surround yourself with people who want you to
succeedinwhateveryoumaychoose.Sometimes,youshouldnotexpecteveryonetobeinyourlife.Youusepeopleandpeopleuseyou.Thatsoundsoutofplace,butis
sentientbeingnature.Acceptitorleaveitalone.Evenyourchildrenuseyoutoget
whattheywant.Youmustembracethefactthatyouhavetoreachouttoothers. Make yourself more exclusive to others. Promote yourself in orderto get
more attention so that you cannot be a bad role model. This concept is calledteamwork. Your character must attract other out goingpeople who want to be a
greatreflectionuponthe world. Open your mind toothers, listen towhat people
havetosay.Understandingotherswillmakeyoustandoutfromthecrowd.Sentient
natureisasocialnature:allyoureallywantisattentionandsomeonetolistentoyoueveryonceandawhile.
Your mind is a sponge. Therefore,be careful of what others may tell you.
Openyourmindtoothers.Helpstimulateideasandconceptstomakeyouamoreroundedperson.Youmustunderstandandknowyourselfbeforeyoucanopenyour
mindtoanotherperson.Makeitahabittogetouttheretalktoothersandseewhattheyarethinking.Trytohelpthemreceivetheiroutcomesanddreams.You
dontknowhowmuchpoweryouhaveuntilyoudoit.
Sprinkles:Itisanachievementforamantodohisdutyonearthirrespectiveoftheconsequences.-NelsonMandela
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TheMoreYouGive
SystematicMethod
Icanacceptfailure.Everyonefailsatsomething.ButIcantacceptnottrying.
MichaelJordan
The more you give, the more that comes your way. Go the extra mile.
Meaning put yourserviceout there andserve others witha fullserviceattitude.Giveyourtimeandyourtimewillbegivenback.Thisbetterandclearer.Yourgoal
istobeSelfSustainable.
35%toyourselfininvestments10%topaybills10%tocharityorafoundation
10%extraonyourmortgage10%forselfdevelopmentlearningCDsandbooks
10%tosavingsinvestments10%tosavingsforchildren
5%towardsentertainment&fun
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AHarvestTogether
Youmustgatherallyourthoughts,ideas,andactonthemtoprepareyourself
for whatever action of defeat that comes your way. This is a process you must
disciplineyourselftodo.Itisimportantthatyoutaketimeouttounderstandyouandyours.Harvestthegoodthingsthatyoudoforyouandothers.Buildyourselfup
tobethegeniusthatyouare.Informationisofnouseifyoudonotapplyit.
You act on the actions that give you pleasure. Most of the time, eventhoughtsthatpleasureyoumightnotfulfillyourneeds.Badresultsarewhatyou
may get out of your pleasure actions. Before the wall you stand, dont give up.Harvest takes time, also. You want to plant the seeds at the appointed time of
season. Explainingthisharvestcondition iswhenthetimesget hard.Do not run
awayfromtheproblem.Gothroughtheproblem.
Sprinkles:Thinkbeforeyouspeak,andlookbeforeyouleap.IrishProverb
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Chapter7LeadersCreateOtherLeadersYourSeventhStepTowardsInternalRiches
SettingtheExample
Whator whodo you represent? Are you setting the example foryourself,yourchildrenandothersthatyouassociatewith?Youhaveahardtimeidentifying,
foryourself,whoorwhatyourepresent.Forexample,whatdoyouwanttobefortheworld?Wouldyouliketobeaworldinfluencer?Beawareofyouractions.What
you look like and what you say is a reflection for others and influences whatjudgmentstheymayhaveofyou.Youevennoticethatamanorwomanwilljudgeyoubeforeawordcomesoutyourmouth.Youcannotjudgeabookbyitscoverthe
appearanceofsomeonemighttakeyoubysurprise.
Sometimes, in order to set the example you may have to get out of your
comfortzone.Youwanttogettheknowledge,wisdomandexperienceofwantingtobeagreatexampleforyouandothers.Leadersaremarkedeverydayoftheirlives.
Someone is watching your every move. Therefore, you prepare yourself forwhateverinvadesyourlife.
Here is an example, find someone you believe to be a great example of a
sentientbeingandduplicatehis/heractions.Ifyouduplicatesomeoneelseswork,youmustputyourtrustintoitasyoubecomearepresentativeofthework.You
make mistakes so be ready to embrace the criticism you may receive from your
familyandfriends.Asyoubuildthishabit,makesureyouareexpressingyourbest
efforts and abilities. Set the example that you would want to duplicate. Positiveinfluencecreatesapositivementaloutlook.
Sprinkles:Mentalreleasekeepsyoufocusedonyourdreamsandoutcomedeadlines.
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CreatingYourFuture
SystematicMethod
Whatarethekeytoolstobeingsuccessful?Tenpowerfulhabitsyoumust
incorporateinyourlife.
1. Createa mentalrehearsalof yourvaluedawarenessoutcomeseverydayfor
510minutesadaytoplanyourday(Chapter4).
2. Read personal development, selfhelp books and periodicals for 3060minutesaday.
3. Listentotapes/CDsonmotivationandselfawarenessfor3060minutesinyourcarorwhileyouareworkingoutatthegym,etc.
4. Watchyourwordsandbeawareofwhatyousaytoyourfamilyandfriends.5. Go to seminars, workshopsor discussion groups to furtheryoureducation
andlearnhowtoapplytheknowledgethatyoureceive.6. Getaroundwinnersthatwanttowin.Associationisthekeytoyoursuccess.7. ValueyourselfandloveYOU.8. Increaseyour potential bybuilding on yourcharacter andstrengthenyour
confidence.
9. Lookattheendresultsforwhatyouwant.Donotdwellonthenegative.Findallthepositivitythatyoucan.
10.Threeweekstocreateahabitorlessitisuptoyou.Selfhypnosis.
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IntegrityCreating
Integritymeanssoundness,acodeofvalue,completeness.ThisiswhoIamregardlessofwhereIam.Thishabitisnotbeingexpressedonaregularbasis.Do
youbelieveinthisguiltthatyouexpress?Doyoulivebyasystemofvalueswhich
youjudge?Itisnotwhatyoudobutwhomyourepresent.Thesearetheprioritiesinyour life that you accept or change. Integrity overrides your battles and trials.
Decisionsbasedonwhattodoornottodo.Whatwillbeyourreactiontoaconflictthatyouencounter?
Integrityisspiritualassetwithinyou. Youwillnotbreaktherulesofwhatyour heart believes in. You stay consistent and accountable for your word and
actions.Thiswillpredetermineany circumstancesyoureinvolvedinorsituationsyoureinupordown,goodorbad.Putittogetherinyourmind;laydownonpaper
whatneedstobedoneaboutmakingthisvisioncomeabout.Peopleseeinyouractionswhatisconsistent;theywanttofollowaleaderwhichtheycantrustandfind
beliefintosubstantiatealoyalfollowing.
Eightyninepercentof what youlearncomesthroughvisualactionandtenpercentcomesthrough byway of hearing while one percent is acquired through
yourothersenses.Makeyourselfanexampletofollow.Whatyouseeyoubelieve.
Whatyouhearyoustrivetounderstandit.Youleadbybeingthebestthatyoucan
be.Yourintegritybuildstrustforotherstofollow.Buildaconfidencewithinyourselfthatwillreflectinallthatyoudoandpeoplewillcomerunningyourway.Otherswillbeinfluencedbyyourintegrityandvalue.Yougainmoreresponsibilitiesasyou
growyourselftotakeonaleadershippositioninlife. Integrity is an inside job, however. You live your life by your reputation
insteadofyourimage.Forexample,doyougivecreditwherecreditisdue?Howmanytimesdoyoumakeadecisionforsomeoneelsewithbetterresults?Doyouact
the same no matter who youre around? You are a success when you start to
master moralintegrity. You claimto have integrity oryou donot have integrity.
Regardless,thewisdominsideyouwillspeakitintoexistence.Sprinkles:Thecommanderadeptinwarenhancesthemoralinfluenceandadheresto
thelawandregulations.Thusitisinhispowertocontrolsuccess.-SunTzu
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Up-DatedLeaders
SystematicMethod
Howcanyoubecomeagreatleader?Thesearethesteps.
Priorities:Knowledgeofselfandyouroccupationservice.Beingaccountableandresponsibleforyourdutiesinlife. Havingselfconfidenceandcouragetostandfor
whatyoubelieve.
Vision:Youmustplanyourworkandworkyourplanasstatedinchapter4.Does
your homework make the plan or vision a reality? Keep going nomatter whathappensaslongasitispositiveactions.
ProblemSolving:Fairnesswithjustice,toleadyourfollowertoasuccessfulresult.
Self-Discipline:Ifyoucannotcontrolyourself,howdoyoufigureyoucancontrol
otherpeople?Livebyexample!
Influence:Standfirmonyourdecisionmaking.Youcannotleadifyoudonothave
anythingtolead.
People: Gotheextra mile. Renderfree servicesandyouwillbesurprised by thereturnof100fold.Youwillreceiveallthatyougive.
Attitude:Careforothers. Showrespectforyourfellowman?Sentientbeings?Just
haveapleasingpersonality.
Integrity:Masteringdetailsisthekeytoyoursuccessfulleadership.
Creative Positive Change: Understand and have sympathy with your followers.
Understandtheirproblemsandstrivetoovercomethem.Takeresponsibilityforallproblemsandissueswhenyoureleadingaorganization.
OrganizationDevelopment: Cooperation isthe key to a successful organization.
Embracethepowerofcooperationasaleader.
Youcannotgowrongunlessyoustrayawayformthesetenprinciples.
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YouareYourOwnSavior
Youyouyouareyourownsavior! Youmakeithappen.Youmakeyourdreamscometrue.Yousetthepaceandthedeadlinesforwhereyouwouldliketo
be.Youhavethecontrolofyou.Youfeedyourbodygoodandbadfoods(mentally).
Youyouyouareincontrol.Theleaderiswithinyou,youjustneedtodeveloptheskillstounderstandyourroleinlifeonthisplanet.Youareaneducatedmanor
womanthathaslearnedtogetwhatyouwantwithoutbreakingtherulesofgodandman.Beforeyoustrivetoleadothers,leadyourself.Youarefreewhenyouthink
free.Ohyea,controlthatego,donotletitgetoutoftheelementofwhereyoucomefrom.
Yourtimeonthisearthisaboutwhatyoumakeofit.Believeinyourabilitytodowhatyouputyourmindto.Thattakespreparationandplanningsoyoumust
bereadyforwhatevercomesyourway.Youareyourownsavior!Noonecantellyoudifferently.Youarejudgedbyyourwordsandactionsoftheworksyouapply.
Howmanypeoplehaveyouinfluencedandembraced?Doyoubelieveyouarehere
forthat?Ontheotherhand,doyouknowwhatyouareherefor? Createawellroundedyou.Yourmarriedlife,socialbusinessandfamilyare
allinoneandyouareincontrol.Theonlypersonthatcanstopyouisyou.Youare
yourownworstenemy.Noonecantellyouwhoyouare,butIcanputyouonthat
pathtogettingstartedtowardstherightdirection.Thebetteryouareawareofyourstrengths and weaknesses, the more confident you are. Are you an emotional orlogicalthinker?YoutellYOU.
Sprinkles:Bewhoyouare.Beenlightened.Knowwhoyouare.Self-knowledgeisthe
foundationofsuccess.
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WhatsNextCoach/Mentorship
SystematicMethod
Mentorshipis a keyto yoursuccessfultraining.The mentor isamirror to
yourroadofsuccess.Duplicationisoneelementthatmustbetaughttoyousothat
you have a plan that already has been successful for others. Even thoughmentorship is a great tool to use, you must also think about why you would let
someonelimit yourgreatnessby doingwhat heorshe has done.Youareyou.So,
youaregoingtodoitwithyourpersonalitytraitsinmind. Youcannotbeeducatedbyanotherbutyoucanlearntoeducateyourselfby
comprehending whats being taught. Your steps for understandingcounseling/mentorshipwillbeyourguide,tutororcoach.Mentorshipisalsoaship
thatisgoingsomewhere.Ithasadestinationpointtowheretheshipisgoingto
arriveat.Duringmyhighschooldays,Iwaspartofthehighschoolwrestlingteam.I
had a coachnamed Mr. Thomas Ritchie. Hewas a very successful coachwith thedrivetohelpotherscreateavisiontosucceedinwrestlingandinlife.Thesewere
thelessonsIlearnedfromhim.
Basicsfirst Knowthyself Bewillingtolisten Knowyourfieldofknowledge Becoach-ableorteachable Movewiththetimesathand Embracetechnology Havegreatcommunicationskills
Beeasytogetalongwith Knowwhoisinauthority(You)
Onatransparentlevelfindtheoneyourespectandwouldlovetoworkwith
and learn their life style. You cant judge him/her on your own guiltyinsecurities. Mentorship you will find to be a partnership in life itself. Your
guideto agreatlifeistodevelopanunderstandingwithbeinginarelationshipwithamentororacoachforyourlearningorexperiencedbase.
Mentorshiptakesalotofselfdisciplineforlisteningtotheteacherorcoach.
The only benefit to learning something is to teach what you want to learn.Mentorsmustgiveotherspowerbyauthority,responsibilityandaccountability.
Makesureyoulookforamentororacoachthathasarecordofaccomplishmentandhasfruitontheirtree.Moreover,youwilllivethelifeyoureallywant.Ifyou
lacktoplan,youwilllackyoursuccess.Yourplanningisconstantlychanging.Duplicatesuccessassuccessisduplicatedthroughyou.
Sprinkles:Addingvalueisreallytheessenceofequippingothers.
-JohnMaxwell
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HowDoYouWanttoLive
Youhavedreamstodowhateveryouwish,butaskyourself,HowdoIreallywant to live? Do I want to have a house on the hills in California with five
bedroomsandtwoorthreecargarage?WhatisitthatIwant?Thisquestioniswhat
youliveforeachandeveryday.Onamissioniswhatyouareherefor.Youareherefor a path to setting a legacy of significance for someone in this world. Action
requiresallfaith.Therefore,youmustmakeithappenonthedreamsandoutcomesyouwouldlovetolive.
Your dreams become your realities for your future planning. Takeresponsibility for your future and the path ofyourfamily. How you wantto live
shouldbeonthetipofyourtongueeverydaythatyousitdownandspeakyourmindtoyourselfandothers.
Sprinkles:SuccessistheonlyresultofPlanning.
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PuttingitAllTogether
SystematicMethod
Howdoyouputitalltogether?Youmustapplyyourselftogettingaroundthe
people who are making ithappen. How wouldyou go about that? Why not sell
yourself? For example,place an ad inyourlocal publicationof what,when, how,why and who youre lookingfororto be likein the future. Puttingitalltogether
takesguts.Youhavetoeliminatethefearsinyourlife.Fearstopsyoufromgrowth.
You cannot judge others on your own guilty insecurities. So what can you do?Strategyofexecutingyourplansofaction(chapter4).
The time is right now to take control of your life and focus on growthpriorities such as selfimprovement and relationship communication skills with
othersaroundyou. Surroundyourselfaroundsuperstarsin yourareaofexpertise
orstudies. Iwould likeforyoutogotoyourlocallibraryorbookstoreandwrite
downatleasttentitlesofbooksandtapes/CDprogramsthatyoucouldaddtoyourknowledgeofsubject.Thenlistthreeothersourcesofbooksandtape/CDprograms
thatyoucouldgainmoreknowledgeonthesubject.Beascreativeasyoucan.No
onecanstopyoubutyou.ThatiswhyyouaregoingtostartrightafteryouhavefinishedreadingthismanualHowtoTakePossessionofYourOwnMind.
Afterthefirst60daysfollowingthereadingthismanual,Iwantyoutocomebacktoyourfavoritechapterstorereadthematerial.Puttingitalltogethertakes
time.So,youcannotwastetimeindoingthingsthatdonotbenefityourfuture.Yourrealvictoriesareyourprivateones.Beproactiveonyourplansandwhateveryour
outcomes may be. You must think a win/win outcome. Life is too short to bethinkingshort.Lifewouldnotbeanygoodifyoudonothavealittlechangeinyour
step.
Betheexampleofgreatnesstoyourselfandasyougrow,othersaroundyouwillbeattractedtowhatyouhavetooffer.Thepathisnotsimplebutitiseasy
whenyouputyourheartintoit.Responsibilityiswhatyoumusttakeintoyourownhandsasyoudefineyourjourneyoffulfillmentandembracethedifficulties,failures
andattempttosucceedbybuildingyourselfashighasthesky.Putitalltogetherbypredetermining a course of action. Layout your outcomes, adjust your priorities
whichyouhaveorwillhave.Notifykeypeopleyouwantonyourteam&allowtimeforacceptance.Puthead,heart,andsoulintoactionofpurpose.Youhavetoexpect
problems in every level of success and failure. Do not forget to always point to
success.Last,butnotleast,reviewyourplansofactionsandoutcomesdaily.
Sprinkles:Yourlifeisnotadestinationbutajourney.-Sun_Of_Life
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AFTERWORD
Yourroadmaptosuccess!Wouldntyouliketocontrolyourthinking
andthewayyouperceiveothers?