Deep communication

By Dr.Fady Nassif

Who IM ?

Who others ?

How to communicate ?

1- Agreement between us .

- ( self awareness ) human behavior

ENNEAGRAM types over view

Exercise 1 : know your own type

- how to be positive ? space mentality not particle mentality

exercise 2 ( detection your particles ,challenge )

victim mentality

self acceptance

wheel of the life , confidence

- exercise 3 own wheel of life

- exercise 4 what is your plan to overcome

Agenda day 1

Basics of communication Exercise 5 ( bad phone )

- pinches ( irritant) :Ex: 6 what are your pinches and what pinches to others ?

Ego states ( parent – adult – child ) Exercise 7 ( ego state chairs one statement )

Ex 8 ( imagine scenario and others detect what ego states )

Attention type 3 ( colors )Exercise your own color energy

Exercise go out your comfort zone in 3 minutes presentation and try 2 new colors

Summary and closing

Agenda day 2

Agreement

Beginner mind

Be in the level 2 of attention not in level 1 please

Ask in any time

Take the exercise serious

Don’t excuse go out and return ASAP

Why communication ?

Did you remember once time or more ,some one be angry from you ? And you didn’t want this ?

Some one didn’t understand what you want and do another action and you lost money ,time, may be more

Some one didn’t know how you love him ?

Some one assume you arrogant

Who IM ? Who are you ?Self awareness

human behavior

1- genetic ( nature )

2- acquired

3- welling

Self aware

Clear

Deep

Inward

Has vision

Able

ENNEAGRAM types

• The main personality types* include:1. The Perfectionist –Productive, organized, wise, ethical and reliable, this type of personality is concerned with doing things right 100 % , living right and improving themselves and things around them. They can be judgmental , critical , controlling and anxious as well.

2. The Helper –Generous, insightful

and caring, Helpers must be loved to feel their value and react positively to others. They can also be martyr شهداء like and possessive , and sometimes overly accommodating

3. The Achiever – A pretty self , the achiever is driven by success and hates failure.

• 4. The Romantic – A key character in almost every plot line, the Romantic is addicted to emotion and must experience her feelings. She doesn’t wish to be ordinary and can sometimes be self-conscious, moody or self-absorbed.

• 5. The Observer – At

their best, they are

analytical and

consumed with

knowing and

understanding the

world around them. At

their worst, they can

come off as critical of

others, intellectually arrogant and negative

• 6. The Questioner – “Do I fit in?” is a common thought for the Questioner, a personality driven by the need for security. While they can be compassionate and warm, they can also be paranoid , defensive and rigid

• 7. The Adventurer –True adrenaline junkies, No. 7’s thrive on activities, want to contribute to the world and don’t enjoy suffering. Their confidence and spontaneity can sometimes be interpreted as narcissism and lack of discipline

•8- The Asserter The

Asserter doesn’t want to

take “no” for an answer

and wants to be self-

reliant. Authoritative,

energetic and loyal, No.

8’s can also be

rebellious, self-centered

and aggressive to avoid

feeling inferior or dependent.

• 9- The Peacemaker –Nines hate conflict

and want to smooth

things over, but their

emotional responses

to various situations

can vary from genteel

and polite to obsessive and forceful

Exercise 1

• What is your type ?

• Strengths ?

• Area of development ?

How to be positive ?

space mentality

Victim mentality

Self acceptance

Plan to overcome , improve continuous improvement KAISEN

Self acceptance Vs self rejection

Self tolerant vs self intolerant

Self loving vs self hate

Confident vs in confident

Forgiven vs in forgiven

Self worth vs low self worth

Self motivation vs self destruction

How ?

Admit your areas of development but don’t judge by forever that you are

If you lie not mean you are Layer forever

Victim mentality

Don’t act the role of the

victim ?

Space mentality vs particle menatality

Exercise 2

Detect your 5 challenges , barriers, particles

in your life , your work

space mentality Habits

Family

Money

Space

Dynamic

+ ve

Open

Creative

Proact

Particle

- stagnant

- ve

Close

Traditional

Reactive

Wheel of confidence / life exercise

Physical

Relationship

Money

Spirituality

Communication

Prestige

Development

Exercise : Make your own wheel ?

- summaryhuman behavior( self awareness ) and ENNEAGRAM types over view

- how to be positive ?

space mentality not particle mentality

victim mentality

self acceptance

wheel of the life , confidence

Action plan day 1

• Type :

• Your strength's ?

• Challenges inside you ?

• Challenges outside you ?

• I will stop do ?

• I try to do ?

• Space mentality , what particle ?

• Wwhat solutions ?

Thank you

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tomorrow ISA