7th 3 day 1

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DAY one

Pre-Survey

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Quick Decision Game

Personal Strengths & Goals Three Things I Admire

about Myself

Three Accomplishments I’m Proud Of

Three Goals I Hope to Reach by age 25

Goal Hallway and Temptations

Goal Hallway and Temptations

Goal Hallway and Temptations

Goal Hallway and Temptations

Goal Hallway and Temptations

Goal Hallway and Temptations

Goal Hallway and Temptations

Second Chances

What are teens really looking for?

LOVEWhat are teens really looking for?

LOVE vs. INFATUATION

Happens ______________________ You know each other ____________ You want to be a _________ person Lasts for a ________________ time Based on _____________________ Thinking of the person ___________ Loves the person & accepts

_______ Willing to _____________ things out Admit when you are _____________ Desire a _______________ together

Happens ______________________ Based on ___________ appearance Doesn’t ___________________ long _______________ in the relationship _____________________________ Twitterpated You know _____ about the other Sporadic – on and _______again There is a ____________ to marry And they lived “_______________”

LOVE INFATUATION

BetterFirstFutureHappily ever afterLastLittle

LongImperfectionsInsecureOffPhysicalQuickly

RushSlowlyTrustWellWorkWrong

Relationship Cake

Relationship Cake

TALK

Relationship Cake

TALKMEMORIES

Relationship Cake

TALKMEMORIES

TRUST

Relationship Cake

TALKMEMORIES

TRUSTCOMMITMENT

Relationship Cake

TALKMEMORIES

TRUSTCOMMITMENT

SEX

Relationship Cake

TALKMEMORIES

TRUSTCOMMITMENT

SEX

Homework

Letter to Your Future SelfWrite a letter to yourself at age 25 talking about your goals, where you want to be and what you want to be doing at that time. Write about some things you are going through now that could prevent you from getting there and what you’re doing to do to make sure those things don’t stop you from reaching your goals.

There are websites that offer to make a “future letter” available to you. You can post a letter to yourself and they will email it to you in several years so you can see if you achieved your goals. Some of those sites are futureme.org, myfutureself.com, or mytimecapsule.com.